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There’s no upside to being honest with them in an exit interview, right?

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I&...
kink-friendly lodge main people
  06/28/25
What would God want you to do?
passionate french site
  06/28/25
Just leave, who gives a shit
Outnumbered Glassy Keepsake Machete Famous Landscape Painting
  06/28/25
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fishy angry space
  06/28/25
No one gives two fucks what you think.
Shivering Arrogant Spot Dragon
  06/28/25
the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all,...
saffron sound barrier shrine
  06/28/25
💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're goin...
Fear-inspiring Senate Shitlib
  06/28/25
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indigo unhinged university
  06/28/25
correct, do not do one, just ignore
Carmine love of her life idea he suggested
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irradiated home
  06/28/25
Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched y...
Yellow mischievous incel garrison
  06/28/25
and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever
fishy angry space
  06/28/25
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emerald ungodly azn giraffe
  06/28/25
You sound very gay and jewish Also stop doing adderall
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Apoplectic Coldplay Fan Headpube
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Green arousing legal warrant therapy
  06/28/25
Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer wi...
passionate french site
  06/28/25
Have you learned nothing in life Honesty will only ever h...
violet bespoke forum crotch
  06/28/25
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indigo unhinged university
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Green arousing legal warrant therapy
  06/28/25
Just read ur actual op Lmfao r u a woman Holy shit ur a ...
violet bespoke forum crotch
  06/28/25
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Fragrant place of business hunting ground
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You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you...
Amber Mind-boggling Dysfunction Boiling Water
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jewish family man you’re the bad guy if you hate t...
Grizzly range
  06/28/25
nobody cares
indigo unhinged university
  06/28/25
Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough pr...
Scarlet Quadroon Stead
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irradiated home
  06/28/25
lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his &...
nudist fantasy-prone pistol
  06/28/25
A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime
Scarlet Quadroon Stead
  06/28/25
Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the w...
stimulating chocolate electric furnace doctorate
  06/28/25
You sound like a real POS “considering” whether ...
Apoplectic Coldplay Fan Headpube
  06/28/25
he’s jewish
Grizzly range
  06/28/25
What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood jus...
irradiated home
  06/28/25
a jew
Grizzly range
  06/28/25
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indigo unhinged university
  06/29/25
Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the ...
Indecent marvelous lettuce
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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:58 AM
Author: kink-friendly lodge main people

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I’m not going to seek out an exit interview but I strongly suspect the HR person is going to want to document my feedback because I’m being poached by a competitor and several execs in the business will find out this week and will talk to me about it, and she will want to try to find out what I told them. I have an opportunity in all this to trash our group’s lead VP, and he’s likely already on shaky enough ground that it could at a minimum help to block any future progress up the ladder, and could possibly result in a demotion for him. Arguably this is what’s best for the team I’m leaving ie the guy is not evil or sadistic like a boomer but he’s like an archetypal Gen X beta who is drowning and losing the game of thrones at his new level that he only got to like a year ago. It’s a pretty standard issue Peter principle scenario where he’s retreating to tactical stuff because he’s overwhelmed by his failures and invisibility in terms of strategic stuff. But thinking about it especially from a pure self interest perspective it seems much smarter to say nothing about any of this and not get into any of the many pointed critiques I have of him along these lines with many on-point examples of his limitations. Curious if XO agrees.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055924)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:16 AM
Author: passionate french site

What would God want you to do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055956)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:02 AM
Author: Outnumbered Glassy Keepsake Machete Famous Landscape Painting

Just leave, who gives a shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055930)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: fishy angry space



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: Shivering Arrogant Spot Dragon

No one gives two fucks what you think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055935)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:09 AM
Author: saffron sound barrier shrine

the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all, and that's what i'd recommend in this scenario. the main purpose of the exit interview is to identify and mitigate any potential legal risk from your departure.

whatever negative feedback you give for the VP will almost certainly be swept under the rug as it does not sound significant enough to warrant investigation/intervention. also, you could potentially burn a bridge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055944)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: Fear-inspiring Senate Shitlib

💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're going to sue them or if they can sue you

Nothing else you say matters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055959)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: indigo unhinged university



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:10 AM
Author: Carmine love of her life idea he suggested

correct, do not do one, just ignore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056036)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:34 AM
Author: irradiated home



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:44 AM
Author: Yellow mischievous incel garrison

Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched your special spot and tried to coerce you into sex), it's going nowhere



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056107)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: fishy angry space

and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056419)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: emerald ungodly azn giraffe



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: Grizzly range

You sound very gay and jewish

Also stop doing adderall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055949)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:08 AM
Author: Frozen friendly grandma indirect expression



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:35 PM
Author: Apoplectic Coldplay Fan Headpube



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: Green arousing legal warrant therapy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49057099)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: passionate french site

Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer with your boss in a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055955)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: violet bespoke forum crotch

Have you learned nothing in life

Honesty will only ever hurt you in life especially in a "work" environment

Modernity demands you never tell the truth in a satanic humiliation ritual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055962)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: indigo unhinged university



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055978)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: Green arousing legal warrant therapy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49057100)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: violet bespoke forum crotch

Just read ur actual op

Lmfao r u a woman

Holy shit ur a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055964)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:27 AM
Author: Fragrant place of business hunting ground



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056066)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:21 AM
Author: Amber Mind-boggling Dysfunction Boiling Water

You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you a zoomer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055972)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:53 AM
Author: Grizzly range

jewish family man

you’re the bad guy if you hate these “people” btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056115)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:27 AM
Author: indigo unhinged university

nobody cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055983)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: Scarlet Quadroon Stead

Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49055997)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:35 AM
Author: irradiated home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056090)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:46 AM
Author: nudist fantasy-prone pistol

lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his "recommendations"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056010)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: Scarlet Quadroon Stead

A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056023)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: stimulating chocolate electric furnace doctorate

Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the way to get at someone. You just look like a butthurt asshole pulling something like that. Either voice it when you’re there or stfu on the way out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056151)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: Apoplectic Coldplay Fan Headpube

You sound like a real POS “considering” whether to torpedo some poor schlub who - per your story - never did anything remotely comparably bad to you.

You are also completely clueless about how businesses/HR depts function and it’s going to be hilarious when that bites you in the ass soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056166)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: Grizzly range

he’s jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056175)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 1:51 PM
Author: irradiated home

What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood just to “help” some company he’s leaving. Really shitty man

Was legit in this situation 3 months ago and took the interview bc I may go back there. My boss had no idea what he was doing but was chill and I had a lot of free time as a result. Obviously didn’t throw him under the bus as I was leaving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056328)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:30 PM
Author: Grizzly range

a jew

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056479)



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Date: June 29th, 2025 7:16 AM
Author: indigo unhinged university



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49057567)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:50 PM
Author: Indecent marvelous lettuce

Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the CEO/COO/CFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2],#49056402)