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Wife Is F500 Ppl Manager. Staff Always Tells Her About Personal Problems

in her monthly 1:1's with them, they love talking her ear of...
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/05/26
monthly?!
Pearl striped hyena
  05/06/26
Wow yeah I sure do hate hearing about the minutiae of people...
Misunderstood principal's office stain
  05/05/26
xo is differetn
painfully honest peach brunch knife
  05/05/26
...
180 hot preventive strike
  05/05/26
this but unironically
Rose hell
  05/05/26
...
startled judgmental cruise ship
  05/05/26
this is not flame a great use for AI
rough-skinned hospital persian
  05/05/26
not flame, she's been using AI for manager stuff like script...
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/05/26
based
rough-skinned hospital persian
  05/05/26
Is your wife also autistic?
Rusted business firm puppy
  05/05/26
she's an INTJ female, but very likeable and people love her ...
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/05/26
intj females are absolutely terrifying, gl
Beta Vermilion Senate Associate
  05/06/26
why? she's exempt from 99% of birdbrained women are 180 shit
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/06/26
that's fair. i guess i've just been on the wrong end of one ...
Beta Vermilion Senate Associate
  05/06/26
go on...
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/06/26
this is a tough balance in the workplace. don't want to be ...
Beta Vermilion Senate Associate
  05/05/26
she's remote and her team is all remote. that's why it's wei...
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/05/26
i was going to say women always make the mistake of trying t...
submissive outnumbered macaca chapel
  05/05/26
she traditionally didnt do any team building shit and hates ...
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/05/26
Normies are freakin' wild, man
rough-skinned hospital persian
  05/05/26
i guess if they are shut in remoters that could make sense. ...
submissive outnumbered macaca chapel
  05/05/26
oh yeah that's weirder than i was imagining. i'm talking ab...
Beta Vermilion Senate Associate
  05/05/26
in bigfed you have a ton of leave that you can take for virt...
clear pea-brained halford
  05/05/26
That's pretty much all I cover in 1 on 1s.
cobalt frisky kitty
  05/05/26
wasn't she in "STEM"
titillating brass theatre selfie
  05/05/26
yes, now she's a people manager for stem dorks. that's how u...
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/05/26
Why is her team all Women, like how much does this country h...
free-loading trip garrison
  05/05/26
poor rc? when did i say her team is all women, retard?
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/05/26
it was strongly implied all of the people she manages are ei...
titillating brass theatre selfie
  05/05/26
poor rc? it's not strongly implied at all. none are homo or ...
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/06/26
You’ve made this thread before. The whole team sounds ...
free-loading trip garrison
  05/06/26
low iq schtick? women are far more likely to gush their pers...
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/06/26
Don’t waste my motherfucking time.
free-loading trip garrison
  05/06/26
You seem angry and oriental.
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/06/26
good examples?
Smoky motley hairy legs giraffe
  05/05/26
a girl in her mid-40s has a husband (similar age) w some gen...
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/05/26
big life insurance?
Smoky motley hairy legs giraffe
  05/05/26
she should have asked
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/05/26
a normal boss in usa 2026 would work the shit out of that wo...
submissive outnumbered macaca chapel
  05/05/26
rofl but why would my wife be draconianly mean? she's not go...
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/05/26
you guys are weirdos and once a month isn't enough for 1:1's...
Costumed Round Eye Pervert
  05/05/26
she has 15 direct reports. she talks to most of them much mo...
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/05/26
1:1s are largely useless and ime an excess of them is a big ...
titillating brass theatre selfie
  05/05/26
i agree and do mine on friday mornings when everyone is eith...
Costumed Round Eye Pervert
  05/05/26
LMAO at weekly 1:1's. Do you manage retarded children? I ...
Marvelous alcoholic locale pisswyrm
  05/05/26
we're remote and i need to make sure everyone is alive and i...
Costumed Round Eye Pervert
  05/05/26
this is some boomer shit. why dont u judge them by their per...
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/05/26
i'm too lazy to build kpi models and shit. i do actual work...
Costumed Round Eye Pervert
  05/05/26
i do weekly 1:1s and it's sort of the norm at the company, b...
Pearl striped hyena
  05/06/26
i'm amazed that so many people itt do weekly 1:1s, that's in...
Beta Vermilion Senate Associate
  05/06/26
depends on culture of the company. also as middle management...
Pearl striped hyena
  05/06/26
gonna be 180 when you and your faggot wife get laid off in t...
histrionic anal indian lodge
  05/05/26
if we get shitcanned, the whole white collar world is done
primrose adventurous spot patrolman
  05/05/26
cr it's well documented that companies collapse without Midd...
titillating brass theatre selfie
  05/05/26
lmao.
free-loading trip garrison
  05/06/26


