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Date: March 24th, 2026 2:44 AM Author: Maize Big Friendly Grandma 1. She is coming out for a big trip in two weeks. We’re vacationing for a week and then have a work thing the week after. 2. It is getting very difficult to pretend around her at work. Have to basically actively ignore her in work settings for fear it will be obvious. 3. I am torn in two at home. I can’t pretend with the wife anymore. Even a simple lunch feels like too much. I’ve avoided kisses several times. I have to tell her it’s over soon. It’s going to be pretty brutal but better than living in this weird in between zone. 4. I don’t think whether it works out with subordinate really makes a difference about the wife. The marriage feels over regardless. Even if no subordinate I’ve moved on mentally and would want to date new people vs trying to make it work. 5. It’s funny at work having multiple people act like they’re going to give me the scoop of what’s going on with the subordinate and having to pretend like they know better. 6. People will find out soon that she is getting a divorce. I’m a bit worried that that combined with the fact that she’s moving closer to me combined with the fact that I’m going to be separated soon combined with the fact that we always show up and leave events at same time will have everyone putting 2 and 2 together. |
Date: March 24th, 2026 7:23 AM Author: Jade razzle-dazzle stead sweet tailpipe this is so gay lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49764439) |
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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:19 PM Author: Fragrant chad yea but for op it's exciting, trust me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49768262) |
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Date: March 24th, 2026 7:31 AM Author: Racy church Have u broke it to ur kids yet that daddy is leaving not just for a whore, but a middle aged one at that
Keep it coming brother |
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Date: March 24th, 2026 7:40 AM Author: curious chapel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49764454) |
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Date: March 24th, 2026 7:58 AM Author: crystalline lay brethren Surely they'll be happy dada is living his best life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49764471) |
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Date: March 24th, 2026 10:06 AM Author: Cream antidepressant drug He is SO brave! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49764740) |
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Date: March 24th, 2026 10:54 AM Author: at-the-ready immigrant stage Sorry lil Jimmy, Daddy's nut is more important than your supportive and intact home life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49764875) |
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Date: March 24th, 2026 11:17 AM Author: curious chapel He's not even getting his nut he's exchanging a bunch of good morning texts and they've had sex like twice (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49764942) |
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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:20 PM Author: Maize Big Friendly Grandma It may not work out with the new one. We are in love but I recognize it hasn’t been stress tested by reality. That said, it isn’t advanced. She wants to have a kid with me and move in with me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49768264) |
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Date: March 26th, 2026 2:50 AM Author: provocative stage trust fund that has nothing to do with you, bud.
she's actively home-wrecking and doesn't care, so if she's talking kids with you despite having no idea if having a family with you is sustainable, she doesn't care one iota about whether you'll be in the picture long-term.
so if she doesn't truly care about where it ultimately goes with you but is sincere about wanting you to fuck a kid into her, that means she just wants you on the hook financially. if she is on the wrong side of 35 or so, and actually interested in this situation, no doubt she's getting desperate and looking at all options with a zero sum mentality. hard to fault her calculation. you're clearly a mark because she knows you'll submit to a relationship in the short term and you'll be pussy-whipped or afraid to make another move, at least for a few years. but at that point you're paying for life and meanwhile she's whining to everyone on earth that she threw career away to give you a second shot at domestic bliss.
you're beyond damaged goods at that point and even your closest family members (if you have any, seems unlikely based on how little you have to say about that aspect) will privately shit on your weak character and foolishness for the rest of your life. |
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Date: March 26th, 2026 10:10 AM Author: at-the-ready immigrant stage Actively home-wrecking is tc description. She will begin to lose interest within 6 months of the final, irrevocable destruction of his family. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49770181) |
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Date: March 24th, 2026 11:23 AM Author: lascivious henna mood abode "I understand Dad! I'd ruin my own life too for that muffin top" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49764963) |
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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:20 PM Author: Pontificating boistinker karate brutal. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49768265) |
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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:43 PM Author: concupiscible shivering point lmfao (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49768328) |
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Date: March 26th, 2026 10:09 AM Author: at-the-ready immigrant stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49770176) |
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Date: April 11th, 2026 9:49 AM Author: Sex & Love Addict (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49810242) |
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Date: March 24th, 2026 11:01 AM Author: vigorous preventive strike private investor wasnt this kid his first one?
it's unfathomably selfish but a pretty common thing for dudes to have a crisis and "fall out of love" because their wife goes through changes during pregnancy. often they realize how childish they are and mend things before there's significant permanent damage. hopefully this happens with OP. |
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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:18 PM Author: Maize Big Friendly Grandma Is this what you really think or just jumping on the bandwagon? My wife and I had like 12 months of constant stress and fights followed by months that have now settled into co parenting. We’re basically separated already but living together. And even that feels weird. We text once a day about kid stuff. The marriage feels over whether the affair continues or not. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49768260) |
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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:24 PM Author: vigorous preventive strike private investor yes it is what i think. i scolded you at the beginning but didn't join in the chorus of people browbeating you because there's no point in repeating the obvious.
