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Welp, I guess my shrew days are over

I will miss them badly :/
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Are you getting marrird?
Vivacious Chrome Parlor
  10/09/15
Yah :(
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Nice!
Vivacious Chrome Parlor
  10/09/15
...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Im 27, in great shape, live in chicago, single. Tell me what...
Vivacious Chrome Parlor
  10/09/15
Get all the partying/travel shit our of your system now. St...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Ty. Still holding out that you will join us for the chicago ...
Vivacious Chrome Parlor
  10/09/15
When is it?
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Late Oct or early Nov no date yet
Vivacious Chrome Parlor
  10/09/15
excellent advice for anyone
Diverse Native
  10/09/15
No one set of circumstances will provide you with 100% of wh...
orchid mad cow disease church
  10/09/15
You sound really excited. What a lucky guy.
razzmatazz meetinghouse kitty cat
  10/09/15
...
At-the-ready Excitant School Dopamine
  10/09/15
she has to prove she's both desired, happy, maeking it, and ...
Sooty comical police squad
  10/09/15
I love him and am happy about it, but my psychology is prett...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
I'm just jealous that you chose him over me. Congrats.
razzmatazz meetinghouse kitty cat
  10/09/15
It was a touch choice, so I hope you understand.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
*touches you*
Fragrant Giraffe
  10/09/15
Julia's fiance: "I love you" Julia: "meh. Gu...
Vivacious Chrome Parlor
  10/09/15
:(
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
jfc
Cerebral home shitlib
  10/09/15
are you new here? She is laying the groundwork for why she i...
duck-like partner church building
  10/09/15
...
lavender hospital
  10/09/15
...
lavender hospital
  10/09/15
...
mint lodge
  10/09/15
Did u get pregnant
internet-worthy theater sneaky criminal
  10/09/15
Any tips on getting my dick sucked in the VIP room?
internet-worthy theater sneaky criminal
  10/09/15
Julia please respond
Stirring cobalt selfie ticket booth
  10/09/15
Congratulations girl!!
180 Library
  10/09/15
Thnx. Marriage isn't a big deal to me, though. It's not some...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
weren't you just single like 3 weeks ago?
At-the-ready Excitant School Dopamine
  10/09/15
No.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
lol at some poor beta cuck
honey-headed up-to-no-good location
  10/09/15
wat a lucky guy
coral indian lodge
  10/09/15
Weren't you engaged last time at this year? And then singl...
bright spectacular parlour
  10/09/15
Yeah, I was engaged to another guy last year.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Odds this guy doesn't bail?
bright spectacular parlour
  10/09/15
Who the fuck knows. He wants a prenup and all cause he's old...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
ljl
rose boltzmann locus
  10/09/15
ROFLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL...
At-the-ready Excitant School Dopamine
  10/09/15
Yeah, so it might not work out. We'll see. You can laugh aga...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
i lol because he's absolutely right to want a pre-nup given ...
At-the-ready Excitant School Dopamine
  10/09/15
No, I only intend on marrying once, and being a full financi...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Then I guess you don't give anything up by promising as much...
glittery haunted graveyard
  10/09/15
"But I only INTEND to marry once!!!" "I'm ...
bright spectacular parlour
  10/09/15
...
Talented Abode
  11/06/15
...
appetizing learning disabled public bath
  10/09/15
with a prenup the guy is not financially trapped so he can u...
Boyish apoplectic corner
  10/28/15
LOL 180 XO Julia's Fiancé
bright spectacular parlour
  10/09/15
Yeah, I'm not doing it, so this may be my second ex fiancee ...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
how old is this dood? and how much money does he got? like m...
twinkling menage associate
  10/09/15
he's in his 40s.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
lol he must have millions if u arent answering.. is he colom...
twinkling menage associate
  10/09/15
Why wouldn't you sign it if you didn't want his money anyway...
orchid mad cow disease church
  10/09/15
ith the printhiple, she greedily and deceptively lisped
At-the-ready Excitant School Dopamine
  10/09/15
I mean, I guess the argument against it is that he's contemp...
orchid mad cow disease church
  10/09/15
...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
tl;dr
very tactful fat ankles
  10/09/15
Did you find out about the prenup after you made the im enga...
Glassy hilarious stock car field
  10/09/15
lol, that was an epic screed. Why delete?
rose boltzmann locus
  10/09/15
It was insane. No way a non crazy person would be that again...
Glassy hilarious stock car field
  10/09/15
Not seeing how that is different than other Julia poasts
rose boltzmann locus
  10/09/15
True
Glassy hilarious stock car field
  10/09/15
i missed it
orchid mad cow disease church
  10/09/15
Ps you are not a family until you shit out his brat
bright spectacular parlour
  10/09/15
given your detached reaction to it, why are you against a pr...
Razzle round eye becky
  10/09/15
Marriage is a contract
Glassy hilarious stock car field
  10/09/15
Do you have ANY fat on your body?
Fragrant Giraffe
  10/09/15
Dem hips & ass still rocking it, dontcha know, MC.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
180. congrats on your engagement! please let me know wher...
Fragrant Giraffe
  10/09/15
lol wtf
fishy candlestick maker sweet tailpipe
  10/09/15
...
supple set filthpig
  10/09/15
...
appetizing learning disabled public bath
  10/09/15
He's the only guy I've ever been with seriously who is a lit...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
...
appetizing learning disabled public bath
  10/09/15
Julia can't have children
bright spectacular parlour
  10/09/15
...
appetizing learning disabled public bath
  10/09/15
2nd He's in his 40s.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
...
appetizing learning disabled public bath
  10/09/15
no. Mid 30s/
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
...
appetizing learning disabled public bath
  10/09/15
yep.he knows I'm crazy.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
...
appetizing learning disabled public bath
  10/09/15
LOL. You are NOT in your mid 30s.
khaki provocative puppy hell
  10/09/15
How old am I, then? Need to know, because I need to inform t...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
late 30s.
khaki provocative puppy hell
  10/09/15
How old is that, exactly?
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
youre over 35 for sure
Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party
  10/09/15
I turned 36 this weekend. That makes me mid 30s. Thank.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Happy birthday!
Boyish apoplectic corner
  10/09/15
same old song n dance :)
Overrated shivering locale alpha
  10/09/15
what, again?
Arousing Federal Cuck Immigrant
  10/09/15
now, now
marvelous hideous hunting ground people who are hurt
  10/09/15
Julia rate my as a poaster
Primrose out-of-control pocket flask
  10/09/15
you seem miserable
Hyperactive Lascivious Bawdyhouse Community Account
  10/09/15
...
very tactful fat ankles
  10/09/15
...
laughsome office idea he suggested
  10/09/15
...
duck-like partner church building
  10/09/15
...
claret den foreskin
  10/09/15
...
Racy sex offender
  10/28/15
http://news.yahoo.com/couple-release-a-bit-too-much-informat...
Razzle round eye becky
  10/09/15
lol at anyone on facebook
orchid mad cow disease church
  10/09/15
Lol flame
Titillating black casino macaca
  10/09/15
Julia, when you say "starting a family," are you a...
French charismatic address circlehead
  10/09/15
lol at thinking shrews can't be engaged or married. the wedd...
dark zippy faggot firefighter house
  10/09/15
cr it's a major turning point in the life of a shrew who tur...
duck-like partner church building
  10/09/15
Underrated
beady-eyed liquid oxygen
  10/09/15
I don't give a fuck about the wedding. i want to elope priva...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
ok so is that what you'll be doing?
dark zippy faggot firefighter house
  10/09/15
likely so.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
How long have you been dating this guy? Under a year, right?...
Electric idiotic ape
  10/09/15
Why not ask if all guys in their 40s are desperate to get ma...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Men at any age are rarely desperate to get married.
Electric idiotic ape
  10/09/15
False.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
At least your attention whoring days are still here
mint lodge
  10/09/15
...
Copper bossy mental disorder lay
  10/09/15
That's actually cool, so congrats. Definitely don't sign a ...
Silver swashbuckling athletic conference
  10/09/15
Neither of us has kids.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Classic alpha fucks/beta bucks situation Julia's husband ...
Emerald mediation crackhouse
  10/09/15
...
Unhinged spot roommate
  10/09/15
To recap, you accepted a proposal less than 9 months after y...
khaki provocative puppy hell
  10/09/15
? I left my ex almost a year ago
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
No, you were still engaged in December and in January you an...
khaki provocative puppy hell
  10/09/15
I'll take my chances. Don't worry about me.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Well, you just changed your story when I caught you in a lie...
khaki provocative puppy hell
  10/09/15
She's prepared for marriage on that point.
Silver swashbuckling athletic conference
  10/09/15
Apparently she isn't getting married anyway. This guy will ...
glittery haunted graveyard
  10/09/15
is it the dude I met?
stimulating infuriating stag film
  10/09/15
Yeah. Let's leave it at that, though. Don't want XO creeps F...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
OFS
stimulating infuriating stag film
  10/09/15
lmao great thread idea to keep this on the downlow
duck-like partner church building
  10/09/15
Heh. Too late. Heh.
fishy candlestick maker sweet tailpipe
  10/09/15
*spit my coffee out*
brass trip plaza
  10/09/15
Nice, congrats
