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Date: December 11th, 2014 9:31 AM
Author: stimulating anal generalized bond piazza

Two weeks ago, my gentle and loving boyfriend of three months held me down and forced me to have sex with him against my will, and then told me I had asked for it. And technically, he was right.

Jacob and I had only been dating about a month and a half when I intimated that I had a rape fantasy. Over the years, I’d had my share of experience with role-playing and rough sex. I vividly recall a male friend of mine in college telling me that I had a distinct air of “sexual prey” about me, and me thinking that this was a huge compliment. Being dominated and playing the innocent who secretly wasn’t had been my currency and had guided the sexual dynamic I forged with partners for the last 10 years. But only for the last few months had I allowed myself to entertain what I considered to be the final frontier — a simulated rape.

The problem, of course, was that since we’d never discussed it, his decision to enact it without any prior dialogue, without my consent, robbed me of the control that would’ve made it a rape fantasy rather than an out-and-out rape.

Growing up as I did in an era where the phrase “no means no” was seared into my brain from grade school on, I was nervous about revealing my dirty secret to Jacob, worried I’d scare off my relatively naïve partner or make him think I was sick. I was relieved and excited when he told me he would be into trying it out. From there, the content of our emails, texts and video chats became decidedly faux-rapey, as I told him how I wanted him to hold me down, force my legs apart and screw me even as I begged him to stop. It was foreplay, and it got me incredibly hot. In my mind, it was still very much in the realm of fantasy, and I was secure in knowing that if and when I decided to take things to the next level — i.e., act out the fantasy — the inevitable and, for me, dreaded conversation involving safe words and boundaries (things I’d always associated with schoolmarms and humorless girls who’d read too much Third Wave feminism) would have to happen.

I never got the chance to have that conversation before things went horribly wrong. To celebrate Jacob’s birthday, I’d booked us a room in a fancy hotel, where we’d proceeded to make very quick work of every surface in the first few hours of our stay. Late that night, we returned home from a tame evening out, both totally sober. We’d been arguing intermittently and there was a strange vibe between us when I flounced onto the overstuffed bed in my underwear, pouting petulantly. As he crawled on top of me, I rather sternly informed him that I didn’t want to have sex with him. To my horror, he got a menacing look on his face and ignored my protests. I knew after a few misguided attempts to block him from entering me that he thought what was happening was drastically different from what I knew to be taking place. To him, this was the fantasy I’d been talking about. To me, it was not.

The problem, of course, was that since we’d never discussed it, his decision to enact it without any prior dialogue, without my consent, robbed me of the control that would’ve made it a rape fantasy rather than an out-and-out rape.

As the knowledge of what was happening dawned on me and the seconds crawled by, I made the decision to lay as mute and motionless as possible, to drive home the point that it wasn’t, in fact, what I wanted and I wasn’t enjoying what he was doing. I was worried that fighting back would only make him think I was play-acting all the more, and I didn’t feel imperiled enough to try to hurt him in the service of getting him to stop. When it was over, I lay there, shaken. When I finally sat up, I whispered to Jacob that what happened wasn’t what he thought happened. And it was then that what might feasibly have been dealt with as simply an unfortunate miscommunication (a very unfortunate one) took on the weight of an irrevocable transgression. Horrified at the suggestion that he’d misread my signals and overtaken me, Jacob began to lash out. He insisted that I was to blame, that I’d made him into a monster and led him down the road to ruin by suggesting the fantasy in the first place. He furiously maintained that despite what I said, I could’ve stopped him. I could’ve uttered the magic words that would’ve made him know I was serious, that I wanted him to stop, that this was not, in fact, my fantasy. But because I didn’t, I was, as he eloquently put it, asking for it.

If this had happened to any one of my friends, indeed any woman I know, I’d have been the first to rail against any sort of “blame the victim” stance. But knowing what I know about my own reticence to set concrete limits, not out of laziness but out of sheer spite for what I’d always thought was a lame, overwrought, touchy-feely set of principles, I can’t assuage myself fully from blame.

