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He won't give me his computer password!!!! Thoughts??? I f...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
he is showing his cock to randos.
aggressive boistinker
  09/06/10
Confront him on this?
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
yes or it will spin out of control
aggressive boistinker
  09/06/10
Ok. How should I phrase it?
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
i cannot help you here. he will get butthurt, but he'll get...
aggressive boistinker
  09/06/10
Seems like you think he is a cheater though...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
depends on what you define as cheating.
aggressive boistinker
  09/06/10
Give him 24 hours to move his porn to a hidden folder and de...
comical geriatric becky
  09/06/10
I am okay with porn (not happy about it but no objection), I...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
he's doing it, for sure.
aggressive boistinker
  09/06/10
Are you being serious? I can't tell.
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
serious as a heart attack.
aggressive boistinker
  09/06/10
:/
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
sorry, but it needs to be said and maybe you can confront hi...
aggressive boistinker
  09/06/10
But I don't have proof. I don't see how my gut instinct is e...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
But if you ASK for the password and he knows you have the pa...
mind-boggling puce fortuitous meteor
  09/06/10
So I can go online?
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
You'll get in everywhere you apply!
pink candlestick maker
  09/06/10
What?
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
EVERYBODY DANCE NOW
pink candlestick maker
  09/06/10
I would never give a girl my computer password. I'm even les...
Rose Rough-skinned Lodge Idiot
  09/06/10
Please explain why. Especially if it doesn't involve cheatin...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
can I read your diary and go through your things?
pink candlestick maker
  09/06/10
I leave my bf alone in my apartment all the time. I don't h...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
that solves it then
pink candlestick maker
  09/06/10
Huh?
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
YOU'RE SHITTY ASS FLAME THAT SHOULD DIE YOU FUCKING CUNT FAG...
pink candlestick maker
  09/06/10
Sorry you have a major problem with women.
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
lol at you being a woman
pink candlestick maker
  09/06/10
uhhhh why do u need his comp pw?
greedy menage
  09/06/10
So I can get my email when I am over at his house or just go...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
Maybe you should go to the store with him.
comical geriatric becky
  09/06/10
I would if he asked me to. But anyway, that's not the issue...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
bring ur laptop to his place. get a smartphone. ask him to s...
greedy menage
  09/06/10
Exactly.
diverse school cafeteria indirect expression
  09/06/10
But I think he's hiding something now.
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
lol at this shitty ass flame.
nofapping business firm death wish
  09/06/10
Why the fuck would anyone ask for their SO's password; much ...
Odious plaza
  09/06/10
It's a trust thing. Plus you aren't supposed to be hiding t...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
DIAF
pink candlestick maker
  09/06/10
Exactly. "It's a trust thing." You should trust ...
Odious plaza
  09/06/10
In past relationships I have had guys give me their EMAIL pa...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
No, I'm the one advocating individual privacy, even in serio...
Odious plaza
  09/06/10
You're supposed to steal it using key logging software or wh...
mind-boggling puce fortuitous meteor
  09/06/10
titcr.
aggressive boistinker
  09/06/10
they're doomed
mind-boggling puce fortuitous meteor
  09/06/10
LOL
comical geriatric becky
  09/06/10
I am not a cheater.
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
You're just picking a fight for no good reason. If he gives ...
mind-boggling puce fortuitous meteor
  09/06/10
I guess I Wasn't being clear. I wanted the password just to...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
First of all, of COURSE he doesn't want you to have the pass...
mind-boggling puce fortuitous meteor
  09/06/10
What about when he leaves for thirty minutes to go to the st...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
Go to the store with him. BAD girlfriend, very very BAD.
mind-boggling puce fortuitous meteor
  09/06/10
I am too tired sometimes.
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
Exactly.
comical geriatric becky
  09/06/10
if my bf were like this our relationship would not last even...
Big jet resort
  09/06/10
Um, I thought your relationship was a series of 2 month peri...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
DIAF,B
Big jet resort
  09/06/10
Just saying...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
at least rach isn't imaginary
pink candlestick maker
  09/06/10
I think you're obsessed with me. Should I get a restraining ...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
lol nigger
pink candlestick maker
  09/06/10
Wow.
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
You are a nigger, right? NIGGER!
Rose Rough-skinned Lodge Idiot
  09/06/10
this is stalkerish. Why do you need his password to his com...
charismatic mad cow disease chad
  09/06/10
What are you trying to hide? How is it private to someone yo...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10
...
Cheese-eating karate
  09/06/10


