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O MY GOD. I JUST SENT A TEXT MESSAGE to the WRONG GIRL

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passionate library
  02/08/09
english mother fucker, do you speak it?
concupiscible lavender set
  02/08/09
This guy can't even handle txt msgs. I'm guessing English i...
Adventurous partner university
  02/08/09
unintelligible
Ultramarine Diverse Meetinghouse
  02/08/09
cr
ebony tripping range pistol
  02/08/09
repost in English and you might get some responses.
slimy flickering mental disorder
  02/08/09
sorry, i am rushing. i fixed it
passionate library
  02/08/09
Sorry brah, it doesn't look too good. You're most likely fu...
Bistre irradiated spot
  02/08/09
No idea what you said, but I'm sympathetic to the general pr...
big-titted black resort
  02/08/09
1-date hottie probably finds this hot...that you lied to ano...
slimy flickering mental disorder
  02/08/09
titcturningconventionalwisdomonitshead
pontificating costumed pit
  02/08/09
i switched cell phones because i left my charger somewhere. ...
passionate library
  02/08/09
sad flame
Charcoal son of senegal
  02/08/09
says the guy who criticizes obama for handshaking a marine.
slimy flickering mental disorder
  02/08/09
and i was 100% correct. a Marine poster backed me up on that...
Charcoal son of senegal
  02/08/09
I'm sure the Redcoats were similarly incensed when the Revol...
slimy flickering mental disorder
  02/08/09
tyft. i now know that you are a fucking moron.
Charcoal son of senegal
  02/08/09
eek You didn't really send that did you?
stimulating location
  02/08/09
i did. i should have asked xoxo first but i panicked
passionate library
  02/08/09
yeah I'm going with flame On the off chance it's not, you...
stimulating location
  02/08/09
really? i swear this isn't flame. I can go on justin.tv and ...
passionate library
  02/08/09
Yeah ok. If you really told a chick that you're keeping a...
stimulating location
  02/08/09
she isn't desperate. she models for god sakes
passionate library
  02/08/09
you gotta wait until she responds. asking her out reeks of ...
slimy flickering mental disorder
  02/08/09
ok
passionate library
  02/08/09
ROFL at "keeping her in reserve just in case"
Salmon slap-happy stage bbw
  02/08/09
i hope that came off as a joke of sorts
passionate library
  02/08/09
no, it definitely did not
Charcoal son of senegal
  02/08/09
he's fucked. gals hate prenuptials for the same underlying ...
slimy flickering mental disorder
  02/08/09
lol theres no way you said "am keeping her in reserve j...
Bossy kitchen
  02/08/09
i am a retard and i am very honest, unfortunately
passionate library
  02/08/09
will some other woman, not Bluesmoke, PLEASE SAY SOMETHING. ...
passionate library
  02/08/09
Why do you think my interpretation was wrong?
stimulating location
  02/08/09
SOmetimes you are right and i appreciate your opinions, but ...
passionate library
  02/08/09
wow... I'm not sweet and nice? That hurts.
stimulating location
  02/08/09
i don't get that impression, but forgive me if i am wrong. E...
passionate library
  02/08/09
If you want sweet and nice xoxo chicks probaby aren't your t...
aqua sexy menage halford
  02/08/09
your life is falling apart. we can't even tell if you're luc...
french ocher lodge digit ratio
  02/08/09
i think it's cute you think she's hot cuz she "models.&...
Frisky snowy garrison doctorate
  02/08/09
she directed me to a very large retailer's website where she...
passionate library
  02/08/09
i.e. she's an ass model for lane bryant.
Frisky snowy garrison doctorate
  02/08/09
the fact that she responded to you meant she was intrigued. ...
french ocher lodge digit ratio
  02/08/09
surprisingly accurate. not bad for a pink faggot with a cli...
Frisky snowy garrison doctorate
  02/08/09
ty SY. that means a lot coming from you.
french ocher lodge digit ratio
  02/08/09
i was very honest with her before and she seems to value hon...
passionate library
  02/08/09
girls don't value honesty. they value discretion and saying...
Frisky snowy garrison doctorate
  02/08/09
now that i am calm, this seems credited. I could have used t...
passionate library
  02/08/09
Obvious flame, but the fact that you wrote 'O MY GOD' in the...
medicated scourge upon the earth home
  02/08/09
not flame. I try to make the thread titles interesting, dood...
passionate library
  02/08/09
So should i wait until Tuesday to ask her out for next Satur...
passionate library
  02/08/09
Date: February 8th, 2009 3:37 PM Author: BEEF SUPREME (http...
Charcoal son of senegal
  02/08/09
awful flame
