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"I hate my autistic child and I'm divorcing my husband because of it."
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Date: May 12th, 2024 12:00 PM Author: harsh love of her life milk https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1cpviup/i_hate_my_autistic_child_and_im_going_to_divorce/
I just need to scream into a void. Any void.
I have three children with “John”. He was the love of my life. Life was perfect before “Jill” was born. Jill is extremely autistic. She’s textbook. Screaming, meltdowns, aggression. We lost everything as a family the moment we realized she isn’t going to improve.
She’s beyond expensive. I had to quit my job when she was 4 to care for her. My other children live in fear of their sister. She hits, breaks things, screams, tears things apart, spits. No medication has worked. No counseling, no therapy. Nothing. My husband and I have had a dead bedroom ever since I quit my job pretty much and it was winding down severely before then. I just can’t do it anymore.
A few days ago I begged my husband to take the day off of work so I could clear my head. I felt myself slipping into my own mental breakdown. He told me no as money was tight and we couldn’t afford it. While it’s true we couldn’t, no one else is willing to take care of Jill. I couldn’t stick her on the only people that would which are my parents. They’re far too old to ever deal with a child hitting them with their full force.
Jill got into a fight with one of her older siblings and I just lost my shit. She hurt my child badly and I just lost it. Their other sibling had to help rip her off and call their father to come home. I screamed at their father that it’s over. I hated Jill, I hated him, and that we’re getting a divorce. I said many hurtful things but nothing about my other two children.
I drove over 4 hours with my two kids to my sister’s place. I had to get away. My husband (ex husband? I don’t know) has been blowing up my phone. I just can’t do it anymore.
I miss being a good mom. I miss my job. I miss being able to go to the zoo with my kids. I miss being able to go to their school events. I miss eating as a family. I miss restaurants, friends, holidays. I miss having money. I miss life from before Jill. I miss my two kids. I miss my husband.
I just needed to vent. I know I’m a shitty mom. I know I’m not a good person. I know I deserve it. I just needed to vent somewhere. I don’t want to face reality. I just want to wake up from this nightmare |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 12:31 PM Author: flushed idea he suggested I'd probably try beatings to at least see if they worked. May as well exhaust options. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655629) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 12:42 PM Author: Insecure frum hall trump supporter Cr. Pragmatic approach. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655647) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 12:54 PM Author: harsh love of her life milk (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655681) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 12:59 PM Author: Galvanic corner Cr
But the autistic child might need some treatments as well. |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:00 PM Author: Haunting territorial halford indian lodge reddit is flame, but if the dad gets custody hell probably grow up into bradley cooper or tom brady or something. if not, the kid is fucked. if its a girl shell probably just do normal shit like get married at 24. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655693) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:04 PM Author: swashbuckling pocket flask Wife says the woman is probably bullshitting and abuses the child. Dunno why she'd think that but that's an angle I hadn't considered. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655702) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:14 PM Author: 180 doobsian school death wish Abortion is immoral and evil though. The morally correct thing to do was to allow the lives of 5 real, living people to be ruined in order to bring this worse than worthless life form into existence
This is what a perfectly good, omnipotent being would do if it was up to him. And you're an evil person if you think otherwise |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:18 PM Author: Razzle Community Account (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655738) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:27 PM Author: Ocher heaven You can't test for autism. No way to know until the kid grows up funny. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655778) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:30 PM Author: Haunting territorial halford indian lodge women dont get autism she was probably glued to an ipad for years (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655790) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:30 PM Author: 180 doobsian school death wish Well I guess that means we can't just shoot the "kid" in the head when it's 3 years old instead of aborting it the womb
Checkmate, heathens! Yeah, this subhuman evil creature might look and act like the demon-possessed girl in The Exorcist. But we simply cannot end its existence. That would be a heckin Sin |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:48 PM Author: Primrose Lodge Filthpig You are evil (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655849) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:57 PM Author: 180 doobsian school death wish Yeah people like me who actually care about other human beings are evil - not psychopathic demonic creatures like this, or selfish, delusional, pseudo-moralizing narcissists like you who circle jerk among yourselves about how "moral" you are because you virtue signal about how evil is actually good, like NPC shitlib bots demanding that torturers and murderers be released from prison
I hope hell actually is real so God can send you there, where you belong, along with instantiations of evil like this thing |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 3:32 PM Author: swashbuckling pocket flask Or you could just put her in an institution and spend some money to take care of her. Ljl @ being this preoccupied with money and labor over human lives. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47656118) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 5:40 PM Author: 180 doobsian school death wish Why...?
