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Date: October 13th, 2025 11:47 PM Author: grizzly jap theater I got a call from HR. I was a bit unnerved but not really, seemed inconceivable there’d be an issue, I still get along great with her and we haven’t missed a beat. Only strange thing is we never talk about it, instead seemed to have channeled the whole thing into actual work - late night phone calls and slacks about this or that email or thing we want to accomplish.
Anyway, turns out she asked HR about relocating to my city and they wanted to know how I feel about that. They said she’s clearly extremely engaged at work and I’m done an amazing job with the team. Wanted to laugh |
Date: October 14th, 2025 12:06 AM Author: passionate famous landscape painting Hope it works out The company I've been employed at for years was revealed as having an extremely spotty record wrt its female employees and women's issues in the workplace so I'm probably going to be quitting and finding a lower tech position |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:28 AM Author: grizzly jap theater What (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49347732) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 2:00 PM Author: glittery ivory brunch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49357984) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 4:46 PM Author: Carnelian talented cuckold (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49358227) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:08 AM Author: Pearly business firm codepig promising shtick plz keep it going
hopefully we can get some work holiday party action this december |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:32 AM Author: grizzly jap theater All too real. The dynamics are complex but I feel alive again. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49347735) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:40 AM Author: frozen heady mad cow disease whorehouse someone who makes you feel this alive should have a nickname. you should call her your "alive girl". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49347746) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:48 AM Author: grizzly jap theater Bezos wasn’t her boss though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49347750) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 12:39 PM Author: Transparent partner school cafeteria (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49357821) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 9:36 AM Author: Peristalsis (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49412056) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 12:42 AM Author: grizzly jap theater Today she invited me to her office locations Christmas party. I told her I wouldn’t be able to swing it and she got pouty about it. I’m going to another office where her female rival works. I told her I plan to swing by her location soon though and she said “ooo things I like to hear.” I also told her we’re going to be particularly busy the next couple months with a project and she’s like “is it weird that really excites me?” This should be an interesting ride. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49349904) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 9:40 AM Author: Pearly business firm codepig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49350307) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 9:41 AM Author: Rough-skinned Flesh Theater Stage Black Woman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49350311) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 6:57 PM Author: Slate comical sweet tailpipe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49349183) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 7:27 PM Author: razzle bistre sex offender (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49360539) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 12:46 AM Author: stubborn turquoise pisswyrm as we get closer to the megaposter stuff, your subordinate figures to be more interesting if she's like your younger sister or something along those lines. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49349906) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 1:58 AM Author: grizzly jap theater Maybe I can throw in some creep shots after the holiday party (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49349973) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 9:42 AM Author: Rough-skinned Flesh Theater Stage Black Woman this could be schtick of the year if you follow through (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49350312) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 12:41 PM Author: Pearly business firm codepig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49357831) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:58 PM Author: lilac useless roommate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49357979) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 2:52 AM Author: grizzly jap theater She slacked me today to say she “threw me under the bus with HR”. Then she wrote “actually it was compliance but I thought it would be fun to say HR.” Later she called me from the gym with her sister, topic turned to my weekend plans. I told her my wife has a school reunion. She asked how many years. I had no idea, so we worked it back from her age (wife is 29). She said wow lucky man, forgot she was that young. She then slacked me at like 10pm to confirm her next travel plans to my city. Well, at least life is interesting. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49357329) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 3:01 AM Author: hilarious odious senate women r the devil (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49357331) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 7:04 PM Author: The Mongoloid President's Advisor (No Future) actually it was compliance but I thought it would be fun to say HR haha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49399118) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 6:50 AM Author: At-the-ready Shitlib Locus You are going to be fired for this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49357369) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 7:20 AM Author: grizzly jap theater Is it frowned upon? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49357376) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 6:04 PM Author: At-the-ready Shitlib Locus You will be told that you had a duty to report any relationship involving a conflict of interest, which would include a romantic relationship with a subordinate whose pay and tasks you control, so that the company could evaluate how to handle that (e.g., changing the reporting structure). You will technically be fired for not reporting, as opposed to there being per se something inappropriate about a romantic relationship. (Of course there is something per se inappropriate in these circumstances but the company will rely on the technical aspect of not reporting a conflict). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49360426) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:21 AM Author: grizzly jap theater I don’t think so. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49361374) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 12:43 PM Author: Transparent partner school cafeteria get her pregnant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49357838) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 2:04 PM Author: trip sneaky criminal macaca (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49359988) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:24 PM Author: Concupiscible Dopamine Hall Describe the sex. Any ass play? Hairy bush? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49357915) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:52 PM Author: grizzly jap theater I was very drunk. She sucked my cock to get me hard. Then she crawled on top of me. She said I was going too fast and we should slow down, almost in a bossy way, turned me on. Then she got really romantic, wanting to make it some special moment, and kept saying my name over and over as she kind of built a cocoon around us with her long golden blonde hair, staring into my eyes and saying my name over and over until I came in her. Then I immediately left, had to get home. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49357967) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:54 PM Author: grizzly jap theater Also, she was on her period but I didn’t realize it because I was drunk so I had blood all over me when I got home. On my shirt especially. Got some on our sheets because I fingered her and then my finger was scrawling blood all over. Fortunately wife was pissed so wasn’t home and when I woke up had time to cover it all up and shower. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49357971) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:59 PM Author: lilac useless roommate complete twist from your other post (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49357982) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 2:19 PM Author: grizzly jap theater There are layers to this thing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49358018) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 3:02 PM Author: primrose halford kitty cat "wife was pissed so wasn’t home"
Is this meant to parse as your wife staying out all night drunk? |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 5:19 PM Author: grizzly jap theater I didn’t get home until mid morning. Yes this was hard to explain (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49358295) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 7:24 PM Author: high-end naked death wish double fault You got blood on your sheets at home? You don’t wash your hands when you get home??? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49360536) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:05 PM Author: grizzly jap theater I had been drinking for like 18 plus hours straight at that point. I wasn’t thinking straight, just saw no one was home and plopped into bed. Woke up and saw blood. Thank god wife wasn’t actually waiting for me at home or she’d have noticed it for sure. My shirt especially had blood all over it. Had to wash everything and flip the pillows and suggest we wash the next morning. Then snuck it in laundry without her noticing the huge blood stains (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49362575) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:18 AM Author: electric embarrassed to the bone voyeur Club Mandingo fan? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49361199) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:08 PM Author: grizzly jap theater I think we left the club at 5am, went to her hotel, was there a few hours, stumbled home with phone dead. I made up a story about falling asleep on a park bench. This led to a bunch of stuff about how I have an out of control alcohol problem to do that but I thought it preferable all things considered. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49362583) |