cyan lettuce state
  10/09/15
...
appetizing learning disabled public bath
  10/09/15
Do you let him fuck your ass?
judgmental mind-boggling kitchen
  10/09/15
I'm a strong independent woman. But don't you dare ask me s...
glittery haunted graveyard
  10/09/15
You sound retarded. A prenup protects his interests, demean...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
(Mid 30's shrew adding another engagement notch to her bedpo...
glittery haunted graveyard
  10/09/15
You sound retarded.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
You sound broken.
glittery haunted graveyard
  10/09/15
You still sound retarded
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
The truth hurts. If you want to have life long relationship...
glittery haunted graveyard
  10/09/15
Are you married?
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
I am. Your 40 something fiancé has been building hi...
bright spectacular parlour
  10/09/15
I sincerely doubt you are. I won't sign it. I'd rather marr...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
B-b-but the institution of marriage, the lib shrew shrieked
mint lodge
  10/09/15
Then why are you engaged?
Glassy hilarious stock car field
  10/09/15
Pretty sure we will work through this. We love each other ...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Describe your expected compromise
Glassy hilarious stock car field
  10/09/15
Nice unhinged edit. Tell us more about what a pre-nup does ...
glittery haunted graveyard
  10/09/15
You seem really angry. You shouldn't be, because nobody's do...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Threads not about me. I'm not angry I just won't let your c...
glittery haunted graveyard
  10/09/15
You're incredibly wrong on all counts, friend.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Devastating...
bright spectacular parlour
  10/09/15
...
judgmental mind-boggling kitchen
  10/09/15
More pics of dat ass less talking
judgmental mind-boggling kitchen
  10/09/15
Gratz julia!! Very happy for you.
Rough-skinned site turdskin
  10/09/15
imaging the title of this poast being sung by Florence and t...
Hairless principal's office
  10/09/15
what about your FELLOWSHIP
Motley medicated regret stage
  10/09/15
What about it?
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Why the fuck would you even post the pre-nup stuff on xo? I...
House-broken filthy legend old irish cottage
  10/09/15
Don't worry. You may not be a shrew, but you'll always be a...
Adventurous Market Indirect Expression
  10/09/15
I will believe it when I read something about it in a blog o...
Heady know-it-all stain goyim
  10/09/15
You never will. Thanks, though.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
congratulations Julia! I expect an invitation to the bach...
lilac clown
  10/09/15
Congratulations, sounds like his sperm is probably old and n...
flatulent smoky messiness
  10/09/15
Don't be mean to Julia
glittery haunted graveyard
  10/09/15
holy shit this is the nastiest I've ever seen you be to some...
lilac clown
  10/09/15
She knows I'm kidding :) I don't think she wants kids
flatulent smoky messiness
  10/09/15
ur a weirdo
Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party
  10/09/15
He's incredibly nasty to me all the time. That's just the so...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Well now I feel bad. I hope it works out. My advice is to si...
flatulent smoky messiness
  10/09/15
I can't believe you let these losers talk to you like this. ...
duck-like partner church building
  10/09/15
How many times have we had this thread?
frum pungent main people
  10/09/15
if im 40 something and had been building my net worth for 15...
Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party
  10/09/15
Nah. If you can't trust someone enough to have a real partne...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
you dont get how badly divorce laws fuck men over financiall...
Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party
  10/09/15
Ha
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
'premarital assets' has a very specific definition i don't...
Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party
  10/09/15
We have different philosophies. I've literally no monetary i...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
if you have no monetary interest, then pre-nup shouldnt be a...
Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party
  10/09/15
It's a problem for all the reasons I've enumerated above. Th...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
You know, I totally agree with this in theory. The problem ...
orchid mad cow disease church
  10/09/15
Julia why even marry this guy in the first place?
Fragrant Giraffe
  10/09/15
I love him
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
if you, bluesmoke, and I were all single would you want to h...
Fragrant Giraffe
  10/09/15
OFS
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
sans clothes?
Fragrant Giraffe
  10/09/15
Lol, No. Maybe BS would indulge you, though.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Julia, did you ever consider dating or have been attracted t...
cracking toilet seat theatre
  10/09/15
What's his name?
Gold Bonkers Factory Reset Button
  10/09/15
:_( Julia Earlier in the thread you said that dating v...
purple histrionic range
  10/09/15
I think a woman's dating value is highest from about 25-30 (...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
"I think a woman's dating value is highest from about 2...
Gold Bonkers Factory Reset Button
  10/09/15
It is. That's just reality. A 29 yo woman, for example, can ...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
If we're talking dating with the object of an LTR and marria...
marvelous hideous hunting ground people who are hurt
  10/09/15
That's not when their value is highest though.
Gold Bonkers Factory Reset Button
  10/09/15
The time when the dating market dictates you're likeliest to...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
I deliberately replied to 29 and not you for a reason, hth
Gold Bonkers Factory Reset Button
  10/09/15
I'm sure her reply will not be dissimilar. HTH.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
It isn't. Value for dating for sex is different to value fo...
marvelous hideous hunting ground people who are hurt
  10/09/15
:_( Ok. At 31 I just started dating a girl. Assuming I do...
purple histrionic range
  10/09/15
Thanks. Yeah, that's fair. If you're open to dating wo...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
is he circumcised?
Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party
  10/09/15
Congratulations Julia. I wouldn't sign a prenup either an...
marvelous hideous hunting ground people who are hurt
  10/09/15
Thanks. Was hoping for some female perspective here.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Specifically I agree with this post of yours: http://www....
marvelous hideous hunting ground people who are hurt
  10/09/15
skyrocketing divorce rates have rendered pre-nups pretty inv...
Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party
  10/09/15
He's never been divorced.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
i feel the same way the guys keep saying that it should b...
lilac clown
  10/09/15
People change over time. Nobody can promise how they'll feel...
Glassy hilarious stock car field
  10/28/15
I agree with all this in theory but lets be real here. At 3...
passionate stead death wish
  10/28/15
No offense, but you're evidently much more emotional about t...
Cerebral home shitlib
  10/09/15
The prenup is actively insulting. It's a deal breaker. I lov...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
are you fckng serious half the marriages end in divorce a...
Heady know-it-all stain goyim
  10/09/15
That's cool that you feel that way.
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
(aspie gold digger)
Heady know-it-all stain goyim
  10/09/15
(Retard) I'm the antithesis of a gold digger. Id rather mar...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Prenups are basically a standard in my family, but its becau...
chestnut vibrant school cafeteria pistol
  10/09/15
dont bother she is either an aspie retard who doesn't unders...
Heady know-it-all stain goyim
  10/09/15
lol yes what is wrong with asking to come to an agreement in...
chestnut vibrant school cafeteria pistol
  10/09/15
You shouldn't be marrying anyone who you don't trust in the ...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
Nothing deep or philosophical about it. It's women's nonsen...
glittery haunted graveyard
  10/09/15
"You shouldn't be marrying anyone who you don't trust i...
violet base travel guidebook
  10/09/15
people get life insurance because they know their ass is gon...
lilac clown
  10/09/15
does it amaze you as much as it does me how much bullshit of...
sinister hairraiser piazza
  10/09/15
i literally cannot fucking believe it when people take julia...
claret den foreskin
  10/09/15
Do I get a prize?
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
I know she's bent the truth a little on occasion before but ...
marvelous hideous hunting ground people who are hurt
  10/09/15
cr I view xo posters as characters. they are who they sa...
lilac clown
  10/09/15
She has made threads similar to this one on several occasion...
frum pungent main people
  10/28/15
Lol flipping fiances like flipping jobs. Also lol at sayi...
Hyperventilating jap stage
  10/09/15
This is false. My ex fiancée was 5 years younger and ...
Soul-stirring brindle gas station
  10/09/15
pretty sure you said he made 6 figs but it's not like he act...
embarrassed to the bone step-uncle's house
  10/09/15
nah I remember her saying he was very young and poor
lilac clown
  10/09/15
stfu you prob were on molly or some shit, danqa
embarrassed to the bone step-uncle's house
  10/09/15
She is truly self deluded.
glittery haunted graveyard
  10/09/15
Congrats, but it kind of sounds like you're not thrilled abo...
violet base travel guidebook
  10/09/15
hilarious thread.
Unhinged spot roommate
  10/09/15
cant believe i missed this thread while away this weekend
contagious umber theater stage yarmulke
  10/11/15
not reading the whole thread, but didn't julia admit to inve...
Ultramarine pisswyrm jewess
  10/14/15
...
Fragrant Giraffe
  10/28/15
this was a pretty entertaining thread
abusive wine feces
  10/28/15
titcr
Iridescent kink-friendly gay wizard resort
  11/01/15