aqua sexy menage halford
  02/08/09
it's not flame. my life sucks. where the fuck is Rowan?
passionate library
  02/08/09
If not flame, you're a social retard of epic proportions.
aqua sexy menage halford
  02/08/09
i post on xoxo,what do you expect?
passionate library
  02/08/09
As a chick, I think you did fuck up, not as badly by sending...
Dashing coffee pot
  02/08/09
I see the wording was unfortunate. That's sort of my brand ...
passionate library
  02/08/09
I'd say yes. Or at least wait until she responds to the last...
Dashing coffee pot
  02/08/09
she just responded. seems positive. it's in the UPDATE belo...
passionate library
  02/08/09
Cool, you got lucky. I'd just say what I told you above--you...
Dashing coffee pot
  02/08/09
i am going with this. TY. although a little cooling off peri...
passionate library
  02/08/09
You shouldn't have given details. After one date, it isn't h...
Startling locus
  02/08/09
UPDATE - SHE JUST TEXTED ME!: I NEED TO ASK HER OUT FOR NEXT...
passionate library
  02/08/09
bluesmoke: please read this and tell me why i don't value yo...
passionate library
  02/08/09
Hey, I'm not a mind reader. Good for you if she's still int...
stimulating location
  02/08/09
I am not trying to be mean, but you asked why i wanted other...
passionate library
  02/08/09
No I didn't; I asked why you immediately felt my interpretat...
stimulating location
  02/08/09
WE STILL FRIENDS?
passionate library
  02/08/09
I didn't mean to be so harsh. i do appreciate your opinions.
passionate library
  02/08/09
lol it's not that serious no problem
stimulating location
  02/08/09
I think you should lay off Emma - the fact that the girl res...
Startling locus
  02/08/09
Don't ask her now. Say something funny. Ask her mid-week.
Startling locus
  02/08/09
I think it very likely won't matter. Would you really ding...
motley flirting faggot firefighter site
  02/08/09
no ding, but no need to rush either.
Dashing coffee pot
  02/08/09
That's not the reason he should wait. She just pwned him, wh...
Startling locus
  02/08/09
THis isn't a typical first date, though. I know a lot about ...
passionate library
  02/08/09
Ok, flame or you're retarded.
avocado psychic legend
  02/08/09
fuck you. if you were here 2-3 months ago you would we have ...
passionate library
  02/08/09
Did you really talk to her for two hours, though? That's wh...
avocado psychic legend
  02/08/09
it was 3 phone conversations about one hour each. ...
passionate library
  02/08/09
So three hours then! Wait, you've talked on the phone for t...
avocado psychic legend
  02/08/09
that's what i am thinking. I think i am going to marry this ...
passionate library
  02/08/09
What the fuck?
Startling locus
  02/08/09
told ya so
avocado psychic legend
  02/08/09
I think I'm going to exit this thread, because I'm no longer...
Startling locus
  02/08/09
lol, I think that's the cr to this dude
avocado psychic legend
  02/08/09
rock trapped me into using the marriage language, but we are...
passionate library
  02/08/09
I don't see what any of this has to do with anything. You ju...
Startling locus
  02/08/09
demanding another date right away shows that he doesn't feel...
motley flirting faggot firefighter site
  02/08/09
Nah. Saying something funny shows he doesn't feel pwned. Ask...
Startling locus
  02/08/09
If this were real he'd need to say something reassuring abou...
avocado psychic legend
  02/08/09
They've been on one date, and they're texting. I think texts...
Startling locus
  02/08/09
Honestly, usually yeah, sure, I'd agree. But if she really ...
avocado psychic legend
  02/08/09
I'd avoid you if I got a text like that.
Chest-beating incel hominid
  02/08/09
please don't comment in this thread. TYIA
passionate library
  02/08/09
You asked for female's opinions. I'm female. I gave yo...
Chest-beating incel hominid
  02/08/09
you are that weird chick who claims to be assexual and posts...
passionate library
  02/08/09
Yes, and I would reject you.
Chest-beating incel hominid
  02/08/09
You only want advice from people who will tell you what you ...
Ultramarine Diverse Meetinghouse
  02/08/09
no, just normal people
passionate library
  02/08/09
Do I count as normal, since you asked where I was earlier? ...
Startling locus
  02/08/09
Normal enough for my purposes. your predictions are spot ...
passionate library
  02/08/09
REVIEW MY RESPONSE PLZ: "..."
passionate library
  02/08/09
perfect!
avocado psychic legend
  02/08/09
....
passionate library
  02/08/09
now WALK IT OFF!
Offensive Dingle Berry
  02/08/09
TY, Friend
passionate library
  02/08/09


