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There’s no upside to being honest with them in an exit interview, right?

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I&...
Mewling boiling water juggernaut
  06/28/25
What would God want you to do?
arousing demanding dilemma nowag
  06/28/25
Just leave, who gives a shit
Honey-headed massive indian lodge fortuitous meteor
  06/28/25
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vengeful elastic band spot
  06/28/25
No one gives two fucks what you think.
frisky startled theater
  06/28/25
the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all,...
Charismatic Pearly Library Laser Beams
  06/28/25
💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're goin...
Amber puppy main people
  06/28/25
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Pontificating Drab Range Hunting Ground
  06/28/25
correct, do not do one, just ignore
bistre swollen national stain
  06/28/25
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Ivory Box Office
  06/28/25
Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched y...
crawly tripping heaven
  06/28/25
and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever
vengeful elastic band spot
  06/28/25
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hairraiser bat shit crazy striped hyena quadroon
  06/28/25
You sound very gay and jewish Also stop doing adderall
Cyan Public Bath Stock Car
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Topaz Hairy Legs
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awkward glittery blood rage
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Dun plaza
  06/28/25
Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer wi...
arousing demanding dilemma nowag
  06/28/25
Have you learned nothing in life Honesty will only ever h...
chest-beating lascivious trump supporter center
  06/28/25
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Pontificating Drab Range Hunting Ground
  06/28/25
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Dun plaza
  06/28/25
Just read ur actual op Lmfao r u a woman Holy shit ur a ...
chest-beating lascivious trump supporter center
  06/28/25
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irate giraffe
  06/28/25
You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you...
stirring church building hissy fit
  06/28/25
jewish family man you’re the bad guy if you hate t...
Cyan Public Bath Stock Car
  06/28/25
nobody cares
Pontificating Drab Range Hunting Ground
  06/28/25
Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough pr...
Aphrodisiac plum stead background story
  06/28/25
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Ivory Box Office
  06/28/25
lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his &...
provocative pink address roast beef
  06/28/25
A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime
Aphrodisiac plum stead background story
  06/28/25
Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the w...
Curious Iridescent Home
  06/28/25
You sound like a real POS “considering” whether ...
awkward glittery blood rage
  06/28/25
he’s jewish
Cyan Public Bath Stock Car
  06/28/25
What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood jus...
Ivory Box Office
  06/28/25
a jew
Cyan Public Bath Stock Car
  06/28/25
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Pontificating Drab Range Hunting Ground
  06/29/25
Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the ...
titillating mad-dog skullcap
  06/28/25


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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:58 AM
Author: Mewling boiling water juggernaut

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I’m not going to seek out an exit interview but I strongly suspect the HR person is going to want to document my feedback because I’m being poached by a competitor and several execs in the business will find out this week and will talk to me about it, and she will want to try to find out what I told them. I have an opportunity in all this to trash our group’s lead VP, and he’s likely already on shaky enough ground that it could at a minimum help to block any future progress up the ladder, and could possibly result in a demotion for him. Arguably this is what’s best for the team I’m leaving ie the guy is not evil or sadistic like a boomer but he’s like an archetypal Gen X beta who is drowning and losing the game of thrones at his new level that he only got to like a year ago. It’s a pretty standard issue Peter principle scenario where he’s retreating to tactical stuff because he’s overwhelmed by his failures and invisibility in terms of strategic stuff. But thinking about it especially from a pure self interest perspective it seems much smarter to say nothing about any of this and not get into any of the many pointed critiques I have of him along these lines with many on-point examples of his limitations. Curious if XO agrees.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055924)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:16 AM
Author: arousing demanding dilemma nowag

What would God want you to do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055956)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:02 AM
Author: Honey-headed massive indian lodge fortuitous meteor

Just leave, who gives a shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055930)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: vengeful elastic band spot



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: frisky startled theater

No one gives two fucks what you think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055935)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:09 AM
Author: Charismatic Pearly Library Laser Beams

the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all, and that's what i'd recommend in this scenario. the main purpose of the exit interview is to identify and mitigate any potential legal risk from your departure.

whatever negative feedback you give for the VP will almost certainly be swept under the rug as it does not sound significant enough to warrant investigation/intervention. also, you could potentially burn a bridge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055944)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: Amber puppy main people

💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're going to sue them or if they can sue you

Nothing else you say matters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055959)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: Pontificating Drab Range Hunting Ground



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:10 AM
Author: bistre swollen national stain

correct, do not do one, just ignore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056036)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:34 AM
Author: Ivory Box Office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056088)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:44 AM
Author: crawly tripping heaven

Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched your special spot and tried to coerce you into sex), it's going nowhere



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056107)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: vengeful elastic band spot

and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056419)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: hairraiser bat shit crazy striped hyena quadroon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056191)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: Cyan Public Bath Stock Car

You sound very gay and jewish

Also stop doing adderall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055949)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:08 AM
Author: Topaz Hairy Legs



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:35 PM
Author: awkward glittery blood rage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056186)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: Dun plaza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49057099)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: arousing demanding dilemma nowag

Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer with your boss in a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055955)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: chest-beating lascivious trump supporter center

Have you learned nothing in life

Honesty will only ever hurt you in life especially in a "work" environment

Modernity demands you never tell the truth in a satanic humiliation ritual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055962)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: Pontificating Drab Range Hunting Ground



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055978)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: Dun plaza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49057100)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: chest-beating lascivious trump supporter center

Just read ur actual op

Lmfao r u a woman

Holy shit ur a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055964)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:27 AM
Author: irate giraffe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056066)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:21 AM
Author: stirring church building hissy fit

You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you a zoomer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055972)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:53 AM
Author: Cyan Public Bath Stock Car

jewish family man

you’re the bad guy if you hate these “people” btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056115)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:27 AM
Author: Pontificating Drab Range Hunting Ground

nobody cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055983)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac plum stead background story

Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055997)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:35 AM
Author: Ivory Box Office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056090)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:46 AM
Author: provocative pink address roast beef

lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his "recommendations"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056010)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac plum stead background story

A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056023)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: Curious Iridescent Home

Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the way to get at someone. You just look like a butthurt asshole pulling something like that. Either voice it when you’re there or stfu on the way out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056151)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: awkward glittery blood rage

You sound like a real POS “considering” whether to torpedo some poor schlub who - per your story - never did anything remotely comparably bad to you.

You are also completely clueless about how businesses/HR depts function and it’s going to be hilarious when that bites you in the ass soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056166)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: Cyan Public Bath Stock Car

he’s jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056175)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 1:51 PM
Author: Ivory Box Office

What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood just to “help” some company he’s leaving. Really shitty man

Was legit in this situation 3 months ago and took the interview bc I may go back there. My boss had no idea what he was doing but was chill and I had a lot of free time as a result. Obviously didn’t throw him under the bus as I was leaving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056328)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:30 PM
Author: Cyan Public Bath Stock Car

a jew

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056479)



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Date: June 29th, 2025 7:16 AM
Author: Pontificating Drab Range Hunting Ground



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49057567)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:50 PM
Author: titillating mad-dog skullcap

Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the CEO/COO/CFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056402)