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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:29 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130000) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:34 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse Could be how she carries herself. Hair pulled back in a bun, arms crossed, not really bubbly = standoffish. No matter how hot a girl is, I won't make an effort if I get the impression that she thinks she's too good for everyone. Unfortunately, shy/insecure people who happen to be attractive often come across in this way.
I know some people subscribe to a theory of "I put up walls to see who cares enough to tear them down", but that's just another form of high-maintenance to me.
Could also be her social circle or lack thereof. If she's friends with a few people one-on-one but isn't part of any extended friendship circle, she may rarely have the opportunity to meet people through friends of friends. Internet dating is also hard, especially in a large city. It's the closest we actually get to true hypergamy, people schedule as many as 4 dates a week and potential dates are treated as dispensable commodities.
She could just be a defective cunt, but there are plenty of defective cunts out there who manage to couple up with one another so having an SPS outlook on life can only explain so much. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:36 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130095) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:45 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse Could be a lot of things, from being in a social circle which makes meeting eligible men prohibitively difficult, to just plain bad luck. Whenever I've seen attractive people of either gender go through a long stretch without a serious BF/GF, it's usually a combination of (1) having a lot of coupled up friends and not many opportunities to organically meet new people, (2) working hard or otherwise not in an environment where eligible singles are, (3) unable to find compatibility/attraction with all but a few people who are unlikely to be in your social circle (like a girl in Los Angeles who only wants to date Brits), (4) introversion.
Being an introvert doesn't help, but if you make the effort to open up to people, you'll find other introverts. The social world is run by extroverts, and its norms were decided by extroverts. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:46 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130196) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:49 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse Do an experiment. Try to befriend some law school people, or just talk more with your classmates when you're in social situations. Be more open. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130217) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:50 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130239) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:39 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130761) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:39 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130759) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:39 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130753) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:39 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130751) |
Date: November 28th, 2012 9:32 PM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe obv not hot enough to be aloof
so yeah, be more engaging |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:32 PM Author: Misanthropic home tattoo Cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130047) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:36 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse Even with hot girls, the aloof thing is a major turnoff. Hot + Aloof will get you the guys who feel like they have nothing to lose by approaching you, or the guys who are looking for sex and don't really care. Hot + Aloof isn't a good combination for dating. I dated a couple of girls who were attractive and aloof and after the first few dates I just couldn't really keep the interest up, even if I'd slept with them. I need some sweetness and reciprocity. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130087) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:37 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130103) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:48 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse Why do you find it hard to connect with people?
Why do you find yourself drawn to arrogant assholes?
What I've learned is that there's often a disconnect between what we're drawn to as a matter of optics and the type of person we'd be best suited for. For a while I went after attractive, tan, blond, young CGWBTs. Then i met a few girls who were around my age (28-32) and were a bit more career/achievement oriented. I had worlds more compatibility with the latter group, and I found enough girls with my desired physical traits (blonde, tan, good-sized tits) so as to not miss the younger, less career-focused types. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:08 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130434) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:27 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse I'm not saying that blondes are necessarily less career driven. I was saying that I used to be attracted to a certain archetype of a person which was not career/achievement driven. And (unrelated) I am attracted to blondes. I used to date many blondes who were not career/achievement driven (and were stereotypical CGWBTs, in XO parlance) until I realized that I wasn't compatible with those. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130636) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:31 PM Author: flesh den then why did you date them? I can't date people I'm not attracted to. I think that's partly the problem. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130677) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:33 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse I love a certain look, and many girls with that look happen to be very unambitious/laid back.
I then started going for girls that I had more in common with, and found I didn't have to sacrifice much of my physical preferences. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:35 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130705) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:40 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130774) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:40 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130769) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:40 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130767) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:39 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130764) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:32 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night Ugly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130042) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:36 PM Author: Narrow-minded senate Can't really picture this without bikini pics (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130088) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:36 PM Author: insane boyish masturbator pics or flame/faggot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130089) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:38 PM Author: flesh den OK i'll post 2 photos, but it's tinypics. So they will be taken down shortly. Please give me your honest opinion but... I think I'm relatively attractive... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130108) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:38 PM Author: insane boyish masturbator u need to make an xo reference. perhaps NOWAG (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130113) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:39 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130120) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:40 PM Author: insane boyish masturbator just have a sign that says nowag or xoxohth. the meaning of nowag is irrelevant here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130128) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:40 PM Author: flesh den i look like shit, i'm not taking a photo of myself now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130135) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:42 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130791) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:40 PM Author: insane boyish masturbator idk brehlette. i didn't major in internet (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130132) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:42 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130798) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:40 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night "I think I'm relatively attractive"
All girls think this. 98% are wrong. 100% of Xoxohth women are wrong. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:42 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130152) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:49 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night Ugly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130225) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:43 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130815) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:43 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130807) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:42 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130147) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:43 PM Author: insane boyish masturbator not my type at all. but you're sufficiently attractive to attract guys. you have sps personality/probably bad manners/large hands. hth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130165) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:45 PM Author: flesh den why aren't I your type? You like brunettes? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130176) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:45 PM Author: insane boyish masturbator yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130189) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:46 PM Author: insane boyish masturbator you have shit grammar as well. major turn off to intellectual men (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130195) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:10 PM Author: Provocative lay twinkling uncleanness lol like any heterosexual would ding a hot chick for this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130456) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:43 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130812) |
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Date: February 28th, 2016 7:29 PM Author: pearly azn space Date: November 28th, 2012 9:45 PM Author: ....................,,........
why aren't I your type? You like brunettes?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130176) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:45 PM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130177) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:45 PM Author: pearl charismatic office digit ratio very very hot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130178) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:45 PM Author: flesh den thanks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130190) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:48 PM Author: pearl charismatic office digit ratio how old are you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130208) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:50 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130229) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:51 PM Author: pearl charismatic office digit ratio i would ask you out, based on your pic anyway
you should have guys all over you |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:59 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130332) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:52 PM Author: pearl charismatic office digit ratio fuck what did you say? had to leave for a minute (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131672) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:53 PM Author: flesh den I don't have guys all over me, by any means.. but thanks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131686) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:46 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night Whats it called when babies are born without a brain and their faces are shaped like baboons? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130194) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:48 PM Author: flesh den i don't think there's a word for that actually. but fuck you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130211) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:50 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night Anencephaly
Google image it |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:49 PM Author: plum twisted candlestick maker Your earing(s?) are too big and you have hair on your arms.
DING! |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:41 AM Author: henna kitchen mediation wow how faggot is this thinking earrings can get "too big". ever have oral done on you with the girl's huge earrings flopping about? it's 180. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133133) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:52 PM Author: Drab national boistinker how did you find this bort? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130251) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:01 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130352) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:54 PM Author: puce rehab You're very attractive. A lot of the dating game at this age is just putting yourself out more, letting it be known (to friends and others) that you're single, and probably not being afraid to be assertive with men. Good luck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130271) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:00 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130337) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:00 PM Author: puce rehab Guys don't care about this and most wouldn't be able to tell anyway. You're fine.
Just be assertive. It doesn't have to be 'flirty.' Talk to some guys. Let people know you're single - many probably assume (given your age) that you're taken. I (and most red-blooded males) would be all over asking you out, based on your picture, assuming you're not psycho in real life. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:02 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130360) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:03 PM Author: puce rehab Flame jumped the shark here, I think.
