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Date: October 4th, 2010 5:56 PM Author: carnelian reading party stage [On doggystyle] Date: January 27th, 2010 11:21 PM Author: Daenerys_Targaryen
Embarrassed is the wrong word. I feel like guys who want to have this kind of intercourse aren't really going to respect the girl they're doing it with so if a guy who isn't my long-term, marriage-track BF wants to have sex in this way I kind of get weirded out. This seems like something I'd do with a long-term boyfriend to spice things up a bit.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1204513&forum_id=2#13936556) |
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Date: October 21st, 2010 1:35 AM Author: supple sooty boltzmann 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16346158) |
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Date: October 28th, 2010 5:48 PM Author: Bespoke home community account can you link the one with Le Tigre's screed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16410392) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:09 PM Author: Aquamarine depressive jmfc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16962575) |
Date: October 4th, 2010 5:58 PM Author: diverse orchestra pit ceo i like you dood, but why do you care about this chick so much? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16214803) |
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Date: October 4th, 2010 5:59 PM Author: carnelian reading party stage She has managed to isolate EVERY negative trait a shrew could have. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16214809) |
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Date: October 4th, 2010 5:59 PM Author: diverse orchestra pit ceo fair enough. carry on good sir. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16214815) |
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Date: October 4th, 2010 6:00 PM Author: galvanic milk Now that I've heard Deeh's cute sweet little boy voice I have trouble seeing aggression in anything he poasts. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16214822) |
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Date: August 7th, 2011 11:51 PM Author: galvanic milk (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#18706945) |
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Date: October 11th, 2010 12:27 AM Author: carnelian reading party stage Date: September 6th, 2010 11:14 AM
Author: Daenerys_Targaryen (Just another blonde chick who likes black dudes)
Are you talking about the wedding or marriage itself?
I agree that when a guy is ready, he'll propose, but this puts a girl in a bad position if the guy loves the girl but has no idea if he'll ever be ready. I've seen girls sit through 5+ year long relationships with men who ended up never being ready. I'm not saying these girls got marriage insanity, but they broke up because the girl wanted marriage and the guy didn't.
There's an optimum point. Pressuring after a year and a half is silly. Gradually bringing up the issue after 5 years is prudent.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415748&forum_id=2#15977257) |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 3:37 AM Author: sable razzmatazz pit What is noteworthy about this? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16337584) |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 3:38 AM Author: carnelian reading party stage Suggesting to only casually bring up marriage after dating for... . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 FUCKING YEARS!! LOL |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 3:40 AM Author: sable razzmatazz pit I am not sure she's saying wait 5 years but I get you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16337597) |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 3:40 AM Author: carnelian reading party stage what's your ultimatum threshold bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16337600) |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 3:43 AM Author: sable razzmatazz pit Depends on how old you are obviously but I think that after a couple of years there should have been conversation on the subject. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16337613) |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 3:49 AM Author: Shimmering wonderful forum What I meant is that after a year or a year and a half, pushing or ultimatums aren't appropriate but it's fair game to bring up the subject casually. If it's been 5 years without as much of a gentle push, it's due time for one. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16337641) |
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Date: October 11th, 2010 12:28 AM Author: carnelian reading party stage Date: May 31st, 2010 1:00 PM
Author: Daenerys_Targaryen (Just another blonde chick who likes black dudes)
37's *later* 30s.
Girls in the 28-32 age group who have the highest dating market value can still do well within their age group without having to go older. To maximize quantity as well as quality his target age group should be 33-38.
http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1325985&forum_id=2#15125912 |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 3:38 AM Author: curious pocket flask this is classic but no sushi/abortion thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16337587) |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 3:53 AM Author: Shimmering wonderful forum I don't see what's so disagreeable or "classic" about this. Most people agree that girls around your and my age who still look good can get and keep guys around their age, especially once you factor in chemistry etc....
An average 37 yo guy should do well to target early to late 30s. A very good-looking and successful 37 yo guy can easily target as low as mid 20s. |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 4:16 AM Author: Heady twisted brunch bbw A successful 37 year old guy can go as low as he wants. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16337733) |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 4:27 AM Author: Shimmering wonderful forum In Russia or Asia, definitely. I don't know many 37 yo guys in America who are dating 18-21 yo girls and a lot of these girls will have an "ewww creepydood" attitude if a guy this old tried to hit on them. He'll get some 21 yo girls, but he won't have the most luck in the 18-21 age group where girls are most likely in college and too concerned with sorority/fraternity gossip.
