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Date: April 7th, 2021 9:14 AM Author: Flesh lodge
ty for your service
is she fat?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235618) |
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Date: April 7th, 2021 9:22 AM Author: Greedy Heaven
we were "breaking up" over the last month. we decided to give it another go about a week ago. things were going good until about 3 days ago. she dwells on things and will not let them go. every day, all day she'll send me stuff like "i'm so terrified about this", "i'm so tortured", etc. etc.
i keep trying to comfort her and tell her she just needs to let things heal and stop dwelling on it. but she can't. she just keeps going and going. sometimes she'll pop into a happy mode, but generally she's just morose.
we went to a large, off-leash dog park yesterday. she was flashing between being happy and being closed off. eventually she said something like "i just know the verbal abuse will continue again". she has been much, much, much worse than me on insults and verbal abuse. for the past few days when she would bring this up i would say "it's not going to happen again" or whatever. yesterday, i responded with something very mild like "you know, you've contributed to this too and we've talked about that".
she blew the fuck up. stormed off into the woods and left me to take care of the dogs by myself. i walked to the entrance and she was there waiting for me. i tried to give her a hug but she brushed me off. started making a bit of a scene in front of everyone, so i got our things and started for the car. the entire time i'm trying to keep my very young and still wild dogs in line, and she is going on and on about my abuse in a not-quite-shouting but elevated volume.
we got to the car and had a very silent ride home. when we got to home (in a city) she opened the door without carrying about the dogs and one of them jumped out and ran off. i said something like "that's really inconsiderate and dangerous" and ran to go catch him before he ran into traffic. of course, she refused to accept any responsibility for that and her position is "i just opened the door! it's not my fault!"
when i woke up this morning there were a bunch of texts about how she wants me out. i agreed and said i'm done with this too. she sent a bunch of catty shit, which prompted me to send this catty and embarrassing (but, i still feel pretty 180) reply.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235655) |
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Date: April 7th, 2021 9:40 AM Author: Greedy Heaven
she has bpd. i'm sure of it. one time she threatened to call the bar and say i'm physically abusing her.
of course all of these red flags are very obvious in hindsight, but she does have a bunch of amazing qualities and is generally pleasant and 180 most of the time. she has bpd. she has outbursts and goes crazy. i think most women have this a little bit. i thought it was tolerable but now it's clear that it's not.
it's very hard to draw the line on what degree of shrew hysteria is acceptable. i've come to accept that there will be some level of hysteria no matter what. the difficult part is most women can keep their hysterical urges under wraps for many months until they start becoming more frequent.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235727) |
Date: April 7th, 2021 9:27 AM Author: Tripping Hunting Ground
Being an asshole who escalates into saying really mean things during an argument is no way to go through life.
Maybe you should take a break from this board if it’s part of the cause of this. How people behave on here is most often an awful example of how to act IRL.
If you want to dump her, then just do it and don’t say mean things.
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Date: April 7th, 2021 10:00 AM Author: know-it-all crackhouse fanboi
Have you considered giving her a good spanking when she gets like this? Not when she's "sad", maybe, but when she's angry that you don't agree with her lib friends, or over something irrational, it might bring her back to reality.
Given that she likes butt stuff it wouldn’t shock me a bit if she subconsciously craves this anyway.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235837) |
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Date: April 7th, 2021 10:09 AM Author: Greedy Heaven
i know this. i fucked up. about an hour ago i sent something like "i want to be out too and will be gone as soon as i can. i've said what i had to say and there is no point in arguing further. please don't contact me unless it's absolutely necessary".
i haven't responded since then and have not picked up several phone calls.
i'm not trying to be a petulant pussy giving the silent treatment, but she is repeating the same shit over and over. so, i think this is the right move. curious what other xo bros might think tho.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235877) |
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Date: April 7th, 2021 3:44 PM Author: Greedy Heaven
i'm a very introspective person and i've thought a lot about this already. this didn't just start happening, after all.
i want to have kids and a family and i think it's causing me to be more forgiving of negative qualities than i should. breaking up is also a huge hassle and we intertwined our lives very quickly. i also want to go solo and i've been saving a shit ton of money cohabitating. lastly, she is a 180 person for me most of the time and did a good job hiding her bpd early in the relationship. there were also a few traumatic things that happened this year (my dad died, she lost her job), and it was easy to excuse away some of the fights as being stress related.
in the future i'm going to be less tolerant about this shit when i see early warning signs, no matter how amazing the person is otherwise. i'm also targeting women under 30.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42238059) |
Date: April 7th, 2021 12:57 PM Author: Greedy Heaven
https://imgur.com/a/ItygAv9
context here is that i owe her $300 that was supposed to be applied towards a mountain bike, and i told her i'd pay her when i moved out. she's flipping out that she wants it now but i'm literally worried she's going to break some of my shit and want to hold it for security.
she's sent me another "i love you" while i'm poasting this.
also i'm not "refusing to move out", she's flipping out about how she wants me to move out tomorrow and i told her i need to find a place first and it's going to take a couple weeks. i told her i want to be out asap.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42236825) |
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