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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:21 AM Author: cordovan son of senegal boiling water (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745159) |
Date: March 15th, 2026 11:29 AM Author: dark toilet seat Dad left when I was a toddler, Dont see/speak to him at all Mom I send money too but we dont talk much and dont have a meaningful relationship |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:43 AM Author: cordovan son of senegal boiling water sorry friend. what happened with yer mum? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745196) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:54 PM Author: dark toilet seat Nothing, thats the sad part Had a normal childhood, we just don't talk or really see each other Im the only son and I have two sisters who pretty much take up all her time, theyre banshees and constantly cause her aggro with their irl problems and theyre decayign/falling apart in their mid 30s, one has no job and is a tax + other has a shitty job, both unmarried. Mom also is caring for my ailing grandma in her 90s atm overseas so that doesnt help
I just try to support her financially and reduce stress but I am sort of alienated since Ive mainly been surrounded by women mostly my whole life and kinda dont wana deal with the insanity of it
I never call her, I have nothing to talk about/report, its fucked idk. She always says she wants me to call her but its like wtf would I say even. My mom is still young (50s) Just dont really know how to have a relationship with my mom without just shitting out some kids and then making it about my new family?
Some guys call their mom on facetime and shit and laugh like hyenas and idk how they manage it, I just dotn have that level with her, everything is just so high stakes all the time , hard to explain, we never have normal convos about day to day stuff,.
Its either KIDS or MARRIAGE? or MONEY or ITS THE END OF THE WORLD RIGHT NOW WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO ABOUT IT. Idk
No dad doesnt help me navigating all this shit either, going NC just seems easier, fucked up |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:42 AM Author: Wonderful coral public bath rofl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745190) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:43 AM Author: seedy sienna jew brunch tommy what exactly is your relationship with your parents? are they alive? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745194) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:51 PM Author: Wonderful coral public bath i dont even know if they are alive and i dont care. i wish they had died 40 years ago (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745508) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:56 PM Author: seedy sienna jew brunch how is this even possible. didnt you have some umc upbringing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745528) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:14 PM Author: Wonderful coral public bath yes but my parents were indian shit, i shld have realized sooner how furked up indians are. looking back jfc what shitty ppl, lack any empathy at all
i know one is det, hoaping the other is too, furk them |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:35 PM Author: seedy sienna jew brunch what specifically did they do to piss you off so much. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745679) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:36 PM Author: dark toilet seat they made him indian (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745681) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 3:07 PM Author: Wonderful coral public bath (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745777) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 3:08 PM Author: Wonderful coral public bath just constant negativity and shit, complete assholes. just imagine the most arrogant whiny manipulative pajeet with no ability to care abt anyone or anything (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745779) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:50 AM Author: self-centered autistic kitchen partner i have a great relationship with your mom
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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:54 AM Author: heady sound barrier friendly grandma i had a brief relationship with your dad at the bathhouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745217) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 11:57 AM Author: self-centered autistic kitchen partner he did tell me about meeting a lawyer with a micropenis recently
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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:29 PM Author: electric white location Nope (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745288) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:33 PM Author: cordovan son of senegal boiling water sorry brother. care to expound? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745296) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:42 PM Author: electric white location Dad is a raging narcissist.