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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:02 PM
Author: passionate library

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881537)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:03 PM
Author: concupiscible lavender set

english mother fucker, do you speak it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881543)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:07 PM
Author: Adventurous partner university

This guy can't even handle txt msgs. I'm guessing English is well out of his reach.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881568)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:03 PM
Author: Ultramarine Diverse Meetinghouse

unintelligible

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881546)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:04 PM
Author: ebony tripping range pistol

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881547)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:04 PM
Author: slimy flickering mental disorder

repost in English and you might get some responses.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881548)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:05 PM
Author: passionate library

sorry, i am rushing. i fixed it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881558)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:09 PM
Author: Bistre irradiated spot

Sorry brah, it doesn't look too good. You're most likely fucked. Your best bet is to stick with the 4 date girl.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881576)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:06 PM
Author: big-titted black resort

No idea what you said, but I'm sympathetic to the general problem. On my phone, the top name in the recent log will be the last person I texted, even if somebody else texted me more recently. Leads to some unfortunate mis-texts.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881565)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:07 PM
Author: slimy flickering mental disorder

1-date hottie probably finds this hot...that you lied to another girl because you were out with HER. gals are competitive as fuck, you know.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881567)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:17 PM
Author: pontificating costumed pit

titcturningconventionalwisdomonitshead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881623)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:13 PM
Author: passionate library

i switched cell phones because i left my charger somewhere.

Should i ask her out now?

Here is the last text i wrote and she hasn't responded to it yet:

"..."

EDIT: her response found below

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881595)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:14 PM
Author: Charcoal son of senegal

sad flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881599)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:15 PM
Author: slimy flickering mental disorder

says the guy who criticizes obama for handshaking a marine.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881610)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:17 PM
Author: Charcoal son of senegal

and i was 100% correct. a Marine poster backed me up on that.

HTH

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881620)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:19 PM
Author: slimy flickering mental disorder

I'm sure the Redcoats were similarly incensed when the Revolutionaries refused to do battle in straight-lined formations.

time to rewrite the rUlZ, babay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881632)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:20 PM
Author: Charcoal son of senegal

tyft.

i now know that you are a fucking moron.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881641)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:14 PM
Author: stimulating location

eek

You didn't really send that did you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881602)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:15 PM
Author: passionate library

i did. i should have asked xoxo first but i panicked

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881605)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:16 PM
Author: stimulating location

yeah I'm going with flame

On the off chance it's not, you're completely fucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881612)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:17 PM
Author: passionate library

really? i swear this isn't flame. I can go on justin.tv and killself now if you want

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881618)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:19 PM
Author: stimulating location

Yeah ok.

If you really told a chick that you're keeping another girl "in reserve" she's definitely not going to want to date you. Unless she's completely desperate. Only you ca judge that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881636)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:20 PM
Author: passionate library

she isn't desperate. she models for god sakes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881640)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:14 PM
Author: slimy flickering mental disorder

you gotta wait until she responds. asking her out reeks of desperation and CYA behavior. she won't be flattered by it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881603)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:15 PM
Author: passionate library

ok

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881608)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:17 PM
Author: Salmon slap-happy stage bbw

