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Welp, I guess my shrew days are over
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Date: October 9th, 2015 8:52 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty I will miss them badly :/ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932047) |
Date: October 9th, 2015 8:53 AM Author: disrespectful razzle market goal in life Are you getting marrird? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932048) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 8:53 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Yah :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932053) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 8:54 AM Author: disrespectful razzle market goal in life Nice! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932057) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 8:57 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932066) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:01 AM Author: disrespectful razzle market goal in life Im 27, in great shape, live in chicago, single. Tell me what I should do in yhe next 3 years (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932077) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:03 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Get all the partying/travel shit our of your system now. Start looking for a serious LTR/wife material girl. You're at your peak between about now and 32; after then, your dating value begins declining. Build your career or finalize any education (MBA< etc). Save aggressively if you do continue working. Get into a job that you actually like or allows you great growth opps. Don't ignore your family. Nurture important relationships. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:05 AM Author: disrespectful razzle market goal in life Ty. Still holding out that you will join us for the chicago meat up (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932104) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:06 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty When is it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932112) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:07 AM Author: disrespectful razzle market goal in life Late Oct or early Nov no date yet |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:54 PM Author: Lavender double fault piazza excellent advice for anyone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933832) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:04 AM Author: carnelian temple marketing idea No one set of circumstances will provide you with 100% of what you want 100% of the time.
In any event, congrats! |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:07 AM Author: talented church foreskin You sound really excited. What a lucky guy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932120) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:08 AM Author: Nudist shrine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932122) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:08 AM Author: harsh ticket booth wrinkle she has to prove she's both desired, happy, maeking it, and indifferent to it all. we all know this type. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932126) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:09 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty I love him and am happy about it, but my psychology is pretty masculine. I'm not fanatsizing about some fairy tale wedding (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932130) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:13 AM Author: talented church foreskin I'm just jealous that you chose him over me. Congrats. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932147) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:16 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty It was a touch choice, so I hope you understand. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932169) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:47 AM Author: Vivacious Cyan Private Investor *touches you* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932630) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:10 AM Author: disrespectful razzle market goal in life Julia's fiance: "I love you" Julia: "meh. Guess it's time to give up on life" |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:12 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932142) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 12:22 PM Author: Rough-skinned curious hell jfc (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933299) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:13 AM Author: Gay sandwich are you new here? She is laying the groundwork for why she is no longer engaged 4 months from now.
This is her 40th engagement |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:17 AM Author: Pearly space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932172) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:17 AM Author: Pearly space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932170) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:32 AM Author: french dragon theater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932569) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 8:53 AM Author: Glittery plaza Did u get pregnant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932050) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 8:53 AM Author: Glittery plaza Any tips on getting my dick sucked in the VIP room? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932052) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:52 AM Author: Floppy glassy business firm Julia please respond (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932340) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 8:54 AM Author: Disturbing lascivious gay wizard Congratulations girl!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932055) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:05 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Thnx. Marriage isn't a big deal to me, though. It's not some dream fantasy come true or anything. I'm just happy to have someone I love. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932099) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:01 AM Author: Nudist shrine weren't you just single like 3 weeks ago? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932076) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:04 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty No. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932092) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:03 AM Author: heady stage rigor lol at some poor beta cuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932086) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:03 AM Author: tan trailer park wat a lucky guy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932089) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:04 AM Author: Opaque Galvanic Corn Cake Weren't you engaged last time at this year? And then single by January? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932094) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:05 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Yeah, I was engaged to another guy last year. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932102) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:07 AM Author: Opaque Galvanic Corn Cake Odds this guy doesn't bail? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932119) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:08 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Who the fuck knows. He wants a prenup and all cause he's older/has more money. I'm disinclined to sign a fucking contract when starting a family. That's fucked up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932124) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:10 AM Author: Frozen blue hominid ljl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932135) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:10 AM Author: Nudist shrine ROFLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932137) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:11 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Yeah, so it might not work out. We'll see. You can laugh again, if that's the case, and I can go back to shrewing it up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932140) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:15 AM Author: Nudist shrine i lol because he's absolutely right to want a pre-nup given your attitude
but he probably sucks too so fuck him |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:17 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty No, I only intend on marrying once, and being a full financial contributor to the household.
