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Date: October 13th, 2025 11:47 PM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary I got a call from HR. I was a bit unnerved but not really, seemed inconceivable there’d be an issue, I still get along great with her and we haven’t missed a beat. Only strange thing is we never talk about it, instead seemed to have channeled the whole thing into actual work - late night phone calls and slacks about this or that email or thing we want to accomplish.
Anyway, turns out she asked HR about relocating to my city and they wanted to know how I feel about that. They said she’s clearly extremely engaged at work and I’m done an amazing job with the team. Wanted to laugh |
Date: October 14th, 2025 12:06 AM Author: cerise arousing affirmative action Hope it works out The company I've been employed at for years was revealed as having an extremely spotty record wrt its female employees and women's issues in the workplace so I'm probably going to be quitting and finding a lower tech position |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:28 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary What (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49347732) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 2:00 PM Author: Brass Impressive Keepsake Machete (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49357984) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 4:46 PM Author: peach histrionic rigor turdskin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49358227) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:08 AM Author: adventurous meetinghouse mood promising shtick plz keep it going
hopefully we can get some work holiday party action this december |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:32 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary All too real. The dynamics are complex but I feel alive again. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49347735) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:40 AM Author: transparent glittery menage someone who makes you feel this alive should have a nickname. you should call her your "alive girl". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49347746) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:48 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary Bezos wasn’t her boss though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49347750) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 12:39 PM Author: Wonderful Degenerate Shrine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49357821) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 12:42 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary Today she invited me to her office locations Christmas party. I told her I wouldn’t be able to swing it and she got pouty about it. I’m going to another office where her female rival works. I told her I plan to swing by her location soon though and she said “ooo things I like to hear.” I also told her we’re going to be particularly busy the next couple months with a project and she’s like “is it weird that really excites me?” This should be an interesting ride. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49349904) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 9:40 AM Author: adventurous meetinghouse mood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49350307) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 9:41 AM Author: dark karate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49350311) |
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Date: October 14th, 2025 6:57 PM Author: Trip Violent Cumskin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49349183) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 7:27 PM Author: filthy cheese-eating office old irish cottage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49360539) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 12:46 AM Author: Autistic Rambunctious Jew Telephone as we get closer to the megaposter stuff, your subordinate figures to be more interesting if she's like your younger sister or something along those lines. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49349906) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 1:58 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary Maybe I can throw in some creep shots after the holiday party (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49349973) |
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Date: October 15th, 2025 9:42 AM Author: dark karate this could be schtick of the year if you follow through (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49350312) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 12:41 PM Author: adventurous meetinghouse mood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49357831) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:58 PM Author: Sepia arrogant theater immigrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49357979) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 2:52 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary She slacked me today to say she “threw me under the bus with HR”. Then she wrote “actually it was compliance but I thought it would be fun to say HR.” Later she called me from the gym with her sister, topic turned to my weekend plans. I told her my wife has a school reunion. She asked how many years. I had no idea, so we worked it back from her age (wife is 29). She said wow lucky man, forgot she was that young. She then slacked me at like 10pm to confirm her next travel plans to my city. Well, at least life is interesting. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49357329) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 3:01 AM Author: Doobsian hominid puppy women r the devil (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49357331) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 7:04 PM Author: The Mongoloid President's Advisor (No Future) actually it was compliance but I thought it would be fun to say HR haha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49399118) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 6:50 AM Author: crusty irradiated faggotry nursing home You are going to be fired for this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49357369) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 7:20 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary Is it frowned upon? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49357376) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 6:04 PM Author: crusty irradiated faggotry nursing home You will be told that you had a duty to report any relationship involving a conflict of interest, which would include a romantic relationship with a subordinate whose pay and tasks you control, so that the company could evaluate how to handle that (e.g., changing the reporting structure). You will technically be fired for not reporting, as opposed to there being per se something inappropriate about a romantic relationship. (Of course there is something per se inappropriate in these circumstances but the company will rely on the technical aspect of not reporting a conflict). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49360426) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:21 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary I don’t think so. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49361374) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 12:43 PM Author: Wonderful Degenerate Shrine get her pregnant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49357838) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 2:04 PM Author: Exhilarant Coffee Pot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49359988) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:24 PM Author: costumed base Describe the sex. Any ass play? Hairy bush? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49357915) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:52 PM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary I was very drunk. She sucked my cock to get me hard. Then she crawled on top of me. She said I was going too fast and we should slow down, almost in a bossy way, turned me on. Then she got really romantic, wanting to make it some special moment, and kept saying my name over and over as she kind of built a cocoon around us with her long golden blonde hair, staring into my eyes and saying my name over and over until I came in her. Then I immediately left, had to get home. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49357967) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:54 PM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary Also, she was on her period but I didn’t realize it because I was drunk so I had blood all over me when I got home. On my shirt especially. Got some on our sheets because I fingered her and then my finger was scrawling blood all over. Fortunately wife was pissed so wasn’t home and when I woke up had time to cover it all up and shower. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49357971) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:59 PM Author: Sepia arrogant theater immigrant complete twist from your other post (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49357982) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 2:19 PM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary There are layers to this thing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49358018) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 3:02 PM Author: Slate locale "wife was pissed so wasn’t home"
