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Slate: When Men Ask My Number of Partners I Ghost Them Immediately
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Date: April 6th, 2026 6:43 PM Author: Is it not the case? tp (Deploy! Deploy! Deploy!) When Men Ask Me This One Question On a First Date, They Never Hear From Me Again Jessica Stoya replies to readers’ comments and suggestions. Advice by Jessica Stoya April 06, 202612:00 PM
Hey How to Do It,
Re Wants to Be Slut-Praised: I came across this column and wanted to share my experience. I just don’t continue to date guys who ask right off the bat or are fixated. It’s that simple. I’ve slept with hundreds of people, not just men, and I don’t go into it with my partners. It’s none of their business and irrelevant. I don’t ask them and wait a very long time if I tell them at all. I only told my ex-husband of six years once, and we were both drunk, and he doesn’t remember the number. We laughed about it later, I still didn’t tell him again, and we’re still friends.
If they ask within the first few dates, they’re judging, and I’m not interested in that kind of judgment. Being intolerant of those types of questions and tests has really helped me to only have amazing relationships with people who don’t care about anything other than how I treat them. I’m also typically monogamous and ethical about any type of relationship I’m in, so I understand what the letter writer means. It probably helps that I’m an adult entertainer, so I have developed hard boundaries on conversations and ending dates. It’s a lot of weeding people out, but worth just saying bye as soon as they ask those types of things. I’m 36 and haven’t been able to salvage a connection after they ask intrusive, invasive questions to judge me or my sexuality. Never. It sucks when they’re cute and seem nice, but I’ve always had a cuter, nicer one come along immediately after. You just have to learn to be strict on calling it and moving on.
—Frequent Reader
Bravo. And thank you for your individual take on the efficiency strategy that Rich and I often recommend in the early stages of dating—I think the more perspectives available on the value of that, the more easily folks internalize the fact that there are mindsets other than scarcity in these matters. |
Date: April 6th, 2026 6:44 PM Author: John Nordid this is obviously a total lie because she is a slut who fucks every single man she comes across. she's not saying no to anyone
man women sure are retarded and lame as hell |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:03 PM Author: Is it not the case? tp (Deploy! Deploy! Deploy!) She's a sex worker who has had hundreds of partners but is still 'very loyal' and her main problem in life is she loses her mind at men who judge her. And the problem is the men. Also she has no problem finding cute boys, the next always cuter than the last. Dontchya know. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798750) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:14 PM Author: chilmata she is "typically" monogamous. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798768) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:15 PM Author: Is it not the case? tp (Deploy! Deploy! Deploy!) It's like a bald guy claiming he typically has hair. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798770) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:34 PM Author: chilmata Well, to be fair, calling someone who shaves their head "bald" as an insult is kind of retarded, sir. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798816) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 8:14 PM Author: Must Poast Always (No Future) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798885) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:14 PM Author: Must Poast Always (No Future) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798767) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:17 PM Author: Is it not the case? tp (Deploy! Deploy! Deploy!) Counterpoint: every slut has at least one dood in their lives who they would never touch at all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798772) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:08 PM Author: Paralegal Marandi (Death, death to the IDF!) I’ve slept with hundreds of people, not just men tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798758) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:12 PM Author: Is it not the case? tp (Deploy! Deploy! Deploy!) I can just hear doobs, Peterman, or cucumbers saying these exact words (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798765) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:14 PM Author: oomox whooooooo caresssssss (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798769) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:25 PM Author: AIDS dicknigger I’ve had hundreds of clients and cases and the first ones are the most special. I put the most effort in and really remember those people. Now sometimes I can barely recall my most recent clients and wtf their deal is. I still put effort into winning but they’re out of my mind forever after it’s over. I’m sure it’s the same psychological effect for romantic relationships and LJL at being guy no. 273. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798790) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:49 PM Author: Frutiger Aero Slut-Praised tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798844) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:51 PM Author: nyuug notice how its only cumskins who broadcast their immodest deviancy, MUH MUH SUPERIOR ANGLO CULTURE DURR DURR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798846) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 7:52 PM Author: nyuug no way bro korean females post articles in national newspapers bragging about their sexual deviancy all the time bro, dont stereotype cumskins (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798849) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 8:15 PM Author: Is it not the case? tp (Deploy! Deploy! Deploy!) Explain JAV my friend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798888) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 8:16 PM Author: JJC (retired) Note that, per usual, NYUUG is 100% correct on his criticisms of US culture. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798890) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 9:19 PM Author: SpiderKash don't you have hundreds of posts bragging about the whores you've fucked (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49799001) |
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Date: April 6th, 2026 9:15 PM Author: Risten It probably helps that I’m an adult entertainer tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5854302&forum_id=2).#49798997) |