He's just afraid of being pwned financially, which isn't gonna happen given my feminism and pride. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:28 AM Author: ebony parlor Then I guess you don't give anything up by promising as much in writing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932941) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:28 AM Author: Opaque Galvanic Corn Cake "But I only INTEND to marry once!!!"
"I'm too much of a feminist to ruin a man in divorce!!!" |
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Date: November 6th, 2015 2:03 AM Author: jet cerebral dog poop volcanic crater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29122219) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:28 AM Author: khaki hideous theater stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932947) |
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Date: October 28th, 2015 1:35 PM Author: elite stage persian with a prenup the guy is not financially trapped so he can upgrade later without additional cost (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29059672) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:11 AM Author: Opaque Galvanic Corn Cake LOL 180 XO Julia's Fiancé (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932139) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:14 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Yeah, I'm not doing it, so this may be my second ex fiancee for y'all to laugh about. There'd be a third and fourth if I'd accepted, but I bailed on those dudes. #MEGASHREW4LYFE (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932157) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:27 AM Author: chestnut hospital community account how old is this dood? and how much money does he got? like millions? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932221) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:56 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty he's in his 40s. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932357) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:06 AM Author: chestnut hospital community account lol he must have millions if u arent answering.. is he colombian? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932413) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:31 AM Author: carnelian temple marketing idea Why wouldn't you sign it if you didn't want his money anyway in a divorce? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932237) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:33 AM Author: Nudist shrine ith the printhiple, she greedily and deceptively lisped (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932248) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:42 AM Author: carnelian temple marketing idea I mean, I guess the argument against it is that he's contemplating divorce, and that it gives him an easier out later.
Of course, without a pre-nup, it gives HER a much easier out later. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:54 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:55 AM Author: Slate Rehab Mental Disorder tl;dr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932356) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:07 AM Author: pontificating yarmulke Did you find out about the prenup after you made the im engaged thread? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932414) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:07 AM Author: Frozen blue hominid lol, that was an epic screed. Why delete? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932420) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:14 AM Author: pontificating yarmulke It was insane. No way a non crazy person would be that against pre nups and yet still make a thread about being engaged while facing a prenup (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932465) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:16 AM Author: Frozen blue hominid Not seeing how that is different than other Julia poasts (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932480) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:44 AM Author: pontificating yarmulke True (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932621) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:11 AM Author: carnelian temple marketing idea i missed it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932446) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:12 AM Author: Opaque Galvanic Corn Cake Ps you are not a family until you shit out his brat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932141) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:41 AM Author: Amber provocative codepig given your detached reaction to it, why are you against a pre-nup?
use your leverage to sign something good now, don't destroy your combined wealth on lawyers later |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:01 AM Author: pontificating yarmulke Marriage is a contract (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932746) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:04 AM Author: Vivacious Cyan Private Investor Do you have ANY fat on your body? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932095) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:07 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Dem hips & ass still rocking it, dontcha know, MC. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932115) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:17 AM Author: Vivacious Cyan Private Investor 180.
congrats on your engagement! please let me know where you guys are registered |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:12 AM Author: topaz exciting wagecucks fortuitous meteor lol wtf (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932145) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:14 AM Author: Appetizing address (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932155) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:14 AM Author: khaki hideous theater stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932153) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:16 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty He's the only guy I've ever been with seriously who is a little bothered by it, tbh. But then, he likes going to strip cubs and shit with me, so who really knows in the end. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932163) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:18 AM Author: khaki hideous theater stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932174) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:32 AM Author: Opaque Galvanic Corn Cake Julia can't have children (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932981) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:16 AM Author: khaki hideous theater stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932165) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:18 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty 2nd He's in his 40s.