Is this meant to parse as your wife staying out all night drunk? |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 5:19 PM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary I didn’t get home until mid morning. Yes this was hard to explain (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49358295) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 7:24 PM Author: Adulterous Mahogany Double Fault You got blood on your sheets at home? You don’t wash your hands when you get home??? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49360536) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:05 PM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary I had been drinking for like 18 plus hours straight at that point. I wasn’t thinking straight, just saw no one was home and plopped into bed. Woke up and saw blood. Thank god wife wasn’t actually waiting for me at home or she’d have noticed it for sure. My shirt especially had blood all over it. Had to wash everything and flip the pillows and suggest we wash the next morning. Then snuck it in laundry without her noticing the huge blood stains (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49362575) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:18 AM Author: Medicated juggernaut Club Mandingo fan? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49361199) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:08 PM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary I think we left the club at 5am, went to her hotel, was there a few hours, stumbled home with phone dead. I made up a story about falling asleep on a park bench. This led to a bunch of stuff about how I have an out of control alcohol problem to do that but I thought it preferable all things considered. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49362583) |
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Date: October 21st, 2025 8:08 PM Author: costumed base did you tongue her asshole? did she tongue yours? answer the question (and poast pics) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49364976) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 3:08 PM Author: mind-boggling claret garrison new version Can someone link the original post? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49358083) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 4:23 PM Author: Slate locale https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5782887&mc=66&forum_id=2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49358184) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 4:31 PM Author: Lascivious forum international law enforcement agency Not a fan of this tbh
The fact the relationship has to be mediated through work is really really gay and depressing, talking about "projects" and her little quip about compliance is really deflating imo its insane we alloweed women into the workforce this is a giant retarded scam
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Date: October 18th, 2025 5:19 PM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary The whole thing does feel very unnatural (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49358292) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:32 AM Author: Green frisky toilet seat TITCR. Never do this. Specifically, someone you actually have to engage in real work with. A secretary or paralegal whose biggest concern is where they went to lunch that day is different, but not someone you’re actually “on projects” with. Could not imagine doing it, flipping between flirting and digging into the status of Project Blue with some chick, would blow my brains out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49359175) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 1:41 PM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary I wish I hadn’t. I actually regret the 5 hours of rapid fire drunk texting that broke the dam open yesterday the most. We were doing so well just putting it away and stupidly just pulled at the string. Now it’s something more and harder to shove back in. Really dumb move on my end. Now I don’t even know what talking with her looks like or if she starts randomly sending me late night texts that I have to try to hide. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49359944) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 3:44 PM Author: Green frisky toilet seat There’s great wisdom in the idea that (setting aside the immorality of it) if you’re gonna fuck someone who’s not your wife you do it with the random conference slut at the bar in Austin and call it a day. Fucking your coworker, nanny, neighbor, sister in law, etc., anyone who is routinely in your life, is inviting trouble. My earnest advice to you would be to try to cauterize the wound, don’t ever do it again, and try to get her to see it’s beneficial to move on too. By the way even if she doesn’t blow up your marriage she will perpetually have you by the balls at work so you better get ready to unequivocally support every retarded idea she ever has until she quits. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49360176) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:12 PM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary Yeah it’s obviously good advice but people actually in your life are for obvious reasons the most likely source of affairs. Coworkers more than anything because you’re constantly working together and can develop a rapport that spills over when you move it to another context like after work drinks. And yeah the wound was cauterizing until we randomly picked at it over the weekend two weeks later. Now it’s harder because she seems to prefer it in open now. She sent me a message today that I ignored. The one good thing is she’s a legit high performer and looks up to me a lot about work stuff so I don’t really expect work work issues beyond that she may feel weird if I pull back. Messy stuff (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49360600) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:57 PM Author: crusty irradiated faggotry nursing home "The one good thing is she’s a legit high performer and looks up to me a lot about work stuff so I don’t really expect work work issues beyond that she may feel weird if I pull back."
6 months later: She has put in about 20/mins per day of work over the past half year, when it comes time she is performance managed, the story is "Rage Problems is just sabotaging me because I refused to continue the brief affair that he coercively forced me into" |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 3:11 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary I think there’s a lot more likely scenarios. A coworker noticing something, or one of our spouses finding evidence, etc. Or maybe even her feeling like I’m not pushing hard enough for a comp adjustment and wondering if it’s because I want to avoid appearance of favoring her. A rival getting something she wants. All probably more likely than a very ambitious employee who makes work a priority suddenly becoming bad at her job. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49361144) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 7:10 AM Author: crusty irradiated faggotry nursing home "Or maybe even her feeling like I’m not pushing hard enough for a comp adjustment and wondering if it’s because I want to avoid appearance of favoring her. A rival getting something she wants."