I think this a cultural thing between Western countries and non-Western countries. |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 4:48 AM Author: Heady twisted brunch bbw A majority of 18-21 year olds are not even in college, let alone in the sorority/frat crowd.
But yes, fair point that this happens less in the US. But it still can and does happen. |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 5:03 AM Author: Shimmering wonderful forum I'm not saying it doesn't happen. I'm just saying that 18-21 isn't the age group where a successful, wealthy American 37 year old will have the best dating luck. He'd maximize quality and quantity of dating options if he stuck to women at least out of college, although I agree that a non-college woman in this age group will be much more likely to date someone of his age than a college woman, and that a college woman in the sorority/frat crowd is probably his least likely bet (although those tend to be the most attractive ones).
I also think that the cultural stigma against middle-aged men dating teenagers would cut both ways. Most guys I know in the States who are in their late 30s would not consider it unless they're going through a major personal crisis (messy divorce making them want to fuck anything that moves). Completely different story for guys I know (even Americans) who are in Russia or Asia. |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 5:29 AM Author: Heady twisted brunch bbw While I don't disagree with what you're saying, I just don't understand why this kind of guy would target a sorority chick to begin with.
"I also think that the cultural stigma against middle-aged men dating teenagers would cut both ways. Most guys I know in the States who are in their late 30s would not consider it unless they're going through a major personal crisis (messy divorce making them want to fuck anything that moves). Completely different story for guys I know (even Americans) who are in Russia or Asia."
Mostly because men in the US are beta fags. Tongues wag everywhere, it is just that in Russia and Asia no one would bother giving two shits. |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 5:40 AM Author: Shimmering wonderful forum I was giving the example of a sorority female as the kind of female in that age group that's most physically attractive. There are plenty of 18-21 year old girls that are average or below average-looking that a successful/wealthy guy in his later 30s won't want much to do with. I assume this guy wants hot, nontrashy chicks, and you're most likely to find hot, nontrashy chicks in this age group in sororities. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16337819) |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 5:45 AM Author: Heady twisted brunch bbw "I was giving the example of a sorority female as the kind of female in that age group that's most physically attractive."
lolwut? I wouldn't remotely agree with this. Not only are they not the most attractive, but they generally believe that they are and generally have a terrible personality to boot.
"There are plenty of 18-21 year old girls that are average or below average-looking that a successful/wealthy guy in his later 30s won't want much to do with."
Sure. But the large majority of attractive 18-21 year olds are not in sororities.
"I assume this guy wants hot, nontrashy chicks, and you're most likely to find hot, nontrashy chicks in this age group in sororities."
No way. |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 5:47 AM Author: Shimmering wonderful forum I guess we have different standards on this point. Maybe the most attractive 18-21 girls are models who aren't in college, but of college attendees you'll find the hottest/least trashy girls in sororities. Unless we have drastically different concepts of hot/trashy which could well be the case. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16337824) |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 6:24 AM Author: Heady twisted brunch bbw "Unless we have drastically different concepts of hot/trashy which could well be the case."
Seems highly likely. For one, I tend to subtract major points on the trashy scale for being in a sorority. |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 5:30 AM Author: Heady twisted brunch bbw I want it noted that I supported her in the sushi/abortion thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16337808) |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 5:45 AM Author: Shimmering wonderful forum I still don't understand why I got so much flak for it. I can understand the objection if someone was either (1) pro-life or (2) old enough to have a legitimate concern that this might be the last time they get pregnant.
It's selfish, but it's no more selfish than saying "fuck it, being pregnant's going to be a horrible inconvenience for me right now so I'd rather not bother". Which is kind of what most abortions boil down to.