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:19 AM Author: khaki hideous theater stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932183) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:19 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty no. Mid 30s/ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932186) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:21 AM Author: khaki hideous theater stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932190) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:23 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty yep.he knows I'm crazy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932202) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:24 AM Author: khaki hideous theater stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932206) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:19 PM Author: boyish sickened toaster heaven LOL. You are NOT in your mid 30s. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933624) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:28 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty How old am I, then? Need to know, because I need to inform the government my birth certificate is innacurate. Thank. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933679) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:53 PM Author: boyish sickened toaster heaven late 30s. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933820) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:54 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty How old is that, exactly? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933827) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:40 PM Author: Alcoholic Soul-stirring Dopamine youre over 35 for sure (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935073) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:45 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty I turned 36 this weekend. That makes me mid 30s. Thank. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935111) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:40 PM Author: elite stage persian Happy birthday! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936355) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:16 AM Author: Cerise turdskin sneaky criminal same old song n dance :) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932168) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:25 AM Author: lilac bull headed location what, again? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932212) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:01 PM Author: anal national now, now (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935602) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:25 AM Author: Razzmatazz Boltzmann Meetinghouse Julia rate my as a poaster (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932213) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:30 AM Author: big cruise ship party of the first part you seem miserable (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932234) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:31 AM Author: Slate Rehab Mental Disorder (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932239) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:10 AM Author: Red digit ratio parlour (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932439) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:33 AM Author: Gay sandwich (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932571) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:31 PM Author: internet-worthy ungodly mother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936312) |
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Date: October 28th, 2015 1:39 PM Author: misunderstood center (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29059700) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:31 AM Author: Amber provocative codepig http://news.yahoo.com/couple-release-a-bit-too-much-information-on-their-140027199.html (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932236) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:32 AM Author: carnelian temple marketing idea lol at anyone on facebook (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932243) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:31 AM Author: comical rusted genital piercing library Lol flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932562) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:35 AM Author: navy orchestra pit Julia, when you say "starting a family," are you and your 40s-ish fiance actually contemplating a kid, or do you just mean the two of you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932583) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:36 AM Author: spectacular idiotic azn lol at thinking shrews can't be engaged or married. the wedding is often the apex of shrewdom (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932585) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:38 AM Author: Gay sandwich cr it's a major turning point in the life of a shrew who turns all her rage and frustration inward on her husband for whom she invariably believes she settled. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932588) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:14 PM Author: Chocolate home Underrated (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933942) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:43 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty I don't give a fuck about the wedding. i want to elope privately. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932614) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:47 AM Author: spectacular idiotic azn ok so is that what you'll be doing? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932634) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:48 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty likely so. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932644) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:44 AM Author: Contagious cordovan candlestick maker How long have you been dating this guy? Under a year, right?
Are all mid-30s women this desperate to get hitched? |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:49 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Why not ask if all guys in their 40s are desperate to get married? I'm actually in the small %age of women who isn't enamored with all the fairy tale imagery of weddings and babies. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932651) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:57 AM Author: Contagious cordovan candlestick maker Men at any age are rarely desperate to get married. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932716) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:19 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty False. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932878) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:46 AM Author: french dragon theater At least your attention whoring days are still here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932628) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:37 PM Author: mischievous chapel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935461) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:47 AM Author: Thirsty point psychic That's actually cool, so congrats. Definitely don't sign a prenup if you aren't comfortable with it.
Does he have any children of his own already? |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:48 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Neither of us has kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932646) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:04 AM Author: Bateful Flirting Preventive Strike Step-uncle's House Classic alpha fucks/beta bucks situation
Julia's husband better not think "future wife" thread thoughts, JFC... |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:24 PM Author: impressive yellow gas station (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937567) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:22 AM Author: boyish sickened toaster heaven To recap, you accepted a proposal less than 9 months after you were jilted?
Sounds like you have really thought this through. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:26 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty ? I left my ex almost a year ago |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:28 AM Author: boyish sickened toaster heaven No, you were still engaged in December and in January you announced it was off.