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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:21 AM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

in her monthly 1:1's with them, they love talking her ear off about their personal problems - sick/dying parents and spouses, divorces, etc. im surprised people get so personal with their managers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866442)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 12:38 AM
Author: Pearl striped hyena

monthly?!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49868755)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:22 AM
Author: Misunderstood principal's office stain

Wow yeah I sure do hate hearing about the minutiae of people’s stupid NPC lives, wish they’d stop trying to tell me 🙄

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866448)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:44 AM
Author: painfully honest peach brunch knife

xo is differetn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866500)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:03 AM
Author: 180 hot preventive strike



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866573)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:52 AM
Author: Rose hell

this but unironically

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866752)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:13 PM
Author: startled judgmental cruise ship



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866833)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:24 AM
Author: rough-skinned hospital persian

this is not flame a great use for AI

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866450)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:34 AM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

not flame, she's been using AI for manager stuff like scripts for telling them why they got a standard shitty corporate 2.5% raise, and using AI to anticipate potential Q&A / complaints they have about their raise.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866478)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:35 AM
Author: rough-skinned hospital persian

based

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866480)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:27 AM
Author: Rusted business firm puppy

Is your wife also autistic?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866457)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:30 AM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

she's an INTJ female, but very likeable and people love her -- even though she hates people.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866468)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 8:17 AM
Author: Beta Vermilion Senate Associate

intj females are absolutely terrifying, gl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49869120)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 3:07 PM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

why? she's exempt from 99% of birdbrained women are 180 shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49870042)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 9:16 PM
Author: Beta Vermilion Senate Associate

that's fair. i guess i've just been on the wrong end of one before

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49871025)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 9:20 PM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

go on...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49871034)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:28 AM
Author: Beta Vermilion Senate Associate

this is a tough balance in the workplace. don't want to be vulnerable but spend a lot of time with people and if you can develop a productive friendship idk might as well

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866460)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:32 AM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

she's remote and her team is all remote. that's why it's weird to spill your personal problems onto your manager.

i guess she comes off as compassionate and likeable and a good listener so people feel comfortable with her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866472)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:36 AM
Author: submissive outnumbered macaca chapel

i was going to say women always make the mistake of trying to team build into a family and they are complete nuisances but having an all remote team makes this weird as fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866486)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:41 AM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

she traditionally didnt do any team building shit and hates it. she thinks people like it, and recently started this ice breaker during their every other week team meeting where once person presents a 3-5 min slide about themselves. the people love this shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866493)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:45 AM
Author: rough-skinned hospital persian

Normies are freakin' wild, man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866503)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:08 AM
Author: submissive outnumbered macaca chapel

i guess if they are shut in remoters that could make sense.

the last thing i want to do is go out to lunch with my coworkers and share my life. jfc. or play some game two truths and a lie. jfc women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866594)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:00 AM
Author: Beta Vermilion Senate Associate

oh yeah that's weirder than i was imagining. i'm talking about sharing relevant personal details with peers, as it naturally comes up in conversation. not that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866562)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:31 AM
Author: clear pea-brained halford

in bigfed you have a ton of leave that you can take for virtually any personal problem, so it's really a cya

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866469)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:45 AM
Author: cobalt frisky kitty

That's pretty much all I cover in 1 on 1s.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866502)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:49 AM
Author: titillating brass theatre selfie

wasn't she in "STEM"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866519)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:59 AM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

yes, now she's a people manager for stem dorks. that's how u rise up in f500's. u dont go anywhere being an individual contributor

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866560)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:02 AM
Author: free-loading trip garrison

Why is her team all Women, like how much does this country hate “men” if Nerds are getting screwed and not just Losers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866571)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:11 AM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

poor rc? when did i say her team is all women, retard?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866616)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 11:55 AM
Author: titillating brass theatre selfie

it was strongly implied all of the people she manages are either women, homosexuals, or indian

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866808)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:03 AM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

poor rc? it's not strongly implied at all. none are homo or indian

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49869009)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:13 AM
Author: free-loading trip garrison

