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proposed last night. It went horribly. I should break up, I gues

fml. And because I was stupid and told people I was going...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
tell us what happened
insanely creepy bawdyhouse
  12/25/14
So I waited until after I made him dinner, and we were havin...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
stfu doobs
chartreuse property
  12/25/14
I wish I were flame. This actually happened. And today's ...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
...
Bespoke irradiated place of business corn cake
  12/25/14
it isn't
sadistic business firm idiot
  12/25/14
...
Iridescent windowlicker factory reset button
  12/25/14
100% certain
Contagious library
  12/26/14
Abso-doobsly
disrespectful stead
  12/26/14
Indoobitably
Abnormal trip house private investor
  12/26/14
wow. i'm sorry. yeah, it sounds like this is over.
sadistic business firm idiot
  12/25/14
Yeah. The weird part is, I have no idea if we're fucking eng...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
wtf? wanted to keep it? you need to find out ASAP what he...
sadistic business firm idiot
  12/25/14
yeah, so he kept the ring, and wore it but it turned out to ...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
yea that sounds hard. but what the fuck is he thinking? why ...
sadistic business firm idiot
  12/25/14
Right? I have no idea what's really going on in his head. I'...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
fuckup how? you shouldn't feel ashamed it's just unfortunate
sadistic business firm idiot
  12/25/14
If I hadn't of told anyone I wouldn't have to hear the disap...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
maybe. anyway i would worry more about yourself and your sit...
sadistic business firm idiot
  12/25/14
Yeah. You're right. It's not that I'm worried about how peop...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
why wouldn't i be? i remember how excited you were about thi...
sadistic business firm idiot
  12/25/14
:-) Thanks. Honestly, I would have preferred he just say &qu...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
He wants to keep fucking her of course.
Rusted painfully honest generalized bond
  12/25/14
Bold guess here: He's Jewish.
Titillating crystalline quadroon lay
  12/25/14
athiest
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
You must ATD immediately. Were you not SURE she would s...
supple aggressive menage associate
  12/25/14
EVERYBODY miscarries the first time. If you don't know about...
Alcoholic heaven philosopher-king
  12/25/14
link?
Nighttime pit mad-dog skullcap
  12/25/14
i have four kids by four different women. I know firsthand.
Alcoholic heaven philosopher-king
  12/25/14
Flame Assuming not flame, why the fuck are you, as a fema...
Abnormal trip house private investor
  12/25/14
...
Bespoke irradiated place of business corn cake
  12/25/14
i disagree. women always wonder whether the men they're with...
sadistic business firm idiot
  12/25/14
LOL, no! Guys will be irritated by a woman proposing, unless...
Abnormal trip house private investor
  12/25/14
guess i'm bitchmade but i don't see the issue. it's not like...
sadistic business firm idiot
  12/25/14
Regardless, if a man wants to marry a woman, he'll propose. ...
Abnormal trip house private investor
  12/25/14
CR If a woman proposed to me... I would say "No"...
supple aggressive menage associate
  12/25/14
no offense here, but you aren't the kind of guy a girl would...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
Harsh, but fair
supple aggressive menage associate
  12/25/14
Fuck no. Forcing the issue by proposing is the best way to ...
Rusted painfully honest generalized bond
  12/25/14
OK fine. If a woman just wants confirmation that he has no i...
Abnormal trip house private investor
  12/25/14
That wasn't my situation, but I don't see anything wrong wit...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
Didn't you think that if he wanted and was ready to marry yo...
Abnormal trip house private investor
  12/25/14
I don't regret asking. I'm proud of myself for having the co...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
Can't assume female, can we?
supple aggressive menage associate
  12/25/14
Strongly disagree - why can't women propose? Women already, ...
Titillating crystalline quadroon lay
  12/25/14
lol
lavender abusive tank
  12/25/14
lol
supple aggressive menage associate
  12/25/14
stfu Julia
Abnormal trip house private investor
  12/25/14
lol, OP clearly isnt a female. check your cis heteronormativ...
Nighttime pit mad-dog skullcap
  12/25/14
...
Bespoke irradiated place of business corn cake
  12/25/14
I bought a ring for him.
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
...
Bespoke irradiated place of business corn cake
  12/25/14
he isn't close to his mother but I asked his identical twin
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
...
violet toilet seat hunting ground
  12/26/14
lol
bronze territorial parlour
  12/26/14
jumped the shark
massive dun sandwich locale
  12/26/14
cr
sadistic business firm idiot
  12/26/14
You're a woman and you proposed? No wonder it ended in disa...
Rusted painfully honest generalized bond
  12/25/14
