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I find myself horribly unattractive

but I get told I am pretty regularly. I think people lie and...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
oh wow you're pretty! You really, really are!
sooty haunting church building
  12/24/09
yeah. it probably seem like that was what I was looking for ...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
That's not what I was saying. I think it's just annoying ...
sooty haunting church building
  12/24/09
this is true. I mean if I brought it up, then I would unders...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
oh hai me I often am compared to my brother, looks-wise, ...
Claret Drunken Halford
  12/24/09
not sure about you but I think people say it to me because i...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
why don't you and the poster above you post pics and i will ...
Contagious Very Tactful Church
  12/24/09
yeah outting myself is not likely
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
pwn3d!!
Chrome State
  12/24/09
is this you? http://img35.imageshack.us/img35/4020/349568...
coral affirmative action
  12/24/09
you caught me. So, do you think I'm pretty? LOL
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
I'm sure you'll pass. :)
coral affirmative action
  12/24/09
why is this woman being linked to so often? Who is she?
sooty haunting church building
  12/24/09
181
cruel-hearted twinkling pervert
  12/24/09
FML would have been all over this thread asking you to email...
racy stage
  12/24/09
the Estrada brand is still going strong
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
True, the competition is fleeing the market
racy stage
  12/24/09
Do fellow women lie to you? As a man, I'm rarely compelled ...
arousing office
  12/24/09
Mainly I get told I am attractive by fellow women and older ...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
You sound insecure. Those men sound stupid. How old ar...
arousing office
  12/24/09
Not so much insecure. I hate what I look like but I am resig...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
What's your figure like? Men forgive faces if they like the...
arousing office
  12/24/09
I actually have a pretty good body. It's just my face
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
What's wrong with your face?
arousing office
  12/24/09
It's really wide and I have dark circles under my eyes
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
Eye-shadow cures the second problem, despite my comments. I...
arousing office
  12/24/09
no. just bone structure is not great. not as horrible as som...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
No guy thinks about this. Just be an easy lay.
arousing office
  12/24/09
they think about this when it comes to findign a girl they w...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
listen, it's not the bone but the innersoulsubstance that wi...
maroon trip mood
  12/24/09
"really wide"-- are you asian?
vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting
  12/24/09
no. But it is kind of wide and flat
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
do you have a boyfriend? do you get asked out?
vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting
  12/24/09
yes. Not as much as I used to when I was younger. Trust me, ...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
Make up is a myth. Men aren't attracted to heavy eye-liner,...
arousing office
  12/24/09
well, then, I guess I just am what I am
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
Good. And avoid the heavy make-up. It makes most women loo...
arousing office
  12/24/09
what do you do when you like a guy but he doesn't ask you ou...
vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting
  12/24/09
I avoid a guy like the plague if he doesn't ask me out and i...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
This sounds like a winning strategy. I know some girls wh...
arousing office
  12/24/09
yeah, I realize that many signals are unconcious and it both...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
I'm starting to think you're flame.
arousing office
  12/24/09
yeah. I'm not. I just hate rejection
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
As a man, I've always thought that rejection is worse for wo...
arousing office
  12/24/09
this is what happens to me
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
Lower your standards?
arousing office
  12/24/09
this is what happens to me. After a year of dating they don'...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
how does it feel when that happens to you?
vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting
  12/24/09
it sucks so I have basically stopped dating and settled for ...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
but how are you ever going to get with the guys you actually...
vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting
  12/24/09
um, I guess I'm not unless they like me too. If you are a re...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
you didn't answer the second question. do you just go on da...
vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting
  12/24/09
yes. I am not attracted to my current bf at all but I know I...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
Okay, flame. Any male would realize the lack of interest ...
arousing office
  12/24/09
not true.
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
What if he proposes?
racy stage
  12/24/09
he won't
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
So why would an aging woman date him?
racy stage
  12/24/09
where am I going to get any better? Where? No decent guys ar...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
So why not just marry this one then
racy stage
  12/24/09
I'm actually going to have to dump this one because I cannot...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
is he fat, or just ugly?
dead sepia goal in life
  12/24/09
both
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
sorry :( maybe you go for fat good looking guys... (not r...
dead sepia goal in life
  12/24/09
why aren't you attracted to your BF? are your standards too...
vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting
  12/24/09
its probably a combination of too high standards and low sel...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
how are the other facets of your life? academic? career? ...
vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting
  12/24/09
decent law school, not great grades, lots of friends
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09
biglaw lined up? if you have so many friends, why are you s...
vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting
  12/24/09
cause she's not getting laid there was a lot of this at m...
dead sepia goal in life
  12/24/09
Most friends aren't important for happiness, IMO. Many are ...
arousing office
  12/24/09
i do, too some days other days i'm fairly grateful for what...
Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe
  12/24/09
Women tend to be too hard on their looks.
arousing office
  12/24/09
it's ingrained in us very early in life also, we ARE chicks...
Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe
  12/24/09
What do you mean very early? Did your mother criticize your...
arousing office
  12/24/09
1) Yes 2)No. Guys don't really approach me. Some stare/ch...
Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe
  12/24/09
As a guy, you'll have to send out signals, otherwise you won...
arousing office
  12/24/09
yeah, perhaps i seem too guarded i'm not a beauty, but i'm ...
Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe
  12/24/09
Even if you're not a beauty, I think people overemphasize th...
arousing office
  12/24/09
i agree. i'm intelligent, well-read, cultured. date mostly o...
Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe
  12/24/09
Where do you find these older men?
arousing office
  12/24/09
work, social functions, literary/arts events, etc.
Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe
  12/24/09
Literary and art events. Wow.
arousing office
  12/24/09
Sorry that sounded pompous. I mean things like poetry readin...
Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe
  12/24/09
Where do you find these poetry readings? Or panel discussio...
arousing office
  12/24/09
In chicago, i love going to the uptown poetry slam at the gr...
Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe
  12/24/09
Interesting, I'm also in Chicago. I'll have to check these ...
arousing office
  12/24/09
You should strike a blow for equality of the sexes and appro...
racy stage
  12/24/09
I had to google this word: anthropocentric. Congratulatio...
arousing office
  12/24/09
I'm pretty sure feminists use "anthropocentric" to...
racy stage
  12/24/09
How is a norm that men approach women biased in favor of men...
arousing office
  12/24/09
I mean, I'm speaking in bad faith when I invoke feminist arg...
racy stage
  12/24/09
Learning to discern interest is vital. You're still a littl...
arousing office
  12/24/09
My aspie superpowers give me the ability to score well on st...
racy stage
  12/24/09
Just study body language, eye contact, verbal cues. This is...
arousing office
  12/24/09
i actually do this. this is how i met my current bf, who cl...
Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe
  12/24/09
cool, tell more of your female friends to be like this
racy stage
  12/24/09
I love this song. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c_Kx62PhHl...
Anal Regret Hell
  12/24/09


