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Did I Cheat on My Wife?
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:31 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk Subject: Did I Cheat on My Wife? I am morally torn. I'm married and I've gone to strip joints about 12 times in my life all while I was married, usually with a group of friends. 3 of those times, I came while getting lap dances. I was shocked the first time it happened...didn't think it could. The stripper let me grab everything and she said it was ok for me to cum. Since that first time, I want to cum every time I get lap dances. I've only been to 1 strip joint in the last two years, but I did cum. I feel rotten about it, but I still want to go back for more. Is it common for people to cum during lab dances and is this equivalent to cheating? I don't think it's cheating if you go to strip joints and just watch. But, when there's grabbing and hard grinding and cumming involved, I think I've crossed the line. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470229) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:33 PM Author: Embarrassed to the bone mad-dog skullcap corner "I don't think it's cheating if you go to strip joints and just watch. But, when there's grabbing and hard grinding and cumming involved, I think I've crossed the line."
Exactly. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:33 PM Author: razzmatazz hairless legal warrant theater stage dude, unless she had your dick in her mouth, how did you cum just by touch alone? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470255) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:23 PM Author: provocative property voyeur I second that question. I couldn't even cum when the stripper gave me a hand job. Hell it's hard for me to cum having sex. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 6:02 PM Author: galvanic roommate I depends on the guy. One of my buddies comes in his pants after two minutes of a lap dance. On the other hand, I have trouble even getting up for those whores. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472249) |
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Date: August 31st, 2005 1:15 PM Author: comical feces friendly grandma Is your buddy 12? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#3712459) |
Date: May 13th, 2004 3:32 PM Author: Underhanded Ape Church Building youre a cheater. no doubt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470240) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:33 PM Author: motley step-uncle's house halford You came from getting a lap dance?
Your marriage is over anyway. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:33 PM Author: razzmatazz hairless legal warrant theater stage 180. excellent. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470260) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:58 PM Author: duck-like lodge hahahaha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472223) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:35 PM Author: marvelous station Subject: are you 13? who even comes from watching and touching slightly? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470274) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:36 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk I think it's a myth that you can watch but not touch. Lap dances are very intense, especially when you wear slacks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470297) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:37 PM Author: motley step-uncle's house halford "Slacks"
As opposed to what? A merkin? |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:39 PM Author: hot azn Merkin...nice. Puts me in mind of Dr. Strangelove. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470359) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:40 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk What's a merkin? Slacks, I found out are preferred by the strips because it allows them to grind with little pain. Jeans on the other hand hurts them if they grind too hard. Seriously guys, the strip joints in LA are crazy.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:43 PM Author: lemon naked indian lodge mediation Correct. It's also not uncommon to receive a handjob during a lap dance at some of the establishments in LA. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470397) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:56 PM Author: Laughsome background story dingle berry Maybe at Jumbo's Clown Room -- but you might want to double-check the gender of the "chicks." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472209) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:36 PM Author: lemon naked indian lodge mediation You're not a cheater. Don't sweat it. As long as you're not fucking these chicks I wouldn't worry about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470293) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:39 PM Author: fluffy cracking round eye you should change your moniker to Cliff Shitter (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470347) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:40 PM Author: Embarrassed to the bone mad-dog skullcap corner haha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470362) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:41 PM Author: fluffy cracking round eye or at least have his e-mail line as "yes i'm the cliff shitter" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470380) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:41 PM Author: lemon naked indian lodge mediation Hey, it was only a one time thing. It's not like I've made a habit of it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470377) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:39 PM Author: bistre public bath pervert Hhahaha cum during a lapdance? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470357) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:43 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk Yah, I didn't think it was possible until it happened. I really depends on the stripper, but it happens. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470401) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:41 PM Author: Vivacious casino sweet tailpipe Do you, by any chance, enjoy ballroom dancing? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470386) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:42 PM Author: Zippy headpube mental disorder Can you say WHIPPED? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470388) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:42 PM Author: umber private investor Shit, and I thought that wetness on their legs was sweat. I'm never going back again. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:44 PM Author: Sepia Ticket Booth Telephone Please tell me you came cause she was basically dry fucking you. (well, dry fucking cause your pants were one). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470410) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:44 PM Author: Underhanded Ape Church Building naw, he just never done seen titty before. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470419) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:45 PM Author: umber private investor Even that is unacceptable once you've passed the age of 16. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470423) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:54 PM Author: apoplectic territorial half-breed native Agreed. Grown men should not cum from a woman rubbing against them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470695) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:47 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk Yes, that's what a lap dance is, at least in LA anyway. Why is it hard to believe that you can cum when a beautiful naked women is rubbing herself against your dick while you are grabbing her ass and tits? I am a fucken cheater. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470453) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:49 PM Author: Burgundy Puppy yeah, i wouldn't like it if my husband was doing that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470479) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:54 PM Author: Zippy headpube mental disorder thats cute (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470705) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:56 PM Author: Burgundy Puppy why? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470715) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:57 PM Author: Zippy headpube mental disorder i dont know it makes you seem wholesome to get offended by something like that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470737) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:00 PM Author: Burgundy Puppy oh. well maybe I am wholesome. ;-) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470767) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:00 PM Author: Zippy headpube mental disorder lovely (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470772) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:00 PM Author: Burgundy Puppy oh. well maybe I am wholesome. ;-) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470768) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:44 PM Author: Burgundy Puppy dude, if you think it might not be ok, don't do it anymore. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470420) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:49 PM Author: Cerebral seedy sex offender This is the best piece of advice yet.