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Date: October 21st, 2025 8:08 PM Author: Concupiscible Dopamine Hall did you tongue her asshole? did she tongue yours? answer the question (and poast pics) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49364976) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 3:08 PM Author: Doobsian Multi-colored Church Can someone link the original post? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49358083) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 4:23 PM Author: primrose halford kitty cat https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5782887&mc=66&forum_id=2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49358184) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 4:31 PM Author: vigorous federal associate degenerate Not a fan of this tbh
The fact the relationship has to be mediated through work is really really gay and depressing, talking about "projects" and her little quip about compliance is really deflating imo its insane we alloweed women into the workforce this is a giant retarded scam
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Date: October 18th, 2025 5:19 PM Author: grizzly jap theater The whole thing does feel very unnatural (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49358292) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:32 AM Author: Provocative national TITCR. Never do this. Specifically, someone you actually have to engage in real work with. A secretary or paralegal whose biggest concern is where they went to lunch that day is different, but not someone you’re actually “on projects” with. Could not imagine doing it, flipping between flirting and digging into the status of Project Blue with some chick, would blow my brains out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49359175) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 1:41 PM Author: grizzly jap theater I wish I hadn’t. I actually regret the 5 hours of rapid fire drunk texting that broke the dam open yesterday the most. We were doing so well just putting it away and stupidly just pulled at the string. Now it’s something more and harder to shove back in. Really dumb move on my end. Now I don’t even know what talking with her looks like or if she starts randomly sending me late night texts that I have to try to hide. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49359944) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 3:44 PM Author: Provocative national There’s great wisdom in the idea that (setting aside the immorality of it) if you’re gonna fuck someone who’s not your wife you do it with the random conference slut at the bar in Austin and call it a day. Fucking your coworker, nanny, neighbor, sister in law, etc., anyone who is routinely in your life, is inviting trouble. My earnest advice to you would be to try to cauterize the wound, don’t ever do it again, and try to get her to see it’s beneficial to move on too. By the way even if she doesn’t blow up your marriage she will perpetually have you by the balls at work so you better get ready to unequivocally support every retarded idea she ever has until she quits. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49360176) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:12 PM Author: grizzly jap theater Yeah it’s obviously good advice but people actually in your life are for obvious reasons the most likely source of affairs. Coworkers more than anything because you’re constantly working together and can develop a rapport that spills over when you move it to another context like after work drinks. And yeah the wound was cauterizing until we randomly picked at it over the weekend two weeks later. Now it’s harder because she seems to prefer it in open now. She sent me a message today that I ignored. The one good thing is she’s a legit high performer and looks up to me a lot about work stuff so I don’t really expect work work issues beyond that she may feel weird if I pull back. Messy stuff (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49360600) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:57 PM Author: At-the-ready Shitlib Locus "The one good thing is she’s a legit high performer and looks up to me a lot about work stuff so I don’t really expect work work issues beyond that she may feel weird if I pull back."
6 months later: She has put in about 20/mins per day of work over the past half year, when it comes time she is performance managed, the story is "Rage Problems is just sabotaging me because I refused to continue the brief affair that he coercively forced me into" |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 3:11 AM Author: grizzly jap theater I think there’s a lot more likely scenarios. A coworker noticing something, or one of our spouses finding evidence, etc. Or maybe even her feeling like I’m not pushing hard enough for a comp adjustment and wondering if it’s because I want to avoid appearance of favoring her. A rival getting something she wants. All probably more likely than a very ambitious employee who makes work a priority suddenly becoming bad at her job. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49361144) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 7:10 AM Author: At-the-ready Shitlib Locus "Or maybe even her feeling like I’m not pushing hard enough for a comp adjustment and wondering if it’s because I want to avoid appearance of favoring her. A rival getting something she wants."
Yes, probably more likely. Same result for you. "Rage Problems denied me the compensation adjustment I merited because I refused to continue the brief affair he coercively forced upon me." "Rage Problems is giving favorable treatment in work assignments to a co-worker because I refused to continue the brief affair he coercively forced upon me." If she's a very ambitious, intelligent lawyer, she's going to realize that you handed her the ability to coast at her job, shielded from any criticism, then leave with a 24 month severance package offered by HR to shut her up. This will be a "resignation" to avoid any career stigma to her, then she'll just move onto the next role with a couple hundred grand in her pocket. I work in this area, this is how these stories play out. Seems you are betting on "spurned female lawyer logically accepts affair was a bad idea, will not use it to her advantage, and fastidiously refocuses herself in a business-like way on company goals", good luck buddy
At this point your best move may actually be to bang her again, ensuring you have many messages making explicitly clear the whole thing is/was consensual, otherwise she's possibly going to say you raped her in that hotel room |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:55 AM Author: grizzly jap theater There are already a ton, including one that said “you should be more careful, women are a bit crazy these days,” but I panic deleted them to make sure I didn’t have anything on my phone. She is not quiet about her support of me at work, including post hookup. Her suddenly claiming that seems the least likely scenario. I honestly think it’s very unlikely she will ever try to leverage it for anything too. It’s more that if I came out it would be a logistical mess. There would be no easy solution to have her report to anyone but me without demoting her or it coming across like a demotion. We would have to just say it was a one time thing and everyone is over it and hope that is the end of it. I think that is plausible now if I can get it back into the box, but if we continue down this path one or both of us will catch real feelings and it will be hard to have a real working relationship when that falls apart or one of us wants more or wants to break it off. That’s why I need to stop being a dumbass (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49361324) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:00 AM Author: spectacular alpha mexican back into the box tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49361333) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:17 AM Author: beady-eyed pontificating faggotry son of senegal “one of our spouses finding evidence”
Wait this chick is married? |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:49 AM Author: grizzly jap theater Yes, and recently (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49361313) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 9:18 PM Author: Provocative national Since we’re just anonymous pals on the internet and I don’t have to be tactful: I think that’s a retarded after the fact justification. You need to stop thinking with your dick before your life gets blown up. Not saying this to be malicious. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49360722) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:58 AM Author: grizzly jap theater I don’t think I was thinking with my dick when we texted. There’s no chance of a hookup anytime soon, likely won’t see her for a month or two at least. That was more just tension release and curiosity on how we each felt about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49361327) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:31 AM Author: Garnet Yarmulke This is much gayer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395140) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 11:57 PM Author: grizzly jap theater I just texted with her for like 5 hours straight. We talked about everything. I am now on written record saying a ton of shit to her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49358908) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 4:17 AM Author: sick kitchen nibblets such as? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49361160) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:18 AM Author: grizzly jap theater I believe I said I want to kiss you at one point. She said I should behave myself. Then she asked me to describe in detail what I want to do to her. Fortunately for didn’t go down that path. No sexting. Just lots of emotional talk. Felt like a date. She asked a lot of stuff to get to know my backstory more. Our opinions on things. I don’t even know how we texted so long. I didn’t have it in me to reread the whole thing. I tried to delete them one by one but it was hundreds and hundreds of messages, just panic deleted the whole conversation because I was out and about with my wife the next day and I was worried she’d somehow notice it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49361370) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:31 AM Author: sick kitchen nibblets yikes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49361388) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:54 AM Author: grizzly jap theater Yup (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49361418) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:39 AM Author: Burgundy Den Tank (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49373622) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:25 PM Author: curious liquid oxygen queen of the night Your age and hers?
