Worth Dating Girl who Won't Sleep With You?
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:02 PM Author: bronze theater
Since the beginning of July I've been seeing this girl. I won't call it any more than that because I don't think there is anything more than that. I've gone out with her 3 times, all casual affairs where I'd text her a few hours (or less) beforehand and we'd grab a drink. We'd come back to my place where we'd mess around, but no sex or even no blowjobs.
The last time I saw her (before I left for vacation), she doesn't come up to my place afterwards and says jokingly, "next time take me on a real date".
She's pretty hot, fun, has a very direct way of speaking which I find refreshing, and we have similar values and are into the same kinds of shit.
I haven't seen her in a few weeks. I went on vacation, and didn't hear from her while I was on vacation. Just now she sends me a text going "happy Labor day weekend, hope you're spending it in the sea and sun! Just wanted to say hello."
What are my chances of banging this girl? Is she playing some kind of game where she holds out for sex until she gets a dinner date or something like that?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969347) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:05 PM Author: bronze theater
What do you mean by that?
Are girls like this generally not worth dating or relationship material, in your opinion?
We have several mutual acquaintances and one of her really good friends (who introduced us) is friends with a bunch of people I know well.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969360) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:14 PM Author: bronze theater
I just don't know how much I'm into her now that I know it'll take work to sleep with her. Maybe I'm not in a frame of mind for a relationship.
As for how "great" she is, I dunno. My family has a lot more money than hers (although she is very "classy", much more so than many people I know who come from wealth) and she's not my general physical type although I think she's hot as hell, very smart/well educated, we have a lot in common, she fits in well with my friends, and we have similar tastes and sense of humor.
I always just saw myself ending up with someone much, much younger and similarly wealthy. This girl is normal upper middle class. Maybe even middle class.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969406) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:28 PM Author: bronze theater
What should I be focusing on instead?
I'm not looking for a relationship with this girl. I just want to see what I have to do to sleep with her. Her withholding sex has been a major turnoff, and it's also a major turnoff for her to want me to take her to dinner and shit and make plans in advance.
EDIT: I'm not turned off by her socioeconomic status. I have just always dated very different types of girls, in terms of looks and personality.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969459) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 3:45 PM Author: bronze theater
She doesn't have any of the slut "tells" like
- fake nails
- glitter makeup
- tattoos
- fake jewelry (she only wears real jewelry as a rule)
- smoking
- seeking attention
- flirtatiousness/extroversion
- wearing clothes that get your attention
I don't think she's even aware that she's hot.
As for a slutty past, it's impossible to tell. She moved to our city in the beginning of the year and just started hanging out with some of my friends. None of them got the slut vibe from her, but it doesn't mean that she wasn't massively slutty before. Should I assume slut until I hear otherwise, or vice versa?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970119) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:23 PM Author: bronze theater
We've actually scaled back intimacy. When I met her we ended up kissing at the bar and going for late night burgers. I wanted to take her up to my place since it was just around the corner but she declined, and gave me her number instead.
First date ended up with us back at her place and we messed around.
Second date was much of the same except that I was exhausted (had drinks with a friend before I met up with her) and fell asleep.
Third time we hung out she doesn't come up to my place and says jokingly "take me on a real date next time", although we were kissing. In her defense, the third time we hung out was with a group of mutual friends and not an actual date.
She is Christian in that she celebrates Christmas, but isn't religious. Just like me.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969441) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:29 PM Author: bronze theater
Will I have to take her on a real date (which, in her mind, involves me planning in advance and ideally taking her to dinner) in order to fuck her?
If I take her to this one dinner place in the neighborhood that she suggested, will she let me fuck her?
I'm not interested in a relationship with her. She is pretty much the exact opposite of what I'm looking for in a relationship. I just want to see if I can get her in the sack a few times before I drop her.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969471) |
Date: August 31st, 2013 1:06 PM Author: Cobalt round eye
Normally I follow the 3 date rule: If it isn't happening by the 3rd time, it'll never happen.
MAYBE this is an exception - try taking her on a real date that's also relatively cheap. Drink beforehand at your place so she leaves something there that she has to come back and get. But also prepare self for the fact that she may be a prude / have sexual issues and simply be trying to get u to wife her.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969366) |
Date: August 31st, 2013 1:36 PM Author: Provocative nubile site
Put a ring on it brother, you've found the one.
Just don't be surprised when you learn that her newfound hesitation is after the boys at Kappa Delta Te ran a train on her.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969503) |
Date: August 31st, 2013 4:14 PM Author: Trip Gaming Laptop Bawdyhouse
"Let's go on a real date" = Potential keeper.
"Take me on a real date" = Kick this entitled cunt to the curb bro
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970272) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:38 PM Author: bronze theater
She's entitled and cunty because she (albeit jokingly) said that we should go on a real date next time. I don't remember if she said "lets go on a real date" or "take me on a real date" but the gist of it was that she wants me to plan in advance and take her to dinner instead of texting her an hour before and suggesting we meet up for a drink at the local pub.
And maybe once or twice I texted her at 9 or 9:30 while coming home from happy hour, suggesting that we meet up at the local pub. She didn't like that but she did meet up with me once when I did that, which means she'd do it again and I shouldn't have to do more work.
I'm not the best advance planner, but I don't like how she feels entitled to my time or money.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970408) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 5:03 PM Author: bronze theater
The last time we hung out (with mutual friends) she paid for her own drinks, no questions asked.
If she thought she was entitled to free drinks from me, she wouldn't have paid for her own.
Like I said below, I really don't think she thinks she's entitled to free dinners here. Doesnt make it any worse, though.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970554) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:53 PM Author: bronze theater
OP here. This girl has responded to my last-minute invites before. No reason to expect any more from me.
The last time we hung out, she paid for her own drinks.
I honestly don't think this is about money. She didn't suggest a particularly extravagant place (it was a neighborhood ethnic joint that has a reputation for being good value) and she was the one who initially suggested the dive bar that we go to.
My issue with her is that she is making claims on my time, not on my money. I usually date girls who are rich, much younger, and spoiled by their daddies, but these girls look up to me and act more grateful. This girl looks at me and sees through the bullshit.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970509) |
Date: August 31st, 2013 8:08 PM Author: Bat-shit-crazy giraffe office
It was your 3rd date and she thought if she went inside with you, you would expect sex.
She was simply letting you know she isn't going to give it up if she is being treated like a last-minute thought.
The fact that she contacted you after two weeks means she is interested.
But right now she is leery that you are more interested in short term sex than a possible relationship (which sounds correct), and she isn't going to give it up until she thinks otherwise.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23971574) |
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