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Did I Cheat on My Wife?
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:31 PM Author: Alcoholic lay Subject: Did I Cheat on My Wife? I am morally torn. I'm married and I've gone to strip joints about 12 times in my life all while I was married, usually with a group of friends. 3 of those times, I came while getting lap dances. I was shocked the first time it happened...didn't think it could. The stripper let me grab everything and she said it was ok for me to cum. Since that first time, I want to cum every time I get lap dances. I've only been to 1 strip joint in the last two years, but I did cum. I feel rotten about it, but I still want to go back for more. Is it common for people to cum during lab dances and is this equivalent to cheating? I don't think it's cheating if you go to strip joints and just watch. But, when there's grabbing and hard grinding and cumming involved, I think I've crossed the line. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470229) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:33 PM Author: supple milky trust fund "I don't think it's cheating if you go to strip joints and just watch. But, when there's grabbing and hard grinding and cumming involved, I think I've crossed the line."
Exactly. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:33 PM Author: Silver Vibrant Heaven dude, unless she had your dick in her mouth, how did you cum just by touch alone? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470255) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:23 PM Author: Aphrodisiac regret school cafeteria I second that question. I couldn't even cum when the stripper gave me a hand job. Hell it's hard for me to cum having sex. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 6:02 PM Author: thriller center I depends on the guy. One of my buddies comes in his pants after two minutes of a lap dance. On the other hand, I have trouble even getting up for those whores. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472249) |
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Date: August 31st, 2005 1:15 PM Author: Indecent Orchestra Pit Is your buddy 12? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#3712459) |
Date: May 13th, 2004 3:32 PM Author: chestnut fluffy home queen of the night youre a cheater. no doubt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470240) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:33 PM Author: charismatic fiercely-loyal bawdyhouse international law enforcement agency You came from getting a lap dance?
Your marriage is over anyway. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:33 PM Author: Silver Vibrant Heaven 180. excellent. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470260) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:58 PM Author: orange big laser beams dog poop hahahaha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472223) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:35 PM Author: fighting stirring church alpha Subject: are you 13? who even comes from watching and touching slightly? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470274) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:36 PM Author: Alcoholic lay I think it's a myth that you can watch but not touch. Lap dances are very intense, especially when you wear slacks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470297) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:37 PM Author: charismatic fiercely-loyal bawdyhouse international law enforcement agency "Slacks"
As opposed to what? A merkin? |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:39 PM Author: Dun prole ceo Merkin...nice. Puts me in mind of Dr. Strangelove. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470359) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:40 PM Author: Alcoholic lay What's a merkin? Slacks, I found out are preferred by the strips because it allows them to grind with little pain. Jeans on the other hand hurts them if they grind too hard. Seriously guys, the strip joints in LA are crazy.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:43 PM Author: deranged theater pisswyrm Correct. It's also not uncommon to receive a handjob during a lap dance at some of the establishments in LA. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470397) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:56 PM Author: Jet-lagged National Maybe at Jumbo's Clown Room -- but you might want to double-check the gender of the "chicks." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472209) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:36 PM Author: deranged theater pisswyrm You're not a cheater. Don't sweat it. As long as you're not fucking these chicks I wouldn't worry about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470293) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:39 PM Author: Blue learning disabled space you should change your moniker to Cliff Shitter (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470347) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:40 PM Author: supple milky trust fund haha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470362) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:41 PM Author: Blue learning disabled space or at least have his e-mail line as "yes i'm the cliff shitter" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470380) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:41 PM Author: deranged theater pisswyrm Hey, it was only a one time thing. It's not like I've made a habit of it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470377) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:39 PM Author: Carnelian bull headed liquid oxygen circlehead Hhahaha cum during a lapdance? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470357) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:43 PM Author: Alcoholic lay Yah, I didn't think it was possible until it happened. I really depends on the stripper, but it happens. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470401) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:41 PM Author: galvanic honey-headed native Do you, by any chance, enjoy ballroom dancing? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470386) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:42 PM Author: cerise beady-eyed tanning salon Can you say WHIPPED? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470388) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:42 PM Author: wild scourge upon the earth main people Shit, and I thought that wetness on their legs was sweat. I'm never going back again. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:44 PM Author: sienna temple persian Please tell me you came cause she was basically dry fucking you. (well, dry fucking cause your pants were one). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470410) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:44 PM Author: chestnut fluffy home queen of the night naw, he just never done seen titty before. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470419) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:45 PM Author: wild scourge upon the earth main people Even that is unacceptable once you've passed the age of 16. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470423) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:54 PM Author: Red hilarious shitlib Agreed. Grown men should not cum from a woman rubbing against them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470695) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:47 PM Author: Alcoholic lay Yes, that's what a lap dance is, at least in LA anyway. Why is it hard to believe that you can cum when a beautiful naked women is rubbing herself against your dick while you are grabbing her ass and tits? I am a fucken cheater. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470453) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:49 PM Author: slippery comical ticket booth yeah, i wouldn't like it if my husband was doing that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470479) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:54 PM Author: cerise beady-eyed tanning salon thats cute (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470705) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:56 PM Author: slippery comical ticket booth why? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470715) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:57 PM Author: cerise beady-eyed tanning salon i dont know it makes you seem wholesome to get offended by something like that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470737) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:00 PM Author: slippery comical ticket booth oh. well maybe I am wholesome. ;-) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470767) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:00 PM Author: cerise beady-eyed tanning salon lovely (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470772) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:00 PM Author: slippery comical ticket booth oh. well maybe I am wholesome. ;-) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470768) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:44 PM Author: slippery comical ticket booth dude, if you think it might not be ok, don't do it anymore. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470420) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:49 PM Author: poppy razzmatazz messiness This is the best piece of advice yet.