Your total comp and hers? |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:00 AM Author: grizzly jap theater 43, think she’s 32 I am at over 500k all in plus equity She is at around 175 |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:58 AM Author: hateful bearded bawdyhouse this could potentially go very wrong for you.
i think you described elsewhere, but how often do you have sex with your wife? you might want to focus on shoring that up (if there's an issue) there and gently disengage from this situation
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Date: October 20th, 2025 10:20 AM Author: grizzly jap theater I’m aware. I was in such a funk that I think I just went blind to potential consequences and wanted to feel something again. Have only had sex with wife like twice in last 7-8 months. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49361472) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 11:01 AM Author: lilac useless roommate suicide at 35 is seeming more and more like the CR option for me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49361572) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 3:44 PM Author: grizzly jap theater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49362222) |
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Date: October 21st, 2025 9:22 PM Author: glittery ivory brunch Juan Veinte (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49365133) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:51 AM Author: insane bossy boiling water area (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49373638) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:14 AM Author: Violent Sexy Deer Antler Mediation “Slacks” is a tell that you don’t have a real job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49361193) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:07 AM Author: grizzly jap theater Update - things are relatively stable. We reverted to a week of mostly just work-related messages. But we seem to continue to find excuses to talk well into the evening. I’m surprised how flirty she sounds when I know her husband is nearby. One time I heard the sounds of cooking and she mentioned it was her husband. I immediately said I’ll talk to her later, and she was like “yeah talk tomorrow” and then dropped to a lower tone “or later”. Our instagram seems to have also taken on a life of its own to signal what we may be doing that makes it clear we’re not around our spouses. If she sees I’m at a bar late she’ll start messaging me. Last night I was drunk when she did that and I said “I want you” and she kind of skirted by it, but kept peppering me with questions. What a strange thing I’ve gotten myself into it, never seen anything like it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49373575) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:10 AM Author: glittery ivory brunch “never seen anything like it”
And yet it would be impossible to be more cliched. This will end badly if you keep at it. |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:20 AM Author: grizzly jap theater 1 It’s hard to “stop” because what is the “it” I am stopping? If I suddenly went cold and kept it strictly professional then our whole work dynamic would change and she might feel like I’m punishing her, doesn’t seem like a great idea. The actually inappropriate conversation is pretty minimal without knowing subtext.
2 I don’t really want it to go away. Life has been kind of depressing lately, feels like a nice spark. And I’ve already had the risk, doesn’t seem to compound just by keeping whatever emotional entanglement we have going on alive for at least a while longer. Probably more risk trying to wind it down to be honest. |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:23 AM Author: glittery ivory brunch lol, I’m sure it’ll be different for you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49373610) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:25 AM Author: grizzly jap theater I realize there’s lots of risk. What I should have done is not fucked her to begin with. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49373614) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 1:12 PM Author: Idiotic yellow rigor menage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49373965) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:41 AM Author: Burgundy Den Tank (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49373625) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:14 AM Author: vibrant irate psychic native SHE IS GOING TO DESTROY HER OWN MARRIAGE AND TELL HER HUSBAND ALL YOUR INFO AND HE IS GOING TO TELL YOUR WIFE IF YOU'RE LUCKY AND MURDER YOU IF YOU ARE NOT I SINCERELY HOPE THIS FUCKING HELPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49373590) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:21 AM Author: grizzly jap theater Why would she do that? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49373609) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:50 AM Author: hateful bearded bawdyhouse lol brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49373637) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:56 AM Author: vibrant irate psychic native (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49373655) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 1:39 PM Author: lilac useless roommate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49374063) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 2:18 PM Author: glittery ivory brunch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49374152) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 4:03 PM Author: dashing feces (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49385437) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 9:54 PM Author: khaki unhinged site (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49386393) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 9:42 PM Author: Appetizing pearl lodge private investor Yeah, women aren't like that. Trust me. I know these things. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49386350) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 1:40 PM Author: lilac useless roommate O fortuitous disgruntled lover! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49374067) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:49 AM Author: Burgundy Den Tank Most boring flame in years. The most explicit You've gotten is one sexcapade with blood. So hurry up and just go on a bender Destroying what's left of your marriage now. |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 3:37 PM Author: electric embarrassed to the bone voyeur (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49374338) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 10:08 AM Author: grizzly jap theater We chatted for a few hours last night from like 11-1am. She said she thinks I’ll be the first one to sour on whatever it is we are doing. I said yeah what’s weird to me is how fluently we move between work mode and whatever it is mode sometimes within sentences. I guess this is why they tell people not to do this kind of stuff. She said too late. I guess we’ll find out if we can handle it. I said happy to be on the journey with you. The whole conversation basically just served to tell each other in a round about way that we’re emotionally entangled. Then we wished each other a good sleep and promptly slacked at 7am about work. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49384388) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 10:23 AM Author: vibrant irate psychic native You’re so fucked, I really hope this is flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49384421) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 10:29 AM Author: exciting tanning salon Normally mostly, cr. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49384435) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 8:37 PM Author: grizzly jap theater Why? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49386184) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 11:19 AM Author: hateful bearded bawdyhouse this sounds like a potential disaster. be careful. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49384570) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 5:23 PM Author: glittery ivory brunch OP, you should really take note if Zurich thinks it’s a bad idea (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49385660) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 9:11 PM Author: hateful bearded bawdyhouse i was going to say he sounds exactly like me in late 2020, falling in love with another woman, etc.