Yes, probably more likely. Same result for you. "Rage Problems denied me the compensation adjustment I merited because I refused to continue the brief affair he coercively forced upon me." "Rage Problems is giving favorable treatment in work assignments to a co-worker because I refused to continue the brief affair he coercively forced upon me." If she's a very ambitious, intelligent lawyer, she's going to realize that you handed her the ability to coast at her job, shielded from any criticism, then leave with a 24 month severance package offered by HR to shut her up. This will be a "resignation" to avoid any career stigma to her, then she'll just move onto the next role with a couple hundred grand in her pocket. I work in this area, this is how these stories play out. Seems you are betting on "spurned female lawyer logically accepts affair was a bad idea, will not use it to her advantage, and fastidiously refocuses herself in a business-like way on company goals", good luck buddy
At this point your best move may actually be to bang her again, ensuring you have many messages making explicitly clear the whole thing is/was consensual, otherwise she's possibly going to say you raped her in that hotel room |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:55 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary There are already a ton, including one that said “you should be more careful, women are a bit crazy these days,” but I panic deleted them to make sure I didn’t have anything on my phone. She is not quiet about her support of me at work, including post hookup. Her suddenly claiming that seems the least likely scenario. I honestly think it’s very unlikely she will ever try to leverage it for anything too. It’s more that if I came out it would be a logistical mess. There would be no easy solution to have her report to anyone but me without demoting her or it coming across like a demotion. We would have to just say it was a one time thing and everyone is over it and hope that is the end of it. I think that is plausible now if I can get it back into the box, but if we continue down this path one or both of us will catch real feelings and it will be hard to have a real working relationship when that falls apart or one of us wants more or wants to break it off. That’s why I need to stop being a dumbass (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49361324) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:00 AM Author: Jet Charismatic Brunch Newt back into the box tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49361333) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:17 AM Author: misunderstood concupiscible locus stock car “one of our spouses finding evidence”
Wait this chick is married? |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:49 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary Yes, and recently (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49361313) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 9:18 PM Author: Green frisky toilet seat Since we’re just anonymous pals on the internet and I don’t have to be tactful: I think that’s a retarded after the fact justification. You need to stop thinking with your dick before your life gets blown up. Not saying this to be malicious. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49360722) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:58 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary I don’t think I was thinking with my dick when we texted. There’s no chance of a hookup anytime soon, likely won’t see her for a month or two at least. That was more just tension release and curiosity on how we each felt about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49361327) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:31 AM Author: a rich inner world (luis) This is much gayer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395140) |
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Date: October 18th, 2025 11:57 PM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary I just texted with her for like 5 hours straight. We talked about everything. I am now on written record saying a ton of shit to her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49358908) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 4:17 AM Author: hairless unhinged internal respiration dragon such as? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49361160) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:18 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary I believe I said I want to kiss you at one point. She said I should behave myself. Then she asked me to describe in detail what I want to do to her. Fortunately for didn’t go down that path. No sexting. Just lots of emotional talk. Felt like a date. She asked a lot of stuff to get to know my backstory more. Our opinions on things. I don’t even know how we texted so long. I didn’t have it in me to reread the whole thing. I tried to delete them one by one but it was hundreds and hundreds of messages, just panic deleted the whole conversation because I was out and about with my wife the next day and I was worried she’d somehow notice it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49361370) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:31 AM Author: hairless unhinged internal respiration dragon yikes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49361388) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:54 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary Yup (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49361418) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:39 AM Author: alcoholic tan location (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49373622) |
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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:25 PM Author: vermilion famous landscape painting Your age and hers?
Your total comp and hers? |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:00 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary 43, think she’s 32 I am at over 500k all in plus equity She is at around 175 |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:58 AM Author: Spectacular Public Bath Mad-dog Skullcap this could potentially go very wrong for you.
i think you described elsewhere, but how often do you have sex with your wife? you might want to focus on shoring that up (if there's an issue) there and gently disengage from this situation
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Date: October 20th, 2025 10:20 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary I’m aware. I was in such a funk that I think I just went blind to potential consequences and wanted to feel something again. Have only had sex with wife like twice in last 7-8 months. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49361472) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 11:01 AM Author: Sepia arrogant theater immigrant suicide at 35 is seeming more and more like the CR option for me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49361572) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 3:44 PM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49362222) |
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Date: October 21st, 2025 9:22 PM Author: Brass Impressive Keepsake Machete Juan Veinte (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49365133) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:51 AM Author: Sinister lemon hospital (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49373638) |
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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:14 AM Author: talented pale death wish “Slacks” is a tell that you don’t have a real job (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49361193) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:07 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary Update - things are relatively stable. We reverted to a week of mostly just work-related messages. But we seem to continue to find excuses to talk well into the evening. I’m surprised how flirty she sounds when I know her husband is nearby. One time I heard the sounds of cooking and she mentioned it was her husband. I immediately said I’ll talk to her later, and she was like “yeah talk tomorrow” and then dropped to a lower tone “or later”. Our instagram seems to have also taken on a life of its own to signal what we may be doing that makes it clear we’re not around our spouses. If she sees I’m at a bar late she’ll start messaging me. Last night I was drunk when she did that and I said “I want you” and she kind of skirted by it, but kept peppering me with questions. What a strange thing I’ve gotten myself into it, never seen anything like it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49373575) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:10 AM Author: Brass Impressive Keepsake Machete “never seen anything like it”
And yet it would be impossible to be more cliched. This will end badly if you keep at it. |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:20 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary 1 It’s hard to “stop” because what is the “it” I am stopping? If I suddenly went cold and kept it strictly professional then our whole work dynamic would change and she might feel like I’m punishing her, doesn’t seem like a great idea. The actually inappropriate conversation is pretty minimal without knowing subtext.