Should have gone no-contact 20 years ago. Not saying permanent estrangement would necessarily have been the ticket. Rather, some periods of NC - with the obvious implication that it could become permanent - would have done both of us a lot of good. |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 12:38 PM Author: federal stage Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745310) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:57 PM Author: cordovan son of senegal boiling water :/ expound brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745532) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 1:59 PM Author: Odious internet-worthy main people what does this actually mean for an adult
I could just not call them for years and they'd never call me imo and also idc
If I call them or text them they pick up
so basically it's like any relationship where the person "wants you to know" that they dgaf |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:02 PM Author: dark toilet seat cr this is insane (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745552) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:04 PM Author: cordovan son of senegal boiling water eye of the beholder i guess. but i was going for "not a decidedly antagonistic relationship." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745564) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:08 PM Author: federal stage Why would you ever contact them (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745571) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:11 PM Author: Odious internet-worthy main people because they'll literally be dead and I don't want to soil myself by making their extreme selfishness codified and ratified by forgetting and not remembering that cowgod ever existed just bc they would rather sit in a chair and stare at a wall than deal with my Loser shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745582) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:13 PM Author: federal stage Seems kinda retarded (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745593) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:34 PM Author: Odious internet-worthy main people you don't know me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745673) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:50 PM Author: federal stage I know you can make it on your own without pathetically calling patents that don't like you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745721) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:55 PM Author: Odious internet-worthy main people azns do it and they've had the same imperial succession for 2700 years (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745736) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 4:20 PM Author: dark toilet seat I dont get this
Youre calling them so that they cant "get away" with forgetting about you ? or youre "saving" them from being total assholes by giving them the opportunity to not be assholes by calling them? |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 4:21 PM Author: Odious internet-worthy main people yes I am honoring them per the bible it doesn't take effort. then when i leave they're like "if only he knew how much he sucked" and idc. sephardim follow old testament. i also believe in eye for an eye but none of the jesus shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745968) |
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Date: March 16th, 2026 12:59 AM Author: aromatic forum this is actually tcr
Goyim think honoring parents is having to agree with them and having some emotional dynamic, the hebrew in the original translation is basically helping to serve them as they need and almost like a ketubah vow of food, shelter and clothing at all times
its helped my relationship with them not looking for some disney connection that wil never happen, just check in to make sure theyre good and see them as often as both parties can deal |
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Date: March 16th, 2026 10:43 AM Author: Odious internet-worthy main people Yeah Im Sephardic so this tracks. And the Revenge you get on the “Toxic Narcissist” idiots who had sex aka parents who did a bad job means nothing when they’re Corpses.
Imagine if King David was like “my dad was a Narcissist.” He wouldn’t even be in the bible lol |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:00 PM Author: Flesh kitty cat No (dad), cordial but not close (mom) — but tons of cultural baggage to be there, provide, etc. Can’t go full estrangement like whitey (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745544) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:02 PM Author: Odious internet-worthy main people why no for dad was he like 'this kid is a Joke i dgaf' (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745553) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:10 PM Author: Flesh kitty cat I used to internalize it but have received enough clarity with age to know that he was and is completely incapable and unprepared for being a father.
Having a shit dad is disorienting and often leaves you feeling rudderless, but imho it has made me more self-dependent and resolute than most. But I really did a lot of work on myself to get here. |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:11 PM Author: Odious internet-worthy main people did you go to Therapy haha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745588) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:13 PM Author: Flesh kitty cat Not formally. I kinda self-treated though. Does that make it less valid, idc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745591) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:34 PM Author: Odious internet-worthy main people you sound Liberal af either way (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745671) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:15 PM Author: Wonderful coral public bath his dad died in the 9/11 attacks (he was one of the hijackers) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745598) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:03 PM Author: dark toilet seat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745557) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:06 PM Author: cordovan son of senegal boiling water you mean you provide for mom? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745570) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:11 PM Author: Flesh kitty cat They are still married. I Venmo him a certain amount every month. Have bought him cars, etc. I do it thinking it will benefit my mom as well. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745586) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 2:54 PM Author: Nubile Turquoise Field Mother they live literally next door and we're constantly wavering between fighting or getting along great. l'chaim! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49745733) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 4:59 PM Author: Fantasy-prone parlour cumskin Dad died a while ago and haven't spoken to mom in many years, same with my brother. Wouldn't say it's ideal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49746077) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 5:00 PM Author: dark toilet seat Why havent you spoken (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49746079) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 5:34 PM Author: Fantasy-prone parlour cumskin my mom just blames everything on others, nothing ever positive from her, like ever. had some tough shit happening in my life and she didn't bother to reach out. brother moved to an emerging market years ago and became unbearable, basically insulting everyone in the family to give him money for some start up ideas, while he never paid anything back and would buy and lose/break shit like expensive cameras, watches, etc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49746145) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 5:03 PM Author: Silver locus mom died years ago pretty good relationship with my dad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49746082) |
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Date: March 15th, 2026 6:06 PM Author: Dashing Gaping Yes every holiday our huge family gathers at their big rambling shabby chic lake house and we wear chunky sweaters and play games, cook huge meals, playfully razz each other, etc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49746221) |
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Date: March 16th, 2026 12:38 AM Author: Razzle-dazzle nursing home tattoo Closer to my dad than ever. We talk on the phone at least once a week and text now. It's been 18000000 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5845848&forum_id=2ГѓЖ’#49747162) |
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