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Worth Dating Girl who Won't Sleep With You?
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:02 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza Since the beginning of July I've been seeing this girl. I won't call it any more than that because I don't think there is anything more than that. I've gone out with her 3 times, all casual affairs where I'd text her a few hours (or less) beforehand and we'd grab a drink. We'd come back to my place where we'd mess around, but no sex or even no blowjobs.
The last time I saw her (before I left for vacation), she doesn't come up to my place afterwards and says jokingly, "next time take me on a real date".
She's pretty hot, fun, has a very direct way of speaking which I find refreshing, and we have similar values and are into the same kinds of shit.
I haven't seen her in a few weeks. I went on vacation, and didn't hear from her while I was on vacation. Just now she sends me a text going "happy Labor day weekend, hope you're spending it in the sea and sun! Just wanted to say hello."
What are my chances of banging this girl? Is she playing some kind of game where she holds out for sex until she gets a dinner date or something like that? |
Date: August 31st, 2013 1:03 PM Author: razzmatazz school cafeteria zero, doobs. your chances are zero (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969352) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:05 PM Author: Irradiated submissive french chef (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969361) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:26 PM Author: Grizzly temple (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970335) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:03 PM Author: electric alcoholic set karate got to put in the time on this one, brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969353) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:05 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza What do you mean by that?
Are girls like this generally not worth dating or relationship material, in your opinion?
We have several mutual acquaintances and one of her really good friends (who introduced us) is friends with a bunch of people I know well. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:06 PM Author: electric alcoholic set karate depends man. If she is really all that great, this means that she is not a slut, which in my book is a huge plus. If she is sending you hints like this, I might consider taking her out a little more aggressively to see what happens. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969368) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:14 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza I just don't know how much I'm into her now that I know it'll take work to sleep with her. Maybe I'm not in a frame of mind for a relationship.
As for how "great" she is, I dunno. My family has a lot more money than hers (although she is very "classy", much more so than many people I know who come from wealth) and she's not my general physical type although I think she's hot as hell, very smart/well educated, we have a lot in common, she fits in well with my friends, and we have similar tastes and sense of humor.
I always just saw myself ending up with someone much, much younger and similarly wealthy. This girl is normal upper middle class. Maybe even middle class. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:21 PM Author: Overrated Useless Brakes You are a virgin or have never been in an LTR. I can tell because you are way over thinking this comparing wealth, class, and what your friends think about her. Grow up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969433) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:28 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza What should I be focusing on instead?
I'm not looking for a relationship with this girl. I just want to see what I have to do to sleep with her. Her withholding sex has been a major turnoff, and it's also a major turnoff for her to want me to take her to dinner and shit and make plans in advance.
EDIT: I'm not turned off by her socioeconomic status. I have just always dated very different types of girls, in terms of looks and personality. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:31 PM Author: electric alcoholic set karate Her tits
Hth |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:34 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza Her tits are average. "Classy" B cups with very sensitive nipples.
I like a nice, juicy D cup on a natural blonde with a slappable ass. This girl is just the opposite of all that. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 3:33 PM Author: cordovan passionate black woman cruise ship as said in this thread, she's not a slut with this guy, doesn't mean she's not a slut (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970055) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 3:41 PM Author: brilliant dog poop CR I went out with a girl for a short period of time who strung me a long for a few dates until having sex, seemed very into the relationship thing, then slowly I found out via friends a massive slutty past and had to atd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970100) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 3:45 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza She doesn't have any of the slut "tells" like
- fake nails - glitter makeup - tattoos - fake jewelry (she only wears real jewelry as a rule) - smoking - seeking attention - flirtatiousness/extroversion - wearing clothes that get your attention
I don't think she's even aware that she's hot.
As for a slutty past, it's impossible to tell. She moved to our city in the beginning of the year and just started hanging out with some of my friends. None of them got the slut vibe from her, but it doesn't mean that she wasn't massively slutty before. Should I assume slut until I hear otherwise, or vice versa? |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:21 PM Author: brilliant dog poop I wouldn't assume slut but most of those tells are more for prole sluts than anything else. They wouldn't really apply to some blue-state grad from Amherst who managed to ride 60 different men on the cock carousel before graduating and deciding to settle down (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970310) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:24 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza Good point. She's an east coast blue-stater who went to private school and does sports like equestrian and sailing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970323) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:43 PM Author: brilliant dog poop Yea I dunno bro. I dated a girl like this and like I said upthread she turned out to be an unbelievable whore in the past. But you won't really get the true answer on these types until you get to know them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970448) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:04 PM Author: Adventurous private investor magic 8 ball says sex is in your future (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969356) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:05 PM Author: fantasy-prone chocolate principal's office cuckoldry She's following "The Rules" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969359) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:06 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza Isn't that some book for sluts which tells them how to hide their slutty past?