We don't have a traditional kind of relationship. That's wha...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
You need to get rid of him because he is not that into you
Insane degenerate school cafeteria
  12/25/14
I'm realizing this. It's just weird because we have lived to...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
OP is arrow. Obviously. Or doobs pretending to be arrow.
gaped thriller juggernaut national
  12/25/14
false. op is female. but it could be flame
sadistic business firm idiot
  12/25/14
OP is "female" the same way my coffee table is &qu...
floppy partner kitty cat
  12/25/14
I'm a female poster
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
You're a pseudorandom sequence of punctuation marks, represe...
floppy partner kitty cat
  12/25/14
'She' could be a plucky, clueless Asian female, I'm willing ...
insanely creepy bawdyhouse
  12/25/14
I'm using my actual moniker, just changed to pumo because I'...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
You're an inanimate fucking object
Titillating crystalline quadroon lay
  12/25/14
come on dude, you should know better than this.
Pearly awkward macaca bbw
  12/25/14
Maybe OP didn't get down on one knee.
supple aggressive menage associate
  12/25/14
I didn't. I think the one knee thing is ridiculous for eithe...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
This flame is making me delirious!
insanely creepy bawdyhouse
  12/25/14
Your flame makes me smile!
appetizing self-absorbed sweet tailpipe
  12/25/14
My o|||||||o is still in the shop
insanely creepy bawdyhouse
  12/25/14
Thoughts & prayers in this difficult time, brother.
appetizing self-absorbed sweet tailpipe
  12/25/14
ty, I pick it up tomorrow
insanely creepy bawdyhouse
  12/25/14
you guessed right
lavender abusive tank
  12/25/14
arrow sure does need to gas himself
Laughsome orchid volcanic crater
  12/25/14
this is a new low, doobs
racy useless brakes hall
  12/25/14
...
Bespoke irradiated place of business corn cake
  12/25/14
...
floppy partner kitty cat
  12/25/14
...
insanely creepy bawdyhouse
  12/25/14
It's even more depressing when my actual life tragedy is dis...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
...
cracking hominid chad
  12/26/14
in on doobs
Frum Rigpig
  12/25/14
you lose.
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
Feel bad for you. Sorry.
Cheese-eating doctorate site
  12/25/14
cr. what an awful xmas. only way to salvage it now is murder...
Nighttime pit mad-dog skullcap
  12/25/14
When you are called upon to discuss it, you don't say "...
Alcoholic heaven philosopher-king
  12/25/14
Thanks for the advice. I'll use a version of this
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
no. this is face-saving horseshit and will make you feel mor...
sadistic business firm idiot
  12/25/14
Tso heroic! Besides, he actually didn't say no.
Alcoholic heaven philosopher-king
  12/25/14
I think you can argue that not saying yes in this scenario m...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
Skinny girl is confirmed doobs right
carnelian crotch
  12/25/14
did she finish her cheeseburger?
insanely creepy bawdyhouse
  12/25/14
I outted doobs as a creep a while ago by posting transcripts...
histrionic milk
  12/25/14
skinny girl has been on tinychat. she's confirmed not doobs,...
sadistic business firm idiot
  12/25/14
(doobs)
lavender abusive tank
  12/25/14
...
Contagious library
  12/26/14
(pumette responding to pumette)
drab disturbing stag film
  12/26/14
...
razzle set
  12/30/14
has he had your ass
Rambunctious black woman
  12/25/14
If not flame this is sad but honestly the chances of this tu...
Charismatic Step-uncle's House Regret
  12/25/14
...
Motley Cruise Ship
  12/25/14
sick catty femposter on femposter violence bro
drab disturbing stag film
  12/26/14
...
Violent shimmering brunch
  12/26/14
you don't have to report bak to anyone! if anyone asks ab...
Cowardly rehab pozpig
  12/25/14
...
Well-lubricated Depressive Space
  12/25/14
that's what you get for thinking you could land a chad. Larr...
provocative stock car
  12/26/14
cr. his blood is on ur hands
sadistic business firm idiot
  12/26/14
How bad is his credit? That could be the deal breaker here.
Galvanic address french chef
  12/26/14
Doobs did you imagine a man wearing around an engagement rin...
Aphrodisiac Buck-toothed Turdskin Stage
  12/26/14
good move not to gloat about successful flame too early. got...
Alcoholic chrome indian lodge alpha
  12/26/14
...
Violent shimmering brunch
  12/26/14
isn't he a vegan? oy vey
drab disturbing stag film
  12/26/14
wow you have a lot of balls sister. i could never pull somet...
Violent shimmering brunch
  12/26/14
WTF doobs
Vigorous trailer park elastic band
  12/26/14
how long have you dated? i would honestly feel weird and ki...
massive dun sandwich locale
  12/26/14
lol yeah maybe
drab disturbing stag film
  12/30/14
Wait, so reading through this thread, you are not into tradi...
Shivering very tactful pistol
  12/26/14
although this thread is flame and also jfc doobs, this does ...
cracking hominid chad
  12/26/14
*gives you a flower*
Bright bossy community account dysfunction
  12/26/14
:( but hey if you need some good rebound sex to cheer...
Pearly awkward macaca bbw
  12/30/14
totally amazing how everyone on xo doesnt understand basic h...
coiffed olive idea he suggested institution
  12/30/14