I think he knows he shouldn't do this anymore; he just wants the guys to tell him that it's ok so he can continue going. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:51 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk sugary, it's hard though. I don't want to go, and I haven't in a couple of years, but I always want to. I usually give in when my friends all get together for a birthday or something and we end up at a strip joint.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:52 PM Author: Burgundy Puppy well of course it's hard, but if you think it's wrong and you keep doing it that's really bad. So freaking stop already. ;-) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470604) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:54 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk I hear what you are saying, but it's easier said than done. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470694) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:56 PM Author: Sepia Ticket Booth Telephone Marriage aint easy, my friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470717) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:56 PM Author: Burgundy Puppy dude, it doens't seem that hard, I think you need to grow a pair, in more ways than one.
edit: that sounds meaner than what i mean. You have to stop, so you shoudl, i know it's not easy, but if you want to be a good husband really you have no other choice. (unless you can get her to say it's ok). |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:59 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk sugary, I tell her I go to strip joints most of the time and she is cool with it. But, she doesn't know what happens when I am there.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:00 PM Author: Burgundy Puppy right. well unless you can tell her what happens and she'd be ok w/ it, you shoudl stop, as hard as it is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470775) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:00 PM Author: Sepia Ticket Booth Telephone I wouldnt have a problem with my husband *shudder* doing to strip clubs. But if she is rubbing up on him (or doing anything else to him) hard enough to get him off, I would be hurt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470776) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:01 PM Author: Burgundy Puppy yes, i'd have no problem w/ just watching, contact though is icky. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470783) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:04 PM Author: Embarrassed to the bone mad-dog skullcap corner would you give your husband a lap dance? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470815) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:06 PM Author: Burgundy Puppy what kind of question is that?
of course! |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:07 PM Author: Embarrassed to the bone mad-dog skullcap corner *tented fingers*
excellent. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:03 PM Author: motley step-uncle's house halford This is my wifes stated policy as well.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:10 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk Bosox, heaving grinding occurs during lap dances. I can't speak for other cities, but LA is notorious for it strip clubs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470892) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:12 PM Author: Sepia Ticket Booth Telephone Which is why I am saying if you get off from lap dances, go to the club, just dont get them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470918) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:15 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk fair enough. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470959) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:54 PM Author: Sepia Ticket Booth Telephone Dont get lap dances. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470698) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:57 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk I think that's what I will do next time I go. And yes, there will be a next time. I will try to stay away from the lap dances but the women are very good at seducing/guilting you into several lap dances. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470732) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:59 PM Author: Cerebral seedy sex offender Won't it be easier to avoid temptation if you just don't go? Are strip clubs really something that you can't live without in your life? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470759) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:02 PM Author: motley step-uncle's house halford Don't ask questions you already know the answer to. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470797) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:02 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk It's hard to explain, but when you get together with friends, sometimes it just happens. There have been many occasions when I decline their invitations, but sometimes I give in. Like I said, I've only gone once in the last 2 years. And yes, I agree that I should avoid strip clubs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470798) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:03 PM Author: Fragrant Startled Jewess Dude, you are weak in so many ways. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470810) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:07 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk Are you married? It's hard to judge if you are not. What started off as some innocent fun with the boys became a huge temptation. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470851) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:04 PM Author: Sepia Ticket Booth Telephone Even ignoring the strip club draw, I wouldnt expect him to give up that time with his friends. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470825) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:07 PM Author: Burgundy Puppy nor would I, but if spending time w/ friends ='s rubbing up against strippers then he has to make a choice. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470847) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:08 PM Author: Sepia Ticket Booth Telephone Thats why I am saying I have no problem with strip clubs. Its the getting off that bothers me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470868) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:47 PM Author: Heady Reading Party I thought this would be a Stabby/Thea thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470459) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 3:59 PM Author: motley step-uncle's house halford I know when I cheat on my wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470756) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:07 PM Author: Sepia Ticket Booth Telephone Yeah, so do I. