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girl was incredibly rude to me tonight, how to handle it
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:11 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home I went out with this girl one time, and I met up with her at a bar tonight (the bar we originally met at). She was pretty drunk and really happy to see me. But soon things changed. I wasn't at my best, maybe I was boring her, or not being aggressive enough, or whatever...being beta I guess, her mood seemed to change. She keeps having to go to the bathroom. Near closing time, she does it again, and everyone has to leave the bar.
I wait for her outside, I text her "I'm outside". Ten minutes later a big black bouncer guy comes out and says "she's not interested. Now get the fuck out of here." I was shocked. This girl was rubbing up on me half hour earlier. She, I guess, was hanging out with the bartenders, etc. - she knows them well. I saw her go in a cab, alone, about twenty minutes later.
This girl isn't a complete random. She went to my undergrad, though we didn't know each other. She was in a sorority, hangs out with a lot of people from there still. She'll probably tell them something about this. So WTF do I do? It seems I have three choices - (1) completely forget her, (2) IM her in a few days, acting like the bouncer told me "she's really drunk, we'll get her a cab" and that I'm not mad, or (3) call her family up and tell her how rude and slutty their daughter is, and spam her name all over the web.
edit - she's also a lawyer, nuff said right
edit again - she and I were texting/IMing for close to a year before we finally had our first "Date". she told me she had a really good time aferwards. we talked about a lot of things and she really seemed like a cool person, though I was lukewarm on her looks. That makes this much worse. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:16 AM Author: claret indecent brunch that seems like a terrible fucking night, but how can the family portion of choice 3 possibly be at all reasonable? if you are to maintain any dignity in this, either forget about her or directly ask "what the fuck?" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112558) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:16 AM Author: out-of-control mad cow disease Exactly, it shifts the blame to him. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112561) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:17 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home either I go nuclear on this rude bitch or I act like it didn't effect me, I don't see another option (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112563) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:19 AM Author: curious avocado jew You will look like a psycho if you contact her family. It's not like you're her boyfriend of 10 years who she cheated on. No one in her family will give a fuck that she was rude to you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112566) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:20 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home yeah, I guess (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112569) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:20 AM Author: claret indecent brunch so going nuclear means... every kind of indirect confrontation without addressing the girl? seriously? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112568) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:13 AM Author: razzle clown roast beef lol...you fuckin' suck man. Just ignore her and be a dick to her if you guys run into each other again. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112634) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 1:08 PM Author: ebony goyim becky affect you already lost |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:16 AM Author: out-of-control mad cow disease I wouldn't worry about her. She's just a girl. Plenty more where that came from. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112559) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:16 AM Author: Titillating Shimmering Home Karate lol
Edit: forget her |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:18 AM Author: curious avocado jew WTF? All your options are ridiculous.
She's obviously a huge bitch who has no respect for you at all. Move on. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:19 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home shouldn't I do something? how does a girl go from rubbing up on me to doing this twenty minutes later? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112567) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:20 AM Author: talking stead useless brakes that's how women are. you'll have a better chance of understanding the motives of a pig rutting in his own shit. once you understand you are dealing with a child, no not even that, but an animal, things will make sense. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112570) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:21 AM Author: curious avocado jew He's probably ugly, as are you.
Only ugly betas have such a difficult time understand women. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:22 AM Author: talking stead useless brakes you seem to have problems with reading comprehension. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112573) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:23 AM Author: curious avocado jew No I understand MAD perfectly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112575) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:25 AM Author: talking stead useless brakes learn 2 read. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112579) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:27 AM Author: curious avocado jew What didn't I read correctly, MAD Asian? You're just another loser on the site complaining about how unpredictable women are because they don't like you and blow you off. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112582) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:27 AM Author: talking stead useless brakes LOL. you are a shit poster and a dumb. kill self. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112583) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:23 AM Author: claret indecent brunch somewhat contradictory. ugly guys have to learn to understand women better to compensate in a way that attractive guys do not. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112576) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:26 AM Author: talking stead useless brakes this fucking pumo spends all day disrupting conversations. it's insane. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112581) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:20 AM Author: curious avocado jew No anything you do will make you look extremely socially awkward, crazy and butthurt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112571) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:23 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home she's so drunk it's possible she might not remember this. I want to pretend it's cool and then pump and dump her. this girl is like a 6, it's not like I was completely out of my league. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112574) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:25 AM Author: curious avocado jew Just move on. She has absolutely no respect for you. The bartenders and bouncer probably laughed at you after you were kicked out. You sound aspie; just try to forget this girl so that you're not tempted into doing something really crazy like the things you suggested above. Not only will you not get this girl, but everyone else you know will think you're weird and creepy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112578) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:28 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home you're right. so i do nothing? she gets no penalty? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112585) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:30 AM Author: curious avocado jew No, don't do anything. You can't. She pwned you, move on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112586) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:25 AM Author: claret indecent brunch brother, the last line of the OP indicates much bigger problems than your appearance that will keep women out of your league. hth. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112580) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:28 AM Author: curious avocado jew this.