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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:23 PM
Author: histrionic milk

fml.

And because I was stupid and told people I was going to do it, I'm going to have to let them know what happened.

Maybe just killself?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996752)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:23 PM
Author: insanely creepy bawdyhouse

tell us what happened

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996754)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:26 PM
Author: histrionic milk

So I waited until after I made him dinner, and we were having a glass of wine by the little christmas tree.

I told him I had one more gift for him, and went into my propoal.

He replied "What?" about ten times... then goes, "Why me?" then talked about his bad credit for a minute, then goes, "You're so weird".

Then he said, "Well it's not a definite no."

Damn, I really should killself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996765)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:26 PM
Author: chartreuse property

stfu doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996767)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: histrionic milk

I wish I were flame.

This actually happened. And today's been an entire day of awkwardness because he still lives here.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996773)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:35 PM
Author: Bespoke irradiated place of business corn cake



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996813)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:36 PM
Author: sadistic business firm idiot

it isn't

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996815)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:58 PM
Author: Iridescent windowlicker factory reset button



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996916)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:34 AM
Author: Contagious library

100% certain

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998911)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:01 AM
Author: disrespectful stead

Abso-doobsly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999744)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:03 AM
Author: Abnormal trip house private investor

Indoobitably

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999747)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: sadistic business firm idiot

wow. i'm sorry. yeah, it sounds like this is over.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996768)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:29 PM
Author: histrionic milk

Yeah. The weird part is, I have no idea if we're fucking engaged or not, because when I tried to take the ring back and just forget it ever happened he said he wanted to keep it. Then asked "What does this mean?" about five more times. We're both non confrontational introverts.

I mean of course we're not engaged because I do have some pride left. But jfc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996782)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:29 PM
Author: sadistic business firm idiot

wtf? wanted to keep it?

you need to find out ASAP what he really thinks about this. i don't understand how you could even end the conversation without being sure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996785)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:31 PM
Author: histrionic milk

yeah, so he kept the ring, and wore it but it turned out to be a little too small. He's been sucking up to me hardcore ever since last night, but we haven't talked about it at all today.

Since we live together, I'm trying to work up the nerve to tell him to leave for a while so I can figure out how i feel about everything.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996790)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: sadistic business firm idiot

yea that sounds hard. but what the fuck is he thinking? why would he suck up to you after rejecting you? what does he even want?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996795)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:37 PM
Author: histrionic milk

Right? I have no idea what's really going on in his head. I'm just going to try to get through the new year dealing with my fuckup of telling other people that I was going to propose.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996822)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:48 PM
Author: sadistic business firm idiot

fuckup how? you shouldn't feel ashamed it's just unfortunate

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996870)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:52 PM
Author: histrionic milk

If I hadn't of told anyone I wouldn't have to hear the disappointment when I tell them what happened. I know everyone cares about me and will be nice about it, but I'm too empathic for my own good.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996886)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:57 PM
Author: sadistic business firm idiot

maybe. anyway i would worry more about yourself and your situation with him than about how other people are gonna think and feel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996910)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:00 PM
Author: histrionic milk

Yeah. You're right. It's not that I'm worried about how people are going to feel more than myself... it's just that one extra thing that's going to be a kick in the face. Thanks for being nice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996923)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:01 PM
Author: sadistic business firm idiot

why wouldn't i be? i remember how excited you were about this dood and i think it really sucks that it turned out that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996928)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:09 PM
Author: histrionic milk

:-) Thanks. Honestly, I would have preferred he just say "no."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996974)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:40 PM
Author: Rusted painfully honest generalized bond

He wants to keep fucking her of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996834)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: Titillating crystalline quadroon lay

Bold guess here: He's Jewish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996794)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:39 PM
Author: histrionic milk

athiest

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996833)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: supple aggressive menage associate

You must ATD immediately.

