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Poast new message in this thread
Date: September 4th, 2023 6:13 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752264) |
Date: September 4th, 2023 6:38 AM Author: Heady stead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752284) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 6:40 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752289) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 6:45 AM Author: out-of-control national mood 🥶 or 🤬 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752290) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 6:48 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Basically 1.3 years into marriage and 2 years after living together wife thinks my ADHD/aspie traits that she’s been asking me to work on (and tbh I haven’t been super diligent until recently) are too much and she worries that divorce is only way out
Basically I have until early December to shape up but she doesn’t think it’s likely
Main problem is she wants kids soon and doesn’t feel confident in my ability to cope so is worried that she can’t wait much longer
Here we goooo |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 6:56 AM Author: Heady stead how old is she/you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752302) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 6:57 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison She’s 27 and I’m 34 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752304) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:01 AM Author: Heady stead i am so jealous bro. have kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752311) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:12 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Was the plan until very recently (yesterday) when she decided to put trying for kids on ice for now due to her concerns. Which, frankly, may be an improvement over “I’d been telling myself that if I didn’t get pregnant by end of year then it’s a sign from god about this marriage” which is one of the very very few utterly batshit things she’s ever said . But at the same time she feels like her life is on hold now and that she could be running out of time biologically
Which is ridiculous but she is from small redneck Mormon town (not Mormon herself) and most of the people she knew got married and had kids way sooner (like 22 or whatever) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:15 AM Author: Sapphire brunch What would happen if you just got her pregnant? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752337) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:16 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison It’d probably put an end to this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752339) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:19 AM Author: Sapphire brunch 💡 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752346) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:30 AM Author: Drunken Hairy Legs Locale (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752368) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:18 AM Author: French twinkling uncleanness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752518) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:24 AM Author: Indecent violent electric furnace then you know what to do (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752723) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:32 PM Author: Orchid ape national security agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46754961) |
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Date: September 5th, 2023 4:01 AM Author: Hairraiser magenta library let me know if you need some pointers (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46755515) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:51 AM Author: Floppy peach elastic band FYI She's cheating (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752442) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:51 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Literally the one thing I know she isn’t (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752446) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:54 AM Author: Floppy peach elastic band You're wrong. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752456) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:03 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Definitely not physically but I could imagine the sort of thing you mention in your poast below
But yeah I made the above poast full well knowing there are thousands if not millions of men (and women) who have said the same thing and been proven hilariously, humiliatingly wrong shortly thereafter, as though the whole universe realigned itself for a second to make you the butt of a Chaucerian cuckoldry joke |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:43 AM Author: Floppy peach elastic band At least you are aware. The pain that awaits you will not be anything you’re equipped to deal with. Start seeing a shrink right now, for you. Avoid all marriage counseling. Consider the marriage over. Don’t even try to appease her. Being the “perfect happy husband” will only hurt you if you have some glimmer of hope of salvaging your marriage.
You really need to start focusing all your efforts on yourself and looking better, feeling better. She needs to feel like you don’t care at all. Whatever happens happens. C’est la vie. You should even fire up a dating app and test your chances. Do it in front of her. Laugh, even when it hurts too much to laugh.
If you fall into a depressed mess, she’ll 100% be leaving and thinking she got out before it was too late. Women are idiots. |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:06 AM Author: dull multi-billionaire halford (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752578) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:05 AM Author: Purple self-centered indian lodge nowag Shakespearean, Johnsmeyerian, etc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752577) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:47 PM Author: Floppy peach elastic band (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46755008) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:03 AM Author: out-of-control national mood Subject: happy labor day btw Too dark for a long weekend Sorry mpa she'll hopefully come around |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:04 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison I will trust God in this matter and pray for Him to do the needful whatever it may be
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:29 PM Author: Orchid ape national security agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46755100) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:18 AM Author: French twinkling uncleanness Just have the kids now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752517) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:19 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison We’d been trying (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752521) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 11:26 AM Author: disrespectful zippy half-breed center Hmmm 🤔 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752902) |
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Date: May 11th, 2025 8:46 PM Author: you\'re the puppet So really she's just worried you're shooting blanks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#48922556) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:56 PM Author: lascivious location it is normal to fight like crazy for first 10yrs of marriage; no fight, no spark. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46754577) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:00 AM Author: demanding mustard becky base Between her and poasting? Hm I wonder which Managed-Poorly ADHD will choose... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752308) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:01 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752310) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:04 AM Author: out-of-control national mood I sentence you to marry OP either as his second wife or as his second wife You have caused a ruckus and a calamity both by being single and poasting here. This will not do |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:08 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Not sure who’d be getting punished more (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752325) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:10 AM Author: carnelian mildly autistic address stock car you're both being selfish.