2 I don’t really want it to go away. Life has been kind of depressing lately, feels like a nice spark. And I’ve already had the risk, doesn’t seem to compound just by keeping whatever emotional entanglement we have going on alive for at least a while longer. Probably more risk trying to wind it down to be honest. |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:23 AM Author: Brass Impressive Keepsake Machete lol, I’m sure it’ll be different for you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49373610) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:25 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary I realize there’s lots of risk. What I should have done is not fucked her to begin with. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49373614) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 1:12 PM Author: kink-friendly balding kitty cat home (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49373965) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:41 AM Author: alcoholic tan location (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49373625) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:14 AM Author: Curious rusted wrinkle house SHE IS GOING TO DESTROY HER OWN MARRIAGE AND TELL HER HUSBAND ALL YOUR INFO AND HE IS GOING TO TELL YOUR WIFE IF YOU'RE LUCKY AND MURDER YOU IF YOU ARE NOT I SINCERELY HOPE THIS FUCKING HELPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49373590) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:21 AM Author: Thriller Bisexual Sanctuary Why would she do that? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49373609) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:50 AM Author: Spectacular Public Bath Mad-dog Skullcap lol brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49373637) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:56 AM Author: Curious rusted wrinkle house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49373655) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 1:39 PM Author: Sepia arrogant theater immigrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49374063) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 2:18 PM Author: Brass Impressive Keepsake Machete (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49374152) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 4:03 PM Author: UhOh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49385437) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 9:54 PM Author: The Mongoloid President's Advisor (No Future) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49386393) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 9:42 PM Author: .,.,,...,...,..,....,...,...,... Yeah, women aren't like that. Trust me. I know these things. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49386350) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 1:40 PM Author: Sepia arrogant theater immigrant O fortuitous disgruntled lover! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49374067) |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:49 AM Author: alcoholic tan location Most boring flame in years. The most explicit You've gotten is one sexcapade with blood. So hurry up and just go on a bender Destroying what's left of your marriage now. |
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Date: October 25th, 2025 3:37 PM Author: Medicated juggernaut (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49374338) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 10:08 AM Author: Rage Problems We chatted for a few hours last night from like 11-1am. She said she thinks I’ll be the first one to sour on whatever it is we are doing. I said yeah what’s weird to me is how fluently we move between work mode and whatever it is mode sometimes within sentences. I guess this is why they tell people not to do this kind of stuff. She said too late. I guess we’ll find out if we can handle it. I said happy to be on the journey with you. The whole conversation basically just served to tell each other in a round about way that we’re emotionally entangled. Then we wished each other a good sleep and promptly slacked at 7am about work. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49384388) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 10:23 AM Author: Sweet Pajeet You’re so fucked, I really hope this is flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49384421) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 10:29 AM Author: Salivary Stoned (xoentlaw@gmail.com) Normally mostly, cr. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49384435) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 8:37 PM Author: Rage Problems Why? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49386184) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 11:19 AM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) this sounds like a potential disaster. be careful. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49384570) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 5:23 PM Author: Amateur Millennial Butt Porn OP, you should really take note if Zurich thinks it’s a bad idea (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49385660) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 9:11 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) i was going to say he sounds exactly like me in late 2020, falling in love with another woman, etc.
as we all know, it led to my life unraveling. i got lucky and my wife took me back. i'd imagine that is a rarity. |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 8:37 PM Author: Rage Problems How is it any more a potential disaster than before? I already fucked her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49386185) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 9:13 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) you are falling in love with this chick.
you need to be sure you can control that and turn it off when you need to. i wasn't able to, and i left my wife/family and my whole life blew up (i went to jail and the psych ward before drying out). i luckily got everything back, but most women would have written me off. |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 8:54 AM Author: Rage Problems Did you actually leave for her, or it just fucked you up and you spiraled? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49387331) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 4:17 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) i left for her. i was bad off with booze at the time (oddly enough i quit doing coke around that time) and just went totally out of control.