Were you not SURE she would say YES? (rhetorical Q obvsly)

TBF, we told a bunch of people my wife was pregnant the first time at like 8 weeks. Miscarried. Hilarious, huh?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996775)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:33 PM
Author: Alcoholic heaven philosopher-king

EVERYBODY miscarries the first time. If you don't know about it, she miscarried Darnell's baby.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997132)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:34 PM
Author: Nighttime pit mad-dog skullcap

link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997141)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:44 PM
Author: Alcoholic heaven philosopher-king

i have four kids by four different women. I know firsthand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997183)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: Abnormal trip house private investor

Flame

Assuming not flame, why the fuck are you, as a female, proposing? Don't you know that's a recipe for disaster?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996772)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: Bespoke irradiated place of business corn cake



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996774)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: sadistic business firm idiot

i disagree. women always wonder whether the men they're with are really in it for the long term. proposing is the best way to find out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996778)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: Abnormal trip house private investor

LOL, no! Guys will be irritated by a woman proposing, unless the guy is some bitchmade "super progressive" liberal beta shithead. You may as well cut off a guy's balls by proposing to him. A man should be in the driver's seat; let him propose.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996796)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:33 PM
Author: sadistic business firm idiot

guess i'm bitchmade but i don't see the issue. it's not like it'll come as a true surprise either way

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996802)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:36 PM
Author: Abnormal trip house private investor

Regardless, if a man wants to marry a woman, he'll propose. If he hasn't proposed yet, it's because he doesn't want to marry the woman, or he's not ready yet. Either way, if the woman proposes, it's almost a guaranteed failure.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996818)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:37 PM
Author: supple aggressive menage associate

CR

If a woman proposed to me... I would say "No" out of principle. Then ATD.

Would immediately think the chick was not stable. Also, why would I want a woman so eager to usurp my masculinity?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996820)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:39 PM
Author: histrionic milk

no offense here, but you aren't the kind of guy a girl would propose to. If I were dating a different kind of guy, I would have acted differently.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996832)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:41 PM
Author: supple aggressive menage associate

Harsh, but fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996842)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: Rusted painfully honest generalized bond

Fuck no. Forcing the issue by proposing is the best way to ensure he says no right now even if he is open to it in the long term.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996824)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:43 PM
Author: Abnormal trip house private investor

OK fine. If a woman just wants confirmation that he has no intention of marrying her so she can move on, then yes, maybe it's a good idea. But then it sounds like she's proposing SO THAT he will say no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996851)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:46 PM
Author: histrionic milk

That wasn't my situation, but I don't see anything wrong with what you said.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996865)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:49 PM
Author: Abnormal trip house private investor

Didn't you think that if he wanted and was ready to marry you, he would have proposed or was getting ready to propose?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996873)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:50 PM
Author: histrionic milk

I don't regret asking. I'm proud of myself for having the courage to go after what I want even knowing it could turn out this way. Still stings though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997211)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: supple aggressive menage associate

Can't assume female, can we?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996779)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:54 PM
Author: Titillating crystalline quadroon lay

Strongly disagree - why can't women propose? Women already, often enough, play a hand in picking out the ring and financing it. Relationships are a team effort, and if one team member finds the right opportunity to ask the question, why can't she go for it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996895)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:55 PM
Author: lavender abusive tank

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996900)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:58 PM
Author: supple aggressive menage associate

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996911)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:58 PM
Author: Abnormal trip house private investor

stfu Julia

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996912)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:29 PM
Author: Nighttime pit mad-dog skullcap

lol, OP clearly isnt a female. check your cis heteronormative privilege



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997102)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: Bespoke irradiated place of business corn cake



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996777)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:29 PM
Author: histrionic milk