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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:35 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

He won't give me his computer password!!!! Thoughts??? I find this disconcerting. We have been 2gether for 2 years. Have I not done enough to earn his trust and curry favor?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975710)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:36 AM
Author: aggressive boistinker

he is showing his cock to randos.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975715)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:36 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

Confront him on this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975718)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:36 AM
Author: aggressive boistinker

yes or it will spin out of control

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975723)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:37 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

Ok. How should I phrase it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975728)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:38 AM
Author: aggressive boistinker

i cannot help you here. he will get butthurt, but he'll get over it if you sexually please him (regularly).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975742)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:39 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

Seems like you think he is a cheater though...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975747)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:40 AM
Author: aggressive boistinker

depends on what you define as cheating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975766)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:37 AM
Author: comical geriatric becky

Give him 24 hours to move his porn to a hidden folder and delete all archived email from ex-GFs, etc.

You are then within your rights to ask again. Whatever you do, don't abuse this privilege though!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975732)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:39 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

I am okay with porn (not happy about it but no objection), I just don't want him messaging any other women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975743)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:39 AM
Author: aggressive boistinker

he's doing it, for sure.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975754)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:40 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

Are you being serious? I can't tell.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975768)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:41 AM
Author: aggressive boistinker

serious as a heart attack.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975777)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:42 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

:/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975785)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:43 AM
Author: aggressive boistinker

sorry, but it needs to be said and maybe you can confront him before he does something he will regret and won't be honest about later.

edit: clearly YOU already suspect something

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975798)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:45 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

But I don't have proof. I don't see how my gut instinct is enough.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975821)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:50 AM
Author: mind-boggling puce fortuitous meteor

But if you ASK for the password and he knows you have the password, what is the point?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975866)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:52 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

So I can go online?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975884)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:39 AM
Author: pink candlestick maker

You'll get in everywhere you apply!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975748)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:39 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

What?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975753)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:40 AM
Author: pink candlestick maker

EVERYBODY DANCE NOW

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975759)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:40 AM
Author: Rose Rough-skinned Lodge Idiot

I would never give a girl my computer password. I'm even less likely to give one to a guy who creates xo flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975762)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:41 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

Please explain why. Especially if it doesn't involve cheating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975771)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:42 AM
Author: pink candlestick maker

can I read your diary and go through your things?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975783)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:42 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

I leave my bf alone in my apartment all the time. I don't have a diary though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975786)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:44 AM
Author: pink candlestick maker

that solves it then

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975803)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:45 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

Huh?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975822)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:46 AM
Author: pink candlestick maker

YOU'RE SHITTY ASS FLAME THAT SHOULD DIE YOU FUCKING CUNT FAGGOT NIGGER SLUT BITCH

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975831)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:47 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

Sorry you have a major problem with women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975836)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:48 AM
Author: pink candlestick maker

lol at you being a woman

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975843)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:44 AM
Author: greedy menage

uhhhh why do u need his comp pw?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975799)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:46 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

So I can get my email when I am over at his house or just go online when he goes to the store for something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975825)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:46 AM
Author: comical geriatric becky

Maybe you should go to the store with him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975829)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:47 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

I would if he asked me to. But anyway, that's not the issue.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975838)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:48 AM
Author: greedy menage

bring ur laptop to his place. get a smartphone. ask him to set up a guest account.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975852)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:50 AM
Author: diverse school cafeteria indirect expression

Exactly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975868)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:51 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