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Date: December 24th, 2009 3:53 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

but I get told I am pretty regularly. I think people lie and I'm not sure why they do it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639037)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 3:58 PM
Author: sooty haunting church building

oh wow you're pretty!

You really, really are!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639054)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:00 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

yeah. it probably seem like that was what I was looking for in this thread. It wasn't. I really am not pretty. I just find it funny how people feel a need to lie to women about this, especially since it is uninvited

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639069)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:04 PM
Author: sooty haunting church building

That's not what I was saying.

I think it's just annoying irl when people give you compliments and it sounds like they're trying to comfort you over an insecurity, when you didn't even say anything to indicate you needed comfort.

It's really condescending.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639084)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:11 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

this is true. I mean if I brought it up, then I would understand their comments, obviously. If I said, "God I'm hideous!" I would not bitch when people disagree because they were trying to be polite. But I quietly accept my fate so people should not feel a need to lie to me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639121)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 3:55 PM
Author: Claret Drunken Halford

oh hai me

I often am compared to my brother, looks-wise, who is about an objective 3. Then people always say I'm handsome and stuff. Talk about mixed messages!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639044)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 3:57 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

not sure about you but I think people say it to me because it is what you are supposed to say to a woman

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639052)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:00 PM
Author: Contagious Very Tactful Church

why don't you and the poster above you post pics and i will OBJECTIVELY rate you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639066)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:01 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

yeah outting myself is not likely

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639072)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 3:58 PM
Author: Chrome State

pwn3d!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639057)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:14 PM
Author: coral affirmative action

is this you?

http://img35.imageshack.us/img35/4020/34956844.jpg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639140)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:15 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

you caught me. So, do you think I'm pretty? LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639145)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:17 PM
Author: coral affirmative action

I'm sure you'll pass. :)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639165)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:17 PM
Author: sooty haunting church building

why is this woman being linked to so often?