i sobered up about a year later (after going to jail for DV, and the cops taking me to the psych ward a couple months after). once i got sober i realized what i'd done and that i actually still loved my wife. long story short, i un-fucked the situation, but this was a 1 in 1000 odds kinda outcome. |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 4:19 PM Author: cock of michael obama why did your wife take you back? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49388495) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 4:27 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) who knows (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49388520) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:46 AM Author: sealclubber loser (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395195) |
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Date: October 31st, 2025 3:13 PM Author: Rage Problems Seeing lots of parallels. I’m also a hard boozer and do coke from time to time. You’re right I’m catching feelings for this chick and vice versa. I can’t remember the last time we didn’t check in early morning and late at night. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49391010) |
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Date: October 31st, 2025 3:19 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) my booze and drug addiction (with a lot of dabbling in prostitutes) led my wife to pretty much give up on me beacuse i was of no help and even when i was home and not traveling for work, i wasn't present. so she was emotionally detached. that led me to look for an actual emotional connection and then BAM life spiral. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49391037) |
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Date: October 31st, 2025 3:30 PM Author: Rage Problems My wife is also fed up with me and it’s tough being around her. Also made me search around for a connection. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49391092) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 4:01 PM Author: Juan Eighty "whatever it is we are doing"
lol @ this level of self-denial
180 |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 4:03 PM Author: Respect your Elders (1799 SOL away from student loan freedom (thanks gator)) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49385438) |
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Date: October 29th, 2025 9:58 PM Author: Mr. Shalom (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49386411) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 12:15 PM Author: Amateur Millennial Butt Porn Pro tip: when a woman tells you that she will handle things with less emotion than you LMFAO UR ALL GONNA DIE (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49387830) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 12:31 PM Author: state your IQ before I engage you further Hey retard you gave a woman -- A WOMAN -- total control over blowing up ur life. There are approximately a halford number of reasons why she will blow it all up. Exciting part is you never know when it will be! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49387869) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 12:36 PM Author: Emotionally + Physically Abusive Ex-Husband (oppose bitchbois) Great pics (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49387889) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 1:28 PM Author: Amateur Millennial Butt Porn (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49388083) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 1:45 PM Author: QueenLaBEEFah absolutely devastating (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49388141) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 1:53 PM Author: Long TERF War for PeterBoi Poon ( ) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49388156) |
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Date: October 31st, 2025 3:39 PM Author: Leftism is a mental disease rare EPAH CR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49391117) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 12:21 PM Author: Charlie Kirk Did Nothing Wrong (TDNW) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395285) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 6:16 PM Author: Rage Problems Today, she said “[if you ever visit my city] I am your woman”. We were making fun of some corporate bullshit. Had switched to text. First message of the day was at like 7am after talking the night before until midnight. We were on the phone for like two hours today. Our messaging is becoming a distraction from actual work. But on a few important calls we hit it hard together, ganged up on some losers. I am in it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49388849) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 6:24 PM Author: Mr. Shalom You're in a relationship with another man's wife. You're having an affair. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49388879) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 7:39 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) this. your wife would possibly be more upset about this than any physical contact.
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Date: October 30th, 2025 7:49 PM Author: Mr. Shalom (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49389110) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 9:12 PM Author: WordcelWorth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49389261) |
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Date: October 30th, 2025 7:40 PM Author: Amateur Millennial Butt Porn She probably feels like such a bad bitch - ur doomed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49389078) |
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Date: November 1st, 2025 6:03 PM Author: Kenneth Play (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49393590) |
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Date: November 1st, 2025 6:07 PM Author: 130k in childhood bedroom 180 i like her too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49393594) |
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Date: November 1st, 2025 5:46 PM Author: Rage Problems Another 5am session last night. Ended with her husband coming out to get her and her apologizing that she had to go. She messaged me early apologizing she had to cut the conversation short. We talked an hour today. She said she longs for the day I’m no longer interesting to her. She said she’s always felt drawn toward me, that she would have made a move much earlier if she knew I was open to it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49393553) |
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Date: November 1st, 2025 6:01 PM Author: Mr. Shalom When are you gonna smash again (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49393586) |
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Date: November 1st, 2025 6:04 PM Author: Rage Problems We aren’t going to see each other in person for months. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49393592) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 1:22 AM Author: Mr. Shalom Do you ever talk about the time you cheated on your spouses and had sex? No dirty pics exchanged? Wtf? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49394532) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 8:19 AM Author: Rage Problems She said she avoids saying my name in public because she remembers the night and blushes. She said my name over and over really romantically while I came in her. I teased her that there’s room for improvement and she said lots and lots of practice makes perfect. More that kind of thing, no explicit sexting so far. Sexting seems a little cheap and lame, something for kids. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49394776) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 10:03 AM Author: Mr. Shalom This is deeply disturbing but also kind of 180 at the same time. I don't endorse cheating. But you're obviously in love with one another. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49394912) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 10:04 AM Author: Sweet Pajeet Yeah this is gonna end extremely poorly for OP, that other girl, OP's wife, that other girl's husband, and any other family members. It's also gonna royally fuck his career (she'll probably get a promotion or lawsuit though). