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Normal to prefer masturbation over sex with wife?

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deranged clear library
  05/20/22
in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm...
Zombie-like angry associate plaza
  05/20/22
Jfc
Lascivious keepsake machete
  05/21/22
I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some we...
Bull headed circlehead juggernaut
  05/20/22
That’s pretty mainstream now
Zombie-like angry associate plaza
  05/20/22
other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the sa...
deranged clear library
  05/20/22
Link?
Lascivious keepsake machete
  05/21/22
Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of h...
aromatic love of her life
  05/20/22
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Razzmatazz sinister field potus
  05/20/22
no
Laughsome Milk
  05/20/22
i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.
electric address knife
  05/20/22
Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife...
deranged clear library
  05/20/22
i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts tha...
electric address knife
  05/20/22
so its more on your end and she does it as a response to you...
deranged clear library
  05/20/22
yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.
electric address knife
  05/20/22
is she overweight? age?
Laughsome Milk
  05/20/22
nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met ...
electric address knife
  05/20/22
i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 ye...
Laughsome Milk
  05/20/22
good for you two.
electric address knife
  05/20/22
Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a wee...
Laughsome Milk
  05/20/22
2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons...
underhanded striped hyena
  05/20/22
Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractivenes...
deranged clear library
  05/20/22
yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fu...
electric address knife
  05/20/22
Life is miserable isn’t it
Vermilion nibblets
  05/20/22
for the most part.
electric address knife
  05/20/22
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Monikor
  08/26/26
COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly...
burgundy cowardly alpha
  05/20/22
my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months duri...
Laughsome Milk
  05/20/22
*2 years of marriage
Obsidian Motley Black Woman Jap
  05/21/22
rare honesty
hateful vengeful brunch laser beams
  05/20/22
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heady ultramarine school cafeteria messiness
  05/20/22
you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metavers...
Talented mexican
  05/20/22
oh ok *gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped...
deranged clear library
  05/20/22
(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never to...
Talented mexican
  05/20/22
...
hateful vengeful brunch laser beams
  05/20/22
Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take...
Very tactful gas station idiot
  05/20/22
not all relationships degrade into transactionalism
Talented mexican
  05/20/22
Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker
Very tactful gas station idiot
  05/20/22
I've been married well over a decade
Talented mexican
  05/20/22
And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue...
Very tactful gas station idiot
  05/20/22
frequently & yes. presumably you were in a relationsh...
Talented mexican
  05/20/22
xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for res...
curious free-loading garrison wrinkle
  05/20/22
Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’r...
Very tactful gas station idiot
  05/20/22
why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that wou...
Talented mexican
  05/20/22
lol cmon man
deranged clear library
  05/20/22
You’re pumo scum you tell me
Very tactful gas station idiot
  05/20/22
pumanimals are not pumos, come on
Talented mexican
  05/20/22
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hairless hall filthpig
  05/20/22
So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from....
hairless hall filthpig
  05/20/22
well this response for one
hateful vengeful brunch laser beams
  05/20/22
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deranged clear library
  05/20/22
...
Very tactful gas station idiot
  05/20/22
I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on...
Talented mexican
  05/20/22
who cares about your "history," its about the shit...
deranged clear library
  05/20/22
what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? ...
Laughsome Milk
  05/20/22
OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your...
deranged clear library
  05/20/22
idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from exper...
Laughsome Milk
  05/20/22
would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation? ...
deranged clear library
  05/20/22
yes, i think it's normal. by 'possible' i mean that i pr...
Laughsome Milk
  05/20/22
fair
deranged clear library
  05/20/22
if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel ...
Talented mexican
  05/20/22
When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minu...
hairless hall filthpig
  05/20/22
I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex wi...
Dashing home
  05/21/22
you sound like a bitch boi
Offensive exhilarant hell marketing idea
  05/21/22
100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists ...
khaki thriller locus
  05/21/22
...
deranged clear library
  05/21/22
and cheat when I can tp
lfo
  08/26/26
I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like ...
coalition of rabbis
  08/26/26


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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:44 AM
Author: deranged clear library



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543233)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: Zombie-like angry associate plaza

in my older age I can’t stand the feeling of an orgasm. too intense. It just irritates me and puts me in a shitty mood

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543235)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:33 PM
Author: Lascivious keepsake machete

Jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44551901)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:45 AM
Author: Bull headed circlehead juggernaut

