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Worth Dating Girl who Won't Sleep With You?

Since the beginning of July I've been seeing this girl. I w...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
zero, doobs. your chances are zero
Motley headpube step-uncle's house
  08/31/13
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Swashbuckling station
  08/31/13
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Chocolate hospital
  08/31/13
got to put in the time on this one, brother
bonkers property
  08/31/13
What do you mean by that? Are girls like this generally ...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
depends man. If she is really all that great, this means tha...
bonkers property
  08/31/13
I just don't know how much I'm into her now that I know it'l...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
You are a virgin or have never been in an LTR. I can tell be...
Duck-like Laughsome Doctorate
  08/31/13
What should I be focusing on instead? I'm not looking ...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
Her tits Hth
bonkers property
  08/31/13
Her tits are average. "Classy" B cups with very s...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
as said in this thread, she's not a slut with this guy, does...
Arousing Partner
  08/31/13
CR I went out with a girl for a short period of time who str...
Cobalt round eye
  08/31/13
She doesn't have any of the slut "tells" like ...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
I wouldn't assume slut but most of those tells are more for...
Cobalt round eye
  08/31/13
Good point. She's an east coast blue-stater who went to pri...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
Yea I dunno bro. I dated a girl like this and like I said up...
Cobalt round eye
  08/31/13
magic 8 ball says sex is in your future
fuchsia quadroon electric furnace
  08/31/13
She's following "The Rules"
exhilarant tanning salon
  08/31/13
Isn't that some book for sluts which tells them how to hide ...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
Indeed it is.
exhilarant tanning salon
  08/31/13
I dunno, it's pretty well established that sexing on the fir...
Cobalt round eye
  08/31/13
So this girl is trying to trick me into relationshipping her...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
That would be my guess
Cobalt round eye
  08/31/13
Or has high self-esteem
exhilarant tanning salon
  08/31/13
What does self esteem have to do with anything? And does...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
Means she feels like she's entertaining enough company that ...
exhilarant tanning salon
  08/31/13
We've actually scaled back intimacy. When I met her we ende...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
In the CIA they tell operatives to escalate every relationsh...
exhilarant tanning salon
  08/31/13
Will I have to take her on a real date (which, in her mind, ...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
She's probably trying to avoid people like you (as per your ...
exhilarant tanning salon
  08/31/13
Normally I follow the 3 date rule: If it isn't happening by ...
Cobalt round eye
  08/31/13
I don't think she's a prude, nor do I think she's got sexual...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
I dated a pretty, conservative Jewess from a good family lik...
exhilarant tanning salon
  08/31/13
My girl isn't Jewish. Why do you regret leaving?
bronze theater
  08/31/13
She was wholesome and smart and I think it would have been a...
exhilarant tanning salon
  08/31/13
This girl basically fits "wholesome and smart" to ...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
if she is hot, hold out, but still fuck other chicks. Just ...
diverse state
  08/31/13
I think this girl is the exact opposite of the kinds of girl...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
" I haven't seen her naked, nor have I been naked with ...
Nofapping charismatic trust fund
  08/31/13
Put a ring on it brother, you've found the one. Just do...
Provocative nubile site
  08/31/13
I don't think she was in a sorority in college.
bronze theater
  08/31/13
I didn't say she was.
Provocative nubile site
  08/31/13
this could go either way. "take me on a real date"...
Nofapping charismatic trust fund
  08/31/13
The restaurant she suggested was a neighborhood ethnic food ...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
terrible flame brother. no one is this clueless.
soul-stirring senate selfie
  08/31/13
sounds like shes a good girl
Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm
  08/31/13
You're dating my wife?
self-absorbed useless dingle berry yarmulke
  08/31/13
As long as she is getting dick from *somewhere*, I think it'...
Brindle Twinkling Uncleanness Stain
  08/31/13
"Let's go on a real date" = Potential keeper. &...
Trip Gaming Laptop Bawdyhouse
  08/31/13
OP here. I'm beginning to agree with you, although I don't ...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
if you've spent a cumulative 11 hours or more of one-on-one ...
Razzle laser beams
  08/31/13
game over for whom? if shes attractive and fun to hang out w...
Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm
  08/31/13
fine, then enjoy being friends and you should think of your ...
Razzle laser beams
  08/31/13
the op says they make out etc. maybe this chick wants it to ...
Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm
  08/31/13
OP here. She is attractive, but nowhere near attractive eno...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
not fucking you after a few dates makes her entitled and cun...
Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm
  08/31/13
She's entitled and cunty because she (albeit jokingly) said ...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
lol she hasnt done anything wrong and sounds like a good gir...
Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm
  08/31/13
You must be a woman. I don't want to date some girl who...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
your right bro, just do last minute happy hour invites w her...
Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm
  08/31/13
Tbf, There's a difference between "take me on a real...
Cobalt round eye
  08/31/13
tbf, a man who's actually interested in a woman should take ...
Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm
  08/31/13
(woman)
bronze theater
  08/31/13
(dood who thinks xoxo pua shit is real)
Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm
  08/31/13
Why would you if you don't need to? I suppose it might be go...
Cobalt round eye
  08/31/13
enjoy dying alone
Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm
  08/31/13
Brother I don't know what kind of white knighting fawning yo...
Cobalt round eye
  08/31/13
a woman demanding you pay isnt at issue, typically shell off...
Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm
  08/31/13
Whatever bro. I'll pay for a woman if she cooks me dinner an...
Cobalt round eye
  08/31/13
The last time we hung out (with mutual friends) she paid for...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
OP here. This girl has responded to my last-minute invites ...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
claims on your time? lolwut
Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm
  08/31/13
Like telling me to give her advance notice, as well as sugge...
bronze theater
  08/31/13
ok this is flame, im peacing out
Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm
  08/31/13
TCR. She's a nice girl but really mentally ill
Hairraiser Dog Poop
  08/31/13
Im too lazy to check but this sounds like a GraceKelly pumo
Hairraiser Dog Poop
  08/31/13
Aaand I was right. See http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?th...
Hairraiser Dog Poop
  08/31/13
lol good call, friend
splenetic shitlib
  08/31/13
Keep in mind, some dudes have stuck their HPV cocks in her r...
sick crawly mad-dog skullcap library
  08/31/13
Give both of yourselves a free pass and fuck whoever you wan...
beady-eyed ape
  08/31/13
It was your 3rd date and she thought if she went inside with...
Bat-shit-crazy giraffe office
  08/31/13
cr. lol at this guy who can't be bothered to plan something,...
Avocado stage
  08/31/13
Heh. She doesn't like to fuck.
exhilarant tanning salon
  08/31/13
IME avoid. She doesn't understand social norms, which are...
Olive Big Faggot Firefighter Patrolman
  08/31/13
"real" dates?
Avocado stage
  08/31/13
She understands the social norm that says what an actual dat...
Crimson razzmatazz nursing home
  09/01/13
TWIST: the OP is the girl
Soggy spruce sandwich circlehead
  09/02/13


