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Watched a movie with chick last night at my apt on 2nd date, didn't hookup
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Date: March 2nd, 2019 5:37 PM Author: Razzle casino damn, i have no clue what i was doing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869072) |
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Date: March 2nd, 2019 5:39 PM Author: carmine menage DESCRIBE what went down (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37869078) |
Date: March 2nd, 2019 6:51 PM Author: Razzle casino We had a solid first date with some solid kissing at the end. She texted me that was the best first date she'd had in a long time.
I followed up later to see when she was free for a 2nd date and dinner. She suggested we also catch a movie.
2nd date rolls around and we go to dinner spot I suggested, then try to go to the theater for the movie she suggested but for some reason the movie wasn't playing. she said she'd invite me over to her place to chill but it wasn't clean. I invited her to my place and we watched some shit on Netflix.
We sat on the couch and talked during the movie and after. Then she said she was getting tired. I thought about suggesting she crash at my place but she lives like 5 blocks away and it would've kind of come out of nowhere. The sexual vibe was never really there. More like friends. We talk for another 20 minutes and she says she should probably head home. I walk her out and we make out.
Other context, she's bisexual and kind of has a masculine energy. She's not butch but like a female soccer player vibe. Wears a leather jacket. She also talks a lot and I just nod along and listen. Early on in the 2nd date, I was thinking, damn this chick is kind of nuts. It kind of throws me off my game. |
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Date: March 3rd, 2019 10:39 PM Author: carmine menage You fucked up. It was incumbent upon you to make something happen during the movie and you didn't. Instead you let it be awkward the whole time planning to make your move at the end, and surprise surprise it didn't happen.
This sometimes happened to me as a dating noob--movie dates where it's awkward and not much physical contact, wondering how to get from there to fucking with the clock ticking down. The thing to remember is that even if the vibe is off at first, the chick is there because she EXPECTED to be making out with (and probably fucking) you.
You have to break the ice in the first ~20 minutes or it's going to get harder and more awkward as more time passes. If the chick is sitting on the other side of the couch (implied by sitting on the couch and talking) just say "hey, come here" and put your arm around her. Or you can get up to grab a drink and just sit next to her when you come back. Head resting on your chest, you can rub her arm, leg, lower back, whatever. It's also easy to lean down and kiss her when she looks up.
From there, just let it play out depending on the vibe you get. I have had chicks who were basically moaning and grinding on me straight from the first kiss and sitting on my dick 20 minutes into a movie. Otherwise you just kiss them and leave it at that for a bit, then come back with something more intense later. |
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Date: March 3rd, 2019 11:11 PM Author: Razzle casino appreciate this. yeah, total noob move on my part. this will sound gay, but i'm still in touch with an ex that i broke up with a month ago and i can't tell if that's making me more passive with new chicks.
not sure if i'll get a second chance but to be honest, i'm not that worried about it. she's attractive but not to the point where i'm fantasizing about plowing the shit out of her. i need to get out of the current low-t milieu first.
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Date: March 4th, 2019 6:46 PM Author: carmine menage Fucking a new chick should get you out of the low-t milieu. Ideally raw if you can swing it. If you just got out of a relationship, even hitting it with a condom could give you a nice boost, but nothing compared to what raw will do for your psychology.
You can make a second chance for yourself if you want. Back when I had no confidence, I'd just ask the chick out again and hope things went better the next time. These days I don't really give a fuck so I'm a lot more direct . . . I may say something like hey, I thought you looked hot, didn't really get a vibe like you wanted me to make a move. Just throw it back on them a bit and let them think they were a bit off in some way. Either you end up a 100% green light or maybe you piss the chick off and don't see her again, but it avoids another wasted date. The tiny subset of additional chicks you might be able to peel off with a more subtle approach aren't worth it. |
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Date: March 5th, 2019 12:36 AM Author: Razzle casino Lol. My ex just came over after I had a date with another chick. I fucked my ex raw. What a mess. I may have cut my date a little short just because I knew my ex wanted to come over later that night.
I'm stupid. |
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Date: March 5th, 2019 1:57 PM Author: carmine menage Why did you break up with her? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4212454&forum_id=2#37882432) |
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Date: March 5th, 2019 5:03 PM Author: Razzle casino she's neurotic and mentally and emotionally unstable with tons of baggage. truth is, she broke up with me 4 times over 8 months and kept hitting me up a week after. i was debating moving to another city so just let do out of convenience since i wasn't sure i wanted to start a new relationship.
recently, i decided to stay in the area but moved across town and have been dating other chicks and i'm looking for someone to settle down with. |
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