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Did I Cheat on My Wife?
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:31 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn Subject: Did I Cheat on My Wife? I am morally torn. I'm married and I've gone to strip joints about 12 times in my life all while I was married, usually with a group of friends. 3 of those times, I came while getting lap dances. I was shocked the first time it happened...didn't think it could. The stripper let me grab everything and she said it was ok for me to cum. Since that first time, I want to cum every time I get lap dances. I've only been to 1 strip joint in the last two years, but I did cum. I feel rotten about it, but I still want to go back for more. Is it common for people to cum during lab dances and is this equivalent to cheating? I don't think it's cheating if you go to strip joints and just watch. But, when there's grabbing and hard grinding and cumming involved, I think I've crossed the line. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470229) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:33 PM Author: Exciting queen of the night "I don't think it's cheating if you go to strip joints and just watch. But, when there's grabbing and hard grinding and cumming involved, I think I've crossed the line."
Exactly. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:33 PM Author: Scarlet base dude, unless she had your dick in her mouth, how did you cum just by touch alone? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470255) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:23 PM Author: charismatic bawdyhouse I second that question. I couldn't even cum when the stripper gave me a hand job. Hell it's hard for me to cum having sex. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 6:02 PM Author: vivacious casino dog poop I depends on the guy. One of my buddies comes in his pants after two minutes of a lap dance. On the other hand, I have trouble even getting up for those whores. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472249) |
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Date: August 31st, 2005 1:15 PM Author: Motley milky rehab Is your buddy 12? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#3712459) |
Date: May 13th, 2004 3:32 PM Author: Titillating soggy sound barrier youre a cheater. no doubt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470240) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:33 PM Author: onyx racy market coffee pot You came from getting a lap dance?
Your marriage is over anyway. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:33 PM Author: Scarlet base 180. excellent. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470260) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:58 PM Author: mentally impaired talking spot hahahaha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472223) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:35 PM Author: brass nudist school scourge upon the earth Subject: are you 13? who even comes from watching and touching slightly? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470274) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:36 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn I think it's a myth that you can watch but not touch. Lap dances are very intense, especially when you wear slacks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470297) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:37 PM Author: onyx racy market coffee pot "Slacks"
As opposed to what? A merkin? |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:39 PM Author: Thriller outnumbered heaven chad Merkin...nice. Puts me in mind of Dr. Strangelove. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470359) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:40 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn What's a merkin? Slacks, I found out are preferred by the strips because it allows them to grind with little pain. Jeans on the other hand hurts them if they grind too hard. Seriously guys, the strip joints in LA are crazy.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:43 PM Author: Irradiated Plaza Potus Correct. It's also not uncommon to receive a handjob during a lap dance at some of the establishments in LA. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470397) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:56 PM Author: White multi-billionaire party of the first part Maybe at Jumbo's Clown Room -- but you might want to double-check the gender of the "chicks." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472209) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:36 PM Author: Irradiated Plaza Potus You're not a cheater. Don't sweat it. As long as you're not fucking these chicks I wouldn't worry about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470293) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:39 PM Author: painfully honest round eye locus you should change your moniker to Cliff Shitter (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470347) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:40 PM Author: Exciting queen of the night haha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470362) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:41 PM Author: painfully honest round eye locus or at least have his e-mail line as "yes i'm the cliff shitter" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470380) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:41 PM Author: Irradiated Plaza Potus Hey, it was only a one time thing. It's not like I've made a habit of it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470377) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:39 PM Author: At-the-ready adventurous stain Hhahaha cum during a lapdance? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470357) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:43 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn Yah, I didn't think it was possible until it happened. I really depends on the stripper, but it happens. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470401) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:41 PM Author: soul-stirring meetinghouse Do you, by any chance, enjoy ballroom dancing? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470386) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:42 PM Author: Big mediation Can you say WHIPPED? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470388) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:42 PM Author: Comical Flirting Area Mental Disorder Shit, and I thought that wetness on their legs was sweat. I'm never going back again. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:44 PM Author: out-of-control trip organic girlfriend Please tell me you came cause she was basically dry fucking you. (well, dry fucking cause your pants were one). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470410) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:44 PM Author: Titillating soggy sound barrier naw, he just never done seen titty before. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470419) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:45 PM Author: Comical Flirting Area Mental Disorder Even that is unacceptable once you've passed the age of 16. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470423) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:54 PM Author: peach passionate space black woman Agreed. Grown men should not cum from a woman rubbing against them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470695) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:47 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn Yes, that's what a lap dance is, at least in LA anyway. Why is it hard to believe that you can cum when a beautiful naked women is rubbing herself against your dick while you are grabbing her ass and tits? I am a fucken cheater. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470453) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:49 PM Author: ivory vibrant whorehouse yeah, i wouldn't like it if my husband was doing that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470479) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:54 PM Author: Big mediation thats cute (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470705) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:56 PM Author: ivory vibrant whorehouse why? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470715) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:57 PM Author: Big mediation i dont know it makes you seem wholesome to get offended by something like that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470737) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:00 PM Author: ivory vibrant whorehouse oh. well maybe I am wholesome. ;-) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470767) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:00 PM Author: Big mediation lovely (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470772) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:00 PM Author: ivory vibrant whorehouse oh. well maybe I am wholesome. ;-) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470768) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:44 PM Author: ivory vibrant whorehouse dude, if you think it might not be ok, don't do it anymore. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470420) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:49 PM Author: free-loading dysfunction This is the best piece of advice yet.