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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:02 PM
Author: bronze theater

Since the beginning of July I've been seeing this girl. I won't call it any more than that because I don't think there is anything more than that. I've gone out with her 3 times, all casual affairs where I'd text her a few hours (or less) beforehand and we'd grab a drink. We'd come back to my place where we'd mess around, but no sex or even no blowjobs.

The last time I saw her (before I left for vacation), she doesn't come up to my place afterwards and says jokingly, "next time take me on a real date".

She's pretty hot, fun, has a very direct way of speaking which I find refreshing, and we have similar values and are into the same kinds of shit.

I haven't seen her in a few weeks. I went on vacation, and didn't hear from her while I was on vacation. Just now she sends me a text going "happy Labor day weekend, hope you're spending it in the sea and sun! Just wanted to say hello."

What are my chances of banging this girl? Is she playing some kind of game where she holds out for sex until she gets a dinner date or something like that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969347)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:03 PM
Author: Motley headpube step-uncle's house

zero, doobs. your chances are zero

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969352)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:05 PM
Author: Swashbuckling station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969361)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:26 PM
Author: Chocolate hospital



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970335)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:03 PM
Author: bonkers property

got to put in the time on this one, brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969353)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:05 PM
Author: bronze theater

What do you mean by that?

Are girls like this generally not worth dating or relationship material, in your opinion?

We have several mutual acquaintances and one of her really good friends (who introduced us) is friends with a bunch of people I know well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969360)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:06 PM
Author: bonkers property

depends man. If she is really all that great, this means that she is not a slut, which in my book is a huge plus. If she is sending you hints like this, I might consider taking her out a little more aggressively to see what happens.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969368)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:14 PM
Author: bronze theater

I just don't know how much I'm into her now that I know it'll take work to sleep with her. Maybe I'm not in a frame of mind for a relationship.