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Date: October 9th, 2015 8:52 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

I will miss them badly :/

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Date: October 9th, 2015 8:53 AM
Author: Vivacious Chrome Parlor

Are you getting marrird?

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Date: October 9th, 2015 8:53 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Yah :(

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Date: October 9th, 2015 8:54 AM
Author: Vivacious Chrome Parlor

Nice!

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Date: October 9th, 2015 8:57 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:01 AM
Author: Vivacious Chrome Parlor

Im 27, in great shape, live in chicago, single. Tell me what I should do in yhe next 3 years

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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:03 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Get all the partying/travel shit our of your system now.

Start looking for a serious LTR/wife material girl. You're at your peak between about now and 32; after then, your dating value begins declining.

Build your career or finalize any education (MBA< etc). Save aggressively if you do continue working.

Get into a job that you actually like or allows you great growth opps.

Don't ignore your family. Nurture important relationships.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932090)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:05 AM
Author: Vivacious Chrome Parlor

Ty. Still holding out that you will join us for the chicago meat up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932104)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:06 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

When is it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932112)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:07 AM
Author: Vivacious Chrome Parlor

Late Oct or early Nov

no date yet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932116)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:54 PM
Author: Diverse Native

excellent advice for anyone

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933832)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:04 AM
Author: orchid mad cow disease church

No one set of circumstances will provide you with 100% of what you want 100% of the time.