ROFL at "keeping her in reserve just in case"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881624)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:18 PM
Author: passionate library

i hope that came off as a joke of sorts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881629)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:19 PM
Author: Charcoal son of senegal

no, it definitely did not

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881633)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:21 PM
Author: slimy flickering mental disorder

he's fucked. gals hate prenuptials for the same underlying principles - and that's after a guy and gal already want to get married. expecting/prepping in case relationship fails = NOT GOOD.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881654)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:20 PM
Author: Bossy kitchen

lol theres no way you said "am keeping her in reserve just in case." FLAME, hopefully. otherwise you're a fucking retard

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881647)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:21 PM
Author: passionate library

i am a retard and i am very honest, unfortunately

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881653)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:21 PM
Author: passionate library

will some other woman, not Bluesmoke, PLEASE SAY SOMETHING. How do I save this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881657)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:23 PM
Author: stimulating location

Why do you think my interpretation was wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881673)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:26 PM
Author: passionate library

SOmetimes you are right and i appreciate your opinions, but i also trust your opinions the least. These girls are sweet and nice and may operate differently than you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881690)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:37 PM
Author: stimulating location

wow... I'm not sweet and nice? That hurts.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881771)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:39 PM
Author: passionate library

i don't get that impression, but forgive me if i am wrong. EDIT: it's hard to judge on here, anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881786)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:41 PM
Author: aqua sexy menage halford

If you want sweet and nice xoxo chicks probaby aren't your target audience.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881801)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:29 PM
Author: french ocher lodge digit ratio

your life is falling apart. we can't even tell if you're lucid half the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881702)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:27 PM
Author: Frisky snowy garrison doctorate

i think it's cute you think she's hot cuz she "models." LOL. what does she model? what's the name of her talent agency? what has she been in?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881693)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:28 PM
Author: passionate library

she directed me to a very large retailer's website where she models some clothing. that's all i am gonna say.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881698)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:30 PM
Author: Frisky snowy garrison doctorate

i.e. she's an ass model for lane bryant.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881713)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:27 PM
Author: french ocher lodge digit ratio

the fact that she responded to you meant she was intrigued. you lost all your intrigue when you sent that pussy-ass explanatory text. shoulda just went with "oops my bad", and you would actually be in a BETTER position than before you mistakenly sent the text.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881695)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:31 PM
Author: Frisky snowy garrison doctorate

surprisingly accurate. not bad for a pink faggot with a clit-dick. You are well schooled in the art of armchair analysis and keyboard jockeying.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881720)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:44 PM
Author: french ocher lodge digit ratio

ty SY. that means a lot coming from you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881814)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:31 PM
Author: passionate library

i was very honest with her before and she seems to value honesty....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881721)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:32 PM
Author: Frisky snowy garrison doctorate

girls don't value honesty. they value discretion and saying the right thing at the right time. just being honest all the time is stupid and while she may tolerate it she won't fuck you because of it; rather she'd be fucking you in spite of it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881738)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:53 PM
Author: passionate library

now that i am calm, this seems credited. I could have used this to my advantage. My options are 1) killself or 2) carry a blackberry with xoxo loaded at all times 3) learn from my mistakes and press on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881849)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:35 PM
Author: medicated scourge upon the earth home

Obvious flame, but the fact that you wrote 'O MY GOD' in the title demonstrates that you are 100% fem.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881759)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:36 PM
Author: passionate library

not flame. I try to make the thread titles interesting, dood.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881767)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:38 PM
Author: passionate library

So should i wait until Tuesday to ask her out for next Saturday? No more texts, right? Just let things blow over?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881774)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:39 PM
Author: Charcoal son of senegal

Date: February 8th, 2009 3:37 PM

Author: BEEF SUPREME (http://www.the-frat-pack.com/reviews/images/idiocracy/beef2.jpg)

Date: February 8th, 2009 1:41 AM

Author: To be flair (that the Nazis made the Jews wear)

Type the following in the thread title box (no spaces):

& s h y ;

­

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929739&forum_id=5#10879722)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929972&forum_id=2#10881770)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881785)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:41 PM
Author: aqua sexy menage halford

awful flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881797)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:41 PM
Author: passionate library

it's not flame. my life sucks. where the fuck is Rowan?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881800)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:42 PM
Author: aqua sexy menage halford

If not flame, you're a social retard of epic proportions.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881804)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 3:43 PM
Author: passionate library

i post on xoxo,what do you expect?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881809)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:09 PM
Author: Dashing coffee pot

As a chick, I think you did fuck up, not as badly by sending the first text message (to the wrong chick,) but by telling her "I'm keeping her in reserve." That sounds really tacky.