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49394915) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 10:13 AM Author: Mr. Shalom (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49394944) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:19 AM Author: Rage Problems Honestly, I doubt it. Maybe I’m delusional but I am well liked at work and seen as a star. I’m also needed at the moment and have good relationship with the rest of the exec team, which is a bit of a boys club. And this chick is into me and isn’t going to do anything to try to hurt me. Her career is going well and she likes me and is otherwise not a feminist or prone to anything like that. The best thing I can do is start slow playing it so it fades out, which has been my plan, but I keep coming back for more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395106) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:21 AM Author: Sweet Pajeet You're 100% delusional and this is gonna blow up in your face and wreck your personal life and professional life. You are being really fucking retarded. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395109) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:24 AM Author: Rage Problems I was really retarded but it happened and now I’m trying to manage it. I legit feel like giving her some speech and cutting her off cold turkey would be the most likely thing to cause me issues, even if I wanted to do that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395115) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:25 AM Author: Sweet Pajeet Yeah texting all night and having hourslong conversations about emotions at 1 AM sounds like you're managing it real well (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395122) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:29 AM Author: Rage Problems Yeah, I’m failing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395133) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:21 AM Author: Mr. Shalom Do you crave the conversations or the sex more (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395110) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:25 AM Author: Rage Problems The sex isn’t an option because we are across the country from each other. If I had my way we’d go on a two week vacation together or something with no distractions where we can fuck and talk the whole time. So I guess it’s both (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395121) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:37 AM Author: Mr. Shalom Nigga you in love (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395164) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:30 AM Author: Amateur Millennial Butt Porn Lmfao - ur insane. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395137) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:31 AM Author: Rage Problems What is your recommendation. Cold turkey cut her off? She is my top employee and we work closely together on lots of things. Would be extremely strange if I just sent her one message and then went pure work mode (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395141) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:32 AM Author: Sweet Pajeet Start looking for a new job ASAP or take a leave of absence. In fact, say some health shit is flaring up or go to rehab or SOMETHING to extricate yourself from this mess. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395146) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:35 AM Author: Rage Problems I have golden handcuffs, way too much equity riding to ever leave before an exit, which could be a few years away still. And leave of absence? So voluntarily fucking my career is your advice? State your job title (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395157) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:36 AM Author: Sweet Pajeet I'm sure your financial situation will improve when your wife takes half your shit and leaves you with all the debt and alimony. Really hope this is flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395162) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:38 AM Author: Rage Problems I have a prenup. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395170) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:39 AM Author: Sweet Pajeet Perfect. Divorce shouldn't impact your life at all then, sounds like you're good to go. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395177) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:34 AM Author: my dog has shot fewer people than Dick Cheney (Fight! Fight! Fight!) lulz (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395155) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 10:53 AM Author: dirigible behemothaur I predict either you or your subordinate will be discovered by the spouse via your phone, either incriminating text messages or seeing you had a multi-hour phone call in the middle of the night. You both won’t always remember to delete these things, and you’ll also naturally become more tense and act suspicious if your significant other randomly picks up your phone and uses it. This is how many cheaters get caught. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395041) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:16 AM Author: Rage Problems That is definitely a concern. We need to slow things down and not text late all the time. Don’t plan on messaging her today. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395097) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:28 AM Author: Amateur Millennial Butt Porn lol, that out to do it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395130) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 12:34 PM Author: Juan Eighty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395309) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 1:17 PM Author: Mr. Shalom (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395402) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 10:26 AM Author: Dick Cheyneys baboon heart ever-beating in coffin (gunneratttt) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397442) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 9:14 PM Author: .,.,,...,...,..,....,...,...,... Yeah, at the bare minimum, you need to improve your OpSec. Switch to Google Voice at the bare minimum. Better yet, get a second phone. Helium Mobile has a free plan with a very limited amount of minutes/texts, but if you mainly text via Slack or iMessage over WiFi, that's a non-issue. But that would avoid the possibility of your wife wondering why you are paying for a second cell plan. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49396555) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 9:15 PM Author: Sweet Pajeet none of that is gonna help when the stupid WOMAN blows up her marriage and then reveals all of OP's info to her husband who is gonna go berserk (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49396559) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 1:04 PM Author: .,.,,...,...,..,....,...,...,... There is nothing the OP can do to avoid that risk. But he should at least make sure that their respective spouses can't find anything incriminating on their phones. That's Affairs 101. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397845) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 11:38 AM Author: Mr. Shalom Describe her cans and panties
This is a middle aged law shrew who's given birth multiple times? What are we working with here? |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 1:24 PM Author: Have YOU been injured in an accident? What's the rest of the executive team like? Is this a Mad Men situation where they're all banging some female subordinate on the side? Or shitlib diversity carnival? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395428) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 1:32 PM Author: 130k in childhood bedroom OP is the indian lawyer guy from Margin Call (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395449) |
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Date: November 2nd, 2025 1:58 PM Author: Rage Problems Mostly conservative dudes, company in general is mostly dudes in sr management, meetings with senior leadership are often like 90-95 percent dudes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49395509) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 6:57 AM Author: Amateur Millennial Butt Porn Then you can GUARANTEE none of them will stand up for you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397103) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 7:34 AM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) OP, you are in a difficult position. you mentioned going cold turkey upthread. that would be a bad idea, as you correctly pointed out. she could go sideways on you and blow the whistle to your company.
