GF flipping out during bar prep
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Date: May 29th, 2013 11:19 AM Author: Avocado macaca
Long term relationship, living together for 4 years, things are generally good. I'm in the middle of bar prep and got a little behind over the weekend because I was out of town.
She called me yesterday evening while I was studying and asked how things were going. I had just bombed some multi states so I was feeling irritated so I told her it was going shitty. She then asked me about some other shit but I was annoyed and short so she said "I'm just gonna let u go."
She texted me about some misc stuff like no big deal. I came home last night and walk up to give her a kiss and she pulls back and goes "no, aren't you gonna apologize?" I go "for what, I never insulted you or treated u like shit in any manner, I was short on the phone because I was irritated." She says no that's not gonna work. I say "you're really gonna do this right now." She says yeah, u need to apologize.
I fucking lost it on her, said I can't believe you're starting shit with me in the middle of bar prep because you're so selfish that you can't let your annoyance go and just move on. It turned into somewhat of a blowout. I left, came back later that night once she was in bed, slept on couch and while I was leaving early this morning she started it up again. I walked out but she called me while on her way to work. I said sorry if I hurt your feelings, but I think you are being incredibly selfish and u can never let shit go... Etc etc. she went on about how much I hurt her, etc etc and I need to apologize for everything. I basically said I'm not gonna apologize because I called you out on your shit... Etc etc. she got off the phone at work sobbing.
What do I do brothers? I'm legitimately pissed that she decided to make an issue out of me being irritated on the phone. Chicks are bitchy at least once a week and dudes just let it go, but flip it around and it's "not ok." I'm rarely this fired up about something so I'm not really backing down at all.
Should I ATD her, wait for her to apologize?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2268362&forum_id=2#23291079) |
Date: May 29th, 2013 11:22 AM Author: Navy lascivious marketing idea kitty cat
tl;dr more than your subject line, but this shit is beyond predictable. The bar has become more important than her so she is going to POUT AND FUSS AND THROW TANTRUMS AND FUCK SHIT UP until you make her no. 1 again. Like a fucking child.
Count on major freak-outs the week before the test.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2268362&forum_id=2#23291102) |
Date: May 29th, 2013 11:25 AM Author: Exhilarant magenta old irish cottage legal warrant
gotta stand your ground bro, if she doesn't stop, zimmerhero her ass
but in all seriousness, if you play it right she will eventually apologize to you, but you're going to have to make some bitch move and act like she hurt your feelings
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2268362&forum_id=2#23291126) |
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Date: May 29th, 2013 11:31 AM Author: Avocado macaca
I love this place for shit like this... Every once in a while this place comes through with actual helpful advice.
I agree about the bitch move thing, I'm sorta setting the groundwork for it by saying how I can't believe she'd start all this shit right now and add additional stress, etc etc.
To the above posters, it's not so much that I'm legitimately freaking out about the bar, it's that I anticipate this happening again if I don't set the boundary now that's she gonna have to stop being a whiny little bitch for the next two months. No way I want to deal with this shit closer to the bar. Rather deal with a blowout now, making her feel like a selfish bitch and have her be on good behavior for the next couple months.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2268362&forum_id=2#23291173) |
Date: May 29th, 2013 11:34 AM Author: arousing stag film
She's literally CRYING to her work friends.
Game over bro.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2268362&forum_id=2#23291198) |
Date: May 29th, 2013 11:36 AM Author: adventurous heaven boltzmann
If she's pulling this shit already, there is no way your relationship makes it past the bar. No fucking way.
Wait until you fall behind, and have to catch up, so you stop showering, grow out a huge finals beards, and find yourself so strapped for time that taking a shit feels like a huge waste of time, so you study on the toilet.
Ok, maybe that's a little extreme. Maybe I shouldn't have waited until the 8th of july...
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2268362&forum_id=2#23291209) |
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Date: May 29th, 2013 11:45 AM Author: adventurous heaven boltzmann
You need to sit her down calmly and be like "bitch, you are going to ruin my fucking LIFE if you keep going on like this." Then, hand her a printout of diesel bar failure threads over the past couple of years and be like "do you want me to end up like this? What the fuck is wrong with you?"
BTW, just realize that she WILL cuck you while you have your nose buried in a secured transactions book, because she needs DAT ATTENTION.