So you accepted the proposal from a guy you couldn't have possibly started dating until January, which means you accepted the proposal of a man you dated for less than 9 months. That is fucking ridiculous. You shouldn't marry ANYONE you haven't seriously dated for more than 2 years. Even a Thunderbird online grad should know that. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:31 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty I'll take my chances. Don't worry about me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932973) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 12:12 PM Author: boyish sickened toaster heaven Well, you just changed your story when I caught you in a lie. So, good luck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933238) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:26 PM Author: Thirsty point psychic She's prepared for marriage on that point. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28934043) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:36 AM Author: ebony parlor Apparently she isn't getting married anyway. This guy will know what's up when she doesn't sign. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933008) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:25 AM Author: snowy set is it the dude I met? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932927) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:27 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Yeah. Let's leave it at that, though. Don't want XO creeps FB stalking me or him. This is why I don't post pics of any dudes I date on FB. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932938) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:29 AM Author: snowy set OFS (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932953) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:29 AM Author: Gay sandwich lmao great thread idea to keep this on the downlow (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932960) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:29 AM Author: topaz exciting wagecucks fortuitous meteor Heh. Too late. Heh. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932961) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:42 AM Author: exhilarant sienna mad-dog skullcap native *spit my coffee out* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933040) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:44 PM Author: cream mildly autistic affirmative action roommate Nice, congrats (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935514) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:31 AM Author: khaki hideous theater stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932977) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:30 AM Author: iridescent school cafeteria legend Do you let him fuck your ass? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932971) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:31 AM Author: ebony parlor I'm a strong independent woman. But don't you dare ask me sign a contract holding me to this claim!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28932978) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:33 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty You sound retarded. A prenup protects his interests, demeans the party who is being handed a contract, reduces the institution of marriage to a financial contact, creates disunity, assigns a monetary value to children and love, and implies distrust.
I would rather marry someone penniless with whom I'm building a shared life and with whom everything is truly equitable. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:35 AM Author: ebony parlor (Mid 30's shrew adding another engagement notch to her bedpost while confidently opining on relationships on xo) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933001) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:36 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty You sound retarded. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933005) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:37 AM Author: ebony parlor You sound broken. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933016) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:38 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty You still sound retarded (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933022) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:43 AM Author: ebony parlor The truth hurts. If you want to have life long relationship you need to rehinge your relationship attitudes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933046) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:44 AM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Are you married? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933051) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:20 PM Author: Opaque Galvanic Corn Cake I am. Your 40 something fiancé has been building his net worth for 20 years. He's been dating you 8-9 months and he would be a fool not to prenup.
If you want have the prenup expire after ten years.
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:31 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty I sincerely doubt you are. I won't sign it. I'd rather marry someone in similar financial circumstances -to my own or even someone penniless - with whom I can have a real partnership and build a shared life, rather than this absurdity. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 12:35 PM Author: french dragon theater B-b-but the institution of marriage, the lib shrew shrieked (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933372) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:25 PM Author: pontificating yarmulke Then why are you engaged? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933657) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:26 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Pretty sure we will work through this. We love each other and will find some compromise |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:33 PM Author: pontificating yarmulke Describe your expected compromise (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933706) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:04 PM Author: ebony parlor Nice unhinged edit. Tell us more about what a pre-nup does in your shrew fantasies. It's hilarious that you list "protecting his interests" amongst your menagerie of pre-nup horrors.
If he's making all these awful implications about you, why are you interested in marriage? Hint: you aren't or you are lying about your imagined pre-nup evils. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:07 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty You seem really angry. You shouldn't be, because nobody's done anything to you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933904) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:10 PM Author: ebony parlor Threads not about me. I'm not angry I just won't let your cognitive dissonance go unrebutted. It's understandable that logic and reality is hard to confront, but I'm trying to help enlighten.
Marriage is a legal and social contract. A pre-nup allows mature adults to set the legal terms rather than allowing the state to set the terms. There are no downsides to a pre-nup if both parties are equals. You're objections are based on your own doubts about the marriage or some other ulterior motive. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:14 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty You're incredibly wrong on all counts, friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28934888) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:37 AM Author: Opaque Galvanic Corn Cake Devastating... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933011) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:39 AM Author: iridescent school cafeteria legend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933030) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:44 AM Author: iridescent school cafeteria legend More pics of dat ass less talking (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933053) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 12:11 PM Author: beady-eyed azure masturbator Gratz julia!! Very happy for you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933222) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 12:13 PM Author: Arousing Tanning Salon Jew imaging the title of this poast being sung by Florence and the Machine
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iWOyfLBYtuU
congrats |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 12:19 PM Author: Spruce slippery hall what about your FELLOWSHIP (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933281) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 12:20 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty What about it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933285) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:13 PM Author: Odious university Why the fuck would you even post the pre-nup stuff on xo? If you're engaged you shouldn't be this starved for attention. Thank god I'm with a normal organic girl and not a shrew.