As for how "great" she is, I dunno. My family has a lot more money than hers (although she is very "classy", much more so than many people I know who come from wealth) and she's not my general physical type although I think she's hot as hell, very smart/well educated, we have a lot in common, she fits in well with my friends, and we have similar tastes and sense of humor.

I always just saw myself ending up with someone much, much younger and similarly wealthy. This girl is normal upper middle class. Maybe even middle class.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969406)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:21 PM
Author: Duck-like Laughsome Doctorate

You are a virgin or have never been in an LTR. I can tell because you are way over thinking this comparing wealth, class, and what your friends think about her. Grow up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969433)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:28 PM
Author: bronze theater

What should I be focusing on instead?

I'm not looking for a relationship with this girl. I just want to see what I have to do to sleep with her. Her withholding sex has been a major turnoff, and it's also a major turnoff for her to want me to take her to dinner and shit and make plans in advance.

EDIT: I'm not turned off by her socioeconomic status. I have just always dated very different types of girls, in terms of looks and personality.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969459)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:31 PM
Author: bonkers property

Her tits

Hth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969480)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:34 PM
Author: bronze theater

Her tits are average. "Classy" B cups with very sensitive nipples.

I like a nice, juicy D cup on a natural blonde with a slappable ass. This girl is just the opposite of all that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969489)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 3:33 PM
Author: Arousing Partner

as said in this thread, she's not a slut with this guy, doesn't mean she's not a slut

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970055)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 3:41 PM
Author: Cobalt round eye

CR I went out with a girl for a short period of time who strung me a long for a few dates until having sex, seemed very into the relationship thing, then slowly I found out via friends a massive slutty past and had to atd

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970100)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 3:45 PM
Author: bronze theater

She doesn't have any of the slut "tells" like

- fake nails

- glitter makeup

- tattoos

- fake jewelry (she only wears real jewelry as a rule)

- smoking

- seeking attention

- flirtatiousness/extroversion

- wearing clothes that get your attention

I don't think she's even aware that she's hot.

As for a slutty past, it's impossible to tell. She moved to our city in the beginning of the year and just started hanging out with some of my friends. None of them got the slut vibe from her, but it doesn't mean that she wasn't massively slutty before. Should I assume slut until I hear otherwise, or vice versa?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970119)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:21 PM
Author: Cobalt round eye

I wouldn't assume slut but most of those tells are more for prole sluts than anything else. They wouldn't really apply to some blue-state grad from Amherst who managed to ride 60 different men on the cock carousel before graduating and deciding to settle down

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970310)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:24 PM
Author: bronze theater

Good point. She's an east coast blue-stater who went to private school and does sports like equestrian and sailing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970323)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:43 PM
Author: Cobalt round eye

Yea I dunno bro. I dated a girl like this and like I said upthread she turned out to be an unbelievable whore in the past. But you won't really get the true answer on these types until you get to know them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970448)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:04 PM
Author: fuchsia quadroon electric furnace

magic 8 ball says sex is in your future

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969356)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:05 PM
Author: exhilarant tanning salon

She's following "The Rules"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969359)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:06 PM
Author: bronze theater

Isn't that some book for sluts which tells them how to hide their slutty past?

Like how that PUA nonsense is a way to make aspies seem less aspie?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969365)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:06 PM
Author: exhilarant tanning salon

Indeed it is.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969367)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:11 PM
Author: Cobalt round eye

I dunno, it's pretty well established that sexing on the first date will rarely if ever lead to a serious relationship

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969400)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:14 PM
Author: bronze theater

So this girl is trying to trick me into relationshipping her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969408)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:16 PM
Author: Cobalt round eye

That would be my guess

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969412)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:16 PM
Author: exhilarant tanning salon

Or has high self-esteem

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969413)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:18 PM
Author: bronze theater

What does self esteem have to do with anything?

And does the fact that she texted me after I haven't seen or heard from her in over 2 weeks mean that she'll be willing to sleep with me now?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969423)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:19 PM
Author: exhilarant tanning salon

Means she feels like she's entertaining enough company that she doesn't have to give it up so soon in a relationship. If she's escalating her intimacy with you, eventually you'll get what you want (unless she's religious)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969430)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:23 PM
Author: bronze theater

We've actually scaled back intimacy. When I met her we ended up kissing at the bar and going for late night burgers. I wanted to take her up to my place since it was just around the corner but she declined, and gave me her number instead.

