\
  The most prestigious law school admissions discussion board in the world.
BackRefresh Options Favorite

Watched a movie with chick last night at my apt on 2nd date, didn't hookup

damn, i have no clue what i was doing.
exhilarant low-t hunting ground
  03/02/19
DESCRIBE what went down
Razzle Maize Field Persian
  03/02/19
We had a solid first date with some solid kissing at the end...
exhilarant low-t hunting ground
  03/02/19
You fucked up. It was incumbent upon you to make something h...
Razzle Maize Field Persian
  03/03/19
appreciate this. yeah, total noob move on my part. this wi...
exhilarant low-t hunting ground
  03/03/19
Fucking a new chick should get you out of the low-t milieu. ...
Razzle Maize Field Persian
  03/04/19
Lol. My ex just came over after I had a date with another ch...
exhilarant low-t hunting ground
  03/05/19
Why did you break up with her?
Razzle Maize Field Persian
  03/05/19
she's neurotic and mentally and emotionally unstable with to...
exhilarant low-t hunting ground
  03/05/19
Move on
Twinkling ticket booth newt
  03/02/19
...
flesh up-to-no-good mood pisswyrm
  03/02/19
...
Razzle-dazzle Nowag Travel Guidebook
  03/02/19
out the movie
buff digit ratio orchestra pit
  03/02/19
Eighth Grade. It got us talking about what we were like grow...
exhilarant low-t hunting ground
  03/02/19
Awful movie no wonder her pussy dried up like death valley
vibrant grizzly lay dysfunction
  03/03/19
lol
Charismatic dopamine
  03/05/19
That sucks. Now rate me as a poster.
shaky juggernaut
  03/02/19
As a pumo I don't keep track of other poasters. I recognize ...
exhilarant low-t hunting ground
  03/02/19
Not bad, I'll take it. What do you're other monikers think o...
shaky juggernaut
  03/02/19
Describe your posting style
exhilarant low-t hunting ground
  03/02/19
was she obese?
Ivory erotic jap tattoo
  03/02/19
Nah, fit and early 30s
exhilarant low-t hunting ground
  03/02/19
"Early 30s". LMAO
vermilion immigrant dragon
  03/03/19
LOL
Flatulent fragrant incel property
  03/05/19
Lmao
Comical Stage
  03/05/19
...
Bronze Telephone
  03/05/19
for the idiot OP: http://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_...
Trip casino
  03/03/19
autistic
Bronze Telephone
  03/05/19
Next time put on Leaving Neverland.
fantasy-prone indecent tanning salon wagecucks
  03/05/19


Poast new message in this thread



Reply Favorite

Date: March 2nd, 2019 5:37 PM
Author: exhilarant low-t hunting ground

damn, i have no clue what i was doing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869072)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 2nd, 2019 5:39 PM
Author: Razzle Maize Field Persian

DESCRIBE what went down

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869078)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 2nd, 2019 6:51 PM
Author: exhilarant low-t hunting ground

We had a solid first date with some solid kissing at the end. She texted me that was the best first date she'd had in a long time.

I followed up later to see when she was free for a 2nd date and dinner. She suggested we also catch a movie.

2nd date rolls around and we go to dinner spot I suggested, then try to go to the theater for the movie she suggested but for some reason the movie wasn't playing. she said she'd invite me over to her place to chill but it wasn't clean. I invited her to my place and we watched some shit on Netflix.

We sat on the couch and talked during the movie and after. Then she said she was getting tired. I thought about suggesting she crash at my place but she lives like 5 blocks away and it would've kind of come out of nowhere. The sexual vibe was never really there. More like friends. We talk for another 20 minutes and she says she should probably head home. I walk her out and we make out.

Other context, she's bisexual and kind of has a masculine energy. She's not butch but like a female soccer player vibe. Wears a leather jacket. She also talks a lot and I just nod along and listen. Early on in the 2nd date, I was thinking, damn this chick is kind of nuts. It kind of throws me off my game.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869286)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 3rd, 2019 10:39 PM
Author: Razzle Maize Field Persian

You fucked up. It was incumbent upon you to make something happen during the movie and you didn't. Instead you let it be awkward the whole time planning to make your move at the end, and surprise surprise it didn't happen.

This sometimes happened to me as a dating noob--movie dates where it's awkward and not much physical contact, wondering how to get from there to fucking with the clock ticking down. The thing to remember is that even if the vibe is off at first, the chick is there because she EXPECTED to be making out with (and probably fucking) you.

You have to break the ice in the first ~20 minutes or it's going to get harder and more awkward as more time passes. If the chick is sitting on the other side of the couch (implied by sitting on the couch and talking) just say "hey, come here" and put your arm around her. Or you can get up to grab a drink and just sit next to her when you come back. Head resting on your chest, you can rub her arm, leg, lower back, whatever. It's also easy to lean down and kiss her when she looks up.

