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How do you feel about people who are "in love"

I believe in marriage. I believe in duty to your wife and fa...
beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria
  12/15/25
do you have special glass that allow you to see love
peach pistol
  12/15/25
PDAs.
beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria
  12/15/25
that stuff is kind of gay past maybe college but i dont real...
peach pistol
  12/15/25
A guy caressing a cat on his belly doesn’t prove anyth...
beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria
  12/15/25
why do you think it's an "illusion" you can say...
dashing principal's office
  12/15/25
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beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria
  12/15/25
You’re arguing against something I’m not saying....
beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria
  12/15/25
you're way too unfocused with whatever it is that you're try...
dashing principal's office
  12/15/25
That’s a semantics strawman. I’m not disputin...
beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria
  12/15/25
you're fucking up your prompting and so the LLM's outputs ar...
dashing principal's office
  12/15/25
you argued semantics bub... nice try though
beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria
  12/15/25
those are the same phenomenon in the exact same way that...
disgusting roommate set
  12/16/25
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180 hunting ground hospital
  12/15/25
(Geoff Tate)
Haunting flirting plaza ape
  12/15/25
idk man how do you feel about retarded cannibal corpse peopl...
brindle bearded candlestick maker home
  12/15/25
its like watching a speeding train approach a damaged bridge
exhilarant meetinghouse fanboi
  12/15/25
surprised you can type and gnaw on a femur at the same time
brindle bearded candlestick maker home
  12/15/25
Dont get me wrong. When I see someone in love with their flu...
exhilarant meetinghouse fanboi
  12/15/25
^ *guy who gets it*
beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria
  12/15/25
you may be conflating romantic love for infatuation or lust
brindle bearded candlestick maker home
  12/15/25
BEEP BEEP BEEP
Pearly Range Indirect Expression
  12/15/25
you're a clear-eyed, adult man. not your first rodeo. you'...
saffron sound barrier library
  12/15/25


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Date: December 15th, 2025 7:14 PM
Author: beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria

I believe in marriage. I believe in duty to your wife and family. I believe in physical attraction. I believe in interdependency.

But I don't believe in love. The kind that you hear from musicians and you see in Disney movies. When you see two people who look so happy and you can tell they, in that moment, mistake what they have as that illusion, how do you feel?

I used to feel disdain and a weird hint of envy and pity. Disdain for the trap that this illusion represents. Envy for the bliss they currently have in their ignorance about how temporary and conditional their "love" is. Pity for how likely they will be eventually disappointed. Now, when I see it, it's more just "oh that's cute" like how an adult looks feels when they see kids wearing costumes to get candy on Halloween.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512256)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 7:24 PM
Author: peach pistol

do you have special glass that allow you to see love

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512287)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:09 PM
Author: beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria

PDAs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512403)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:13 PM
Author: peach pistol

that stuff is kind of gay past maybe college but i dont really feel any emotion other than good for them.

how do you feel about these two

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d310qj8jXJE



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512417)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:18 PM
Author: beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria

A guy caressing a cat on his belly doesn’t prove anything beyond a guy enjoying the moment. It shows affection, not permanence or insight into what they think love is. What does on mentally is very different than when most people are publicly lovey-dovey with the dopey eyes and performative affection. the odds are high they believe the fairytale while they’re in it.

That’s my point. Behavior =/= truth about meaning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512436)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 7:29 PM
Author: dashing principal's office

why do you think it's an "illusion"

you can say that all human subjective experiences are "illusions" because they're created by our brains. but it's not a meaningful statement

romantic love is definitely real

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512299)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:10 PM
Author: beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:16 PM
Author: beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria

You’re arguing against something I’m not saying. I’m not denying that people feel romantic love. I’m denying the fairytale people attach to it, that it’s permanent, unconditional, or a foundation that can sustain a marriage on its own.

The feeling is real. The story layered on top of it is the illusion. That’s why it predictably dies out and has to be replaced by duty, commitment, and interdependence if things are going to last.

So, when I see that early glow, I don’t dismiss it. I just don’t mistake it for something timeless.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512428)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:26 PM
Author: dashing principal's office

you're way too unfocused with whatever it is that you're trying to say

yeah obviously there are limitations and boundaries on being in love. it's not a permanent state. no one believes that

the only reason why people say they're "in love" with their high school girlfriend and "in love" with their wife of 40 years is because the english language doesn't have separate terms for those two separate phenomena

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512464)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:35 PM
Author: beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria

That’s a semantics strawman.

I’m not disputing vocabulary or claiming anyone thinks the feeling lasts forever. I’m pointing out that people treat the feeling as decisive while it lasts—they let intensity do work it shouldn’t. That’s the illusion.

Arguing about how English labels different states doesn’t touch on what I'm saying. It just explains why people keep confusing a temporary feeling with something authoritative.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512481)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:37 PM
Author: dashing principal's office

you're fucking up your prompting and so the LLM's outputs aren't responsive to my posts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512485)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:44 PM
Author: beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria

you argued semantics bub... nice try though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512497)



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Date: December 16th, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: disgusting roommate set

those are the same phenomenon

in the exact same way that the 17 year old and the 44 year old are the "same person"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49514377)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 9:43 PM
Author: 180 hunting ground hospital



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Date: December 15th, 2025 7:42 PM
Author: Haunting flirting plaza ape

(Geoff Tate)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512324)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:12 PM
Author: brindle bearded candlestick maker home

idk man how do you feel about retarded cannibal corpse people shuffling around and dragging others into the grey poo-realm well after they sold their souls off

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512413)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:19 PM
Author: exhilarant meetinghouse fanboi

its like watching a speeding train approach a damaged bridge

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512438)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:23 PM
Author: brindle bearded candlestick maker home

surprised you can type and gnaw on a femur at the same time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512455)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:27 PM
Author: exhilarant meetinghouse fanboi

Dont get me wrong. When I see someone in love with their fluffy cat, or a happy golden, it makes me believe in God, and Heaven, and that we will see all our passed relatives one day in a beautiful garden with harp music and hummingbirds and flowing streams and blue skies. When I see two people in love I think 'train'

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512468)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:36 PM
Author: beta dark mental disorder school cafeteria

^ *guy who gets it*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512482)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 9:45 PM
Author: brindle bearded candlestick maker home

you may be conflating romantic love for infatuation or lust

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512654)



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Date: December 15th, 2025 8:46 PM
Author: Pearly Range Indirect Expression

BEEP BEEP BEEP

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Date: December 15th, 2025 9:50 PM
Author: saffron sound barrier library

you're a clear-eyed, adult man. not your first rodeo. you've seen some shit. would your wife go ballistic if you told her this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5810731&forum_id=2Ã#49512660)