I think he knows he shouldn't do this anymore; he just wants the guys to tell him that it's ok so he can continue going. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:51 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn sugary, it's hard though. I don't want to go, and I haven't in a couple of years, but I always want to. I usually give in when my friends all get together for a birthday or something and we end up at a strip joint.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:52 PM Author: ivory vibrant whorehouse well of course it's hard, but if you think it's wrong and you keep doing it that's really bad. So freaking stop already. ;-) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470604) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:54 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn I hear what you are saying, but it's easier said than done. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470694) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:56 PM Author: out-of-control trip organic girlfriend Marriage aint easy, my friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470717) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:56 PM Author: ivory vibrant whorehouse dude, it doens't seem that hard, I think you need to grow a pair, in more ways than one.
edit: that sounds meaner than what i mean. You have to stop, so you shoudl, i know it's not easy, but if you want to be a good husband really you have no other choice. (unless you can get her to say it's ok). |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:59 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn sugary, I tell her I go to strip joints most of the time and she is cool with it. But, she doesn't know what happens when I am there.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:00 PM Author: ivory vibrant whorehouse right. well unless you can tell her what happens and she'd be ok w/ it, you shoudl stop, as hard as it is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470775) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:00 PM Author: out-of-control trip organic girlfriend I wouldnt have a problem with my husband *shudder* doing to strip clubs. But if she is rubbing up on him (or doing anything else to him) hard enough to get him off, I would be hurt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470776) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:01 PM Author: ivory vibrant whorehouse yes, i'd have no problem w/ just watching, contact though is icky. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470783) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:04 PM Author: Exciting queen of the night would you give your husband a lap dance? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470815) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:06 PM Author: ivory vibrant whorehouse what kind of question is that?
of course! |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:07 PM Author: Exciting queen of the night *tented fingers*
excellent. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:03 PM Author: onyx racy market coffee pot This is my wifes stated policy as well.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:10 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn Bosox, heaving grinding occurs during lap dances. I can't speak for other cities, but LA is notorious for it strip clubs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470892) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:12 PM Author: out-of-control trip organic girlfriend Which is why I am saying if you get off from lap dances, go to the club, just dont get them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470918) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:15 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn fair enough. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470959) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:54 PM Author: out-of-control trip organic girlfriend Dont get lap dances. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470698) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:57 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn I think that's what I will do next time I go. And yes, there will be a next time. I will try to stay away from the lap dances but the women are very good at seducing/guilting you into several lap dances. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470732) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:59 PM Author: free-loading dysfunction Won't it be easier to avoid temptation if you just don't go? Are strip clubs really something that you can't live without in your life? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470759) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:02 PM Author: onyx racy market coffee pot Don't ask questions you already know the answer to. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470797) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:02 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn It's hard to explain, but when you get together with friends, sometimes it just happens. There have been many occasions when I decline their invitations, but sometimes I give in. Like I said, I've only gone once in the last 2 years. And yes, I agree that I should avoid strip clubs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470798) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:03 PM Author: Sick really tough guy trailer park Dude, you are weak in so many ways. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470810) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:07 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn Are you married? It's hard to judge if you are not. What started off as some innocent fun with the boys became a huge temptation. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470851) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:04 PM Author: out-of-control trip organic girlfriend Even ignoring the strip club draw, I wouldnt expect him to give up that time with his friends. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470825) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:07 PM Author: ivory vibrant whorehouse nor would I, but if spending time w/ friends ='s rubbing up against strippers then he has to make a choice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470847) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:08 PM Author: out-of-control trip organic girlfriend Thats why I am saying I have no problem with strip clubs. Its the getting off that bothers me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470868) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:47 PM Author: Electric Range I thought this would be a Stabby/Thea thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470459) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:59 PM Author: onyx racy market coffee pot I know when I cheat on my wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470756) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:07 PM Author: out-of-control trip organic girlfriend Yeah, so do I. