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"Dread game" = only way to avoid sexless marriage?

Can't find the study now but I remember reading that the mor...
mauve orchestra pit
  10/07/14
truth. kinda works the other way too.
Appetizing red boiling water lay
  10/07/14
what do you mean? A desirable woman is just a physically att...
mauve orchestra pit
  10/07/14
you miss the point. its that you don't think they are desira...
Appetizing red boiling water lay
  10/07/14
that's not nearly as true for why men are attracted to women...
mauve orchestra pit
  10/07/14
perhaps not initially but once you are in a LTR, you'll see....
Appetizing red boiling water lay
  10/07/14
women want desirable guys, news at 11
Canary charismatic newt menage
  10/07/14
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Vigorous ocher church
  10/07/14
the point is that the desirability of the guy might not have...
mauve orchestra pit
  10/07/14
My wife and I schedule weekly "Dread Wednesday" di...
Obsidian nursing home
  10/07/14
My wife and I do "Scholarship Saturdays"
Soggy range main people
  10/07/14
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Jobs
  02/24/26
DV pumo? My point was that women want men who are desire...
Canary charismatic newt menage
  10/07/14
not dvpumo. I understand that women find desired men more at...
mauve orchestra pit
  10/07/14
I think it has to do with something evopsych people call &qu...
Aphrodisiac filthy philosopher-king
  10/07/14
I'm skeptical of evopsych shit, but it seems plausible wh...
mauve orchestra pit
  10/07/14
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purple piazza
  10/07/14
house of "horror"
Zombie-like galvanic kitty corn cake
  10/07/14
RAN HERE TO POAST THIS.
racy state
  10/07/14
query why one would wish to avoid a sexless marriage
norwood ultra
  02/24/26
Sounds right from my personal experiences and anecdotal obse...
.,.,.,.,,,,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,.,.,,
  02/24/26


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Date: October 7th, 2014 1:52 PM
Author: mauve orchestra pit

Can't find the study now but I remember reading that the more a woman respected your ability to cheat on her with other women, the less likely she is to shut you out of sex in a LTR.

so basically you constantly need to demonstrate to your bish that you can fuck other women at will, or she'll just stop fucking you.

Fuck this gay earth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26472916)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:00 PM
Author: Appetizing red boiling water lay

truth. kinda works the other way too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26472955)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:42 PM
Author: mauve orchestra pit

what do you mean? A desirable woman is just a physically attractive one, so that wouldn't be surprising

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26473187)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:01 PM
Author: Appetizing red boiling water lay

you miss the point. its that you don't think they are desirable until you see someone else (or at least the threat of someone else) go after them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26473277)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:18 PM
Author: mauve orchestra pit

that's not nearly as true for why men are attracted to women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26473391)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:24 PM
Author: Appetizing red boiling water lay

perhaps not initially but once you are in a LTR, you'll see. Nothing gets me hotter than an intense attach of jealousy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26473424)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:00 PM
Author: Canary charismatic newt menage

women want desirable guys, news at 11

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26472953)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:44 PM
Author: Vigorous ocher church



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26473194)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:47 PM
Author: mauve orchestra pit

the point is that the desirability of the guy might not have gone down in the slightest, but their sexual attraction will go down unless they feel the competition

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26473205)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:48 PM
Author: Obsidian nursing home

My wife and I schedule weekly "Dread Wednesday" dinners with other couples

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26473207)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:00 PM
Author: Soggy range main people

My wife and I do "Scholarship Saturdays"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26473274)



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Date: February 24th, 2026 3:58 PM
Author: Jobs



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#49692197)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:51 PM
Author: Canary charismatic newt menage

DV pumo?

My point was that women want men who are desired by other women (aka desirable men). How will they know whether a man is desirable unless they are aware of the competition?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26473224)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:56 PM
Author: mauve orchestra pit

not dvpumo. I understand that women find desired men more attractive, but that's not the entirety of their attraction. it's surprising that that factor is what seems to drive the drop in sex drive though

as to the second point, because there are many factors that determine whether men are attractive that don't need external validation. men obviously don't need to be told that other men think their wives are hot, unless they're intellectuals

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26473250)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:05 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac filthy philosopher-king

I think it has to do with something evopsych people call "mate-guarding" behavior. women have to keep their man satisfied so he doesn't stray -- if there's no risk of it happening she doesn't have to do that.

I think your thread title is overblown though -- there are other ways of preventing women from losing interest in sex in a relationship, this is just one of them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26473303)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:14 PM
Author: mauve orchestra pit

I'm skeptical of evopsych shit, but it seems plausible

what are the other ways?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26473359)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:56 PM
Author: purple piazza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26473252)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 2:14 PM
Author: Zombie-like galvanic kitty corn cake

house of "horror"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26473020)



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Date: October 7th, 2014 3:01 PM
Author: racy state

RAN HERE TO POAST THIS.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#26473276)



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Date: February 24th, 2026 4:00 PM
Author: norwood ultra

query why one would wish to avoid a sexless marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#49692203)



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Date: February 24th, 2026 4:19 PM
Author: .,.,.,.,,,,.,.,..,.,.,.,.,.,.,,


Sounds right from my personal experiences and anecdotal observations.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2694062&forum_id=2Elisa#49692243)