In the days and hours and weeks since that night in the hotel room, I fought hard to make Jacob understand that I didn’t blame him entirely for what happened. I knew I’d failed to explain my boundaries to him, but the incident itself wasn’t what had upset me as much as his single-minded belief that I and I alone was responsible for the f**k-up. His lack of compassion and empathy proved to me that he wasn’t the sort of person I could rely on when things got, as it were, rough. Maybe with the right person, the relationship could’ve recovered from such a catastrophic misunderstanding. But I’ll never know. I’ll never let such a catastrophic misunderstanding happen again.

http://www.thefrisky.com/2009-09-23/girl-talk-when-rape-fantasy-becomes-reality/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#26908223)



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Date: December 11th, 2014 9:34 AM
Author: cracking station

She should accompany him to jail for more rape.

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Date: December 11th, 2014 9:35 AM
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Date: December 11th, 2014 9:35 AM
Author: Bearded Lascivious Indirect Expression Famous Landscape Painting

She is guilty of conspiracy to commit rape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#26908238)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:08 PM
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Date: December 11th, 2014 9:37 AM
Author: Ruddy Stage Tattoo

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Date: December 11th, 2014 9:39 AM
Author: cracking station

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Date: December 11th, 2014 9:40 AM
Author: Bearded Lascivious Indirect Expression Famous Landscape Painting

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Date: July 30th, 2015 5:16 PM
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Date: December 11th, 2014 9:38 AM
Author: Brindle charismatic mad cow disease

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Date: December 11th, 2014 9:38 AM
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Date: December 11th, 2014 9:39 AM
Author: Rose razzle resort

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Date: December 11th, 2014 9:39 AM
Author: Brindle charismatic mad cow disease

"Jessica ASI • a month ago

There is a huge difference in expressing an interest in something and consenting to it. And, yes, even in a rape fantasy consent should be given and boundaries should be discussed. Unfortunately in this case Jacob misinterpreted her interest as consent to act whenever he felt like it.

Not only that, but some of the comments about her "asking for it" or about her laying still are disgusting. You do NOT have to fight back for rape to occur (sex with someone who is asleep or unconscious is rape).

Here's an analogy for you, if I tell someone I'm interested in going sky diving and then decide to fly somewhere the next week.. that does not mean anyone on that plan gets to push me out without my permission and a parachute (permission=consent, parachute=safeword). If they said, hey since we're on this plane.. ya wanna go sky diving? I can agree and strap on a parachute or say no and fly to my destination. But you don't get to force me to go sky diving just because I expressed interest in it last week and we happen to be in the sky."

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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:07 PM
Author: pontificating disturbing shrine

(permission=consent, parachute=safeword) would be a good moniker

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Date: May 14th, 2015 4:27 PM
Author: heady voyeur

Wouldn't the correct analogy be "I want someone to push me out of an airplane when I don't expect it?"

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Date: May 15th, 2015 2:36 PM
Author: nudist state

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Date: May 26th, 2015 12:50 PM
Author: brass hunting ground candlestick maker

"Your indecisiveness is holding up all those waiting in line behind you"

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Date: December 11th, 2014 9:39 AM
Author: Stirring Antidepressant Drug

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Date: May 26th, 2015 12:52 PM
Author: brass hunting ground candlestick maker

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Date: December 11th, 2014 9:40 AM
Author: Brindle charismatic mad cow disease

"Scarlet_Elise • 8 months ago

Blame the victim much? Wow what a huge amount of scum there are in these comments. Particularly, Icee, the guy who went on to excuse his own sexual harassment of a partner. Just because someone is in a relationship doesn't mean they have to have sex with you, or even give you affection if they don't want to."

OH WHAT A VICTIM!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#26908260)



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Date: December 11th, 2014 9:43 AM
Author: Brindle charismatic mad cow disease

SO BRAVE!!

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Date: December 11th, 2014 10:01 AM
Author: Vivacious Dog Poop Internal Respiration

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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:10 PM
Author: Honey-headed magical abode therapy

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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:24 PM
Author: fragrant house-broken market



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Date: December 11th, 2014 10:12 AM
Author: beady-eyed idea he suggested site

She doesn't indicate that she said anything clear like "this is not my fantasy like we discussed" or even just yelling "safe word" that would have told him this was not what she wanted. Saying "no" or "stop" were probably things they discussed in her emails. I doubt he fully refused blame b/c he clearly felt bad if he felt he was turned into a monster. He was probably pissed that he felt duped by all those emails and texts. How was he supposed to know if she didn't make it clear?