Who is she?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639161)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:23 PM
Author: cruel-hearted twinkling pervert

181

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640379)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:14 PM
Author: racy stage

FML would have been all over this thread asking you to email him pics

XO has lost so much talent in the last week.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639141)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:15 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

the Estrada brand is still going strong

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639148)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:16 PM
Author: racy stage

True, the competition is fleeing the market

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639150)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:16 PM
Author: arousing office

Do fellow women lie to you? As a man, I'm rarely compelled to tell even pretty women that they're attractive. I don't think I've ever commented on an unattractive woman's looks.

The one exception is that a friend of mine complained about turning 30 and remaining single. She said, "And my looks, which were never much to begin with, are fading." I told her: "Nah, I think you're pretty."

Ironically, I do think she's pretty.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639158)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:20 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

Mainly I get told I am attractive by fellow women and older men. Men my age, save my boyfriends, never gratuitously tell me I'm pretty. The exception being if I'm at a bar-in which case I get told I'm pretty by all the drunk men who are looking to score

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639191)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:21 PM
Author: arousing office

You sound insecure.

Those men sound stupid.

How old are you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639201)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:22 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

Not so much insecure. I hate what I look like but I am resigned to it. It's just that I don't understand the need to lie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639210)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:24 PM
Author: arousing office

What's your figure like? Men forgive faces if they like the body.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639225)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:25 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

I actually have a pretty good body. It's just my face

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639238)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:26 PM
Author: arousing office

What's wrong with your face?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639246)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:30 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

It's really wide and I have dark circles under my eyes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639264)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:32 PM
Author: arousing office

Eye-shadow cures the second problem, despite my comments. I'm not sure why you mean by really wide. Are you fat?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639275)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:35 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

no. just bone structure is not great. not as horrible as some girls but not great. ok cheek bones but the whole face is just too wide

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639287)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:36 PM
Author: arousing office

No guy thinks about this. Just be an easy lay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639291)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:39 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

they think about this when it comes to findign a girl they want to be serious with

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639308)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:48 PM
Author: maroon trip mood

listen, it's not the bone but the innersoulsubstance that will eventually define your appearance. you're probably better than fine. so, better not to indulge by saying these kind of things.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639354)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:36 PM
Author: vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting

"really wide"-- are you asian?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639296)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:38 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

no. But it is kind of wide and flat

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639302)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:20 PM
Author: vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting

do you have a boyfriend? do you get asked out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639190)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:21 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

yes. Not as much as I used to when I was younger. Trust me, I am average to slightly above average-on a good day, with lots of make up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639198)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:22 PM
Author: arousing office

Make up is a myth. Men aren't attracted to heavy eye-liner, eye shadow, and rogue. Women just think that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639207)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:23 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

well, then, I guess I just am what I am

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639214)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:23 PM
Author: arousing office

Good. And avoid the heavy make-up. It makes most women look worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639222)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:27 PM
Author: vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting

what do you do when you like a guy but he doesn't ask you out? are you content with just going out with a bunch of guys who you're not really crazy about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639251)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:29 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

I avoid a guy like the plague if he doesn't ask me out and if I like a guy he probably would never know. I just assume that he would not like me back and I would hate to send out signals because I would probably just appear pathetic. I don't really hang out with guys at all. I just hang out with girls. The few guys I hang out with are taken and I am friends with their gfs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639261)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:31 PM
Author: arousing office

This sounds like a winning strategy.

I know some girls who send deluges of signals, almost to the point of manipulation. Others do nothing. Guess which group is happier.