I've gone thru periods like this but only v there is some weird fetish that appealed to me. For a few weeks, I was really into chicks high on meth having sex. I know, sick fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:46 AM
Author: Zombie-like angry associate plaza

That’s pretty mainstream now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543242)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:53 AM
Author: deranged clear library

other than those periods, youre cool with just fuckin the same woman over the visual stimulation of a wider range of chicks?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543679)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:34 PM
Author: Lascivious keepsake machete

Link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44551907)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 8:48 AM
Author: aromatic love of her life

Describe your wife’s appearance and the tightness of her puss

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543244)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: Razzmatazz sinister field potus



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543693)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 10:55 AM
Author: Laughsome Milk

no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543698)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:02 AM
Author: electric address knife

i'm like this, my wife too. it's just so much easier.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543739)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:04 AM
Author: deranged clear library

Its just understood and theres no resentment? What your wife fantasize about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543750)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:06 AM
Author: electric address knife

i think she wishes we had sex more often but she accepts that it's a normal part of marriage. none of her friends fuck their spouses anymore either. and even when we do it's kind of comical, like, what the fuck are we doing we feel like siblings?

i don't know what she fantasizes about but she watches porn.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543759)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:10 AM
Author: deranged clear library

so its more on your end and she does it as a response to your lack of drive?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543778)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: electric address knife

yeah that's fair. i have no interest in fucking her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543844)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:32 AM
Author: Laughsome Milk

is she overweight? age?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543883)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:35 AM
Author: electric address knife

nah she's still pretty thin, not super fit like when we met but not fat at all. we've just fought so much over the years that i don't have any desire for her anymore. she feels more like a roommate that i have to constantly negotiate with. also maybe some of it is due to COVID and spending literally 24/7 together for 2 years. we're 40.

but again, it's totally normal not to fuck anymore after 10 years of marriage. hell most people stop after 3 or 4 years. it just gets old man and familiarity breeds contempt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543899)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: Laughsome Milk

i've been with my wife for 12 years, married to her for 7 years and i still want to fuck her daily. in practice we only manage 2-4 times per week, largely bc her sex drive is less than mine and life isn't easy with two kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543956)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: electric address knife

good for you two.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544022)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:04 PM
Author: Laughsome Milk

Bad for me, bc I get turned down for sex a couple days a week

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544124)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:09 PM
Author: underhanded striped hyena

2-4x is really not bad though IMO. Look around on XO - tons of these guys' wives won't fuck them at all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44545213)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:43 AM
Author: deranged clear library

Yeah i dont think its about objective physical attractiveness. Just arguing and hashing out all the real life shit doesn't do anything to increase sexual desire compared to some hot chick whose psychological hangups you know nothing about lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543961)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:48 AM
Author: electric address knife

yeah i mean if some hot new slut came into my life i'd be fucking her several times a day, but eventually we'd get to the same point. it's all so tiresome.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544016)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:54 AM
Author: Vermilion nibblets

Life is miserable isn’t it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544062)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:55 AM
Author: electric address knife

for the most part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544063)



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: Monikor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#50093926)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:17 PM
Author: burgundy cowardly alpha

COVID killed it for sure. You can't be around someone nearly 24/7 and keep a spark going. You just become roommates or siblings. She's been sick this week, so we've started sleeping in different rooms and it's been 180. I feel great when I wake up in the morning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544182)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 3:05 PM
Author: Laughsome Milk

my wife and i both worked from home for about 15 months during COVID. but yeah, we sleep in separate rooms at least 3 or 4 times a month and it helped.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44545191)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:28 PM
Author: Obsidian Motley Black Woman Jap

*2 years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44551859)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: hateful vengeful brunch laser beams

rare honesty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543890)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 1:52 PM
Author: heady ultramarine school cafeteria messiness



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544744)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:14 AM
Author: Talented mexican

you are a slave, a perfect subject for Zuck's "metaverse," a terminal faggot who prefers the simulacrum to the real

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543794)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:22 AM
Author: deranged clear library

oh ok

*gets dick hard to fuck aging woman who just griped about the work entailed in raising 2 kids, bitched about her coworkers, and detailed the intricacies of properly loading the dishwasher*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543836)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Talented mexican

(*gets dick hard for digital image of woman he will never touch tenderly penetrated by two dicks he begins to secretly wish were inside him*)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543848)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:34 AM
Author: hateful vengeful brunch laser beams



