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proposed last night. It went horribly. I should break up, I gues

fml. And because I was stupid and told people I was going...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
tell us what happened
Thirsty alcoholic church
  12/25/14
So I waited until after I made him dinner, and we were havin...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
stfu doobs
Lake exhilarant menage
  12/25/14
I wish I were flame. This actually happened. And today's ...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
...
ebony knife codepig
  12/25/14
it isn't
Cracking red liquid oxygen
  12/25/14
...
Trip Cocky National
  12/25/14
100% certain
Dark dingle berry
  12/26/14
Abso-doobsly
pearl 180 garrison
  12/26/14
Indoobitably
Gaped Genital Piercing
  12/26/14
wow. i'm sorry. yeah, it sounds like this is over.
Cracking red liquid oxygen
  12/25/14
Yeah. The weird part is, I have no idea if we're fucking eng...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
wtf? wanted to keep it? you need to find out ASAP what he...
Cracking red liquid oxygen
  12/25/14
yeah, so he kept the ring, and wore it but it turned out to ...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
yea that sounds hard. but what the fuck is he thinking? why ...
Cracking red liquid oxygen
  12/25/14
Right? I have no idea what's really going on in his head. I'...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
fuckup how? you shouldn't feel ashamed it's just unfortunate
Cracking red liquid oxygen
  12/25/14
If I hadn't of told anyone I wouldn't have to hear the disap...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
maybe. anyway i would worry more about yourself and your sit...
Cracking red liquid oxygen
  12/25/14
Yeah. You're right. It's not that I'm worried about how peop...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
why wouldn't i be? i remember how excited you were about thi...
Cracking red liquid oxygen
  12/25/14
:-) Thanks. Honestly, I would have preferred he just say &qu...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
He wants to keep fucking her of course.
Irradiated confused location background story
  12/25/14
Bold guess here: He's Jewish.
sick area shitlib
  12/25/14
athiest
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
You must ATD immediately. Were you not SURE she would s...
Cordovan nighttime set
  12/25/14
EVERYBODY miscarries the first time. If you don't know about...
Milky locale dopamine
  12/25/14
link?
Tripping nowag
  12/25/14
i have four kids by four different women. I know firsthand.
Milky locale dopamine
  12/25/14
Flame Assuming not flame, why the fuck are you, as a fema...
Gaped Genital Piercing
  12/25/14
...
ebony knife codepig
  12/25/14
i disagree. women always wonder whether the men they're with...
Cracking red liquid oxygen
  12/25/14
LOL, no! Guys will be irritated by a woman proposing, unless...
Gaped Genital Piercing
  12/25/14
guess i'm bitchmade but i don't see the issue. it's not like...
Cracking red liquid oxygen
  12/25/14
Regardless, if a man wants to marry a woman, he'll propose. ...
Gaped Genital Piercing
  12/25/14
CR If a woman proposed to me... I would say "No"...
Cordovan nighttime set
  12/25/14
no offense here, but you aren't the kind of guy a girl would...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
Harsh, but fair
Cordovan nighttime set
  12/25/14
Fuck no. Forcing the issue by proposing is the best way to ...
Irradiated confused location background story
  12/25/14
OK fine. If a woman just wants confirmation that he has no i...
Gaped Genital Piercing
  12/25/14
That wasn't my situation, but I don't see anything wrong wit...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
Didn't you think that if he wanted and was ready to marry yo...
Gaped Genital Piercing
  12/25/14
I don't regret asking. I'm proud of myself for having the co...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
Can't assume female, can we?
Cordovan nighttime set
  12/25/14
Strongly disagree - why can't women propose? Women already, ...
sick area shitlib
  12/25/14
lol
flirting concupiscible messiness skinny woman
  12/25/14
lol
Cordovan nighttime set
  12/25/14
stfu Julia
Gaped Genital Piercing
  12/25/14
lol, OP clearly isnt a female. check your cis heteronormativ...
Tripping nowag
  12/25/14
...
ebony knife codepig
  12/25/14
I bought a ring for him.
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
...
ebony knife codepig
  12/25/14
he isn't close to his mother but I asked his identical twin
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
...
Aggressive Station Famous Landscape Painting
  12/26/14
lol
startled charcoal institution
  12/26/14
jumped the shark
Bisexual Iridescent Toaster
  12/26/14
cr
Cracking red liquid oxygen
  12/26/14
You're a woman and you proposed? No wonder it ended in disa...
Irradiated confused location background story
  12/25/14
We don't have a traditional kind of relationship. That's wha...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
You need to get rid of him because he is not that into you
