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I married a top – but now he wants to be a bottom

I am a man in my early 30s married to a man in his mid-50s. ...
Khaki rebellious church building yarmulke
  05/14/24
Pipe dream.
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'married'
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  05/14/24
Time to man up, doobs
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Khaki rebellious church building yarmulke
  05/15/24
totally normal, talk to your kids about top burnout.
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How do you address it? I'm a top btw
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Prep
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  05/15/24
Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence
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Lots of ppl with experience sounding off itt, glad we can ge...
Khaki rebellious church building yarmulke
  05/15/24
does top burnout also occur in hetero couples? asking for my...
Mahogany temple faggot firefighter
  05/15/24
this is all ((completely)) normal and healthy, btw
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  05/15/24
my 14 year old son was struggling in school with mental heal...
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Just tried to discuss my top burnout with wife but she wasn'...
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honey i can't, my top burnout.
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"in pursuit of a pipe dream " can someone exp...
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The grody old top will NEVER be a twink bottom
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  05/29/24
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Khaki rebellious church building yarmulke
  05/29/24
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  05/29/24


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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:17 PM
Author: Khaki rebellious church building yarmulke

I am a man in my early 30s married to a man in his mid-50s. We have always been in an open relationship: we met at a sex party. When we met I was always a bottom and he a top. Over time, however, he has become obsessed with bottoming. He never penetrates me, even in a group, and has starting expressing jealousy about the tops that I attract. I feel he is throwing our life away in pursuit of a pipe dream and I long to get back the dominant top that I married – a role he is suited for physically. He has been looking at escort websites, which I find depressingly inevitable. How can I wake him up to reality?

Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence and it can lead to a shift in a person’s power exchange preferences, usually temporarily. This is less likely to happen when partners switch, exchanging roles from time to time, but clearly that is not for you. It might be wise to relax about this and try to tolerate – even support – his period of exploration. In fact, dominance and submission are not so different; just polarised aspects of the same erotic style. So some tops frequently fantasise about bottoming but are not prepared to practise it – and vice versa. The top usually does most of the work: initiates, arranges the scene, toys and so on, so your husband may want a break from the responsibility. I can understand your disappointment and fear of losing your preferred sexual style, but people and relationships change and evolve over time so it would be best to talk patiently and lovingly with your husband – without reproaching or blaming him – about what he is feeling and the reasons for this change. You need to understand each other. Gently express your sadness about the potential loss you are facing. Then do your best to show that you love and support him.

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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:21 PM
Author: grizzly goyim azn

Pipe dream.

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:38 AM
Author: Magenta Trailer Park

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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:19 PM
Author: fear-inspiring umber dingle berry indian lodge

'married'

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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:39 PM
Author: Jade Talented Athletic Conference Rigpig

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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:19 PM
Author: Razzle Antidepressant Drug

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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:22 PM
Author: pontificating demanding dysfunction

Time to man up, doobs

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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:39 AM
Author: Khaki rebellious church building yarmulke



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:41 AM
Author: Mahogany temple faggot firefighter

totally normal, talk to your kids about top burnout.

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:30 PM
Author: marvelous national



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:03 PM
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:56 AM
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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:14 AM
Author: Khaki rebellious church building yarmulke

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:31 AM
Author: 180 nudist home

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:37 AM
Author: Khaki rebellious church building yarmulke

How do you address it? I'm a top btw

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:39 AM
Author: 180 nudist home

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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:15 PM
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:05 PM
Author: garnet stimulating faggotry

Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663757)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:05 PM
Author: Khaki rebellious church building yarmulke

Lots of ppl with experience sounding off itt, glad we can get a conversation started

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:27 PM
Author: Mahogany temple faggot firefighter

does top burnout also occur in hetero couples? asking for my wife.

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:30 PM
Author: marvelous national

this is all ((completely)) normal and healthy, btw

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:33 PM
Author: Mahogany temple faggot firefighter

my 14 year old son was struggling in school with mental health issues until one day his health teacher talked about top burnout. realizing that he didn't *always* have to top was such a huge relief. there's so much social pressure on boys to dominate each other. toxic masculinity! ever since he started bottoming he's more relaxed and we're seeing a dramatic improvement in his grades.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663863)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:36 PM
Author: avocado chapel jap

Just tried to discuss my top burnout with wife but she wasn't very understanding

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663869)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 2:06 PM
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:50 PM
Author: Mahogany temple faggot firefighter

honey i can't, my top burnout.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47665876)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:56 PM
Author: Insecure address trust fund



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:05 PM
Author: comical university



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Date: May 15th, 2024 2:07 PM
Author: Motley whorehouse sneaky criminal

"in pursuit of a pipe dream "

can someone explain

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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:09 PM
Author: Khaki rebellious church building yarmulke

The grody old top will NEVER be a twink bottom

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47700990)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:13 PM
Author: Khaki rebellious church building yarmulke



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:03 PM
Author: Khaki rebellious church building yarmulke



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:07 PM
Author: Mahogany temple faggot firefighter

this didn't get enough lulz, deserves to be a yuge meme.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47700987)