Why do women want to be housewives?
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Date: November 12th, 2006 5:53 PM Author: frum menage
Largely because they know it's easier than the alternatives.
The only real question is whether it's worth it to the husband to support her.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6977762) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 6:06 PM Author: Ungodly supple yarmulke
Maybe she wants to support him just as much as he wants to support her. Maybe the woman wants to be a housewife because she wants to support her husband because she loves him, knowing that he's busy in the workplace all day and can't attend to family and home. And he wants to support her financially. I see it as a beautiful tradeoff and find it a bit bothersome that men view a woman who wants this as a leech.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6977870)
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Date: November 12th, 2006 6:08 PM Author: frum menage
"I see it as a beautiful tradeoff and find it a bit bothersome that men view a woman who wants this as a leech."
It's a tradeoff that disproportionately benefits women.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6977887) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 6:14 PM Author: frum menage
"But women are giving up their earning power, career experience etc...to put husband and family first."
Because they don't want to work.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6977946) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 6:47 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth theater stage
That's pretty shitty of you to criticize females who want to have jobs. There's a big difference between wanting to work and wanting to sit around and watch TV all day.
That said, I really want to sit around and watch TV all day myself, but not at the expense of having to be dependent on some one else.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978182) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 6:51 PM Author: Ungodly supple yarmulke
OK, I'll rephrase. I don't have much respect for career women in professions that make rich people richer, who hope to cash in on their big bonuses to buy shit and act self-important. I have a lot of respect for women who actually want to use their jobs and their intelligence to help others who are not in a position to help themselves, and also women in high-earning professions who put in the hours and save that high salary earned to support a future family.
However, once marriage and family comes, I think that women should devote their energies and intelligence to supporting their husbands and raising their children.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978222) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 6:55 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth theater stage
Oh shut the fuck up. I can't fucking stand people like you who sniff and get uppity about people not being open-minded about housewives, yet are just as close-minded when it comes to "career women". Same goes for the vice versa of that.
Have fun finding a little wife.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978252)
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:01 PM Author: Ungodly supple yarmulke
I don't think you understood. I have no problem with women who want to work before they get married, in order to earn and save money for her future family. I have no problem with a woman who is a lawyer or I-banker who has a good heart and has her motivations in the right place.
What I hate about a lot of career women is the prestige whorishness and overall selfishness of motivation. I also don't like career women who want to neglect their obligations to their husband and family to pursue personal career goals. I'm a sucker for tradition, but if it makes more sense for the man to be the caregiver and the woman to be the financial provider in a certain relationship, I'm not going to judge that even though I wouldn't want that type of relationship for myself.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978291) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:03 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth theater stage
Yet you don't have the same problem with the career men?
And shut the fuck up about obligation to husband and family. Just because some one gets married, it doesn't make them the husband's slave.
Fuck off.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978314) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:07 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth theater stage
Sure they have obligations to each other. I never fucking said otherwise.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978335)
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Date: November 12th, 2006 6:13 PM Author: mint vengeful people who are hurt
We all secretly love watching soaps and cleaning all day wearing pearls, heels and aprons.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6977940) |
Date: November 12th, 2006 6:26 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth theater stage
I can't really think of any reason other than not wanting to work. I suppose "kids" is another answer, but it seems like a lot of housewives bitch about the boredom and lack of stimulation that comes with being around babies all day.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978038) |
Date: November 12th, 2006 6:29 PM Author: dun passionate home
because it's a SWeet deal.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978054) |
Date: November 12th, 2006 6:33 PM Author: mind-boggling chapel personal credit line
when my kids are little, i want to be a housewife because i don't think i will be able to handle the stress of a job when i have been getting up a couple times a night. i want to be there for my kids and read to them, play with them, make sure they are not just watching television, helping them with homework, talking to them, etc. when they are older, perhaps i will go into a less demanding job like being a school teacher or something, but it will all depend on how the job at home (and it is a job) is going. i do not want to be a housewife just so i will not have to work. it is a matter of where my passions in life are -- and even though right now i will admit that i enjoy the prestige of working in biglaw and making $135,000 a year, ultimately i do not think that a high salary is going to make me happy when i am 40. i want to look back on my life and be pleased with it. there are some parts of being a housewife that i am not going to find incredibly enjoyable every time i do it -- like the stuff others hire a maid for -- but i will be doing it for my family.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978075) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 6:36 PM Author: frum menage
"when they are older, perhaps i will go into a less demanding job like being a school teacher or something, but it will all depend on how the job at home (and it is a job) is going."