FYI, don't sign the pre-nup. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:25 PM Author: haunting nibblets Don't worry. You may not be a shrew, but you'll always be a cunt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933658) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:27 PM Author: Histrionic avocado doctorate immigrant I will believe it when I read something about it in a blog or website
good luck anyway |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:29 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty You never will. Thanks, though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28933681) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 1:50 PM Author: brindle vibrant corner jewess congratulations Julia!
I expect an invitation to the bachelorette party! not the wedding, since I don't get up before sunset. Just the bachelorette party. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:23 PM Author: Irradiated alcoholic principal's office feces Congratulations, sounds like his sperm is probably old and nasty so keep me in mind when you're looking for a donor with some robust swimmers (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28934010) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 2:24 PM Author: ebony parlor Don't be mean to Julia (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28934027) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:32 PM Author: brindle vibrant corner jewess holy shit this is the nastiest I've ever seen you be to someone on here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935030) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:32 PM Author: Irradiated alcoholic principal's office feces She knows I'm kidding :) I don't think she wants kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935036) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:34 PM Author: Alcoholic Soul-stirring Dopamine ur a weirdo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935046) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:35 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty He's incredibly nasty to me all the time. That's just the sort if person he is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935053) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:50 PM Author: Irradiated alcoholic principal's office feces Well now I feel bad. I hope it works out. My advice is to sign the prenup. Think of it like a financial STD test. We all need to do things like this for our peace of mind. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935151) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:07 PM Author: Gay sandwich I can't believe you let these losers talk to you like this. They are soo rude (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935288) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:08 PM Author: Purple range How many times have we had this thread? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28934820) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:39 PM Author: Alcoholic Soul-stirring Dopamine if im 40 something and had been building my net worth for 15+ years, i'd want a pre-nup too marrying a chick I'd dated 9 months. he'd be dumb not too. i agree with guy above who says you should fight for a sunset clause in it or something though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935069) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:44 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Nah. If you can't trust someone enough to have a real partnership, then it's not worth marrying them. I'm not going to live a farcical life where we are basically roommates cohabitating and I have to keep receipts of every expense I incur.
Like I said, if this doesn't work, I'll make damned sure the next guy I date is my financial peer or poorer than me. Somebody who I can actually build a life with - not somebody handing me a contract on their terms and putting monetary value on kids or length of marriage. Why marry for that shit? |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:47 PM Author: Alcoholic Soul-stirring Dopamine you dont get how badly divorce laws fuck men over financially. this guy having a failed marriage in his 40s and losing half his shit would be devastating. he's not 30 with many years to bounce back. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935125) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:50 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Subject: Ha Oh, I get it. But premarital assets are protected in divorce, and anyhow, since he's retired, I'd be the one putting more assets at stake since it's my active financial contributions that would constitute most of the community property that would be divided in a divorce.
