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Wife left: tell me about seeking arrangements

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to tr...
zombie-like garrison
  09/22/25
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Amber immigrant
  09/23/25
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Amber immigrant
  09/23/25
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Amber immigrant
  09/23/25
I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar cons...
bat-shit-crazy seedy mexican
  09/22/25
If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t d...
zombie-like garrison
  09/22/25
Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.
bat-shit-crazy seedy mexican
  09/22/25
6’2” 220 (terrible build) Slight receding...
zombie-like garrison
  09/23/25
why did your wife leave you?
Multi-colored Indigo Stag Film
  09/22/25
Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to h...
zombie-like garrison
  09/23/25
if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust...
domesticated lodge
  09/22/25
Grinder.com
orange meetinghouse
  09/22/25
I don't believe OP is gay, though
bat-shit-crazy seedy mexican
  09/23/25
There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade th...
brindle tanning salon
  09/23/25
Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. ...
Emerald trust fund
  09/23/25
wow
Ungodly Beady-eyed Orchestra Pit Elastic Band
  09/23/25
What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography? DESCRIBE ur terr...
Electric place of business voyeur
  09/23/25
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Amber immigrant
  09/23/25
"Don’t want to risk hookers" I've got som...
Pearl Corn Cake Sweet Tailpipe
  09/23/25
There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s ...
brindle tanning salon
  09/23/25
It is all literally sex for money.
Pearl Corn Cake Sweet Tailpipe
  09/23/25
They're not hookers. They're just seeking Mutually Benefi...
bat-shit-crazy seedy mexican
  09/23/25
Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.
sapphire titillating yarmulke rehab
  09/23/25
How so?
brindle tanning salon
  09/23/25
They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you...
sapphire titillating yarmulke rehab
  09/23/25
I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professi...
brindle tanning salon
  09/23/25
professional hookers are in business bcs they are profession...
Soul-stirring Anal Heaven International Law Enforcement Agency
  09/23/25
…?
brindle tanning salon
  09/23/25
Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.
nofapping stimulating university haunted graveyard
  09/23/25
I’m speaking from experience, are you?
brindle tanning salon
  09/24/25
that's why you give them a burner number and not your real n...
bat-shit-crazy seedy mexican
  09/23/25
Also this
brindle tanning salon
  09/23/25
serious reply: dont even waste ur time on that shit buy a...
Aphrodisiac Brilliant Menage
  09/23/25
What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically get...
Emerald trust fund
  09/23/25
I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarshi...
brindle tanning salon
  09/23/25
...
Aphrodisiac Brilliant Menage
  09/23/25
...
Ungodly Beady-eyed Orchestra Pit Elastic Band
  09/23/25
The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches t...
nofapping stimulating university haunted graveyard
  09/23/25
Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry
Slippery church building pisswyrm
  09/23/25
1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very...
nofapping stimulating university haunted graveyard
  09/24/25
You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, famil...
Fighting Shaky Bbw Jewess
  09/23/25
...
bat-shit-crazy seedy mexican
  09/24/25
lol, sounds ghastly
Pearl Corn Cake Sweet Tailpipe
  09/24/25
SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and ...
Lake Motley Business Firm Double Fault
  09/23/25
Imo Amp is a better use of ur time
Aphrodisiac Brilliant Menage
  09/23/25
It is until you get caught in a sting.
bat-shit-crazy seedy mexican
  09/24/25
There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps...
Maize Affirmative Action
  09/24/25
SA Poaster Here... I got into a more serious relationship...
Twinkling stirring telephone dragon
  10/21/25
What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?
zombie-like garrison
  10/21/25
WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR
Fluffy crimson chapel
  11/02/25
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nyuug
  01/13/26
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nyuug
  01/13/26


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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: zombie-like garrison

Don’t want to risk hookers and i eventually want to try dating again but it’s been too long with the wife.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49291749)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Amber immigrant

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49293910)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:50 AM
Author: Amber immigrant

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49293939)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:40 PM
Author: Amber immigrant

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49296549)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:08 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy seedy mexican

I'm not sure you're gonna be able to command top dollar considering your:

- age;

- height;

- remaining hair

But give it a go!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49291759)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: zombie-like garrison

If they can’t handle me at my worst they don’t deserve me at my best

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49291776)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy seedy mexican

Your refusal to state your height speaks volumes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49291944)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:00 AM
Author: zombie-like garrison

6’2”

220 (terrible build)

Slight receding with a widows peak. I don’t look balding yet but I’ve got some worries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49293643)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 4:15 PM
Author: Multi-colored Indigo Stag Film

why did your wife leave you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49291946)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: zombie-like garrison

Wife had a mid life crisis. We married young but waited to have kids so I’m not sure what her problem is.