do it for the board |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:33 AM Author: demanding mustard becky base a ruckus and a calamity tp Also I'd literally rather unknowingly marry a serial killer than knowingly marry a divorcé |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:38 AM Author: Sapphire brunch Here’s an idea, shut the fuck up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752412) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:40 AM Author: demanding mustard becky base (poaster without XO Java) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752417) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 11:40 AM Author: soul-stirring underhanded hall weed whacker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752950) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:39 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison You’re a woman; you’d rather knowingly marry a serial killer than any other man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752413) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:41 AM Author: demanding mustard becky base I can change him (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752419) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:13 AM Author: multi-colored silver theater stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752501) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:07 AM Author: Purple self-centered indian lodge nowag cr walked right into that one (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752580) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:11 AM Author: carnelian mildly autistic address stock car (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752684) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:38 AM Author: soul-stirring underhanded hall weed whacker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752778) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 11:40 AM Author: dun stubborn double fault shitlib (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752947) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 1:09 PM Author: Kink-friendly kitty cat theater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46753228) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 2:17 PM Author: filthy internal respiration (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46753472) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:15 PM Author: aromatic bearded theatre (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46754449) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:31 PM Author: Orchid ape national security agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46754957) |
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Date: September 5th, 2023 9:28 AM Author: Startled university rigor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46755883) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:15 AM Author: aggressive patrolman Lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752699) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:33 PM Author: Orchid ape national security agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46754966) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:47 AM Author: aggressive patrolman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752647) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:00 AM Author: Racy temple :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752309) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:35 AM Author: ungodly pit do you have adhd, and are you taking medicine for it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752397) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:38 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Yes and yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752409) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:41 AM Author: ungodly pit same. are you pretty much only focusing on work?
I used to just crash after work. Had to take another 5mg in the evening so i wasn't a total asshole. |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:44 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Yeah basically
I do have a script for an evening med but I often take it earlier in the day to help with focus |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:48 AM Author: ungodly pit that sounds like the problem man. Get your meds in order so you can focus and be present after work. Plan actual dates b/c if you have adhd you prob dont follow through with that very often. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752436) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:50 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Yeah that should help
I guess I’m worried that I didn’t take this shit seriously early enough because she has communicated about it but at the same time, I thought “who the fuck actually divorces over dishes etc?” |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:56 AM Author: ungodly pit yeah dude, the little things actually matter apparently. i was the same way. Carve 30 mins to do the dishes each night. Sucks at first and then you don't mind and zone out in your head. Goes miles. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752463) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:58 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Ty
I’ve been working on that shit with a therapist and actually making good progress which is only reason I have any optimism
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:10 AM Author: ungodly pit then you're already halfway there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752499) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:15 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison If her issues are all actually legit at face value then yeah I should be able to turn this around
If not then I’m already fucked so nothing to lose by trying to improve myself in the interim |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:22 AM Author: ungodly pit gotta resist the urge to say "seee?! i did xyz" and just keep doing all the shit that needs to get done.
