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Dumb to get a $800k mortgage with my GF?

We’re probably getting married (pretty much guaranteed...
Avocado temple mother
  04/20/26
Heights of everyone involved?
Charismatic cruise ship private investor
  04/20/26
Weird question? I’m 6’1 and she’s like 5&r...
Avocado temple mother
  04/20/26
You're fucked.
Charismatic cruise ship private investor
  04/20/26
you are brown
sooty theater stage
  04/22/26
lmao
Supple candlestick maker
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Amethyst aphrodisiac philosopher-king
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contagious citrine parlor
  04/20/26
Explain I’m here looking for advice.
Avocado temple mother
  04/20/26
They are. The problem is that even smart people are incredib...
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  04/20/26
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Provocative Garnet Step-uncle's House Corn Cake
  04/22/26
Banks won't care. But seems risky even if you say marriage i...
trip plum macaca stage
  04/20/26
That’s all I needed to know. Don’t worry about h...
Avocado temple mother
  04/20/26
getting married (pretty much guaranteed) tp
vigorous dark mood
  04/20/26
put a ring on it, faggot
alcoholic insanely creepy selfie crackhouse
  04/20/26
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vigorous dark mood
  04/20/26
Obviously it'd be better to wait until married. It's not li...
arousing violet hunting ground
  04/20/26
Not all of us are in situations where we were in 2021.
Avocado temple mother
  04/20/26
Silver lining for you is that ppl who purchased in 2020 basi...
arousing violet hunting ground
  04/20/26
guy who bought in 2021 @ 2.125% who moved in 2024 here sup?
vigorous dark mood
  04/20/26
Were you forced to sell?
trip plum macaca stage
  04/20/26
not at all. we sold and paid ARR CASH for a bigger house.
vigorous dark mood
  04/20/26
Crazy even if you're all cash buyer.
arousing violet hunting ground
  04/20/26
our starter home was too small and in a much worse neighborh...
vigorous dark mood
  04/20/26
Same. These weird fucks don’t understand the concept o...
Avocado temple mother
  04/21/26
cr, but you're 32 and unmarried yourself
vigorous dark mood
  04/21/26
I’m 40 and married with 5 kids.
Avocado temple mother
  04/21/26
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Charismatic cruise ship private investor
  04/22/26
I paid $700K for an addition rather than buy new.
arousing violet hunting ground
  04/21/26
Dumb for many obvious reasons. What if you have a kid? You s...
Slate Arrogant Plaza Ratface
  04/20/26
Retarded if not married yet
talented locus
  04/20/26
"but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?...
drab harsh double fault doctorate
  04/20/26
who is on the title?
Titillating wine background story milk
  04/20/26
I would say yes if it were 2021 with historically low intere...
Bistre heaven
  04/20/26
We both own condos.
Avocado temple mother
  04/21/26
Sell one and park the cash in something risk free. You stil...
Canary racy ape filthpig
  04/21/26
what could go wrong?
lake maniacal depressive mad-dog skullcap
  04/20/26
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indigo heady love of her life hall
  04/20/26
you only live once
Translucent Dilemma
  04/21/26
https://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/dynamic/23/590x/Dave-Ra...
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  04/21/26
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Ruby knife national
  04/21/26
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Canary racy ape filthpig
  04/21/26
get your priorities straight: love and marriage (legal) come...
Ultramarine misanthropic dragon
  04/21/26
LMFAO, I was going to say yes, assuming you made $500k and e...
Canary racy ape filthpig
  04/21/26
Reading this again knowing that you each own a condo. I'd pr...
Slate Arrogant Plaza Ratface
  04/21/26
The only amount we will both make total is about $100k becau...
Avocado temple mother
  04/21/26
just knock the bitch up already the rest is noise. i never u...
Crusty menage
  04/21/26
She can’t breed
Avocado temple mother
  04/21/26
So why on earth would you do this? Get a new one.
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  04/21/26
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Floppy Indian Lodge
  04/21/26
everyone who responded earnestly to this thread should be pu...
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  04/22/26
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  04/22/26


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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:05 PM
Author: Avocado temple mother

We’re probably getting married (pretty much guaranteed).

I’m 32 and she’s 30. I make $250k and she makes about $150k. We got our preapproval. I’m gonna put $100k down.

So the mortgage would be $750k. Are mortgage companies just going to ok this? They seem like they’re fine with it but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?

This is not flame I legit wanna know.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830034)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:12 PM
Author: Charismatic cruise ship private investor

Heights of everyone involved?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830058)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: Avocado temple mother

Weird question? I’m 6’1 and she’s like 5’5.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830078)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:24 PM
Author: Charismatic cruise ship private investor

You're fucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830090)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 7:06 AM
Author: sooty theater stage

you are brown

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49833725)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:15 PM
Author: Supple candlestick maker

lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830062)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:17 PM
Author: Floppy Indian Lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830065)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: Amethyst aphrodisiac philosopher-king



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830621)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:17 PM
Author: Floppy Indian Lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830067)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:20 PM
Author: contagious citrine parlor



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: Avocado temple mother

Explain I’m here looking for advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830081)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: walnut old irish cottage

