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Watched a movie with chick last night at my apt on 2nd date, didn't hookup

damn, i have no clue what i was doing.
misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner
  03/02/19
DESCRIBE what went down
avocado cerebral international law enforcement agency piazza
  03/02/19
We had a solid first date with some solid kissing at the end...
misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner
  03/02/19
You fucked up. It was incumbent upon you to make something h...
avocado cerebral international law enforcement agency piazza
  03/03/19
appreciate this. yeah, total noob move on my part. this wi...
misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner
  03/03/19
Fucking a new chick should get you out of the low-t milieu. ...
avocado cerebral international law enforcement agency piazza
  03/04/19
Lol. My ex just came over after I had a date with another ch...
misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner
  03/05/19
Why did you break up with her?
avocado cerebral international law enforcement agency piazza
  03/05/19
she's neurotic and mentally and emotionally unstable with to...
misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner
  03/05/19
Move on
Khaki Bearded Potus Cruise Ship
  03/02/19
...
Purple headpube shrine
  03/02/19
...
Stimulating Dingle Berry Hall
  03/02/19
out the movie
silver vivacious plaza old irish cottage
  03/02/19
Eighth Grade. It got us talking about what we were like grow...
misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner
  03/02/19
Awful movie no wonder her pussy dried up like death valley
crystalline church building dopamine
  03/03/19
lol
obsidian den
  03/05/19
That sucks. Now rate me as a poster.
henna sticky double fault foreskin
  03/02/19
As a pumo I don't keep track of other poasters. I recognize ...
misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner
  03/02/19
Not bad, I'll take it. What do you're other monikers think o...
henna sticky double fault foreskin
  03/02/19
Describe your posting style
misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner
  03/02/19
was she obese?
Nofapping burgundy really tough guy
  03/02/19
Nah, fit and early 30s
misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner
  03/02/19
"Early 30s". LMAO
electric state sneaky criminal
  03/03/19
LOL
Sadistic stage pozpig
  03/05/19
Lmao
aphrodisiac disgusting house internal respiration
  03/05/19
...
Chocolate razzmatazz mad cow disease filthpig
  03/05/19
for the idiot OP: http://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_...
multi-colored newt address
  03/03/19
autistic
Chocolate razzmatazz mad cow disease filthpig
  03/05/19
Next time put on Leaving Neverland.
curious rambunctious home
  03/05/19


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Date: March 2nd, 2019 5:37 PM
Author: misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner

damn, i have no clue what i was doing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869072)



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Date: March 2nd, 2019 5:39 PM
Author: avocado cerebral international law enforcement agency piazza

DESCRIBE what went down

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869078)



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Date: March 2nd, 2019 6:51 PM
Author: misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner

We had a solid first date with some solid kissing at the end. She texted me that was the best first date she'd had in a long time.

I followed up later to see when she was free for a 2nd date and dinner. She suggested we also catch a movie.

2nd date rolls around and we go to dinner spot I suggested, then try to go to the theater for the movie she suggested but for some reason the movie wasn't playing. she said she'd invite me over to her place to chill but it wasn't clean. I invited her to my place and we watched some shit on Netflix.

We sat on the couch and talked during the movie and after. Then she said she was getting tired. I thought about suggesting she crash at my place but she lives like 5 blocks away and it would've kind of come out of nowhere. The sexual vibe was never really there. More like friends. We talk for another 20 minutes and she says she should probably head home. I walk her out and we make out.

Other context, she's bisexual and kind of has a masculine energy. She's not butch but like a female soccer player vibe. Wears a leather jacket. She also talks a lot and I just nod along and listen. Early on in the 2nd date, I was thinking, damn this chick is kind of nuts. It kind of throws me off my game.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869286)



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Date: March 3rd, 2019 10:39 PM
Author: avocado cerebral international law enforcement agency piazza

You fucked up. It was incumbent upon you to make something happen during the movie and you didn't. Instead you let it be awkward the whole time planning to make your move at the end, and surprise surprise it didn't happen.

This sometimes happened to me as a dating noob--movie dates where it's awkward and not much physical contact, wondering how to get from there to fucking with the clock ticking down. The thing to remember is that even if the vibe is off at first, the chick is there because she EXPECTED to be making out with (and probably fucking) you.

You have to break the ice in the first ~20 minutes or it's going to get harder and more awkward as more time passes. If the chick is sitting on the other side of the couch (implied by sitting on the couch and talking) just say "hey, come here" and put your arm around her. Or you can get up to grab a drink and just sit next to her when you come back. Head resting on your chest, you can rub her arm, leg, lower back, whatever. It's also easy to lean down and kiss her when she looks up.