You'll be fine and all will work out - it's not a bad thing to improve yourself. |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:23 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752530) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:28 AM Author: Black Institution The above is terrible advice. The whole thread. Do not just put your head down and keep doing more and more while stiocally enduring her criticism and laziness. All she will do is withdraw more and more. Your best case scenario here is her begrudgingly staying committed. You are young still. Get out and try again. Not saying you have nothing to work on but don't delude yourself. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752536) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:42 AM Author: ungodly pit getting medication in order so he's not crashing after getting back from work - and helping with chores around the house + planning dates regularly is standard good advice breh. No one likes when someone says "SEE I DID THE FUCKING DISHES"
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:50 AM Author: garnet rough-skinned indirect expression gas station You are obviously right in this subthread. Lmao at “just divorce her if she expects you to help around the house” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752652) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 2:20 PM Author: filthy internal respiration (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46753486) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:43 AM Author: ungodly pit also have noticed the more times a week you bone, the less they complain - fwiw. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752550) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 1:07 PM Author: nudist bull headed trust fund forum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46753223) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:42 AM Author: ocher insecure stag film son of senegal Women initiate power plays post marriage and especially post child
Find someone new |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:45 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Quite possibly CR I’m just sort of shocked even if I shouldn’t be (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752432) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:51 AM Author: ocher insecure stag film son of senegal It is shocking because they don’t do it consciously. You think you know someone by studying them before marriage , then they turn into nasty nitpicking cunts anyway and you ask yourself if you’re a terrible judge of character
Nope. Women’s brains just change after they get power. Getting out before kids would be a blessing because their power goes way up then (government mandated power because they know they can take you for alimony and child support and sympathy from family/friends). i guess find someone whose parents are still together so she has properly modeled relationships, but expect them to turn into a completely different and worse person once they have power regardless because this world is a Jewish hellscape where the societal incentives are all pushing for shattered families
Or try to make it work because women all suck, shrug |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:53 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Am increasingly convinced I would be happier and probably in better shape if I were a homosexual (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752449) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:55 AM Author: ocher insecure stag film son of senegal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752458) |
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Date: September 5th, 2023 4:55 PM Author: lake galvanic laser beams obviously but thats why its not a choice (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46757908) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:10 AM Author: Purple self-centered indian lodge nowag given the power plays that you describe, is there any solution for the married man here or way to minimize it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752581) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:35 AM Author: ocher insecure stag film son of senegal these things all shift power dynamics more in favor of men:
1) have kids out of wedlock 2) have kids in a red state 3) have kids with a foreign woman in a foreign country 4) iron clad prenup 5) have kids with a woman whose parents are still married
But even then, uphill battle. I know a couple happy long-term married couples but it is rare
If already married, just suffer I guess |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 11:25 AM Author: Purple self-centered indian lodge nowag ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752897) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 2:31 PM Author: ruddy exciting church building brethren What happened in your marriage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46753537) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 11:52 AM Author: fear-inspiring range candlestick maker Also curious (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46770457) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:43 PM Author: Orchid ape national security agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46754991) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:53 AM Author: Floppy peach elastic band Friend, she's trying to rationalize (and they can rationalize literally anything) why she's cheating and she's gaslighting you.
pepper thy angus
I'm sorry you're going through this. |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:55 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Ty
Am positive more than anything else that she’s not/would never cheat, which i realize is the sort of thing that will probably get a million blank bumps two weeks from now when I poast a humiliating update—but if I had any suspicion of that it’d already be over |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:57 AM Author: Floppy peach elastic band It might not be physical. Maybe someone from her past slid into her DM's. Maybe she thinks she has a shot with someone better. There's more to her story than she's telling you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752465) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:00 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison That may well be true well see what unfolds (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752478) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:53 AM Author: Black Institution If she's making ultimatums 1.5 years into the marriage, it's never going to work out. Once you introduce kids into the equation, things get much worse because there's so much more effort required and stress involved. But then you'll feel stuck. Listen to me, if she's giving you an out, take it. Don't change for her because it's never going to be enough. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752450) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:54 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Yeah this may be cr
Fuck |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:57 AM Author: Floppy peach elastic band It's a blessing.
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:04 AM Author: Black Institution I just read what you wrote above, "I’d been telling myself that if I didn’t get pregnant by end of year then it’s a sign from god about this marriage” which is one of the very very few utterly batshit things she’s ever said"
And I need to be very clear with you.
Because you need a cold dose of reality.
This isn't batshit. She's telling you that she wants out. It's as rational as can be from a woman's perspective. You only think it's batshit because you are man, you made a vow and commitment and you've done nothing to wrong her, and you are having trouble understanding where this is coming from, given that you are the same person she married 15 months ago.