In any event, congrats!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932096)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:07 AM
Author: razzmatazz meetinghouse kitty cat

You sound really excited. What a lucky guy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932120)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:08 AM
Author: At-the-ready Excitant School Dopamine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932122)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:08 AM
Author: Sooty comical police squad

she has to prove she's both desired, happy, maeking it, and indifferent to it all. we all know this type.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932126)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:09 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

I love him and am happy about it, but my psychology is pretty masculine. I'm not fanatsizing about some fairy tale wedding

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932130)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:13 AM
Author: razzmatazz meetinghouse kitty cat

I'm just jealous that you chose him over me. Congrats.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932147)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:16 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

It was a touch choice, so I hope you understand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932169)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:47 AM
Author: Fragrant Giraffe

*touches you*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932630)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:10 AM
Author: Vivacious Chrome Parlor

Julia's fiance: "I love you"

Julia: "meh. Guess it's time to give up on life"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932133)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:12 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

:(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932142)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 12:22 PM
Author: Cerebral home shitlib

jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933299)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:13 AM
Author: duck-like partner church building

are you new here? She is laying the groundwork for why she is no longer engaged 4 months from now.

This is her 40th engagement

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932149)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:17 AM
Author: lavender hospital



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932172)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:17 AM
Author: lavender hospital



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932170)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:32 AM
Author: mint lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932569)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 8:53 AM
Author: internet-worthy theater sneaky criminal

Did u get pregnant

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932050)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 8:53 AM
Author: internet-worthy theater sneaky criminal

Any tips on getting my dick sucked in the VIP room?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932052)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:52 AM
Author: Stirring cobalt selfie ticket booth

Julia please respond

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932340)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 8:54 AM
Author: 180 Library

Congratulations girl!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932055)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:05 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Thnx. Marriage isn't a big deal to me, though. It's not some dream fantasy come true or anything. I'm just happy to have someone I love.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932099)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:01 AM
Author: At-the-ready Excitant School Dopamine

weren't you just single like 3 weeks ago?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932076)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:04 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

No.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932092)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:03 AM
Author: honey-headed up-to-no-good location

lol at some poor beta cuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932086)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:03 AM
Author: coral indian lodge

wat a lucky guy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932089)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:04 AM
Author: bright spectacular parlour

Weren't you engaged last time at this year? And then single by January?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932094)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:05 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Yeah, I was engaged to another guy last year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932102)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:07 AM
Author: bright spectacular parlour

Odds this guy doesn't bail?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932119)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:08 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Who the fuck knows. He wants a prenup and all cause he's older/has more money. I'm disinclined to sign a fucking contract when starting a family. That's fucked up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932124)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:10 AM
Author: rose boltzmann locus

ljl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932135)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:10 AM
Author: At-the-ready Excitant School Dopamine

ROFLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932137)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:11 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Yeah, so it might not work out. We'll see. You can laugh again, if that's the case, and I can go back to shrewing it up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932140)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:15 AM
Author: At-the-ready Excitant School Dopamine

i lol because he's absolutely right to want a pre-nup given your attitude

but he probably sucks too so fuck him

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932161)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:17 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

No, I only intend on marrying once, and being a full financial contributor to the household.

He's just afraid of being pwned financially, which isn't gonna happen given my feminism and pride.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932173)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:28 AM
Author: glittery haunted graveyard

Then I guess you don't give anything up by promising as much in writing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932941)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:28 AM
Author: bright spectacular parlour

"But I only INTEND to marry once!!!"

"I'm too much of a feminist to ruin a man in divorce!!!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932944)



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Date: November 6th, 2015 2:03 AM
Author: Talented Abode



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29122219)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:28 AM
Author: appetizing learning disabled public bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932947)



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Date: October 28th, 2015 1:35 PM
Author: Boyish apoplectic corner

with a prenup the guy is not financially trapped so he can upgrade later without additional cost

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29059672)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:11 AM
Author: bright spectacular parlour

LOL 180 XO Julia's Fiancé

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932139)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:14 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Yeah, I'm not doing it, so this may be my second ex fiancee for y'all to laugh about. There'd be a third and fourth if I'd accepted, but I bailed on those dudes. #MEGASHREW4LYFE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932157)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:27 AM
Author: twinkling menage associate

how old is this dood? and how much money does he got? like millions?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932221)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:56 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

he's in his 40s.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932357)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:06 AM
Author: twinkling menage associate

lol he must have millions if u arent answering.. is he colombian?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932413)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:31 AM
Author: orchid mad cow disease church

Why wouldn't you sign it if you didn't want his money anyway in a divorce?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932237)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:33 AM
Author: At-the-ready Excitant School Dopamine

ith the printhiple, she greedily and deceptively lisped

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932248)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:42 AM
Author: orchid mad cow disease church

I mean, I guess the argument against it is that he's contemplating divorce, and that it gives him an easier out later.

Of course, without a pre-nup, it gives HER a much easier out later.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932293)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:54 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932348)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:55 AM
Author: very tactful fat ankles

tl;dr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932356)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:07 AM
Author: Glassy hilarious stock car field

Did you find out about the prenup after you made the im engaged thread?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932414)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:07 AM
Author: rose boltzmann locus

lol, that was an epic screed. Why delete?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932420)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:14 AM
Author: Glassy hilarious stock car field

It was insane. No way a non crazy person would be that against pre nups and yet still make a thread about being engaged while facing a prenup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932465)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:16 AM
Author: rose boltzmann locus

Not seeing how that is different than other Julia poasts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932480)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:44 AM
Author: Glassy hilarious stock car field

True

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932621)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:11 AM
Author: orchid mad cow disease church

i missed it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932446)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:12 AM
Author: bright spectacular parlour

Ps you are not a family until you shit out his brat

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932141)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:41 AM
Author: Razzle round eye becky

given your detached reaction to it, why are you against a pre-nup?

use your leverage to sign something good now, don't destroy your combined wealth on lawyers later

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932286)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:01 AM
Author: Glassy hilarious stock car field

Marriage is a contract

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932746)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:04 AM
Author: Fragrant Giraffe

Do you have ANY fat on your body?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932095)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:07 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Dem hips & ass still rocking it, dontcha know, MC.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932115)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:17 AM
Author: Fragrant Giraffe

180.

congrats on your engagement! please let me know where you guys are registered

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932171)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:12 AM
Author: fishy candlestick maker sweet tailpipe

lol wtf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932145)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:14 AM
Author: supple set filthpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932155)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:14 AM
Author: appetizing learning disabled public bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932153)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:16 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

