The most prestigious law school admissions discussion board in the world.
|
 |
 
|
dating hot parisan girl, need advice asap
Poast new message in this thread
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:27 PM Author: fantasy-prone nighttime casino Subject: dating beautiful parisan girl, need advice asap!! met girl about one month ago at a brunch party. the following night we had an amazing date, i took her out to expensive rest in west village, then to two exclusive clubs in manhattan and then back my apt for a hook up (not all the way but passionate make out session--she slept over too.
she then went to paris for three weeks, but we've been texting on whatsapp every other day or so. she's been sending me cute pics of herself, writing very sweet texts (calling me "love," "baby", “sexy” and saying "can't wait to see you darling xx”). she even sent one text saying “here's a pic just so you don't forget about me.”
now here is the problem: we didn't text for about four days and she just returned to nyc yesterday night. i wrote to her last night saying, "hey pretty girl, did you make it back to nyc safe and sound?" she responded this morning saying, "hey mister, made it back in one piece, a bit tired but quite happy to be here." She then goes on to say that she has to fill out a lot of paper work for her internship and needs to unpack her things. she ends by saying "how are you"?
now, maybe i'm being paranoid, her response came off as a bit cold, and it doens't help that we hadn't texted for 4 days before. she didn't call me "sexy" or "love," etc as she always does. is she hinting that she's busy?(aka f off? every other text has been awesome and our date was amazing. how do i respond? should I take a hint or am i reading too much into it?
for the record, she is devastatingly beautiful, tall, comes from a good family, dresses well, and is very smart. this is not a flame.
|
 |
Date: May 30th, 2012 3:36 PM Author: Submissive Main People Digit Ratio Bro, I could see myself writing this exact same poast, so I'm going to go out on a limb and assume this isn't flame and toss some real advice.
Stop letting your mind fuck with you. She remains completely interested. You might need to take the reins a bit. Don't simply ask her if she wants to do something. Plan a night, and ask her if she wants to partake with you. Keep it simple, and just keep doing exactly what you're doing.
I suffer from friend zone paranoia -- the second a girl's language could even suggest that I'm not longer a sex object but moving toward the friend zone, I freak out. The freak out has never been warranted.
Just be cool and trudge forward. |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 4:00 PM Author: fantasy-prone nighttime casino damn bro, i wish you sent this before. i responded, but i'm not happy with my reply. if i had received your reply minutes before i probably wouldn't be racked with regret right now. my final line in the text was, "if you need a break and are free sometime this week or next, let me know and we can do something."
i played it cautious and tried to sound detached but feel like i'm headed down the path of failure. Feel free to comment
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:28 PM Author: henna rehab she is french, nothing she says means anything either way (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793120) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:29 PM Author: fantasy-prone nighttime casino she is 22, born and raised in paris but has lived in nyc since she was 16. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793132) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:29 PM Author: Painfully honest set stain "hey pretty girl"?? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793133) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:30 PM Author: fantasy-prone nighttime casino i mean she's complimented me a dozen times, i felt like i should return the favor. and she is very pretty..anyway, what do i do? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793139) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:32 PM Author: underhanded salmon private investor try to fuck an alpha bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793150) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:32 PM Author: Painfully honest set stain I guess you reply in a measured way but proceed to attempt to make plans as if nothing has happened (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793154) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:36 PM Author: Passionate point she's cheating on you
HTH |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:37 PM Author: Thriller gay church building i dont understand the question. try to meet up with her and bang it out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793186) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:38 PM Author: Painfully honest set stain he just wants to know whether to modulate his tone, I think (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793190) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:39 PM Author: Thriller gay church building he overanalyzed in op (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793197) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:40 PM Author: Painfully honest set stain yes, but he could be right that something's changed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793200) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:40 PM Author: Thriller gay church building could be but that doesnt change the plan. take it to fucking irl asap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793204) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:43 PM Author: Painfully honest set stain he should certainly try but it may affect how he should go about it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793219) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:46 PM Author: fantasy-prone nighttime casino yes you seem to understand where i'm coming from. what would you write to her in response if you were me? come up with a text bro, help me out... i never trust my instincts with this stuff (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793233) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:47 PM Author: Painfully honest set stain well basically I think you offer to see her when she gets done unpacking, but you drop the pretty girl shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793241) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:44 PM Author: fantasy-prone nighttime casino i rather not make a fool out of myself. early courtship is always complciated. hard to know what the girl is thinking and feeling. FML (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793226) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:48 PM Author: Thriller gay church building you need to take a deep breath and let your testicles drop.
super-eager texting is rarely the answer. |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:50 PM Author: fantasy-prone nighttime casino true (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793254) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:55 PM Author: Grizzly crackhouse credited. if you text her back, don't text her a second time until she responds to the first. this can be hard to do. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793274) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:40 PM Author: Talking field national security agency i can already tell that you are going to blow it prematurely. hehe. how's that for a double entendre? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793201) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:45 PM Author: Zombie-like Bipolar Half-breed Box Office What do you need help with? If she's dating you, you've already won most of the war. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793230) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:47 PM Author: fantasy-prone nighttime casino dude we've only gone out on one date, i've met her twice. we've been texting for about a month now, but three weeks of that was while she was in paris. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793237) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:49 PM Author: bronze soul-stirring hissy fit sweet tailpipe Tldr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793247) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:52 PM Author: Talking field national security agency short version: he went on one date with a hot chick, hasn't seen her since, and didn't supply any pics itt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793260) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:52 PM Author: Painfully honest set stain they made out and she stayed over and she kept texting him when she was in paris and sending him pics of herself (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793265) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:56 PM Author: Splenetic metal library (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793281) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:49 PM Author: hairraiser kink-friendly meetinghouse telephone dude you have already won the war. french girls are 180, are don't do text message gaming, scheming like american girls. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793248) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:51 PM Author: fantasy-prone nighttime casino you're probably right. That’s a good point. she comes off as unusually honest and is very open about how she feels. exact opposite of american chicks. the latter are intolerable (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793258) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:55 PM Author: hairraiser kink-friendly meetinghouse telephone Ya man, I met a french exchange student in college - felt like I hit the fucking lotto. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793279) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:54 PM Author: cerebral factory reset button Make sure you're hearing "Donne le mois" by the end of the week (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793273) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 2:55 PM Author: Erotic Supple Reading Party Brunch text penis pic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793275) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 4:10 PM Author: Rose Milk Doctorate and request a read receipt! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793667) |
|
Date: May 30th, 2012 4:17 PM Author: glittery dull boistinker www.google.com may be able to provide you with some answers... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1959846&forum_id=2#20793693) |