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Life Advice for Youngs: go to the funerals you don't want to attend

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. A...
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I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.
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Important OP
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Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.
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Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get...
Wine glittery meetinghouse lettuce
  12/25/21
OP is correct. ty OP, and Merry Christmas
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My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grand...
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theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. i...
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I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was becaus...
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  11/25/25
should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:05 AM
Author: Cracking university

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. As you get older, there will be so many occasions where someone who you aren't close to passes away: a former co-worker who you have lost touch with, the younger brother of a friend from high school who you barely remember, or the dad of a college roommate you haven't seen since graduation. Go to all of these visitations if you can. It's good for the family and it's good for you. I have seen decades-old grudges dissolved in 30 seconds by this gesture. People are at their weakest when a loved one dies and the gratitude they feel when people take the time to pay their respects will last for the rest of their lives. My mom and dad are both gone and I can recall every single person who took the time to show up and pay their respects. It's powerful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Elisa#43672622)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:22 PM
Author: Cocky Ebony Affirmative Action



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:11 AM
Author: aggressive irradiated milk brunch

very valuable post

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:13 AM
Author: fighting chestnut old irish cottage office

180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant perspective.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: Cracking university



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: lavender razzle-dazzle shitlib dog poop

I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad’s funeral and the one-off stories they shared with me about how they knew him. One old lady had a flat tire in the bank parking lot and he changed it for her. Small town America. She would see him at the store or pharmacy for years and thank him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Elisa#43673327)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:29 AM
Author: offensive tan pervert

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:36 AM
Author: sinister wonderful property

Make sure to bring business cards, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Elisa#43672728)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:33 AM
Author: Concupiscible mahogany macaca field



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:36 AM
Author: Grizzly Whorehouse



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: splenetic place of business



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: Honey-headed curious national security agency travel guidebook



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:41 AM
Author: walnut flickering church fortuitous meteor



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:42 AM
Author: Heady Twinkling Uncleanness Pistol



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:49 AM
Author: excitant insane set



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:32 AM
Author: Concupiscible mahogany macaca field

I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Elisa#43673175)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:35 AM
Author: Onyx coldplay fan forum

same

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:40 PM
Author: Soul-stirring Frozen Lay Psychic



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:23 PM
Author: lascivious chapel jewess



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Juan Eighty



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac Masturbator

Important OP

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: lavender razzle-dazzle shitlib dog poop

Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: Diverse disrespectful corner

(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: Topaz Vibrant Circlehead



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:33 PM
Author: Yellow nursing home

Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Elisa#43673709)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:36 PM
Author: Wine glittery meetinghouse lettuce

Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get a discount/tax write off on your travel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Elisa#43673721)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:10 PM
Author: rose home

OP is correct.

ty OP, and Merry Christmas

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Elisa#43673924)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:32 PM
Author: Hairraiser candlestick maker

My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grandfather died at 94. Church was barren.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Elisa#43674038)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:24 PM
Author: lascivious chapel jewess



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:52 AM
Author: supple gay wizard rehab

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:34 PM
Author: Internet-worthy big-titted state

theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. its basically boomer level selfishness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Elisa#43674045)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:19 PM
Author: transparent blood rage digit ratio



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: Cocky Ebony Affirmative Action

very good advice here. i have been making an effort to attend more funerals of acquaintances after a personal experience made me realize how much it can mean to those close to the deceased.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Elisa#43680638)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 6:32 PM
Author: Nighttime ticket booth hairy legs



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Date: January 15th, 2022 4:44 PM
Author: Cracking university



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:51 PM
Author: transparent blood rage digit ratio

this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best experience was nervously attending the funeral of dude's dad who I had beef with after high school and hadn't spoken to in forever (the kid not the dad). Anyways, the gratitude you could see on that guy's face when I showed up was something I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Thanks to the immortal Yanagita for making this thread. This is something a younger person simply cannot understand on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Elisa#44856920)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: Nighttime ticket booth hairy legs



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:54 PM
Author: awkward electric heaven messiness

(junior soprano)

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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:44 AM
Author: Cracking university



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:47 AM
Author: red beady-eyed market

I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was because he predeceased my birth so it wasn’t possible, but the other 2 I was in law school states away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Elisa#45965887)



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:57 PM
Author: godawful genital piercing



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:59 PM
Author: Sable Histrionic Point Queen Of The Night



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Date: March 14th, 2023 7:24 PM
Author: razzle church building

Absolutely credited.

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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: whimsy the cat

should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Elisa#49460900)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype



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