And when my best friend got married, they served sushi rolls, tuna tartare and other raw fish appetizers, blue cheese crumbles in the salad, a raw bar, and a full open top-shelf bar. Both her and the groom got drunk and were dancing until the wee hours of the morning, and said it was the best day/night of their lives. I can see why someone wouldn't want to be pregnant during that. |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 5:46 AM Author: Heady twisted brunch bbw I agree. A very odd thing for people to go crazy over. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16337823) |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 10:36 AM Author: Cracking house-broken partner potus i don't think anyone was opposed to it on pro-life grounds
it just seemed like a really superficial reason to abort your unborn kid. i mean, you WANT a baby but you're going to abort it so you can eat sushi at your wedding? WTF?
of all the women i've talked to who got abortions, they treated their decision very seriously and only did it because they really couldn't support/didn't want a child at the time. it seems like you're just making this into a really frivolous thing. i think women should be able to have abortions for whatever reason they want, but i still find your reasoning a little unsettling. |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 10:41 AM Author: Razzle-dazzle Area "it just seemed like a really superficial reason to abort your unborn kid. i mean, you WANT a baby but you're going to abort it so you can eat sushi at your wedding?"
WTF |
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Date: October 21st, 2010 1:34 AM Author: Shimmering wonderful forum "of all the women i've talked to who got abortions, they treated their decision very seriously and only did it because they really couldn't support/didn't want a child at the time."
Of course it's a serious decision and I'm not saying that if I ever had to make the decision that I wouldn't treat it with gravity. It's not like getting a pesky mole removed. But aborting a child because you "didn't want a child at the time" (your words, not mine) could be construed as pretty frivolous in and of itself.
Some people know right off the bat that they are not ready to bring a child into the world so there's not much hand-wringing involved. Of the people that I've talked to who have had abortions, it seemed to be cut and dry. They were busy with work or simply not ready to give up certain aspects of their life to be mothers at the time.
I would definitely tell my fiance and ask what we should do about the situation and treat it with the gravity it deserves. I'd be most concerned about eating most of the costs of the wedding and then not being able to afford to have another wedding.
The ideal situation is to keep the child and have the wedding/honeymoon in several months' time, but this issue is really about whether or not the couple feel ready to bring a child into the world at this time in their lives, not about whether an infant's life is worth a few maki rolls and lemongrass martinis. |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 10:53 AM Author: curious pocket flask this is the only time I agree with the bad rap you get sometimes. it's because you make abortion seem casual, and it's worse because it's with the guy you eventually want to have a family with. wow. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16338439) |
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Date: October 11th, 2010 12:30 AM Author: carnelian reading party stage http://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=1447272&mc=66&forum_id=2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16263858) |
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Date: October 20th, 2010 3:32 AM Author: carnelian reading party stage Date: October 17th, 2010 9:16 PM Author: Daenerys_Targaryen (Just another blonde chick who likes black dudes)
Julia, I've always wanted to ask you a question about all of this stuff. I've been reading your exchanges in the Harvard Couple threads and see your posts re: female beauty and preferences.
We seem to have very different dating experiences even though I don't think we look all that different and by virtue of your tits you probably would be considered more attractive than me.
I date almost exclusively within the "white, 20something upper middle class" type and I'm a straight-nosed girl who has been described as "exotic" before (although I HATE HATE HATE being described that).
Never had problems nor did I feel like I was facing an uphill battle because I wasn't their type. Since I turned 18 I never felt that certain kinds of men would disfavor dark hair/olive skin or have a major preference for blondes/blue eyes. Blondes are more prevalent in certain places which may explain why some people interpret there being a preference. People have their own individual preferences but I don't get overwhelmingly more attention in Buenos Aires than I do in the Midwest (and I've visited both).
People are now exposed to a ton of different types of beautiful people, so your argument that you tend to prefer what you grew up with is garbage. I also know many white blondes who prefer darker, more exotic guys; white guys who prefer the female equivalent, and vice versa.
Just had to share.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1453096&forum_id=2#16318675) |
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Date: June 11th, 2011 1:39 AM Author: maroon trip property ew, what a cockalorum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#18218805) |
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Date: October 28th, 2010 5:27 PM Author: carnelian reading party stage Date: October 28th, 2010 1:46 AM Author: Daenerys_Targaryen (Just another blonde chick who likes black dudes)
Whenever I was in an LDR I'd just take my birth control pills all the time (without the weeklong period break) to avoid this. Or I'd plan my periods so that I wouldn't have them during visits.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1463177&forum_id=2#16406460) |
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Date: October 28th, 2010 5:44 PM Author: histrionic new version I don't think this is particularly uncommon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16410370) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2010 1:57 AM Author: carnelian reading party stage Date: December 27th, 2009 3:58 AM Author: Daenerys_Targaryen
Let me just put it this way. I could win an Olympic gold medal and that still wouldn't be as much of an accomplishment as getting married.
