i still get super horny sometimes these days (especially when im lifting regularly) but mostly i just use my vibrator now. easier and less stressful than maintaining a fuck buddy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32920834)

you still fuckin around?

why do girls in their 20s do this? is is TRULY to just HAVE FUN or do they deep down think, yeah, ill snag him if I do this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32920846)

i think it depends on the girl and their personal situation. for me personally i had two long-term fuck buddies in my 20s (a year+ of sleeping with the same guy ~2-3x per month). one i had zero interest in being in a relationship with and the other i sorta liked and would have dated if he had wanted to date me but he didnt and i didnt really care. but there were definitely guys that i dated short-term that i slept with and hoped it would lead to a relationship- in some cases it did and in some cases it didnt. so idk. i think it depends on the girl and the situation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32920872)

what about him made it worth fucking him?

you know we all want you to say "he had a huge dick" but was there more?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32920881)

hilariously i was actually super into (like, legit wanted to date and have a relationship with) one of his bandmates at one point and he and i hooked up as well. which made shit weird with me and the first dude. eventually i just decided the whole situation had gotten too incestuous and i stopped hanging out with that whole group of people altogether. was a fun time in my life, though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32920909)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32920952)

but 180 to you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32920958)

in my defense, even at my prime of slootiness i was nowhere NEAR as much of a slut as modern-day tindersloots.

but that being said, i openly admit to my past. i had casual sex some and had a few fuck buddies. i didnt get any stds from it and ive never cheated on a boyfriend, so im not sure that it particularly matters in the grand scheme of things. im not an "80+ cocks and she's keeping her name" chick. but im not virginal either. and i wont lie about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32920982)

and although a few xoxo poasters wanna see my tits, i dont think most of the poasters here have any interest in me. im truly average looking. below average now that im fat.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32921104)

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Date: March 26th, 2017 2:14 PM

Author: Julius Caesar\'s Mistress

honestly, im not sure. 80% of what was good about fucking him was his dick. maybe another 10-15% was the convenience. but mostly it was his dick. bigger dicks just feel differently inside you in a way that average sized dicks dont. :(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=#)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32921084)

The funny thing is the OTHER guy that was my long term fuck buddy in my 20s had a dick that was on the small side of average and I liked him/was interested in being in a relationship with him. But nobody wanted to hear about him. They just wanted to hear about the guy that I didnt want to date. Why else would I keep fucking a guy I had no interest in? Obviously it was because of dick/convenience. He didnt have other traits that I desired.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922466)

what about shape? describe any bend, tapering, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32924195)

that's what they say plus i'm a tall thick freakass like u

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32921161)

what sort of freaky things are you into, friend?!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32921167)

i think i love you.

for reals

are you bi?

favorite psychedelic? im a huge fan of acid personally but mushrooms can be great too. i feel like they are more hit-or-miss. ive had insanely great experiences on mushrooms and then experiences that were "meh".

in terms of bondage- do you like being dom/sub or are you a switch? in general terms im pretty dominant in almost all areas but i do like to be tied up from time to time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32921213)

i'm not dominant at all except for the way that all subs are secretly dominant / trying to extract the experience they want from their partner

i have fooled around with women but i'm not enough of a cassanova to be bi

u r dj right? i've listened to some of your mixes and they were great, not the genres i usually listen to but still loved em

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32921258)

i LOVE really good acid. i love feeling like im living inside a fucking cartoon world where everything is moving/alive/melting. its one of the most 180 experiences in life. i love the level of profound thoughts ive had while tripping on acid as wlel

regarding the dominant thing- i understand. sounds like my ex a bit. sort of subtly trying to manipulate the situation to get what they want out of it. but i think that most of the dom/sub shit involves a great amount of manipulation on both sides if you think about it

yeah, i dj. ive played out a handful of gigs at bars(maybe 15-20? idk) and some house parties. im really more of a hobbyist than a real "dj". but thank you. <3 i have pretty good taste in music i think. im just not that great at the actual mixing/effects part

youve fooled around with women? with a man as well in a 3some situation or by yourself? its been FOREVER since ive eaten pussy (like fuck, 6 or 7 years) and frankly i miss it a bit. i consider myself to be more straight than gay but im long overdue for some pussy snarfing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32921298)

i haven't done acid in a while, it's so hard to find the stuff most of the time, but i'm hoping to go to joshua tree and do it there sometime soon...