sticky crackhouse boiling water
  12/25/14
I'm realizing this. It's just weird because we have lived to...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
OP is arrow. Obviously. Or doobs pretending to be arrow.
Ultramarine Effete State Mad-dog Skullcap
  12/25/14
false. op is female. but it could be flame
Cracking red liquid oxygen
  12/25/14
OP is "female" the same way my coffee table is &qu...
multi-colored abode
  12/25/14
I'm a female poster
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
You're a pseudorandom sequence of punctuation marks, represe...
multi-colored abode
  12/25/14
'She' could be a plucky, clueless Asian female, I'm willing ...
Thirsty alcoholic church
  12/25/14
I'm using my actual moniker, just changed to pumo because I'...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
You're an inanimate fucking object
sick area shitlib
  12/25/14
come on dude, you should know better than this.
lime jew
  12/25/14
Maybe OP didn't get down on one knee.
Cordovan nighttime set
  12/25/14
I didn't. I think the one knee thing is ridiculous for eithe...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
This flame is making me delirious!
Thirsty alcoholic church
  12/25/14
Your flame makes me smile!
Orange Angry Giraffe Candlestick Maker
  12/25/14
My o|||||||o is still in the shop
Thirsty alcoholic church
  12/25/14
Thoughts & prayers in this difficult time, brother.
Orange Angry Giraffe Candlestick Maker
  12/25/14
ty, I pick it up tomorrow
Thirsty alcoholic church
  12/25/14
you guessed right
flirting concupiscible messiness skinny woman
  12/25/14
arrow sure does need to gas himself
hyperactive space
  12/25/14
this is a new low, doobs
lemon painfully honest windowlicker trailer park
  12/25/14
...
ebony knife codepig
  12/25/14
...
multi-colored abode
  12/25/14
...
Thirsty alcoholic church
  12/25/14
It's even more depressing when my actual life tragedy is dis...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
...
Sepia Arousing Idiot Native
  12/26/14
in on doobs
Flesh resort
  12/25/14
you lose.
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
Feel bad for you. Sorry.
Fragrant affirmative action
  12/25/14
cr. what an awful xmas. only way to salvage it now is murder...
Tripping nowag
  12/25/14
When you are called upon to discuss it, you don't say "...
Milky locale dopamine
  12/25/14
Thanks for the advice. I'll use a version of this
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
no. this is face-saving horseshit and will make you feel mor...
Cracking red liquid oxygen
  12/25/14
Tso heroic! Besides, he actually didn't say no.
Milky locale dopamine
  12/25/14
I think you can argue that not saying yes in this scenario m...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
Skinny girl is confirmed doobs right
smoky marvelous clown round eye
  12/25/14
did she finish her cheeseburger?
Thirsty alcoholic church
  12/25/14
I outted doobs as a creep a while ago by posting transcripts...
rambunctious cyan toilet seat
  12/25/14
skinny girl has been on tinychat. she's confirmed not doobs,...
Cracking red liquid oxygen
  12/25/14
(doobs)
flirting concupiscible messiness skinny woman
  12/25/14
...
Dark dingle berry
  12/26/14
(pumette responding to pumette)
Boyish community account
  12/26/14
...
ruddy adventurous corner
  12/30/14
has he had your ass
erotic garnet meetinghouse jap
  12/25/14
If not flame this is sad but honestly the chances of this tu...
blathering stage
  12/25/14
...
Histrionic Stead
  12/25/14
sick catty femposter on femposter violence bro
Boyish community account
  12/26/14
...
Rough-skinned sound barrier shrine
  12/26/14
you don't have to report bak to anyone! if anyone asks ab...
Electric navy address
  12/25/14
...
Hairless halford
  12/25/14
that's what you get for thinking you could land a chad. Larr...
Sickened stimulating people who are hurt
  12/26/14
cr. his blood is on ur hands
Cracking red liquid oxygen
  12/26/14
How bad is his credit? That could be the deal breaker here.
Black Range Associate
  12/26/14
Doobs did you imagine a man wearing around an engagement rin...
heady awkward regret
  12/26/14
good move not to gloat about successful flame too early. got...
mint exciting nursing home trump supporter
  12/26/14
...
Rough-skinned sound barrier shrine
  12/26/14
isn't he a vegan? oy vey
Boyish community account
  12/26/14
wow you have a lot of balls sister. i could never pull somet...
Rough-skinned sound barrier shrine
  12/26/14
WTF doobs
Odious buff gaming laptop
  12/26/14
how long have you dated? i would honestly feel weird and ki...
Bisexual Iridescent Toaster
  12/26/14
lol yeah maybe
Boyish community account
  12/30/14
Wait, so reading through this thread, you are not into tradi...
Naked church building
  12/26/14
although this thread is flame and also jfc doobs, this does ...
Sepia Arousing Idiot Native
  12/26/14
*gives you a flower*
Drunken Wrinkle
  12/26/14
:( but hey if you need some good rebound sex to cheer...
lime jew
  12/30/14
totally amazing how everyone on xo doesnt understand basic h...
Hairraiser Reading Party
  12/30/14