Next time, wait till you chill out before replying. Then come to xo. You could've told her "I'll tell you all about it when we meet next" and then come up with something better.

Since it was your 1st date with her and you're not sure where things are going yet or if you have a chance with her, you are "keeping her as a friend" (rather than as a reserve.) She will most likely UNDERSTAND what you mean, without having to say she's a reserve.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881917)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:14 PM
Author: passionate library

I see the wording was unfortunate. That's sort of my brand of humor and someone who knew me better might see that. I am planning to ask HOTTIE out for dinner next Saturday. Should i wait a couple of days?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881942)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:31 PM
Author: Dashing coffee pot

I'd say yes. Or at least wait until she responds to the last msg you sent--and it all depends on what she responds.

Maybe within a day of the date you can say something like "I had a great time, looking forward to meeting you again." or something like that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882020)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:33 PM
Author: passionate library

she just responded. seems positive. it's in the UPDATE below.

but i repeat it here:

SHE: "...."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882033)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:38 PM
Author: Dashing coffee pot

Cool, you got lucky. I'd just say what I told you above--you also had a great time and look forward to seeing her again. Will text you some time in the week to plan something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882060)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:22 PM
Author: passionate library

i am going with this. TY. although a little cooling off period might be appropiate too as ROwan suggests.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882322)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:17 PM
Author: Startling locus

You shouldn't have given details. After one date, it isn't her right to know how many dates you've been on with other people. Also, the reserve thing manages to make you look like an ass without seeming cocky or macho (makes it clear you're not above using people, and also that you feel you need a mediocre girl as a reserve).

Best way to handle this would have been to laugh it off. At this point, I think you need to leave the girl alone for a bit unless she contacts you first.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881955)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:21 PM
Author: passionate library

UPDATE - SHE JUST TEXTED ME!: I NEED TO ASK HER OUT FOR NEXT SATURDAY.

HERE IS HER MESSAGE:

"...."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881971)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:22 PM
Author: passionate library

bluesmoke: please read this and tell me why i don't value your opinions. (no offense -- i respect you and wish you the best)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881978)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:25 PM
Author: stimulating location

Hey, I'm not a mind reader. Good for you if she's still interested.

BTW, I'm not the only one who said you fucked up by texting her what you did. I'm not sure why you're singling me out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881992)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:28 PM
Author: passionate library

I am not trying to be mean, but you asked why i wanted other women's opinions.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882005)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:33 PM
Author: stimulating location

No I didn't; I asked why you immediately felt my interpretation of what happened was suspect.

Of the two other girls who posted, both seem to agree that it was a really bad faux pas.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882028)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:28 PM
Author: passionate library

WE STILL FRIENDS?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882008)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:31 PM
Author: passionate library

I didn't mean to be so harsh. i do appreciate your opinions.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882019)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:33 PM
Author: stimulating location

lol it's not that serious

no problem

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882032)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:26 PM
Author: Startling locus

I think you should lay off Emma - the fact that the girl responded to your text doesn't mean you're all clear by any means. She may or may not go out with you again, and if she does, she's going to remember this incident.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881997)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:22 PM
Author: Startling locus

Don't ask her now. Say something funny. Ask her mid-week.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10881979)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:41 PM
Author: motley flirting faggot firefighter site

I think it very likely won't matter.

Would you really ding a guy for planning a week in advance??

Never had that happen to me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882074)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:43 PM
Author: Dashing coffee pot

no ding, but no need to rush either.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882081)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 4:52 PM
Author: Startling locus

That's not the reason he should wait. She just pwned him, which makes it a not so great time to ask. Since there's already a decent chance she's not going to want to see him again, he might as well stack odds in his favor by letting some time pass between the pwnage and the invitation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882142)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:02 PM
Author: passionate library

THis isn't a typical first date, though. I know a lot about her and we were very comfortable with each other ....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882197)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:02 PM
Author: avocado psychic legend

Ok, flame or you're retarded.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882199)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:03 PM
Author: passionate library

fuck you. if you were here 2-3 months ago you would we have seen the thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882202)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:04 PM
Author: avocado psychic legend

Did you really talk to her for two hours, though? That's why I think it's flame, man - most of the time by the time someone talks to a girl for two hours she's ready to move in with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882214)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:06 PM
Author: passionate library

it was 3 phone conversations about one hour each.