He's the only guy I've ever been with seriously who is a little bothered by it, tbh. But then, he likes going to strip cubs and shit with me, so who really knows in the end.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932163)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:18 AM
Author: appetizing learning disabled public bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932174)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:32 AM
Author: bright spectacular parlour

Julia can't have children

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932981)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:16 AM
Author: appetizing learning disabled public bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932165)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:18 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

2nd

He's in his 40s.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932177)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:19 AM
Author: appetizing learning disabled public bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932183)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:19 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

no. Mid 30s/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932186)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:21 AM
Author: appetizing learning disabled public bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932190)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:23 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

yep.he knows I'm crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932202)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:24 AM
Author: appetizing learning disabled public bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932206)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:19 PM
Author: khaki provocative puppy hell

LOL. You are NOT in your mid 30s.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933624)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:28 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

How old am I, then? Need to know, because I need to inform the government my birth certificate is innacurate. Thank.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933679)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:53 PM
Author: khaki provocative puppy hell

late 30s.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933820)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:54 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

How old is that, exactly?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933827)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:40 PM
Author: Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party

youre over 35 for sure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935073)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:45 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

I turned 36 this weekend. That makes me mid 30s. Thank.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935111)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:40 PM
Author: Boyish apoplectic corner

Happy birthday!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936355)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:16 AM
Author: Overrated shivering locale alpha

same old song n dance :)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932168)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:25 AM
Author: Arousing Federal Cuck Immigrant

what, again?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932212)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:01 PM
Author: marvelous hideous hunting ground people who are hurt

now, now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935602)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:25 AM
Author: Primrose out-of-control pocket flask

Julia rate my as a poaster

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932213)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:30 AM
Author: Hyperactive Lascivious Bawdyhouse Community Account

you seem miserable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932234)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:31 AM
Author: very tactful fat ankles



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932239)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:10 AM
Author: laughsome office idea he suggested



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932439)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:33 AM
Author: duck-like partner church building



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932571)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:31 PM
Author: claret den foreskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936312)



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Date: October 28th, 2015 1:39 PM
Author: Racy sex offender



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29059700)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:31 AM
Author: Razzle round eye becky

http://news.yahoo.com/couple-release-a-bit-too-much-information-on-their-140027199.html

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932236)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:32 AM
Author: orchid mad cow disease church

lol at anyone on facebook

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932243)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:31 AM
Author: Titillating black casino macaca

Lol flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932562)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:35 AM
Author: French charismatic address circlehead

Julia, when you say "starting a family," are you and your 40s-ish fiance actually contemplating a kid, or do you just mean the two of you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932583)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:36 AM
Author: dark zippy faggot firefighter house

lol at thinking shrews can't be engaged or married. the wedding is often the apex of shrewdom

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932585)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:38 AM
Author: duck-like partner church building

cr it's a major turning point in the life of a shrew who turns all her rage and frustration inward on her husband for whom she invariably believes she settled.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932588)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:14 PM
Author: beady-eyed liquid oxygen

Underrated

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933942)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:43 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

I don't give a fuck about the wedding. i want to elope privately.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932614)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:47 AM
Author: dark zippy faggot firefighter house

ok so is that what you'll be doing?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932634)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:48 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

likely so.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932644)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:44 AM
Author: Electric idiotic ape

How long have you been dating this guy? Under a year, right?

Are all mid-30s women this desperate to get hitched?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932620)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:49 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Why not ask if all guys in their 40s are desperate to get married? I'm actually in the small %age of women who isn't enamored with all the fairy tale imagery of weddings and babies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932651)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:57 AM
Author: Electric idiotic ape

Men at any age are rarely desperate to get married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932716)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:19 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

False.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932878)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:46 AM
Author: mint lodge

At least your attention whoring days are still here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932628)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:37 PM
Author: Copper bossy mental disorder lay



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935461)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:47 AM
Author: Silver swashbuckling athletic conference

That's actually cool, so congrats. Definitely don't sign a prenup if you aren't comfortable with it.

Does he have any children of his own already?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932633)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:48 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Neither of us has kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932646)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:04 AM
Author: Emerald mediation crackhouse

Classic alpha fucks/beta bucks situation

Julia's husband better not think "future wife" thread thoughts, JFC...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932763)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:24 PM
Author: Unhinged spot roommate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937567)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:22 AM
Author: khaki provocative puppy hell

To recap, you accepted a proposal less than 9 months after you were jilted?

Sounds like you have really thought this through.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932894)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:26 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

?

I left my ex almost a year ago

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932930)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:28 AM
Author: khaki provocative puppy hell

No, you were still engaged in December and in January you announced it was off.

So you accepted the proposal from a guy you couldn't have possibly started dating until January, which means you accepted the proposal of a man you dated for less than 9 months. That is fucking ridiculous. You shouldn't marry ANYONE you haven't seriously dated for more than 2 years. Even a Thunderbird online grad should know that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932951)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:31 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

I'll take my chances. Don't worry about me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932973)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 12:12 PM
Author: khaki provocative puppy hell

Well, you just changed your story when I caught you in a lie. So, good luck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933238)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:26 PM
Author: Silver swashbuckling athletic conference

She's prepared for marriage on that point.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28934043)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:36 AM
Author: glittery haunted graveyard

Apparently she isn't getting married anyway. This guy will know what's up when she doesn't sign.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933008)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:25 AM
Author: stimulating infuriating stag film

is it the dude I met?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932927)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:27 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Yeah. Let's leave it at that, though. Don't want XO creeps FB stalking me or him. This is why I don't post pics of any dudes I date on FB.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932938)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:29 AM
Author: stimulating infuriating stag film

OFS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932953)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:29 AM
Author: duck-like partner church building

lmao great thread idea to keep this on the downlow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932960)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:29 AM
Author: fishy candlestick maker sweet tailpipe

Heh. Too late. Heh.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932961)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:42 AM
Author: brass trip plaza

*spit my coffee out*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933040)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:44 PM
Author: cyan lettuce state

Nice, congrats

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935514)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:31 AM
Author: appetizing learning disabled public bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932977)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:30 AM
Author: judgmental mind-boggling kitchen

Do you let him fuck your ass?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932971)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:31 AM
Author: glittery haunted graveyard

I'm a strong independent woman. But don't you dare ask me sign a contract holding me to this claim!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932978)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:33 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

You sound retarded. A prenup protects his interests, demeans the party who is being handed a contract, reduces the institution of marriage to a financial contact, creates disunity, assigns a monetary value to children and love, and implies distrust.

