is she fat?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235618)

https://imgbb.com/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235669)

http://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=4803504&mc=122&forum_id=2

I seem to remember another post floating around but I’ll have to find it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235637)

at the beginning of our last break up she downloaded tinder and i found out. she went to stay with her sisters for the weekend and i said something along the lines of "have fun fucking and sucking a bunch of randoms this weekend".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235672)

i keep trying to comfort her and tell her she just needs to let things heal and stop dwelling on it. but she can't. she just keeps going and going. sometimes she'll pop into a happy mode, but generally she's just morose.

we went to a large, off-leash dog park yesterday. she was flashing between being happy and being closed off. eventually she said something like "i just know the verbal abuse will continue again". she has been much, much, much worse than me on insults and verbal abuse. for the past few days when she would bring this up i would say "it's not going to happen again" or whatever. yesterday, i responded with something very mild like "you know, you've contributed to this too and we've talked about that".

she blew the fuck up. stormed off into the woods and left me to take care of the dogs by myself. i walked to the entrance and she was there waiting for me. i tried to give her a hug but she brushed me off. started making a bit of a scene in front of everyone, so i got our things and started for the car. the entire time i'm trying to keep my very young and still wild dogs in line, and she is going on and on about my abuse in a not-quite-shouting but elevated volume.

we got to the car and had a very silent ride home. when we got to home (in a city) she opened the door without carrying about the dogs and one of them jumped out and ran off. i said something like "that's really inconsiderate and dangerous" and ran to go catch him before he ran into traffic. of course, she refused to accept any responsibility for that and her position is "i just opened the door! it's not my fault!"

when i woke up this morning there were a bunch of texts about how she wants me out. i agreed and said i'm done with this too. she sent a bunch of catty shit, which prompted me to send this catty and embarrassing (but, i still feel pretty 180) reply.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235655)

of course all of these red flags are very obvious in hindsight, but she does have a bunch of amazing qualities and is generally pleasant and 180 most of the time. she has bpd. she has outbursts and goes crazy. i think most women have this a little bit. i thought it was tolerable but now it's clear that it's not.

it's very hard to draw the line on what degree of shrew hysteria is acceptable. i've come to accept that there will be some level of hysteria no matter what. the difficult part is most women can keep their hysterical urges under wraps for many months until they start becoming more frequent.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235727)

xo is getting treated to some end of relationship blow ups, but i have been an oak tree for many months before this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235844)

it's been days of this nonstop brother. you're right, but i think everyone has a breaking point. i've gotten it off my chest now and can go back treating her as if she's not on the same plane of reality.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235695)

she's been spamming me with a bunch of hateful shit for days and i reacted. anyone who hasn't done the same when dealing with an unhinged shrew is either autistic, incel, or in the top 1% of stoicism.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42236698)

nah no amount of hotness is worth this i'm out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42236874)

Maybe you should take a break from this board if it’s part of the cause of this. How people behave on here is most often an awful example of how to act IRL.

If you want to dump her, then just do it and don’t say mean things.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235678)

Was just hoping you’d realize that you weren’t good here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235742)

yet these same people will be like "just gotta chill brah" when i send an emotionally charged text to a woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42236551)

i'm terrified of death and would never do it that. esp not over some shrew lmao.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235849)

i agree with other poasters that it's pretty woman-like to sink to her level and respond with some nuclear insults. it's much better to just try to not let it affect you and to move on. although it is pretty cathartic to respond that way every once in a while. she is still reeling. she has sent me the screencap of me saying that literally 10x now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235778)

also remember every text you ever send her is evidence in one form or another. she probably already sent it to her mom and friends and is plotting against you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235780)

i've said my peace (both text and in person) and the best move now seems to be to just get the fuck out and interact with her as little as possible in the mean time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235790)

but yeah it's time to gtfo.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235809)

Given that she likes butt stuff it wouldn’t shock me a bit if she subconsciously craves this anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235837)

i agree she subconsciously craves this. there is a battle going on in her head between gc kikes telling her she needs to be a strong independent career woman and her biological instinct to be sexually dominated and pregnant.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235865)

after this i'm targeting submissive traditional women under 30.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235897)

I wonder how common it really is. Never had any interest in it myself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42236224)

i've had anal sex with plenty of women, and to me the appeal is that it's something different, dirty and taboo. i think fucking a pussy is better. that's what it's designed for after all. however, a lubed up asshold feels about the same. when fucking an ass is more standard than taboo it's not as thrilling, but i don't it's significantly different than finishing in the puss.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42236317)

i haven't responded since then and have not picked up several phone calls.

i'm not trying to be a petulant pussy giving the silent treatment, but she is repeating the same shit over and over. so, i think this is the right move. curious what other xo bros might think tho.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235877)

not on a lease. but i'd prefer to buy a house rather than go month-to-month somewhere in the mean time. i have two high energy dogs and need a back yard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42235962)

You need to leave it’s her place. I’d be fucking furious if some girl I asked to leave refused indefinitely b’c of her dogs etc lol fucking furious

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42237348)

i got divorced in 2017, sold our house, and was renting. was planning on buying a home when my lease expired, but then moved in with her. now i have to choose between buying in one of the most insane real estate markets ever or rentcucking for another year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42237363)

more texts needed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42236399)

https://imgur.com/a/n8akewk

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42236440)

strong foundations here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42236575)

i want to have kids and a family and i think it's causing me to be more forgiving of negative qualities than i should. breaking up is also a huge hassle and we intertwined our lives very quickly. i also want to go solo and i've been saving a shit ton of money cohabitating. lastly, she is a 180 person for me most of the time and did a good job hiding her bpd early in the relationship. there were also a few traumatic things that happened this year (my dad died, she lost her job), and it was easy to excuse away some of the fights as being stress related.

in the future i'm going to be less tolerant about this shit when i see early warning signs, no matter how amazing the person is otherwise. i'm also targeting women under 30.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42238059)

i'm not sure how to find a fertile sane woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42236453)

I dated an indian woman who was off the charts controlling. I wondered if indian women generally were that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42237271)

i know chill women who won't go ballistic over nothing exist. i just need to find one. it's not as easy as it looks. i'm very picky and ditch plenty of obviously crazy women. women are insidious and will keep their hysteria in check until they've got their claws in you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42236924)

context here is that i owe her $300 that was supposed to be applied towards a mountain bike, and i told her i'd pay her when i moved out. she's flipping out that she wants it now but i'm literally worried she's going to break some of my shit and want to hold it for security.

she's sent me another "i love you" while i'm poasting this.

also i'm not "refusing to move out", she's flipping out about how she wants me to move out tomorrow and i told her i need to find a place first and it's going to take a couple weeks. i told her i want to be out asap.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42236825)

unless she gets on meds and cools the fuck down i just have to go. it's been a rollercoaster. this happens like once a week at this point.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42236896)

This is like a public service announcement about cohabitation

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42236877)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4805120&forum_id=2#42236941)