First date ended up with us back at her place and we messed around.

Second date was much of the same except that I was exhausted (had drinks with a friend before I met up with her) and fell asleep.

Third time we hung out she doesn't come up to my place and says jokingly "take me on a real date next time", although we were kissing. In her defense, the third time we hung out was with a group of mutual friends and not an actual date.

She is Christian in that she celebrates Christmas, but isn't religious. Just like me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969441)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:24 PM
Author: exhilarant tanning salon

In the CIA they tell operatives to escalate every relationship with a source or else it will fizzle out.

EDIT: ALTHOUGH there were legitimate reasons not to have a "real date" so I'd say she's still interested. Don't over think it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969447)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:29 PM
Author: bronze theater

Will I have to take her on a real date (which, in her mind, involves me planning in advance and ideally taking her to dinner) in order to fuck her?

If I take her to this one dinner place in the neighborhood that she suggested, will she let me fuck her?

I'm not interested in a relationship with her. She is pretty much the exact opposite of what I'm looking for in a relationship. I just want to see if I can get her in the sack a few times before I drop her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969471)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 7:33 PM
Author: exhilarant tanning salon

She's probably trying to avoid people like you (as per your last paragraph)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23971407)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:06 PM
Author: Cobalt round eye

Normally I follow the 3 date rule: If it isn't happening by the 3rd time, it'll never happen.

MAYBE this is an exception - try taking her on a real date that's also relatively cheap. Drink beforehand at your place so she leaves something there that she has to come back and get. But also prepare self for the fact that she may be a prude / have sexual issues and simply be trying to get u to wife her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969366)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:11 PM
Author: bronze theater

I don't think she's a prude, nor do I think she's got sexual issues. When I do things to her (sexually) that she likes, she gets really into it. I haven't seen her naked, nor have I been naked with her, but we've both gotten each other off.

If she's trying to get me to wife her by holding back on the sex, that really lowers my opinion of her. Then again if she let me bang her the night I met her or on the first date, that would lower my opinion of her as well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969398)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:16 PM
Author: exhilarant tanning salon

I dated a pretty, conservative Jewess from a good family like this. Very prudish. I got frustrated and left , but I regret that I did.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969411)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:16 PM
Author: bronze theater

My girl isn't Jewish.

Why do you regret leaving?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969415)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:17 PM
Author: exhilarant tanning salon

She was wholesome and smart and I think it would have been a good relationship in retrospect

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969420)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:34 PM
Author: bronze theater

This girl basically fits "wholesome and smart" to a T.

Maybe I'm just not ready for wholesome and smart.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969495)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:44 PM
Author: diverse state

if she is hot, hold out, but still fuck other chicks. Just don't get hung up on her.

also, you're an faggot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969537)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 3:36 PM
Author: bronze theater

I think this girl is the exact opposite of the kinds of girls I've gotten hung up on. I'm used to daddies' girls from wealthy families who are much younger than I am and look up to me. Spoiled but cheerful. Easy to please. Simple to figure out.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970072)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:47 PM
Author: Nofapping charismatic trust fund

" I haven't seen her naked, nor have I been naked with her, but we've both gotten each other off. "

*mind blown away*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969549)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:36 PM
Author: Provocative nubile site

Put a ring on it brother, you've found the one.

Just don't be surprised when you learn that her newfound hesitation is after the boys at Kappa Delta Te ran a train on her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969503)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:39 PM
Author: bronze theater

I don't think she was in a sorority in college.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969523)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:47 PM
Author: Provocative nubile site

I didn't say she was.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969548)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:49 PM
Author: Nofapping charismatic trust fund

this could go either way. "take me on a real date" could be attentionwhoring / gold-digging, i.e., "spend money on me to pay your dues and i'll consider you," which is a total turn-off. or if could just mean she wants to get to know you better and spend more time with you and see that you're serious before she fucks you. if it's the latter, she's worth it (and you could do things that are "activities" that don't involve a ton of money); if the former, run the fuck away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969556)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 3:16 PM
Author: bronze theater

The restaurant she suggested was a neighborhood ethnic food place that is reasonably priced but has strong reviews on Yelp. She also describes herself as frugal and says she only likes shopping when she's doing well financially (her business is cyclical so some years she makes more than others), and she claims to like making her own dresses which she says is much cheaper and fun.