Also, you do realize that many signals are unconscious?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639273)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:34 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

yeah, I realize that many signals are unconcious and it bothers the hell out of me. With the way I look and how pathetic other areas of my life are, guys would just see it as a pathetic puppy dog crush. Why would I want to be pitied? Why would I want people to laugh behind my back? They probably already do since, like you say, signals are unconcious. What I should do is just lower my standards.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639283)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:36 PM
Author: arousing office

I'm starting to think you're flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639289)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:36 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

yeah. I'm not. I just hate rejection

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639295)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:39 PM
Author: arousing office

As a man, I've always thought that rejection is worse for women, because it comes later in the relationship. I get rejected off-the-bat and know where I stand. A man might lead a woman on for a while before rejecting her. Many date women they don't consider marriage material.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639307)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:42 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

this is what happens to me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639322)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:43 PM
Author: arousing office

Lower your standards?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639326)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:59 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

this is what happens to me. After a year of dating they don't want me anymore. After two years they finally get the nerve to call it quits

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639400)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:59 PM
Author: vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting

how does it feel when that happens to you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639401)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 5:01 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

it sucks so I have basically stopped dating and settled for a semi-relationship with a guy I am not attracted to. if that makes sense

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639406)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:36 PM
Author: vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting

but how are you ever going to get with the guys you actually like then? do you just go on dates with guys you're not that into?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639290)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:38 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

um, I guess I'm not unless they like me too. If you are a really pretty girl you can worm your way in with a guy somewhat. If not, then I think you should let them come to you...so you don't look like the desperate ugly girl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639301)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:40 PM
Author: vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting

you didn't answer the second question. do you just go on dates with guys you're not really into, while you avoid the guys you actually like?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639309)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:42 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

yes. I am not attracted to my current bf at all but I know I can't do better and I am lonely

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639320)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:42 PM
Author: arousing office

Okay, flame.

Any male would realize the lack of interest and move on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639323)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:44 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

not true.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639329)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:43 PM
Author: racy stage

What if he proposes?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639325)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:43 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

he won't

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639328)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:44 PM
Author: racy stage

So why would an aging woman date him?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639332)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:46 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

where am I going to get any better? Where? No decent guys are asking me out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639336)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:46 PM
Author: racy stage

So why not just marry this one then

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639342)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:57 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

I'm actually going to have to dump this one because I cannot even stand to sleep with him anymore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639391)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:47 PM
Author: dead sepia goal in life

is he fat, or just ugly?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639349)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:59 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

both

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639402)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 5:05 PM
Author: dead sepia goal in life

sorry :(

maybe you go for fat good looking guys... (not really fat)

i have this theory that average thin people should meet up with attractive fat people. The beautiful people and fat ugly people can fuck each other. You'd probably have attractive kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639427)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:44 PM
Author: vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting

why aren't you attracted to your BF? are your standards too high for your own attractiveness?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639334)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 4:56 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

its probably a combination of too high standards and low self esteem

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639389)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 5:02 PM
Author: vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting

how are the other facets of your life? academic? career? friendships? etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639410)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 5:05 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

decent law school, not great grades, lots of friends

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639429)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 5:08 PM
Author: vengeful bearded foreskin famous landscape painting

biglaw lined up? if you have so many friends, why are you so unhappy?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639443)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 5:11 PM
Author: dead sepia goal in life

cause she's not getting laid

there was a lot of this at my UG (70% men, 1300 avg SAT score, not conducive to fucking hot girls)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13639456)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:15 PM
Author: arousing office

Most friends aren't important for happiness, IMO. Many are almost worthless fair-weather types.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640322)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:16 PM
Author: Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe

i do, too some days

other days i'm fairly grateful for what i have

btw, i have a wide-ish face and deep/dark genetic undereye circles, too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640328)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:22 PM
Author: arousing office

Women tend to be too hard on their looks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640372)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:23 PM
Author: Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe

it's ingrained in us very early in life

also, we ARE chicks who post on discussion boards which berate even perfectly attractive women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640378)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:24 PM
Author: arousing office

What do you mean very early? Did your mother criticize your looks as a little girl?