From there, just let it play out depending on the vibe you get. I have had chicks who were basically moaning and grinding on me straight from the first kiss and sitting on my dick 20 minutes into a movie. Otherwise you just kiss them and leave it at that for a bit, then come back with something more intense later.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37873975)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 3rd, 2019 11:11 PM
Author: exhilarant low-t hunting ground

appreciate this. yeah, total noob move on my part. this will sound gay, but i'm still in touch with an ex that i broke up with a month ago and i can't tell if that's making me more passive with new chicks.

not sure if i'll get a second chance but to be honest, i'm not that worried about it. she's attractive but not to the point where i'm fantasizing about plowing the shit out of her. i need to get out of the current low-t milieu first.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37874140)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 4th, 2019 6:46 PM
Author: Razzle Maize Field Persian

Fucking a new chick should get you out of the low-t milieu. Ideally raw if you can swing it. If you just got out of a relationship, even hitting it with a condom could give you a nice boost, but nothing compared to what raw will do for your psychology.

You can make a second chance for yourself if you want. Back when I had no confidence, I'd just ask the chick out again and hope things went better the next time. These days I don't really give a fuck so I'm a lot more direct . . . I may say something like hey, I thought you looked hot, didn't really get a vibe like you wanted me to make a move. Just throw it back on them a bit and let them think they were a bit off in some way. Either you end up a 100% green light or maybe you piss the chick off and don't see her again, but it avoids another wasted date. The tiny subset of additional chicks you might be able to peel off with a more subtle approach aren't worth it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37878537)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 5th, 2019 12:36 AM
Author: exhilarant low-t hunting ground

Lol. My ex just came over after I had a date with another chick. I fucked my ex raw. What a mess. I may have cut my date a little short just because I knew my ex wanted to come over later that night.

I'm stupid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37880212)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 5th, 2019 1:57 PM
Author: Razzle Maize Field Persian

Why did you break up with her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37882432)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 5th, 2019 5:03 PM
Author: exhilarant low-t hunting ground

she's neurotic and mentally and emotionally unstable with tons of baggage. truth is, she broke up with me 4 times over 8 months and kept hitting me up a week after. i was debating moving to another city so just let do out of convenience since i wasn't sure i wanted to start a new relationship.

recently, i decided to stay in the area but moved across town and have been dating other chicks and i'm looking for someone to settle down with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37883437)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 2nd, 2019 6:55 PM
Author: Twinkling ticket booth newt

Move on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869289)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:00 PM
Author: flesh up-to-no-good mood pisswyrm



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869307)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:00 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle Nowag Travel Guidebook



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869309)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 2nd, 2019 6:57 PM
Author: buff digit ratio orchestra pit

out the movie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869297)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:19 PM
Author: exhilarant low-t hunting ground

Eighth Grade. It got us talking about what we were like growing up. She had also suggested Ali Wong. I probably should've been trying to fuck the whole time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869379)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 3rd, 2019 10:43 PM
Author: vibrant grizzly lay dysfunction

Awful movie no wonder her pussy dried up like death valley

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37873997)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 5th, 2019 12:37 AM
Author: Charismatic dopamine

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37880217)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 2nd, 2019 6:58 PM
Author: shaky juggernaut

That sucks. Now rate me as a poster.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869301)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:17 PM
Author: exhilarant low-t hunting ground

As a pumo I don't keep track of other poasters. I recognize your moniker and would guess you're probably 165 minimum

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869373)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:18 PM
Author: shaky juggernaut

Not bad, I'll take it. What do you're other monikers think of me?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869375)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:20 PM
Author: exhilarant low-t hunting ground

Describe your posting style

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869383)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:00 PM
Author: Ivory erotic jap tattoo

was she obese?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869306)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:16 PM
Author: exhilarant low-t hunting ground

Nah, fit and early 30s

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869366)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 3rd, 2019 10:42 PM
Author: vermilion immigrant dragon

"Early 30s". LMAO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37873993)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 5th, 2019 3:00 PM
Author: Flatulent fragrant incel property

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37882761)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 5th, 2019 5:15 PM
Author: Comical Stage

Lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37883499)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 5th, 2019 5:15 PM
Author: Bronze Telephone



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37883500)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 3rd, 2019 10:43 PM
Author: Trip casino

for the idiot OP:

http://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3983263&mc=77&forum_id=2

HTFH.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37873999)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 5th, 2019 5:16 PM
Author: Bronze Telephone

autistic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37883504)



Reply Favorite

Date: March 5th, 2019 5:12 PM
Author: fantasy-prone indecent tanning salon wagecucks

Next time put on Leaving Neverland.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37883490)