Break up over her history of casual sex?
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:30 AM Author: grizzly odious pisswyrm
I have been taking this gf seriously as wife material. She's hot, smart, loving, would be a great mom etc. BUT I am disgusted by her history of casual sex. It was basically her freshman year of college, she went into a rebellious phase and just jumped into bed with a series of guys (3 I think) without any commitment/love/whatever.
I come from a somewhat religious background, and while I wouldn't expect her to be a virgin, I'm somewhat conservative in thinking that sex should be in the context of a committed relationship. I guess this is a moral standard for me, and I'm fighting feelings of disgust that she would just give it away to "friends with benefits" types.
She seems to regret what she did, and she is objectively the best girl I've been with. Is it unreasonable for me to throw this relationship away because of this psychological hangup? How do I get over it?
EDIT: She subsequently had LTR which lasted a couple years. That doesn't bother me. Seems like a normal healthy sexually active relationship. Have no objections to that.
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:52 AM Author: Arousing Theater Stage
LOL at you supposedly worrying about her casual sex with THREE guys.
This is either abysmal flame or you have a mental disorder.
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:56 AM Author: boyish office
I understand brother. I had the same issue with my chick. The older you get, the more likely a single chick will have these types of activities (e.g., multiple friends with benefits, Pumps and Dumps, etc.). The best way to approach this is to consider the overall person. She seems to hit every one of your main points, except for the sexual part. All things considered, having 3 friends with benefits (or pumps and dumps)is not that raunchy considering what other women do. Also, she was honest with you about it, which is a great thing. (Or, at least, she was honest about that part. We never really know if she divulged everything.) Knowing all of this do you:
1. Love her?
2. Trust her?
3. Think that phase is over?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145796)
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:45 AM Author: obsidian provocative site love of her life
when she is walking down the aisle you will keep seeing the image of some frat bro pounding her hard doggie only to pull out, flip her over, and fire a load in her mouth that she eagerly swallows, showing him her tongue at the end to prove it's all gone.
as long as you are cool with that then it shouldn't be a problem at all
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Date: August 17th, 2014 12:07 PM Author: Narrow-minded Brethren
She would not be a great mom. You are beta bucks after her alpha fucks. A fat slob doesn't suddenly go from munching on cheeseburgers daily to doing cross fit and becoming vegan. Neither will a cock-hungry sloot suddenly decide that -this time- one cock is enough.
Btw if you know about 3 that means she's probably had at least 12 dicks in her.
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Date: August 17th, 2014 12:36 PM Author: Copper Flirting Market Foreskin
LOL at all these idiots missing the point. Somehow you need to find the crucial fact: were you here biggest cock. If you were as she I fact did go through a slut phase sampling dozens of cocks and yours wins out--you are golden.
If not, anything else is irrelevant because you're my marriage material to her
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Date: August 17th, 2014 1:33 PM Author: bearded university circlehead
Is this copypasta?
In any case, a millennial who's had only 3 casual encounters is one in a million. Wife material right there.
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Date: August 17th, 2014 1:36 PM Author: Contagious abode azn
3 is an insanely low number but 23 is way too young for a girl to settle down in a culture where all women have been sold on the dream of romance, etc. and where there is a relatively permissive attitude towards casual sex.
you seem pretty beta so she will cheat on you eventually.
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