They are. The problem is that even smart people are incredibly dumb. Internalize that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830620)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 4:47 PM
Author: Provocative Garnet Step-uncle's House Corn Cake



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49834882)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:19 PM
Author: trip plum macaca stage

Banks won't care. But seems risky even if you say marriage is a guarantee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830072)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: Avocado temple mother

That’s all I needed to know. Don’t worry about how much the mortgage is. I just needed to know the answer to this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830084)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: vigorous dark mood

getting married (pretty much guaranteed) tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830079)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: alcoholic insanely creepy selfie crackhouse

put a ring on it, faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830083)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: vigorous dark mood



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830623)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:24 PM
Author: arousing violet hunting ground

Obviously it'd be better to wait until married. It's not like interest rates are at sub-3% like those of us who purchased in 2020/2021.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830092)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:25 PM
Author: Avocado temple mother

Not all of us are in situations where we were in 2021.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830094)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:29 PM
Author: arousing violet hunting ground

Silver lining for you is that ppl who purchased in 2020 basically cannot in good conscience move.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830108)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:34 PM
Author: vigorous dark mood

guy who bought in 2021 @ 2.125% who moved in 2024 here sup?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830123)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:42 PM
Author: trip plum macaca stage

Were you forced to sell?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830143)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:52 PM
Author: vigorous dark mood

not at all. we sold and paid ARR CASH for a bigger house.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830155)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 6:37 PM
Author: arousing violet hunting ground

Crazy even if you're all cash buyer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830264)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 7:52 PM
Author: vigorous dark mood

our starter home was too small and in a much worse neighborhood than our new house. what could we do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830492)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:56 AM
Author: Avocado temple mother

Same. These weird fucks don’t understand the concept of having children. The ones that say “never sell” are most likely Asians filming their purchased wives being bred.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831300)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 1:09 PM
Author: vigorous dark mood

cr, but you're 32 and unmarried yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49832054)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:37 PM
Author: Avocado temple mother

I’m 40 and married with 5 kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49832209)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 6:56 AM
Author: Charismatic cruise ship private investor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49833721)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 10:04 PM
Author: arousing violet hunting ground

I paid $700K for an addition rather than buy new.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49833282)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:28 PM
Author: Slate Arrogant Plaza Ratface

Dumb for many obvious reasons. What if you have a kid? You sure she's going to want to keep working? I wouldn't bet on it. That's a big nut to pay monthly on your income alone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830101)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:42 PM
Author: talented locus

Retarded if not married yet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830144)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:55 PM
Author: drab harsh double fault doctorate

"but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?"

Same thing that happens to married couples if one of them just say fuck it. If ur both on the mortgage, you both pepper angus. The bank is getting its money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830159)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:42 PM
Author: Titillating wine background story milk

who is on the title?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830655)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:07 PM
Author: Bistre heaven

I would say yes if it were 2021 with historically low interest rates and there was a reason to LOCK something in.

At the moment, 1000% just keep renting and stacking cash until you need a bigger place for babydood.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830533)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:57 AM
Author: Avocado temple mother

We both own condos.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831302)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:09 AM
Author: Canary racy ape filthpig

Sell one and park the cash in something risk free. You still have to get through the wedding, which is not guaranteed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831835)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:43 PM
Author: lake maniacal depressive mad-dog skullcap

what could go wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830659)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:43 PM
Author: indigo heady love of her life hall



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830660)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:57 AM
Author: Translucent Dilemma

you only live once

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831303)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 7:42 AM
Author: Mind-boggling lime feces church building

https://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/dynamic/23/590x/Dave-Ramsey-1536490.jpg?r=1639565934357

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831439)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 7:47 AM
Author: Ruby knife national



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831448)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 1:19 PM
Author: Canary racy ape filthpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49832081)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:08 AM
Author: Ultramarine misanthropic dragon

get your priorities straight: love and marriage (legal) come first-- the rest will follow, hth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831831)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:09 AM
Author: Canary racy ape filthpig

LMFAO, I was going to say yes, assuming you made $500k and everything was in your name. But you can barely afford the mortgage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831832)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:12 AM
Author: Slate Arrogant Plaza Ratface

Reading this again knowing that you each own a condo. I'd probably try and sell them and then put a yuge down payment on the house. Otherwise you will be a housepoor slave based on your incomes. And your "GF" (BF?) will probably not want to work once you have kids.

Do you want to end up like Disco Fries?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831841)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:35 PM
Author: Avocado temple mother

The only amount we will both make total is about $100k because it’s “her” condo but it’s her dad’s technically.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49832203)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:44 PM
Author: Crusty menage

just knock the bitch up already the rest is noise. i never understand how adult men get into these gay "gf" relationships and arent like ok are we having kids or not within a couple months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49832229)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 3:25 PM
Author: Avocado temple mother

She can’t breed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49832323)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 10:59 PM
Author: Thriller Grizzly Tanning Salon Factory Reset Button

So why on earth would you do this? Get a new one.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49833432)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:08 PM
Author: Floppy Indian Lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49833449)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 4:40 PM
Author: Charismatic cruise ship private investor

everyone who responded earnestly to this thread should be put in hospice. 180 thread, btw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49834864)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 5:53 PM
Author: Avocado temple mother



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49835150)