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"Dread game" = only way to avoid sexless marriage?

Can't find the study now but I remember reading that the mor...
Bateful Dilemma Laser Beams
  10/07/14
truth. kinda works the other way too.
magenta judgmental indian lodge dragon
  10/07/14
what do you mean? A desirable woman is just a physically att...
Bateful Dilemma Laser Beams
  10/07/14
you miss the point. its that you don't think they are desira...
magenta judgmental indian lodge dragon
  10/07/14
that's not nearly as true for why men are attracted to women...
Bateful Dilemma Laser Beams
  10/07/14
perhaps not initially but once you are in a LTR, you'll see....
magenta judgmental indian lodge dragon
  10/07/14
women want desirable guys, news at 11
Appetizing Bearded Parlour
  10/07/14
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Frum mediation
  10/07/14
the point is that the desirability of the guy might not have...
Bateful Dilemma Laser Beams
  10/07/14
My wife and I schedule weekly "Dread Wednesday" di...
Curious shrine
  10/07/14
My wife and I do "Scholarship Saturdays"
Deranged excitant senate water buffalo
  10/07/14
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Jobs
  02/24/26
DV pumo? My point was that women want men who are desire...
Appetizing Bearded Parlour
  10/07/14
not dvpumo. I understand that women find desired men more at...
Bateful Dilemma Laser Beams
  10/07/14
I think it has to do with something evopsych people call &qu...
umber kitty stage
  10/07/14
I'm skeptical of evopsych shit, but it seems plausible wh...
Bateful Dilemma Laser Beams
  10/07/14
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Citrine nighttime kitchen
  10/07/14
house of "horror"
Slap-happy Insanely Creepy Haunted Graveyard
  10/07/14
RAN HERE TO POAST THIS.
high-end erotic factory reset button
  10/07/14
query why one would wish to avoid a sexless marriage
norwood ultra
  02/24/26
Sounds right from my personal experiences and anecdotal obse...
.,.,.,.,,,,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,.,.,,
  02/24/26


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Date: October 7th, 2014 1:52 PM
Author: Bateful Dilemma Laser Beams

Can't find the study now but I remember reading that the more a woman respected your ability to cheat on her with other women, the less likely she is to shut you out of sex in a LTR.

so basically you constantly need to demonstrate to your bish that you can fuck other women at will, or she'll just stop fucking you.

Fuck this gay earth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26472916)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:00 PM
Author: magenta judgmental indian lodge dragon

truth. kinda works the other way too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26472955)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:42 PM
Author: Bateful Dilemma Laser Beams

what do you mean? A desirable woman is just a physically attractive one, so that wouldn't be surprising

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26473187)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:01 PM
Author: magenta judgmental indian lodge dragon

you miss the point. its that you don't think they are desirable until you see someone else (or at least the threat of someone else) go after them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26473277)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:18 PM
Author: Bateful Dilemma Laser Beams

that's not nearly as true for why men are attracted to women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26473391)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:24 PM
Author: magenta judgmental indian lodge dragon

perhaps not initially but once you are in a LTR, you'll see. Nothing gets me hotter than an intense attach of jealousy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26473424)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:00 PM
Author: Appetizing Bearded Parlour

women want desirable guys, news at 11

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26472953)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:44 PM
Author: Frum mediation



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:47 PM
Author: Bateful Dilemma Laser Beams

the point is that the desirability of the guy might not have gone down in the slightest, but their sexual attraction will go down unless they feel the competition

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26473205)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:48 PM
Author: Curious shrine

My wife and I schedule weekly "Dread Wednesday" dinners with other couples

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26473207)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:00 PM
Author: Deranged excitant senate water buffalo

My wife and I do "Scholarship Saturdays"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26473274)



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Date: February 24th, 2026 3:58 PM
Author: Jobs



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#49692197)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:51 PM
Author: Appetizing Bearded Parlour

DV pumo?

My point was that women want men who are desired by other women (aka desirable men). How will they know whether a man is desirable unless they are aware of the competition?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26473224)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:56 PM
Author: Bateful Dilemma Laser Beams

not dvpumo. I understand that women find desired men more attractive, but that's not the entirety of their attraction. it's surprising that that factor is what seems to drive the drop in sex drive though

as to the second point, because there are many factors that determine whether men are attractive that don't need external validation. men obviously don't need to be told that other men think their wives are hot, unless they're intellectuals

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26473250)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:05 PM
Author: umber kitty stage

I think it has to do with something evopsych people call "mate-guarding" behavior. women have to keep their man satisfied so he doesn't stray -- if there's no risk of it happening she doesn't have to do that.

I think your thread title is overblown though -- there are other ways of preventing women from losing interest in sex in a relationship, this is just one of them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26473303)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:14 PM
Author: Bateful Dilemma Laser Beams

I'm skeptical of evopsych shit, but it seems plausible

what are the other ways?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26473359)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:56 PM
Author: Citrine nighttime kitchen



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:14 PM
Author: Slap-happy Insanely Creepy Haunted Graveyard

house of "horror"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26473020)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:01 PM
Author: high-end erotic factory reset button

RAN HERE TO POAST THIS.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#26473276)



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Date: February 24th, 2026 4:00 PM
Author: norwood ultra

query why one would wish to avoid a sexless marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#49692203)



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Date: February 24th, 2026 4:19 PM
Author: .,.,.,.,,,,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,.,.,,


Sounds right from my personal experiences and anecdotal observations.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Ã#49692243)