i've fooled with women in 3some and 4some setups and also solo, i would like to snarf but now that i'm married it's gotta be a whole thing.

can you poast a good track or LP that you've been into lately

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32921344)

i assume your hubby would be fine with the 3some/4some w chicks thing?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32921362)

hubby would be AAAA-OK with a 3some and we frequently discuss whom among our friends we should tap, it's a work in progress because all the sexy people we know who'd be down to do it are too dramatic, and all the chill people are not people whose pussies i want to snarf....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32921386)

yeah, id love to do dmt, id just want to do it in the right situation. since im now mentally pretty healthy id be willing to do it now if the situation arose. i should ask my friend about it and see if she has any left- she had a few hits of it a few years ago that she was saving. shes one of those people that can tuck drugs away and not do them for literally years, then pull them out at the right time. (i completely lack this sort of discipline, personally)

thats the problem with swinging- usually the attractive people are crazy/drama-filled and the more chill people may not be as attractive. ive seen that issue crop up among friends of mine. when i was dating a guy in my mid 20s we wanted to do a 3some with one of my female friends and had a hard time coming up with someone we both found suitable. we ended up not doing it. the only group stuff ive done has been "drunk and in the moment" type stuff

id love to chat more but i need to get off this chatblog for a while and do some shit around the house. we are definitely FRIENDS now though. <3 i'll be around later

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32921418)

"gaaaawwwwd darling, it's been simply ages since i've licked a pussy!"

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922081)

And frankly you don't need to lay out your fake dyke resume on here. You like guys and have done a little heavy petting with some chicks when you were GAKKED OUT OF YOUR MIND. Congratulations but not really an odd case.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922178)

maybe there's something out there though, im open to suggestions

lol at fake dyke resume. i don't claim to be bi or that my experiences are unique. explain why you feel this way

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922194)

We good?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922284)

sorry ladies, but porn is for US.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922647)

when i was briefly on okcupid like 2-3 years ago i actually had my settings set to bi and got messages from both men and women. though i got plenty of messages from people of both sexes, i didnt end up meeting anyone from the app and delted my profile after a few weeks.

in general i prefer men and ive always been upfront about that. but i do like women too. i just dont randomly hook up with people anymore, period.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922409)

OH WHAT A SAME-SEX ATTRACTED PERSON!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922462)

I think the issue with many people on this boart is that you don't regularly interact with people who are open sexually- by that I mean people that prefer not to label themselves or dont fit neatly in the "gay/straight" categories and have had/are open to LGBT experiences. You just know chicks irl that got drunk and fucked a chick in college and now say "TEE HEE IM BI TEE HEE". But in my circle of friends (liberal city and large gay population here) its very common for people to be fluid in terms of who they're open to dating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922526)

There is a pronounced difference from the army of 'open-minded' women who REFUSE to be classified into a sexual category and actual bi and lesbian women. 98% of the women who aggressively insist they fall into the parameters you describe exclusively date men and end up married to men, end of story. Most women who are truly bi end up frequently dating other women or in long-term relationships with them. If anything, the far more common thing I see among bi women is relationships with women and the odd dick thrown in the mix for purely hook-up circumstances.

I don't doubt that you have munched rug on a couple of occasions and I don't doubt you make a point of letting all your friends know that you find women attractive. You mentioned the real and valid impetus for this: it's the norm and accepted-trending-on-encouraged among the people you like to hang out with. Nothing wrong with that at all but lulz at the facile response that nobody on XO understands because they don't hang out with anybody cool like your group of pasty, underemployed, 30ish 'alternative' EDM doofus friends in a tiny city.

Tell me about when you have had extended, deep relationships with women that occurred on a personal and sexual level that you carried out with the same dedication and lack of reservation that you have with a man.