If not flame, good luck. You'll find someone. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:05 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130395) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:44 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130826) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:42 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130793) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:42 PM Author: Judgmental brindle coldplay fan point r u infp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130159) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:45 PM Author: flesh den INFJ. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130180) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:46 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse Cultivate your 'S' more. You're one letter away from being the ideal female meyers briggs type (ISFJ) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130191) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:47 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130202) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:50 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse I don't really know. 'N' types tend to be more cerebral and theoretical in how they make decisions and come to conclusions. 'S' types are more what-you-see-is-what-you-get, and only make decisions based on what they can take in through their senses. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130235) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:46 PM Author: Judgmental brindle coldplay fan point maybe ur too judgmental (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130192) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:48 PM Author: Unholy Station Wagecucks My boyfriend is an INFJ. You probably have trust issues. Rightfully so, guys lie. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130205) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:49 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130218) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:49 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night This thread is flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130222) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:50 PM Author: cowardly diverse school pancake ass (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130230) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:51 PM Author: insane boyish masturbator law student... die (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130241) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:57 PM Author: Provocative lay twinkling uncleanness fucking virgin xo dudes are so lulzy.....this type of thread, no matter how obvious, shoots to 50+ posts in like two minutes.
protip: normally, reasonably attractive chicks have no problem finding mates b/c they constantly garner attention and interaction from the opposite sex. for this reason they are not relegated to some racist law chatblog. hth. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 9:58 PM Author: flesh den it's these types of posts that make me feel even worse. I'm not normal, and not reasonably attractive according to xo.
I found xo from Princeton Review, way back when. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:02 PM Author: embarrassed to the bone ticket booth The girl in the pic is ok but not attractive enough to defeat a really bad personality.
People think you're flame tho |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:03 PM Author: flesh den ok so it's my personality. That's what I've concluded too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130377) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:12 PM Author: Mischievous flirting lodge Probably bc you act like a 9 when you're really a 6. Maybe a 7 if you're hiding a bangin body under that trashy haircut and raccoon eyes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130475) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:23 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130597) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:06 PM Author: Provocative lay twinkling uncleanness protip: most girls have shitty personalities. take away the sex and theyre mostly insufferable. for a girl's personality to be so insufferable so as to negate the pleasure induced by sticking one's penis inside her...i dont know man she would have to be a shrew like this world has never seen (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130407) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:40 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130773) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:01 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night These "girls" always come out of the woodwork, too. And notice how she drops crumbs like being sexually inexperienced that the doods here lap up like sex starved dogs that they are
Notice she was unwilling to post a picture of herself holding up an Xoxohth sign too. Lol. Yeah. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:03 PM Author: flesh den i've posted here on/off, i'm surprised ppl don't really connect the dots. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130365) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:03 PM Author: Provocative lay twinkling uncleanness lol i know that was my favorite line - "very little experience, actually..." (or whatever it was) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130371) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:04 PM Author: flesh den ? it's true. I'm not a virgin anymore, but when I was, I had guys dump me for that. IT's why I don't believe the guy when he said that guys won't care. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130387) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:09 PM Author: Provocative lay twinkling uncleanness post something saying 'xoxo' next to an obviously female body part like your hand/wrist, or gtfo bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130446) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:16 PM Author: flesh den ok fine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130531) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:21 PM Author: flesh den here.
it's upside down but tiny pic won't allow you to rotate. i don't know why. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:21 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night Doobs! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130590) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:23 PM Author: flesh den you were going to say this regardless of whether i posted right? we. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130602) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:24 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night Post your face with a sign. We already know what you look like, brainless. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130612) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:32 PM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130681) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:35 PM Author: flesh den ok i'm not posting any more pics for you to criticize. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130710) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:38 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night Lolololololllllll!!!!!!!1 mfgygsh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130741) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:42 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130802) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:43 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130816) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:04 PM Author: Mischievous flirting lodge Pretty. Sane. Available.
Choose two. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:06 PM Author: flesh den but guys will apparently date hot & crazy chicks so... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130402) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:14 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night Clearly you're just neither hot, sane, nor like able (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130505) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:23 PM Author: flesh den k (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130603) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:11 PM Author: obsidian elastic band I refuse to read this thread, but will point out that there is no such thing as an attractive woman without suitors. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130464) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:24 PM Author: flesh den i have 'suitors'.. they're all unattractive and/or asian, which aren't exactly my type. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130611) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:24 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night Lololollol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130614) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:25 PM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse Ahh, here is the culmination of the thread.
DA IRON CHAINZ OF NOWAG <><><><><> |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:29 PM Author: Provocative lay twinkling uncleanness lolllllllll flame is officially off the rails...
keep going though bro, almost 100 posts! |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:25 PM Author: Hairraiser Locus Affirmative Action i'm asian and i think you're super attractive to asian guys for some reason, more so than other attractive white girls
edit: may be the big eyes, the smooth skin, and shape of the head |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:28 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night Yeah, the mongoloid features I pointed out earlier (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130647) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:30 PM Author: Hairraiser Locus Affirmative Action i have a hard time discerning WHAT the difference is between a girl that's attractive to asians and a girl that's attractive to whites (not to say there isn't any overlap)
if whites ITT think she's not attractive, that's funny because i can tell asian guys are probably all over her |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:33 PM Author: flesh den they are. I don't even think it's about how I look though, necessarily - i'm just sort of subdued & introverted, and I think that's attractive to them. And I'm a different nationality so it's unique to them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130687) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:36 PM Author: Hairraiser Locus Affirmative Action well yeah that's part of it though - you look very clean (not sure if that is the right word) and innocent. and nice/approachable. plus making the dopey ears with your hands - ideal white girl really. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130720) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:37 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130730) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:38 PM Author: Hairraiser Locus Affirmative Action i was basing off the picture you showed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130746) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:41 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130784) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:27 PM Author: insane boyish masturbator NOWAG (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130640) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:44 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130819) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:30 PM Author: arousing native FYI:
http://www.amazon.com/Its-Your-Move-Play-Game/dp/1609413989/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1354159823&sr=8-2&keywords=nick+savoy |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:34 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130697) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:33 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130685) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:36 PM Author: silver rebellious fanboi Plz post pic again briefly for honest appraisal of situation/looks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130723) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:39 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130754) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:41 PM Author: silver rebellious fanboi OK there's your problem, you aren't beautiful. you have aged utterly terribly. You have thin as fuck lips, big forehead, bad hair, weird nose. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130775) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:42 PM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130801) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:44 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130834) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:42 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130788) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:44 PM Author: flesh den you have WAYYY too much time on your hands. Go ahead, post a million replies to this one thread. nothing better to do? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130823) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:45 PM Author: Sooty telephone die a horrible death you stupid faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130837) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:45 PM Author: Sooty telephone (gay porn superfaggot pretending to be a woman on the internet) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130842) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:42 PM Author: razzmatazz ruby deer antler garrison city? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130789) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:42 PM Author: twinkling thriller partner death wish Subject: HERE'S HER PIC THAT SHE KEEPS POSTING http://oi45.tinypic.com/1hukaf.jpg (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130799) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:43 PM Author: yellow concupiscible cruise ship her problem is she's two dimensional... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130809) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:50 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse She's pretty, although I suspect she's not a natural blonde. Could use a little less of the black eye makeup. That's always been a pet peeve of mine, when blondes cake on the dark, heavy eye makeup during the day.
The hoop earrings are TTT prole and should be tossed into the trash. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:18 PM Author: Impressive weed whacker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131197) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:19 PM Author: flesh den it's me. i was destroyed in my youth, i think. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131229) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:24 PM Author: flesh den can you remove this now.. .i've gotten enough responses. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131311) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 10:59 PM Author: 180 Low-t Feces Reading Party Didn't see the pics, but any perpetually single girl who is not a landbeast or cripplingly antisocial is nearly always trying to date out of her league. Learn to settle. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130978) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:01 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse Based on the OP's photos, what kind of doods should she be settling for? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22130997) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:01 PM Author: flesh den exactly. I have no idea. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131005) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:29 PM Author: 180 Low-t Feces Reading Party What part of "didn't see the pics" was unclear? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131385) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:01 PM Author: flesh den thanks. does 'settling' mean someone you're not physically attracted to, though? the guys that hit on me aren't good-looking. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131004) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:02 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night It means you're going to have Asian babies or no babies (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131015) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:02 PM Author: flesh den no. you can't force yourself to be attracted to everyone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131022) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:05 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night You'll die lonely, wishing you had taken up Chaoxiang on his offer of sweet, sweet, sweet and sour cock (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131055) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:29 PM Author: 180 Low-t Feces Reading Party Good looking by your expectations or generally?