It also seems like many girls often mis-categorize a rough sex fantasy as a rape fantasy. She wanted to be dominated, but that doesn't mean forced against her will.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#26908377)



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Date: December 11th, 2014 10:15 AM
Author: Rose razzle resort

So you think there is a chance this actually happened?

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Date: December 11th, 2014 10:20 AM
Author: beady-eyed idea he suggested site

That a girl teases a guy for weeks with the idea of a fantasy she wants to act out, then when he acts out said fantasy she says she didn't want it and was in no way clear about that? You think that's outside of the realm of possibility for a girl to do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#26908386)



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Date: December 11th, 2014 10:42 AM
Author: stubborn temple

You misunderstood. This article, and a future criminal complaint, are both parts of her rape fantasy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#26908465)



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Date: December 11th, 2014 10:46 AM
Author: Brindle charismatic mad cow disease



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#26908489)



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Date: December 11th, 2014 10:52 AM
Author: umber crusty hospital organic girlfriend

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#26908508)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:02 PM
Author: umber crusty hospital organic girlfriend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890179)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:08 PM
Author: pontificating disturbing shrine

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890213)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:09 PM
Author: white underhanded whorehouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890224)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:11 PM
Author: Honey-headed magical abode therapy

LOLOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890248)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:11 PM
Author: Passionate ticket booth community account



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890253)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:14 PM
Author: slimy electric trump supporter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890278)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:38 PM
Author: stubborn temple

don't remember writing this lmao 180000000000 past self



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890408)



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Date: May 26th, 2015 11:51 AM
Author: umber crusty hospital organic girlfriend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27966417)



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Date: May 26th, 2015 12:47 PM
Author: Bronze mind-boggling national mad-dog skullcap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27966709)



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Date: February 8th, 2018 11:43 PM
Author: stubborn temple



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#35360536)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 3:43 PM
Author: Federal coldplay fan place of business



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27891147)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 4:30 PM
Author: Hairraiser hideous office pistol

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27891408)



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Date: May 15th, 2015 1:47 PM
Author: Brindle charismatic mad cow disease



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27897431)



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Date: May 26th, 2015 12:15 PM
Author: Thriller Liquid Oxygen

sounds like a Patrick Hamm rehash

http://encyclopediadramatica.se/Patrick_Hamm

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27966534)



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Date: July 29th, 2015 11:19 AM
Author: umber crusty hospital organic girlfriend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#28434545)



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Date: July 29th, 2015 11:22 AM
Author: cowardly people who are hurt milk

fuck. 180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#28434564)



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Date: October 11th, 2016 8:34 AM
Author: Trip bawdyhouse pervert



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Date: October 11th, 2016 8:35 AM
Author: Medicated toilet seat keepsake machete



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#31614926)



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Date: October 11th, 2016 10:46 AM
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Date: October 11th, 2016 8:29 PM
Author: Curious useless giraffe stead

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#31619589)



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Date: October 11th, 2016 9:09 PM
Author: Motley dun theatre clown

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#31619956)



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Date: January 27th, 2019 10:10 AM
Author: Trip bawdyhouse pervert



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#37671921)



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Author: fragrant house-broken market



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#37709270)



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Author: histrionic police squad hall



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#46757475)



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Date: September 10th, 2023 1:25 PM
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Date: September 11th, 2023 4:44 PM
Author: Irradiated violet parlor

Missed this back in the day but a complete BANGER of a poast here

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#46784367)



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Date: September 11th, 2023 4:44 PM
Author: Wild vibrant multi-billionaire



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#46784371)



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Date: December 11th, 2014 10:40 AM
Author: Orchid meetinghouse

Jacob deserves crucifiction!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#26908451)



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Date: December 11th, 2014 10:51 AM
Author: umber crusty hospital organic girlfriend

Women who discuss rape fantasies really might want to couch that language differently. Has anyone read the short story Rape Fantasies? I think it's margaret atwood.