In what sense is this thing "human?"
I'm not preoccupied with "money" and "labor." I'm "preoccupied" with the ACTUAL Human Lives of this woman, her human children, and her husband - lives that are being destroyed because of this psychopathic, evil creature
Any "money" or "labor" spent "caring" for this worthless parasite could be spent on actual human beings who have worth - worth being defined as mattering to other humans. Not a single person on the planet would be negatively affected by killing this thing - in fact, many lives would be improved. It's worse than worthless. It's actually just evil: a net negative to the collective human condition
I will never cease to be amazed at the utter cowardice of the Eternal Eloi of the modern west. Complete and utter cowardice. Cowardly weaklings to the end, making excuses for evil even as it closes in around them on all sides |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 2:15 PM Author: tan aphrodisiac roast beef lol at having the arrogance to think that you understand existence well enough to say actually it could be different and better. just, lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655911) |
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Date: May 14th, 2024 8:56 PM Author: effete toaster weed whacker then no one can have any opinion on anything.
oh shitlibs are destroying your society? wow, arrogant of you to think things could be "different" or "better" |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:13 PM Author: tan aphrodisiac roast beef no, totally different. society is a human made thing and we should stop shitlibs from destroying it, that's easy to see. to say oh a more perfect god would've done xyz differently with the universe ... much harder (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47663805) |
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Date: May 18th, 2024 2:27 PM Author: effete toaster weed whacker his point was that "no perfectly good god exists" is far more reasonable/probable than "god has a secret plan explaining this."
if you just start out by assuming that there is a perfectly good god, then you can always just punt to "there must be a secret reason." it makes the belief completely non-falsifiable, since then there's nothing you would ever accept as evidence against a perfectly good god. |
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Date: May 18th, 2024 5:38 PM Author: tan aphrodisiac roast beef i'm a little lost, so i could be misunderstanding you and goy superstar. i just think it's reddit-tier atheism to cite the problem of evil, or human suffering, as disproving a good god who created the world (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47672253) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:18 PM Author: Razzle Community Account I don't entirely blame her? Can't imagine how frustrating and difficult life is for families with kids who are severely autistic like this. The other two kids basically can never have a normal childhood. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655737) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:25 PM Author: 180 doobsian school death wish Hey man. Whoa. That's not very Christ-like of you to say.
We have a moral mandate from an omnipotent, perfectly good being to treat all "human" biomass equally. It doesn't matter how many good, innocent people suffer because of it. This worthless collection of carbon atoms MUST be allowed to exist, and its existence MUST be facilitated by any means necessary.
Never mind that before 150 years ago, the most devout Christian on planet Earth would have performed infanticide on this evil monstrosity without even hesitating for a single second or having any moral compunctions whatsoever. This woman is an EVIL PERSON for even entertaining THOUGHTS that this "child's" existence might not be a good thing
There is no higher moral good than the indiscriminate production and subsidization of human biomass at the expense of existing human beings. Period. |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:29 PM Author: Ocher heaven Feels v reals. We're not good at recognizing real human limitations. Oh but you "should" just take care of everyone and do everything. And if you don't, you're a bad person. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655789) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:34 PM Author: 180 doobsian school death wish Everyone on planet Earth before 150 years ago would have killed this thing without a second thought
Our civilization has become a warped and twisted religious cult devoted to the worship of evil, parasitic darkness. It has to be stopped |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 2:07 PM Author: Indigo Faggotry Ceo I’m going to go out on a limb and guess you don’t know a lot about “history” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655891) |
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Date: May 13th, 2024 12:17 AM Author: copper very tactful market laser beams lmao no. they had "disappointment rooms" to deal with such things in a civilized way. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47657047) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:28 PM Author: Ocher heaven The divorce is stupid but I agree that this is a really difficult situation and have a lot of sympathy for the mom. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655782) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:30 PM Author: Razzle Community Account Read through the comments. The husband seems delusional. He refuses to entertain sending the kid to a special needs home (I wouldn't want to dump my kid off to strangers either, but it's clearly at a breaking point) and believes that love can "heal" the kid. I think threatening a divorce and dumping the kid solely on the husband is the right tactic to get him to stop being so thickskulled about a situation that's ruining his entire family. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655791) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:42 PM Author: Ocher heaven God damn why do people suck so bad? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655820) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:29 PM Author: Coral area my wife has a cousin that is married with kids, they adopted a china baby. kid is a freak and a menace. Physically abusive to siblings, etc, etc. to the point that I don't go around any more. If that kid had a knife I would floor him immediately. And he's controllable now-- 8-9 i think, but when he hits 14-15 its going to be a shitshow.