Also, I'm leaning towards crippling social retardation if you think you can only date the men who "hit" on you. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:33 PM Author: misunderstood vengeful ratface girls generally don't ask out guys. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131437) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:37 PM Author: 180 Low-t Feces Reading Party There are a whole lot more ways to meet and date people than just stock standard MAN HIT ON WOMAN AT BAR OR PARTY interactions. Natural chemistry with people you meet casually and mutual friends accounts for more than half of the relationships between 20 somethings. I know very few people who have been in relationships that were instigated by a guy just 'hitting on' a woman. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131479) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:40 PM Author: flesh den yeah i know. But even friends of friends.. i'm not attracted to them, and don't go out enough to be exposed to new people. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131508) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:36 PM Author: flesh den what would you suggest then? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131462) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:38 PM Author: 180 Low-t Feces Reading Party Nothing, you're flame. Nobody is this clueless IRL. But I congratulate you on this sophisticated, subtle, and successful flame thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131485) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:41 PM Author: flesh den i'm not flame. And I knew what the poster suggested above. I just misinterpreted what you meant. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131522) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:48 PM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe find hobbies. meet people. be open-minded about them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131631) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:53 PM Author: 180 Low-t Feces Reading Party Write XO 11/28 on a piece of paper and hold it next to your right cheek, take a picture, post on a site, and link. Otherwise,
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:23 AM Author: 180 Low-t Feces Reading Party Flame confirmed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131979) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:03 PM Author: Provocative lay twinkling uncleanness this is what i was thinking. OP, describe the type of guys you're into. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131029) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:05 PM Author: flesh den Typically really intelligent & witty, and they don't find me smart/quick enough for them...
And good-looking. And arrogant. Tall. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:08 PM Author: Provocative lay twinkling uncleanness so you're into guys that are out of your league. your problem really isn't that complicated. it sucks that you haven't figured this out until now. you just need to be realistic, and go from there (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131081) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:09 PM Author: flesh den um that's not helpful at all. What is "more realistic" exactly? Saying "be realistic" isn't that helpful.
Why are they out of my league? |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:10 PM Author: Sexy disrespectful organic girlfriend queen of the night Because you're ugly, stupid and boring. This aint rocket scince (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131103) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:13 PM Author: Provocative lay twinkling uncleanness how is that not helpful? your going to have to stop considering exclusively 9 guys (witty/smart/handsome/tall....lol what's left, professional athlete?), because those types of guys have better options. no offense, your fairly cute, but not a 9 or anything.
this doesn't mean you have to date guys that are unattractive to you, but your going to have to lower your standards a bit |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:21 PM Author: flesh den I do. i can't force attraction though. I'm quite often attracted to guys who are double my age too, but they're married. I want unattainable guys, but often.. they're the only ones I really feel chemistry with. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131265) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:24 PM Author: embarrassed to the bone ticket booth "I can't force attraction"
Millions of ugly people around the world beg to differ. You think I was born being attracted to mousy chubby Jewish girls? if you focus on their good qualities an attraction develops
happiness is having realistic expectations |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:28 PM Author: misunderstood vengeful ratface you still need physical attraction though. Otherwise it's just friendship. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131359) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:49 PM Author: embarrassed to the bone ticket booth You can be attracted to people and not want to jump their bones on the spot. Seriously do you think ugly people don't adjust their expectations so they don't end up like you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131643) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:51 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse Attraction is pretty important though. It's not something you can force.
Although if you can't be attracted to a traditionally cute person of your preferred gender unless they're married or a complete asshole, there's something wrong with you. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:02 AM Author: flesh den yeah probably.
There was one guy at the firm opposite mine... he doesn't work at the firm anymore. Anyway, he's around my age, and alright-looking, nice personality. Wouldn't ask me out. I suggested going out for coffee sometime & even added him on LInkedIn the other day. No response. Maybe he has a gf, i'm not sure.. never really got that impression as he never mentioned her, but maybe going thru a breakup. Anyway I was willing to date him, even if there wasn't that much chemistry but it seems guys really want chemistry. They can be selective too. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:04 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund Everyone wants chemistry/compatibility. The hottest girl on earth will not hold my interest if I don't enjoy being around her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131802) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:06 AM Author: flesh den we got along pretty well though. But he's the type to get along well with a lot of people, I think. Easy-going personality.
I'm just fucked if that's the case. I'm trying to lower my standards by dating guys I'm not really into, but then they won't date me. I dunno what the solution is . |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:33 AM Author: embarrassed to the bone ticket booth It's not "forced", it's just that you learn to be attractive to people who are uttainable or you end up like this flame. Like I said, do you think it's just a happy coincidence that uglies happen to marry uglies?
Just stop saying "attraction cant be forced". It's a straw man |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:35 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund I don't think you can force yourself to be attracted to someone that repulses you in every way. To some degree we can't choose who we're drawn to. Life would be a lot easier if I got over this one psycho but insanely compatible ex-girlfriend and felt the same kind of chemistry with the sweet, smart, drama-free chick I'm now dating.
But so much of attraction and compatibility isn't just physical. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:53 AM Author: embarrassed to the bone ticket booth May e on the individual level. But obviously as the existence of ugly people in love demonstrates, if you adopt sane expectations it will happen
I have no sympathy for this ho |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:54 AM Author: flesh den um i've tried to date men TWICE my age. I've lowered my expectations. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132215) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 1:09 AM Author: embarrassed to the bone ticket booth Flame? Try men your age who aren't 6'3 hedge fund managers (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132282) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 1:11 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund This. Like a guy in his mid 30s who is a lawyer. Or maybe in finance, or some other profession that requires intelligence and work ethic. But not some silver fox master man. They're foxes for a reason. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132296) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:56 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund A lot of attractive women are in love with ugly men. It's not so much about expectations as it is about compatibility.
Attraction has to start from somewhere. It doesn't grow out of nowhere. If you're repulsed by someone, it'll never work. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:57 AM Author: flesh den this is exactly true. I've been attracted to men that are not physically attractive to most people. They may be double my age & balding, but i'm still attracted to them. It's something i can't explain - usually their intelligence, maturity, and the fact that we're so compatible. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132225) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 1:05 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund Yet they won't boyfriend you. Why? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132266) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 1:13 AM Author: embarrassed to the bone ticket booth JFC. Just because you're attracted to powerful or manly men who happen to be old doesn't mean you've lowered expectations.
I'm short and ugly. To compensate for this, I date chubby girls who like my intelligence/wit. They don't have the best personalities but I prefer companionship to loneliness
You can do much better than this but you have to be realistic. If you're always single you need to aim lower.
Think of it like the college app process. Would you have any sympathy for someone with a 2.8 gpa shouting "I just won't be intellectually stimulated enough outside Hyp!" |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 1:19 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund Exactly. I saw the OP's pictures. She's pretty. I don't think she needs to aim lower. She needs to aim HIGHER in certain aspects - such as true compatibility and relationshippability. An arrogant fiftysomething who is "separated" from his wife and pulling in 8 figures a year may not be the person who will want to wife you, or anyone for that matter.