Like how that PUA nonsense is a way to make aspies seem less aspie? |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:06 PM Author: fantasy-prone chocolate principal's office cuckoldry Indeed it is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969367) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:11 PM Author: brilliant dog poop I dunno, it's pretty well established that sexing on the first date will rarely if ever lead to a serious relationship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969400) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:14 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza So this girl is trying to trick me into relationshipping her? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969408) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:16 PM Author: brilliant dog poop That would be my guess (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969412) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:16 PM Author: fantasy-prone chocolate principal's office cuckoldry Or has high self-esteem (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969413) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:18 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza What does self esteem have to do with anything?
And does the fact that she texted me after I haven't seen or heard from her in over 2 weeks mean that she'll be willing to sleep with me now? |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:19 PM Author: fantasy-prone chocolate principal's office cuckoldry Means she feels like she's entertaining enough company that she doesn't have to give it up so soon in a relationship. If she's escalating her intimacy with you, eventually you'll get what you want (unless she's religious) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969430) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:23 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza We've actually scaled back intimacy. When I met her we ended up kissing at the bar and going for late night burgers. I wanted to take her up to my place since it was just around the corner but she declined, and gave me her number instead.
First date ended up with us back at her place and we messed around.
Second date was much of the same except that I was exhausted (had drinks with a friend before I met up with her) and fell asleep.
Third time we hung out she doesn't come up to my place and says jokingly "take me on a real date next time", although we were kissing. In her defense, the third time we hung out was with a group of mutual friends and not an actual date.
She is Christian in that she celebrates Christmas, but isn't religious. Just like me. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:24 PM Author: fantasy-prone chocolate principal's office cuckoldry In the CIA they tell operatives to escalate every relationship with a source or else it will fizzle out.
EDIT: ALTHOUGH there were legitimate reasons not to have a "real date" so I'd say she's still interested. Don't over think it. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:29 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza Will I have to take her on a real date (which, in her mind, involves me planning in advance and ideally taking her to dinner) in order to fuck her?
If I take her to this one dinner place in the neighborhood that she suggested, will she let me fuck her?
I'm not interested in a relationship with her. She is pretty much the exact opposite of what I'm looking for in a relationship. I just want to see if I can get her in the sack a few times before I drop her. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 7:33 PM Author: fantasy-prone chocolate principal's office cuckoldry She's probably trying to avoid people like you (as per your last paragraph) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23971407) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:06 PM Author: brilliant dog poop Normally I follow the 3 date rule: If it isn't happening by the 3rd time, it'll never happen.
MAYBE this is an exception - try taking her on a real date that's also relatively cheap. Drink beforehand at your place so she leaves something there that she has to come back and get. But also prepare self for the fact that she may be a prude / have sexual issues and simply be trying to get u to wife her. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:11 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza I don't think she's a prude, nor do I think she's got sexual issues. When I do things to her (sexually) that she likes, she gets really into it. I haven't seen her naked, nor have I been naked with her, but we've both gotten each other off.
If she's trying to get me to wife her by holding back on the sex, that really lowers my opinion of her. Then again if she let me bang her the night I met her or on the first date, that would lower my opinion of her as well. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:16 PM Author: fantasy-prone chocolate principal's office cuckoldry I dated a pretty, conservative Jewess from a good family like this. Very prudish. I got frustrated and left , but I regret that I did. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969411) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:16 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza My girl isn't Jewish.
Why do you regret leaving? |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:17 PM Author: fantasy-prone chocolate principal's office cuckoldry She was wholesome and smart and I think it would have been a good relationship in retrospect (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969420) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:34 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza This girl basically fits "wholesome and smart" to a T.
Maybe I'm just not ready for wholesome and smart. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:44 PM Author: hairraiser shimmering hall party of the first part if she is hot, hold out, but still fuck other chicks. Just don't get hung up on her.
also, you're an faggot. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 3:36 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza I think this girl is the exact opposite of the kinds of girls I've gotten hung up on. I'm used to daddies' girls from wealthy families who are much younger than I am and look up to me. Spoiled but cheerful. Easy to please. Simple to figure out.
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:47 PM Author: idiotic self-absorbed locus jap " I haven't seen her naked, nor have I been naked with her, but we've both gotten each other off. "
*mind blown away* |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:36 PM Author: embarrassed to the bone immigrant Put a ring on it brother, you've found the one.