Sure, I could hire a lawyer and insert clauses to protect myself, eyc. But that is precisely what I'm trying to avoid - creating contracts and financial bullshit where we are both keeping track of what money belongs to whom and who pays for what from which funds. That's not a life together . Better to marry a dude with no money whatsoever and build something with our own bare hands than live a farce like that. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:53 PM Author: Alcoholic Soul-stirring Dopamine 'premarital assets' has a very specific definition i don't think this guy is being unreasonable if he's so loaded that he's retired already. i'd want to protect myself too. i think you said he had already been divorced before. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:57 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty We have different philosophies. I've literally no monetary interest in men and would rather marry a poor. At least the home we share together would be truly OURS. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935214) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:58 PM Author: Alcoholic Soul-stirring Dopamine if you have no monetary interest, then pre-nup shouldnt be a problem good luck |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:03 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty It's a problem for all the reasons I've enumerated above. Thanks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935263) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:00 PM Author: carnelian temple marketing idea You know, I totally agree with this in theory. The problem is A LOT of successful guys have gotten straight burned in divorces without prenups, very significantly. I know one in particular who was worth about $10mm, and got taken to the cleaners by his ex who left him for some banking exec worth hundreds of mils, but she did it out of spite and to be a cunt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935243) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:47 PM Author: Vivacious Cyan Private Investor Julia why even marry this guy in the first place? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935126) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:50 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty I love him (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935154) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:56 PM Author: Vivacious Cyan Private Investor if you, bluesmoke, and I were all single would you want to hang out and party? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935207) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 4:57 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty OFS (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935219) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:01 PM Author: Vivacious Cyan Private Investor sans clothes? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935250) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:04 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Lol, No. Maybe BS would indulge you, though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935268) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:58 PM Author: Dull incel antidepressant drug Julia, did you ever consider dating or have been attracted to a NOWAG? Be honest please. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935586) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 5:32 PM Author: Vermilion self-centered box office haunted graveyard What's his name? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935430) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:00 PM Author: low-t dilemma black woman :_(
Julia
Earlier in the thread you said that dating value begins to decline at 32. How so for a guy? I am 31 and I feel my dating value is as high as it's ever been and going up over the next five year. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:03 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty I think a woman's dating value is highest from about 25-30 ( a 30 yo woman is still attractive to older men, for example) and a man's from about 28-32 (maybe 35 if he keeps his hair/stays in shape).
After that age, finding quality mates becomes harder. Not impossible, just harder. Most of the good ones are off the market by that time. And even as a 32-35 yo guy, the pool of quality younger women available to you begins to shrink. Not all good 27 yo girls would seriously date a 35 yo, for example. Thus, your peak is probably up till about 32 - that's when the greatest number of quality mates are available to you. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:05 PM Author: Vermilion self-centered box office haunted graveyard "I think a woman's dating value is highest from about 25-30"
LOL |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:07 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty It is. That's just reality. A 29 yo woman, for example, can reasonably date any man 25-40 she chooses.
A 22 yo realistically only dates other 20-somethings.
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:11 PM Author: anal national If we're talking dating with the object of an LTR and marriage then statistics bear this out as the age range in which most UMC women meet their husbands. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935663) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:35 PM Author: Vermilion self-centered box office haunted graveyard That's not when their value is highest though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935880) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:37 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty The time when the dating market dictates you're likeliest to find a marriageable mate is when your value is highest. It's not when most men want to fuck you. That's the sexual marketplace. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935894) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:38 PM Author: Vermilion self-centered box office haunted graveyard I deliberately replied to 29 and not you for a reason, hth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935899) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:40 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty I'm sure her reply will not be dissimilar. HTH. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935926) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:49 PM Author: anal national It isn't. Value for dating for sex is different to value for dating with an eye to an LTR or marriage.
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:09 PM Author: low-t dilemma black woman :_(
Ok. At 31 I just started dating a girl. Assuming I don't marry her I will be in my 32-35 age range trying to find a wife. I'm in shape, so I think I should be fine through 35 if I am OK with 30-33 y/o women (which I am). Is that fair?
Also congrats. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:11 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Thanks.
Yeah, that's fair.
If you're open to dating women your age or just a few years younger, your peak is the point in time when the net composite of your appearance and general desirability peaks. Many women tend to look for "success" in guys. So, often that peak is sometime in a man's 30s. It's rarely after 35, though, unless the guy is very good looking or very successful.
That said, you can find love at anytime, and some chix like myself don't care about a guy's success or looks very much, so it becomes less relevant in discussing "peaks". I'm just talking general trends here. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:02 PM Author: Alcoholic Soul-stirring Dopamine is he circumcised? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935607) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:02 PM Author: anal national Congratulations Julia.
