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proposed last night. It went horribly. I should break up, I gues

fml. And because I was stupid and told people I was going...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
tell us what happened
filthy hairraiser useless brakes
  12/25/14
So I waited until after I made him dinner, and we were havin...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
stfu doobs
Exciting hateful area boistinker
  12/25/14
I wish I were flame. This actually happened. And today's ...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
...
Arrogant Black Woman Site
  12/25/14
it isn't
bat-shit-crazy crackhouse
  12/25/14
...
Fiercely-loyal floppy water buffalo
  12/25/14
100% certain
razzle skinny woman love of her life
  12/26/14
Abso-doobsly
chocolate bossy sex offender
  12/26/14
Indoobitably
Chrome fragrant home azn
  12/26/14
wow. i'm sorry. yeah, it sounds like this is over.
bat-shit-crazy crackhouse
  12/25/14
Yeah. The weird part is, I have no idea if we're fucking eng...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
wtf? wanted to keep it? you need to find out ASAP what he...
bat-shit-crazy crackhouse
  12/25/14
yeah, so he kept the ring, and wore it but it turned out to ...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
yea that sounds hard. but what the fuck is he thinking? why ...
bat-shit-crazy crackhouse
  12/25/14
Right? I have no idea what's really going on in his head. I'...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
fuckup how? you shouldn't feel ashamed it's just unfortunate
bat-shit-crazy crackhouse
  12/25/14
If I hadn't of told anyone I wouldn't have to hear the disap...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
maybe. anyway i would worry more about yourself and your sit...
bat-shit-crazy crackhouse
  12/25/14
Yeah. You're right. It's not that I'm worried about how peop...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
why wouldn't i be? i remember how excited you were about thi...
bat-shit-crazy crackhouse
  12/25/14
:-) Thanks. Honestly, I would have preferred he just say &qu...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
He wants to keep fucking her of course.
Concupiscible new version hominid
  12/25/14
Bold guess here: He's Jewish.
Burgundy sneaky criminal preventive strike
  12/25/14
athiest
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
You must ATD immediately. Were you not SURE she would s...
greedy boltzmann
  12/25/14
EVERYBODY miscarries the first time. If you don't know about...
slap-happy excitant yarmulke prole
  12/25/14
link?
irradiated maroon locale windowlicker
  12/25/14
i have four kids by four different women. I know firsthand.
slap-happy excitant yarmulke prole
  12/25/14
Flame Assuming not flame, why the fuck are you, as a fema...
Chrome fragrant home azn
  12/25/14
...
Arrogant Black Woman Site
  12/25/14
i disagree. women always wonder whether the men they're with...
bat-shit-crazy crackhouse
  12/25/14
LOL, no! Guys will be irritated by a woman proposing, unless...
Chrome fragrant home azn
  12/25/14
guess i'm bitchmade but i don't see the issue. it's not like...
bat-shit-crazy crackhouse
  12/25/14
Regardless, if a man wants to marry a woman, he'll propose. ...
Chrome fragrant home azn
  12/25/14
CR If a woman proposed to me... I would say "No"...
greedy boltzmann
  12/25/14
no offense here, but you aren't the kind of guy a girl would...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
Harsh, but fair
greedy boltzmann
  12/25/14
Fuck no. Forcing the issue by proposing is the best way to ...
Concupiscible new version hominid
  12/25/14
OK fine. If a woman just wants confirmation that he has no i...
Chrome fragrant home azn
  12/25/14
That wasn't my situation, but I don't see anything wrong wit...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
Didn't you think that if he wanted and was ready to marry yo...
Chrome fragrant home azn
  12/25/14
I don't regret asking. I'm proud of myself for having the co...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
Can't assume female, can we?
greedy boltzmann
  12/25/14
Strongly disagree - why can't women propose? Women already, ...
Burgundy sneaky criminal preventive strike
  12/25/14
lol
gold shrine mediation
  12/25/14
lol
greedy boltzmann
  12/25/14
stfu Julia
Chrome fragrant home azn
  12/25/14
lol, OP clearly isnt a female. check your cis heteronormativ...
irradiated maroon locale windowlicker
  12/25/14
...
Arrogant Black Woman Site
  12/25/14
I bought a ring for him.
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
...
Arrogant Black Woman Site
  12/25/14
he isn't close to his mother but I asked his identical twin
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
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  12/26/14
lol
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  12/26/14
jumped the shark
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  12/26/14
cr
bat-shit-crazy crackhouse
  12/26/14
You're a woman and you proposed? No wonder it ended in disa...
Concupiscible new version hominid
  12/25/14
We don't have a traditional kind of relationship. That's wha...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
You need to get rid of him because he is not that into you
Lilac insane striped hyena
  12/25/14
I'm realizing this. It's just weird because we have lived to...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