Just don't be surprised when you learn that her newfound hesitation is after the boys at Kappa Delta Te ran a train on her. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:39 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza I don't think she was in a sorority in college. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969523) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:47 PM Author: embarrassed to the bone immigrant I didn't say she was. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969548) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:49 PM Author: idiotic self-absorbed locus jap this could go either way. "take me on a real date" could be attentionwhoring / gold-digging, i.e., "spend money on me to pay your dues and i'll consider you," which is a total turn-off. or if could just mean she wants to get to know you better and spend more time with you and see that you're serious before she fucks you. if it's the latter, she's worth it (and you could do things that are "activities" that don't involve a ton of money); if the former, run the fuck away. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969556) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 3:16 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza The restaurant she suggested was a neighborhood ethnic food place that is reasonably priced but has strong reviews on Yelp. She also describes herself as frugal and says she only likes shopping when she's doing well financially (her business is cyclical so some years she makes more than others), and she claims to like making her own dresses which she says is much cheaper and fun.
The impression I get from her is that fucking her will involve spending a lot of time with her, not spending a lot of money on her. Money itself will not impress her. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:51 PM Author: Exhilarant Newt Market terrible flame brother. no one is this clueless. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969563) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 2:44 PM Author: cerebral out-of-control shrine sounds like shes a good girl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969835) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 2:45 PM Author: spectacular honey-headed lettuce ticket booth You're dating my wife? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969842) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 3:35 PM Author: maroon legend As long as she is getting dick from *somewhere*, I think it's fine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970067) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:14 PM Author: Pearl roommate "Let's go on a real date" = Potential keeper.
"Take me on a real date" = Kick this entitled cunt to the curb bro |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:21 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza OP here. I'm beginning to agree with you, although I don't see much of a difference between "let's go on a real date" and "take me on a real date". I don't remember her exact words but she's called me out on not planning meetups more than an hour or two in advance before, so I just took her words to mean that I should plan shit at least half a day in advance and take her somewhere nicer than the dive bar we usually hit up. Either way, you're right - entitled cunt who needs to be drop-kicked.
I usually date spoiled, young daddies' girls who are grateful for any attention I pay them. Back to my wheelhouse. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:23 PM Author: rambunctious haunting deer antler if you've spent a cumulative 11 hours or more of one-on-one time together and haven't sexed, it's game over. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970319) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:26 PM Author: cerebral out-of-control shrine game over for whom? if shes attractive and fun to hang out with, who fucking cares. i dont get all the psycho analysis (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970336) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:30 PM Author: rambunctious haunting deer antler fine, then enjoy being friends and you should think of your relationship this way and act accordingly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970367) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:32 PM Author: cerebral out-of-control shrine the op says they make out etc. maybe this chick wants it to be a clear LTR before sex (dont blame her) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970376) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:32 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza OP here. She is attractive, but nowhere near attractive enough for her entitled, cunty attitude about what she thinks she deserves before sex. One of the poasters above made a great point that she feels like she's entitled to get a certain type of treatment from a guy. She doesn't come off as a typical gold-digger, but I do not want to date a girl that demands to be treated like a princess regardless of whether it's a guy's money or time that she's demanding. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970375) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:35 PM Author: cerebral out-of-control shrine not fucking you after a few dates makes her entitled and cunty? ok bro
if you were her dad, would you have a problem with her? i wouldnt |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:38 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza She's entitled and cunty because she (albeit jokingly) said that we should go on a real date next time. I don't remember if she said "lets go on a real date" or "take me on a real date" but the gist of it was that she wants me to plan in advance and take her to dinner instead of texting her an hour before and suggesting we meet up for a drink at the local pub.
And maybe once or twice I texted her at 9 or 9:30 while coming home from happy hour, suggesting that we meet up at the local pub. She didn't like that but she did meet up with me once when I did that, which means she'd do it again and I shouldn't have to do more work.
I'm not the best advance planner, but I don't like how she feels entitled to my time or money. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:40 PM Author: cerebral out-of-control shrine lol she hasnt done anything wrong and sounds like a good girl to me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970428) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:41 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza You must be a woman.