...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882222)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:08 PM
Author: avocado psychic legend

So three hours then! Wait, you've talked on the phone for three hours and you're not married yet?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882235)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:15 PM
Author: passionate library

that's what i am thinking. I think i am going to marry this girl, we get along very well. My mutual friend predicts we will be married in a year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882279)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:16 PM
Author: Startling locus

What the fuck?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882284)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:16 PM
Author: avocado psychic legend

told ya so

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882287)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:17 PM
Author: Startling locus

I think I'm going to exit this thread, because I'm no longer able to trust the OP's perception of things.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882291)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:19 PM
Author: avocado psychic legend

lol, I think that's the cr to this dude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882305)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:19 PM
Author: passionate library

rock trapped me into using the marriage language, but we are very relaxed with each other and talk to each other about anything [and she smiled every time i looked into her eyes]

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882307)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:04 PM
Author: Startling locus

I don't see what any of this has to do with anything. You just did something silly. You don't really know how she took it yet. It's not the time to ask her out again, especially not when the proposed date is a week away and you'll have other opportunities to ask her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882209)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:03 PM
Author: motley flirting faggot firefighter site

demanding another date right away shows that he doesn't feel pwned, and thus was not pwned

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882201)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:05 PM
Author: Startling locus

Nah. Saying something funny shows he doesn't feel pwned. Asking her out immediately is a "Please don't ditch me for screwing up" move. Some distance from the incident is only going to help.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882217)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:09 PM
Author: avocado psychic legend

If this were real he'd need to say something reassuring about how he likes her, given the whole cheating thing from before.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882243)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:11 PM
Author: Startling locus

They've been on one date, and they're texting. I think texts by their nature need to be kept either functional or funny. If he asks her out in a few days and she says yes, he can be reassuring on the date.

There's really no point in it now, since he doesn't know yet whether she's going to give him another shot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882258)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:15 PM
Author: avocado psychic legend

Honestly, usually yeah, sure, I'd agree. But if she really is the type of girl who's that hurt by an ex (I mean, it took her two months to want to go out?) you've got to be really a good guy (assuming you're looking for a relationship). I'm with you on the last part - realistically speaking, if he did this (and he didn't), then he lsot any hope with this type of girl, if how he's describing her is right.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882278)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:12 PM
Author: Chest-beating incel hominid

I'd avoid you if I got a text like that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882261)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:12 PM
Author: passionate library

please don't comment in this thread. TYIA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882265)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:19 PM
Author: Chest-beating incel hominid

You asked for female's opinions.

I'm female.

I gave you my opinion.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882301)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:21 PM
Author: passionate library

you are that weird chick who claims to be assexual and posts obituaries of other posters' mothers.

but anyway, thanks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882315)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:22 PM
Author: Chest-beating incel hominid

Yes, and I would reject you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882320)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:31 PM
Author: Ultramarine Diverse Meetinghouse

You only want advice from people who will tell you what you want to hear?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882359)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:35 PM
Author: passionate library

no, just normal people

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882371)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:58 PM
Author: Startling locus

Do I count as normal, since you asked where I was earlier?

If it were me, I'd reply politely to your follow up text, but find excuses not to hang out with you ever again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882495)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 6:05 PM
Author: passionate library

Normal enough for my purposes.

your predictions are spot on most of the time, but there is no way anyone can give perfect advice without complete knowledge of the facts.

Based on your current record and based on what I know about this girl, I suspect your prediction has a 70% chance of being correct here. I will update later for you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882560)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:34 PM
Author: passionate library

REVIEW MY RESPONSE PLZ:

"..."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882369)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:35 PM
Author: avocado psychic legend

perfect!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882373)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:44 PM
Author: passionate library

....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882428)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:36 PM
Author: Offensive Dingle Berry

now WALK IT OFF!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882377)



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Date: February 8th, 2009 5:41 PM
Author: passionate library

TY, Friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=929944&forum_id=2#10882394)