as we all know, it led to my life unraveling. i got lucky and my wife took me back. i'd imagine that is a rarity. |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 8:37 PM Author: grizzly jap theater How is it any more a potential disaster than before? I already fucked her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49386185) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 9:13 PM Author: hateful bearded bawdyhouse you are falling in love with this chick.
you need to be sure you can control that and turn it off when you need to. i wasn't able to, and i left my wife/family and my whole life blew up (i went to jail and the psych ward before drying out). i luckily got everything back, but most women would have written me off. |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 8:54 AM Author: grizzly jap theater Did you actually leave for her, or it just fucked you up and you spiraled? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49387331) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 4:17 PM Author: hateful bearded bawdyhouse i left for her. i was bad off with booze at the time (oddly enough i quit doing coke around that time) and just went totally out of control.
i sobered up about a year later (after going to jail for DV, and the cops taking me to the psych ward a couple months after). once i got sober i realized what i'd done and that i actually still loved my wife. long story short, i un-fucked the situation, but this was a 1 in 1000 odds kinda outcome. |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 4:19 PM Author: Sticky library why did your wife take you back? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49388495) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 4:27 PM Author: hateful bearded bawdyhouse who knows (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49388520) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:46 AM Author: stubborn turquoise pisswyrm loser (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395195) |
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Date: October 31st, 2025 3:13 PM Author: grizzly jap theater Seeing lots of parallels. I’m also a hard boozer and do coke from time to time. You’re right I’m catching feelings for this chick and vice versa. I can’t remember the last time we didn’t check in early morning and late at night. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49391010) |
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Date: October 31st, 2025 3:19 PM Author: hateful bearded bawdyhouse my booze and drug addiction (with a lot of dabbling in prostitutes) led my wife to pretty much give up on me beacuse i was of no help and even when i was home and not traveling for work, i wasn't present. so she was emotionally detached. that led me to look for an actual emotional connection and then BAM life spiral. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49391037) |
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Date: October 31st, 2025 3:30 PM Author: grizzly jap theater My wife is also fed up with me and it’s tough being around her. Also made me search around for a connection. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49391092) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 4:01 PM Author: lilac useless roommate "whatever it is we are doing"
lol @ this level of self-denial
180 |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 4:03 PM Author: swollen vivacious organic girlfriend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49385438) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 9:58 PM Author: Frum sanctuary weed whacker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49386411) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 12:15 PM Author: glittery ivory brunch Pro tip: when a woman tells you that she will handle things with less emotion than you LMFAO UR ALL GONNA DIE (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49387830) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 12:31 PM Author: Wonderful crimson crackhouse Hey retard you gave a woman -- A WOMAN -- total control over blowing up ur life. There are approximately a halford number of reasons why she will blow it all up. Exciting part is you never know when it will be! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49387869) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 12:36 PM Author: amethyst affirmative action Great pics (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49387889) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 1:28 PM Author: glittery ivory brunch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49388083) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 1:45 PM Author: Mauve background story absolutely devastating (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49388141) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 1:53 PM Author: electric embarrassed to the bone voyeur (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49388156) |
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Date: October 31st, 2025 3:39 PM Author: exhilarant ruby trump supporter turdskin rare EPAH CR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49391117) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 12:21 PM Author: sick kitchen nibblets (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395285) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 6:16 PM Author: grizzly jap theater Today, she said “[if you ever visit my city] I am your woman”. We were making fun of some corporate bullshit. Had switched to text. First message of the day was at like 7am after talking the night before until midnight. We were on the phone for like two hours today. Our messaging is becoming a distraction from actual work. But on a few important calls we hit it hard together, ganged up on some losers. I am in it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49388849) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 6:24 PM Author: Frum sanctuary weed whacker You're in a relationship with another man's wife. You're having an affair. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49388879) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 7:39 PM Author: hateful bearded bawdyhouse this. your wife would possibly be more upset about this than any physical contact.