What on earth is wrong with a guy who is smart and decent-looking, but more humble? Maybe he hasn't made it in his career yet so he doesn't have that arrogance. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 11:04 AM Author: flesh den thanks. I can't help attraction but I'm going to stop falling for arrogant guys as a dating prospect. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133471) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:26 PM Author: Provocative lay twinkling uncleanness sorry girl, if your seriously only attracted to guys that are unattainable/incompatible (and that seems to be the common denominator), than it seems like you have mental issues and should see a shrink.
if its just a matter of lowering your standards though (i'd love to date exclusively 9's and 10's but am still totally attracted to 7's), then you need to come to grips with that. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:36 PM Author: flesh den I think that's my problem. I only want unattainable guys. I'm only attracted to men who are married or in a position of power over me..
but honestly, I do also feel a strong chemistry with them, and they feel it with me too... but nothing happens. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:46 PM Author: Provocative lay twinkling uncleanness your just not going to find a 56 year old man who wouldnt give his right arm to fuck you senseless. your a cute blonde chick half his age. that has nothing to do with chemistry.
if you only seek things that are unattainable though that's an issue that needs to be worked out. i hope you realize that. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:50 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse This. There are plenty of older men who are divorced (i.e. available) and would love to date and even settle down with a cute, smart blonde half his age who's got some degree of career ambition. She just has to find the ones who aren't so arrogant or married.
I think it's the unattainability that turns her on, not a certain set of physical and personality traits. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:55 PM Author: flesh den Yeah it's tough. how do I meet divorced men double my age? I can't even meet men my own age. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131696) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:59 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse This is where Match.com and OKCupid come into play. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131745) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:39 AM Author: flesh den do you think it's really weird or unhealthy to like older men? if that's who I'm drawn to... I can't help it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132154) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:32 PM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe all of your ancestors married out of a pool of 25 guys they grew up with in the village. all of them.
you need to figure out how to date someone who isn't a fucking romantic comedy character. yes, i know itd be awesome if rich buff as fuck lothario gerard butler was edgy and mysterious and arrogant and slaying pussy until he falls so in love with you that he ultimately reveals a heart of gold and a 10 carat diamond. but you need to grow up, faggot. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:35 PM Author: Provocative lay twinkling uncleanness this, plus she has daddy issues
her shit personality makes her woes well deserved though. justice has been served. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:39 PM Author: flesh den not really. I don't have a shit personality. I'm good to my parents, but I wouldn't want to introduce them to any guys I date. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131492) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:36 PM Author: 180 Low-t Feces Reading Party Weird that we both identified the 'romantic comedy' male ideal concept coveted by a large fraction of the shrew demographic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131460) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:39 PM Author: Grizzly Indecent Crackhouse the trope is a movie trope because its an irl trope (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131495) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:40 PM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe i think they were just lied to. this generation of american women is the first to grow up in the grrrrl power! you can have everything! you are special just for existing and people will worship you! shitboomer flame culture (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131506) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:42 PM Author: flesh den NO. I'm not.
I just can't find compatibility with most guys. You are pushing your own agendas or interpretation based on what you've been told about modern women on this. But it's not true. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:44 PM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe honey, youve already provided us with proof of concept. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131573) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:17 PM Author: embarrassed to the bone ticket booth Instead of going for dudes who have all the features you're looking for, try going for ones that only have some.
In particular, I am smart and witty but not tall or attractive. Do you live in California? Thx |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:48 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse This has a lot of truth to it. She should identify the physical features she likes and maybe try to find someone more compatible and emotionally available with those physical features. She says she likes older men who are smart and arrogant and often married. What about if she went for an older, divorced man who was intelligent but not arrogant?
It sounds like this girl's seeking a trope and not a real person. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:51 PM Author: flesh den I don't live in Cali.
I'm willing to compromise. Really smart/witty guys intimidate me though. I think I do have issues i need to sort out, but i dunno.
I honestly think I like older guys because I know they'll like me.. I'm half their age & attractive. They won't reject me, and with the age difference, I'm not as intimidated and nervous around them. They're also much more mature, intelligent, and we seem to have more in common. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:53 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse What do you think you have in common with someone twice your age, who has probably gone through marriage, divorce, parenthood, losing their parents and two and a half decades worth of shit?
Dating someone much older can be like dating someone from a completely different socioeconomic background or culture. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:56 PM Author: flesh den No one can understand my socioeconomic background/family background anyway... I've gone through a lot. Even on one of my reference letters, my prof said that she thought I had a maturity well beyond my years, due to the personal circumstances I've overcome. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131718) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:01 AM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse Do you think an older dood would be more understanding of your socioeconomic/family background?
It's not like you were locked in a cage for the first 7 years of your life. Growing up the child of poor immigrants who wanted their daughter to succeed isn't weird at all. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:03 AM Author: flesh den yeah I think so.
I just haven't been out all that much, was a bit sheltered. I don't know much about movies/books/modern pop culture stuff. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:21 PM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe EVERY GIRL DESERVES A 6'3 HEDGE FUND DOCTOR WITH MODEL LOOKS (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131259) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:18 PM Author: puce rehab Sup girl. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131198) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:32 PM Author: 180 Low-t Feces Reading Party Right. So you want tall, handsome, funny and quick (aka charismatic), and dominant. These are top tier guys and you have some issues that prevent you from being the kind of person most of those men are into, so learn to settle. You're a fucking tardmo if you can't be attracted to a person who doesn't meet some kind of romantic comedy ideal great guy.
Your criteria are so dumb that I'm leaning toward this thread being excellently executed flame. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:38 PM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe i really hope it was just elaborate flame for the nowag joke (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131483) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:39 PM Author: 180 Low-t Feces Reading Party (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131497) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:39 PM Author: Provocative lay twinkling uncleanness i'm thinking flame too man. sexual inexperience, hates asians, needs talls dude....i think all the boxes are checked here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131490) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:41 PM Author: red foreskin meetinghouse Yeah, this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131532) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:42 PM Author: flesh den why? A lot of white women aren't attracted to asians. And I'm 5'10". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131552) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:45 PM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe if you were 5'8 you might be able to get a man but... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131583) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:48 PM Author: Provocative lay twinkling uncleanness oh shit, you wait til now to drop this bomb? lol wtf (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131630) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:50 PM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe lol cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131645) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:50 PM Author: 180 Low-t Feces Reading Party This is quality flame and should be praised. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131657) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:53 PM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe whats the next reveal? sexually abused by step-father? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131681) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 6:28 PM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe cmon bro dont just leave me with my dick in hand and my balls blue (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22135902) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:55 PM Author: Provocative lay twinkling uncleanness OFS man i'm cracking up just thinking about it. cant believe i just wasted an hour on this shit. oh well, back to studying (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131697) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:56 PM Author: 180 Low-t Feces Reading Party We've all been there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131712) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:58 PM Author: flesh den if it's any consolation, i'm not flame. Newsflash: A LOT of white women are not attracted to short, asian guys. Especially if they're tall. I have a feeling Lisa Rowe probably feels the same way, people just don't admit it. It's not just an 'xo' thing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131731) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:59 PM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe lisa rowe wgwags.
wgwag. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 5:58 PM Author: Shivering Flushed Corner tcr. But great timing on this drop. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22135677) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:03 PM Author: Fragrant Violet Indian Lodge Quadroon crablegs, where have you been? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131030) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:12 PM Author: gold talented hunting ground Because of your shit personality: http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=2125077&mc=4&forum_id=2
What kind of person thinks she's so much better than the people who brought her into the world and raised her? |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:20 PM Author: flesh den I don't want to get into my family, but I treat people well and am a nice person on the whole. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131243) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:20 PM Author: contagious famous landscape painting church sup me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131232) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:35 PM Author: spectacular tanning salon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131454) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:43 PM Author: contagious famous landscape painting church tbf i know why though (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131556) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:44 PM Author: flesh den why? what do you think my problem is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131581) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:47 PM Author: contagious famous landscape painting church idk this thread is too long for me to read. do guys not go for you or do you just not meet them or do you date them and it just doesn't lead to a relationship? im single because im waiting for bloodacre, stay away from him (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131613) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:50 PM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131655) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:53 PM Author: flesh den guys don't go for me... and I don't meet them. The ones I meet, I'm not attracted to. Often asian guys. I'm introverted and caucasian. I tend to like older guys, double my age too. I want smart, witty guys, but am often intimidated by them. Host of issues I guess, I just don't know how to resolve any of these. fuck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131684) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:57 PM Author: contagious famous landscape painting church do you have daddy issues? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131724) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:59 PM Author: flesh den not exactly sure what that means. I don't want to date a guy like my father... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131753) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:02 AM Author: contagious famous landscape painting church where is your father, child? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131771) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:04 AM Author: flesh den I live with my parents at the moment.