This guy needs to avoid this girl before he humiliates himself further. The girl pwned him horribly, anything he tries to do in retaliation will make him look extremely silly. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:27 AM Author: outnumbered native yarmulke It's lulzy to see a story like this from the creepy guy's POV. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112793) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:46 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home thought u retired (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112866) |
Date: May 29th, 2011 5:23 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home oh, another thing. we both go to some of the same bars. do i have to steer clear of these now too? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112577) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:32 AM Author: curious avocado jew Definitely don't return to the bar where this happened. You are most likely the laughingstock of all the bar staff. You don't need to avoid the other bars you go to, just don't say anything to her (or stare or follow her around or do any of the other aspie things you'll probably want to do). Obviously if you can try to avoid her, do so. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112587) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:35 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home the bar staff won't remember some random guy, the only worry would be running into her again (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112589) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:38 AM Author: Hairless odious range If this story is true, you are no longer "some random guy." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112835) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:34 AM Author: claret indecent brunch if you can be cool, laugh it off and make it into a joke, it would be fine, perhaps even good amongst male bartenders who could relate. but if you're going to be overly vengeful, how the hell do you see that going over? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112588) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:36 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home that's sort of like option #2, acting like it was nbd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112590) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:38 AM Author: claret indecent brunch somewhat, but it's more about showing how bizarre it was from your perspective, rather than something bad that you shrug off. something amusing rather than neutral. making a story. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112591) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:44 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home I kind of like that idea because it could fuck with her head a little if I think it's funny. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112595) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:05 AM Author: Frum temple are you fucking kidding me, get a younger hotter happier girl (shouldn't be hard, considering she's a 6), and make it a point to be there at times she may be there = best revenge. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112618) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:41 AM Author: Frum temple This is why you should try to get with younger girls. When a bitch becomes a shrew, some kind of evil switch is turned on, and they are capable of over the top acts of inconsideration.
If you're 25, go for 18-20 year olds. If you're 30, go for 20-24, etc/ |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:44 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home she is three years younger than me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112593) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:44 AM Author: Frum temple if she's in law school, no matter the age, she's already a fucking shrew (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112594) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:45 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home well this is definitely true.
girl went to my undergrad and we texted and IMed lots of times before we finally had a "date" - for like a year.
weird thing is she seemed extremely nice. like for real. Not bitchy at all. Especially for a law shrew. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:50 AM Author: Frum temple oh yeah, they can be nice, but the moment any kind of relationship phase begins, they will immediately make you feel like you're being sized up all the time. placing big expectations, and being unforgiving. I've been there. Never again will I consider a chick my age. You get a lot more appreciation and get treated like a man when a girl is a good deal younger (just don't go too young, there's a limit, obv). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112603) |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 4:25 PM Author: Histrionic hyperactive office genital piercing This is a huge overreaction to the OP. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18378912) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:47 AM Author: alcoholic giraffe I don't know about that. I was more inconsiderate when I was younger, because I was more immature and less confrontational. I definitely handle situations like that girl's a lot differently - and better - now, than I would have at a younger age, and I'm guessing it's the same for a lot of other girls too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112599) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:49 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home its really like I have no idea what happened, though I could sense her mood changing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112602) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:54 AM Author: Frum temple In my experience, older girls, especially once they pass... oh, about 28, and are still single, seem to have this deep seated bitterness toward men, masked by a fake veil of niceness. It's only a matter of time before they show their true colors. Younger chicks, while immature, at least don't seem to play games, at least with a guy who has his shit together, and who they know has value. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112604) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:54 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home young chicks play games more bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112605) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 5:58 AM Author: Frum temple They will with dudes their own age, but again, if you're a professional in his prime years in terms of being settled and still not old-old (like late 20s early-mid 30s), and are at least not totally boring, you won't be played. So I guess it's not so much a shrew thing, come to think of it (at least not entirely). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112606) |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 4:27 PM Author: Histrionic hyperactive office genital piercing LOL
Boy are you wrong. Younger girls can probably get away with being even bigger bitches to older guys because it's harder for older guys to get them and some will put up with bad treatment for the opportunity. Younger guys can easily find another young girl to date. |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 4:32 PM Author: Histrionic hyperactive office genital piercing This girl's treatment of the OP didn't have anything to do with bitterness toward men. For whatever reason, she sees him as someone who doesn't need to be treated with respect, and she doesn't care about him. Her age wouldn't change this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18378952) |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 4:42 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home Difference might be that the "older" group is disproportionately bitter, because the more well-adjusted are already snatched up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18379044) |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 4:43 PM Author: Histrionic hyperactive office genital piercing UUnless the OP is over 30, this girl is probably around 25. If he's in a big city, most educated girls haven't been snapped up by then. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18379055) |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 4:48 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home she's closer to 30 than 25. Anyway, she obivously did not respect me properly, or at all. Haven't contacted her or tried to. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18379100) |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 4:25 PM Author: Histrionic hyperactive office genital piercing Untrue. Younger girls can be extremely cruel. The lesson to take from this is that the woman in the OP doesn't like or have any respect for the OP. Dating a younger girl wouldn't change this, it might even make it worse because younger girls think more highly of themselves. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18378908) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:13 AM Author: razzle clown roast beef 1. There's something you're not telling us here and
2. Get over it faggot. Women reject men all the time and who cares if she tells some dumb sorority bitches about this. Ignore her...she will probably leave you alone. If she happens to cross paths with you again, be a witty (not a bitter) asshole to her and act like you don't even care about her existence (you shouldn't). This is credited 99% of the time. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:16 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home the way this happened was pretty fucked up. She was in a sorority with girls I knew, though she didn't know them well. There's not much separation there. But because of that i won't do anything crazy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112638) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:23 AM Author: razzle clown roast beef don't make it look like it really got to you, but that you still want to call her out for being a dumb slut. maybe send a casual message with a rude joke about what happened, and then ignore whatever response she sends you, forget about her, move on.