the best path forward would be for you to have a frank convo with her where you shower her with praise and tell her that in another life, you two could have been great together, or some such shit, but that you both have too much to lose. be sure to compliment her, and tell her that you guys have to go back to a professional working relationship.
i can tell you probably won't do that, though. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 8:05 AM Author: Mr. Shalom He's in love with this bitch and vice versa. RIP in peace. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397145) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 8:09 AM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) yeah, that's why i figure he won't actually do this. what he'll do is continue down this path and fall more and more in love with her until it blows his life to smithereens (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397148) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 8:11 AM Author: Mr. Shalom I haven't had feelings like OP is describing since I was in the 7th grade. He needs this ho like water and oxygen. She's the first thing he thinks about when he wakes up and the last thing he thinks about before he goes to sleep. You're right it's gonna get a lot worse before it gets any better. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397155) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:47 AM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) i poasted about this recently, but i fell for this girl at work before i went to law school and started up an affair with her right after she'd gotten married. i felt the same way, i was totally in love with her.
long story short, i dumped her and she tried to kill herself in the office. anyway, most of these stories don't have this happy ending where the two coworkers get together and live a beautiful life, etc. it's something like suicide in the office or divorce and life pwnage. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 10:03 AM Author: Mr. Shalom Yes it could happen to any of us. I have cheated before in LTRs. Both times I felt guilty, realized I didn't like the new chick as much as my gf, broke it off and went back to my old lady like nothing happened (never got caught).
It's tough and I worry about my ability to remain loyal long term. My troon friend told me that to straight guys women are like chocolate bars: the only thing better than one chocolate bar is two chocolate bars.
Deep down I'm addicted to females and it's bad news. I don't know what to do. Imagine being Dave Grohl and you're a famous rock star and you could fuck around on your wife all the time but you don't, you've been good, you don't do anything silly but then you hit middle age and you fall in love with a temp and wind up knocking her up. I mean, what can we as men do? We can only run so fast. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:57 AM Author: Rage Problems You’re probably right. But yeah, I can’t do it. I was depressed for months and I’m suddenly excited about life again. I’m waking up early with energy even after drinking. I’ve lost some weight, less cravings for shit food. I wanted to not message her last night but she slacked me late about something work related and of course it quickly moved to texting. Ended up talking for a couple hours again until midnight. Time flies by when talking with her, it’s crazy. Somehow I feel like it will just resolve itself eventually. Maybe one of us will change jobs before it blows up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397375) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 10:04 AM Author: Mr. Shalom What do you text about? Do you ever tell her she has a great ass? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397403) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 8:47 AM Author: Charlie Kirk Did Nothing Wrong (TDNW) best, most subtle flame we’ve seen around these parts in a while (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397218) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 10:10 AM Author: Dick Cheyneys baboon heart ever-beating in coffin (gunneratttt) this shit happens all the fucking time at workplaces across the country. every time someone comes by with a situation like this or the seeking arrangements pumo losers come out of the woodwork calling it flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397407) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 12:33 PM Author: Charlie Kirk Did Nothing Wrong (TDNW) people fucking colleagues is believable
but this is xo |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 12:45 PM Author: Mr. Shalom (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397785) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 8:58 PM Author: Kenneth Play this doesn't make any sense, does it? i thought it was pretty clearly bad to sleep with a subordinate. i guess HR thinks they solved it because they shuffled the boss and didn't allow the junior employee to argue she was retaliated against or fired or denied opportunities? but would seem to have a colorable claim that would force a settlement (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49399361) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:03 PM Author: Mr. Shalom HR people are literally people with a college degree and zero concrete job skills. She liked her job and wanted to stay there. So did he. No harm no foul they just had to be separated. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49399371) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:13 PM Author: Kenneth Play (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49399401) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 10:15 AM Author: Dick Cheyneys baboon heart ever-beating in coffin (gunneratttt) do you have any major gripes about your wife? you seem pretty guilt-free about this but i haven't seen you try to justify it with having a dead bedroom or something like that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397413) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 10:47 AM Author: Rage Problems I love my wife a lot but we haven’t had real physical intimacy in probably pushing a year. She’s also become much more critical, more difficult to be around. But we still care for each other a lot. That said, it’s not her fault or anything, but in reality it probably made me much more open to an outside connection where I could fulfill that. I feel guilty, that’s why I don’t like talking about that side of it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397501) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 11:02 AM Author: Dick Cheyneys baboon heart ever-beating in coffin (gunneratttt) just remember that this woman will eventually become critical and more difficult to be around too if you started a seeing her. this is just the nature of relationships. you're in the honeymoon phase with your subordinate. every romantic relationship feels electric and exciting at first. if that spark wasn't there no romance would have occurred.
zurich is right that you need to begin distancing yourself from her exactly the way he described. given enough time this will eventually ruin your life. woman are very bad at cheating and eventually her husband will find out, and then she'll go into accountability avoidance mode and it's not hard to craft a plausible excuse about you using your power to manipulate her, etc.