I would rather marry someone penniless with whom I'm building a shared life and with whom everything is truly equitable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932991)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:35 AM
Author: glittery haunted graveyard

(Mid 30's shrew adding another engagement notch to her bedpost while confidently opining on relationships on xo)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933001)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:36 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

You sound retarded.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933005)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:37 AM
Author: glittery haunted graveyard

You sound broken.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933016)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:38 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

You still sound retarded

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933022)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:43 AM
Author: glittery haunted graveyard

The truth hurts. If you want to have life long relationship you need to rehinge your relationship attitudes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933046)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:44 AM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Are you married?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933051)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:20 PM
Author: bright spectacular parlour

I am. Your 40 something fiancé has been building his net worth for 20 years. He's been dating you 8-9 months and he would be a fool not to prenup.

If you want have the prenup expire after ten years.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933980)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:31 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

I sincerely doubt you are.

I won't sign it. I'd rather marry someone in similar financial circumstances -to my own or even someone penniless - with whom I can have a real partnership and build a shared life, rather than this absurdity.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935023)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 12:35 PM
Author: mint lodge

B-b-but the institution of marriage, the lib shrew shrieked

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933372)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:25 PM
Author: Glassy hilarious stock car field

Then why are you engaged?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933657)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:26 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Pretty sure we will work through this. We love each other and will find some compromise

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933665)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:33 PM
Author: Glassy hilarious stock car field

Describe your expected compromise

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933706)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:04 PM
Author: glittery haunted graveyard

Nice unhinged edit. Tell us more about what a pre-nup does in your shrew fantasies. It's hilarious that you list "protecting his interests" amongst your menagerie of pre-nup horrors.

If he's making all these awful implications about you, why are you interested in marriage? Hint: you aren't or you are lying about your imagined pre-nup evils.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933887)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:07 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

You seem really angry. You shouldn't be, because nobody's done anything to you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933904)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:10 PM
Author: glittery haunted graveyard

Threads not about me. I'm not angry I just won't let your cognitive dissonance go unrebutted. It's understandable that logic and reality is hard to confront, but I'm trying to help enlighten.

Marriage is a legal and social contract. A pre-nup allows mature adults to set the legal terms rather than allowing the state to set the terms. There are no downsides to a pre-nup if both parties are equals. You're objections are based on your own doubts about the marriage or some other ulterior motive.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933918)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:14 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

You're incredibly wrong on all counts, friend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28934888)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:37 AM
Author: bright spectacular parlour

Devastating...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933011)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:39 AM
Author: judgmental mind-boggling kitchen



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933030)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:44 AM
Author: judgmental mind-boggling kitchen

More pics of dat ass less talking

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933053)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 12:11 PM
Author: Rough-skinned site turdskin

Gratz julia!! Very happy for you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933222)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 12:13 PM
Author: Hairless principal's office

imaging the title of this poast being sung by Florence and the Machine

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iWOyfLBYtuU

congrats

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933251)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 12:19 PM
Author: Motley medicated regret stage

what about your FELLOWSHIP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933281)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 12:20 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

What about it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933285)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:13 PM
Author: House-broken filthy legend old irish cottage

Why the fuck would you even post the pre-nup stuff on xo? If you're engaged you shouldn't be this starved for attention. Thank god I'm with a normal organic girl and not a shrew.

FYI, don't sign the pre-nup.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933585)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:25 PM
Author: Adventurous Market Indirect Expression

Don't worry. You may not be a shrew, but you'll always be a cunt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933658)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:27 PM
Author: Heady know-it-all stain goyim

I will believe it when I read something about it in a blog or website

good luck anyway

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933672)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:29 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

You never will. Thanks, though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933681)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:50 PM
Author: lilac clown

congratulations Julia!

I expect an invitation to the bachelorette party! not the wedding, since I don't get up before sunset. Just the bachelorette party.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933797)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:23 PM
Author: flatulent smoky messiness

Congratulations, sounds like his sperm is probably old and nasty so keep me in mind when you're looking for a donor with some robust swimmers

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28934010)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:24 PM
Author: glittery haunted graveyard

Don't be mean to Julia

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28934027)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:32 PM
Author: lilac clown

holy shit this is the nastiest I've ever seen you be to someone on here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935030)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:32 PM
Author: flatulent smoky messiness

She knows I'm kidding :) I don't think she wants kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935036)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:34 PM
Author: Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party

ur a weirdo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935046)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:35 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

He's incredibly nasty to me all the time. That's just the sort if person he is.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935053)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:50 PM
Author: flatulent smoky messiness

Well now I feel bad. I hope it works out. My advice is to sign the prenup. Think of it like a financial STD test. We all need to do things like this for our peace of mind.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935151)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:07 PM
Author: duck-like partner church building

I can't believe you let these losers talk to you like this. They are soo rude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935288)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:08 PM
Author: frum pungent main people

How many times have we had this thread?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28934820)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:39 PM
Author: Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party

if im 40 something and had been building my net worth for 15+ years, i'd want a pre-nup too marrying a chick I'd dated 9 months. he'd be dumb not too. i agree with guy above who says you should fight for a sunset clause in it or something though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935069)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:44 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Nah. If you can't trust someone enough to have a real partnership, then it's not worth marrying them. I'm not going to live a farcical life where we are basically roommates cohabitating and I have to keep receipts of every expense I incur.

Like I said, if this doesn't work, I'll make damned sure the next guy I date is my financial peer or poorer than me. Somebody who I can actually build a life with - not somebody handing me a contract on their terms and putting monetary value on kids or length of marriage. Why marry for that shit?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935107)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:47 PM
Author: Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party

you dont get how badly divorce laws fuck men over financially. this guy having a failed marriage in his 40s and losing half his shit would be devastating. he's not 30 with many years to bounce back.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935125)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:50 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station
Subject: Ha

Oh, I get it. But premarital assets are protected in divorce, and anyhow, since he's retired, I'd be the one putting more assets at stake since it's my active financial contributions that would constitute most of the community property that would be divided in a divorce.