OP is arrow. Obviously. Or doobs pretending to be arrow.
Histrionic institution doctorate
  12/25/14
false. op is female. but it could be flame
bat-shit-crazy crackhouse
  12/25/14
OP is "female" the same way my coffee table is &qu...
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  12/25/14
I'm a female poster
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
You're a pseudorandom sequence of punctuation marks, represe...
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  12/25/14
'She' could be a plucky, clueless Asian female, I'm willing ...
filthy hairraiser useless brakes
  12/25/14
I'm using my actual moniker, just changed to pumo because I'...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
You're an inanimate fucking object
Burgundy sneaky criminal preventive strike
  12/25/14
come on dude, you should know better than this.
House-broken Lodge Place Of Business
  12/25/14
Maybe OP didn't get down on one knee.
greedy boltzmann
  12/25/14
I didn't. I think the one knee thing is ridiculous for eithe...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
This flame is making me delirious!
filthy hairraiser useless brakes
  12/25/14
Your flame makes me smile!
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  12/25/14
My o|||||||o is still in the shop
filthy hairraiser useless brakes
  12/25/14
Thoughts & prayers in this difficult time, brother.
Appetizing regret roast beef
  12/25/14
ty, I pick it up tomorrow
filthy hairraiser useless brakes
  12/25/14
you guessed right
gold shrine mediation
  12/25/14
arrow sure does need to gas himself
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  12/25/14
this is a new low, doobs
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  12/25/14
It's even more depressing when my actual life tragedy is dis...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
...
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  12/26/14
in on doobs
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  12/25/14
you lose.
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
Feel bad for you. Sorry.
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  12/25/14
cr. what an awful xmas. only way to salvage it now is murder...
irradiated maroon locale windowlicker
  12/25/14
When you are called upon to discuss it, you don't say "...
slap-happy excitant yarmulke prole
  12/25/14
Thanks for the advice. I'll use a version of this
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
no. this is face-saving horseshit and will make you feel mor...
bat-shit-crazy crackhouse
  12/25/14
Tso heroic! Besides, he actually didn't say no.
slap-happy excitant yarmulke prole
  12/25/14
I think you can argue that not saying yes in this scenario m...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
Skinny girl is confirmed doobs right
buff university boiling water
  12/25/14
did she finish her cheeseburger?
filthy hairraiser useless brakes
  12/25/14
I outted doobs as a creep a while ago by posting transcripts...
sooty deep toaster
  12/25/14
skinny girl has been on tinychat. she's confirmed not doobs,...
bat-shit-crazy crackhouse
  12/25/14
(doobs)
gold shrine mediation
  12/25/14
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razzle skinny woman love of her life
  12/26/14
(pumette responding to pumette)
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  12/26/14
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  12/30/14
has he had your ass
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  12/25/14
If not flame this is sad but honestly the chances of this tu...
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  12/25/14
sick catty femposter on femposter violence bro
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  12/26/14
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  12/25/14
that's what you get for thinking you could land a chad. Larr...
tantric dashing resort kitty cat
  12/26/14
cr. his blood is on ur hands
bat-shit-crazy crackhouse
  12/26/14
How bad is his credit? That could be the deal breaker here.
Sticky fear-inspiring trump supporter
  12/26/14
Doobs did you imagine a man wearing around an engagement rin...
swashbuckling step-uncle's house halford
  12/26/14
good move not to gloat about successful flame too early. got...
Saffron immigrant
  12/26/14
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grizzly hospital
  12/26/14
isn't he a vegan? oy vey
vermilion sick community account
  12/26/14
wow you have a lot of balls sister. i could never pull somet...
grizzly hospital
  12/26/14
WTF doobs
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  12/26/14
how long have you dated? i would honestly feel weird and ki...
Glittery Organic Girlfriend Tank
  12/26/14
lol yeah maybe
vermilion sick community account
  12/30/14
Wait, so reading through this thread, you are not into tradi...
purple turdskin
  12/26/14
although this thread is flame and also jfc doobs, this does ...
Tripping multi-colored theatre voyeur
  12/26/14
*gives you a flower*
180 brunch
  12/26/14
:( but hey if you need some good rebound sex to cheer...
House-broken Lodge Place Of Business
  12/30/14
totally amazing how everyone on xo doesnt understand basic h...
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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:23 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