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Date: October 30th, 2025 7:49 PM Author: Frum sanctuary weed whacker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49389110) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 9:12 PM Author: Burgundy Den Tank (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49389261) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 7:40 PM Author: glittery ivory brunch She probably feels like such a bad bitch - ur doomed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49389078) |
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Date: November 1st, 2025 6:03 PM Author: purple slap-happy corner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49393590) |
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Date: November 1st, 2025 6:07 PM Author: Transparent partner school cafeteria 180 i like her too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49393594) |
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Date: November 1st, 2025 5:46 PM Author: grizzly jap theater Another 5am session last night. Ended with her husband coming out to get her and her apologizing that she had to go. She messaged me early apologizing she had to cut the conversation short. We talked an hour today. She said she longs for the day I’m no longer interesting to her. She said she’s always felt drawn toward me, that she would have made a move much earlier if she knew I was open to it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49393553) |
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Date: November 1st, 2025 6:01 PM Author: Frum sanctuary weed whacker When are you gonna smash again (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49393586) |
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Date: November 1st, 2025 6:04 PM Author: grizzly jap theater We aren’t going to see each other in person for months. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49393592) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 1:22 AM Author: Frum sanctuary weed whacker Do you ever talk about the time you cheated on your spouses and had sex? No dirty pics exchanged? Wtf? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49394532) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 8:19 AM Author: grizzly jap theater She said she avoids saying my name in public because she remembers the night and blushes. She said my name over and over really romantically while I came in her. I teased her that there’s room for improvement and she said lots and lots of practice makes perfect. More that kind of thing, no explicit sexting so far. Sexting seems a little cheap and lame, something for kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49394776) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 10:03 AM Author: Frum sanctuary weed whacker This is deeply disturbing but also kind of 180 at the same time. I don't endorse cheating. But you're obviously in love with one another. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49394912) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 10:04 AM Author: vibrant irate psychic native Yeah this is gonna end extremely poorly for OP, that other girl, OP's wife, that other girl's husband, and any other family members. It's also gonna royally fuck his career (she'll probably get a promotion or lawsuit though). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49394915) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 10:13 AM Author: Frum sanctuary weed whacker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49394944) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:19 AM Author: grizzly jap theater Honestly, I doubt it. Maybe I’m delusional but I am well liked at work and seen as a star. I’m also needed at the moment and have good relationship with the rest of the exec team, which is a bit of a boys club. And this chick is into me and isn’t going to do anything to try to hurt me. Her career is going well and she likes me and is otherwise not a feminist or prone to anything like that. The best thing I can do is start slow playing it so it fades out, which has been my plan, but I keep coming back for more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395106) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:21 AM Author: vibrant irate psychic native You're 100% delusional and this is gonna blow up in your face and wreck your personal life and professional life. You are being really fucking retarded. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395109) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:24 AM Author: grizzly jap theater I was really retarded but it happened and now I’m trying to manage it. I legit feel like giving her some speech and cutting her off cold turkey would be the most likely thing to cause me issues, even if I wanted to do that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395115) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:25 AM Author: vibrant irate psychic native Yeah texting all night and having hourslong conversations about emotions at 1 AM sounds like you're managing it real well (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395122) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:29 AM Author: grizzly jap theater Yeah, I’m failing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395133) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:21 AM Author: Frum sanctuary weed whacker Do you crave the conversations or the sex more (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395110) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:25 AM Author: grizzly jap theater The sex isn’t an option because we are across the country from each other. If I had my way we’d go on a two week vacation together or something with no distractions where we can fuck and talk the whole time. So I guess it’s both (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395121) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:37 AM Author: Frum sanctuary weed whacker Nigga you in love (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395164) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:30 AM Author: glittery ivory brunch Lmfao - ur insane. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395137) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:31 AM Author: grizzly jap theater What is your recommendation. Cold turkey cut her off? She is my top employee and we work closely together on lots of things. Would be extremely strange if I just sent her one message and then went pure work mode (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395141) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:32 AM Author: vibrant irate psychic native Start looking for a new job ASAP or take a leave of absence. In fact, say some health shit is flaring up or go to rehab or SOMETHING to extricate yourself from this mess. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395146) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:35 AM Author: grizzly jap theater I have golden handcuffs, way too much equity riding to ever leave before an exit, which could be a few years away still. And leave of absence? So voluntarily fucking my career is your advice? State your job title (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395157) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:36 AM Author: vibrant irate psychic native I'm sure your financial situation will improve when your wife takes half your shit and leaves you with all the debt and alimony. Really hope this is flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395162) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:38 AM Author: grizzly jap theater I have a prenup. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395170) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:39 AM Author: vibrant irate psychic native Perfect. Divorce shouldn't impact your life at all then, sounds like you're good to go. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395177) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:34 AM Author: aromatic cruise ship lulz (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395155) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 10:53 AM Author: Carnelian talented cuckold I predict either you or your subordinate will be discovered by the spouse via your phone, either incriminating text messages or seeing you had a multi-hour phone call in the middle of the night. You both won’t always remember to delete these things, and you’ll also naturally become more tense and act suspicious if your significant other randomly picks up your phone and uses it. This is how many cheaters get caught. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395041) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:16 AM Author: grizzly jap theater That is definitely a concern. We need to slow things down and not text late all the time. Don’t plan on messaging her today. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395097) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:28 AM Author: glittery ivory brunch lol, that out to do it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395130) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 12:34 PM Author: lilac useless roommate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395309) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 1:17 PM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395402) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 10:26 AM Author: WWED: What Would Emilio Do? (gunneratttt) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397442) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 9:14 PM Author: .,.,,...,...,..,....,...,...,... Yeah, at the bare minimum, you need to improve your OpSec. Switch to Google Voice at the bare minimum. Better yet, get a second phone. Helium Mobile has a free plan with a very limited amount of minutes/texts, but if you mainly text via Slack or iMessage over WiFi, that's a non-issue. But that would avoid the possibility of your wife wondering why you are paying for a second cell plan. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49396555) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 9:15 PM Author: Raul Mondesi circa 1998 none of that is gonna help when the stupid WOMAN blows up her marriage and then reveals all of OP's info to her husband who is gonna go berserk (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49396559) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 1:04 PM Author: .,.,,...,...,..,....,...,...,... There is nothing the OP can do to avoid that risk. But he should at least make sure that their respective spouses can't find anything incriminating on their phones. That's Affairs 101. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397845) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:38 AM Author: Frum sanctuary weed whacker Describe her cans and panties
This is a middle aged law shrew who's given birth multiple times? What are we working with here? |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 1:24 PM Author: Have YOU been injured in an accident? What's the rest of the executive team like? Is this a Mad Men situation where they're all banging some female subordinate on the side? Or shitlib diversity carnival? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395428) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 1:32 PM Author: theroyalserf OP is the indian lawyer guy from Margin Call (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395449) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 1:58 PM Author: Rage Problems Mostly conservative dudes, company in general is mostly dudes in sr management, meetings with senior leadership are often like 90-95 percent dudes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49395509) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 6:57 AM Author: Amateur Millennial Butt Porn Then you can GUARANTEE none of them will stand up for you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397103) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 7:34 AM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) OP, you are in a difficult position. you mentioned going cold turkey upthread. that would be a bad idea, as you correctly pointed out. she could go sideways on you and blow the whistle to your company.
