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Ex-GF just restricted access to FB profile...
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:28 PM Author: Apoplectic address We've been broken up about 2 months and I just noticed I can longer view her pictures or see her current wall posts. She's not a big FB user or anything so it's a little odd. We haven't spoken since the break up save for a few logistical emails about returning things, etc. I wouldn't say I'm completely over her but I'm certainly not pining away, trying to get back together with her or anything.
I certainly wouldn't mind fucking her again though....probably not something that would happen for 6 months to a year at the earliest. What's the most alpha move here to preserve that possibility? Ignore it? Call her out? De-friend her? |
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Date: May 17th, 2013 12:19 AM Author: aphrodisiac heaven therapy are you 100% sure she didn't just remove her pictures and remove her wall posts (for everybody)? i've called someone out before on limiting my access to their profile and it turned out they just removed the pictures entirely (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23214432) |
Date: May 16th, 2013 10:28 PM Author: Pink Toilet Seat did she break up with you? are you guys still fb friends? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213506) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:37 PM Author: Apoplectic address Yeah, obviously we're still friends....I couldn't see anything or have the possibility of defriending her if we weren't. She basically broke up me...it was a bad situation, living in different cities. She wouldn't pull the trigger but was constantly complaining about how it wasn't working, would act weird when we saw each other, etc. Finally, I just had to cut the cord but clearly she initiated it.
She's not the slutty type but definitely the type who can't go too long without a bf so I wouldn't be surprised if she is trying to hide pictures of her with a new dude or something. The fact that she is trying to hide that from me rather than rubbing it in my face has to mean something. |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:40 PM Author: Pink Toilet Seat ignore it is the best option, but none of them seem liek they will work (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213594) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:46 PM Author: Apoplectic address Yeah, I doubt it really matters either way. I'm just intrigued that she wants to hide her new dude from me rather than rub it in my face, trying to figure out what it means....obviously she thought of me and made the conscious decision to protect me from this information. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213649) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:47 PM Author: Pink Toilet Seat how do you know there is a new guy involved? thats just speculation. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213659) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:49 PM Author: Apoplectic address Just speculation....I mean its not like I ever post on her wall or anything so she would have no reason to restrict my access. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213678) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:51 PM Author: Pink Toilet Seat i tend to delete chicks i stop dating just so i don't wonder about them and move on (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213698) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:48 PM Author: hairless hunting ground state it's more likely that she's hiding pics of you and her from the new guy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213675) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:33 PM Author: Chest-beating kitty expert tip: you won't fuck her again (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213542) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:39 PM Author: Apoplectic address I've never not fucked an ex-gf after a breakup so that would go against the odds. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213585) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:35 PM Author: floppy box office new version Yeah, definitely confront her about limiting your access to her Facebook page, that's the alpha move. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213553) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:38 PM Author: Apoplectic address Should I post nude pictures of her on her wall instead? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213581) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:39 PM Author: floppy box office new version Yes, but only at night after you're reasonably sure she's asleep. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213589) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:38 PM Author: Poppy plaza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213582) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:40 PM Author: Lilac Regret She's lickin sucking and fucking other ( afro) men. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213592) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:43 PM Author: Apoplectic address I'm sure she is. It doesn't bother me so much. I mean on some deep, primal level it does I guess but like I said I'm over the relationship. She's cute and a good fuck but I don't really want to get back together, just preserve the possibility of a booty call. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213635) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:44 PM Author: Lilac Regret I'm just kidding bro ur fine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213641) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:44 PM Author: Pink Toilet Seat If it truly didn't bother you that much you wouldn't have made a poast about it right now or thought about it for more than 10 seconds. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213644) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:48 PM Author: Apoplectic address I'm more intrigued than bothered. I find it interesting....I mean it's still pretty fresh so I'm not going to pretend I never think about her or I'm completely over her but I'm not torn up about it or anything. I hooked up with a girl last weekend, I'm moving on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213671) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:51 PM Author: Pink Toilet Seat it could be completely unrelated brother. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213697) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:52 PM Author: Lilac Regret Jeremy Sweet-Treat? Is that you, Moist Pumpkin? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213707) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:54 PM Author: Pink Toilet Seat i struck you out three times in high school (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213718) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:52 PM Author: Apoplectic address shit I just remembered I actually have her FB password...should I log in and get to the bottom of this? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213708) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:53 PM Author: Lilac Regret Yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213717) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:54 PM Author: Pink Toilet Seat yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213722) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:59 PM Author: Apoplectic address HOLY SHIT -- just did this and saw that as of yesterday she is now "in a relationship with XYZ" That she is in a relationship does not surprise me at all, she is the kind of girl who can't go more than a few weeks without a BF.