The impression I get from her is that fucking her will involve spending a lot of time with her, not spending a lot of money on her. Money itself will not impress her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969998)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 1:51 PM
Author: soul-stirring senate selfie

terrible flame brother. no one is this clueless.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969563)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 2:44 PM
Author: Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm

sounds like shes a good girl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969835)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 2:45 PM
Author: self-absorbed useless dingle berry yarmulke

You're dating my wife?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23969842)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 3:35 PM
Author: Brindle Twinkling Uncleanness Stain

As long as she is getting dick from *somewhere*, I think it's fine.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970067)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:14 PM
Author: Trip Gaming Laptop Bawdyhouse

"Let's go on a real date" = Potential keeper.

"Take me on a real date" = Kick this entitled cunt to the curb bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970272)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:21 PM
Author: bronze theater

OP here. I'm beginning to agree with you, although I don't see much of a difference between "let's go on a real date" and "take me on a real date". I don't remember her exact words but she's called me out on not planning meetups more than an hour or two in advance before, so I just took her words to mean that I should plan shit at least half a day in advance and take her somewhere nicer than the dive bar we usually hit up. Either way, you're right - entitled cunt who needs to be drop-kicked.

I usually date spoiled, young daddies' girls who are grateful for any attention I pay them. Back to my wheelhouse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970312)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:23 PM
Author: Razzle laser beams

if you've spent a cumulative 11 hours or more of one-on-one time together and haven't sexed, it's game over.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970319)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:26 PM
Author: Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm

game over for whom? if shes attractive and fun to hang out with, who fucking cares. i dont get all the psycho analysis

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970336)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:30 PM
Author: Razzle laser beams

fine, then enjoy being friends and you should think of your relationship this way and act accordingly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970367)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:32 PM
Author: Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm

the op says they make out etc. maybe this chick wants it to be a clear LTR before sex (dont blame her)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970376)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:32 PM
Author: bronze theater

OP here. She is attractive, but nowhere near attractive enough for her entitled, cunty attitude about what she thinks she deserves before sex. One of the poasters above made a great point that she feels like she's entitled to get a certain type of treatment from a guy. She doesn't come off as a typical gold-digger, but I do not want to date a girl that demands to be treated like a princess regardless of whether it's a guy's money or time that she's demanding.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970375)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:35 PM
Author: Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm

not fucking you after a few dates makes her entitled and cunty? ok bro

if you were her dad, would you have a problem with her? i wouldnt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970391)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:38 PM
Author: bronze theater

She's entitled and cunty because she (albeit jokingly) said that we should go on a real date next time. I don't remember if she said "lets go on a real date" or "take me on a real date" but the gist of it was that she wants me to plan in advance and take her to dinner instead of texting her an hour before and suggesting we meet up for a drink at the local pub.

And maybe once or twice I texted her at 9 or 9:30 while coming home from happy hour, suggesting that we meet up at the local pub. She didn't like that but she did meet up with me once when I did that, which means she'd do it again and I shouldn't have to do more work.

I'm not the best advance planner, but I don't like how she feels entitled to my time or money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970408)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:40 PM
Author: Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm

lol she hasnt done anything wrong and sounds like a good girl to me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970428)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:41 PM
Author: bronze theater

You must be a woman.

I don't want to date some girl who demands to be treated like a princess. I usually date girls who are much younger and impressionable who have been a bit spoiled by their fathers and are grateful to be in my company.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970433)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:43 PM
Author: Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm

your right bro, just do last minute happy hour invites w her and wonder why it isnt going anywhere; have you ever had a ltr?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970445)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:44 PM
Author: Cobalt round eye

Tbf,

There's a difference between "take me on a real date sometime, moneybags" and "we should do something together besides last minute drinks"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970454)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:47 PM
Author: Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm

tbf, a man who's actually interested in a woman should take said woman on a real date

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970474)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:48 PM
Author: bronze theater

(woman)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970483)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:49 PM
Author: Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm

(dood who thinks xoxo pua shit is real)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970488)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:49 PM
Author: Cobalt round eye