No. You're just a lazy bitch. If the kids aren't home, there's nothing that would take up your whole day other than fucking around, being intentionally inefficient, and volunteering for stupid shit.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978095) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:49 PM Author: chrome massive multi-billionaire school cafeteria
i went to eat, sorry. i'll have to take this into consideration. giving out my name to the internets can be very dangerous.
i work in the LA area.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978650) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:51 PM Author: Coiffed cracking institution
Cool and maybe you are a troll who collects pictures of posters and posts them later.
Your "I'm just working to save money for a family. All I really want to do is butter my man's toast every morning" schtick would support that idea.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978664) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:45 PM Author: Ruddy cumskin
I think you'd probably be pretty annoyed if someone judged you for wanting that? It's just the opposite.
If you made more would you let your husband stay at home instead?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978612) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:49 PM Author: mind-boggling chapel personal credit line
if i thought someone's ideas had zero validity -- i would laugh it off no problem, and not feel the need to go around telling them to fuck off.
i do not believe that men are as good with children as women are. if it was necessary for me to work to bring in necessary income, i would do it. but, it would definitely not be a lifestyle choice of mine to be away from the kids.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978644) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:54 PM Author: Coiffed cracking institution
"i do not believe that men are as good with children as women are."
*laughs this sentence off no problem*
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978685) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:54 PM Author: Ruddy cumskin
What if you could live on his salary, but if you worked instead of him you could pay for college etc.
Also, wouldn't you be a little resentful if he were the provider but you could be a better one?
I'm just wondering, becasue I can see being a housewife, but only if it didn't actually have any noricable financial impact on our life style.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978687) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 8:02 PM Author: Ruddy cumskin
Even if, for example, having that and staying at home means your kids have educational debt?
By the way, Himalaya thinks things like
Himalaya
I think this is probably the root of it. We don't want to fuck America's Next Top Model. All of the ethnically ambiguous models and actresses that media touts as the most beautiful women on earth are not women I find the least bit attractive. Entertainment media is comprised of women and fags. Modeling industry is run by women and fags. Men are simple creatures. We like our blonde hair and our big tits. No funny ethnic combinations.
So I doubt you really want to allign yourself with him based on personality while bashing J's.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978749) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:50 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth theater stage
How about I call you a lazy cumdumpster for wanting to be a stay at home mom then?
I don't even want to get married. Fuck, I don't even want a relationship. Ever. I also don't really want a "career". I also don't want to be judged for wanting such a lifestyle.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978653) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:55 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth theater stage
My current view that people should be able to choose the lives they want rather than base it on tradition or expectations is pretty sad?
Why aren't you off sucking dick in that case?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978690) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 8:07 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth theater stage
What the fuck is wrong with that view? I'm fine with it, so you shouldn't give a fuck.
Your future husband won't be having any of this "I don't want to suck dick" shit.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978791) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 8:34 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth theater stage
I'm just confused because she claimed not to be working for her future family right now, but said above she was only going to be a lawyer so she could save for her future family.
I was just asking for clarification.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978971) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 8:50 PM Author: Ungodly supple yarmulke
She likes to call people "vapid" and enjoys telling people to "get raped".