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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:23 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

fml.

And because I was stupid and told people I was going to do it, I'm going to have to let them know what happened.

Maybe just killself?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996752)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:23 PM
Author: Thirsty alcoholic church

tell us what happened

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996754)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:26 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

So I waited until after I made him dinner, and we were having a glass of wine by the little christmas tree.

I told him I had one more gift for him, and went into my propoal.

He replied "What?" about ten times... then goes, "Why me?" then talked about his bad credit for a minute, then goes, "You're so weird".

Then he said, "Well it's not a definite no."

Damn, I really should killself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996765)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:26 PM
Author: Lake exhilarant menage

stfu doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996767)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

I wish I were flame.

This actually happened. And today's been an entire day of awkwardness because he still lives here.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996773)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:35 PM
Author: ebony knife codepig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996813)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:36 PM
Author: Cracking red liquid oxygen

it isn't

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996815)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:58 PM
Author: Trip Cocky National



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996916)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:34 AM
Author: Dark dingle berry

100% certain

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998911)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:01 AM
Author: pearl 180 garrison

Abso-doobsly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999744)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:03 AM
Author: Gaped Genital Piercing

Indoobitably

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999747)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: Cracking red liquid oxygen

wow. i'm sorry. yeah, it sounds like this is over.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996768)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:29 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

Yeah. The weird part is, I have no idea if we're fucking engaged or not, because when I tried to take the ring back and just forget it ever happened he said he wanted to keep it. Then asked "What does this mean?" about five more times. We're both non confrontational introverts.

I mean of course we're not engaged because I do have some pride left. But jfc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996782)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:29 PM
Author: Cracking red liquid oxygen

wtf? wanted to keep it?

you need to find out ASAP what he really thinks about this. i don't understand how you could even end the conversation without being sure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996785)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:31 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

yeah, so he kept the ring, and wore it but it turned out to be a little too small. He's been sucking up to me hardcore ever since last night, but we haven't talked about it at all today.

Since we live together, I'm trying to work up the nerve to tell him to leave for a while so I can figure out how i feel about everything.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996790)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: Cracking red liquid oxygen

yea that sounds hard. but what the fuck is he thinking? why would he suck up to you after rejecting you? what does he even want?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996795)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:37 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

Right? I have no idea what's really going on in his head. I'm just going to try to get through the new year dealing with my fuckup of telling other people that I was going to propose.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996822)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:48 PM
Author: Cracking red liquid oxygen

fuckup how? you shouldn't feel ashamed it's just unfortunate

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996870)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:52 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

If I hadn't of told anyone I wouldn't have to hear the disappointment when I tell them what happened. I know everyone cares about me and will be nice about it, but I'm too empathic for my own good.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996886)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:57 PM
Author: Cracking red liquid oxygen

maybe. anyway i would worry more about yourself and your situation with him than about how other people are gonna think and feel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996910)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:00 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

Yeah. You're right. It's not that I'm worried about how people are going to feel more than myself... it's just that one extra thing that's going to be a kick in the face. Thanks for being nice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996923)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:01 PM
Author: Cracking red liquid oxygen

why wouldn't i be? i remember how excited you were about this dood and i think it really sucks that it turned out that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996928)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:09 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

:-) Thanks. Honestly, I would have preferred he just say "no."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996974)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:40 PM
Author: Irradiated confused location background story

He wants to keep fucking her of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996834)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: sick area shitlib

Bold guess here: He's Jewish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996794)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:39 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

athiest

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996833)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: Cordovan nighttime set

You must ATD immediately.