I don't really get along with my dad that well. But I don't want to date guys like him or opposite him. I don't think I have 'daddy issues'.
EDIT: that said, I am most comfortable about the thought of dating someone twice my age. I think they'd appreciate me a lot more, given my age. Won't reject me. We get along a lot better for whatever reason. I feel a lot more comfortable with them. I should just join OKCupid/Match and target older men. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:23 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund Why do you think that a guy who is older - but not too much older - wouldn't appreciate you just as much? Like someone in his later 30s/earlier 40s? A lot of doods in the 35-45 age group would love to date someone who is under 30. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131983) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:25 AM Author: flesh den yeah that's fine. I guess part of the problem is that I feel like guys my age (who are decently impressive) can do better than me. Guys double my age can't. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132005) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:30 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund And that's just your self esteem getting in the way of you meeting perfectly decent guys. I know lots of guys who are 28-32 who are attractive, smart bros hauling in lots of dough and they're dating girls around their age. One of my friends who is 26 is hollerin' at a girl in her early 30s. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132059) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:02 AM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe is that why you wind up trying to fuck guys you realize you cant have a relationship with? you know, because you dont want to *date* guys like your father? but you cant find a guy you do want to date? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131774) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:04 AM Author: flesh den this doesn't really make logical sense.
I don't have to fuck guys I can't have a relationship with, because I don't want to date guys like my father. One doesn't lead to the other. |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:21 PM Author: sable vibrant hospital cuckold does she look better than the box? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131251) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:40 PM Author: pearl charismatic office digit ratio yes imo, but shes older, like 28 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131512) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:28 PM Author: coral faggot firefighter cuckoldry Wgwag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131362) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:29 PM Author: Sticky plaza double fault sex and the city fan (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131371) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:34 PM Author: Odious generalized bond pit make an offer, put urself out there; they will come (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131447) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:36 PM Author: carmine pea-brained parlor party of the first part which one are you in the picture? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131469) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:40 PM Author: sable vibrant hospital cuckold http://media.beta.photobucket.com/user/D-GAF/media/NOWAG.jpg.html?filters%5Bterm%5D=nowag&filters%5Bprimary%5D=images&filters%5Bsecondary%5D=videos&sort=1&o=0 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131509) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:43 PM Author: flesh den not my pic (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131565) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:39 PM Author: pearl charismatic office digit ratio its bc ur a shrew (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131501) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:42 PM Author: Blathering citrine internal respiration pretty sure OP is preethi nath aka salty babe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131535) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:44 PM Author: flesh den no (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131570) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:46 PM Author: puce rehab I am a tall, very smart, arrogant, good-looking guy, and I would bang you. If that's actually you. Your problem is probably just that (a) many guys assume you're taken, especially if you act reserved/shy and (b) you're on the slightly older end for LS; younger dudes at your school may be intimidated.
Are you in a big city or college town? |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:48 PM Author: flesh den yeah true. most of the guys were 24-26 at my law school. Also I was really intimidated to date certain guys based on my lack of dating experience. I'm a perfectionist and my own worst critic. I had ;ow self-esteem. Posted on xo for a while which didn't help.
I'm in a big city. I don't want a guy that would just bang me though, ideally i'd like a bf... |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:50 PM Author: puce rehab Oh I'd bf you; don't even worry about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131650) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:55 PM Author: pearl charismatic office digit ratio what state are you in? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131693) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:57 PM Author: embarrassed to the bone ticket booth Lol @ people who say they're their own worst critic
If you were this thread wouldn't exist |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:46 PM Author: ruddy house Fuck this no pic having thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131598) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:47 PM Author: Grizzly Indecent Crackhouse can you love at all (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131616) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:51 PM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe assuming its a man running flame? yeah he probably can (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131664) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:55 PM Author: insecure milky stock car WHY IS EVERYONE FALLING FOR DOOBS FLAME (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131706) |
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Date: November 28th, 2012 11:58 PM Author: flesh den it's not flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131736) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:00 AM Author: insecure milky stock car oh like "mariah" wasn't flame. where did you come from? this is either doobs or box. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131755) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:02 AM Author: 180 Low-t Feces Reading Party (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131781) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:02 AM Author: High-end theatre selfie did you poast any pics? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131783) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:38 AM Author: flesh den yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132146) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:42 AM Author: High-end theatre selfie ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133135) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:02 AM Author: puce rehab Wait, you're 5'10? You realize that limits the dating pool substantially, right? Most alpha 6'2 dudes are dating someone younger than 28.
Luckily for you, I'm not. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:04 AM Author: pearl charismatic office digit ratio shes a bbw (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131795) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:04 AM Author: puce rehab fuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131801) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:07 AM Author: flesh den no i'm not. people are starting to just make shit up at this point in the thread. whatever. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131832) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:05 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund Is 28 but wants a man in his fifties
Dislikes Asians
Blonde
Lawyer
Yep, XO flame here. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:18 AM Author: sable vibrant hospital cuckold nice work gumshoe. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131933) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:14 AM Author: flesh den ok I'm going to bed now. thanks for the comments. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131899) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:15 AM Author: High-end theatre selfie night doobs and kill yourself |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:25 AM Author: 180 Low-t Feces Reading Party (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132002) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:15 AM Author: puce rehab Real advice, from an attractive dude who used to be shy and is now extroverted/arrogant, and who likes girls like you:
1) Don't worry about appearing smart in front of guys with big brains. Most of us aren't looking for someone to totally match wits with us; often times, we want someone who can bring us down to Earth a bit. But, DO take some steps just to make yourself conversant with smart people - read the news, read the Economist, read literature, go to cultural stuff, CULTIVATE INTERESTS. You need to be unique/interesting, not a hyper-analytical law shrew.
2) Go out to any social events you can. Practice, practice, practice.
3) Don't spend time talking about yourself. Ask other people questions about themselves, and show that you are following along and taking an interest in what they're saying. Guys find this flattering. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:18 AM Author: flesh den If I don't have any real interests... is this a huge turn-off to guys? I used to read literature, but haven't recently. Will get back into it. Maybe take a cooking class, if I can manage. I am generally hopeless at cooking, and don't have time to really get into it.. but if I force myself to take a class it may help.
I also come from a working class family, and haven't really been 'cultured'. I've never gone skiing (although i'm scared to try), don't know much about music/film/arts, etc. But I'm smart and have an interest in that stuff. I've never dated much either, so haven't been exposed to those things like most 'normal' people. i.e. I never went out much to see movies.
Why do I need to go to social events to 'practice'? I'm really too tired after work most days to go out. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:23 AM Author: puce rehab Not having any interests makes you seem dumb and uninteresting, even if that isn't true.
Just read stuff. Take the hours you spend watching TV or poasting and just start reading. You'd be amazed how much you can read in a day just taking 5 minutes here and 5 minutes there.
Prole background doesn't matter. My ex-gf was from a super prole background but made an effort to cultivate an interest in world events and (to some degree) art/culture. Just figure out what stuff is going on in your city and go to it. Go to art exhibitions and shit. Going alone is NBD.