I work too much is part of it.

She didn’t cuck me before separation but I assume she has by now.

So I’m done.

Don’t really want another wife while my kids are young.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49293651)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:11 PM
Author: domesticated lodge

if you have a chance to bludgeon yourself retarded with rust caked pipes, do that over and over instead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49292139)



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Date: September 22nd, 2025 5:40 PM
Author: orange meetinghouse

Grinder.com

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49292243)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:22 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy seedy mexican

I don't believe OP is gay, though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49295397)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: brindle tanning salon

There are some gems on SA if you’re willing to wade through the trash. Ideal would be to find a cute-ish 20-25 yo girl who will have sex for $500 a pop that you can see twice a month or so. There’s a lot of flakes, I suggest quickly moving conversation to “hey let’s meet up for a drink, are you free tonight?” to see if they are serious / interested or not.

Don’t talk about money / sex on the app, wait to meet up and feel things out in person. Hopefully you have a least a little game.

Also, get in shape.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49293677)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: Emerald trust fund

Search for the seeking arrangement poaster’s threads. All the scholarship you need.

The short version is if you are moderately good looking you’ll do great. Tell them up front you are looking for pay per meet. You will undoubtedly have some kooky situations. Ultimately, you will grow tired of it and your soul will be diminished.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49293681)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:21 PM
Author: Ungodly Beady-eyed Orchestra Pit Elastic Band

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49296963)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Electric place of business voyeur

What's ur $$$$$ situation and geography?

DESCRIBE ur terrible physique and honestly rate ur facial aesthetics and genetic makeup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49293908)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:48 AM
Author: Amber immigrant

Post removed by moderator for violating The Law of The Land.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49293911)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:16 PM
Author: Pearl Corn Cake Sweet Tailpipe

"Don’t want to risk hookers"

I've got some bad news about SA

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49294299)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:54 PM
Author: brindle tanning salon

There’s some pros on there for sure but there’s also some college girls looking for an allowance

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49294402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: Pearl Corn Cake Sweet Tailpipe

It is all literally sex for money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49295292)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy seedy mexican

They're not hookers.

They're just seeking Mutually Beneficial arrangements, tee-hee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49295402)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:57 PM
Author: sapphire titillating yarmulke rehab

Actual professional hookers seem less risky than this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49294413)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 12:59 PM
Author: brindle tanning salon

How so?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49294425)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:18 PM
Author: sapphire titillating yarmulke rehab

They're not going to do something dumb like call or text you at the wrong time or go nuts on you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49294503)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: brindle tanning salon

I’d rather deal with an amateur hooker than a professional one, the pros are more likely to be sketchy, have a criminal record, drug use, poverty, STDs, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49295355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: Soul-stirring Anal Heaven International Law Enforcement Agency

professional hookers are in business bcs they are professional, not on drugs, germ-free, take credit cards where as amateurs are all dirty druggies with std's they dont even know about, "oh that itch/rash/sore/fever, i thought it was cuz I havent showered in 5 days".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49295517)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:25 PM
Author: brindle tanning salon

…?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49296355)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:43 PM
Author: nofapping stimulating university haunted graveyard

Do not take advice from this poaster. He is dumb.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49296572)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:09 AM
Author: brindle tanning salon

I’m speaking from experience, are you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49297045)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 3:23 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy seedy mexican

that's why you give them a burner number and not your real name.