I usually try to handle shit like this but striking back once in a composed yet clearly assholish manner, and then forgetting about it, even if they retaliate. They'll at least know I don't like them, and eventually that I don't care about them. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:27 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home assholishness is credited, should I just act like it's nbd what happened and laugh it off (maybe letting her know this in a few days or so) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112653) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:30 AM Author: razzle clown roast beef yeah you could act like it's nbd, but make a snide/sarcastic comment about what happened. Or you could make an asshole comment about what happened, act like it was childish and faggot, and forget her existence.
the key (and this goes for whenever you are wronged in life, not just by women) is to strike a balance between letting people know that "you ain't nuttin' ta fuck wit" and that you don't let anything get to you. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:34 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home "strike a balance between letting people know that "you ain't nuttin' ta fuck wit" and that you don't let anything get to you."
In this case, I can only do one of the two though. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:37 AM Author: razzle clown roast beef Incorrect. If you make one assholish remark or say something witty/dickish but not angry, you'll get your point across, then you can just forget about her and she'll know you didn't let it get to you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112661) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:38 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home whats an example of something witty/dickish but not angry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112663) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:42 AM Author: razzle clown roast beef I don't know enough about her, the people she hangs out with, you, or what happened that night to make up anything. Just say something kind of joking, but maybe a bit snide that doesn't sound angry. Shouldn't be that hard if you give it 10 minutes of thought. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112666) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:43 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home thanks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112667) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:46 AM Author: razzle clown roast beef NP (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112670) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:48 AM Author: mustard aphrodisiac university 1 is cr
sounds like he did something to set her off that he either didn't realize or isn't saying |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 7:59 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home more I think about it, I was a bit awkward and beta and maybe that "creeped" her out. this was probably just an unnecessarily cruel friendzoning. There are certainly some lessons to learn here for me. Now I basically just want to tell her she's SPS as a person and I never wish to speak to her again. and that maybe she's not nearly good looking enough to act like that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112687) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:07 AM Author: medicated maize circlehead lol. so this is what it looks like when an aspie loser internalizes pua bullshit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112932) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:30 AM Author: nighttime sooty pistol 1. Ask her what happened.
2. Report back to us. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:34 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home sounds beta (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112658) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:35 AM Author: razzle clown roast beef " 1. Ask her what happened. "
He clearly doesn't know, so that leaves two possibilities:
1. He's socially retarded and made a fuck-up.
2. She really is a cunt who did this over nothing, in which case it's not important to ask her what happened.
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:37 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home I think it's a combo of 1 and 2. I'm not great with girls and I think I came off as anxious/creepy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112660) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:38 AM Author: razzle clown roast beef Still, unless you were being overly-persistent with her she had no reason to tell the bar tenders, or to not respond with a simple "i'm getting a cab" to your text. It was also kind of rude of her to give you mixed signals. I'm thinking you made a booboo somewhere after the rubbing.... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112662) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:39 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home if anything i was underpersistent
i also wonder if she was really drunk or if she was faking the problem, god i have no idea, women are such shit |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:46 AM Author: razzle clown roast beef " if anything i was underpersistent "
Yeah maybe, or just uninteresting or whatever.
"women are such shit"
Bad mentality. Are women dumb and worthless for much other than sex? Yes. Are they all huge cunts like this bitch? No.
Additionally, it could have been something you did bro. Her response was (given what you've told us) highly uncredited, but you could at least learn something from this about not doing whatever you think you did to make her lose interest.
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:48 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home all true
what if by some weird chance I text her something assholish and she acts like she wants to continue talking to me? just ignore her or go for the P+D?
i really dont understand how she lost attraction in a matter of minutes but there are things I can surely point to that I did wrong. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:51 AM Author: razzle clown roast beef if you can do a P+D then by all means go for it, but make sure to blow her off after that. don't give in. it will make her feel used. This is highly unlikely, however, since she already thinks you're creepy/faggot/whatever.
women are fickle, especially drunk ones.