re: second point, yes, but surely you understand the difference between XOXO and real life. Men berate even the most attractive women on here, but it's a b.s. defense mechanism. They would love to date these women in real life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640389)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:27 PM
Author: Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe

1) Yes

2)No. Guys don't really approach me. Some stare/check me out, but they don't approach me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640419)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:28 PM
Author: arousing office

As a guy, you'll have to send out signals, otherwise you won't get anywhere. I'll check out girls, but if they don't look back even briefly, why should I approach?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640429)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:29 PM
Author: Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe

yeah, perhaps i seem too guarded

i'm not a beauty, but i'm at least a 6

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640436)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:30 PM
Author: arousing office

Even if you're not a beauty, I think people overemphasize the importance of looks. Interesting goes a long way. Too many attractive women have nothing going for them but their looks. They can talk about self-absorbed crap, but that's it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640443)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:31 PM
Author: Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe

i agree. i'm intelligent, well-read, cultured. date mostly older men for these reasons.

i should emphasize i'm not really ugly, tho. probably not even "average".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640453)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:32 PM
Author: arousing office

Where do you find these older men?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640461)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:35 PM
Author: Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe

work, social functions, literary/arts events, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640482)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:37 PM
Author: arousing office

Literary and art events. Wow.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640493)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:38 PM
Author: Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe

Sorry that sounded pompous. I mean things like poetry readings, panel discussions, art openings, etc.

Pretty standard big city 'cultural" events. I'm not into bars very much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640507)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:40 PM
Author: arousing office

Where do you find these poetry readings? Or panel discussions?

My main hobby is poetry, and I would love to meet women at these events.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640518)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:42 PM
Author: Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe

In chicago, i love going to the uptown poetry slam at the green mill every sunday night. the university of chicago alsi hosts great events

the chicago council on foreign relations, the economics club, and the pritzker military library regulalry host great speakers, too

i'm usually the only young woman at thes events, but don't mind the company

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640530)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:43 PM
Author: arousing office

Interesting, I'm also in Chicago. I'll have to check these out.

What does UChicago do again? I'm surprised I've never heard of this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640539)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:30 PM
Author: racy stage

You should strike a blow for equality of the sexes and approach guys who you like. Don't let anthropocentric norms stop you from getting what you want.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640445)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:31 PM
Author: arousing office

I had to google this word: anthropocentric.

Congratulations, that Harvard education paid off well.

eta: I think you misused it, provided it means "the belief that humans must be considered at the center of, and above any other aspect of, reality."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640452)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:35 PM
Author: racy stage

I'm pretty sure feminists use "anthropocentric" to mean "biased in favor of males".

"Anthropos" is Greek for "man"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640483)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:37 PM
Author: arousing office

How is a norm that men approach women biased in favor of men? I can see the sort of intuitive pro-male logic of it, but there are definitely many men who would prefer it the other way.

eta: including yourself, scrolling down a few posts.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640500)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:44 PM
Author: racy stage

I mean, I'm speaking in bad faith when I invoke feminist arguments in favor of that position. I'm pretty shy when it comes to women and I would strongly prefer that they come to me. It saves me from the whole "oh my god, does she like me or does she not?" crap.

But, the feminist argument would go "this rule tells women how to act, and therefore is part of keeping them down as a gender", etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640543)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:46 PM
Author: arousing office

Learning to discern interest is vital. You're still a little green if you have to do the "like me or not" stuff.

The feminist argument seems a little glib. Even if it tells women how to act, it also tells men how to act. It seems like a wash.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640553)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:51 PM
Author: racy stage

My aspie superpowers give me the ability to score well on standardized tests, but they do not extend to the ability to read women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640580)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:53 PM
Author: arousing office

Just study body language, eye contact, verbal cues. This isn't harder than reading anything else -- just know what you're looking for and trust your gut instinct.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640590)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:32 PM
Author: Vibrant Digit Ratio Sweet Tailpipe

i actually do this.

this is how i met my current bf, who claims was too shy to approach me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640460)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 8:34 PM
Author: racy stage

cool, tell more of your female friends to be like this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13640479)



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Date: December 24th, 2009 10:15 PM
Author: Anal Regret Hell

I love this song.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c_Kx62PhHlA



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1173214&forum_id=2#13641050)