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Getting separated from wife soon

I guess im going all in with the subordinate. I fell in love...
Rage Problems
  03/04/26
I have a good feeling about this thread. Do you think she ...
fatty nigger
  03/04/26
We’ve been in couples therapy. Last weekend she said s...
Rage Problems
  03/04/26
Does she know about the affair? Isn't she like 8 months preg...
Yummy Phase Pol Pot
  03/04/26
She used to be pregnant. Now we have a kid together. She doe...
Rage Problems
  03/04/26
She used to be pregnant. Now we have a kid together. tp
the discombobulator
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More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)
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More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)
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FUCK LIBS
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More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)
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Ljl
UhOh
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More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)
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horse declension
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More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)
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Operation AIPAC Fury
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More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)
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lsd
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Nazca Redlines
  03/04/26
Is the subordinate going to leave her husband? Even assuming...
Yummy Phase Pol Pot
  03/04/26
Yes, she is leaving him. I’m already dating her while ...
Rage Problems
  03/04/26
What is really epic is that the actual outcome will be her s...
Yummy Phase Pol Pot
  03/04/26
(Andrew "Coop" Cooper)
peeface
  03/04/26
Medium-short term both of you will be out a job
Gay Grandpa
  03/04/26
Not sure how anyone would find out. And honestly even if the...
Rage Problems
  03/04/26
99% of the time one of the cheaters backs out and sticks wit...
Operation AIPAC Fury
  03/04/26
I’d be the one more likely to stay tbh. I have a kid. ...
Rage Problems
  03/04/26
if you really loved your subordinate you would not want her ...
Operation AIPAC Fury
  03/04/26
She wants out of her marriage regardless. I haven’t bu...
Rage Problems
  03/04/26
men "falling in love" has to be the weirdest gay s...
tancredi marchiolo
  03/04/26
tp.
More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)
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Show me that butthole
  03/04/26
are you not thinking of your kid at all? i don't fucking und...
potato gun
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More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)
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lsd
  03/04/26
OP, is this your first kid too? if so you're being really se...
Operation AIPAC Fury
  03/04/26
I’m in love with another woman.
Rage Problems
  03/04/26
Cut the crap and be a man lmao come on dude you sound like a...
Show me that butthole
  03/04/26
What part of in love didn’t you understand
Rage Problems
  03/04/26
A “grown man” is “in love” LJL
Show me that butthole
  03/04/26
is that more important to you then your newborn child? i wou...
Operation AIPAC Fury
  03/04/26
She senses I’m checked out and is trying to reconnect....
Rage Problems
  03/04/26
nigger this is how this "shit works" in reality: ...
Operation AIPAC Fury
  03/04/26
Who cares. You owe it to the kid to stay with your wife.
Nazca Redlines
  03/04/26
Disagree
Rage Problems
  03/04/26
he didnt listen to blink 182
tancredi marchiolo
  03/04/26
Being in a shit marriage doesn’t seem great for him. B...
Rage Problems
  03/04/26
it’ll be a lot better than his parents splitting up.
potato gun
  03/04/26
congrats man i dont know who you are but congrats. do you ha...
Covid was a Hoax
  03/04/26
One kid
Rage Problems
  03/04/26
boy or girl?
Covid was a Hoax
  03/04/26
180 man seize the day!
norwood ultra
  03/04/26
Has she met your kid?
TurboGrafx-67
  03/04/26
No, but she seemed to be even more attracted to me that I ha...
Rage Problems
  03/04/26
sorry to hear that, Johnsmeyer- keep ur chin up
Brussels Sprout: Brussels,Helsinki,Stockholm,Kyiv
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Don't leave your wife. Especially because she's trying to re...
Nazca Redlines
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Yeah now see the fact pattern thru the eyes of someone who i...
Show me that butthole
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do you think i am retarded, . ?
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Where are you at in terms of getting to "know" you...
Yummy Phase Pol Pot
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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:31 AM
Author: Rage Problems

I guess im going all in with the subordinate. I fell in love and just is a nightmare now spending time with her, feels pointless and a waste of time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714324)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:32 AM
Author: fatty nigger (✅🍑)

I have a good feeling about this thread.