Were you not SURE she would say YES? (rhetorical Q obvsly)

TBF, we told a bunch of people my wife was pregnant the first time at like 8 weeks. Miscarried. Hilarious, huh?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996775)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:33 PM
Author: Milky locale dopamine

EVERYBODY miscarries the first time. If you don't know about it, she miscarried Darnell's baby.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997132)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:34 PM
Author: Tripping nowag

link?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997141)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:44 PM
Author: Milky locale dopamine

i have four kids by four different women. I know firsthand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997183)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: Gaped Genital Piercing

Flame

Assuming not flame, why the fuck are you, as a female, proposing? Don't you know that's a recipe for disaster?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996772)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:27 PM
Author: ebony knife codepig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996774)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: Cracking red liquid oxygen

i disagree. women always wonder whether the men they're with are really in it for the long term. proposing is the best way to find out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996778)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: Gaped Genital Piercing

LOL, no! Guys will be irritated by a woman proposing, unless the guy is some bitchmade "super progressive" liberal beta shithead. You may as well cut off a guy's balls by proposing to him. A man should be in the driver's seat; let him propose.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996796)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:33 PM
Author: Cracking red liquid oxygen

guess i'm bitchmade but i don't see the issue. it's not like it'll come as a true surprise either way

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996802)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:36 PM
Author: Gaped Genital Piercing

Regardless, if a man wants to marry a woman, he'll propose. If he hasn't proposed yet, it's because he doesn't want to marry the woman, or he's not ready yet. Either way, if the woman proposes, it's almost a guaranteed failure.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996818)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:37 PM
Author: Cordovan nighttime set

CR

If a woman proposed to me... I would say "No" out of principle. Then ATD.

Would immediately think the chick was not stable. Also, why would I want a woman so eager to usurp my masculinity?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996820)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:39 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

no offense here, but you aren't the kind of guy a girl would propose to. If I were dating a different kind of guy, I would have acted differently.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996832)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:41 PM
Author: Cordovan nighttime set

Harsh, but fair

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996842)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: Irradiated confused location background story

Fuck no. Forcing the issue by proposing is the best way to ensure he says no right now even if he is open to it in the long term.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996824)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:43 PM
Author: Gaped Genital Piercing

OK fine. If a woman just wants confirmation that he has no intention of marrying her so she can move on, then yes, maybe it's a good idea. But then it sounds like she's proposing SO THAT he will say no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996851)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:46 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

That wasn't my situation, but I don't see anything wrong with what you said.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996865)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:49 PM
Author: Gaped Genital Piercing

Didn't you think that if he wanted and was ready to marry you, he would have proposed or was getting ready to propose?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996873)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:50 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

I don't regret asking. I'm proud of myself for having the courage to go after what I want even knowing it could turn out this way. Still stings though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997211)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: Cordovan nighttime set

Can't assume female, can we?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996779)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:54 PM
Author: sick area shitlib

Strongly disagree - why can't women propose? Women already, often enough, play a hand in picking out the ring and financing it. Relationships are a team effort, and if one team member finds the right opportunity to ask the question, why can't she go for it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996895)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:55 PM
Author: flirting concupiscible messiness skinny woman

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996900)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:58 PM
Author: Cordovan nighttime set

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996911)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:58 PM
Author: Gaped Genital Piercing

stfu Julia

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996912)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:29 PM
Author: Tripping nowag

lol, OP clearly isnt a female. check your cis heteronormative privilege



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997102)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: ebony knife codepig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996777)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:29 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

I bought a ring for him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996784)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:33 PM
Author: ebony knife codepig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996801)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

he isn't close to his mother but I asked his identical twin

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996823)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 6:22 AM
Author: Aggressive Station Famous Landscape Painting