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470855) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:03 PM Author: Irradiated Plaza Potus It's obvious you're gonna have trouble staying faithful in the long run. You might as well get a little more satisfaction for your money. I'd recommend looking into an internet escort. Here's a good place to start: www.theeroticreview.com (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470803) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:21 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn part of the reason I raise this question about cheating is that my friends have arranged to celebrate my acceptance to law school by taking me to a strip club. What I hear you all saying is that it's not cheating to go to a strip club, but it's cheating if I get lap dances that lead to me cumming. I can't change what has happened in the past, but I can make sure I stay away from the lap dances next weekend. Wish me luck! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471843) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:22 PM Author: Electric Range it is not cheating unless you stick your rod in the strippers box or maybe she sucks your dick. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471862) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:27 PM Author: dashing overrated stock car university there ya go (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471916) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:28 PM Author: ivory vibrant whorehouse you're bad! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471923) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:29 PM Author: Electric Range I wouldn't do anything near that, but I'm not into strip clubs and stuff. Kissing a stripper would happen, but that is cheating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471938) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:38 PM Author: ivory vibrant whorehouse ok well you're not so bad then ;-). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472028) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:43 PM Author: Electric Range just because it isn't cheating, doesn't mean it isn't wrong. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472085) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:26 PM Author: charismatic bawdyhouse How do you explain the stain on your pants? And how does it feel walking out of a strip club with a cumstain on your slacks/merkin? |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:30 PM Author: Electric Range embarrassing I imagine. LOL. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471947) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:36 PM Author: Ocher coldplay fan No kidding. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472016) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:32 PM Author: Odious hall puppy does it really matter whether or not you term it "cheating"? even if you dont consider what you did to be "adultery," the point is that you had a naked woman grinding you while you groped her tits. even if you never came, thats still pretty fucking wrong. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471971) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:33 PM Author: Electric Range I'd agree with that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471983) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:51 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn Yah, you're right rock-me Elle. I really didn't have a problem with lap dances per se, except that they led to the jizzing part. However, you bring up a good point that I need to think about. Anyway, my goal is to make sure I decline all the lap dance offers.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:34 PM Author: dashing overrated stock car university Subject: Simple rule unless you're jizz actually comes in contact with her skin, you didnt cheat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471995) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:35 PM Author: Electric Range but even if you don't cheat, doesn't mean it isn't wrong as rock me elle said. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472003) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:36 PM Author: dashing overrated stock car university hey thats for the politicans to decide
all i know is i had a good time |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:38 PM Author: Ocher coldplay fan If you're blowing your load that easily you're not getting enough poon at home. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472032) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:44 PM Author: Contagious rigpig shrine obviously (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472096) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:44 PM Author: Contagious rigpig shrine Can you please provide the name and address of this establishment?
I need to verify the veracity of the story. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:55 PM Author: Elite fragrant azn Yah, any of the strip joints in the City of Industry or the Spearmint Rhino in downtown LA off the 10 fwy (I think). That was the last one I went to about 6 months ago. It definitely is one of the more aggressive ones and the women are very up front with what they will do.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 6:00 PM Author: Contagious rigpig shrine cool.
i've driven by the rhino several times but never checked it out. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:53 PM Author: azure judgmental state its not cheating unless you put your cock in her.
HTH |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:56 PM Author: Slippery canary stage faggot firefighter Incorrect. If you use a condom, you're not actually "touching" her. Therefore, it is still not cheating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472210) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:58 PM Author: blathering tantric main people hairy legs I just want to clarify that this is not me posting under an alias.
BTW, it's not cheating. |
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Date: August 31st, 2005 2:46 AM Author: Aromatic Frisky Garrison Mad-dog Skullcap I like how we use cheating as a magical category in which we can jam phone sex, kissing, dirty dancing, "anything you wouldn't want her to know," whatever. Truth is this the OP isn't the most faithful guy around, but he ain't the least, either. This is probably less serious than an office flirtation + kiss. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#3711019) |
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Date: August 31st, 2005 3:24 AM Author: aphrodisiac temple How did she get you to cum unless she was naked? Same question as Weezy and Yackity. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#3711144) |
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Date: August 31st, 2005 1:18 PM Author: Motley milky rehab It's not cheating if you bone them in the pooper. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#3712480) |