fml.

And because I was stupid and told people I was going to do it, I'm going to have to let them know what happened.

Maybe just killself?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996752)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:23 PM
Author: filthy hairraiser useless brakes

tell us what happened

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996754)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:26 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

So I waited until after I made him dinner, and we were having a glass of wine by the little christmas tree.

I told him I had one more gift for him, and went into my propoal.

He replied "What?" about ten times... then goes, "Why me?" then talked about his bad credit for a minute, then goes, "You're so weird".

Then he said, "Well it's not a definite no."

Damn, I really should killself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996765)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:26 PM
Author: Exciting hateful area boistinker

stfu doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996767)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

I wish I were flame.

This actually happened. And today's been an entire day of awkwardness because he still lives here.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996773)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:35 PM
Author: Arrogant Black Woman Site



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996813)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:36 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy crackhouse

it isn't

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996815)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:58 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal floppy water buffalo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996916)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:34 AM
Author: razzle skinny woman love of her life

100% certain

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998911)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:01 AM
Author: chocolate bossy sex offender

Abso-doobsly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999744)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:03 AM
Author: Chrome fragrant home azn

Indoobitably

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999747)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy crackhouse

wow. i'm sorry. yeah, it sounds like this is over.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996768)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:29 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

Yeah. The weird part is, I have no idea if we're fucking engaged or not, because when I tried to take the ring back and just forget it ever happened he said he wanted to keep it. Then asked "What does this mean?" about five more times. We're both non confrontational introverts.

I mean of course we're not engaged because I do have some pride left. But jfc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996782)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:29 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy crackhouse

wtf? wanted to keep it?

you need to find out ASAP what he really thinks about this. i don't understand how you could even end the conversation without being sure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996785)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:31 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

yeah, so he kept the ring, and wore it but it turned out to be a little too small. He's been sucking up to me hardcore ever since last night, but we haven't talked about it at all today.

Since we live together, I'm trying to work up the nerve to tell him to leave for a while so I can figure out how i feel about everything.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996790)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy crackhouse

yea that sounds hard. but what the fuck is he thinking? why would he suck up to you after rejecting you? what does he even want?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996795)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:37 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

Right? I have no idea what's really going on in his head. I'm just going to try to get through the new year dealing with my fuckup of telling other people that I was going to propose.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996822)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:48 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy crackhouse

fuckup how? you shouldn't feel ashamed it's just unfortunate

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996870)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:52 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

If I hadn't of told anyone I wouldn't have to hear the disappointment when I tell them what happened. I know everyone cares about me and will be nice about it, but I'm too empathic for my own good.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996886)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:57 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy crackhouse

maybe. anyway i would worry more about yourself and your situation with him than about how other people are gonna think and feel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996910)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:00 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

Yeah. You're right. It's not that I'm worried about how people are going to feel more than myself... it's just that one extra thing that's going to be a kick in the face. Thanks for being nice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996923)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:01 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy crackhouse

why wouldn't i be? i remember how excited you were about this dood and i think it really sucks that it turned out that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996928)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:09 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

:-) Thanks. Honestly, I would have preferred he just say "no."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996974)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:40 PM
Author: Concupiscible new version hominid

He wants to keep fucking her of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996834)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: Burgundy sneaky criminal preventive strike

Bold guess here: He's Jewish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996794)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:39 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

athiest

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996833)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: greedy boltzmann

You must ATD immediately.