I bought a ring for him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996784)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:33 PM
Author: Bespoke irradiated place of business corn cake



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996801)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: histrionic milk

he isn't close to his mother but I asked his identical twin

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996823)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 6:22 AM
Author: violet toilet seat hunting ground



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999553)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:01 AM
Author: bronze territorial parlour

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999742)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:38 AM
Author: massive dun sandwich locale

jumped the shark

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999820)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:39 AM
Author: sadistic business firm idiot

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999822)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: Rusted painfully honest generalized bond

You're a woman and you proposed? No wonder it ended in disaster.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996780)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:30 PM
Author: histrionic milk

We don't have a traditional kind of relationship. That's what makes it fun. I don't want a traditional type because I've had that and its boring. But this sucks, so who knows.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996787)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:30 PM
Author: Insane degenerate school cafeteria

You need to get rid of him because he is not that into you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996788)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: histrionic milk

I'm realizing this. It's just weird because we have lived together for a year and everything is awesome. Maybe he's just not into the marriage thing, or maybe he's just using me for companionship. I don't know.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996791)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:34 PM
Author: gaped thriller juggernaut national

OP is arrow. Obviously.

Or doobs pretending to be arrow.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996805)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:35 PM
Author: sadistic business firm idiot

false. op is female. but it could be flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996808)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: floppy partner kitty cat

OP is "female" the same way my coffee table is "female"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996826)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:40 PM
Author: histrionic milk

I'm a female poster

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996837)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:43 PM
Author: floppy partner kitty cat

You're a pseudorandom sequence of punctuation marks, representing an anonymous user of a racist law chat tweet. No part of this indicates you're a female. Post tits or GTFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996847)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:44 PM
Author: insanely creepy bawdyhouse

'She' could be a plucky, clueless Asian female, I'm willing to believe such a girl might propose to her handsome

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996852)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:44 PM
Author: histrionic milk

I'm using my actual moniker, just changed to pumo because I'm not flaming and wanted some actual advice from anonymous people. but whatever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996855)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:58 PM
Author: Titillating crystalline quadroon lay

You're an inanimate fucking object

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997252)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 10:17 PM
Author: Pearly awkward macaca bbw

come on dude, you should know better than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998204)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:35 PM
Author: supple aggressive menage associate

Maybe OP didn't get down on one knee.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996811)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:41 PM
Author: histrionic milk

I didn't. I think the one knee thing is ridiculous for either gender.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996841)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: insanely creepy bawdyhouse

This flame is making me delirious!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996825)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:40 PM
Author: appetizing self-absorbed sweet tailpipe

Your flame makes me smile!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996836)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:41 PM
Author: insanely creepy bawdyhouse

My

o|||||||o

is still in the shop

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996840)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:42 PM
Author: appetizing self-absorbed sweet tailpipe

Thoughts & prayers in this difficult time, brother.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996844)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:43 PM
Author: insanely creepy bawdyhouse

ty, I pick it up tomorrow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996848)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:45 PM
Author: lavender abusive tank

you guessed right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996860)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:57 PM
Author: Laughsome orchid volcanic crater

arrow sure does need to gas himself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996904)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:12 PM
Author: racy useless brakes hall

this is a new low, doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996983)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:12 PM
Author: Bespoke irradiated place of business corn cake



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996985)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:12 PM
Author: floppy partner kitty cat



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996990)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:14 PM
Author: insanely creepy bawdyhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997004)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:27 PM
Author: histrionic milk

It's even more depressing when my actual life tragedy is dismissed as doobs flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997093)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:27 PM
Author: cracking hominid chad



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27001057)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:31 PM
Author: Frum Rigpig

in on doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997112)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:32 PM
Author: histrionic milk

you lose.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997122)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:34 PM
Author: Cheese-eating doctorate site

Feel bad for you. Sorry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997140)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:35 PM
Author: Nighttime pit mad-dog skullcap

cr. what an awful xmas. only way to salvage it now is murder her would be fiance and his entire bloodline

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997146)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:36 PM
Author: Alcoholic heaven philosopher-king

When you are called upon to discuss it, you don't say "he said no", you say, we are are not ready to decide for certain yet, so we are still thinking over our long term plans.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997152)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:38 PM
Author: histrionic milk