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999553)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:01 AM
Author: startled charcoal institution

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999742)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:38 AM
Author: Bisexual Iridescent Toaster

jumped the shark

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999820)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:39 AM
Author: Cracking red liquid oxygen

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999822)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:28 PM
Author: Irradiated confused location background story

You're a woman and you proposed? No wonder it ended in disaster.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996780)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:30 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

We don't have a traditional kind of relationship. That's what makes it fun. I don't want a traditional type because I've had that and its boring. But this sucks, so who knows.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996787)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:30 PM
Author: sticky crackhouse boiling water

You need to get rid of him because he is not that into you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996788)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:32 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

I'm realizing this. It's just weird because we have lived together for a year and everything is awesome. Maybe he's just not into the marriage thing, or maybe he's just using me for companionship. I don't know.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996791)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:34 PM
Author: Ultramarine Effete State Mad-dog Skullcap

OP is arrow. Obviously.

Or doobs pretending to be arrow.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996805)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:35 PM
Author: Cracking red liquid oxygen

false. op is female. but it could be flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996808)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: multi-colored abode

OP is "female" the same way my coffee table is "female"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996826)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:40 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

I'm a female poster

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996837)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:43 PM
Author: multi-colored abode

You're a pseudorandom sequence of punctuation marks, representing an anonymous user of a racist law chat tweet. No part of this indicates you're a female. Post tits or GTFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996847)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:44 PM
Author: Thirsty alcoholic church

'She' could be a plucky, clueless Asian female, I'm willing to believe such a girl might propose to her handsome

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996852)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:44 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

I'm using my actual moniker, just changed to pumo because I'm not flaming and wanted some actual advice from anonymous people. but whatever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996855)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:58 PM
Author: sick area shitlib

You're an inanimate fucking object

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997252)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 10:17 PM
Author: lime jew

come on dude, you should know better than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998204)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:35 PM
Author: Cordovan nighttime set

Maybe OP didn't get down on one knee.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996811)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:41 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

I didn't. I think the one knee thing is ridiculous for either gender.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996841)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:38 PM
Author: Thirsty alcoholic church

This flame is making me delirious!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996825)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:40 PM
Author: Orange Angry Giraffe Candlestick Maker

Your flame makes me smile!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996836)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:41 PM
Author: Thirsty alcoholic church

My

o|||||||o

is still in the shop

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996840)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:42 PM
Author: Orange Angry Giraffe Candlestick Maker

Thoughts & prayers in this difficult time, brother.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996844)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:43 PM
Author: Thirsty alcoholic church

ty, I pick it up tomorrow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996848)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:45 PM
Author: flirting concupiscible messiness skinny woman

you guessed right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996860)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 5:57 PM
Author: hyperactive space

arrow sure does need to gas himself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996904)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:12 PM
Author: lemon painfully honest windowlicker trailer park

this is a new low, doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996983)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:12 PM
Author: ebony knife codepig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996985)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:12 PM
Author: multi-colored abode



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26996990)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:14 PM
Author: Thirsty alcoholic church



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997004)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:27 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

It's even more depressing when my actual life tragedy is dismissed as doobs flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997093)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:27 PM
Author: Sepia Arousing Idiot Native



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27001057)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:31 PM
Author: Flesh resort

in on doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997112)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:32 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

you lose.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997122)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:34 PM
Author: Fragrant affirmative action

Feel bad for you. Sorry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997140)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:35 PM
Author: Tripping nowag

cr. what an awful xmas. only way to salvage it now is murder her would be fiance and his entire bloodline

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997146)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:36 PM
Author: Milky locale dopamine

When you are called upon to discuss it, you don't say "he said no", you say, we are are not ready to decide for certain yet, so we are still thinking over our long term plans.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997152)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:38 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

Thanks for the advice. I'll use a version of this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997163)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:41 PM
Author: Cracking red liquid oxygen

no. this is face-saving horseshit and will make you feel more ashamed in the long haul. you should tell the truth. it'll be okay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997174)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:43 PM
Author: Milky locale dopamine

Tso heroic! Besides, he actually didn't say no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997181)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:47 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