You’ve made this thread before. The whole team sounds female in both threads. Also just saying F500 individual contributor causes one to picture a Woman. The example you gave was also a Woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49869030)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:30 AM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

low iq schtick? women are far more likely to gush their personal problems to their manager. that the one example i chose to give is a woman doesnt prove that the whole team is women. u seem really stupid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49869057)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:39 AM
Author: free-loading trip garrison

Don’t waste my motherfucking time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49869064)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 8:27 AM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

You seem angry and oriental.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49869144)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:53 AM
Author: Smoky motley hairy legs giraffe

good examples?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866534)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:01 AM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

a girl in her mid-40s has a husband (similar age) w some genetic kidney disease and needs a transplant and it's a 7 yr waiting list. he's basically bedridden in his home and cant do anything in life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866568)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:06 AM
Author: Smoky motley hairy legs giraffe

big life insurance?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866583)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:11 AM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

she should have asked

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866607)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:10 PM
Author: submissive outnumbered macaca chapel

a normal boss in usa 2026 would work the shit out of that woman with that information knowing that she needs the health insurance continuity and cant leave

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866827)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:17 PM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

rofl but why would my wife be draconianly mean? she's not gonna get any more than her own 2.5% raise if she's a cunt to this poor girl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866841)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:50 AM
Author: Costumed Round Eye Pervert

you guys are weirdos and once a month isn't enough for 1:1's unless it's like an actual call center where you manage 100 losers, in which case I would probably just never meet with them.

I do weekly 1:1 with all my directs, weekly direct team call, weekly extended dotted line team call, weekly team leadership call, weekly dotted line leadership call, weekly all hands or management only calls every other week. this is probably too many calls and cuts into my poasting and golf time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866745)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:55 AM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

she has 15 direct reports. she talks to most of them much more frequently -- individually, in small groups, or both -- about substantive projects.

it seems the scheduled monthly 1:1's are more big picture what they're doing and overal org stuff and career development, rather than about the substantive project of the day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866757)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:03 PM
Author: titillating brass theatre selfie

1:1s are largely useless and ime an excess of them is a big signal of organizational cruft

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866822)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:13 PM
Author: Costumed Round Eye Pervert

i agree and do mine on friday mornings when everyone is either hungover or on pto

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866832)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:42 PM
Author: Marvelous alcoholic locale pisswyrm

LMAO at weekly 1:1's. Do you manage retarded children?

I need to believe this is flame, but I've worked in enough orgs to know some places actually operate like this and then wonder why nobody gets anything done on an individual or team level...because they spend half the work week in meetings that are completely irrelevant and could have been accomplished with an email.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866861)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:58 PM
Author: Costumed Round Eye Pervert

we're remote and i need to make sure everyone is alive and isn't spending their friday mornings playing Golf. that's what Friday afternoons are for.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866902)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 2:55 PM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

this is some boomer shit. why dont u judge them by their performance, not their ability to jerk off at home on friday rather than play golf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49867297)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 2:57 PM
Author: Costumed Round Eye Pervert

i'm too lazy to build kpi models and shit. i do actual work sometimes too when I'm not napping or playing Golf.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49867308)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 12:40 AM
Author: Pearl striped hyena

i do weekly 1:1s and it's sort of the norm at the company, but i also cancel if there's nothing to discuss or i don't feel like it. might cancel tomorrow's connect with my boss if he has nothing to discuss, too. he's usually eager to skip

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49868757)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 8:19 AM
Author: Beta Vermilion Senate Associate

i'm amazed that so many people itt do weekly 1:1s, that's insane! i don't even do monthly with my boss, we just catch up whenever we need to

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49869125)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 6:30 PM
Author: Pearl striped hyena

depends on culture of the company. also as middle management we sort of need to look busy and coach our team members, not just discuss tactical stuff

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49870604)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 11:51 AM
Author: histrionic anal indian lodge

gonna be 180 when you and your faggot wife get laid off in the exact same time in 18 months

youre a fucking useless piece of shit and should do everyone the world a favor and taste lead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866803)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:00 PM
Author: primrose adventurous spot patrolman

if we get shitcanned, the whole white collar world is done

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866816)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:11 PM
Author: titillating brass theatre selfie

cr it's well documented that companies collapse without Middle Management and many are looking to actively increase this layer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49866829)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 9:23 PM
Author: free-loading trip garrison

lmao.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2:#49871049)