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Date: May 29th, 2011 6:55 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home aint that the truth... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112675) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:13 AM Author: curious avocado jew This girl humiliated you in front of all her friends. She's not going to speak to you again, let alone fuck you. Leave her alone and move on with your life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112748) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:16 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home her friends had already left before any of this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112755) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 8:41 AM Author: vigorous indian lodge kitty she will be expecting a beta text from you like "what happened, did I do smthg wrong?" DO NOT SEND A TEXT LIKE THAT. Send a text only if (as the other poaster says) you can come up with an asshole/snide remark, although you still run the risk of her thinking you are bitter. Be prepared for her not to respond which would also be another PWN and thus the score becomes 2 PWNS vs. your 0 PWN Silence is the best tool in this case, I think. That might even draw her in and she might send a text and then opportunity opens up for you to rip her a new one (in more ways than one). If she never contacts you, don't avoid the bars you two frequent. Just avoid her. This may also make her angry. Women like to be acknowledged and for you to continue like it's NBD (i.e. she is not worth it)is almost certain to make her mad. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:14 AM Author: curious avocado jew Don't send a snide or assholish text. She will know you're angry. Best thing is to just ignore her and if you happen to run into her, smile, play it cool and act like nothing happened. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112750) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:21 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home I'm more sad than angry, that someone I thought was a good person could be so cold and soulless. I was actually lukewarm about her in the first place, which is probably partly to blame for what happened. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112768) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:16 AM Author: Canary trailer park boistinker wait, why you were waiting and lurking for 20 minutes after the bouncer told you to scram?? that's creepy, man. get some therapies. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112756) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:24 AM Author: curious avocado jew I thought this also. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112779) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:26 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home i got food nearby, looking over to see when she came out. yes, I'm creepy. thanks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112789) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:18 AM Author: White exciting wrinkle jap you waited outside for 20 minutes AFTER she said gtfo? How did you see her get in a cab alone 20 mins later?
Either you made this up to make us think she didn't hook up with the big bouncer or bar tenders or you're fucking pathetic. Wait, you're pathetic in both scenarios, never mind. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:23 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home after the initial shock of what happened, I got some food at a taco truck half a block away. i was looking over in that direction and saw her get in the cab. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112776) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:24 AM Author: White exciting wrinkle jap please allow me to call FLAME. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112781) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:27 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home i wish, i wish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112792) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:24 AM Author: curious avocado jew LOL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112785) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:54 AM Author: ruddy institution LOL well played my good man. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112885) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 2:02 PM Author: Pale stirring hospital lol 180 slow play (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113902) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:21 AM Author: cheese-eating new version goal in life why would you EVER want to be with someone who treated you this way? Do you hate yourself? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112769) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:24 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home where does it say I want to be with her? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112784) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:25 AM Author: curious avocado jew If you didn't you would just delete her from your phone and go out with your buddies today to hit on other chicks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112786) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:29 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home they pretty much all have gf/wives :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112801) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:04 PM Author: cheese-eating new version goal in life yeah, sure bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113181) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:38 AM Author: bespoke property quadroon yea bro i don't think you should text her at all. do you have guy friends in common? or girl friends that are closer to you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112834) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:40 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home we dont have friends in common per se. She has a friend who's married to a guy who's friends with some of my friends from college. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112843) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:42 AM Author: bespoke property quadroon o shit then fuck her dude. try to figure out if you did anything wrong --learn from it and then move on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112853) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:46 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home i tell you what I should do - ambush the bitch after she leaves work one day and clothesline her.. I'm tired of this shit. she needs to learn a lesson. i'm so fucking pissed about this.
Yeah, i was a little beta and awkward. doesn't give her an excuse to act like this. what a fucking cunt. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:55 AM Author: bespoke property quadroon haha there are many shitty people out there especially attractive women. what are you goin to do? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112889) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:00 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home unless someone does something about it behavior like this can go on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112911) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:47 AM Author: blathering ape school cafeteria Do not send her anything. No text, no call, no email, nothing. Seriously, if you want to pwn her, you have to avoid showing that this affected you in any way whatsoever.
