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There’s no upside to being honest with them in an exit interview, right?

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I&...
Violent Church
  06/28/25
What would God want you to do?
Blathering deep stag film hairy legs
  06/28/25
Just leave, who gives a shit
Motley fighting partner station
  06/28/25
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fragrant bipolar reading party
  06/28/25
No one gives two fucks what you think.
violet zombie-like sneaky criminal indian lodge
  06/28/25
the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all,...
Turquoise personal credit line
  06/28/25
💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're goin...
lascivious shrine double fault
  06/28/25
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yellow native
  06/28/25
correct, do not do one, just ignore
cobalt big halford selfie
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Excitant Bossy Whorehouse Dragon
  06/28/25
Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched y...
Charismatic Piazza Place Of Business
  06/28/25
and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever
fragrant bipolar reading party
  06/28/25
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cheese-eating bateful people who are hurt sandwich
  06/28/25
You sound very gay and jewish Also stop doing adderall
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aphrodisiac drunken bawdyhouse messiness
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carmine house-broken theater
  06/28/25
Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer wi...
Blathering deep stag film hairy legs
  06/28/25
Have you learned nothing in life Honesty will only ever h...
tan chest-beating market depressive
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yellow native
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carmine house-broken theater
  06/28/25
Just read ur actual op Lmfao r u a woman Holy shit ur a ...
tan chest-beating market depressive
  06/28/25
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Olive racy school
  06/28/25
You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you...
Chestnut multi-colored range degenerate
  06/28/25
jewish family man you’re the bad guy if you hate t...
Galvanic abode prole
  06/28/25
nobody cares
yellow native
  06/28/25
Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough pr...
Peach Crusty Indirect Expression Ape
  06/28/25
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Excitant Bossy Whorehouse Dragon
  06/28/25
lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his &...
elite cruise ship psychic
  06/28/25
A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime
Peach Crusty Indirect Expression Ape
  06/28/25
Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the w...
Maroon arousing set crotch
  06/28/25
You sound like a real POS “considering” whether ...
Effete rigor meetinghouse
  06/28/25
he’s jewish
Galvanic abode prole
  06/28/25
What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood jus...
Excitant Bossy Whorehouse Dragon
  06/28/25
a jew
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  06/28/25
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yellow native
  06/29/25
Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the ...
soggy senate regret
  06/28/25


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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:58 AM
Author: Violent Church

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I’m not going to seek out an exit interview but I strongly suspect the HR person is going to want to document my feedback because I’m being poached by a competitor and several execs in the business will find out this week and will talk to me about it, and she will want to try to find out what I told them. I have an opportunity in all this to trash our group’s lead VP, and he’s likely already on shaky enough ground that it could at a minimum help to block any future progress up the ladder, and could possibly result in a demotion for him. Arguably this is what’s best for the team I’m leaving ie the guy is not evil or sadistic like a boomer but he’s like an archetypal Gen X beta who is drowning and losing the game of thrones at his new level that he only got to like a year ago. It’s a pretty standard issue Peter principle scenario where he’s retreating to tactical stuff because he’s overwhelmed by his failures and invisibility in terms of strategic stuff. But thinking about it especially from a pure self interest perspective it seems much smarter to say nothing about any of this and not get into any of the many pointed critiques I have of him along these lines with many on-point examples of his limitations. Curious if XO agrees.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055924)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:16 AM
Author: Blathering deep stag film hairy legs

What would God want you to do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055956)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:02 AM
Author: Motley fighting partner station

Just leave, who gives a shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055930)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: fragrant bipolar reading party



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: violet zombie-like sneaky criminal indian lodge

No one gives two fucks what you think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055935)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:09 AM
Author: Turquoise personal credit line

the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all, and that's what i'd recommend in this scenario. the main purpose of the exit interview is to identify and mitigate any potential legal risk from your departure.

whatever negative feedback you give for the VP will almost certainly be swept under the rug as it does not sound significant enough to warrant investigation/intervention. also, you could potentially burn a bridge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055944)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: lascivious shrine double fault

💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're going to sue them or if they can sue you

Nothing else you say matters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055959)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: yellow native



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:10 AM
Author: cobalt big halford selfie

correct, do not do one, just ignore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056036)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:34 AM
Author: Excitant Bossy Whorehouse Dragon



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:44 AM
Author: Charismatic Piazza Place Of Business

Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched your special spot and tried to coerce you into sex), it's going nowhere



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056107)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: fragrant bipolar reading party

and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056419)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: cheese-eating bateful people who are hurt sandwich



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: Galvanic abode prole

You sound very gay and jewish

Also stop doing adderall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055949)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:08 AM
Author: aphrodisiac drunken bawdyhouse messiness



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:35 PM
Author: Effete rigor meetinghouse



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: carmine house-broken theater



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: Blathering deep stag film hairy legs

Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer with your boss in a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055955)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: tan chest-beating market depressive

Have you learned nothing in life

Honesty will only ever hurt you in life especially in a "work" environment

Modernity demands you never tell the truth in a satanic humiliation ritual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055962)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: yellow native



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055978)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: carmine house-broken theater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49057100)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: tan chest-beating market depressive

Just read ur actual op

Lmfao r u a woman

Holy shit ur a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055964)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:27 AM
Author: Olive racy school



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056066)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:21 AM
Author: Chestnut multi-colored range degenerate

You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you a zoomer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055972)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:53 AM
Author: Galvanic abode prole

jewish family man

you’re the bad guy if you hate these “people” btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056115)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:27 AM
Author: yellow native

nobody cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055983)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: Peach Crusty Indirect Expression Ape

Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055997)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:35 AM
Author: Excitant Bossy Whorehouse Dragon



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:46 AM
Author: elite cruise ship psychic

lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his "recommendations"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056010)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: Peach Crusty Indirect Expression Ape

A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056023)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: Maroon arousing set crotch

Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the way to get at someone. You just look like a butthurt asshole pulling something like that. Either voice it when you’re there or stfu on the way out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056151)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: Effete rigor meetinghouse

You sound like a real POS “considering” whether to torpedo some poor schlub who - per your story - never did anything remotely comparably bad to you.

You are also completely clueless about how businesses/HR depts function and it’s going to be hilarious when that bites you in the ass soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056166)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: Galvanic abode prole

he’s jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056175)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 1:51 PM
Author: Excitant Bossy Whorehouse Dragon

What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood just to “help” some company he’s leaving. Really shitty man

Was legit in this situation 3 months ago and took the interview bc I may go back there. My boss had no idea what he was doing but was chill and I had a lot of free time as a result. Obviously didn’t throw him under the bus as I was leaving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056328)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:30 PM
Author: Galvanic abode prole

a jew

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056479)



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Date: June 29th, 2025 7:16 AM
Author: yellow native



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:50 PM
Author: soggy senate regret

Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the CEO/COO/CFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056402)