This marriage is over. Sorry you are going to have to deal with this. But it's over. Don't keep digging. Don't hold out hope that she will come around. Don't change who you are for her. It will never be enough. She will only find other things to be upset about. And God Forbid, if you introduce kids into this, she will foist that responsibility onto you and you will be stuck. You think it sucks now, stick it out for 2-3 more years and bring a newborn into it. Your life will be utter misery and if you are not willing to walk away now, you will not be willing to walk away while your kid(s) are young. Which means that you are looking a shitty home life until your early 50's.
Again, I am sorry that this is happening but your marriage is over. |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:06 AM Author: ocher insecure stag film son of senegal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752489) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:06 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Thanks
I’m still in a bit of a denial phase but I appreciate the breakdown and a part of me feels the above is CR
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:19 AM Author: Black Institution "I need to talk to you, about our marriage. You said that I need to make changes by December, and there's so much of me that really wants to make this work. But I can't ignore the reality of our relationship, which is that you are, already, extremely unhappy. This is supposed to be the easy part of the marriage, you know, the honeymoon phase. But you are already talking about ultimatums and signs from God. I can't fundamentally change who I am, and to tell you that I will try would only create a situation where you feel obligated to stick around and give it another chance. This is fair to anyone, not to you, not to me, and especially not to any kids that we might try to have. I love you, and it breaks my heart that we are already here, but the reality is, this marriage isn't going to work. We need to accept that fact now before it gets any worse." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752522) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:44 AM Author: Floppy peach elastic band Excellent. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752551) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:57 AM Author: Charcoal public bath headpube (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752564) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:28 AM Author: ungodly pit hey! i thought we were making progress w/ the medication thing. Depends on if you are actually carrying your weight in the relationship or not. If she's totally out of line and being completely unreasonable, then yeah run. But ask if it feels like the CR b/c it's the easier path or if you do actually need to work on your shit. She prob thought some of the shit would get better after marriage, and now that it hasn't is overreacting. So it's not just the one thing in the moment at that time, it's every time you've not done that one thing and then their brain goes pop.
Also - I didnt pick up on the baby stuff. |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:29 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison We are making progress with the med thing and I’m not giving up just yet but paet of me really does wonder
It comes down to whether her claims really are valid at face value |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:36 AM Author: ungodly pit speaking from experience, it's a mix of both. have been married a long time, and we were together a long time before we got married. Things ebb and flow. Just a question on whether it's worth it to you to wait it out and work on your shit or not. I've always been grateful I stuck around and worked on our shit. Marriage is hard. Don't stay if it's toxic or bad for you. But it's not ever going to be 100% sunshine and rainbows all the fucking time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752628) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 7:54 AM Author: ocher insecure stag film son of senegal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752455) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:07 AM Author: coiffed organic girlfriend hospital CR, you might be an aspie asshole and rightfully feel guilt about it and want it to work, but that’s not what she’s doing. She does NOT want to be married to you. This is horrible and I am sorry friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752493) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:21 AM Author: Navy market blood rage i mean, is being vaguely aspie and ADHD really irreconcilable differences...? taken at face value, that doesn't make any sense. she fell in love with and married a nerdy guy who is aspie and "ADHD" (whatever that means). nothing has changed since then, unless you are leaving something out
if you love her and want to be with her, then push through her resistance. start by asking her what the real problem is. you can't magically change being aspie, and she's smart enough to know that, so there's something else going on here
the actually worrisome part is that she wouldn't be talking about divorce if she didn't already have another guy in mind :-\ do you know who it is?