You have to be entirely sneaky about this. Make things look like a coincidence. If it ever comes down to it and you end up speaking with her, say something like "I think you were a little over the top with all that rubbing against me. I know you probably got mad because I didn't respond how you wanted me to, but you were too drunk and I wasn't up for that." |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:55 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home man, I don't really want to pwn anyone. I want people to have common courtesy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112890) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:57 AM Author: blathering ape school cafeteria I thought you were asking how to respond to her with regard to all this? If you don't want to pwn her then don't pwn yourself either and don't text her at all. Just act like she doesn't exist and move on from this. Seriously, it is more likely she might regret it one day if you do nothing at all and it would also show her that she isn't important at all to you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112898) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:03 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home if I ever see her again I'll probably go off on her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112923) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:58 AM Author: bespoke property quadroon terrible advice (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112903) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:01 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home how so (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112914) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:07 AM Author: bespoke property quadroon if he sees her again he shouldn't play it off. that will just confirm to her that her behavior was acceptable. he should fucking rip into her. although he doesn't seem to have the personality for it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112930) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:08 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home tell me what I should say if I see her again (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112934) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:20 AM Author: bespoke property quadroon tell her how you feel. just be completely honest. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112968) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:25 AM Author: blathering ape school cafeteria That would be self-pwnage. She obviously doesn't care how he feels, he sent someone to pwn him at the door. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112988) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:32 AM Author: bespoke property quadroon she was obviously afraid of confrontation. she is a shitty person for not telling him how she felt. not for how she felt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113007) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:33 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home If I ever do see her again I think I will tell her this. Good chance I won't though, and I'd like to do something else to teach her a lesson. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113016) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:39 AM Author: curious avocado jew She knows her behavior wasn't acceptable moron. She just has no respect for the OP because he's a little aspie beta who contemplates calling parents because a girl he'd met once before was mean to him one night. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113036) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:12 PM Author: abusive big theater ti, oc, tcr. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113240) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:14 PM Author: bespoke property quadroon nah dude. she obviously thinks she her behavior is normal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113251) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:19 PM Author: curious avocado jew No she just thinks he's a little bitch who isn't worthy of respect. Can you blame her? The guy's considering contacting her parents and law firm associates because she blew him off at the end of the night. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113283) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:27 PM Author: bespoke property quadroon he was obviously joking about that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113341) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 3:26 PM Author: curious avocado jew The OP is socially retarded as fuuuuuuccccck. Things normal people take for granted aren't obvious with him. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18114372) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:47 AM Author: gay headpube if not flame don't text or call her. you don't need to avoid that bar or any of the other bars you both go to. if you see her just say "hey how's it going" and don't bring up last night. if she says something like "oh sorry about that night at X bar" just laugh and be like "yeah i was wondering what happened to you. sorry i left. i was kinda wasted, i got a taco and waited up for a little bit with some friends i ran into but i didn't see you around so i left." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112870) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:52 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home dood, she knows I didn't leave. She purposely went in the bathroom so I'd be kicked out and then she told the bouncer to get me away from the front of the bar. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112880) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:57 AM Author: gay headpube could you play it off like you think you guys just kinda lost each other and you were like whatever the bar was closing and i didn't see you outside so i just left? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112896) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:59 AM Author: bespoke property quadroon no what she did was shitty and if he ever sees her again he should scold her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112906) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:57 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house She's a bitch. Forget her and avoid. Man up and act like you don't know her if you ever see her again. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112902) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:56 AM Author: bespoke property quadroon i agree that he shouldn't text or call her but if he does run into her he should def. confront her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112893) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:58 AM Author: gay headpube i don't know, i feel like around closing time when everyone is drunk you always end up losing people somehow. if he could play it off like this is what happened and it was nbd i think that's the best way to go (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112905) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:00 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house If the wench knows bartenders and bouncers enough to have them run interference for her, she's not dating material.
/end scene. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:03 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home it's her favorite bar. They give her free drinks (though she paid for our drinks yesterday). i paid on our first date. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112919) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:03 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house Seriously...forget her. If she treats you like that when she's drunk, she's not worthy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112922) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:05 AM Author: gay headpube OP already said he's not interested in dating her. the issue is what to do if he sees her. i think purposely ignoring her or scolding her is the wrong way to go. instead he should just be nice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112925) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:06 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house No. He'll make her feel worse by her not knowing what a bitch she was with the avoid technique. She obviously won't remember what she did and make her think about what a bitch she was.
Let her wonder. Being nice to her at a chance meeting only condones her behavior. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:57 AM Author: light plaza water buffalo Is she white? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112900) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 10:59 AM Author: Beady-eyed seedy set fanboi Why does a law shrew know bartenders this well? Must be slut, so ignore. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112907) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:05 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home law shrews love to drink (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112926) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:08 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house yup...we do. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112935) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:15 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home why is that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112953) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:21 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house stress...long hours. the same reason you guy lawyers drink. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112971) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:22 AM Author: bespoke property quadroon how long you been in this game? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112973) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:25 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house four. long. years. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112987) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:31 AM Author: bespoke property quadroon when are you getting out? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113002) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:34 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house No reason to at this point. Probably when I pop out the first kid, though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113020) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:36 AM Author: bespoke property quadroon o ur married? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113025) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:47 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house No, that's why I said it's not important at this point.
I have another 4-5 long years to figure this out. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:49 AM Author: bespoke property quadroon gotta get it in before 35 right? 32 or 33 if you want more than one right? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113094) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:50 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house probably. who knows with all the fertility treatments these days. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113098) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:54 AM Author: bespoke property quadroon i was thinking more along the lines of complications and developmental disabilities (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113124) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:23 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home i dont drink that much, and I told her that - I think she didn't like that that much.
you wouldn't be this rude, would you NJ? |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:25 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house No. I treat guys like I want to be treated. Like I said, she's a bitch best avoided. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112986) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:09 AM Author: Beady-eyed seedy set fanboi then she's a fucking drunkard that you don't want to breed with anyway. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112941) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:15 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home i live in NYC, all girls here love to drink bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112949) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:22 AM Author: Beady-eyed seedy set fanboi You need to slip her a roofie, bro. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112975) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:07 AM Author: Insecure wonderful library You know the bouncer made that up for the lulz right (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112931) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:09 AM Author: Rose boyish dog poop a fine instructional flame, 175. "But soon things changed. . . her mood seemed to change. She keeps having to go to the bathroom." when u lose control of the situation, u gotta get it back immediately (like the momentum shift in a hockey game: even after scoring early, u can lose it all in an instant if u don't execute) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:16 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home how?