And yes, that's how a lot of us see it. As an accomplishment and ultimate validation of our worth as a person.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1174859&forum_id=2#13655921) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2010 2:00 AM Author: talking scarlet cuckold This is pretty common although more common in ARE COUNTRY and less common among NYC shrews. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16455131) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2010 3:53 AM Author: sable razzmatazz pit A lot of women feel this way, more or less, its just not PC to admit it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16455734) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2010 4:10 AM Author: Heady twisted brunch bbw tcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16455765) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2010 4:40 AM Author: Provocative coral alpha tanning salon "A lot of women feel this way, more or less, its just not PC to admit it."
The same could be said for much of what GK says. That's why she gets so much male backlash on XO. Men who are guilty of airing inconvenient dating truths on XO get crap from females so it's a 2-way street. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2010 5:54 AM Author: Heady twisted brunch bbw If it is offensive then sure. But I don't see how this is offensive. Women want to get married. Why is this bad? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16455861) |
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Date: June 11th, 2011 1:43 AM Author: curious pocket flask yeah. She was right about that. Even NYC shrews see getting married as their ultimate accomplishment (as they should). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#18218835) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2010 10:27 PM Author: carnelian reading party stage Date: November 3rd, 2010 10:21 PM Author: Daenerys_Targaryen (Just another blonde chick who likes black dudes)
I'm not saying that you should do this with someone you don't like that much, but there's a lot of shades of gray between being "in love" with someone and not liking someone all that much.
Maybe go for someone that you get along well with and admire, who might be a good father for your children and whom you respect as a leader and potential head of household - and forget about whether the butterflies ever will come?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1469995&forum_id=2#16461876) |
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Date: December 28th, 2010 1:30 PM Author: carnelian reading party stage http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1519912&mc=162&forum_id=2#16914512 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#16915419) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:18 PM Author: carnelian reading party stage Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:52 PM Author: Daenerys_Targaryen (Just another blonde chick who likes black dudes)
I'm with CAC on this one.
I don't know any 30something female who has settled with a paunchy beta who she'd have given no time of day to in her 20s. It's one of those XOXO myths.
Relationships are kind of a crapshoot but most of the people I know who got married in their 30s to people that they met in their late 20s to early 30s seem happy with their partners, and if they're not happy with their partners it isn't because they settled. Shit's more complicated than that. Single people in their early 30s look for somewhat different things than single people in their early 20s, and a bit of betaness gets more prized as someone matures.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961846) |
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Date: June 11th, 2011 1:41 AM Author: maroon trip property so out of touch with the world. i also love how she assumes her own experiences are the norm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#18218824) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:30 PM Author: Cyan Ladyboy a hearty 180 to the man who can track down the threads where she proclaims that NOBODY thinks she's hapa and all assume that she's some kind of latina chick.
or the one where she says that she would never fuck asian dudes and describes it as "riding the eggroll."
as the kind of white WASP dude that she obviously lusts after, her asian self-hatred is interesting to me. |
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Date: June 11th, 2011 1:25 AM Author: Spectacular becky anyone remember this? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#18218731) |
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Date: June 11th, 2011 1:40 AM Author: curious pocket flask riding the eggroll? that would be pretty classic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#18218811) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:06 PM Author: adventurous prole doctorate Date: June 1st, 2010 1:24 AM Author: Daenerys_Targaryen (Just another blonde chick who likes black dudes)
The second sentence is half facetious but I do approach relationships nowadays with a much more businesslike fervor whereas before I just didn't give a shit and figured these aren't the kinds of things you can plan or game. I view being single with much more trepidation than I used to, partly because it takes so long to find someone that I actually respect enough to date seriously.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132872) |
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Date: June 11th, 2011 1:43 AM Author: maroon trip property businesslike? what an terrible shrew. god pity her husband, if she ever gets married. (and if she does, it will be to an asian or one of those paunchy betas she wouldn't have given the time to in her 20s. mark it) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#18218834) |
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Date: March 29th, 2011 3:37 PM Author: carnelian reading party stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#17637632) |
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Date: June 11th, 2011 12:49 AM Author: carnelian reading party stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#18218522) |
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Date: July 2nd, 2011 4:02 PM Author: Odious Misunderstood Newt Base (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#18402926) |
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Date: August 7th, 2011 11:51 PM Author: carnelian reading party stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1442021&forum_id=2#18706942) |