btw don't listen to these trolls who are saying your marriage is already over, jfc lol |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:37 AM Author: Navy market blood rage saw this in the other thread: http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399314&forum_id=2#46752335
she just wants you to be more attractive, lol. this doesn't have to do with being "aspie" or "ADHD" at all. she literally just wants you to be a more attractive and alpha and high status man, in every sense. which is reasonable and doable
lift weights for the posture, be more disciplined with the wardrobe and ask her for her advice on it, bring her to social circles where you're seen as high status, be more physically assertive and affectionate when you're with her in the evenings and she needs attention. and stop going to "therapy" jfc. how could a woman ever take a man who goes to "therapy" seriously
you should have put this in this original post btw. this entire thread and everyone's comments in it are rendered completely irrelevant by this new information |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:12 AM Author: Erotic cruise ship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752691) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 11:59 AM Author: Cheese-eating school cafeteria sandwich CR this needs to be higher. Basically OP is a bum around the house and never tries to romance his wife are the reasons she is leaving him. Basically nothing to do with ADHD lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46753019) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 1:56 PM Author: ruddy exciting church building brethren Why do women even get married. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46753368) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:37 PM Author: lake galvanic laser beams for the wedding and the divorce (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46754977) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 2:14 PM Author: Erotic cruise ship No this is missing the point. "The dishes" and "housework" are not the issue. Women, especially religious or ex Mormon women, will gladly do the chores if their husband is a stud who hosts BBQs and brings home the bacon. The "ADHD" issue is likewise spurious.
He needs to get in shape, stop being an awkward dork, stop dressing like his mom dressed him in 8th grade, maintain basic grooming standards, be someone that other men respect in social gatherings, etc.
The real issue is that she is embarrassed of him in public. Solution for OP: stop being embarrassing and beta. Stop making snarky backbiting comments like an effeminate soiboi redditor.
Even if the marriage ends, this is necessary for future relationships. Even geeky introverted girls who seem like a better match want a man to be assertive and masculine and capable. |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 2:31 PM Author: Navy market blood rage Completely cr great poast (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46753539) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 1:42 PM Author: lake galvanic laser beams (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46771033) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 6:25 PM Author: Startled university rigor you're making a big assumption taking her at face value and assuming those are legitimate concerns instead of just shit she spat out off the cuff to hide her deeper discontent (or affair etc.) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46772304) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 6:27 PM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison tbf it's stuff i need to work on anyway so at least it motivates me for self improvement
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:25 AM Author: Rambunctious heaven Yeah, had in-law in similar situation although they had kids. Crazy wife’s parents had multiple marriages etc. She kicked him out (with a TRO, unlike dirte he didn’t go to jail lol), and then basically tried to demand he be “nicer” to her otherwise marriage was over.
Anyway, he held his ground mostly, and I guess she realized that she didn’t want her parents fucked up life / be a single mom (I’m guessing her mom was cheering on the divorce, which may have been a red flag) and they reconciled.
That being said he now maeks 7 figures so maybe try doing that as well |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:25 AM Author: Swollen parlour legend Lol don't start taking your addy at night so you can do the dishes and listen to her bray about her day
She just sounds like an are country tart who's getting too big for her britches |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 8:34 AM Author: Appetizing people who are hurt mad-dog skullcap What are you talking about, of course taking MORE kike pills is the answer to all op’s problems! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752542) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 11:20 AM Author: laughsome hell (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752884) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:26 AM Author: spectacular yapping rehab Jesus Christ be a fucking man and she wouldn't want to leave you. ADHD, shut the fuck up you're a god damn pussy and that's why she's gonna leave you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752613) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:30 AM Author: Navy market blood rage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752619) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:30 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752620) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 3:49 PM Author: Indecent violent electric furnace (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46753795) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:34 AM Author: Vermilion old irish cottage spot Godspeed and always check any bullshit you get here somewhere irl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752624) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:45 AM Author: Deep twisted orchestra pit love dies, the sooner u deal with it, the better (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752644) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:48 AM Author: garnet rough-skinned indirect expression gas station ADD meds are horrible in relationships. No one wants to live with some chatty Cathy one minute and somber low energy dweeb the next. You’re like 40 stop taking the drugs.
And everyone saying fuck her for asking you to do dishes is not in touch with todays reality. You aren’t going to change what millennial women expect and you have to simply accept doing some things you think a man shouldn’t have to do (dishes, diapers, etc.) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:14 AM Author: Erotic cruise ship I don’t do the dishes or change the diapers
Just gotta be masculine, bro |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 1:41 PM Author: lake galvanic laser beams "You aren’t going to change what millennial women expect "
lol, height? |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:13 AM Author: aggressive patrolman It's almost as people follow a script when they marry, sometimes having little connection with their own preference, and so marry for vanity or practicality or lust.