dood, not flame, I wish it was, serious |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:19 AM Author: Rose boyish dog poop u seem smart, u knew what was coming, u were just in denial, shock--she was losin it 4 u and u stood frozen (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112965) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:20 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home probably true
what should I have done, left at first sign of awkwardness? |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:26 AM Author: Rose boyish dog poop like a good litigator, u gotta change your tack according to the shifting mood of the judge/jury--the moment she seemed to cool, u should have gone to plan b (e.g., propose going to another bar or take her 2 ur place) whatever u do, don't be passive--even at the risk of saying u gotta leave to go somewhere else w/o her (live 2 fight another day); the way it is now--she's lost it 4 u (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112993) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:30 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home i think there's a lot of truth to this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112998) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:32 AM Author: Rose boyish dog poop ur smart--u learned something--plenty of fish in the sea (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113010) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:35 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home when i sensed her cooling I guess I should have probably said I need to go, preemptively leave or whatever (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113021) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:42 AM Author: Rose boyish dog poop that's right. keep her guessing what ur deal is; the moment she "figured" u out (that u like her)--u became a crashing bore (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113054) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:46 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home see, that's where you're wrong. I was hesitant and a little anxious at first. I wasn't totally into HER. I think this pissed her off somehow. I was having conversation instead of upping the ante. At least, I think so. Hard to tell. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113071) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:14 PM Author: curious avocado jew You need to stop this PUA shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113254) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:17 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home dood I'm serious. I came in there and she gave me a big hug and was into me. I could probably have banged her by closing time. Instead I was anxious and beta and hesitant for some reason. Trust me - girls hate this as much as guys who are overbearing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113269) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:24 PM Author: know-it-all galvanic corner faggot. did you text her? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113312) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:25 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home not yet (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113320) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:20 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house She sounds like a coke head. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112966) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:28 AM Author: Rose boyish dog poop a lot of preppie girls do this 2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112995) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:29 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house Constantly going to the bathroom is not an avoidance technique. It's shoving shit up your nose. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112997) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:30 AM Author: Rose boyish dog poop some girls don't know how to be rude up front, so they just try to avoid confrontation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113001) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:32 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house She was buying him drinks last night. That's not what girls do when trying to avoid a guy and aren't interested.
She just reached her limit and became a bitch based on her own toxicity levels. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:38 AM Author: Rose boyish dog poop girls change their mind at the drop of a hat, especially the cute ones, it's their god-given prerogative--substance misuse/abuse is just an excuse for the mind's true register; maybe, i don't hang around enough coke heads (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113034) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:40 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house Either way, he should avoid this one. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113039) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:42 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home she does not do coke. Trust me, not the type at all. Our first date was three hours and she might have gone to the bathroom once. This was about her drunkenness/shifting feelings/bullshit.
at some point she lost interest. it was unreal how quick. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:43 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house Never trust a drunk. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113061) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:47 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home i dont even really know how drunk she was or if it was just an act (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113078) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:19 AM Author: Sapphire electric furnace stage if a girl did that to me, i'd feel sorry that she lost her chance with me. definitely don't contact her. nothing good would come of that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112964) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:22 AM Author: soggy ultramarine lay newt Lol, a girl I was dating for 2 years basically did this to me once. Man up, you barely knew her and it shouldn't aftect you at all. Sometimes you pwn, sometimes you get pwned (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112974) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:48 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house And then you move on... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113086) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:55 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home i knew her much more than barely (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113128) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:26 AM Author: vibrant very tactful hall This is why I socialize with adults -- how old are you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18112994) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:51 AM Author: know-it-all galvanic corner thread full of fucking betas. of course you text her what the fuck happened. bitch was rude and you need to call her out on it. and then just don't give a shit. fuck her. fuck avoiding her. carry on and keep drinking at your bars, etc. you give a shit what bartenders and bouncers think? lol at you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113104) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:54 AM Author: soggy ultramarine lay newt You really need to read up on the definitions of alpha and beta (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113119) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:10 PM Author: know-it-all galvanic corner lol no. quit being a faggot. when people are a dick to you, you call them out on it. you don't wallow in a corner and fucking plot all butthurt about what should i do what should i do! oh revenge! you don't give a fuck. but that doesn't mean you don't get in someone's face. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113230) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 3:28 PM Author: curious avocado jew This is extremely uncredited. Don't let this chick know you're pissed off. Just ignore her - that's the worse "punishment." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18114381) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:55 AM Author: Lavender forum black woman I think the best thing to do is to act like you have forgotten all about her - don't text her or call her, that'll just confirm any notions of creepiness or jackassery that she presumably has.
But don't avoid those bars or her friends or whatever. If you see her, just ignore her and act like you don't give a shit about what happened or her. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:56 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house CR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113129) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:13 PM Author: know-it-all galvanic corner this is a solid chick response. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113246) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:55 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house "fuck avoiding her."