Do you think she knows?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714328)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:37 AM
Author: Rage Problems

We’ve been in couples therapy. Last weekend she said she’s made a decision and needs to talk about it in our next session. I assumed it was about getting separated. But this week we went on a trip together and she’s really trying, trying to act like she used to, saying I love you all the time. But it has the unintended consequence of making me realize how checked out I am from the relationship. Feels weird she’s acting that way, and it’s weird trying to pretend with her when I’m totally in love with the subordinate.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714344)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:40 AM
Author: Yummy Phase Pol Pot

Does she know about the affair? Isn't she like 8 months pregnant?

Starting to actually think this is flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714350)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:42 AM
Author: Rage Problems

She used to be pregnant. Now we have a kid together. She doesn’t know about the affair but she senses it, constantly asks what I’m doing on phone and accuses me. Last night she saw me on the balcony on my phone smiling and asked who I was talking to. It was her. Then I said I wanted to go on a walk and she said only if you leave your phone behind. I went anyway. She went out and searched for me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714357)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:45 AM
Author: the discombobulator

She used to be pregnant. Now we have a kid together. tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714364)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:50 AM
Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714377)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:53 AM
Author: fulano



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714382)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:53 AM
Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714386)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:08 AM
Author: FUCK LIBS (TDNW)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714459)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:08 AM
Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714460)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:11 AM
Author: UhOh

Ljl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714461)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:18 AM
Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714481)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:28 AM
Author: horse declension



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714521)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:29 AM
Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714527)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:31 AM
Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714538)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:31 AM
Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714539)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:46 AM
Author: lsd



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714583)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:55 AM
Author: Nazca Redlines



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714598)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 10:49 AM
Author: Yummy Phase Pol Pot

Is the subordinate going to leave her husband? Even assuming she does, can you actually date her if she works for you? And if not, how much you want to bet that it would fuck up your "relationship" with her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714375)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:05 AM
Author: Rage Problems

Yes, she is leaving him. I’m already dating her while she works for me. It’s a company violation of course. Long long term one of us will need a new job.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714441)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:07 AM
Author: Yummy Phase Pol Pot

What is really epic is that the actual outcome will be her staying with the cuck and him bringing your current wife into his home to form a harem.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714452)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:18 AM
Author: peeface

(Andrew "Coop" Cooper)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714479)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:32 AM
Author: Gay Grandpa

Medium-short term both of you will be out a job

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714544)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:45 AM
Author: Rage Problems

Not sure how anyone would find out. And honestly even if they did most people wouldn’t say anything.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714582)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:39 AM
Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt)

99% of the time one of the cheaters backs out and sticks with their partner. less than 50% of the time does the cheater leave their spouse even in a one-way affair. remember in harry met sally where the one chick kept complaining how "he's never gonna leave his wife" every time skip?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714569)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:44 AM
Author: Rage Problems

I’d be the one more likely to stay tbh. I have a kid. She has been checked out of her marriage even longer that I have, and is now moving across the country (to be near me). He doesn’t want to move, it’s an easy breakup point. Mine is less so and requires harder conversations.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714578)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:00 PM
Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt)

if you really loved your subordinate you would not want her destroying her marriage when you're not sure you're prepared to do the same.

if you guys were going to do it, you would have done it by now. if you're not both committing to ending it today, why would tomorrow be different?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714611)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:02 PM
Author: Rage Problems

She wants out of her marriage regardless. I haven’t butted in at all or asked for anything. I mean it’s happening. Once she lives close we will both be separated most likely…

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714615)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:29 AM
Author: tancredi marchiolo

men "falling in love" has to be the weirdest gay shit ive ever seen happen

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714526)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:30 AM
Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)

tp.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714529)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:51 AM
Author: Show me that butthole



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714593)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:30 AM
Author: potato gun

are you not thinking of your kid at all? i don't fucking understand you people.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714530)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:31 AM
Author: More frutiger aero than frutiger aero tp, tp. (tp)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714541)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:37 AM
Author: lsd



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714564)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:35 AM
Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt)