Were you not SURE she would say YES? (rhetorical Q obvsly)

TBF, we told a bunch of people my wife was pregnant the first time at like 8 weeks. Miscarried. Hilarious, huh?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996775)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:33 PM
Author: slap-happy excitant yarmulke prole

EVERYBODY miscarries the first time. If you don't know about it, she miscarried Darnell's baby.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997132)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:34 PM
Author: irradiated maroon locale windowlicker

link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997141)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:44 PM
Author: slap-happy excitant yarmulke prole

i have four kids by four different women. I know firsthand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997183)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: Chrome fragrant home azn

Flame

Assuming not flame, why the fuck are you, as a female, proposing? Don't you know that's a recipe for disaster?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996772)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: Arrogant Black Woman Site



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996774)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy crackhouse

i disagree. women always wonder whether the men they're with are really in it for the long term. proposing is the best way to find out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996778)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: Chrome fragrant home azn

LOL, no! Guys will be irritated by a woman proposing, unless the guy is some bitchmade "super progressive" liberal beta shithead. You may as well cut off a guy's balls by proposing to him. A man should be in the driver's seat; let him propose.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996796)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:33 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy crackhouse

guess i'm bitchmade but i don't see the issue. it's not like it'll come as a true surprise either way

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996802)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:36 PM
Author: Chrome fragrant home azn

Regardless, if a man wants to marry a woman, he'll propose. If he hasn't proposed yet, it's because he doesn't want to marry the woman, or he's not ready yet. Either way, if the woman proposes, it's almost a guaranteed failure.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996818)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:37 PM
Author: greedy boltzmann

CR

If a woman proposed to me... I would say "No" out of principle. Then ATD.

Would immediately think the chick was not stable. Also, why would I want a woman so eager to usurp my masculinity?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996820)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:39 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

no offense here, but you aren't the kind of guy a girl would propose to. If I were dating a different kind of guy, I would have acted differently.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996832)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:41 PM
Author: greedy boltzmann

Harsh, but fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996842)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: Concupiscible new version hominid

Fuck no. Forcing the issue by proposing is the best way to ensure he says no right now even if he is open to it in the long term.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996824)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:43 PM
Author: Chrome fragrant home azn

OK fine. If a woman just wants confirmation that he has no intention of marrying her so she can move on, then yes, maybe it's a good idea. But then it sounds like she's proposing SO THAT he will say no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996851)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:46 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

That wasn't my situation, but I don't see anything wrong with what you said.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996865)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:49 PM
Author: Chrome fragrant home azn

Didn't you think that if he wanted and was ready to marry you, he would have proposed or was getting ready to propose?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996873)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:50 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

I don't regret asking. I'm proud of myself for having the courage to go after what I want even knowing it could turn out this way. Still stings though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997211)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: greedy boltzmann

Can't assume female, can we?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996779)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:54 PM
Author: Burgundy sneaky criminal preventive strike

Strongly disagree - why can't women propose? Women already, often enough, play a hand in picking out the ring and financing it. Relationships are a team effort, and if one team member finds the right opportunity to ask the question, why can't she go for it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996895)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:55 PM
Author: gold shrine mediation

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996900)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:58 PM
Author: greedy boltzmann

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996911)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:58 PM
Author: Chrome fragrant home azn

stfu Julia

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996912)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:29 PM
Author: irradiated maroon locale windowlicker

lol, OP clearly isnt a female. check your cis heteronormative privilege



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997102)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: Arrogant Black Woman Site



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996777)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:29 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

I bought a ring for him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996784)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:33 PM
Author: Arrogant Black Woman Site



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996801)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

he isn't close to his mother but I asked his identical twin

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996823)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 6:22 AM
Author: violent medicated nursing home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999553)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:01 AM
Author: hyperactive deranged abode mad-dog skullcap