I wouldn't sign a prenup either and for the same reasons you've given upthread. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:04 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Thanks. Was hoping for some female perspective here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935616) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:10 PM Author: anal national Specifically I agree with this post of yours:
http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&mc=194&forum_id=2#28932991 |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:14 PM Author: Alcoholic Soul-stirring Dopamine skyrocketing divorce rates have rendered pre-nups pretty invaluable, especially when one party goes into the marriage with much more wealth than the other, sorry. it's just reality. this is a bro who's already been divorced once if Julia wouldn't sign, then i'd say oh well |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:16 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty He's never been divorced. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935712) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:37 PM Author: brindle vibrant corner jewess i feel the same way
the guys keep saying that it should be ok if you're not a gold digger but I don't think they understand how we *feel*
in asking for a pre-nut your man is basically:
A)saying he thinks a divorce is possible already B)he thinks so little of your character that he can se you trying to take him to the cleaners if you were to divorce.
It doesn't say much for his feelings about you or your relationship.
It's the same thing with a paternity test. Even if I had been faithful and was certain my husband was the dad I would be devastated because asking for a paternity test is basically saying "I think you're capable of not allowing fucking around with other man behind my back but I also think you're so dishonest that you would try to pass your love-child off as mine." if you're going to spend the rest of your life with someone you should obviously trust them. You should trust them with your fucking life. You shouldn't be worried about them fucking other people and trying to steal your money and shit. If you feel this way about the person, why are you with them? |
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Date: October 28th, 2015 1:47 PM Author: pontificating yarmulke People change over time. Nobody can promise how they'll feel in 5+ years (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29059768) |
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Date: October 28th, 2015 2:22 PM Author: Deep abode cuckold I agree with all this in theory but lets be real here. At 35+ neither of them are spring chickens. They've both been around the block a few times, gone through tough shit with people they probably trusted more and dated longer than each other.
I would say this situation would be untenable except for the fact that premarital property is separate and it doesn't seem like that much money is at stake. It's not something that should prevent OP from marrying though and she also shouldn't take it as an insult or indication of his mistrust for her in particular. Guys that have been through a divorce and dealt with the legal system are inevitably more cautious and bitter towards all members of the opposite sex.
If worst comes to worst, just hand-write a simple 1 pager and sign it in front of a mutual friend or something. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:11 PM Author: Rough-skinned curious hell No offense, but you're evidently much more emotional about the pre-nup than you are about your husband or your marriage. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935661) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:15 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty The prenup is actively insulting. It's a deal breaker. I love him and want to marry him, but I have enough self-respect to walk away if we can't compromise - though i'm sure we will. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935698) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:39 PM Author: Histrionic avocado doctorate immigrant are you fckng serious
half the marriages end in divorce and even those ppl went in with full hope and possibly even stronger love than your retarded sounding relationship
depending on his wealth we could be talking millions so fck that shit. this is no different than taking life insurance. nobody is planning on dying right away when they take it
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:40 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty That's cool that you feel that way. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935921) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:43 PM Author: Histrionic avocado doctorate immigrant (aspie gold digger) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28935945) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 6:44 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty (Retard) I'm the antithesis of a gold digger. Id rather marry a penniless guy than an affluent guy who destroys the ideal of marriage through a prenup. I'm quite serious. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:14 PM Author: Autistic trip stead Prenups are basically a standard in my family, but its because I have inter generational trusts, its what my relatives wanted to secure for us.
My parents never had a prenup and I can wholly say my mom is kind of a psychopath and tried to ruin our family financially as much as possible during and after their divorce. I think prenups should be viewed as just a promise you won't try to screw each other in case things go bad, after being on the receiving end with my own family being torn apart because of 'money,' I can say I don't think you should be ashamed to ask the person you love that to promise not to screw you over, but on the other hand maybe its not as romantic or natural. Making it a deal breaker is silly though because I believe you can offer it with completely good intentions. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:16 PM Author: Histrionic avocado doctorate immigrant dont bother she is either an aspie retard who doesn't understand reality or devious gold digger
let me guess she is going to wear white though right? doubt all the "ideal of marriage" was considered there |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:29 PM Author: Autistic trip stead lol yes what is wrong with asking to come to an agreement in case all shit hits the fan.