I think he knows he shouldn't do this anymore; he just wants the guys to tell him that it's ok so he can continue going. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:51 PM Author: Alcoholic lay sugary, it's hard though. I don't want to go, and I haven't in a couple of years, but I always want to. I usually give in when my friends all get together for a birthday or something and we end up at a strip joint.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:52 PM Author: slippery comical ticket booth well of course it's hard, but if you think it's wrong and you keep doing it that's really bad. So freaking stop already. ;-) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470604) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:54 PM Author: Alcoholic lay I hear what you are saying, but it's easier said than done. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470694) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:56 PM Author: sienna temple persian Marriage aint easy, my friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470717) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:56 PM Author: slippery comical ticket booth dude, it doens't seem that hard, I think you need to grow a pair, in more ways than one.
edit: that sounds meaner than what i mean. You have to stop, so you shoudl, i know it's not easy, but if you want to be a good husband really you have no other choice. (unless you can get her to say it's ok). |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:59 PM Author: Alcoholic lay sugary, I tell her I go to strip joints most of the time and she is cool with it. But, she doesn't know what happens when I am there.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:00 PM Author: slippery comical ticket booth right. well unless you can tell her what happens and she'd be ok w/ it, you shoudl stop, as hard as it is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470775) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:00 PM Author: sienna temple persian I wouldnt have a problem with my husband *shudder* doing to strip clubs. But if she is rubbing up on him (or doing anything else to him) hard enough to get him off, I would be hurt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470776) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:01 PM Author: slippery comical ticket booth yes, i'd have no problem w/ just watching, contact though is icky. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470783) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:04 PM Author: supple milky trust fund would you give your husband a lap dance? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470815) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:06 PM Author: slippery comical ticket booth what kind of question is that?
of course! |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:07 PM Author: supple milky trust fund *tented fingers*
excellent. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:03 PM Author: charismatic fiercely-loyal bawdyhouse international law enforcement agency This is my wifes stated policy as well.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:10 PM Author: Alcoholic lay Bosox, heaving grinding occurs during lap dances. I can't speak for other cities, but LA is notorious for it strip clubs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470892) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:12 PM Author: sienna temple persian Which is why I am saying if you get off from lap dances, go to the club, just dont get them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470918) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:15 PM Author: Alcoholic lay fair enough. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470959) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:54 PM Author: sienna temple persian Dont get lap dances. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470698) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:57 PM Author: Alcoholic lay I think that's what I will do next time I go. And yes, there will be a next time. I will try to stay away from the lap dances but the women are very good at seducing/guilting you into several lap dances. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470732) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:59 PM Author: poppy razzmatazz messiness Won't it be easier to avoid temptation if you just don't go? Are strip clubs really something that you can't live without in your life? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470759) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:02 PM Author: charismatic fiercely-loyal bawdyhouse international law enforcement agency Don't ask questions you already know the answer to. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470797) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:02 PM Author: Alcoholic lay It's hard to explain, but when you get together with friends, sometimes it just happens. There have been many occasions when I decline their invitations, but sometimes I give in. Like I said, I've only gone once in the last 2 years. And yes, I agree that I should avoid strip clubs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470798) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:03 PM Author: irradiated sickened faggotry Dude, you are weak in so many ways. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470810) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:07 PM Author: Alcoholic lay Are you married? It's hard to judge if you are not. What started off as some innocent fun with the boys became a huge temptation. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470851) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:04 PM Author: sienna temple persian Even ignoring the strip club draw, I wouldnt expect him to give up that time with his friends. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470825) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:07 PM Author: slippery comical ticket booth nor would I, but if spending time w/ friends ='s rubbing up against strippers then he has to make a choice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470847) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:08 PM Author: sienna temple persian Thats why I am saying I have no problem with strip clubs. Its the getting off that bothers me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470868) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:47 PM Author: primrose insanely creepy kitchen chad I thought this would be a Stabby/Thea thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470459) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:59 PM Author: charismatic fiercely-loyal bawdyhouse international law enforcement agency I know when I cheat on my wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470756) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:07 PM Author: sienna temple persian Yeah, so do I. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470855) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:03 PM Author: deranged theater pisswyrm It's obvious you're gonna have trouble staying faithful in the long run. You might as well get a little more satisfaction for your money. I'd recommend looking into an internet escort. Here's a good place to start: www.theeroticreview.com (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470803) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:21 PM Author: Alcoholic lay part of the reason I raise this question about cheating is that my friends have arranged to celebrate my acceptance to law school by taking me to a strip club. What I hear you all saying is that it's not cheating to go to a strip club, but it's cheating if I get lap dances that lead to me cumming. I can't change what has happened in the past, but I can make sure I stay away from the lap dances next weekend. Wish me luck! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471843) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:22 PM Author: primrose insanely creepy kitchen chad it is not cheating unless you stick your rod in the strippers box or maybe she sucks your dick. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471862) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:27 PM Author: canary dashing location there ya go (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471916) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:28 PM Author: slippery comical ticket booth you're bad! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471923) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:29 PM Author: primrose insanely creepy kitchen chad I wouldn't do anything near that, but I'm not into strip clubs and stuff. Kissing a stripper would happen, but that is cheating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471938) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:38 PM Author: slippery comical ticket booth ok well you're not so bad then ;-). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472028) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:43 PM Author: primrose insanely creepy kitchen chad just because it isn't cheating, doesn't mean it isn't wrong. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472085) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:26 PM Author: Aphrodisiac regret school cafeteria How do you explain the stain on your pants? And how does it feel walking out of a strip club with a cumstain on your slacks/merkin? |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:30 PM Author: primrose insanely creepy kitchen chad embarrassing I imagine. LOL. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471947) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:36 PM Author: sable aggressive dilemma mental disorder No kidding. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472016) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:32 PM Author: Boyish keepsake machete sweet tailpipe does it really matter whether or not you term it "cheating"? even if you dont consider what you did to be "adultery," the point is that you had a naked woman grinding you while you groped her tits. even if you never came, thats still pretty fucking wrong. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471971) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:33 PM Author: primrose insanely creepy kitchen chad I'd agree with that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471983) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:51 PM Author: Alcoholic lay Yah, you're right rock-me Elle. I really didn't have a problem with lap dances per se, except that they led to the jizzing part. However, you bring up a good point that I need to think about. Anyway, my goal is to make sure I decline all the lap dance offers.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:34 PM Author: canary dashing location Subject: Simple rule unless you're jizz actually comes in contact with her skin, you didnt cheat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471995) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:35 PM Author: primrose insanely creepy kitchen chad but even if you don't cheat, doesn't mean it isn't wrong as rock me elle said. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472003) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:36 PM Author: canary dashing location hey thats for the politicans to decide
all i know is i had a good time |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:38 PM Author: sable aggressive dilemma mental disorder If you're blowing your load that easily you're not getting enough poon at home. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472032) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:44 PM Author: Green boistinker sanctuary obviously (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472096) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:44 PM Author: Green boistinker sanctuary Can you please provide the name and address of this establishment?
I need to verify the veracity of the story. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:55 PM Author: Alcoholic lay Yah, any of the strip joints in the City of Industry or the Spearmint Rhino in downtown LA off the 10 fwy (I think). That was the last one I went to about 6 months ago. It definitely is one of the more aggressive ones and the women are very up front with what they will do.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 6:00 PM Author: Green boistinker sanctuary cool.
i've driven by the rhino several times but never checked it out. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:53 PM Author: Cowardly histrionic gas station hairy legs its not cheating unless you put your cock in her.
HTH |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:56 PM Author: Aromatic dark goal in life fanboi Incorrect. If you use a condom, you're not actually "touching" her. Therefore, it is still not cheating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472210) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:58 PM Author: Frum state I just want to clarify that this is not me posting under an alias.
BTW, it's not cheating. |
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Date: August 31st, 2005 2:46 AM Author: crystalline plaza electric furnace I like how we use cheating as a magical category in which we can jam phone sex, kissing, dirty dancing, "anything you wouldn't want her to know," whatever. Truth is this the OP isn't the most faithful guy around, but he ain't the least, either. This is probably less serious than an office flirtation + kiss. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#3711019) |
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Date: August 31st, 2005 3:24 AM Author: Slap-happy racy station round eye How did she get you to cum unless she was naked? Same question as Weezy and Yackity. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#3711144) |
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Date: August 31st, 2005 1:18 PM Author: Indecent Orchestra Pit It's not cheating if you bone them in the pooper. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#3712480) |