what's changed from when you first started is deluding yourself that it's already over and there's nothing you can do now. that's just cope.
also you're probably about my age and ive seen this story play out countless times, as i suspect you have too. im sure you've also deluded yourself that you're different because of the super special love and feelings you have for subordinate. this is what everyone thinks.
very rarely does this work out. if this isn't flame, i genuinely hope you see the light before you do significant irreparable damage to your family. |
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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:26 PM Author: Maize Big Friendly Grandma I recognize that there’s a material chance it won’t work out with the subordinate. But I don’t think my marriage is repairable. I don’t love her anymore. I would just want to date other women if it ended with the subordinate. I wouldn’t go ok now I’m going back to the cold marriage with someone who resents the fuck out of me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49768275) |
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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:43 PM Author: vigorous preventive strike private investor this is literally what every dude thinks who goes down your path. just an odd case that its happening while she's pregnant and thus not acting like her normal self?
i have no idea what your marriage is like, obviously. but i do know you haven't given any reason you're "not in love" or what she's done or not done. the only thing you've said is that she's out hunting for you! thats pretty rare for a postpartum wife! the type of thing you'll think of later i bet.
even if she was a total cunt and the marriage is over, you owe it you your kid to try to keep it together. go fuck subordinates on the side. |
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Date: March 26th, 2026 2:34 AM Author: Maize Big Friendly Grandma If your point is that I’m not a snowflake and that circumstances in life affect me like millions of others, then I agree. Pregnancy and post children is obviously a common time for irreparable marital rifts to appear. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49769801) |
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Date: March 26th, 2026 10:23 AM Author: vigorous preventive strike private investor that is not my point. i said that you have an obligation to give it a go for your kids sake, not that you have to live jn an intolerable situation forever.
you just havent given any reason why your marriage is a lost cause. the only thing youve said is that your wife was out looking for you, which indicates it's not. maybe it is and you just haven't told us why, but from what you have said it seems like you're just being incredibly selfish and immoral. |
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Date: March 24th, 2026 10:09 AM Author: vigorous preventive strike private investor you said you're pretty high up at a white collar job and so is she. so your coworkers probably arent stupid and already suspect something is up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49764748) |
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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:16 PM Author: Maize Big Friendly Grandma Maybe. I am thinking of switching jobs, having conversations with an exec recruiter. Not going to be overnight but I would like to solve that issue. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49768255) |
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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:19 PM Author: vigorous preventive strike private investor well it seems like it's something you thought through rather than manically changing every major aspect of your life because you're having a midlife crisis and are terrified it's about to be defined by wife and kids because of decisions you made haha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49768263) |
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Date: March 24th, 2026 11:19 AM Author: tan theatre keep that flame burning bright and hot nigga you're doing Great (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49764947) |
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Date: March 24th, 2026 1:32 PM Author: Flushed Locus how tight are her holds? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49765315) |
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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:41 PM Author: Fragrant chad cq. the main place i went wrong was i picked a girl with a massive pussyhold.
her asshole was solid, but i only buttfucked it 5-6 times over the course of a year and a half. |
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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:46 PM Author: vigorous preventive strike private investor gary has a tight hold tho. maybe the cavern cunt was divine intervention. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49768333) |
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Date: March 25th, 2026 3:31 PM Author: Fragrant chad oh god oh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49768441) |
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Date: March 30th, 2026 7:07 AM Author: Flushed Locus This is surprisingly important. Throwing a hotdog down a hallway is no fun for anyone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49780095) |
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Date: March 30th, 2026 7:14 AM Author: Fragrant chad in retrospect, it's entirely possible that i'd still be with that chick if her pussy wasn't a mess. i really was in love with her, but i was faced with a situation where i was never going to feel a pussy again; i truly am not exaggerating - there wasn't "very little" sensation, there was literally none at all. that is untenable.
i still think i'd have gotten my head right, but i have to give it a 15% on keeping things the way they were and staying with manhole puss. |
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Date: March 30th, 2026 9:11 AM Author: Jade razzle-dazzle stead sweet tailpipe you just have a little weiner, my dude (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49780194) |
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Date: March 30th, 2026 2:56 PM Author: Fragrant chad you really love poasting about that, don't you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49781101) |
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Date: March 24th, 2026 1:38 PM Author: Swashbuckling tattoo lol at 2 and 6. "I actively avoid her at work except for the fact that we come in together and leave together."
again: 2 ruined marriages, 2 ruined careers, and at least 2 ruined children for some naughty text messages |
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Date: March 25th, 2026 2:23 PM Author: Maize Big Friendly Grandma Careers are going fine for now. Our marriages would have ended regardless. Admittedly, this probably expedited things. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49768269) |
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Date: March 26th, 2026 10:14 AM Author: saffron indian lodge whatever gets you through your shift, op (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49770186) |
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Date: April 11th, 2026 9:50 AM Author: Sex & Love Addict His poasting shift (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5849105&forum_id=2#49810243) |