If you can't put in the effort with this stuff, sure, you're going to limit the kinds of guys you meet. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:24 AM Author: flesh den ok. I'm 28 though. Is this too old to cultivate interests in such things? I feel like i'm almost too old to learn to have hobbies at this point in the game. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131997) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:25 AM Author: puce rehab 28 is young homegirl. You've got most of your life well ahead of you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132000) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:26 AM Author: flesh den really? i'm ready to almost commit suicide at this point, i'm so depressed.. you have no idea. I just feel like it's too overwhelming. I've basically been locked into a box for years and have so much debt. I haven't cultivated any interests or really developed a sense of who i am besides some law nerd. That's how I feel anyway. I realize that I'm attractive but somehow that doesn't actually translate into anything tangible and it's so frustrating and depressing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132017) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:28 AM Author: puce rehab Take a ride in the relaxy taxi. You're fine. You're young, hot, and at least have enough introspection to think about these things, which many people don't have.
Do you exercise? |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:30 AM Author: flesh den I used to go to the gym everyday in undergrad because I was a perfectionist and too high-strung. Now I'm so fucking tired after work, I only go on the weekend. Is that bad? Maybe 1-2x/week. I should amp it up, but maybe due to lack of sleep & depression, it's been tough. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132054) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:32 AM Author: puce rehab Makes a big difference in your mood/mental health, and will make you feel more confident. I highly recommend it.
Also, as posters above have noted, there's no shame in OKC/Match.com for someone like you. Plenty of extremely attractive/smart girls I know have used OKC (and found good guys). |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:36 AM Author: flesh den yeah i'll try. you don't think I'm too late to learn this stuff though? I almost don't know if I should get a coach of some sort... I wish I had money because I would just take a break, go on vacation, and learn about culture and arts/literature. I'm actually into the arts and fashion, but could never find the time to learn much about it. In undergrad I was always studying. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132129) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:39 AM Author: puce rehab I'm your age and I am diving into new interests all the time.
What did you study in undergrad? That might be a start. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:33 AM Author: flesh den Thanks... polisci but honestly, I didn't learn much from it. Very surface understanding.
I think I'm going to take up cooking classes and art history. I'm actually really interested in art (although I can't draw for shit..) but I like looking at it, and learning about it. Will also get more into literature. In the myers-briggs, I'm an INFJ... I like learning about abstract stuff like philosophy, etc... I was into psychology before. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:39 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund I don't know if that will help you.
What are you genuinely interested in? Cultivate that more.
Maybe just go online and google "art history" or some shit like that. You can teach yourself a lot of shit via the interwebs. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:44 AM Author: flesh den Thanks.
do you think it's really weird or unhealthy to like older men? if that's who I'm drawn to... I can't help it. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:49 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund I think it's much more unhealthy to be drawn to unavailable or arrogant men. A lot of older men will be married, and a lot of older men who would go out of their way to pursue a woman half their age are going to be arrogant. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132198) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:52 AM Author: flesh den why is arrogant so bad? i tend to like arrogant guys. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132207) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 1:05 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund Arrogant people are generally selfish and narcissistic. They're also highly unpleasant, and are more likely to think the rules (including basic morals) do not apply to them. They don't make good long-term partners.
Life is not like Top Gun where an attractive, smart blonde can win the heart of the arrogant, cocky sonofabitch just by being cute and smart and blonde. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:33 AM Author: flesh den that's true. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133112) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:29 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund "Prole background doesn't matter. My ex-gf was from a super prole background but made an effort to cultivate an interest in world events and (to some degree) art/culture."
Prole background definitely matters, and to many people (myself included) it's a dealbreaker nearly 100% of the time. To be the exception and not the rule, the OP can't just cultivate a cursory interest in art/culture. She has to make the effort to look non-prole and act non-prole. Throw away those God-awful hoop earrings. Go to an expensive hairdresser and get a more natural dye job. Wear conservative (but not too casual) clothes which fit and are well made. Cotton. Cashmere. Wool. No dark eye makeup. No glitter. Take pride in your appearance. Avoid anything with a conspicuous logo. Avoid hair extensions. If you speak with an accent, don't. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:33 AM Author: flesh den My appearance doesn't look prole, in general. That was just a silly photo of me on vacation. Geez. That's only one photo.
It's not a dye job, I'm a natural blonde.
It's mostly my complete LACK Of knowledge of things and lack of any hobbies that gives me away. Also maybe my culinary skills and lack of knowledge about food. I don't know much about food at all. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:37 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund You stank of prole in that photo, no offense. You are a pretty girl with a lot to work with. But something about your hair, clothes, makeup and general appearance made me think you were originally lower-middle class.
Your hair looks damaged. That is why I thought it was dyed.
At the very least get rid of those hoop earrings. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:46 AM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse JUST LOL
there is no way that your hair in that picture is naturally blonde. I can see the brown roots on the side. Also, it's dyed. Your hair is dyed.
Flame jumped shark (again) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:19 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund This. OP should read How to Win Friends and Influence People.
If you try to make yourself sound impressive, you may succeed in genuinely impressing some people, but you'll turn off many people and a lot of other people just won't care. The way to make people like you is to ask them questions - show a genuine interest in them and what their interests are.
And (1) is so true. I consider myself a smart dood and while I do want to be with an equally smart girl, I don't want someone who's constantly proving her smarts to me. I don't want someone who is trying to match wits with me all the time. I want someone that I can have fun with, who can chill me out when I'm stressed about shit and is just a joy to be around. Most likely that person will also be very smart, but showing you're a joy to be around isn't the same as showing off your intelligence. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:22 AM Author: flesh den I actually HAVE read that book. I know that. I don't talk about myself a lot in person. I ask questions and show an interest.
I just aren't particularly interesting, in my own opinion. I am not exactly a joy to be around because I'm often stressed out. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:33 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund Most people aren't that interesting. Go up to 10 random doods and doodettes on the subway and chances are that none of them has ran a marathon in the middle of the desert, or gotten shitfaced with Mongolian gangsters, or gone heliskiing in Siberia, or hob-nobbed with European royals and Olympic gold medalists, or gotten thrown into a Southeast Asian prison.
A lot of people are also stressed. But misery loves company. Find a way to release that stress, maybe through exercise. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:45 AM Author: flesh den yeah i'm not talking about that level of interesting. i don't have any interests besides going to the gym & reading the newspaper, if those can even be considered interests. I don't watch TV. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132183) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:48 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund You sound like most people. People don't go around talking about their hobbies and interests with other people, unless they're part of an interest group which shares those interests. Triathletes won't talk triathlon with non-triathletes and so on.
When I first meet someone, here's how the conversation normally goes. We talk about where we both are from and where we went to school. We then see if we have mutual friends from high school/college. We talk about sports (either college or pro), which is very useful if the person went to a sports school. Sports is always a fail-safe topic. Most everyone will have an opinion of Notre Dame in the national championship. Travel is also a safe topic (IRL is not XO). People love to talk about places they've been recently that they loved. When I can't think of what to talk about with someone, I stick with sports and travel. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:51 AM Author: flesh den I know nothing about sports and because I'm prole, I haven't travelled... #fail. Also I don't watch TV. I need to be more normal. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132204) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 1:02 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund You don't need to know anything to ASK questions.
Here's a typical conversation:
"Where did you go to school?"
"USC"
"South Carolina or Southern California?"
"The latter"
"Must've been a lot of fun, going to school in LA"
"Yeah, it was awesome."
"What did you like best about it?"
"The weather, solid sports and the quality of the girls."
"Would you ever move back there?"
"Nah, I'm too much of an East Coaster to appreciate LA. I don't like driving and sprawl even though I loved the beach."
"Where in the East Coast are you from?"
"New England, although I currently live in New York."
"What do you like best about NY?"
"You get to meet people from all over the world, and it's easy to travel to the Caribbean, South America and Europe. We went to Buenos Aires last year."
"I've never been to Buenos Aires, what's that like?"
"Amazing steak, great exchange rate, beautiful women. I highly recommend it, as well as other parts of Argentina."
