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"Dread game" = only way to avoid sexless marriage?

Can't find the study now but I remember reading that the mor...
flickering state boiling water
  10/07/14
truth. kinda works the other way too.
Ivory geriatric really tough guy
  10/07/14
what do you mean? A desirable woman is just a physically att...
flickering state boiling water
  10/07/14
you miss the point. its that you don't think they are desira...
Ivory geriatric really tough guy
  10/07/14
that's not nearly as true for why men are attracted to women...
flickering state boiling water
  10/07/14
perhaps not initially but once you are in a LTR, you'll see....
Ivory geriatric really tough guy
  10/07/14
women want desirable guys, news at 11
wonderful insecure set
  10/07/14
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erotic beta tanning salon
  10/07/14
the point is that the desirability of the guy might not have...
flickering state boiling water
  10/07/14
My wife and I schedule weekly "Dread Wednesday" di...
Trip trump supporter
  10/07/14
My wife and I do "Scholarship Saturdays"
soul-stirring narrow-minded kitty
  10/07/14
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Jobs
  02/24/26
DV pumo? My point was that women want men who are desire...
wonderful insecure set
  10/07/14
not dvpumo. I understand that women find desired men more at...
flickering state boiling water
  10/07/14
I think it has to do with something evopsych people call &qu...
Crimson home
  10/07/14
I'm skeptical of evopsych shit, but it seems plausible wh...
flickering state boiling water
  10/07/14
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bateful background story
  10/07/14
house of "horror"
bat shit crazy chartreuse place of business pit
  10/07/14
RAN HERE TO POAST THIS.
motley flushed school cafeteria coldplay fan
  10/07/14
query why one would wish to avoid a sexless marriage
norwood ultra
  02/24/26
Sounds right from my personal experiences and anecdotal obse...
.,.,.,.,,,,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,.,.,,
  02/24/26


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Date: October 7th, 2014 1:52 PM
Author: flickering state boiling water

Can't find the study now but I remember reading that the more a woman respected your ability to cheat on her with other women, the less likely she is to shut you out of sex in a LTR.

so basically you constantly need to demonstrate to your bish that you can fuck other women at will, or she'll just stop fucking you.

Fuck this gay earth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26472916)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:00 PM
Author: Ivory geriatric really tough guy

truth. kinda works the other way too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26472955)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:42 PM
Author: flickering state boiling water

what do you mean? A desirable woman is just a physically attractive one, so that wouldn't be surprising

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473187)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:01 PM
Author: Ivory geriatric really tough guy

you miss the point. its that you don't think they are desirable until you see someone else (or at least the threat of someone else) go after them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473277)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:18 PM
Author: flickering state boiling water

that's not nearly as true for why men are attracted to women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473391)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:24 PM
Author: Ivory geriatric really tough guy

perhaps not initially but once you are in a LTR, you'll see. Nothing gets me hotter than an intense attach of jealousy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473424)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:00 PM
Author: wonderful insecure set

women want desirable guys, news at 11

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26472953)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:44 PM
Author: erotic beta tanning salon



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:47 PM
Author: flickering state boiling water

the point is that the desirability of the guy might not have gone down in the slightest, but their sexual attraction will go down unless they feel the competition

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473205)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:48 PM
Author: Trip trump supporter

My wife and I schedule weekly "Dread Wednesday" dinners with other couples

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473207)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:00 PM
Author: soul-stirring narrow-minded kitty

My wife and I do "Scholarship Saturdays"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473274)



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Date: February 24th, 2026 3:58 PM
Author: Jobs



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#49692197)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:51 PM
Author: wonderful insecure set

DV pumo?

My point was that women want men who are desired by other women (aka desirable men). How will they know whether a man is desirable unless they are aware of the competition?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473224)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:56 PM
Author: flickering state boiling water

not dvpumo. I understand that women find desired men more attractive, but that's not the entirety of their attraction. it's surprising that that factor is what seems to drive the drop in sex drive though

as to the second point, because there are many factors that determine whether men are attractive that don't need external validation. men obviously don't need to be told that other men think their wives are hot, unless they're intellectuals

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473250)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:05 PM
Author: Crimson home

I think it has to do with something evopsych people call "mate-guarding" behavior. women have to keep their man satisfied so he doesn't stray -- if there's no risk of it happening she doesn't have to do that.

I think your thread title is overblown though -- there are other ways of preventing women from losing interest in sex in a relationship, this is just one of them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473303)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:14 PM
Author: flickering state boiling water

I'm skeptical of evopsych shit, but it seems plausible

what are the other ways?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473359)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:56 PM
Author: bateful background story



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:14 PM
Author: bat shit crazy chartreuse place of business pit

house of "horror"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473020)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:01 PM
Author: motley flushed school cafeteria coldplay fan

RAN HERE TO POAST THIS.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#26473276)



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Date: February 24th, 2026 4:00 PM
Author: norwood ultra

query why one would wish to avoid a sexless marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#49692203)



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Date: February 24th, 2026 4:19 PM
Author: .,.,.,.,,,,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,.,.,,


Sounds right from my personal experiences and anecdotal observations.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2,#49692243)