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"Dread game" = only way to avoid sexless marriage?

Can't find the study now but I remember reading that the mor...
Swashbuckling Sex Offender Menage
  10/07/14
truth. kinda works the other way too.
lime spot
  10/07/14
what do you mean? A desirable woman is just a physically att...
Swashbuckling Sex Offender Menage
  10/07/14
you miss the point. its that you don't think they are desira...
lime spot
  10/07/14
that's not nearly as true for why men are attracted to women...
Swashbuckling Sex Offender Menage
  10/07/14
perhaps not initially but once you are in a LTR, you'll see....
lime spot
  10/07/14
women want desirable guys, news at 11
arousing round eye
  10/07/14
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aphrodisiac party of the first part sanctuary
  10/07/14
the point is that the desirability of the guy might not have...
Swashbuckling Sex Offender Menage
  10/07/14
My wife and I schedule weekly "Dread Wednesday" di...
Shimmering flirting national
  10/07/14
My wife and I do "Scholarship Saturdays"
Spectacular salmon mental disorder abode
  10/07/14
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Jobs
  02/24/26
DV pumo? My point was that women want men who are desire...
arousing round eye
  10/07/14
not dvpumo. I understand that women find desired men more at...
Swashbuckling Sex Offender Menage
  10/07/14
I think it has to do with something evopsych people call &qu...
Bat-shit-crazy kitty cat theater
  10/07/14
I'm skeptical of evopsych shit, but it seems plausible wh...
Swashbuckling Sex Offender Menage
  10/07/14
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obsidian learning disabled antidepressant drug parlor
  10/07/14
house of "horror"
Passionate Yarmulke Reading Party
  10/07/14
RAN HERE TO POAST THIS.
hilarious rusted library
  10/07/14
query why one would wish to avoid a sexless marriage
norwood ultra
  02/24/26
Sounds right from my personal experiences and anecdotal obse...
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Date: October 7th, 2014 1:52 PM
Author: Swashbuckling Sex Offender Menage

Can't find the study now but I remember reading that the more a woman respected your ability to cheat on her with other women, the less likely she is to shut you out of sex in a LTR.

so basically you constantly need to demonstrate to your bish that you can fuck other women at will, or she'll just stop fucking you.

Fuck this gay earth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26472916)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:00 PM
Author: lime spot

truth. kinda works the other way too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26472955)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:42 PM
Author: Swashbuckling Sex Offender Menage

what do you mean? A desirable woman is just a physically attractive one, so that wouldn't be surprising

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473187)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:01 PM
Author: lime spot

you miss the point. its that you don't think they are desirable until you see someone else (or at least the threat of someone else) go after them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473277)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:18 PM
Author: Swashbuckling Sex Offender Menage

that's not nearly as true for why men are attracted to women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473391)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:24 PM
Author: lime spot

perhaps not initially but once you are in a LTR, you'll see. Nothing gets me hotter than an intense attach of jealousy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473424)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:00 PM
Author: arousing round eye

women want desirable guys, news at 11

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26472953)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:44 PM
Author: aphrodisiac party of the first part sanctuary



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473194)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:47 PM
Author: Swashbuckling Sex Offender Menage

the point is that the desirability of the guy might not have gone down in the slightest, but their sexual attraction will go down unless they feel the competition

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473205)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:48 PM
Author: Shimmering flirting national

My wife and I schedule weekly "Dread Wednesday" dinners with other couples

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473207)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:00 PM
Author: Spectacular salmon mental disorder abode

My wife and I do "Scholarship Saturdays"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473274)



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Date: February 24th, 2026 3:58 PM
Author: Jobs



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#49692197)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:51 PM
Author: arousing round eye

DV pumo?

My point was that women want men who are desired by other women (aka desirable men). How will they know whether a man is desirable unless they are aware of the competition?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473224)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:56 PM
Author: Swashbuckling Sex Offender Menage

not dvpumo. I understand that women find desired men more attractive, but that's not the entirety of their attraction. it's surprising that that factor is what seems to drive the drop in sex drive though

as to the second point, because there are many factors that determine whether men are attractive that don't need external validation. men obviously don't need to be told that other men think their wives are hot, unless they're intellectuals

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473250)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:05 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy kitty cat theater

I think it has to do with something evopsych people call "mate-guarding" behavior. women have to keep their man satisfied so he doesn't stray -- if there's no risk of it happening she doesn't have to do that.

I think your thread title is overblown though -- there are other ways of preventing women from losing interest in sex in a relationship, this is just one of them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473303)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:14 PM
Author: Swashbuckling Sex Offender Menage

I'm skeptical of evopsych shit, but it seems plausible

what are the other ways?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473359)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:56 PM
Author: obsidian learning disabled antidepressant drug parlor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473252)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:14 PM
Author: Passionate Yarmulke Reading Party

house of "horror"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473020)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:01 PM
Author: hilarious rusted library

RAN HERE TO POAST THIS.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473276)



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Date: February 24th, 2026 4:00 PM
Author: norwood ultra

query why one would wish to avoid a sexless marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#49692203)



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Date: February 24th, 2026 4:19 PM
Author: .,.,.,.,,,,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,.,.,,


Sounds right from my personal experiences and anecdotal observations.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#49692243)