"Like what parts of Argentina?"
SEE HOW EASY THIS IS - YOU DON'T NEED TO KNOW A DAMN THING ABOUT THE TOPICS YOU ASK QUESTIONS ON! |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:30 AM Author: flesh den yeah I engage people in conversation like this all the time. Hasn't helped me be less single. :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133101) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:27 AM Author: sable vibrant hospital cuckold 180 breh.
describe this female using any entertainer/actress. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:16 AM Author: translucent dashing spot I can't be bothered to read this, I just see there are no more pics. is this that hofstra girl? she seems pretty sick in the head but cute (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131923) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:22 AM Author: flesh den No, I never went to Hofstra. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22131972) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:55 AM Author: arrogant prole what do you look like? I am confused as to why there are all these blank posts. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132219) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 1:22 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund nah that's gracekelly/on the run. i thought this could have been her but she hates older men. could still be some of her flame tho. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132338) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:51 AM Author: insecure milky stock car lol people are still engaging the doobs. just lol. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132202) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:55 AM Author: flesh den ok seriously going to bed now. thanks for your thoughts. night. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132221) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 1:00 AM Author: arrogant prole can you post the pics you posted above again so we can just understand what everyone is talking about. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132233) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:40 AM Author: flesh den i only posted one pic last night. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133129) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 1:03 AM Author: arrogant prole can someone please post her picture again for the late night crowd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22132254) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:30 AM Author: flesh den it's been removed from tinypic now. sorry. I'm at work and can't post pics. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133103) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:34 AM Author: Sooty telephone http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2le2ab&s=6 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133115) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:39 AM Author: henna kitchen mediation are u kidding me? if so, the most attractive girl to ever poast on xo. she's a hot amanda seyfried. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133128) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:42 AM Author: flesh den wow, thanks. I think Amanda Seyfried is way hotter than me though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133137) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:49 AM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse Amanda Seyfried has a weird face (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133155) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:54 AM Author: henna kitchen mediation you take that back (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133162) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 5:56 PM Author: Shivering Flushed Corner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22135664) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:25 AM Author: arrogant prole Any other pics, possibly one full body and showing your face from a different angle?
That said, even if that is the best picture of you ever, you shouldn't have trouble finding someone. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:33 AM Author: flesh den ok here
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Date: November 29th, 2012 11:06 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund You should not have trouble finding anyone, whether your age, 56, or anywhere inbetween. It's a mental thing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133492) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 11:08 AM Author: flesh den I'm scared I won't find anyone past 30-35. why do you say this? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133499) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:22 PM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse your hair isn't blonde. looks like red/light brown or perhaps strawberry blonde (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133862) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 11:50 AM Author: henna kitchen mediation if you're 5'10", then the guy standing next to you is like 6'5". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133717) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:44 AM Author: flesh den I'm going to start online dating soon. I'm so depressed and feel so insecure. Like something is wrong with me. I don't know anymore. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133141) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:48 AM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse stop poasting.
You obviously succeeded in getting a huge thread out of your flame. Don't push it. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:57 AM Author: Sooty telephone the only people he succeeded in flaming are aspie xoxoers who are the easiest people in the world to flame. i was telling this faggot to kill himself all along. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133163) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:02 AM Author: flesh den I'm not flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133174) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:06 AM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse Yeah and you're a natural blonde too. *rolls eyes* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133182) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:06 AM Author: henna kitchen mediation disregard this losers. amazingly, most people who poast here are <25 y.o. so as i'm sure you can appreciate, not exactly the mature male type. i'm one of the old holdovers from the PR days. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133185) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:13 AM Author: Sooty telephone kill yourself immediately. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133217) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:14 AM Author: henna kitchen mediation lol at this house millennial inferiority complex. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133218) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:18 AM Author: Sooty telephone you are a tremendous loser bro. your desperation is lulzy. "she" is not going to fuck you the same way no other woman will. now run along and try to find a confirmed irl girl to reject you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133234) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 11:52 AM Author: henna kitchen mediation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133730) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:31 AM Author: flesh den I just did nothing at work for the last 1.5 hrs. I am the biggest failure ever. My depression is really getting in the way... I need to cure this.
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:58 AM Author: arrogant prole Go to a psychologist ASAP (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133430) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:59 AM Author: flesh den I went to one the other day for an initial intake assessment. She said that I have depression and will recommend to my family doc to prescribe stuff. There's a whole process for that, the system is fucking backlogged/stupid, but hopefully I should get it within the next week. I just feel like dying. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133441) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:11 PM Author: arrogant prole you need talk therapy, not meds, IMO. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133825) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:32 AM Author: flesh den Here's a (better) pic of me:
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:35 AM Author: exhilarant codepig wanna rub clits? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133330) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:38 AM Author: Drab national boistinker I rate you: doobs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133340) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:41 AM Author: arrogant prole You are obviously good looking enough. The problem is that clearly that you are only attracted to people out of your league or to people who don't want to settle down. You should definitely go to a psychologist. I just started going to one and it is awesome. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133349) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:57 AM Author: flesh den why are they 'out of my league'? Due to personality or looks? I'm not that ugly...
I am scheduled to see a psych, but it can take at least 3 months before I see one.
edit: why are you seeing a psych? depression-related issues? |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 11:05 AM Author: arrogant prole You aren't nearly good looking enough that you can coast on looks. You are merely good enough looking to snag a good enough looking guy if everything else is acceptable. And you seem to have aspie issues and other issues that you need to work out which might not be acceptable.
That and you really do dress like a prole. Most professionals aren't going to be into that. I would seriously hire a style consultant and get your hair did by a professional.
Generally I would focus on yourself. Not on what men you can get. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 11:07 AM Author: flesh den Thanks. I think that's very sound advice. But I've been focusing on myself for years and now i'm 28 and never been in a relationship. I feel like I need someone. I'm not particularly lonely but ... i feel this sense of wanting someone. Like I need it. Maybe societal expectations influencing me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133495) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 11:08 AM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund "Generally I would focus on yourself. Not on what men you can get."
This.
"That and you really do dress like a prole. Most professionals aren't going to be into that."
This.
Everyhing else you said is bullshit. She is gorgeous, at least a 7 (i.e. "average" hot), and is in range to get the most preftigious of doods if the compatibility is there. She does need to work on how she dresses, which is 100% prole.
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Date: November 29th, 2012 11:20 AM Author: flesh den well i am 'prole'...I don't come from a wealthy/upper class family. I do wear nice clothes for work. But I will work on this... thanks.
EDIT: I almost agree with what the poster above said though. If I have an awkward/introverted personality, i'm not sure i'm in a position to get 'prestigious' guys. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:00 PM Author: henna kitchen mediation your clothes would only be considered "prole" in uptight, striverish, shrewish east coast settings like MFH. you wouldn't be out of place in those clothes anywhere on the west coast. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133781) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 9:01 PM Author: Chrome Mind-boggling Trust Fund I've spent a significant amount of time on the West Coast and her clothes would still be considered prole/beach trash on the West Coast. She'd stick out like a sore thumb in, say, San Diego, certain cities in Orange County, or at USC. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22136991) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 11:28 AM Author: arrogant prole I didn't say she wasn't good looking. Just not good looking enough to coast on looks with good looking prestigious people that she is trying to get. She isn't 9 or anything where she could be a serial killer and people will fall all over her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133608) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 11:46 AM Author: flesh den why do you suggest 'focusing on myself' rather than trying to be social and meet new people... don't you think keeping myself alone/isolated forever may be doing me a disservice? that said, dating ppl i have no compatibility with, may not help either. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133685) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:01 PM Author: arrogant prole you should be social and meet new people. just forget about focusing on guys or dating. that was what I was saying. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133783) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:16 PM Author: flesh den Why should I forget about it? I was going to try online dating. But maybe I should just focus on my interests and start actively dating in a few months. Fml (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133844) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:21 PM Author: arrogant prole "But maybe I should just focus on my interests and start actively dating in a few months. "
Right. That is what I meant by focusing on yourself. Still go out and meet new people, just don't date or focus on going out to find guys. The rest should come. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:23 PM Author: flesh den so i shouldn't do online dating? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133868) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:25 PM Author: arrogant prole I would say no. You don't need to be dating until you get your shit together.