And yet the God who has knocked on our door a thousand times, and who has and will descend into the deepest recesses of our depraved humanity to find us again, asks only that we be honest with ourselves and with our partner about who we are and who they are.
Man fears this form of relation, a relation of duty not to a person but to the person behind all people, because it is a commitment not to desire but freedom. Yet only in freedom can desire be fulfilled. Only in freedom, in a love for the eternal, is there a possibility of true love of a person.
MPA look deep into who you are. Have you been honest with her about who you are? Have you been honest with yourself? Why did you marry her? Was it because of who she was?
I do not condone divorce except for cases of abuse. But you must both look deeply at each other. You must look to God, to find the innocent child of God in each other. You must look squarely without concern for sex or passion, but with courage, at who you both are before God.
Ask him to show you, and do this together. Lead your wife to this. Experience it with her. Do not relent to divorce. Love your wife for who she is. If you don't know who she is, now is the time to find out. And you cannot be afraid of what you find. Only then will she find who you are, and will you both find yourselves in marriage under God.
You are made strong in Christ and your marriage will stand or fall on your willingness to find your wife in him too. |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:24 AM Author: adventurous cordovan abode (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752724) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:21 AM Author: boyish mentally impaired locus toaster absolutely do NOT impregnate. You will love your child more than anything you can comprehend right now, and your wife will exploit this. you will lose decades.
do NOT impregnate at all costs |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:23 AM Author: aggressive patrolman he has no christian grounds for divorce unless she has turned from the faith. Though she could divorce him if he has (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752721) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:22 AM Author: disrespectful zippy half-breed center All the “advice” ITT is dead wrong and will ruin ur life if followed hth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752719) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:27 AM Author: turquoise razzle nibblets (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752736) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 3:52 PM Author: Titillating duck-like shrine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46753802) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:31 PM Author: lake galvanic laser beams (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46754958) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:24 AM Author: fighting crackhouse This is weird, I thought you were just married like a couple months ago, wtf happened to the time. Anyway just kill her but make it look like an accident. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752725) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:26 AM Author: aggressive patrolman he acquired Christian gf around the time megachurch girl and I broke up. Which was like 4 years ago. time is a lie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752734) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:54 AM Author: carnelian mildly autistic address stock car you're a bitch.
first step to solving the problem is to identify it.
she and everything you've said in this thread about specifics has nothing to do with it.
start at the beginning. it's the very best place to start. |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 1:18 PM Author: laughsome hell The "problem" is never the problem. The problem is she has access to higher value men or has the delusion of such. |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 11:43 AM Author: adventurous cordovan abode Very on brand for you dunmer scum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46752959) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 1:50 PM Author: trip crystalline site n'wah! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46753345) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 1:38 PM Author: Kink-friendly kitty cat theater brother literally no one on this website can offer you any advice and I mean that from the bottom of my heart. None of us know you despite how much we might act like we do.
To the extent that you're just looking for a listening or mildly sympathetic ear this website is fine, provided you don't also mind being called gay and retarded. To the extent that you're looking for a path out no one here can even hazard a guess. |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 1:59 PM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison I just needed SOMEPLACE to talk about it is all (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46753383) |
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Date: September 5th, 2023 2:31 AM Author: Dead supple plaza dopamine We're here 4 u (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46755472) |
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Date: September 5th, 2023 10:23 AM Author: Kink-friendly kitty cat theater we really like MPA here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46756074) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 2:14 PM Author: fear-inspiring range candlestick maker I know him (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46753454) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:20 PM Author: aromatic bearded theatre (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46754922) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 3:54 PM Author: Glassy Electric Karate Deer Antler Women are insane.
Just do something nice for her, and she will chill out. |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 4:17 PM Author: odious fishy dragon doctorate 10+ year marriedmo here. This is basically correct. Married life has highs and lows. At a mere 1.5 years in, a local low point feels irreparable. But local highs and lows don't matter. The important thing is the macro trend of your marriage, which is not visible to you at this early point. Don't day trade your marriage, is what I'm trying to get at here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46753893) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:24 PM Author: aromatic bearded theatre (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46754938) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 10:29 PM Author: Orchid ape national security agency this is good advice (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46755098) |
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Date: September 5th, 2023 3:40 AM Author: ungodly pit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46755507) |
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Date: September 5th, 2023 10:23 AM Author: Kink-friendly kitty cat theater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46756075) |
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Date: September 5th, 2023 3:12 PM Author: Big hideous corner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46757355) |
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Date: September 5th, 2023 3:58 PM Author: Bistre sadistic fanboi space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46757585) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 5:07 PM Author: impressive set First, it’s probably best not to make a divorce decision based on the boards advice.