She gets bugged so easily by people that she doesn't approve of. I wonder what happened to her to get her so bitter. Or maybe it's flame and we're the suckers.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6979129) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 8:44 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth theater stage
Pardon me, were you and Himalaya not the ones that started with the "our way is the right way" bullshit?
I have no problem with people thinking they're better than other individuals (for instance, I think I'm better than you), but I have a problem with people who think their baseless beliefs make them superior to all other people. And if you don't believe you qualify, refer back to the posts where you and Himalaya are sucking each other off over how fucking great you two are.
But I'm done with this shit. Get raped.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6979064) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 9:13 PM Author: Ungodly supple yarmulke
Check this out: http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=519476&mc=11&forum_id=2#6925635
A while ago I posted a link to this blog that I found somewhat funny but rather obnoxious in parts. J. took it way too seriously and started getting obsessive about things. She likes to do this to people she doesn't agree with.
And thank you for the kind words. I am pretty sure I'll find a great wife too, just not in the city I'm living in.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6979300) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 8:22 PM Author: Ungodly supple yarmulke
It's no use arguing with J.
She's not as intelligent as you, nor does she have the same basic standards of class and decency that you seem to have.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978875) |
Date: November 12th, 2006 6:38 PM Author: Excitant kitty cat locus
It's hard to explain why I want to be a housewife. I think it's just my maternal urges... there's not really a lot of logic to it. But working for a few years and then becoming a full-time mom just feels like the right thing to do for me.
Also, I want to become a woman.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978117) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:06 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth theater stage
"Also, I want to become a woman. "
Fucking gag.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978331) |
Date: November 12th, 2006 7:12 PM Author: gold trailer park dog poop
Instead of working your ass off, they get to fuck around, spend money someone else earned, and generally do jack. Who wouldn't love that deal?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978357) |
Date: November 12th, 2006 7:19 PM Author: snowy toilet seat gay wizard
the institution of marriage creates social waste. when one person is able to live off another, they don't produce as much for society. this is why i'm against polygamy.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978417) |
Date: November 12th, 2006 7:20 PM Author: Coiffed cracking institution
I'm usually equally disturbed by men who want to marry housewives--i understand the argument "I work all day so it makes sense for her to be available whenever I am." Why not just get a hooker? It's not like you are interested in having challenging discussions about whatever your wife does to occupy her time.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978421) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:24 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth theater stage
I don't really mind the wanting a housewife thing if you want kids and want to work yourself. I'm not bothered by the idea that one parent should be fixated on the kids while the other parent works and you happen to want to be the parent that works. It's not really a theory I care about or completely agree with, but I don't think it's a product of a disturbed mind.
But I am bothered by the "She should take care of the kids and me because she's the girl" idea that Himalaya is spewing above.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978448) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:27 PM Author: Coiffed cracking institution
Yeah I think thats one of the grossest aspects of it "I dont want my wife to have a career bc then she will try to boss my around at home. And i'm the man damnit."
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978485)
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:30 PM Author: Ungodly supple yarmulke
It's just what I prefer. I want a traditional housewife. I believe that women have an undefinable something that makes them better at more nurturing pursuits than men, so thus I would prefer my wife to stay at home so she will be able to utilize best what she's good at.
Other people may prefer different things, but that's their business, their relationship. If you want to have a wife who is a career woman, go ahead. I, personally, find most women with high-powered careers to be very selfish and haughty and masculine.
And it's not about control. I would not want my wife to feel like I was in control of her. I would want her to honor me and I would honor her. Yes, I would be 'head of household' but that does not mean that I would have the right to mistreat her.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978509) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:31 PM Author: Coiffed cracking institution
"I, personally, find most women with high-powered careers to be very selfish and haughty and masculine."
Its this very gender role that J. is objecting to
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978516) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:34 PM Author: Ungodly supple yarmulke
It's just my observation. There are many career women who are actually pleasant, and just because a single woman has such a career before marriage doesn't mean that I wouldn't consider her worthy wife material. It might actually be a financial benefit to the marriage if the woman and man had a large amount of assets. I just want a woman who is able to prioritize family over career when she gets married.