I'm pretty sure my brothers and cousins who are apart of trusts my relatives worked hard to secure for us would be pretty upset if my marriage fell apart and it impacted their lives. How can people find offense to this is beyond me? |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:47 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty You shouldn't be marrying anyone who you don't trust in the eventuality of a divorce. People can disagree about this. That's why you should discuss the possibility of a prenup well in anticipation of engagement, because some women can and do take deep philosophical and emotional offense to one. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:21 PM Author: ebony parlor Nothing deep or philosophical about it. It's women's nonsensical "feelings" as was admitted by another woman above. There is nothing preferable about having the state dictate the legal guidelines for a divorce v. a negotiated agreement. Two smart people can come up with something much more fair and with less risk of huge costs. Your sour associations are not a basis for much. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937546) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:32 PM Author: lemon stirring alpha "You shouldn't be marrying anyone who you don't trust in the eventuality of a divorce."
FYI - no one has any idea if how anyone will act in a divorce (unless they have seen them go through several divorces, which doesn't apply to you). Why would your SO be expected to believe that you wouldn't take money you could get in court at a time when you hate him and want to hurt him? |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:38 PM Author: brindle vibrant corner jewess people get life insurance because they know their ass is gonna die! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937236) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:21 PM Author: Maroon headpube does it amaze you as much as it does me how much bullshit of yours xo posters eat up? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936247) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:33 PM Author: internet-worthy ungodly mother i literally cannot fucking believe it when people take julia at her word. pound for pound, she's easily the most accomplished bullshitter in the history of XO. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936322) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:44 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty Do I get a prize? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28936375) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:51 PM Author: anal national I know she's bent the truth a little on occasion before but it gets tiring assuming everything everyone tells you on xo about their RL is false.
Plus its fun to discuss interesting things even if they aren't necessarily true IRL. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:41 PM Author: brindle vibrant corner jewess cr
I view xo posters as characters. they are who they say they are and they do what they say they so.
I don't get people who try to spot flame and catch people in lies. It takes the fun out of everything. |
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Date: October 28th, 2015 1:49 PM Author: Purple range She has made threads similar to this one on several occasions. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29059777) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 7:53 PM Author: Sable swashbuckling electric furnace Lol flipping fiances like flipping jobs.
Also lol at saying you would rather marry a penniless person than sign a prenup but only date older men with money. |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:47 PM Author: mind-boggling startling site kitty This is false. My ex fiancée was 5 years younger and was a penniless non profit worker. The fact is a man's wealth has no bearing on my desire to be with him. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937326) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:53 PM Author: Hyperactive Depressive pretty sure you said he made 6 figs but it's not like he actually existed anyways (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937361) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:56 PM Author: brindle vibrant corner jewess nah I remember her saying he was very young and poor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937374) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 9:59 PM Author: Hyperactive Depressive stfu you prob were on molly or some shit, danqa (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937392) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:23 PM Author: ebony parlor She is truly self deluded. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937557) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 10:27 PM Author: lemon stirring alpha Congrats, but it kind of sounds like you're not thrilled about this and at best have a "I can take it or leave it" attitude. At worst, you are already regretting getting married and you just got engaged. Given that, why are you doing this? FOMO? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937591) |
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Date: October 9th, 2015 11:01 PM Author: impressive yellow gas station hilarious thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28937792) |
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Date: October 11th, 2015 9:53 PM Author: abnormal stag film stock car cant believe i missed this thread while away this weekend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28948727) |
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Date: October 14th, 2015 9:13 PM Author: Electric Den Trust Fund not reading the whole thread, but didn't julia admit to inventing a fake fiancee last year? prenup sounds like a hook to explain to xo why it didn't work out in a few months. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#28968446) |
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Date: October 28th, 2015 12:59 PM Author: Vivacious Cyan Private Investor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29059461) |
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Date: October 28th, 2015 1:45 PM Author: Crystalline zippy ratface selfie this was a pretty entertaining thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3012597&forum_id=2#29059748) |
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Date: November 1st, 2015 12:52 PM Author: stimulating very tactful queen of the night locus titcr
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