I think you can argue that not saying yes in this scenario means saying no. I am going to say that it didn't go as planned and I'm not sure what that means right now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997194)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:49 PM
Author: smoky marvelous clown round eye

Skinny girl is confirmed doobs right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997204)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:50 PM
Author: Thirsty alcoholic church

did she finish her cheeseburger?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997213)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:52 PM
Author: rambunctious cyan toilet seat

I outted doobs as a creep a while ago by posting transcripts of our chats that showed him being creepy. So... no.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997224)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:59 PM
Author: Cracking red liquid oxygen

skinny girl has been on tinychat. she's confirmed not doobs, just like pumette

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997269)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 7:17 PM
Author: flirting concupiscible messiness skinny woman

(doobs)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997368)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:36 AM
Author: Dark dingle berry



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998918)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:39 AM
Author: Boyish community account

(pumette responding to pumette)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999515)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 10:43 AM
Author: ruddy adventurous corner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27023349)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 6:51 PM
Author: erotic garnet meetinghouse jap

has he had your ass

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26997219)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 9:09 PM
Author: blathering stage

If not flame this is sad but honestly the chances of this turning out well were always pretty low.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998011)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 11:54 PM
Author: Histrionic Stead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998742)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 10:57 AM
Author: Boyish community account

sick catty femposter on femposter violence bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999735)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:31 AM
Author: Rough-skinned sound barrier shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999793)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 10:15 PM
Author: Electric navy address

you don't have to report bak to anyone!

if anyone asks about the christmas eve proposal, just say you chickened out (or turkeyed out as the case may be)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998200)



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Date: December 25th, 2014 11:23 PM
Author: Hairless halford



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998594)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:08 AM
Author: Sickened stimulating people who are hurt

that's what you get for thinking you could land a chad. Larry Joe Bird would have said yes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998813)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:00 AM
Author: Cracking red liquid oxygen

cr. his blood is on ur hands

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999740)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:15 AM
Author: Black Range Associate

How bad is his credit? That could be the deal breaker here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998838)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 12:43 AM
Author: heady awkward regret

Doobs did you imagine a man wearing around an engagement ring flashing his new rock at all his bois

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26998942)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 1:00 AM
Author: mint exciting nursing home trump supporter

good move not to gloat about successful flame too early. gotta let dat pot simmer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999005)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:33 AM
Author: Rough-skinned sound barrier shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999798)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:35 AM
Author: Boyish community account

isn't he a vegan? oy vey

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999511)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:32 AM
Author: Rough-skinned sound barrier shrine

wow you have a lot of balls sister. i could never pull something like that off.

i still think this is flame though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999796)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:33 AM
Author: Odious buff gaming laptop

WTF doobs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999797)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 11:38 AM
Author: Bisexual Iridescent Toaster

how long have you dated?

i would honestly feel weird and kind of beta if a chick did this to me

maybe it threw him off and he'd rather be the one doing the proposing?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#26999817)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 4:38 AM
Author: Boyish community account

lol yeah maybe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27022847)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 1:41 PM
Author: Naked church building

Wait, so reading through this thread, you are not into traditional relationship thing, blah, blah, blah. He's not into these traditions either. Yet, despite both of you being against tradition, you still want to enter into the union of marriage with this bro? So badly that you usurped traditional roles to get this shit started? Just lol at you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27000282)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 4:27 PM
Author: Sepia Arousing Idiot Native

although this thread is flame and also jfc doobs, this does give me a great idea for a reality tv show about aspies dating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27001052)



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Date: December 26th, 2014 5:20 PM
Author: Drunken Wrinkle

*gives you a flower*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27001282)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 4:41 AM
Author: lime jew

:(

but hey if you need some good rebound sex to cheer you up im always available. BHC on-call 24/7/365



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27022852)



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Date: December 30th, 2014 3:17 PM
Author: Hairraiser Reading Party

totally amazing how everyone on xo doesnt understand basic human interaction

he was obviously planning to propose to you on NYE but you beat him to the punch. now that you're all sad and vulnerable, he's going to propose soon and you'll be way happier this way

plus, when ya'll tell your jealous friends the story, it makes you seem alpha and him like a white knight.

i mean truly a win-win for both of you lovebirds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2766360&forum_id=2#27024759)