I just happen to be living in New York right now, where there are a plethora of career-driven cunts.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978546) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:42 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth theater stage
Right, it'd be one thing if he was just saying "This is what I want, so you can just go fuck off and do your own thing", but he's not. He's saying traditional relationships and traditional people are somehow better than the alternatives. That if a woman wants a career and a man wants to sit at home babysitting, there's most likely something off putting and selfish going on. That just grates on me.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978597)
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:49 PM Author: Ungodly supple yarmulke
If a woman wants a career and her husband is OK with doing the caregiving, this is fine. It may not be my preferred setup, but as long as one parent is devoting resources to raising the children, it's acceptable.
I do believe that traditional relationships are better than the alternatives, but I don't necessarily think "traditional people" are better than "non-traditional" people (whatever those are). As long as a person isn't a selfish, superficial, prestige-obsessed cunt, that's fine. But a lot of career women happen to fall into that category, especially in NYC. Maybe I've gotten more vociferous in my dislike of career women since I've come here and once I move back down south, I'll soften up a bit more.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978649) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:27 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth theater stage
"same drive that makes ppl pet owners. why not just rent a pet for a few days?"
wtf?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978480) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:47 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth theater stage
Eh, I guess I can kind of see where you're coming from, but I'm not sure most people get pets because they necessarily want to wield power over them so much as they want a companion they can bond with.
It's not like most people get a dog so it can do all the housework during the day and give them blowjobs at night.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978625)
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Date: November 12th, 2006 7:33 PM Author: snowy toilet seat gay wizard
sure. human-human relationships have a bigger capacity to become something great. studies show that ppl who stay married in the long run are generally happier. but people and dogs also bond in a permanent way. so there is something to that.
but the point is, is the extra bonus of that long term relationship worth all the trouble of marriage? i say no. especially considering how many marriages fail. to big a gamble for most men, when we can get hookers.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978531) |
Date: November 12th, 2006 7:25 PM Author: Ruddy cumskin
I could see it being fun in a Martha Stewart-ish way. Making huge meals, gardening etc.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978468) |
Date: November 12th, 2006 7:42 PM Author: beady-eyed whorehouse
My boyfriend kind of wants to be a stay at home dad. I'd have no objection to that but I do NOT want to be a housewife and don't foresee that changing.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6978593) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 8:46 PM Author: beady-eyed whorehouse
He really loves kids and his parents sent him to a boarding school so I think he wants to give our kids a more normal childhood.
I think he'll probably just end up working from home a few days a week before our kids start school.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6979097) |
Date: November 12th, 2006 8:43 PM Author: Bateful pontificating box office ratface
I very much approve of J.'s work in this thread.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6979061) |
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Date: November 12th, 2006 9:26 PM Author: gay trip rehab mexican
People on either side of this debate seem to get really rigid about it - either it's the best possible thing in the world for a woman to stay home or it's horrible and anyone who does is a leech.
I wish people would just relax a little bit. Couples are different, and it's not like there's some solution that works for everyone.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6979380) |
Date: November 12th, 2006 11:12 PM Author: Drunken rough-skinned indian lodge candlestick maker Subject: i'm just lazy...
I got into duke and georgetown for next year...but I've never had a real job (unless you count nannying, where I got paid way too much to push the bugaboo stroller to starbucks, or that time I worked at a department store so I could buy shoes) so I'm planning on marrying my boyfriend (he's at a T14 and going to do a firm job), working at legal aid for a couple years, and then staying at home and living off his salary. i'm just too pretty to work. I like the idea of wearing YSL suits and cole haan shoes to work every day...but I like my J-Lo sweatpants even more.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6980292) |
Date: November 13th, 2006 8:51 AM Author: Yellow at-the-ready patrolman
http://www.ronco.com/
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=525120&forum_id=2#6982240) |
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