the best path forward would be for you to have a frank convo with her where you shower her with praise and tell her that in another life, you two could have been great together, or some such shit, but that you both have too much to lose. be sure to compliment her, and tell her that you guys have to go back to a professional working relationship.
i can tell you probably won't do that, though. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 8:05 AM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy He's in love with this bitch and vice versa. RIP in peace. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397145) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 8:09 AM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) yeah, that's why i figure he won't actually do this. what he'll do is continue down this path and fall more and more in love with her until it blows his life to smithereens (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397148) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 8:11 AM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy I haven't had feelings like OP is describing since I was in the 7th grade. He needs this ho like water and oxygen. She's the first thing he thinks about when he wakes up and the last thing he thinks about before he goes to sleep. You're right it's gonna get a lot worse before it gets any better. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397155) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:47 AM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) i poasted about this recently, but i fell for this girl at work before i went to law school and started up an affair with her right after she'd gotten married. i felt the same way, i was totally in love with her.
long story short, i dumped her and she tried to kill herself in the office. anyway, most of these stories don't have this happy ending where the two coworkers get together and live a beautiful life, etc. it's something like suicide in the office or divorce and life pwnage. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 10:03 AM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy Yes it could happen to any of us. I have cheated before in LTRs. Both times I felt guilty, realized I didn't like the new chick as much as my gf, broke it off and went back to my old lady like nothing happened (never got caught).
It's tough and I worry about my ability to remain loyal long term. My troon friend told me that to straight guys women are like chocolate bars: the only thing better than one chocolate bar is two chocolate bars.
Deep down I'm addicted to females and it's bad news. I don't know what to do. Imagine being Dave Grohl and you're a famous rock star and you could fuck around on your wife all the time but you don't, you've been good, you don't do anything silly but then you hit middle age and you fall in love with a temp and wind up knocking her up. I mean, what can we as men do? We can only run so fast. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:57 AM Author: Rage Problems You’re probably right. But yeah, I can’t do it. I was depressed for months and I’m suddenly excited about life again. I’m waking up early with energy even after drinking. I’ve lost some weight, less cravings for shit food. I wanted to not message her last night but she slacked me late about something work related and of course it quickly moved to texting. Ended up talking for a couple hours again until midnight. Time flies by when talking with her, it’s crazy. Somehow I feel like it will just resolve itself eventually. Maybe one of us will change jobs before it blows up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397375) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 10:04 AM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy What do you text about? Do you ever tell her she has a great ass? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397403) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 8:47 AM Author: Charlie Kirk Did Nothing Wrong (TDNW) best, most subtle flame we’ve seen around these parts in a while (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397218) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 10:10 AM Author: WWED: What Would Emilio Do? (gunneratttt) this shit happens all the fucking time at workplaces across the country. every time someone comes by with a situation like this or the seeking arrangements pumo losers come out of the woodwork calling it flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397407) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 12:33 PM Author: Charlie Kirk Did Nothing Wrong (TDNW) people fucking colleagues is believable
but this is xo |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 12:45 PM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397785) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 8:58 PM Author: Kenneth Play this doesn't make any sense, does it? i thought it was pretty clearly bad to sleep with a subordinate. i guess HR thinks they solved it because they shuffled the boss and didn't allow the junior employee to argue she was retaliated against or fired or denied opportunities? but would seem to have a colorable claim that would force a settlement (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49399361) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:03 PM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy HR people are literally people with a college degree and zero concrete job skills. She liked her job and wanted to stay there. So did he. No harm no foul they just had to be separated. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49399371) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:13 PM Author: Kenneth Play (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49399401) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 10:15 AM Author: WWED: What Would Emilio Do? (gunneratttt) do you have any major gripes about your wife? you seem pretty guilt-free about this but i haven't seen you try to justify it with having a dead bedroom or something like that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397413) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 10:47 AM Author: Rage Problems I love my wife a lot but we haven’t had real physical intimacy in probably pushing a year. She’s also become much more critical, more difficult to be around. But we still care for each other a lot. That said, it’s not her fault or anything, but in reality it probably made me much more open to an outside connection where I could fulfill that. I feel guilty, that’s why I don’t like talking about that side of it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397501) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 11:02 AM Author: WWED: What Would Emilio Do? (gunneratttt) just remember that this woman will eventually become critical and more difficult to be around too if you started a seeing her. this is just the nature of relationships. you're in the honeymoon phase with your subordinate. every romantic relationship feels electric and exciting at first. if that spark wasn't there no romance would have occurred.
zurich is right that you need to begin distancing yourself from her exactly the way he described. given enough time this will eventually ruin your life. woman are very bad at cheating and eventually her husband will find out, and then she'll go into accountability avoidance mode and it's not hard to craft a plausible excuse about you using your power to manipulate her, etc.
i condemn cheating but it's a common sin and easy to understand how people falter. the longer it goes on the more intentional the betrayal becomes, which is bad for your own soul. try to come to your senses soon and let her down gently before she starts getting even more attached. given enough time the odds of this ruining your life approach 100%. you're at the crossroads of when you can break it off and likely never have any consequences. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 12:48 PM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy While this all may be 100% true clearly OP needs his side chick like oxygen and there is no chance whatsoever that he's going to forget about this bitch anytime soon and yes it will lead to ruin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397793) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 1:17 PM Author: WWED: What Would Emilio Do? (gunneratttt) because it's fresh.
most of the time people cheat, come to their senses, and break it off before any damage is done. it's just that the only time it becomes public knowledge is when it blows up. the fact the subordinate is married and a responsible professional significantly reduces the chances this blows up immediately. usually that happens when the woman is single and wants to become the wife. chances are she also doesn't really want to blow up her life and is just getting off on seducing her boss (a fantasy all women have, another reason they are unsuitable for the workplace). eventually they'll humanize each other and the rush that comes from a new relationship fades as they see each other's faults and their fantasy collapses.
op seems like a good guy and just poasting anonymously about something interesting and because he probably has no other outlet to safely express his excitement. hopefully he gets it out of his system quick. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 1:25 PM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy Cr. No one can predict where this is going. Right now it's white hot but ya clearly based on escapism. Can't wait to see what unfolds! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397972) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 6:47 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) LJL you abhor cheating, except when it involves my wife sleeping with you.