I don't want to date some girl who demands to be treated like a princess. I usually date girls who are much younger and impressionable who have been a bit spoiled by their fathers and are grateful to be in my company. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:43 PM Author: cerebral out-of-control shrine your right bro, just do last minute happy hour invites w her and wonder why it isnt going anywhere; have you ever had a ltr? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970445) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:44 PM Author: brilliant dog poop Tbf,
There's a difference between "take me on a real date sometime, moneybags" and "we should do something together besides last minute drinks" |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:47 PM Author: cerebral out-of-control shrine tbf, a man who's actually interested in a woman should take said woman on a real date (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970474) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:48 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza (woman) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970483) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:49 PM Author: cerebral out-of-control shrine (dood who thinks xoxo pua shit is real) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970488) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:49 PM Author: brilliant dog poop Why would you if you don't need to? I suppose it might be good to weed out women who expect men to pay and won't go dutch. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970487) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:52 PM Author: cerebral out-of-control shrine enjoy dying alone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970498) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:58 PM Author: brilliant dog poop Brother I don't know what kind of white knighting fawning you engage in but going dutch in blue cities is common enough that if a shrew demands you pay its a red flag of entitlement (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970532) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 5:01 PM Author: cerebral out-of-control shrine a woman demanding you pay isnt at issue, typically shell offer and youll say no bc you have testicles. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970550) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 5:06 PM Author: brilliant dog poop Whatever bro. I'll pay for a woman if she cooks me dinner and does my laundry. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970562) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 5:03 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza The last time we hung out (with mutual friends) she paid for her own drinks, no questions asked.
If she thought she was entitled to free drinks from me, she wouldn't have paid for her own.
Like I said below, I really don't think she thinks she's entitled to free dinners here. Doesnt make it any worse, though. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:53 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza OP here. This girl has responded to my last-minute invites before. No reason to expect any more from me.
The last time we hung out, she paid for her own drinks.
I honestly don't think this is about money. She didn't suggest a particularly extravagant place (it was a neighborhood ethnic joint that has a reputation for being good value) and she was the one who initially suggested the dive bar that we go to.
My issue with her is that she is making claims on my time, not on my money. I usually date girls who are rich, much younger, and spoiled by their daddies, but these girls look up to me and act more grateful. This girl looks at me and sees through the bullshit. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:54 PM Author: cerebral out-of-control shrine claims on your time? lolwut (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970513) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:55 PM Author: Mint fluffy indirect expression plaza Like telling me to give her advance notice, as well as suggesting we go on a "real date", which will inevitably entail some advance planning.
And I don't even know if taking her to dinner will result in me fucking her. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:57 PM Author: cerebral out-of-control shrine ok this is flame, im peacing out (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970528) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 5:16 PM Author: trip center telephone TCR. She's a nice girl but really mentally ill (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970626) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 5:12 PM Author: trip center telephone Im too lazy to check but this sounds like a GraceKelly pumo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970599) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 5:16 PM Author: trip center telephone Aaand I was right. See http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=2168540&forum_id=2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970621) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 7:19 PM Author: Stimulating brunch main people lol good call, friend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23971322) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 5:21 PM Author: olive nursing home nibblets Keep in mind, some dudes have stuck their HPV cocks in her raw much earlier (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970645) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 7:30 PM Author: carmine cuck Give both of yourselves a free pass and fuck whoever you want, cotdamn. This isn't I love Lucy anymore. You need to learn her disposition towards withholding from foreign cock aggressors. Make like Obama and put it up for a congressional vote. Hth. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23971393) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 8:08 PM Author: cheese-eating national It was your 3rd date and she thought if she went inside with you, you would expect sex.
She was simply letting you know she isn't going to give it up if she is being treated like a last-minute thought.
The fact that she contacted you after two weeks means she is interested.
But right now she is leery that you are more interested in short term sex than a possible relationship (which sounds correct), and she isn't going to give it up until she thinks otherwise. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 8:12 PM Author: aphrodisiac sexy theatre cr. lol at this guy who can't be bothered to plan something, oh i don't know, a DAY OR TWO IN ADVANCE? is that really too much to ask?
you expect to just text her an hour beforehand and get laid? she's not having any of it. |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 8:09 PM Author: fantasy-prone chocolate principal's office cuckoldry Heh. She doesn't like to fuck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23971577) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 8:41 PM Author: glassy apoplectic candlestick maker IME avoid. She doesn't understand social norms, which are that you fuck after a reasonable amount of dates. Or she may have a sexual hang up. Either way you can do better, you can't do much worse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23971729) |
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Date: August 31st, 2013 8:43 PM Author: aphrodisiac sexy theatre "real" dates? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23971740) |
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Date: September 1st, 2013 2:29 AM Author: peach thriller sneaky criminal athletic conference She understands the social norm that says what an actual date is.
OP: so take her out to dinner. Odds are you are going to get laid. |
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Date: September 2nd, 2013 5:53 PM Author: Talented Piazza Queen Of The Night TWIST: the OP is the girl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23981532) |