On a serious note, some girls are needy. And sometimes that's a good thing - better than being bitchy/cold/shrewy. But this is a time that you need to focus on the bar, or it will only get worse. Explain to her that you love her, but you will not be available for her the way you have been, because you are preoccupied with the bar. But let her know that it's not about her, and that you are excited about all this being over soon, and getting your relationship to where it was before the bar.
If she keeps badgering you after this, ATD.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2268362&forum_id=2#23291280) |
Date: May 29th, 2013 12:33 PM Author: metal hospital philosopher-king
CAWGs gonna CAWG. My girl did similar shit each finals season during 1L. Got progressively better each year. Was chill during bar prep.
You are a faggot for being upset about bar prep in May, but your girl is also being a (predictable) cunt. You need to put her in her place so she understands sometimes you have shit that needs to get done, even if she wants to get ice cream and watch yet another SATC rerun.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2268362&forum_id=2#23291499) |
Date: May 29th, 2013 4:31 PM Author: Avocado macaca
should I text her
"Look, next two months are gonna suck for both of us. Need to pass this test so I can start my career and thus our life together. I may not always be pleasant but you're just gonna need to let some stuff go."
Or should I just stoically proceed onward without saying a word and let her call/text me.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2268362&forum_id=2#23292923)
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Date: May 29th, 2013 4:38 PM Author: Avocado macaca
Although I think the dude a little while ago was posting about his gf flipping out during 1L year although she sounded substantially more unhinged and fucked.
The general consensus there was ATD.
Here it seems the general consensus has been to just lay down the law but don't be surprised if more whineyness, craziness shows up in the coming months.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2268362&forum_id=2#23292977) |
Date: May 30th, 2013 12:35 AM Author: Purple party of the first part
a normal gf would be lovingly supporting you, giving you back massages, making sure you were well-fed and had plenty of time and space to study, fyi
sounds like you're stuck with a shrew kike
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Date: May 30th, 2013 1:04 AM Author: Histrionic lilac love of her life base
shit, i guess my chick is really cool. she brings me a drink whenever i call out for one, she keeps the volume on the tv down, she doesnt needle me about how things are going, she leaves me alone all day, and she has indicated the desire and willingness to give me stress BJs throughout this process
she's even headed off phone calls from my mom and sis and told them i was too busy to talk because im in the middle of bar prep.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2268362&forum_id=2#23296579) |
Date: May 30th, 2013 1:38 AM Author: Effete vermilion forum sneaky criminal
she sounds annoying.
but you're a huge fucking faggot if you lose your temper on the phone over NOTHING. it's still fucking may and you're actually pissed about not kicking ass on a couple of shitty MBE sets? kill yourself.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2268362&forum_id=2#23296809) |
Date: May 30th, 2013 10:30 AM Author: slimy kitchen
lol did you even fuck her ass last night? dick size?
[dudes who can't lay pipe's problems]
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Date: May 30th, 2013 3:35 PM Author: Avocado macaca
UPDATE: No communication at all yesterday during the day except a text at night asking what I wanted for dinner. Came home and she was making dinner, didn't say a word about the fight or any other bullshit, totally let it go.
Maybe she won't go as psycho as originally thought.
To posters calling me a massive faggot or gunner for getting stressed this early, I was only stressed because I got like 3 full days behind and had to catch up. Law school I barely did shit, but I figure the bar I probably shouldn't fuck around with because having to take it twice would be hell.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2268362&forum_id=2#23299126) |
Date: May 30th, 2013 4:04 PM Author: Violet french chef indian lodge
Bro, the bar is EASY. I started studying FOR THE FIRST TIME AT ALL around July 10 for a end of July test. I something like a 174 MBE, which is way above what you need to pass. It does not take a lot of time or effort to pass the bar...barbri overprepares students because they have fourth tier retards in their classes and to justify the fee (I bought 2 year old barbri books on craigslist for $100)
Second, you were the one being the douche here. This isn't a question of asserting alphaness, you acted like a whiny little faggot and should have apologized. The time to dad your ho around is when she starts acting crazy for no good reason, not when she has a legitimate grievance.
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Date: May 30th, 2013 4:26 PM Author: Self-centered Razzle Associate
Oh my god, doesn't she know you have to WATCH VIDEOS ONLINE and read books?!!?!?!
You're under so much fucking stress! The nerve of her interrupting your very beginning work that is at your leisure.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2268362&forum_id=2#23299430) |
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