Thanks for the advice. I'll use a version of this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997163)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:41 PM
Author: sadistic business firm idiot

no. this is face-saving horseshit and will make you feel more ashamed in the long haul. you should tell the truth. it'll be okay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997174)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:43 PM
Author: Alcoholic heaven philosopher-king

Tso heroic! Besides, he actually didn't say no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997181)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:47 PM
Author: histrionic milk

I think you can argue that not saying yes in this scenario means saying no. I am going to say that it didn't go as planned and I'm not sure what that means right now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997194)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:49 PM
Author: carnelian crotch

Skinny girl is confirmed doobs right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997204)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:50 PM
Author: insanely creepy bawdyhouse

did she finish her cheeseburger?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997213)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:52 PM
Author: histrionic milk

I outted doobs as a creep a while ago by posting transcripts of our chats that showed him being creepy. So... no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997224)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:59 PM
Author: sadistic business firm idiot

skinny girl has been on tinychat. she's confirmed not doobs, just like pumette

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997269)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 7:17 PM
Author: lavender abusive tank

(doobs)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997368)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:36 AM
Author: Contagious library



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998918)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:39 AM
Author: drab disturbing stag film

(pumette responding to pumette)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999515)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 10:43 AM
Author: razzle set



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27023349)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:51 PM
Author: Rambunctious black woman

has he had your ass

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997219)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 9:09 PM
Author: Charismatic Step-uncle's House Regret

If not flame this is sad but honestly the chances of this turning out well were always pretty low.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998011)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 11:54 PM
Author: Motley Cruise Ship



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998742)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 10:57 AM
Author: drab disturbing stag film

sick catty femposter on femposter violence bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999735)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:31 AM
Author: Violent shimmering brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999793)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 10:15 PM
Author: Cowardly rehab pozpig

you don't have to report bak to anyone!

if anyone asks about the christmas eve proposal, just say you chickened out (or turkeyed out as the case may be)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998200)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 11:23 PM
Author: Well-lubricated Depressive Space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998594)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:08 AM
Author: provocative stock car

that's what you get for thinking you could land a chad. Larry Joe Bird would have said yes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998813)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:00 AM
Author: sadistic business firm idiot

cr. his blood is on ur hands

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999740)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:15 AM
Author: Galvanic address french chef

How bad is his credit? That could be the deal breaker here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998838)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:43 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac Buck-toothed Turdskin Stage

Doobs did you imagine a man wearing around an engagement ring flashing his new rock at all his bois

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998942)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 1:00 AM
Author: Alcoholic chrome indian lodge alpha

good move not to gloat about successful flame too early. gotta let dat pot simmer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999005)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:33 AM
Author: Violent shimmering brunch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999798)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:35 AM
Author: drab disturbing stag film

isn't he a vegan? oy vey

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999511)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:32 AM
Author: Violent shimmering brunch

wow you have a lot of balls sister. i could never pull something like that off.

i still think this is flame though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999796)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:33 AM
Author: Vigorous trailer park elastic band

WTF doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999797)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:38 AM
Author: massive dun sandwich locale

how long have you dated?

i would honestly feel weird and kind of beta if a chick did this to me

maybe it threw him off and he'd rather be the one doing the proposing?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999817)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 4:38 AM
Author: drab disturbing stag film

lol yeah maybe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27022847)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 1:41 PM
Author: Shivering very tactful pistol

Wait, so reading through this thread, you are not into traditional relationship thing, blah, blah, blah. He's not into these traditions either. Yet, despite both of you being against tradition, you still want to enter into the union of marriage with this bro? So badly that you usurped traditional roles to get this shit started? Just lol at you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27000282)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:27 PM
Author: cracking hominid chad

although this thread is flame and also jfc doobs, this does give me a great idea for a reality tv show about aspies dating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27001052)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 5:20 PM
Author: Bright bossy community account dysfunction

*gives you a flower*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27001282)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 4:41 AM
Author: Pearly awkward macaca bbw

:(

but hey if you need some good rebound sex to cheer you up im always available. BHC on-call 24/7/365



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27022852)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 3:17 PM
Author: coiffed olive idea he suggested institution

totally amazing how everyone on xo doesnt understand basic human interaction

he was obviously planning to propose to you on NYE but you beat him to the punch. now that you're all sad and vulnerable, he's going to propose soon and you'll be way happier this way

plus, when ya'll tell your jealous friends the story, it makes you seem alpha and him like a white knight.

i mean truly a win-win for both of you lovebirds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27024759)