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543894)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:24 AM
Author: Very tactful gas station idiot

Women view sex as a “give” and they want to take from you after it

That’s why it’s not worth it half the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543845)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:28 AM
Author: Talented mexican

not all relationships degrade into transactionalism

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543864)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:30 AM
Author: Very tactful gas station idiot

Go get married and report back after a couple years, sucker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543875)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:39 AM
Author: Talented mexican

I've been married well over a decade

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543932)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:40 AM
Author: Very tactful gas station idiot

And how often do you have sex? You’re trying to argue with a straight face she doesn’t use sex to extract resources?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44543938)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:49 AM
Author: Talented mexican

frequently & yes.

presumably you were in a relationship where this *didn't* happen at some point, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544027)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:50 AM
Author: curious free-loading garrison wrinkle

xo posters are betabucks losers that women only fuck for resources.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544035)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:51 AM
Author: Very tactful gas station idiot

Relationships are not the same as marriage & you’re a liar, hth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544042)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:53 AM
Author: Talented mexican

why would I lie to you? what have I ever done on XO that would make me come off as a liar. please tell me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544055)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:57 AM
Author: deranged clear library

lol cmon man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544083)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 11:58 AM
Author: Very tactful gas station idiot

You’re pumo scum you tell me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544088)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Talented mexican

pumanimals are not pumos, come on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544107)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:05 PM
Author: hairless hall filthpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544128)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:18 PM
Author: hairless hall filthpig

So, you need to understand where xo Melvins are comimg from. They don't choose women based on being a good fit. In fact, they think the women who are like them (intelligent and disinterested in getting dolled up) are the bane of this world. So, instead they date whores. Since they never even attempt to have a real relationship, it's transactional. And since they are so repulsive, the women constantly feel like they've been screwed in this deal, and get more bitter and angry and exploitative of their pathetic excuse of a husband.

Don't feel bad that these people can't understand our lives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544916)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:00 PM
Author: hateful vengeful brunch laser beams

well this response for one

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544097)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: deranged clear library



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544103)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:01 PM
Author: Very tactful gas station idiot



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544105)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:03 PM
Author: Talented mexican

I'm genuinely confused, it's not like I have some history on the boart of being a braggart, then I could understand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544120)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:06 PM
Author: deranged clear library

who cares about your "history," its about the shit youre saying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544134)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:09 PM
Author: Laughsome Milk

what did he say, that frequent sex with a wife is possible? depends how you define frequent, but multiple times per week is certainly possible even after years of marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544146)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:15 PM
Author: deranged clear library

OP isnt about whether you can "possibly" fuck your wife a couple times a week

question is about preference

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544174)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:18 PM
Author: Laughsome Milk

idgi. i am in the same boat as pumanimal. i know from experience it's possible to prefer and engage in frequent sex with your wife after years of marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544188)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:20 PM
Author: deranged clear library

would you say its normal to prefer that over masturbation?

dont know where "possible" became the standard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544205)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:23 PM
Author: Laughsome Milk

yes, i think it's normal.

by 'possible' i mean that i prefer sex with my wife over masturbation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544220)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:27 PM
Author: deranged clear library

fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544237)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 12:16 PM
Author: Talented mexican

if you think what I'm saying is so obviously untrue, I feel sorry for you, and will say a prayer for you, pumo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544175)



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Date: May 20th, 2022 2:19 PM
Author: hairless hall filthpig

When i need it to be fast, absolutely. But if i have 30 minutes to spare, i like going to pound town

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44544919)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 4:28 AM
Author: Dashing home

I look forward to masturbating later while I'm having sex with my wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44548580)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 10:00 PM
Author: Offensive exhilarant hell marketing idea

you sound like a bitch boi

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5113178&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#44552039)



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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:41 PM
Author: khaki thriller locus

100% true for me. My wife is old and overweight and insists that I finger her for like an hour before I can go inside. It's just not worth that much work for low-quality sex. I'd rather just quickly jack off before bed and cheat when I can.

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Date: May 21st, 2022 9:55 PM
Author: deranged clear library



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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:52 AM
Author: lfo

and cheat when I can tp

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Date: August 26th, 2026 9:54 AM
Author: coalition of rabbis

I dont even feel like fumming but my body forces me to like eating or breathing

Def don't want sex anymore

Barely can even get hard for wife

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