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999742)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:38 AM
Author: Glittery Organic Girlfriend Tank

jumped the shark

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999820)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:39 AM
Author: bat-shit-crazy crackhouse

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999822)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: Concupiscible new version hominid

You're a woman and you proposed? No wonder it ended in disaster.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996780)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:30 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

We don't have a traditional kind of relationship. That's what makes it fun. I don't want a traditional type because I've had that and its boring. But this sucks, so who knows.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996787)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:30 PM
Author: Lilac insane striped hyena

You need to get rid of him because he is not that into you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996788)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

I'm realizing this. It's just weird because we have lived together for a year and everything is awesome. Maybe he's just not into the marriage thing, or maybe he's just using me for companionship. I don't know.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996791)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:34 PM
Author: Histrionic institution doctorate

OP is arrow. Obviously.

Or doobs pretending to be arrow.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996805)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:35 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy crackhouse

false. op is female. but it could be flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996808)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: marvelous emerald dysfunction stag film

OP is "female" the same way my coffee table is "female"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996826)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:40 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

I'm a female poster

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996837)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:43 PM
Author: marvelous emerald dysfunction stag film

You're a pseudorandom sequence of punctuation marks, representing an anonymous user of a racist law chat tweet. No part of this indicates you're a female. Post tits or GTFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996847)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:44 PM
Author: filthy hairraiser useless brakes

'She' could be a plucky, clueless Asian female, I'm willing to believe such a girl might propose to her handsome

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996852)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:44 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

I'm using my actual moniker, just changed to pumo because I'm not flaming and wanted some actual advice from anonymous people. but whatever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996855)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:58 PM
Author: Burgundy sneaky criminal preventive strike

You're an inanimate fucking object

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997252)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 10:17 PM
Author: House-broken Lodge Place Of Business

come on dude, you should know better than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998204)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:35 PM
Author: greedy boltzmann

Maybe OP didn't get down on one knee.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996811)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:41 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

I didn't. I think the one knee thing is ridiculous for either gender.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996841)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: filthy hairraiser useless brakes

This flame is making me delirious!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996825)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:40 PM
Author: Appetizing regret roast beef

Your flame makes me smile!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996836)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:41 PM
Author: filthy hairraiser useless brakes

My

o|||||||o

is still in the shop

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996840)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:42 PM
Author: Appetizing regret roast beef

Thoughts & prayers in this difficult time, brother.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996844)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:43 PM
Author: filthy hairraiser useless brakes

ty, I pick it up tomorrow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996848)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:45 PM
Author: gold shrine mediation

you guessed right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996860)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:57 PM
Author: Rebellious Flushed Factory Reset Button

arrow sure does need to gas himself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996904)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:12 PM
Author: stirring people who are hurt

this is a new low, doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996983)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:12 PM
Author: Arrogant Black Woman Site



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996985)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:12 PM
Author: marvelous emerald dysfunction stag film



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996990)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:14 PM
Author: filthy hairraiser useless brakes



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997004)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:27 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

It's even more depressing when my actual life tragedy is dismissed as doobs flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997093)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:27 PM
Author: Tripping multi-colored theatre voyeur



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27001057)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:31 PM
Author: Salmon boyish state potus

in on doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997112)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:32 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

you lose.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997122)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:34 PM
Author: Wonderful tan international law enforcement agency

Feel bad for you. Sorry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997140)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:35 PM
Author: irradiated maroon locale windowlicker

cr. what an awful xmas. only way to salvage it now is murder her would be fiance and his entire bloodline

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997146)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:36 PM
Author: slap-happy excitant yarmulke prole

When you are called upon to discuss it, you don't say "he said no", you say, we are are not ready to decide for certain yet, so we are still thinking over our long term plans.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997152)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:38 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

Thanks for the advice. I'll use a version of this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997163)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:41 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy crackhouse

no. this is face-saving horseshit and will make you feel more ashamed in the long haul. you should tell the truth. it'll be okay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997174)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:43 PM
Author: slap-happy excitant yarmulke prole

Tso heroic! Besides, he actually didn't say no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997181)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:47 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