i condemn cheating but it's a common sin and easy to understand how people falter. the longer it goes on the more intentional the betrayal becomes, which is bad for your own soul. try to come to your senses soon and let her down gently before she starts getting even more attached. given enough time the odds of this ruining your life approach 100%. you're at the crossroads of when you can break it off and likely never have any consequences. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 12:48 PM Author: Mr. Shalom While this all may be 100% true clearly OP needs his side chick like oxygen and there is no chance whatsoever that he's going to forget about this bitch anytime soon and yes it will lead to ruin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397793) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 1:17 PM Author: Dick Cheyneys baboon heart ever-beating in coffin (gunneratttt) because it's fresh.
most of the time people cheat, come to their senses, and break it off before any damage is done. it's just that the only time it becomes public knowledge is when it blows up. the fact the subordinate is married and a responsible professional significantly reduces the chances this blows up immediately. usually that happens when the woman is single and wants to become the wife. chances are she also doesn't really want to blow up her life and is just getting off on seducing her boss (a fantasy all women have, another reason they are unsuitable for the workplace). eventually they'll humanize each other and the rush that comes from a new relationship fades as they see each other's faults and their fantasy collapses.
op seems like a good guy and just poasting anonymously about something interesting and because he probably has no other outlet to safely express his excitement. hopefully he gets it out of his system quick. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 1:25 PM Author: Mr. Shalom Cr. No one can predict where this is going. Right now it's white hot but ya clearly based on escapism. Can't wait to see what unfolds! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397972) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 6:47 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) LJL you abhor cheating, except when it involves my wife sleeping with you.
you are a piece of shit. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 7:17 PM Author: Dick Cheyneys baboon heart ever-beating in coffin (gunneratttt) 1) i'm not the one doing the cheating, my gf is on board and an active participant 2) different situation because of your history, your wife deserves some time off the reservation |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 12:48 PM Author: Rage Problems Yes, this all makes rational sense but I feel like exploring it further (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397794) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 1:07 PM Author: Dick Cheyneys baboon heart ever-beating in coffin (gunneratttt) i appreciate your honesty and content generation. i'm not going to moralize to you any more when you seem smart enough to already know everything i'd tell you. i hope get it out of your system soon, but until then i'll be enjoying the 180 content. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49397869) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 7:05 PM Author: Mr. Shalom The writing by OP is top tier. Should consider being a romance novelist. We unzipped for the lurid affair, but we stayed for the love connection. 180. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49399126) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 1:14 PM Author: .,.,,...,...,..,....,...,...,... Yeah, the OP is clearly aware that this is a stupid idea, but it is obvious he is not going to stop. Telling him that this is a stupid idea is not going to accomplish anything.
At this point, you need to go into harm reduction mode. Get a Google Voice number or (better yet) a second cell number yesterday. Use only that number when you communicate about the affair from now on. Aside from the obvious benefit of making it less likely that your wife finds out, it also gives you plausible deniability if she ever reports you to your job. "Yeah, she came onto me once, but I said I only wanted a professional relationship. She must have sent all those texts to a friend to try to get revenge on me, because that's not my number." Also, if you get a chance to go through your wife's phone, preemptively block the side chick's number in case she ever does try to tell your wife. You can never be 100% certain that shit won't hit the fan, but you can greatly reduce the risk by not being a moron. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 8:48 PM Author: Sweet Pajeet zurich is 100% right and knows his shit in this domain. OP you need to Google "affair bubble" and read up on it. If you're so inclined then search some books on the matter and you're gonna be shocked that these jewish psychologists are describing all your exact emotions you thought were so special. There is nothing unique or special about you or her or what you have together. You gotta take zurich's advice to wind this thing down. Failing that you should enter rehab for alcoholism as a pretext. Any career setback will be minor compared to what's coming for you if you don't stop this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49399325) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 8:49 PM Author: Mr. Shalom (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49399326) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:04 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) one thing to remember is that the "new" feeling, excitement, etc. always fades. it feels like it never will, but it will.
very hard to do, but he needs to try very hard to look at his situation dispassionately and act accordingly. it's unlikely that he will because the siren song of poon is loud indeed. for me, it was the dopamine rush of having a beautiful woman lusting after me. |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:05 PM Author: Sweet Pajeet you're one of the wisest poasters we have (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49399378) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:12 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) i mean on bullshit like this, i'm likely the foremost expert, unfortunately. ty. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2Reputation#49399398) |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:11 PM Author: jag my work wife affair is ending in divorce. you could have perfect opsec but a birdbrain never will. and a lot of people will get hurt in the end. i'm not saying don't do this, but the way you're going about it is certain to meet the same fate |
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Date: November 3rd, 2025 9:14 PM Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained)) he also knows how things worked out for me - i got locked up for punching my mistress in her face, and another time the cops carted me off to teh loony bin after i cut myself (and, lmao, i was shoving her face into the litterbox and telling her to eat cat shit. sorry, but that is funny).
my life unraveled. i defied the odds and got my life back together, but that's obviously unlikely.
then there's your situation. billy buttfucker. many such cases here.
i fear he will go ahead with this anyway. |