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470855) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 4:03 PM Author: lemon naked indian lodge mediation It's obvious you're gonna have trouble staying faithful in the long run. You might as well get a little more satisfaction for your money. I'd recommend looking into an internet escort. Here's a good place to start: www.theeroticreview.com (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#470803) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:21 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk part of the reason I raise this question about cheating is that my friends have arranged to celebrate my acceptance to law school by taking me to a strip club. What I hear you all saying is that it's not cheating to go to a strip club, but it's cheating if I get lap dances that lead to me cumming. I can't change what has happened in the past, but I can make sure I stay away from the lap dances next weekend. Wish me luck! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471843) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:22 PM Author: Heady Reading Party it is not cheating unless you stick your rod in the strippers box or maybe she sucks your dick. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471862) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:27 PM Author: free-loading state people who are hurt there ya go (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471916) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:28 PM Author: Burgundy Puppy you're bad! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471923) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:29 PM Author: Heady Reading Party I wouldn't do anything near that, but I'm not into strip clubs and stuff. Kissing a stripper would happen, but that is cheating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471938) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:38 PM Author: Burgundy Puppy ok well you're not so bad then ;-). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472028) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:43 PM Author: Heady Reading Party just because it isn't cheating, doesn't mean it isn't wrong. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472085) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:26 PM Author: provocative property voyeur How do you explain the stain on your pants? And how does it feel walking out of a strip club with a cumstain on your slacks/merkin? |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:30 PM Author: Heady Reading Party embarrassing I imagine. LOL. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471947) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:36 PM Author: Drunken factory reset button No kidding. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472016) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:32 PM Author: Electric bearded degenerate hospital does it really matter whether or not you term it "cheating"? even if you dont consider what you did to be "adultery," the point is that you had a naked woman grinding you while you groped her tits. even if you never came, thats still pretty fucking wrong. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471971) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:33 PM Author: Heady Reading Party I'd agree with that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471983) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:51 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk Yah, you're right rock-me Elle. I really didn't have a problem with lap dances per se, except that they led to the jizzing part. However, you bring up a good point that I need to think about. Anyway, my goal is to make sure I decline all the lap dance offers.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:34 PM Author: free-loading state people who are hurt Subject: Simple rule unless you're jizz actually comes in contact with her skin, you didnt cheat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#471995) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:35 PM Author: Heady Reading Party but even if you don't cheat, doesn't mean it isn't wrong as rock me elle said. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472003) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:36 PM Author: free-loading state people who are hurt hey thats for the politicans to decide
all i know is i had a good time |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:38 PM Author: Drunken factory reset button If you're blowing your load that easily you're not getting enough poon at home. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472032) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:44 PM Author: Boyish Abusive Institution Coffee Pot obviously (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472096) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:44 PM Author: Boyish Abusive Institution Coffee Pot Can you please provide the name and address of this establishment?
I need to verify the veracity of the story. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:55 PM Author: coral doobsian boiling water milk Yah, any of the strip joints in the City of Industry or the Spearmint Rhino in downtown LA off the 10 fwy (I think). That was the last one I went to about 6 months ago. It definitely is one of the more aggressive ones and the women are very up front with what they will do.
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Date: May 13th, 2004 6:00 PM Author: Boyish Abusive Institution Coffee Pot cool.
i've driven by the rhino several times but never checked it out. |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:53 PM Author: drab locale sandwich its not cheating unless you put your cock in her.
HTH |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:56 PM Author: Histrionic gay location Incorrect. If you use a condom, you're not actually "touching" her. Therefore, it is still not cheating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#472210) |
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Date: May 13th, 2004 5:58 PM Author: twisted address ratface I just want to clarify that this is not me posting under an alias.
BTW, it's not cheating. |
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Date: August 31st, 2005 2:46 AM Author: Purple fat ankles I like how we use cheating as a magical category in which we can jam phone sex, kissing, dirty dancing, "anything you wouldn't want her to know," whatever. Truth is this the OP isn't the most faithful guy around, but he ain't the least, either. This is probably less serious than an office flirtation + kiss. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#3711019) |
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Date: August 31st, 2005 3:24 AM Author: Topaz death wish How did she get you to cum unless she was naked? Same question as Weezy and Yackity. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#3711144) |
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Date: August 31st, 2005 1:18 PM Author: comical feces friendly grandma It's not cheating if you bone them in the pooper. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=30131&forum_id=2#3712480) |