Girlfriend wants me to spend $30k MINIMUM on engagement ring
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Date: April 11th, 2009 9:58 AM Author: Henna wild location
wtf?!
So she's being incredibly bitchy about it. We've been dating for a couple years now, and went out the other day to kind of browse rings.
We went to Tiffany and they had this ring for about $30k. We started talking about it and apparently she thinks this is a good minimum to spend. I really know nothing about this.
Is this normal?
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Date: April 11th, 2009 10:27 AM Author: wine deer antler
If you don't see the symbolism attached to an engagement ring, you are truly stupid and unready for marriage.
It's a pivotal moment in certain stupid peoples' lives. If you don't treat the moment as pivotal and try to economize the most "important day of your life" than you ain't so smart.
I wouldn't get married in the first place but my rationale is principled rather than pragmatic.
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Date: April 11th, 2009 10:53 AM Author: wine deer antler
Do you need to oversimplify something that's already oversimplifed?
Don't get married at all. That's my advice. The myth of marital happiness is widespread in Western countries.
But most of you don't take the myth head on and prefer to blast your girlfriends. The capitulation of your girlfriend to the myth has nothing to do with the myth.
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Date: April 11th, 2009 10:55 AM Author: wine deer antler
So what? You're already freaked out about "SOCIAL CIRCLES".
Give me a break.
If you care about stupid kinds of stuff like marriage, rings, and social circles, then care about the money spent on it. Be consistent in your stupidity.
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Date: April 11th, 2009 11:02 AM Author: wine deer antler
The stupid woman seems to think their love is SPECIAL and requires a SPECIAL ring. Precious! My precious!
She's stupid and deluded, but work with her. Their love is hackneyed and trite. Everyone does the stupid things she does. But work with her.
If you get her the ring that fits her deluded fantasy of the relationship he might keep her. If he punctures her fantasy of their "specialness" now then he can start losing her.
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Date: April 11th, 2009 4:00 PM Author: walnut incel meetinghouse
pre-bad economy i ran into an American chick like the one OP made up but the expected price of the ring was more like 40-50k.
of course she was an insecure little cunt and I can see how she might want a ring like that to boost her self esteem
if i can't find a sweet thing state-side i want to marry, i intend to exercise the foreign option
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=973226&forum_id=2#11400713)
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Date: April 11th, 2009 11:12 AM Author: Henna wild location Subject: ****UPDATE****
Fuck.
Okay, update.
I've been on the phone with her for a while, talking about this ring business. Apparently, she is willing to come down to $25k, assuming the ring is at least 2.5 carats.
I told her $30k is too much and she accused me of not loving her. I told her that I do love her and want to marry her and if I need to buy that ring to show her than I will.
Is $25k unreasonable? Is she being unreasonable?
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Date: April 11th, 2009 12:23 PM Author: coiffed rigpig
It's not Tiffany & Co vs wholesalers. There are plenty of respectable independent jewelers who are a big step above Blue Nile, but still sell at reasonable prices.
You should show how much you love her by designing her ring. Check out pricescope.com and look into working with a special jeweler.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=973226&forum_id=2#11399376)
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Date: April 11th, 2009 11:29 AM Author: Swashbuckling box office
No. I totally agree. I know a LOT of spoiled princesses.
Someone whose identity I shall not reveal has a father who bought her a new piece of of diamond jewelry for Valentine's Day from the time she was 11 until she left home for school.
Such a woman should be projected to have pretty high expectations of whatever engagement ring she eventually tricks some poor sucker into buying for her.
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Date: April 11th, 2009 11:30 AM Author: pale dilemma chad
engagement ring-check
money-grubbing whore-check
on the way to 300 posts-check
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Date: April 11th, 2009 12:22 PM Author: coiffed rigpig
How tall is she?
Does she have big man hands?
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Date: April 11th, 2009 12:24 PM Author: Infuriating newt ticket booth
I can't believe no one has asked this question yet.
Does she work? Does she make/have as much money as you do? Would she ever buy you something like a car as a gift?
If so, give her what she wants. Otherwise, tell her to shut it. Women like that are an embarassment.
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Date: April 11th, 2009 12:39 PM Author: Infuriating newt ticket booth
Archaic bullshit.
If it's really supposed to be something special he should be willing to spend it. You can't demand someone give you a meaningful gift.
And while we're at it, he better split the cost of the wedding.
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Date: April 11th, 2009 12:58 PM Author: razzmatazz big-titted whorehouse boiling water
I don't have an ideal ring in mind. The only thing I know for sure is that I will not demand anything and won't ask for anything extravagant.
I'd probably want a diamond, sapphires don't really sparkle and I like sparkle. maybe a diamond with side sapphires would be cool though. I'd be cool with an heirloom ring, not sure about the pawnshop idea.
Edit: yes I was flaming. also irritated at rasquie who generally seems pretty stupid and was unable to see this whole thread was a flamefest
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Date: May 6th, 2009 4:22 PM Author: Vivacious twinkling hunting ground stage
TITCR.
If a woman is a lawyer/doctor/professional making $150k+ she is very much entitled to a $30k engagement ring because she could afford to spend that on herself.
If she is going to be your stay at home mom or working some miserable public service job while you make the real $$$, you should buy her a ring you are comfortable buying.
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Date: April 11th, 2009 12:42 PM Author: Umber Space
flame. you can't get anywhere close to 2.5 cts at T&Co for 30K.
You'd be hard pressed to get 2.5 cts for 25K at Internet retail pricing.
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Date: April 11th, 2009 12:44 PM Author: Swollen Heady Lay Bbw
1. This is flame.
2. The women in this thread defending 30K are delusional, not marriageable, and unheroic due to their poor reasoning and decision making skills.
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Date: April 11th, 2009 12:45 PM Author: coiffed rigpig
How much do you make? I don't think she should be DEMANDING a $25k ring, but it's not completely beyond the realm of possibility if you make enough.
I know my bf initially talked about $10-15k rings, but he increased that guideline considerably once we started trying on rings irl.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=973226&forum_id=2#11399445) |
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Date: April 11th, 2009 1:14 PM Author: coiffed rigpig
He makes enough.
Carefree attitude? I live within my means, and don't really lust after material things. It's me or my siblings. I'm the responsible one who will look after the others.
I don't feel doomed. My life has been coming together pretty well. Just in a bit of a tight spot right now.
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Date: April 11th, 2009 12:56 PM Author: lascivious locale
This is not a good thing.
ATD is tcr. You don't want a chick like that, trust me.
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Date: April 11th, 2009 3:13 PM Author: wine deer antler
See??
She's not actually a whore. But the guy WISHES secretly he could have a relationship with a real whore because he wouldn't have to act like an adult.
You call the fiancee a whore, but secretly you wish you could actually have a relationship with a whore. Women aren't whorish enough for you.
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Date: May 6th, 2009 4:29 PM Author: Dark big karate
well, let's see. for $30k u can either get:
(a) one semester of law school
(b) three years of pussy (give or take, depending on how long before she finally breaks down and fucks the pool boy or dumps u for some brown skinned millionaire d00der the same age as ur dad).
which do u think is the better bargain?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=973226&forum_id=2#11661219)
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