The only credited thing in this rant. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:23 PM Author: know-it-all galvanic corner review for me what's uncredited. that he should care what fucking service staff thinks? that he should care what she thinks? that he should change his watering holes over some dumb broad? that he shouldn't call her out on being a bitch and should instead passively stew? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113304) |
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Date: May 30th, 2011 1:26 AM Author: curious avocado jew No he shouldn't stew privately. He should get over it like a normal person. They went on one date, aspie. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18118246) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:40 PM Author: know-it-all galvanic corner you're a girl right? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113436) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:01 PM Author: Beady-eyed seedy set fanboi He should definitely ask her what the fuck happened. It'd be obvious to her that he was avoiding her to avoid confrontation like a pussy or a woman if he just ignored it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113161) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:03 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home call? text? IM?
do it today? |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:05 PM Author: Beady-eyed seedy set fanboi text
definitely don't call |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:11 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home "What the fuck happened?"
do this today? |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:14 PM Author: know-it-all galvanic corner yes. "what the fuck happened last night?" do it now. ignore her response. forget about the bitch. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113257) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:29 PM Author: Insane Blue State Mental Disorder instead how bout "what the fuck is wrong with you" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113350) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:30 PM Author: know-it-all galvanic corner this is better. i'm hungover. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113371) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:32 PM Author: Beady-eyed seedy set fanboi That's good too. Definitely throw some swears in there either way so she really knows you think she's a stupid bitch. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113382) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:29 PM Author: Beady-eyed seedy set fanboi Yes, exactly. Be really annoyed and pissed off in the text, then ignore the bitch. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113361) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:52 AM Author: Lavender forum black woman Why were you still hanging around for 20 minutes watching her get into a cab after a bouncer told you to go away? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113110) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:57 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home went to get some food half a block down, and also, to see her leave and who with (if anyone) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113135) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:57 AM Author: Lavender forum black woman Seems pretty creepy to me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113140) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:59 AM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home yes, my creepiness has already been established ITT (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113149) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:02 PM Author: Lavender forum black woman well, whatever. learn to move on. it's a cliche, but really learn to believe in the "it's her loss" consolation. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113165) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:59 AM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house She had someone send you away. Why would you even care at that point? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113144) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 11:59 AM Author: Lavender forum black woman I think I'm seeing why she had some one send him a way, even if it was a bit drastic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113151) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:01 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home i was waiting outside in the first place because I thought she was sick in the bathroom, and didn't want to leave without her. I thought I was doing the right thing. And this is what i get for it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113164) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:02 PM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house If she knew the bar staff, you shouldn't have been worried about that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113171) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:05 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home you'd be ok with a guy leaving in that situation? no way. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113185) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:05 PM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house I know how to hail a cab and pull a ten out of my purse. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113191) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:09 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home look at this point I had no idea she wanted me to go (though I guess there might have been signs of problems)
You'd be ok with a guy leaving in that situation? you'd still go out with him? |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:10 PM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house No. If your OP was accurate, I'd avoid you and you should avoid her.
This is no way to get a "thing" started. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:05 PM Author: Lavender forum black woman seriously, get the fuck over it. sometimes people will act like an asshole toward you and it's your job to decide whether or not those relationships are worth salvaging.
is this girl really worth this much of your brain space that you're here on a sunday morning fretting and whining? just say fuck her and move on. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:02 PM Author: bistre irate step-uncle's house too true (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113166) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:02 PM Author: outnumbered native yarmulke It's telling that she didn't feel comfortable ending the date on her own, and had to get a bouncer to get him to go away.
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:04 PM Author: medicated maize circlehead yeah but at this point we're not concerned with the why, but rather how to "punish" this "slut" for her behavior. did you not read the OP? don't you think he should call her parents and tell them about this incident so everyone will know what a rude bitch she is? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113179) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:06 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home i could email her law firm partners too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113197) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:13 PM Author: Lavender forum black woman Why would they care? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113245) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:16 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home i was kidding (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113263) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:06 PM Author: curious avocado jew STFU JWU. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113199) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:08 PM Author: Lavender forum black woman I think it's pretty normal when you're angry to fantasize about doing drastic and violent things to the source of your anger. At least I hope it is.