Sure, I could hire a lawyer and insert clauses to protect myself, eyc. But that is precisely what I'm trying to avoid - creating contracts and financial bullshit where we are both keeping track of what money belongs to whom and who pays for what from which funds. That's not a life together . Better to marry a dude with no money whatsoever and build something with our own bare hands than live a farce like that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935148)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:53 PM
Author: Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party

'premarital assets' has a very specific definition

i don't think this guy is being unreasonable if he's so loaded that he's retired already. i'd want to protect myself too. i think you said he had already been divorced before.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935177)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:57 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

We have different philosophies. I've literally no monetary interest in men and would rather marry a poor. At least the home we share together would be truly OURS.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935214)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:58 PM
Author: Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party

if you have no monetary interest, then pre-nup shouldnt be a problem

good luck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935228)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:03 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

It's a problem for all the reasons I've enumerated above. Thanks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935263)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:00 PM
Author: orchid mad cow disease church

You know, I totally agree with this in theory. The problem is A LOT of successful guys have gotten straight burned in divorces without prenups, very significantly. I know one in particular who was worth about $10mm, and got taken to the cleaners by his ex who left him for some banking exec worth hundreds of mils, but she did it out of spite and to be a cunt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935243)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:47 PM
Author: Fragrant Giraffe

Julia why even marry this guy in the first place?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935126)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:50 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

I love him

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935154)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:56 PM
Author: Fragrant Giraffe

if you, bluesmoke, and I were all single would you want to hang out and party?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935207)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:57 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

OFS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935219)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:01 PM
Author: Fragrant Giraffe

sans clothes?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935250)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:04 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Lol, No. Maybe BS would indulge you, though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935268)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:58 PM
Author: cracking toilet seat theatre

Julia, did you ever consider dating or have been attracted to a NOWAG? Be honest please.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935586)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:32 PM
Author: Gold Bonkers Factory Reset Button

What's his name?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935430)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:00 PM
Author: purple histrionic range

:_(

Julia

Earlier in the thread you said that dating value begins to decline at 32. How so for a guy? I am 31 and I feel my dating value is as high as it's ever been and going up over the next five year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935595)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:03 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

I think a woman's dating value is highest from about 25-30 ( a 30 yo woman is still attractive to older men, for example) and a man's from about 28-32 (maybe 35 if he keeps his hair/stays in shape).

After that age, finding quality mates becomes harder. Not impossible, just harder. Most of the good ones are off the market by that time. And even as a 32-35 yo guy, the pool of quality younger women available to you begins to shrink. Not all good 27 yo girls would seriously date a 35 yo, for example. Thus, your peak is probably up till about 32 - that's when the greatest number of quality mates are available to you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935612)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:05 PM
Author: Gold Bonkers Factory Reset Button

"I think a woman's dating value is highest from about 25-30"

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935623)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:07 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

It is. That's just reality. A 29 yo woman, for example, can reasonably date any man 25-40 she chooses.

A 22 yo realistically only dates other 20-somethings.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935633)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:11 PM
Author: marvelous hideous hunting ground people who are hurt

If we're talking dating with the object of an LTR and marriage then statistics bear this out as the age range in which most UMC women meet their husbands.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935663)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:35 PM
Author: Gold Bonkers Factory Reset Button

That's not when their value is highest though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935880)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:37 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

The time when the dating market dictates you're likeliest to find a marriageable mate is when your value is highest. It's not when most men want to fuck you. That's the sexual marketplace.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935894)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:38 PM
Author: Gold Bonkers Factory Reset Button

I deliberately replied to 29 and not you for a reason, hth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935899)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:40 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

I'm sure her reply will not be dissimilar. HTH.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935926)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:49 PM
Author: marvelous hideous hunting ground people who are hurt

It isn't. Value for dating for sex is different to value for dating with an eye to an LTR or marriage.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936417)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:09 PM
Author: purple histrionic range

:_(

Ok. At 31 I just started dating a girl. Assuming I don't marry her I will be in my 32-35 age range trying to find a wife. I'm in shape, so I think I should be fine through 35 if I am OK with 30-33 y/o women (which I am). Is that fair?

Also congrats.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935641)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:11 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Thanks.

Yeah, that's fair.

If you're open to dating women your age or just a few years younger, your peak is the point in time when the net composite of your appearance and general desirability peaks. Many women tend to look for "success" in guys. So, often that peak is sometime in a man's 30s. It's rarely after 35, though, unless the guy is very good looking or very successful.

That said, you can find love at anytime, and some chix like myself don't care about a guy's success or looks very much, so it becomes less relevant in discussing "peaks". I'm just talking general trends here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935657)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:02 PM
Author: Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party

is he circumcised?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935607)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:02 PM
Author: marvelous hideous hunting ground people who are hurt

Congratulations Julia.

I wouldn't sign a prenup either and for the same reasons you've given upthread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935609)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:04 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Thanks. Was hoping for some female perspective here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935616)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:10 PM
Author: marvelous hideous hunting ground people who are hurt

Specifically I agree with this post of yours:

http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&mc=194&forum_id=2#28932991

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935645)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:14 PM
Author: Multi-colored Grizzly Reading Party

skyrocketing divorce rates have rendered pre-nups pretty invaluable, especially when one party goes into the marriage with much more wealth than the other, sorry. it's just reality.

this is a bro who's already been divorced once

if Julia wouldn't sign, then i'd say oh well

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935684)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:16 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

He's never been divorced.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935712)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:37 PM
Author: lilac clown

i feel the same way

the guys keep saying that it should be ok if you're not a gold digger but I don't think they understand how we *feel*

in asking for a pre-nut your man is basically:

A)saying he thinks a divorce is possible already

B)he thinks so little of your character that he can se you trying to take him to the cleaners if you were to divorce.

It doesn't say much for his feelings about you or your relationship.

It's the same thing with a paternity test. Even if I had been faithful and was certain my husband was the dad I would be devastated because asking for a paternity test is basically saying "I think you're capable of not allowing fucking around with other man behind my back but I also think you're so dishonest that you would try to pass your love-child off as mine." if you're going to spend the rest of your life with someone you should obviously trust them. You should trust them with your fucking life. You shouldn't be worried about them fucking other people and trying to steal your money and shit. If you feel this way about the person, why are you with them?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937220)



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Date: October 28th, 2015 1:47 PM
Author: Glassy hilarious stock car field

People change over time. Nobody can promise how they'll feel in 5+ years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29059768)



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Date: October 28th, 2015 2:22 PM
Author: passionate stead death wish

I agree with all this in theory but lets be real here. At 35+ neither of them are spring chickens. They've both been around the block a few times, gone through tough shit with people they probably trusted more and dated longer than each other.