I get your need to shore up your gay attraction credentials. Just know that a lot of actual gay and bi people are either actively annoyed or sniggering at the shitlib women happily high-fiving over being soooo attracted to women even though you're like 93% straight and being hetero dominates your sexuality.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922643)

I truly think that sexuality is on a scale from 0 to 100 and not a "straight/bi/gay" option. Id consider myself like 85% in favor of men and 15% in favor of women. I am GENUINELY more physically attracted to women than I am men in a lot of cases but I prefer male energy and really like dick, so it makes it hard for me. Two of my friends who know me well think that I am actually gay and just won't admit it. But really its just a matter of me finding women more physically attractive than men but prefer having sex with men.

As for "I dont doubt you make a point of letting all your friends know that you find women attractive"- well, some of them know. The ones that know me well definitely know that. But I don't go around screaming about my sexuality. This is xoxo, after all, and someone created this thread specifically to ask me about my sexual habits. So I was open and honest about them.

And I DO think that probably 80% of the people on xoxo dont really know people like me (in many ways) irl. It's not that I think that I'm special or anything, its just that people tend to hang out with people who are similar to them. And I'm not a lawyer and I'm not upper middle class. I dont move in the same circles as most of the rest of this boart does. There's nothing wrong with that on either side, its just the truth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922721)

we have a lot of lawyers still, but lulz at thinking this place actually skews UMC or even majority lawyer/law student.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922822)

you have to keep in mind... i dont poast for long periods of time and then i come back and i dont know who 90%+ of the poasters are. i remember the really notable people and thats it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922917)

Are you out and openly bisexual to your family?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922803)

The first I ever had feelings for was a chick named Jennifer that I met when I was like 23. She was part of the same group of friends as the guys in the band that I described above. I had a huge crush on her. She was like 5 7 with long thick dark brown hair and was a 8/10 girl next door type. I once had a very vivid dream that I was eating her out and woke up with a strange taste in my mouth. was a 180 experience. during a drunken night she admitted to me that she had a crush on me too and we made out. i really liked this chick and definitely would have dated her. immediately after this she lost her job and told me she had to move across country to live with her mom because she couldnt afford to stay in my city any longer. i was legit upset. this was back in 2003/2004ish. when myspace/facebook became big a few years later i actually tried to look her up online but i couldnt find her- she has a really common last name. definitely really bothered me.

most recently ive developed a crush on a girl who works at a store near where i work. she is COMPLETELY unremarkable in every way- shes maybe an inch shorter than me (im 5 9) and completely plain. looks sorta lesbianish. but there is something about her that i find super attractive. the last time i was in this store she helped me find the item i was looking for and i got all like butterflies in my stomach/crush-feeling physically. this was like two weeks ago. i was thinking about going back into the store and trying to strike up a conversation with her but i think its completely 120 to hit on someone where they work

if youd like to hear details of other women ive been interested in (most of the stories are pretty boring like these ones), id be glad to tell them. but theyre not really noteworthy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922895)

Are you out and openly bisexual to your family?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922995)

/subthread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922739)

u seem defensive but that's only natural here given the tone and doesn't necessarily equal offended.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922831)

mostly im just wondering why im being asked to justify my attraction to women in a thread that was started by someone quizzing me on my sexual interests. thats all.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922906)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32923019)

Definitely had casual sex, but didnt do anything even resembling a "cock carousel" in my 20s

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922534)

im more of an alternative/artsy/gamer chick. this is well-known on the boart. i write, i dj. i hang out w weird people in the art/music/alternative crowd in my city, etc. im NOT a shrew.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922564)

have you played the witness? i like puzzly games and visually stunning ones so it was pretty mind blowing for me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922650)

I'm not on any dating apps and I dont go to other sites like reddit, etc. I have facebook but I barely use it. Xoxo is the most enteraining place I've found on the internet so there's literally no point in me going elsewhere

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32922736)

im really afraid of getting divorced so i dont wanna get married to the wrong person or for the wrong reason

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3564689&forum_id=2Elisa#32925532)