anyway, a group of girls get together and discuss their rape fantasies while building a card house together or something and the narrator is annoyed at how all the other girls just want a stranger to make love to them.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#26908506)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:08 PM
Author: lime casino sweet tailpipe

why does doobs still write these

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890212)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:13 PM
Author: Honey-headed magical abode therapy

i wouldn't hate it if we made a big slingshot that shot all women on earth into the oort cloud

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890274)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:17 PM
Author: slimy electric trump supporter

yeeesh. serious q: is it possible to actually fulfill a rape fantasy if both people discuss and confirm the consensual nature of the encounter before hand?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890297)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:22 PM
Author: Honey-headed magical abode therapy

it seems technically impossible. a rape fantasy includes, as a very condition of the fantasy, power being taken away from the 'victim'. that is, they don't have the power to stop it even if they want. a 'safeword' is some kind of release valve, perhaps, but that's just another way of saying that the woman doesn't desire to be raped by her partner, but rather she wants to pretend to be raped by her partner, who is also pretending to rape her.

and that's fine, but a woman who has an interest in this should perhaps say, "i have a fantasy that i'd love to act out. i want you to pretend to rape me, and i want to pretend to be raped, but at no point do i actually want you to overtake me or force me to do anything i don't want to do at that moment, and at each and every point i want the ability to stop things cold. that would be very hot."

that's fine, no problem with that, but months of "just take me whenever :)))" is more than a little misleading

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890318)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:27 PM
Author: slimy electric trump supporter

cr.

yeah the lead up and talking about it for months and then booking a hotel room for the purpose of fucking each other's brains out seems like the functional equivalent of the "discussion" she claims needed to precede acting out the fantasy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890355)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:33 PM
Author: pontificating disturbing shrine

to be fair, humans do not speak with this level of precision, and any non-idiot would have recognized that was an assumption of the fantasy. Her idiot boyfriend couldn't tell that, which is no surprise, it's not like this woman sounds like she'd be going out with a non-idiot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890386)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:41 PM
Author: Amethyst Startled House Travel Guidebook

(Guy who has not read a lot of third wave feminism)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890424)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 2:51 PM
Author: Honey-headed magical abode therapy

if she's communicating "my fantasy is for you to fuck me / rape me whenever you want," she gave him precisely the wrong message, sorry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890898)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 3:39 PM
Author: pontificating disturbing shrine

i didn't say she is blameless, she gave him the wrong message, and only a fucking idiot wouldn't be able to realize that what she really wanted was a safe, psuedo-rape scenario. She was dumb for not being able to see that, but the dude must have been pretty dumb as well not to be able to figure out that it was not an enjoyable experience.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27891126)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 3:46 PM
Author: Rose razzle resort

Also it never happened.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27891166)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 6:26 PM
Author: stubborn temple

women don't speak with such precision, but askav does. that's why it's preferable to date/rape askav, rather than women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27892112)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:25 PM
Author: umber crusty hospital organic girlfriend

her fantasy is fulfilled but it is an illegal contract, so it doesnt matter that both parties agree. it will always be rape-rape

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890347)



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Date: May 15th, 2015 2:41 PM
Author: nudist state

this is exactly why i don't mess with girls who tell me about rape fantasies

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27897761)



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Date: October 11th, 2016 8:24 PM
Author: salmon gas station death wish

Words and the consent they convey only have the meaning the context gives them. Hell, shitlibs believe in the indeterminacy of language more than most.

But now they want "no" to have a mind-independent, context-free meaning, even though the woman apparently spent considerable time and effort creating a context in which "no" meant not just "yes" but "hell, yes" to the boyfriend?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#31619541)



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Date: October 11th, 2016 8:25 PM
Author: salmon gas station death wish

"her fantasy is fulfilled but it is an illegal contract"

Wrong analysis. Begs the question (and not in the way ignorant proles use the term).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#31619548)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 1:28 PM
Author: chocolate depressive mediation

A female would never put a man in a no-win situation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27890359)



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Date: May 26th, 2015 12:59 PM
Author: brass hunting ground candlestick maker

Only if it includes cosplay. For example, Polish Peasant Girl and Black Waffen SS Volunteer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27966758)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 3:44 PM
Author: Poppy laughsome fortuitous meteor

Gangraped by 4 blacks who also rape and shoot your mother: "It was fun."