From there, just let it play out depending on the vibe you get. I have had chicks who were basically moaning and grinding on me straight from the first kiss and sitting on my dick 20 minutes into a movie. Otherwise you just kiss them and leave it at that for a bit, then come back with something more intense later.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37873975)



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Date: March 3rd, 2019 11:11 PM
Author: misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner

appreciate this. yeah, total noob move on my part. this will sound gay, but i'm still in touch with an ex that i broke up with a month ago and i can't tell if that's making me more passive with new chicks.

not sure if i'll get a second chance but to be honest, i'm not that worried about it. she's attractive but not to the point where i'm fantasizing about plowing the shit out of her. i need to get out of the current low-t milieu first.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37874140)



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Date: March 4th, 2019 6:46 PM
Author: avocado cerebral international law enforcement agency piazza

Fucking a new chick should get you out of the low-t milieu. Ideally raw if you can swing it. If you just got out of a relationship, even hitting it with a condom could give you a nice boost, but nothing compared to what raw will do for your psychology.

You can make a second chance for yourself if you want. Back when I had no confidence, I'd just ask the chick out again and hope things went better the next time. These days I don't really give a fuck so I'm a lot more direct . . . I may say something like hey, I thought you looked hot, didn't really get a vibe like you wanted me to make a move. Just throw it back on them a bit and let them think they were a bit off in some way. Either you end up a 100% green light or maybe you piss the chick off and don't see her again, but it avoids another wasted date. The tiny subset of additional chicks you might be able to peel off with a more subtle approach aren't worth it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37878537)



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Date: March 5th, 2019 12:36 AM
Author: misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner

Lol. My ex just came over after I had a date with another chick. I fucked my ex raw. What a mess. I may have cut my date a little short just because I knew my ex wanted to come over later that night.

I'm stupid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37880212)



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Date: March 5th, 2019 1:57 PM
Author: avocado cerebral international law enforcement agency piazza

Why did you break up with her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37882432)



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Date: March 5th, 2019 5:03 PM
Author: misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner

she's neurotic and mentally and emotionally unstable with tons of baggage. truth is, she broke up with me 4 times over 8 months and kept hitting me up a week after. i was debating moving to another city so just let do out of convenience since i wasn't sure i wanted to start a new relationship.

recently, i decided to stay in the area but moved across town and have been dating other chicks and i'm looking for someone to settle down with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37883437)



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Date: March 2nd, 2019 6:55 PM
Author: Khaki Bearded Potus Cruise Ship

Move on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869289)



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Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:00 PM
Author: Purple headpube shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869307)



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Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:00 PM
Author: Stimulating Dingle Berry Hall



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Date: March 2nd, 2019 6:57 PM
Author: silver vivacious plaza old irish cottage

out the movie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869297)



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Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:19 PM
Author: misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner

Eighth Grade. It got us talking about what we were like growing up. She had also suggested Ali Wong. I probably should've been trying to fuck the whole time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869379)



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Date: March 3rd, 2019 10:43 PM
Author: crystalline church building dopamine

Awful movie no wonder her pussy dried up like death valley

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37873997)



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Date: March 5th, 2019 12:37 AM
Author: obsidian den

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37880217)



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Date: March 2nd, 2019 6:58 PM
Author: henna sticky double fault foreskin

That sucks. Now rate me as a poster.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869301)



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Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:17 PM
Author: misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner

As a pumo I don't keep track of other poasters. I recognize your moniker and would guess you're probably 165 minimum

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869373)



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Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:18 PM
Author: henna sticky double fault foreskin

Not bad, I'll take it. What do you're other monikers think of me?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869375)



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Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:20 PM
Author: misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner

Describe your posting style

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869383)



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Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:00 PM
Author: Nofapping burgundy really tough guy

was she obese?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869306)



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Date: March 2nd, 2019 7:16 PM
Author: misanthropic pontificating principal's office partner

Nah, fit and early 30s

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869366)



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Date: March 3rd, 2019 10:42 PM
Author: electric state sneaky criminal

"Early 30s". LMAO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37873993)



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Date: March 5th, 2019 3:00 PM
Author: Sadistic stage pozpig

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37882761)



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Date: March 5th, 2019 5:15 PM
Author: aphrodisiac disgusting house internal respiration

Lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37883499)



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Date: March 5th, 2019 5:15 PM
Author: Chocolate razzmatazz mad cow disease filthpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37883500)



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Date: March 3rd, 2019 10:43 PM
Author: multi-colored newt address

for the idiot OP:

http://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=3983263&mc=77&forum_id=2

HTFH.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37873999)



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Date: March 5th, 2019 5:16 PM
Author: Chocolate razzmatazz mad cow disease filthpig

autistic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37883504)



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Date: March 5th, 2019 5:12 PM
Author: curious rambunctious home

Next time put on Leaving Neverland.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37883490)