all the other kids are totally normal and reasonable. but now everyone sleeps with locked doors at night.
some people are just born bad, call it autism or sociopathic , etc but... |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 1:43 PM Author: Galvanic corner International adoption should be illegal. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655823) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 2:33 PM Author: Violent brethren Imagine being the bio kids
“Great move, mom” |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 4:41 PM Author: Curious Station If that kid had a knife I would floor him immediately tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47656269) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 2:07 PM Author: Impertinent pontificating location There are likely a ton of assistance options to help that she qualifies for, and given how bad the behavior sounds, a full time care facility is probably one of those options. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47655894) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 3:13 PM Author: Razzle Community Account Per the comments, it's pretty difficult to get the assistance they probably need. Long waiting lists for group homes, and in many cases people have to give up legal rights to the kid and make him/her a ward of the state before the government steps in. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47656078) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 3:37 PM Author: harsh love of her life milk Could you imagine working at one of those places? I would want an electric cattle prod. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47656129) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 5:12 PM Author: Excitant cordovan property I only hope I would be better than that woman. She sucks but can’t imagine actually having to deal with that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47656327) |
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Date: May 14th, 2024 10:47 AM Author: Razzle Community Account What exactly makes her suck? She has a severely autistic child that's made their life hell; not just her and her husband's lives but more unfairly her other two kids' lives, neither of whom can have a semblance of normalcy or even safety.
Husband seems delusional and claims "love" will "heal" the autism and refuses to consider a group home or other options. She's stuck at home trying to deal with a kid AND husband who can't be reasoned with, and it's fucking up her other two kids' lives. |
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Date: May 14th, 2024 10:50 AM Author: 180 doobsian school death wish hey man chill this is actually an opportunity for unironic misogyny
it's actually the woman's fault that she's forced to care for an evil demon spawn freak creature because it's illegal to just kill it and her "husband" is a useless christcucked faggot
women amirite haha what a bad person |
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Date: May 14th, 2024 10:43 PM Author: Buck-toothed home she has shit genetics and decided to reproduce (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47662354) |
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Date: May 14th, 2024 10:53 PM Author: magical adventurous theatre (((you))) are insane and constantly projecting. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47662372) |
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Date: May 14th, 2024 11:05 PM Author: Buck-toothed home don't worry I'm doing fine
good luck with uhh whatever
lmao @ (((you))) of all "people" getting upset over this
go spit in a tube, you goblin faced kike
better yet, go try to marry some 90 iq google eyed zogbot and then poast about it here, (((jewish war machine)))
but yes obviously I’m obviously the one projecting |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 5:33 PM Author: Unhinged wrinkle sanctuary There are ways to mollify that kid. They can pump her full of antipsychotics. Pretty drastic, but better than the other choices of bad ends. As usual, the mother isn’t telling the whole story. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47656378) |
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Date: May 12th, 2024 5:36 PM Author: out-of-control histrionic principal's office She is telling HER truth, my friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47656389) |
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Date: May 14th, 2024 1:28 PM Author: Razzle Community Account If you read the comments and OP's replies, the dad doesn't support any of that and delusionally thinks they can 'heal' the kid with 'love'. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527807&forum_id=2#47660816) |
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Date: May 13th, 2024 8:21 AM Author: mentally impaired orange background story selfie the girl i left my wife for had a super autistic kid. she divorced the guy she had the kid with and abandoned him. she also left her second kid (age 13) in florida to come live with me in the DC area.
shockingly, she turned out to be really self-absorbed and selfish. it didn't work out. |
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