Second, have you both gone to see your pastor and talked about this? What’s your prayer life like? You need to pray first, then go seek advice from a Christian advisor. |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:30 PM Author: lake galvanic laser beams why is she dominating you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46754955) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:33 PM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison I think I can maek it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46754967) |
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Date: September 5th, 2023 9:23 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46755871) |
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Date: September 5th, 2023 9:28 AM Author: turquoise razzle nibblets (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46755886) |
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Date: September 6th, 2023 8:56 PM Author: Bright dilemma (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46762983) |
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Date: September 7th, 2023 1:22 AM Author: diverse trailer park Cooking w/ Bboooom™ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46764220) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:33 PM Author: Hyperventilating dingle berry She realized she can do better. Given that you post here, she’s correct. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46754969) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:38 PM Author: lake galvanic laser beams this is true until she hits the wall (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46754979) |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:42 PM Author: Orchid ape national security agency i could link you my trite marriage advice -- http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4118025&forum_id=2#37123292 -- but frankly it may be an issue of selection and nothing in that poast should be news for you anyway. in any case, letting her control things with ultimatums is untenable, and you should never give her the relational control of being more willing to walk away.
I hope it works out for you brother
do you find the ADHD medication to be detrimental to you personality? what specific behaviors have so upset her? |
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Date: September 4th, 2023 9:47 PM Author: Floppy peach elastic band (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46755003) |
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Date: September 5th, 2023 10:35 AM Author: cream irradiated senate mother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46756139) |
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Date: September 5th, 2023 5:20 PM Author: diverse trailer park tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46758029) |
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Date: September 5th, 2023 8:43 PM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison it's going to be rough but i am hopeful (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46758746) |
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Date: September 5th, 2023 9:10 PM Author: Alcoholic khaki property pisswyrm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46758864) |
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Date: September 6th, 2023 8:27 PM Author: Orchid ape national security agency Hope it works out for you brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46762825) |
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Date: September 6th, 2023 8:31 PM Author: diverse trailer park tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46762854) |
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Date: September 6th, 2023 8:56 PM Author: Bright dilemma (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46762984) |
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Date: September 6th, 2023 10:41 PM Author: Dead supple plaza dopamine godspeed brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46763663) |
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Date: September 7th, 2023 1:14 AM Author: Orchid ape national security agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46764186) |
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Date: September 7th, 2023 1:22 AM Author: diverse trailer park anyways, this is a Good thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46764222) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 4:52 PM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Update--feeling calm and in control and doing what I need to do. Wife attitude already beginning to soften I think. Lifting is helping too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46771959) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 4:55 PM Author: Dead supple plaza dopamine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46771973) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 5:15 PM Author: Rambunctious heaven If she’s not seeing someone you might want to prod her in that direction when things settle down. Seemed to help crazy in law from broken family I referenced above. She needs to realize that divorce is not the solution to everything (if you actually have a desire to stay married and have kids). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46772027) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 6:59 PM Author: lake galvanic laser beams yeah getting some good dick from an actual Chad might help her calm down (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46772465) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 5:25 PM Author: Overrated queen of the night translation: "i willfully, blindly and foolishly choose to remain married to an insane cunt so that when we divorce in the future it hurts even worse. you see, folks, despite my 178 lsat score, i'm a fucking retard" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46772062) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 6:53 PM Author: ruddy exciting church building brethren (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46772439) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 6:58 PM Author: lake galvanic laser beams (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46772462) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 5:31 PM Author: demanding mustard becky base ON BALANCE IN BALANCE |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 6:27 PM Author: Navy market blood rage Did you start regularly raping her or what (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46772309) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 8:40 PM Author: diverse trailer park tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46772875) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 10:53 PM Author: Orchid ape national security agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46773427) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 11:27 PM Author: nudist bull headed trust fund forum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46773550) |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 8:39 PM Author: Bright dilemma “Lifting is helping too” 180 |
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Date: September 8th, 2023 10:53 PM Author: Orchid ape national security agency (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46773430) |
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Date: September 9th, 2023 8:13 PM Author: Dead supple plaza dopamine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46776843) |
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Date: September 9th, 2023 11:08 AM Author: Umber milk I guess the first part is a good thing but at this stage I would be highly skeptical or at least cautious about any apparent “softening” of your wife’s “attitude” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46774841) |
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Date: September 9th, 2023 2:09 PM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Fair (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46775624) |
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Date: September 9th, 2023 8:59 PM Author: Plum meetinghouse More on-point marriage/parenting advice from Chris Watts Did Nothing Wrong tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46777000) |
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Date: September 10th, 2023 9:49 AM Author: Floppy peach elastic band It’s too late MPA.