The fact that it is on FB though is kinda crazy. In our 1.5 year relationship we never posted shit on facebook and would actively make fun of people who did--she claimed any dude on needed to validate a relationship was lame and insecure. This is almost too good. |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 11:20 PM Author: Razzle-dazzle people who are hurt persian She can see where she's logged in from, so if you sign in from a weird location, she may get an email
To be safe, go into facebook settings and log her out of any wayward locations |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 11:23 PM Author: Apoplectic address No worries bro, she's not tech savvy and I am. She doesn't have the email notifications set up and I have VPN anyway for torrenting so even if she saw something fishy it wouldn't trace to be. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213922) |
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Date: May 17th, 2013 2:10 AM Author: indigo tattoo step-uncle's house What's in her FB inbox? If anything, that should be the most revealing.
Also, if she has an iPhone that backs up to iCloud, I can probably pull down all her pics / txts for you. |
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Date: May 17th, 2013 9:55 AM Author: Apoplectic address Eh, I'm really not interested in stalking her this hard. I don't care that much, I'm moving on, just wanted to know what prompted this strange behavior from her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23216088) |
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Date: May 17th, 2013 12:17 AM Author: Maroon comical internal respiration just block her back and stop thinking about it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23214411) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:53 PM Author: mint marvelous hospital travel guidebook sucks bro. my ex removed a couple of pictures of us from facebook. no clue why. better off not asking or wondering. fuck her and her new loser boyfriend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213714) |
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Date: May 16th, 2013 10:55 PM Author: Apoplectic address Interestingly pictures of me and her are some of the only pictures that I can now see. Not sure if the restrictions are based on the album or what. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23213730) |
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Date: May 17th, 2013 12:10 AM Author: Coral spot Depending in how Alpha/beta you were she still has feelings for you or is trying to make sure your not hurt
Also could be trying to use the rebound to provoke you into action- like a typical animal would do. |
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Date: May 17th, 2013 12:20 AM Author: Maroon comical internal respiration no, she is not doing this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23214439) |
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Date: May 17th, 2013 12:23 AM Author: odious gas station antidepressant drug you shouldn't be accessing it enough to glean such information (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23214465) |
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Date: May 17th, 2013 8:22 AM Author: Internet-worthy school There's a new guy. She's a decent person and doesn't want to rub it in your face. Or she knows your the type of person to confront her about the new guy (either in a friendly or stalkerish way) and she doesn't want to deal with it.
I have done the exact same thing with my exes.
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Date: May 17th, 2013 9:31 AM Author: Dashing Confused Affirmative Action God this reminds me how much I hate facebook.
This shit used to be so simple. Date. Break up. Move on. Only find new information out if you actively ask around.
Now it's like a big strategic mindfuck. Block an ex, strategically allow them to see pics of your new hottie to make them jealous, etc. |
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Date: May 17th, 2013 9:43 AM Author: Bat shit crazy pisswyrm She: getting her pipes reemed by a half dozen different BBDs weekly. You: poast (and FAP to pillow GF) |
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Date: May 17th, 2013 9:54 AM Author: Bright maniacal abode One of my ex's defriended me when we broke up, claimed she couldn't handle seeing me w other girls, whatever. She left ALL of the pictures up and tagged from our 4 year relationship though. Seems weird as fuck because she's engaged now. If i was her fiance I woulnt want hundreds of pictures of my future wife w her ex on fbook. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23216087) |
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Date: May 17th, 2013 9:59 AM Author: Multi-colored twinkling friendly grandma Girl: "That's a part of my life"
"its too emotional to take them down"
"you need to accept me for who I am"
*Cries*
Dood: Uh, ok, whatever...
(the way things have worked since the beginning of time) |
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Date: May 17th, 2013 10:04 AM Author: Bright maniacal abode Works for me. I never take pictures and don't want to download those so if she yanked them i'd basically have no photo record of several years of my life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2258038&forum_id=2#23216122) |