Rookie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49295406)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 4:13 PM
Author: brindle tanning salon

Also this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49295494)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 1:00 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac Brilliant Menage

serious reply: dont even waste ur time on that shit

buy a tenga flip and start autistically getting into a surrogate activity

if u really need it go to some 3rd world asian shithole and pound it out there

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49294429)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:14 PM
Author: Emerald trust fund

What does this sentence mean: “ start autistically getting to a surrogate activity”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49296185)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:26 PM
Author: brindle tanning salon

I think he means dedicate your life to hobbies or scholarship instead of wasting time on women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49296383)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 10:55 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac Brilliant Menage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49296940)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:22 PM
Author: Ungodly Beady-eyed Orchestra Pit Elastic Band



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49296966)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:39 PM
Author: nofapping stimulating university haunted graveyard

The time required to match/vet and potential for headaches that can come from the fake dating with SA always seemed like a big negative to me. That single non-parent dude in CO who was lining them up 3 per night and poasted all those pics and sex diaries seemed like the right way to SA. Ie it’s a tool suited to single middle aged dudes with a lot of time to search for a daddy issues Cinderella. But for a single dad with young kids it seems awful. Requires time you don’t have and energy/stress you should spare yourself. If you want to fuck a hot chick, pay over $500/hr (usually $800 in a big city), get a burner, use a fake name, set up a fake LinkedIn and treat yourself to a high end escort every once in a while. No reason that would prevent you from dating later on or concurrently, in fact I’d argue it would improve your performance because you won’t depend on dating for sex, you’ll have more time and you will be more rational in your assessments of potential long term candidates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49296544)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:16 PM
Author: Slippery church building pisswyrm

Or he can go to church and find a decent woman to date/marry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49296958)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 3:24 AM
Author: nofapping stimulating university haunted graveyard

1) he says he doesn’t want to marry, 2) dating is very hard as a single parent with little kids, 3) the only women at church who see a single dad wrangling two kids and think to themselves “ohh I wonder if he’s single or his wife just has a stomach bug” are 300+ lbs. You’re right that mongering is a soul-rotting practice, but he’s the rare dude where the soul rot is worth the trade for the convenient access to sex with a woman who is otherwise far too attractive for him to ever have a chance with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49297191)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 9:47 PM
Author: Fighting Shaky Bbw Jewess

You will be amazed at how often their cars break down, family members/pets have costly medical emergencies, etc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49296638)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:51 AM
Author: bat-shit-crazy seedy mexican



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49297113)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: Pearl Corn Cake Sweet Tailpipe

lol, sounds ghastly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49298625)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:07 PM
Author: Lake Motley Business Firm Double Fault

SA is a huge waste of time. Just hire hookers every now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49296951)



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Date: September 23rd, 2025 11:10 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac Brilliant Menage

Imo Amp is a better use of ur time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49296954)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:50 AM
Author: bat-shit-crazy seedy mexican

It is until you get caught in a sting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49297112)



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Date: September 24th, 2025 12:03 AM
Author: Maize Affirmative Action

There is no value in this. It died the same way dating apps died. The hot chicks are on instagram and if they need extra cash post on onlyfans. The dude who posted here about SA posted a lot of 30s women. Why bother with that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49297025)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:03 PM
Author: Twinkling stirring telephone dragon

SA Poaster Here...

I got into a more serious relationship with a chick I met off a dating app... We ended up having a bunch of mutual friends in common and went from there so I haven't been on SA in ages... I also started doing great on the apps (this takes a bit of time as the algo ranks you and can be frustrating/discouraging at first so be patient), so I got off SA completely.

However, for your situation I think it's fine, just use a google voice burner number and ideally don't take them to where you live until you've hooked up with them at least once and aren't getting any sketchy or crazy vibes. I only say that because you have kids. I met up with plenty of chicks straight at my house straight away, including late at night and it was fine but if I had kids I wouldn't do that.

If you search SA on here you'll get all my poasts which have quite a bit of scholarship on the matter. Ideally you find 1 or 2 you actually have some fun hanging out with who are great in bed and you just keep them on rotation whenever you're free.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49364680)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 5:44 PM
Author: zombie-like garrison

What kind of PPM should I be looking at for high col city?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49364751)



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Date: November 2nd, 2025 7:21 PM
Author: Fluffy crimson chapel

WHITE MEN DONT PAY FOR SEX DURR DURR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49396314)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 6:54 PM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49587124)



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Date: January 13th, 2026 7:08 PM
Author: nyuug



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5778744&forum_id=2Reputation#49587194)