If she’s not with someone else, she’s already moved on mentally.
Anything you do from this point forward that you think will help your marriage, will likely tank it further. Keep lifting for you, not for her. |
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Date: September 10th, 2023 9:54 AM Author: Infuriating shivering garrison Yeah I said this in the other thread but I’m just doing self improvement for me at this point (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46778354) |
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Date: September 9th, 2023 8:59 AM Author: exhilarant orange ticket booth mediation If your calling this apocalyptic you haven't been reading the marriage threads here the past decade
Best of luck to you though. Maybe Propose Anal? |
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Date: September 9th, 2023 4:36 PM Author: Glassy Electric Karate Deer Antler Yeah, this is tame. But it is a change going from a single guy with no problems to a marriedmo with constant drama and problems. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46776204) |
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Date: September 9th, 2023 4:48 PM Author: nighttime den place of business Where are we on the impregnation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#46776240) |
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Date: May 11th, 2025 8:33 PM Author: The Mercantilist Policy April (No Future) lmfao good riddance (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#48922534) |
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Date: May 11th, 2025 8:54 PM Author: alive girl tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#48922581) |
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Date: May 11th, 2025 9:45 PM Author: Leo Frank's Orphanage (FAGGOTCHIPPER / Hegemon) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#48922682) |
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Date: May 11th, 2025 8:48 PM Author: you\'re the puppet Sounds like she's worried about fertility. Quietly get yourself checked out to make sure it's not you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#48922557) |
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Date: May 11th, 2025 8:51 PM Author: The Mercantilist Policy April (No Future) i've been divorced for a year now and my life couldn't be better (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#48922569) |
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Date: May 11th, 2025 8:55 PM Author: you\'re the puppet are you the op? what finally did it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#48922585) |
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Date: May 11th, 2025 9:08 PM Author: The Mercantilist Policy April (No Future) yeah it's me
idk we tried 'therapy' for about 6 months and didn't get anywhere
i have a 180 life now and a 180 gf and am thriving and she's on the other side of the country |
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Date: May 11th, 2025 8:55 PM Author: alive girl tp Hi mandy 💗 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#48922586) |
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Date: May 11th, 2025 9:10 PM Author: Chad Slater, III Has she locked down some new moron? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#48922617) |
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Date: May 11th, 2025 9:18 PM Author: you\'re the puppet (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#48922629) |
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Date: May 11th, 2025 9:20 PM Author: The Mercantilist Policy April (No Future) i don't think so
i talk to her very rarely |
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Date: May 11th, 2025 9:30 PM Author: you\'re the puppet what brought you together to begin with? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#48922658) |
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Date: May 11th, 2025 11:37 PM Author: heil Hitler! I'm very naive. I can comprehend why some of my slutty godless exes ended things, but how does this happen with a supposed religious girl? These women legitimately think they know better than God, or just don't actually believe? or...? Even if she did find some better guy, how do they not feel locked-in at that point and determined to try making it work? After getting fucking married and having GOD sanctify it--they just decide "anyways, gotta go" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#48922907) |
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Date: May 12th, 2025 7:04 AM Author: The Mercantilist Policy April (No Future) CQ! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5399306&forum_id=2#48923251) |