I think you can argue that not saying yes in this scenario means saying no. I am going to say that it didn't go as planned and I'm not sure what that means right now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997194)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:49 PM
Author: buff university boiling water

Skinny girl is confirmed doobs right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997204)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:50 PM
Author: filthy hairraiser useless brakes

did she finish her cheeseburger?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997213)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:52 PM
Author: sooty deep toaster

I outted doobs as a creep a while ago by posting transcripts of our chats that showed him being creepy. So... no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997224)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:59 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy crackhouse

skinny girl has been on tinychat. she's confirmed not doobs, just like pumette

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997269)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 7:17 PM
Author: gold shrine mediation

(doobs)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997368)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:36 AM
Author: razzle skinny woman love of her life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998918)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:39 AM
Author: vermilion sick community account

(pumette responding to pumette)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999515)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 10:43 AM
Author: Anal Turquoise Casino Pocket Flask



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27023349)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:51 PM
Author: Electric temple legend

has he had your ass

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997219)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 9:09 PM
Author: rose rehab

If not flame this is sad but honestly the chances of this turning out well were always pretty low.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998011)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 11:54 PM
Author: beady-eyed pale rigor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998742)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 10:57 AM
Author: vermilion sick community account

sick catty femposter on femposter violence bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999735)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:31 AM
Author: grizzly hospital



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999793)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 10:15 PM
Author: Scarlet Market Filthpig

you don't have to report bak to anyone!

if anyone asks about the christmas eve proposal, just say you chickened out (or turkeyed out as the case may be)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998200)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 11:23 PM
Author: vivacious national



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998594)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:08 AM
Author: tantric dashing resort kitty cat

that's what you get for thinking you could land a chad. Larry Joe Bird would have said yes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998813)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:00 AM
Author: bat-shit-crazy crackhouse

cr. his blood is on ur hands

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999740)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:15 AM
Author: Sticky fear-inspiring trump supporter

How bad is his credit? That could be the deal breaker here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998838)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:43 AM
Author: swashbuckling step-uncle's house halford

Doobs did you imagine a man wearing around an engagement ring flashing his new rock at all his bois

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998942)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 1:00 AM
Author: Saffron immigrant

good move not to gloat about successful flame too early. gotta let dat pot simmer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999005)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:33 AM
Author: grizzly hospital



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999798)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:35 AM
Author: vermilion sick community account

isn't he a vegan? oy vey

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999511)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:32 AM
Author: grizzly hospital

wow you have a lot of balls sister. i could never pull something like that off.

i still think this is flame though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999796)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:33 AM
Author: Contagious sepia stock car

WTF doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999797)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:38 AM
Author: Glittery Organic Girlfriend Tank

how long have you dated?

i would honestly feel weird and kind of beta if a chick did this to me

maybe it threw him off and he'd rather be the one doing the proposing?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999817)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 4:38 AM
Author: vermilion sick community account

lol yeah maybe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27022847)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 1:41 PM
Author: purple turdskin

Wait, so reading through this thread, you are not into traditional relationship thing, blah, blah, blah. He's not into these traditions either. Yet, despite both of you being against tradition, you still want to enter into the union of marriage with this bro? So badly that you usurped traditional roles to get this shit started? Just lol at you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27000282)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:27 PM
Author: Tripping multi-colored theatre voyeur

although this thread is flame and also jfc doobs, this does give me a great idea for a reality tv show about aspies dating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27001052)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 5:20 PM
Author: 180 brunch

*gives you a flower*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27001282)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 4:41 AM
Author: House-broken Lodge Place Of Business

:(

but hey if you need some good rebound sex to cheer you up im always available. BHC on-call 24/7/365



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27022852)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 3:17 PM
Author: bateful personal credit line

totally amazing how everyone on xo doesnt understand basic human interaction

he was obviously planning to propose to you on NYE but you beat him to the punch. now that you're all sad and vulnerable, he's going to propose soon and you'll be way happier this way

plus, when ya'll tell your jealous friends the story, it makes you seem alpha and him like a white knight.

i mean truly a win-win for both of you lovebirds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27024759)