But I think he's hiding something now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975874)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:44 AM
Author: nofapping business firm death wish

lol at this shitty ass flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975806)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:46 AM
Author: Odious plaza

Why the fuck would anyone ask for their SO's password; much less feel entitled to it? It's find if someone voluntarily gives it to you, but you should NEVER ask nor feel as though its owed to you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975830)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:48 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

It's a trust thing. Plus you aren't supposed to be hiding things in a serious relationship. We share a lot more important things than computers, so why not that too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975846)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:50 AM
Author: pink candlestick maker

DIAF

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975864)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:53 AM
Author: Odious plaza

Exactly. "It's a trust thing." You should trust him and your rlsp enough that you don't need to watch his every move to feel validated and secure in it. ESP AFTER TWO YEARS. Christ. If my bf asked me for this (much less thru a hiss fit when I didn't willingly fork it over), I might autodump.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975898)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:54 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

In past relationships I have had guys give me their EMAIL passwords. I'm not even asking for that. I think you're overly sensitive.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975904)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 2:00 AM
Author: Odious plaza

No, I'm the one advocating individual privacy, even in serious rlsps. As Isaid before, its one thing if that info is voluntarily offered up. But asking and then getting all butthurt about it is in essence trying to force emotional intimacy that he's not ready for

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975940)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:49 AM
Author: mind-boggling puce fortuitous meteor

You're supposed to steal it using key logging software or whatever. HELLO

You can't ask for it openly, what sort of a relationship is that? Where's the romance, the passion, the excitement?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975860)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:51 AM
Author: aggressive boistinker

titcr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975872)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:55 AM
Author: mind-boggling puce fortuitous meteor

they're doomed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975905)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:51 AM
Author: comical geriatric becky

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975877)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:51 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

I am not a cheater.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975880)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:55 AM
Author: mind-boggling puce fortuitous meteor

You're just picking a fight for no good reason. If he gives you access, he will delete all incriminating evidence first. What's the point?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975910)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:56 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

I guess I Wasn't being clear. I wanted the password just to go online and check my email and stuff. Not to snoop. Since he said no, now I suspect he's hiding something and am worried.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975912)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 2:02 AM
Author: mind-boggling puce fortuitous meteor

First of all, of COURSE he doesn't want you to have the password. Even if he hasn't done anything wrong he's certain to have porn and other weird/personal stuff on it.

Second of all, if you need to check your email, it only takes a second, you don't need his password for that. And using someone else's computer for an extended period of time is objectively annoying.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975955)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 2:09 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

What about when he leaves for thirty minutes to go to the store and I am there alone?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15976010)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 2:12 AM
Author: mind-boggling puce fortuitous meteor

Go to the store with him. BAD girlfriend, very very BAD.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15976028)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 2:20 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

I am too tired sometimes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15976069)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:56 AM
Author: comical geriatric becky

Exactly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975914)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:57 AM
Author: Big jet resort

if my bf were like this our relationship would not last even a year

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975917)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:58 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

Um, I thought your relationship was a series of 2 month periods of dating punctuated by a hissy fit and breakup, repeated for like 3 years.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975928)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:59 AM
Author: Big jet resort

DIAF,B

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975931)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:59 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

Just saying...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975933)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 1:59 AM
Author: pink candlestick maker

at least rach isn't imaginary

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975938)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 2:00 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

I think you're obsessed with me. Should I get a restraining order?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975943)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 2:01 AM
Author: pink candlestick maker

lol nigger

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975946)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 2:01 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

Wow.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975950)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 2:04 AM
Author: Rose Rough-skinned Lodge Idiot

You are a nigger, right? NIGGER!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975988)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 2:06 AM
Author: charismatic mad cow disease chad

this is stalkerish. Why do you need his password to his computer? Its private

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15975998)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 2:09 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate

What are you trying to hide? How is it private to someone you are sharing your life with?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15976012)



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Date: September 6th, 2010 3:13 AM
Author: Cheese-eating karate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415652&forum_id=2#15976352)