you are a piece of shit. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 7:17 PM Author: WWED: What Would Emilio Do? (gunneratttt) 1) i'm not the one doing the cheating, my gf is on board and an active participant 2) different situation because of your history, your wife deserves some time off the reservation |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 12:48 PM Author: Rage Problems Yes, this all makes rational sense but I feel like exploring it further (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397794) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 1:07 PM Author: WWED: What Would Emilio Do? (gunneratttt) i appreciate your honesty and content generation. i'm not going to moralize to you any more when you seem smart enough to already know everything i'd tell you. i hope get it out of your system soon, but until then i'll be enjoying the 180 content. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49397869) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 7:05 PM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy The writing by OP is top tier. Should consider being a romance novelist. We unzipped for the lurid affair, but we stayed for the love connection. 180. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49399126) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 1:14 PM Author: .,.,,...,...,..,....,...,...,... Yeah, the OP is clearly aware that this is a stupid idea, but it is obvious he is not going to stop. Telling him that this is a stupid idea is not going to accomplish anything.
At this point, you need to go into harm reduction mode. Get a Google Voice number or (better yet) a second cell number yesterday. Use only that number when you communicate about the affair from now on. Aside from the obvious benefit of making it less likely that your wife finds out, it also gives you plausible deniability if she ever reports you to your job. "Yeah, she came onto me once, but I said I only wanted a professional relationship. She must have sent all those texts to a friend to try to get revenge on me, because that's not my number." Also, if you get a chance to go through your wife's phone, preemptively block the side chick's number in case she ever does try to tell your wife. You can never be 100% certain that shit won't hit the fan, but you can greatly reduce the risk by not being a moron. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 8:48 PM Author: Raul Mondesi circa 1998 zurich is 100% right and knows his shit in this domain. OP you need to Google "affair bubble" and read up on it. If you're so inclined then search some books on the matter and you're gonna be shocked that these jewish psychologists are describing all your exact emotions you thought were so special. There is nothing unique or special about you or her or what you have together. You gotta take zurich's advice to wind this thing down. Failing that you should enter rehab for alcoholism as a pretext. Any career setback will be minor compared to what's coming for you if you don't stop this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49399325) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 8:49 PM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49399326) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:04 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) one thing to remember is that the "new" feeling, excitement, etc. always fades. it feels like it never will, but it will.
very hard to do, but he needs to try very hard to look at his situation dispassionately and act accordingly. it's unlikely that he will because the siren song of poon is loud indeed. for me, it was the dopamine rush of having a beautiful woman lusting after me. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:05 PM Author: Raul Mondesi circa 1998 you're one of the wisest poasters we have (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49399378) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:12 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) i mean on bullshit like this, i'm likely the foremost expert, unfortunately. ty. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49399398) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:11 PM Author: jag my work wife affair is ending in divorce. you could have perfect opsec but a birdbrain never will. and a lot of people will get hurt in the end. i'm not saying don't do this, but the way you're going about it is certain to meet the same fate |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:14 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) he also knows how things worked out for me - i got locked up for punching my mistress in her face, and another time the cops carted me off to teh loony bin after i cut myself (and, lmao, i was shoving her face into the litterbox and telling her to eat cat shit. sorry, but that is funny).
my life unraveled. i defied the odds and got my life back together, but that's obviously unlikely.
then there's your situation. billy buttfucker. many such cases here.
i fear he will go ahead with this anyway. |
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Date: November 5th, 2025 12:55 PM Author: Rage Problems Last night she went out with her colleagues to celebrate a deal. Didn’t expect to talk to her. I fell asleep but randomly woke up at 2am. She had messaged two minutes before about a work topic. We started chatting, she said shes been missing me and we haven’t talked for a while. I’m like we just talked for hours the night before last. “Oh really, feels longer.” I said we have problem. She said yup. I said what are we going to do about it? She said “I tried to type I don’t know but it auto corrected to “I stole you.”” Then she said I don’t know. I laughed. She was clearly drunk. I was in a weird mood so said something like if we keep going like this someone is going to find out. There was no answer. I tried to go to sleep but thought maybe her husband had found out or something, tired as fuck today. I mean his drunk as fuck wife is texting at 4am, somewhat suspicious. But she messaged at like 8am that she was glad the conversation did not continue without her, haha. We had a call later, she said she was hungover AF. But was cheerful, very engaged, mentioned the night. It’s bleeding over into work. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49404094) |
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Date: November 5th, 2025 12:59 PM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy Have you considered finding a covert way to meet up with her for sex as soon as possible? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49404116) |
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Date: November 5th, 2025 1:05 PM Author: Rage Problems We live too far away. There’s no real excuse to do this for months. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49404144) |
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Date: November 5th, 2025 1:08 PM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy When she said I stole you I think she wanted you to say I stole you back. Email me. I can pass you incredible lines to wind her up. I am 180 at love. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49404159) |
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Date: November 6th, 2025 12:41 AM Author: Juan Eighty she was 100% just drunk (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49406243) |
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Date: November 6th, 2025 12:47 AM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy Perfect opportunity to lay it on thick (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49406252) |
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Date: November 5th, 2025 9:29 PM Author: Amateur Millennial Butt Porn Find God (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49405724) |
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Date: November 6th, 2025 12:58 AM Author: Charlie Kirk Did Nothing Wrong (TDNW) when are you guys going to get sick of this telenovella writer stringing you along? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49406269) |
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Date: November 6th, 2025 1:02 AM Author: Raul Mondesi circa 1998 yeah good point this sucks let's get a million more vids of randos getting droned to death overseas (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49406270) |
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Date: November 6th, 2025 1:05 AM Author: Charlie Kirk Did Nothing Wrong (TDNW) russian invaders aren’t “randos”
they get what they deserve |
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Date: November 6th, 2025 5:51 AM Author: Long TERF War for PeterBoi Poon ( ) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49406450) |
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Date: November 6th, 2025 1:34 AM Author: WWED: What Would Emilio Do? (gunneratttt) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49406302) |
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Date: November 6th, 2025 1:54 AM Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,...,:,...:..:.,:.::,. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49406323) |
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Date: November 6th, 2025 5:50 AM Author: WordcelWorth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49406448) |
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Date: November 6th, 2025 6:29 AM Author: chad gundam (🧐) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49406461) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 9:42 AM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49412064) |
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Date: November 6th, 2025 3:29 PM Author: Rage Problems Things continue to progress. We text first thing and talk until late. She joked last night that we will get bored soon and it will fade out. I said not sure, but yeah maybe tomorrow. Today, I said well if we get bored there’s always sexting. She said that gives me serious anxiety vibes. I said no worries won’t mention again. She said please if I try you have to stop me. I said so I’m the one responsible. She said “always.” I said you have an accountability problem. She said yes, none of the risk and all of the pleasure.