It's a bit worrisome that he included it in his list of possible paths, but that may be more a sign of immaturity than creepiness. |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:08 PM Author: costumed submissive bawdyhouse ding ding ding ding! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113216) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:18 PM Author: Insane Blue State Mental Disorder txt her "thanks for the drink" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113278) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:26 PM Author: know-it-all galvanic corner i missed that she bought drinks. this is good. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113327) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:38 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home should I really do this? it's either this or
"what the fuck is wrong with you"
I'm gonna text her later this evening, to not be too eager
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:41 PM Author: know-it-all galvanic corner i like what the fuck is wrong with you more. this is clever, but passive aggressive bs. text her now. it makes no fucking sense otherwise. you go through your day and it suddenly occurs to you that you need to text her? that's stupid. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113447) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:25 PM Author: poppy locale It is clear that the OP never goes on dates and lacks the confidence to handle rejection. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113318) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:26 PM Author: know-it-all galvanic corner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113331) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:27 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home i'm not a pimp, but i go on dates. this is the rudest thing a girl's ever done to me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113338) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:29 PM Author: know-it-all galvanic corner you wouldn't be doing all the pua shit if you were comfortable around women. or in your own skin. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113356) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:31 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home I do NO pua shit. where does it say I did that? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113375) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:33 PM Author: know-it-all galvanic corner you just seem weird man. i thought i read shit about how you were too into the conversation and didn't up the ante or someshit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113389) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:40 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home no, all I meant was i was talking to her a little awkwardly instead of making physical plays (and i definitely had a window to do this) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113440) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:46 PM Author: know-it-all galvanic corner i dunno man. i'm normally not in that situation. either the chick is engaged and i can get physical whenever i want to, or she's not in which case i move on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113465) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:48 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home i've been in situations before where I had a window to get physical, and missed it, and she was closed off after that. one girl basically outright told me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113477) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:30 PM Author: poppy locale if you knew you had other options in your future you wouldn't be acting like a psycho HTH (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113365) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:34 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home dood I was llukewarm on the bitch. this is about the rudeness, not that she's some prize (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113395) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:35 PM Author: Lavender forum black woman that makes your stewing over this all the more weird and creepy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113405) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:29 PM Author: Marvelous trump supporter box office flame ----> killself
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:35 PM Author: honey-headed field I might care if you weren't a pumo. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113399) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 1:25 PM Author: abnormal church Pumonication is really the only way most people will post embarrassing shit. We've seen what happens on this board when known posters give too many details about their personal lives. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113653) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:49 PM Author: Walnut provocative fortuitous meteor senate why do i have the impression that you would continue to date her even if she continually treated you like shit? like if she gave a feeble excuse like, "oh i'm sorry i wasnt myself that night. so how's friday for you?" you'd be totally down for it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113484) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 12:53 PM Author: know-it-all galvanic corner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113506) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 2:18 PM Author: Pale stirring hospital (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113990) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 1:06 PM Author: contagious site wagecucks her female instinct commanded her to deny ur weak seed any chance to gain purchase in the next generation. sounds like the evening was full of win for everyone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113558) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 1:08 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113574) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 1:09 PM Author: ruddy institution jesus a lot has been said about this. just ignore her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113576) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 1:23 PM Author: indigo turdskin antidepressant drug She needs paternal guidance. I suggest a spanking or a stern talking-to. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113641) |
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Date: May 29th, 2011 1:47 PM Author: wild opaque point outstanding thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18113795) |
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Date: May 30th, 2011 7:32 AM Author: flickering area (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18119273) |
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Date: May 30th, 2011 8:38 AM Author: Carnelian filthy cruise ship Dude wtf? Obviously the girl didnt want to get together with you, asked her friend to convey same, friend bouncer went a little overboard when he told you get the fuck out (cause he's a guy), and you are acting like a little bitch as a consequence.
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Date: May 30th, 2011 12:37 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home Right. Look if a girl's not feeling it that happens. Point is this girl I'd known for a year and a half, and she went to my undergrad, and I'm shocked she used such little courtesy. To be honest I wasn't sure I was feeling it either. It's not about that.
I don't look for ways to hurt people and I guess I don't understand when other people do. |
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Date: May 30th, 2011 8:48 AM Author: bronze razzmatazz lodge hairy legs She's a cunt. Avoid. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18119321) |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 1:34 PM Author: Hairless odious range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18377803) |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 1:38 PM Author: Slap-happy overrated queen of the night mediation plz stop these shitty flames (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18377839) |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 1:41 PM Author: Hairless odious range Not shitty flame bro. Very good flame, if not reality, which is even more probable knowing OPs personality (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18377858) |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 4:37 PM Author: Razzle-dazzle Onyx Chad skimmed the op, recognized the pumo
tl;dr: racist fag gets pwned (by a black guy! LOL!!!!!), logs onto xoxo to write about it like if we were his faggy diary |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 4:48 PM Author: rambunctious half-breed dysfunction So you texted her from outside after being in the bar with her and she went up to a bouncer to tell you that "she's not interested, get the fuck out of here."
1. You were either really haraasing her because no bouncer on the planet would do this given the circumstances of your story; or
2. this is stupid flame. |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 4:51 PM Author: unhinged aquamarine skinny woman nursing home not flame. Rudest behavior I've ever encountered though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18379124) |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 4:49 PM Author: fragrant center stfu this is a classic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18379110) |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 4:51 PM Author: Buck-toothed Pearl Stag Film Just do GO NUCLEAR ON THE BITCH, bro. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18379127) |
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Date: June 29th, 2011 6:16 PM Author: Wine vivacious tanning salon toaster Your options paint you as a psychopath. I had nothing but sympathy for you until I read them; now I'm left wondering if this girl just demonstrated good judgment.
Don't do a damn thing. Everyone understands the impulse to react when someone is so disrespectful; but those who dismiss these people as simply unworthy of your time and concern are ultimately the people that earn the respect of others. |
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Date: August 12th, 2011 2:41 PM Author: Hairless odious range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1660021&forum_id=2#18740690) |