Date: January 20th, 2026 12:05 PM
Author: Khan Aithi (gunneratttt)
i never get stressed when dealing with opponents and think its kind of funny when they get frazzled. ive never had a miscommunication with a male colleague that got emotional. yet with women just basic communication is an ever-present source of stress over the dumbest shit.
on friday a female superior "A" indicated she was waiting on something from female colleague in another office i don't know "B." this was supposed to be a priority item and i asked several times about the status of B, and A said she was in touch. this morning there was still nothing, and i got the feeling A had not communicated her ask from B and they both thought they were waiting on the other.
so now im in the position where i have to ask A again (which will be interpreted as implying she can't do her job or is it fault somehow) or reach out to B (same implication + going around her). i reached out to B and, sure enough, she thought she was waiting on something from A. i got it resolved and used as many exclamation points to signal postivr tone as i could, which took all of 15min, but now im pretty sure A is gonna be catty about it.
these situations are always lose/lose. this is why women are constantly at eachothers throats. i cant believe let them into the workplace and all have to act like it's not absurd that theyre larping as girlbosses.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5824275&forum_id=2Reputation#49603541)