OP, is this your first kid too? if so you're being really selfish. lots of women "check out" from a marriage when theyre pregnant and postpartum because of all the hormones and physical changes. your wife is going out searching for you and youre about to abandon her because the thrill is gone? nigger, the thrill will end with the subordinate too, but your kid will always know dad cheated on his mom while she was pregnant and abandoned the marriage if you continue eown this path.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714558)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:46 AM
Author: Rage Problems

I’m in love with another woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714584)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:55 AM
Author: Show me that butthole

Cut the crap and be a man lmao come on dude you sound like a major faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714599)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:56 AM
Author: Rage Problems

What part of in love didn’t you understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714602)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:58 AM
Author: Show me that butthole

A “grown man” is “in love” LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714605)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:55 AM
Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt)

is that more important to you then your newborn child? i would side with you if your wife was years after having a kid and still checked out. but she just had a kid and is fighting for you. you're being incredibly selfish, and short sighted because you're experiencing the thrill of new love and won't accept that the thrill with the subordinate will someday wane too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714601)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:59 AM
Author: Rage Problems

She senses I’m checked out and is trying to reconnect. It’s hard to do that at snap of fingers after 1.5 years of bullshit. Even if I wanted to I couldn’t. I’ve moved on mentally and now have been in love for 6 months with another woman. There’s no “At fault” here. That’s not how this kind of shit works.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714607)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:10 PM
Author: Operation AIPAC Fury (gunneratttt)

nigger this is how this "shit works" in reality:

1) you will eventually get caught, realize how selfish you stupid you were being, and spend a significant amount of time and energy repairing your marriage, although a scar will always remain. this is the best case scenario where your wife takes you back after a huge betrayal, and you will regret it the rest of your life. this is the zurich outcome.

2) you will eventually get caught, stick with the subordinate chick, and blow up your marriage. eventually things will fade with the subordinate too. if you stick with the subordinate will eventually have the exact same thing you have with your wife now except child support and a kid who suffers all the consequences of children of divorce and has to live knowing his dad is a POS who abandoned his mother while she was pregnant with him. this is the second best scenario.

3) you blow up your marriage and things don't work out with the subordinate. now you're millhouse's dad trying to find a new partner on dating apps. except you've got the scarlet letter of "CHEATED ON HIS WIFE WHILE PREGNANT", which eliminates you from contention with all quality women. if you're lucky you will wind up with some chick way worse than your wife and secretly regret blowing up your marriage and reminiscing about the good old days.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714627)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:56 AM
Author: Nazca Redlines

Who cares. You owe it to the kid to stay with your wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714603)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:59 AM
Author: Rage Problems

Disagree

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714610)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:42 AM
Author: tancredi marchiolo

he didnt listen to blink 182

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714574)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:49 AM
Author: Rage Problems

Being in a shit marriage doesn’t seem great for him. Better to pull the bandaid now when he won’t remember and it will always be normal than when he’s older.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714587)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:55 AM
Author: potato gun

it’ll be a lot better than his parents splitting up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714600)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:35 AM
Author: Covid was a Hoax

congrats man i dont know who you are but congrats. do you have kids?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714555)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:49 AM
Author: Rage Problems

One kid

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714588)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:01 PM
Author: Covid was a Hoax

boy or girl?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714614)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:37 AM
Author: norwood ultra

180 man seize the day!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714565)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:38 AM
Author: TurboGrafx-67

Has she met your kid?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714568)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:50 AM
Author: Rage Problems

No, but she seemed to be even more attracted to me that I have a kid. Women be diff than men

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714591)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 11:45 AM
Author: Brussels Sprout: Brussels,Helsinki,Stockholm,Kyiv


sorry to hear that, Johnsmeyer- keep ur chin up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714579)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:00 PM
Author: Nazca Redlines

Don't leave your wife. Especially because she's trying to repair things and improve, and she just had a baby. Especially especially because you now have a kid to think about. And especially especially especially not to be with some office homewrecker who is content to blow up your marriage and her's.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714613)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:08 PM
Author: Show me that butthole

Yeah now see the fact pattern thru the eyes of someone who is a total piece of shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714622)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:11 PM
Author: do you think i am retarded, . ?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714630)



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Date: March 4th, 2026 12:02 PM
Author: Yummy Phase Pol Pot

Where are you at in terms of getting to "know" your dad through this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5841381&forum_id=2:#49714616)