Date: November 3rd, 2026 8:00 AM Author: Oh, you travel? ()
Is this a real issue in the land of Domestic Bliss. I see them actually itemizing all of their chores and arguing over where it splits evenly and I’m like lol wtf? Btw women lose Attraction if you indulge them in these things.
Date: November 3rd, 2026 12:35 PM Author: Rickys' Cat
afaik, many marrieds act as a 'team', and it seems to work out for them. Wife does chores that shes ok with and husband does ones he feels are T-forward like mow lawn, take out garbage or clean eaves. That said I have seen variations on this, for example, one guy I know who is a chef at a large hotel did all the kitchen stuff, cooking, dishes etc, and his wife was a botanist and teacher who did all the gardening stuff including mowing lawn and edging the flower beds. By all accounts, they are very happy together. Ive been to there place many times for dinner and they have a beautiful garden, and the dinners are outstanding with excellent wine pairings. Yet, it all seems so wrong.
there's like 10 levels to this. it's not just who does the chores. it's who asks whom. it's whether there's an expectation that one does chore x all the time if they agree to do it once or voluntarily do it once.
as larry david said about cheryl, "we're not partners, we're rivals"