I would say this situation would be untenable except for the fact that premarital property is separate and it doesn't seem like that much money is at stake. It's not something that should prevent OP from marrying though and she also shouldn't take it as an insult or indication of his mistrust for her in particular. Guys that have been through a divorce and dealt with the legal system are inevitably more cautious and bitter towards all members of the opposite sex.

If worst comes to worst, just hand-write a simple 1 pager and sign it in front of a mutual friend or something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29060022)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:11 PM
Author: Cerebral home shitlib

No offense, but you're evidently much more emotional about the pre-nup than you are about your husband or your marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935661)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:15 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

The prenup is actively insulting. It's a deal breaker. I love him and want to marry him, but I have enough self-respect to walk away if we can't compromise - though i'm sure we will.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935698)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:39 PM
Author: Heady know-it-all stain goyim

are you fckng serious

half the marriages end in divorce and even those ppl went in with full hope and possibly even stronger love than your retarded sounding relationship

depending on his wealth we could be talking millions so fck that shit. this is no different than taking life insurance. nobody is planning on dying right away when they take it



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935915)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:40 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

That's cool that you feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935921)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:43 PM
Author: Heady know-it-all stain goyim

(aspie gold digger)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935945)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:44 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

(Retard)

I'm the antithesis of a gold digger. Id rather marry a penniless guy than an affluent guy who destroys the ideal of marriage through a prenup. I'm quite serious.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935961)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:14 PM
Author: chestnut vibrant school cafeteria pistol

Prenups are basically a standard in my family, but its because I have inter generational trusts, its what my relatives wanted to secure for us.

My parents never had a prenup and I can wholly say my mom is kind of a psychopath and tried to ruin our family financially as much as possible during and after their divorce. I think prenups should be viewed as just a promise you won't try to screw each other in case things go bad, after being on the receiving end with my own family being torn apart because of 'money,' I can say I don't think you should be ashamed to ask the person you love that to promise not to screw you over, but on the other hand maybe its not as romantic or natural. Making it a deal breaker is silly though because I believe you can offer it with completely good intentions.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936187)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:16 PM
Author: Heady know-it-all stain goyim

dont bother she is either an aspie retard who doesn't understand reality or devious gold digger

let me guess she is going to wear white though right? doubt all the "ideal of marriage" was considered there

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936209)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:29 PM
Author: chestnut vibrant school cafeteria pistol

lol yes what is wrong with asking to come to an agreement in case all shit hits the fan.

I'm pretty sure my brothers and cousins who are apart of trusts my relatives worked hard to secure for us would be pretty upset if my marriage fell apart and it impacted their lives. How can people find offense to this is beyond me?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936303)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:47 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

You shouldn't be marrying anyone who you don't trust in the eventuality of a divorce. People can disagree about this. That's why you should discuss the possibility of a prenup well in anticipation of engagement, because some

women can and do take deep philosophical and emotional offense to one.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936398)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:21 PM
Author: glittery haunted graveyard

Nothing deep or philosophical about it. It's women's nonsensical "feelings" as was admitted by another woman above. There is nothing preferable about having the state dictate the legal guidelines for a divorce v. a negotiated agreement. Two smart people can come up with something much more fair and with less risk of huge costs. Your sour associations are not a basis for much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937546)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:32 PM
Author: violet base travel guidebook

"You shouldn't be marrying anyone who you don't trust in the eventuality of a divorce."

FYI - no one has any idea if how anyone will act in a divorce (unless they have seen them go through several divorces, which doesn't apply to you). Why would your SO be expected to believe that you wouldn't take money you could get in court at a time when you hate him and want to hurt him?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28938026)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:38 PM
Author: lilac clown

people get life insurance because they know their ass is gonna die!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937236)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:21 PM
Author: sinister hairraiser piazza

does it amaze you as much as it does me how much bullshit of yours xo posters eat up?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936247)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:33 PM
Author: claret den foreskin

i literally cannot fucking believe it when people take julia at her word. pound for pound, she's easily the most accomplished bullshitter in the history of XO.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936322)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:44 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

Do I get a prize?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936375)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:51 PM
Author: marvelous hideous hunting ground people who are hurt

I know she's bent the truth a little on occasion before but it gets tiring assuming everything everyone tells you on xo about their RL is false.

Plus its fun to discuss interesting things even if they aren't necessarily true IRL.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936428)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:41 PM
Author: lilac clown

cr

I view xo posters as characters. they are who they say they are and they do what they say they so.

I don't get people who try to spot flame and catch people in lies. It takes the fun out of everything.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937267)



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Date: October 28th, 2015 1:49 PM
Author: frum pungent main people

She has made threads similar to this one on several occasions.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29059777)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:53 PM
Author: Hyperventilating jap stage

Lol flipping fiances like flipping jobs.

Also lol at saying you would rather marry a penniless person than sign a prenup but only date older men with money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936439)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:47 PM
Author: Soul-stirring brindle gas station

This is false. My ex fiancée was 5 years younger and was a penniless non profit worker. The fact is a man's wealth has no bearing on my desire to be with him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937326)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:53 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone step-uncle's house

pretty sure you said he made 6 figs but it's not like he actually existed anyways

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937361)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:56 PM
Author: lilac clown

nah I remember her saying he was very young and poor

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937374)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:59 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone step-uncle's house

stfu you prob were on molly or some shit, danqa

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937392)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:23 PM
Author: glittery haunted graveyard

She is truly self deluded.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937557)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:27 PM
Author: violet base travel guidebook

Congrats, but it kind of sounds like you're not thrilled about this and at best have a "I can take it or leave it" attitude. At worst, you are already regretting getting married and you just got engaged. Given that, why are you doing this? FOMO?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937591)



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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:01 PM
Author: Unhinged spot roommate

hilarious thread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937792)



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Date: October 11th, 2015 9:53 PM
Author: contagious umber theater stage yarmulke

cant believe i missed this thread while away this weekend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28948727)



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Date: October 14th, 2015 9:13 PM
Author: Ultramarine pisswyrm jewess

not reading the whole thread, but didn't julia admit to inventing a fake fiancee last year? prenup sounds like a hook to explain to xo why it didn't work out in a few months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28968446)



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Date: October 28th, 2015 12:59 PM
Author: Fragrant Giraffe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29059461)



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Date: October 28th, 2015 1:45 PM
Author: abusive wine feces

this was a pretty entertaining thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29059748)



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Date: November 1st, 2015 12:52 PM
Author: Iridescent kink-friendly gay wizard resort

titcr



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29086902)