What about moving out of your parent's house? That surely is not good for a 28 year old. Get some roommates. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:27 PM Author: flesh den I don't have enough money for that now... i have so much debt. My parents don't have a college education and my mom doesn't work, so it's tough. Also my mom is pretty sick so I need to be there to help her.
Thanks, I think you're right though. I need to get my shit together first.
Also I had a roommate in my 3L year. It didn't work out that well - she was really wealthy, put-together, had a bf, pretentious... didn't want much to do with me. Unless you have a good roommate, it won't help you be more 'social' necessarily. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 6:03 PM Author: flesh den I feel like I need sex and someone in my life. Some sort of companionship though. Never felt that til now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22135710) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:03 PM Author: henna kitchen mediation (Mitt Romney)
seriously, no woman who is independently successful is going to want to be with a guy who demands the blow-dried, trophy wife type. those women tend to be boring as shit and it says something about a guy who desires that stuff. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:08 PM Author: arrogant prole I am not saying that. But her looks are seriously hampered by her style and hair. If she want a good looking successful guy she is going to have to think a little more about what she looks like. As I said, she is good looking, but not good looking enough to blow off this type of stuff. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133813) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:15 PM Author: flesh den I am becoming convinced that I can't get good looking, successful guys until I become more 'normal', cultured and develop more interests . Right now I'm too abnormal . (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133838) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:19 PM Author: arrogant prole I think that would help...at least the developing more interests part. But being quirky isn't bad.
As of now I am sure you can do really well with proles, but from what I can tell you don't want that. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:23 PM Author: flesh den I don't get along with most "prole" type of guys. The last guy i was dating wasn't a professional though, but he went to a good college. Just not a very academic type of guy at all. but we stopped dating due to long distance. If the guy is smart, but not prestigious/pretentious, that's fine. May actually make me more comfortable and less like I have to 'perform' to get them to like me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133864) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:55 AM Author: Narrow-minded senate Nice pic you have there, doobs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133398) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 11:10 AM Author: Mentally impaired gaping nursing home I missed all the other pics. Do you use a full smile in any of them? It's good to smile for realz.
Are you a natural blond(e)? |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 11:20 AM Author: flesh den yes i am a natural blonde. I get highlights sometimes to make my hair lighter, but I've always been blonde. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133563) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:19 PM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse that's not what you said above. You said you didn't dye your hair.
Sorry you have to backtrack to cover your shitty flame. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:22 PM Author: flesh den Right, I didn't dye my hair because it's natural blonde. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133859) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:24 PM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse in the post above you said you got highlights.
What is in hightlights if not dye?
Also, you have bleached blonde hair in your first picture that is markedly different than the red/strawberry blonde/dirty blonde hair you have in your second picture.
sorry about your shitty flame |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:25 PM Author: flesh den i've done some stuff to my hair over the years, in terms of highlights, but I've been a blonde since a kid. I have baby pics that can prove it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133883) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:28 PM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse lol everyone has blonde hair as a kid.
It's becoming apparent that you don't know what blonde hair actually is. Also you stated above that you didn't dye your hair and that you're a natural blonde, which contradicts what you said here. Highlights=dyeing your hair. ALSO your first pic has you with bleach blonde hair, and I don't care what your explanation is. It's obvious and obvious flame is obvious.
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:31 PM Author: flesh den just because I had highlights at some points in my life doesn't mean I'm not 'blonde'. I've ALWAYS been blonde. If I said I dyed my hair, you'd assume that meant I was brunnette when I am blonde. Blondes bleach their hair - that doesn't maen they're not blonde to begin with. If you think i'm flame, why do you bother reading this thread? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133903) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:36 PM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse lol why would we assume that? you said you didn't dye your hair. now you say you do, why? oh because you're flame.
I didn't say you're not blonde because you had highlights in (dyed) your hair. I said it because I saw your picture with greasy strawberry blonde/red hair and made the determination that the color of your hair is not blonde, no matter what mental gymnastics you use to see that. Your hair is blonde in the first picture because of dye. Sorry.
Sorry about your shitty hair color. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:45 PM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse Oh, and another thing.
You have a bad hip to waist ratio. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 11:00 AM Author: Fragrant Violet Indian Lodge Quadroon nice flame, Box (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133446) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:28 PM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133895) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 11:03 AM Author: flesh den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133466) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:20 PM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse shouldn't you be doing practice test for civ pro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133853) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:24 PM Author: flesh den that was like 2 years ago. I'm a lawyer now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133874) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:26 PM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse you took civ pro during your 2L year? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133885) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:25 PM Author: saffron factory reset button base holy shit... wtf is this thread... someone needs their meds... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133878) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:26 PM Author: flesh den lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133884) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:31 PM Author: Spruce stag film oooo grrrrrrllll! how would you feel about shacking up with a younger poaster? |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:33 PM Author: flesh den no (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133910) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:34 PM Author: flesh den i think i'm going crazy. i need to get off this board for now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22133914) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 12:36 PM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse Bye.
See you in a few minutes as Box. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 5:13 PM Author: henna kitchen mediation DOOBS IP TRAP (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22135329) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 5:53 PM Author: pearl charismatic office digit ratio 400 fucking poasts? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22135628) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 6:00 PM Author: stirring brethren main people i only saw that pic with the blue skirt your fashion sense is S.P.S. |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 6:03 PM Author: pearl charismatic office digit ratio i only saw the one with the bunny ears on the cut out; she is cute and definitely my look (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22135714) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 8:10 PM Author: henna kitchen mediation this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22136725) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 6:20 PM Author: Glassy Territorial Dilemma What the fuck is going on in here? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22135830) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 6:21 PM Author: Adventurous pale electric furnace whorehouse Box and a few of her pumos flaming everyone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22135839) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 8:12 PM Author: henna kitchen mediation she's the hottest girl to poast on xo since saltybabe. and judging by her personality ITT, she could've cleared the field of all the arrogant xo female shrews. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22136740) |
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Date: November 29th, 2012 10:38 PM Author: Shivering Flushed Corner Are you saying "she's" male? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22137895) |
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Date: November 30th, 2012 10:16 AM Author: henna kitchen mediation i still can't believe "Guys at HBS did that all the time. It was NBD," was criticizing OP for her tank top and jean miniskirt outfit being "prole" - it was hot as fuck while being casual. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22140324) |
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Date: November 30th, 2012 11:48 PM Author: flesh den Thanks. As if I care about xo's fashion sense anyway. lolz. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22144624) |
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Date: November 30th, 2012 11:51 PM Author: Unhinged fighting field giraffe just post more pics of this girl, doobs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22144642) |
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Date: November 30th, 2012 11:56 PM Author: vigorous buff keepsake machete This was a bizarre thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22144682) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2012 1:33 AM Author: Shivering Flushed Corner So did anyone find more pics? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22150634) |
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Date: March 16th, 2013 5:21 PM Author: Narrow-minded senate Checking in, hoping for an update (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22828574) |
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Date: March 16th, 2013 5:23 PM Author: Grizzly Indecent Crackhouse prefers the d (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#22828583) |
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Date: March 23rd, 2015 6:44 PM Author: deranged shimmering market (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#27542766) |
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Date: December 26th, 2015 12:59 PM Author: Magenta Wild Site Associate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#29456388) |
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Date: February 28th, 2016 7:31 PM Author: purple bawdyhouse *gives her a (belated) flower* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2124976&forum_id=2#29939188) |