Role-playing expressed rape fantasy with boyfriend: "I was raped."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27891151)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 3:44 PM
Author: slimy electric trump supporter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27891154)



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Date: May 26th, 2015 1:12 PM
Author: brass hunting ground candlestick maker

Whores frame their experiences to correlate with their current understanding of social expectations to preserve or improve their social standing or to suite their personal corrupt and dishonest goals.

"My dick #159, which I know well, was not inserted exactly when I wanted it and now I am HORRIBLY TRAUMATIZED" is utter bullshit.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27966816)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 4:16 PM
Author: Magenta Stain

I don't like victim blaming, but I do wonder why she didn't say "Jacob stop this isn't the rape fantasy I had in mind!!!" She's obviously not shy about the idea, and staying "motionless and mute" is the credited thing to do if you are actually getting rape-raped by a complete stranger who breaks into your apartment at 1 AM, not by your "gentle and loving" bf.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27891327)



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Date: May 14th, 2015 6:49 PM
Author: stubborn temple

*buys an extra large PVC pipe, waits outside your workplace*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27892301)



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Date: October 11th, 2016 9:02 PM
Author: salmon gas station death wish

http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=193235&forum_id=2#2933980

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#31619883)



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Date: May 26th, 2015 12:45 PM
Author: massive native

In the words of reddit: THIS.

How the FUCK does she gloss over the biggest fucking gap in this story? You have a fantasy that involves boundary pushing. And safe words to protect yourself.

SO BOUNDARIES GET PUSHED ... SHE IS NOT HAPPY WANTS TO STOP

*ignores safe word for no reason*

This makes utterly no sense. I'm starting to wonder if like Lena Dunham, being a "rape victim" or really just a "victim" of something is a pre-req to being a feminist, a liberal, and/or whatever tribe these people claim to belong to.

And I say this as a liberal myself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27966694)



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Date: May 26th, 2015 12:46 PM
Author: Rose razzle resort

Thats why I thought she made it up for a cute article.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#27966705)



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Date: October 11th, 2016 8:14 PM
Author: Know-it-all bright heaven

how else would she be able to write this article and get all the social media attention she craves?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#31619448)



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Date: October 11th, 2016 8:27 PM
Author: salmon gas station death wish

Strange things happen when victimization becomes virtue.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#31619563)



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Date: November 23rd, 2022 3:36 PM
Author: Wonderful flushed partner gaping

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#45536093)



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Date: December 21st, 2017 11:49 AM
Author: Multi-colored kitty cat sound barrier

Hmmm

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#34975396)



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Date: August 14th, 2020 5:55 PM
Author: harsh really tough guy

"in the words of reddit"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#40757254)



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Date: July 29th, 2015 11:32 AM
Author: Floppy Submissive Fat Ankles Cuckoldry

you dont get it. the fantasy was tricking this guy into play-raping her then writing this article calling it real rape. this is the world we live in

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#28434614)



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Date: October 11th, 2016 10:46 AM
Author: Frozen chapel

underrated

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#31615429)



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Date: December 21st, 2017 11:49 AM
Author: Multi-colored kitty cat sound barrier



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Date: October 11th, 2016 8:20 PM
Author: Wonderful flushed partner gaping

she's not a victim, she's an author of bullshit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#31619503)



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Date: July 30th, 2015 5:21 PM
Author: copper idiotic gaming laptop field

check out this segment of an interview Howard Stern did with Jillian Barberie. The whole thing is worth watching, but this is the part relevant to this thread. It's fucking hot.

https://youtu.be/kYtvo7bCDl4?t=19m18s

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#28444176)



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Date: September 10th, 2021 11:09 PM
Author: white underhanded whorehouse

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#43096579)



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Author: umber crusty hospital organic girlfriend



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Author: blue fantasy-prone legal warrant

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#45536245)



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Author: Orchid meetinghouse

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2753477&forum_id=2#46757507)



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