Why would you if you don't need to? I suppose it might be good to weed out women who expect men to pay and won't go dutch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970487)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:52 PM
Author: Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm

enjoy dying alone

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970498)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:58 PM
Author: Cobalt round eye

Brother I don't know what kind of white knighting fawning you engage in but going dutch in blue cities is common enough that if a shrew demands you pay its a red flag of entitlement

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970532)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 5:01 PM
Author: Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm

a woman demanding you pay isnt at issue, typically shell offer and youll say no bc you have testicles.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970550)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 5:06 PM
Author: Cobalt round eye

Whatever bro. I'll pay for a woman if she cooks me dinner and does my laundry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970562)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 5:03 PM
Author: bronze theater

The last time we hung out (with mutual friends) she paid for her own drinks, no questions asked.

If she thought she was entitled to free drinks from me, she wouldn't have paid for her own.

Like I said below, I really don't think she thinks she's entitled to free dinners here. Doesnt make it any worse, though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970554)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:53 PM
Author: bronze theater

OP here. This girl has responded to my last-minute invites before. No reason to expect any more from me.

The last time we hung out, she paid for her own drinks.

I honestly don't think this is about money. She didn't suggest a particularly extravagant place (it was a neighborhood ethnic joint that has a reputation for being good value) and she was the one who initially suggested the dive bar that we go to.

My issue with her is that she is making claims on my time, not on my money. I usually date girls who are rich, much younger, and spoiled by their daddies, but these girls look up to me and act more grateful. This girl looks at me and sees through the bullshit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970509)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:54 PM
Author: Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm

claims on your time? lolwut

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970513)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:55 PM
Author: bronze theater

Like telling me to give her advance notice, as well as suggesting we go on a "real date", which will inevitably entail some advance planning.

And I don't even know if taking her to dinner will result in me fucking her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970517)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 4:57 PM
Author: Vigorous Dull Cuckoldry Business Firm

ok this is flame, im peacing out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970528)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 5:16 PM
Author: Hairraiser Dog Poop

TCR. She's a nice girl but really mentally ill

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970626)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 5:12 PM
Author: Hairraiser Dog Poop

Im too lazy to check but this sounds like a GraceKelly pumo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970599)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 5:16 PM
Author: Hairraiser Dog Poop

Aaand I was right. See http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=2168540&forum_id=2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970621)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 7:19 PM
Author: splenetic shitlib

lol good call, friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23971322)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 5:21 PM
Author: sick crawly mad-dog skullcap library

Keep in mind, some dudes have stuck their HPV cocks in her raw much earlier

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23970645)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 7:30 PM
Author: beady-eyed ape

Give both of yourselves a free pass and fuck whoever you want, cotdamn. This isn't I love Lucy anymore. You need to learn her disposition towards withholding from foreign cock aggressors. Make like Obama and put it up for a congressional vote. Hth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23971393)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 8:08 PM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy giraffe office

It was your 3rd date and she thought if she went inside with you, you would expect sex.

She was simply letting you know she isn't going to give it up if she is being treated like a last-minute thought.

The fact that she contacted you after two weeks means she is interested.

But right now she is leery that you are more interested in short term sex than a possible relationship (which sounds correct), and she isn't going to give it up until she thinks otherwise.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23971574)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 8:12 PM
Author: Avocado stage

cr. lol at this guy who can't be bothered to plan something, oh i don't know, a DAY OR TWO IN ADVANCE? is that really too much to ask?

you expect to just text her an hour beforehand and get laid? she's not having any of it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23971599)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 8:09 PM
Author: exhilarant tanning salon

Heh. She doesn't like to fuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23971577)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 8:41 PM
Author: Olive Big Faggot Firefighter Patrolman

IME avoid. She doesn't understand social norms, which are that you fuck after a reasonable amount of dates. Or she may have a sexual hang up. Either way you can do better, you can't do much worse

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23971729)



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Date: August 31st, 2013 8:43 PM
Author: Avocado stage

"real" dates?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23971740)



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Date: September 1st, 2013 2:29 AM
Author: Crimson razzmatazz nursing home

She understands the social norm that says what an actual date is.

OP: so take her out to dinner. Odds are you are going to get laid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23973781)



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Date: September 2nd, 2013 5:53 PM
Author: Soggy spruce sandwich circlehead

TWIST: the OP is the girl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2350816&forum_id=2#23981532)