Later, we were on a call with another exec. The guy is embarrassingly awkward. We couldn’t help but texting during it. I had to laugh so hard I went off camera. He kept mentioning dates we could do these and coordinate. Not sure how this guy can talk for an hour without saying anything. I went back on camera and I’m like but if he fucking starts droning on again about dates I’m going off camera. Literally immediately starred to. I shut it down and I see her just blushing hard, lighting up on camera, hand over face trying not to laugh.
Fuck |
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Date: November 6th, 2025 3:34 PM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy what's her age and what does she look like
give us something for the fans please |
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Date: November 6th, 2025 4:56 PM Author: Rage Problems She’s 32 I’m 43. She’s blonde and thin, very good looking (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49408096) |
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Date: November 6th, 2025 4:58 PM Author: Goy 2: Hypergoy Hot af (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49408098) |
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Date: November 6th, 2025 3:47 PM Author: You've been an absolute disaster 180 story (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49407903) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 8:03 AM Author: Rage Problems I was pissed about something after work last night. I went to a bar and was chatting with her. Wife wanted to get dinner. She told me to text her after dinner. Wife looked at my phone during dinner and I was sweating bullets that she might text. Dinner wrapped up around 10pm and I told my wife I was going for a walk to get some drinks. I got caught up chatting with coworker and just went to a bar instead. Ended up being out until 3am, had to plug my phone in at the bar to keep chatting. Wife blew up my phone late saying I’m a huge alcoholic and how I’m not supportive and just a huge rant. She’s pissed today.
Coworker said her husband also has asked her if she needs to consider whether she has a drinking problem because she keeps staying up alone late drinking and talking to me.
Otherwise, she has a friend who claims to be psychic. She sent her a bunch of pictures on my team. She said the feedback for me was not positive but didn’t say much about it. At the end of the night she screenshotted the message and it was her friend saying “Cheater”.
I probably need to cool this down soon before it blows up. Someone at work will notice our vibes even if it isn’t our partners, who for now both just think we’re degenerate alcoholics or something |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 8:05 AM Author: WordcelWorth This flame sucked hard until the psychic angle (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49411976) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 8:49 AM Author: Rage Problems She also said I need to be worried about leaving her alone at an upcoming conference with a bunch of dudes. I told her she’s a little slut. Turned her on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49412017) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 1:30 PM Author: WordcelWorth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49412603) |
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Date: November 9th, 2025 10:24 AM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) having been involved in a number of incidents like this irl, i am calling this as NOTFLAME. this situation rings 100% true.
op, you are headed toward disaster. you really need to pause and ask yourself whether losing your wife/family is worth whatever happens here. if it wouldn't be, do whatever you need to do to knock this shit off. when i got caught, my marriage was so far gone i didn't care - maybe that's you. if it isn't, stop this now. (and as you know, despite my feelings at the time, i still wound up getting my wife back when i straightened out my head, but that's another story). |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 9:22 AM Author: dirigible behemothaur told you you’d be nervous when your wife handles your phone. you need better opsec. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49412038) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 6:23 PM Author: .,.,,...,...,..,....,...,...,... JFC you are still texting her via your standard text messages on your phone? Are you a fucking moron who wants to get caught? Once again, bare minimum, switch to Google Voice (or some other texting app) and hide/passcode lock the app on your phone. Better yet, get a burner phone for cheating. You can free service via Helium Mobile if you text mainly (or exclusively) via WiFi. Are you honestly going to risk losing half your assets because you are too fucking cheap to buy a burner phone? If you are going to cheat, use at least some basic opsec. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49413135) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 9:33 AM Author: Amateur Millennial Butt Porn This thread is getting super gay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49412049) |
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Date: November 8th, 2025 9:49 AM Author: theroyalserf Can I fuck her on your behalf? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49412076) |
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Date: November 9th, 2025 11:40 AM Author: Rage Problems We texted again last night until 4am. She said it made her scared she is missing me on a Saturday. She is extremely attached I can tell. Today I said “I want you” and she responded that “at this point it’s gone beyond wanting, it’s needing.” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49414194) |
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Date: November 9th, 2025 11:42 AM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) Simultaneously 180 and 120. I know this feeling. At this point, this can’t end well. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49414195) |
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Date: November 9th, 2025 11:44 AM Author: Rage Problems You’re probably right. Sigh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49414199) |
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Date: November 9th, 2025 12:05 PM Author: WordcelWorth It's nice to know that otherwise quite smart Professional adults would be seduced And let psychosis fester so unforced |
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Date: November 9th, 2025 12:02 PM Author: WordcelWorth A stereographic type projection maps The origin to one or both extremes |
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Date: November 9th, 2025 12:28 PM Author: .,.,,...,...,..,....,...,...,... Dude, if you want to blow up your marriage for this chick, just get a fucking divorce and start dating her. Because when you are texting this chick using your normal texting app and then letting your wife see your phone, you are either mind-blowingly stupid or you want to get caught. And if it's the latter, I can almost guarantee that divorce court will go better for you if you file for divorce preemptively rather than wait for her to file because you got caught cheating. In my state, alimony is mandatory if the higher-earning spouse gets caught cheating. Even if your state doesn't have a comparable law on the books, most judges are not going to look favorably on a cheating piece of shit that was too insensitive (or dumb) to download Google Voice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2]#49414253) |