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Wife Is F500 Ppl Manager. Staff Always Tells Her About Personal Problems

in her monthly 1:1's with them, they love talking her ear of...
Tripping associate university
  05/05/26
monthly?!
racy library
  05/06/26
Wow yeah I sure do hate hearing about the minutiae of people...
Salmon codepig
  05/05/26
xo is differetn
Aphrodisiac insecure dog poop
  05/05/26
...
iridescent patrolman halford
  05/05/26
this but unironically
concupiscible mint abode
  05/05/26
...
drunken razzmatazz piazza pisswyrm
  05/05/26
this is not flame a great use for AI
opaque idea he suggested reading party
  05/05/26
not flame, she's been using AI for manager stuff like script...
Tripping associate university
  05/05/26
based
opaque idea he suggested reading party
  05/05/26
Is your wife also autistic?
Massive gas station
  05/05/26
she's an INTJ female, but very likeable and people love her ...
Tripping associate university
  05/05/26
intj females are absolutely terrifying, gl
sable range shitlib
  05/06/26
why? she's exempt from 99% of birdbrained women are 180 shit
Tripping associate university
  05/06/26
that's fair. i guess i've just been on the wrong end of one ...
sable range shitlib
  05/06/26
go on...
Tripping associate university
  05/06/26
this is a tough balance in the workplace. don't want to be ...
sable range shitlib
  05/05/26
she's remote and her team is all remote. that's why it's wei...
Tripping associate university
  05/05/26
i was going to say women always make the mistake of trying t...
Fiercely-loyal Histrionic Step-uncle's House
  05/05/26
she traditionally didnt do any team building shit and hates ...
Tripping associate university
  05/05/26
Normies are freakin' wild, man
opaque idea he suggested reading party
  05/05/26
i guess if they are shut in remoters that could make sense. ...
Fiercely-loyal Histrionic Step-uncle's House
  05/05/26
oh yeah that's weirder than i was imagining. i'm talking ab...
sable range shitlib
  05/05/26
in bigfed you have a ton of leave that you can take for virt...
crawly hairraiser indian lodge jew
  05/05/26
That's pretty much all I cover in 1 on 1s.
swashbuckling prole kitty cat
  05/05/26
wasn't she in "STEM"
boyish organic girlfriend church
  05/05/26
yes, now she's a people manager for stem dorks. that's how u...
Tripping associate university
  05/05/26
Why is her team all Women, like how much does this country h...
Swollen kitchen
  05/05/26
poor rc? when did i say her team is all women, retard?
Tripping associate university
  05/05/26
it was strongly implied all of the people she manages are ei...
boyish organic girlfriend church
  05/05/26
poor rc? it's not strongly implied at all. none are homo or ...
Tripping associate university
  05/06/26
You’ve made this thread before. The whole team sounds ...
Swollen kitchen
  05/06/26
low iq schtick? women are far more likely to gush their pers...
Tripping associate university
  05/06/26
Don’t waste my motherfucking time.
Swollen kitchen
  05/06/26
You seem angry and oriental.
Tripping associate university
  05/06/26
good examples?
turquoise rehab
  05/05/26
a girl in her mid-40s has a husband (similar age) w some gen...
Tripping associate university
  05/05/26
big life insurance?
turquoise rehab
  05/05/26
she should have asked
Tripping associate university
  05/05/26
a normal boss in usa 2026 would work the shit out of that wo...
Fiercely-loyal Histrionic Step-uncle's House
  05/05/26
rofl but why would my wife be draconianly mean? she's not go...
Tripping associate university
  05/05/26
you guys are weirdos and once a month isn't enough for 1:1's...
Soul-stirring cuckoldry
  05/05/26
she has 15 direct reports. she talks to most of them much mo...
Tripping associate university
  05/05/26
1:1s are largely useless and ime an excess of them is a big ...
boyish organic girlfriend church
  05/05/26
i agree and do mine on friday mornings when everyone is eith...
Soul-stirring cuckoldry
  05/05/26
LMAO at weekly 1:1's. Do you manage retarded children? I ...
shimmering marvelous box office dopamine
  05/05/26
we're remote and i need to make sure everyone is alive and i...
Soul-stirring cuckoldry
  05/05/26
this is some boomer shit. why dont u judge them by their per...
Tripping associate university
  05/05/26
i'm too lazy to build kpi models and shit. i do actual work...
Soul-stirring cuckoldry
  05/05/26
i do weekly 1:1s and it's sort of the norm at the company, b...
racy library
  05/06/26
i'm amazed that so many people itt do weekly 1:1s, that's in...
sable range shitlib
  05/06/26
depends on culture of the company. also as middle management...
racy library
  05/06/26
gonna be 180 when you and your faggot wife get laid off in t...
elite bronze dingle berry
  05/05/26
if we get shitcanned, the whole white collar world is done
Tripping associate university
  05/05/26
cr it's well documented that companies collapse without Midd...
boyish organic girlfriend church
  05/05/26
lmao.
Swollen kitchen
  05/06/26


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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:21 AM
Author: Tripping associate university

in her monthly 1:1's with them, they love talking her ear off about their personal problems - sick/dying parents and spouses, divorces, etc. im surprised people get so personal with their managers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866442)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 12:38 AM
Author: racy library

monthly?!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49868755)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:22 AM
Author: Salmon codepig

Wow yeah I sure do hate hearing about the minutiae of people’s stupid NPC lives, wish they’d stop trying to tell me 🙄

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866448)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:44 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac insecure dog poop

xo is differetn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866500)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:03 AM
Author: iridescent patrolman halford



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866573)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:52 AM
Author: concupiscible mint abode

this but unironically

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866752)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:13 PM
Author: drunken razzmatazz piazza pisswyrm



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866833)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:24 AM
Author: opaque idea he suggested reading party

this is not flame a great use for AI

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866450)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:34 AM
Author: Tripping associate university

not flame, she's been using AI for manager stuff like scripts for telling them why they got a standard shitty corporate 2.5% raise, and using AI to anticipate potential Q&A / complaints they have about their raise.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866478)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:35 AM
Author: opaque idea he suggested reading party

based

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866480)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:27 AM
Author: Massive gas station

Is your wife also autistic?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866457)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:30 AM
Author: Tripping associate university

she's an INTJ female, but very likeable and people love her -- even though she hates people.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866468)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 8:17 AM
Author: sable range shitlib

intj females are absolutely terrifying, gl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49869120)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 3:07 PM
Author: Tripping associate university

why? she's exempt from 99% of birdbrained women are 180 shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49870042)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 9:16 PM
Author: sable range shitlib

that's fair. i guess i've just been on the wrong end of one before

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49871025)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 9:20 PM
Author: Tripping associate university

go on...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49871034)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:28 AM
Author: sable range shitlib

this is a tough balance in the workplace. don't want to be vulnerable but spend a lot of time with people and if you can develop a productive friendship idk might as well

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866460)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:32 AM
Author: Tripping associate university

she's remote and her team is all remote. that's why it's weird to spill your personal problems onto your manager.

i guess she comes off as compassionate and likeable and a good listener so people feel comfortable with her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866472)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:36 AM
Author: Fiercely-loyal Histrionic Step-uncle's House

i was going to say women always make the mistake of trying to team build into a family and they are complete nuisances but having an all remote team makes this weird as fuck

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866486)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:41 AM
Author: Tripping associate university

she traditionally didnt do any team building shit and hates it. she thinks people like it, and recently started this ice breaker during their every other week team meeting where once person presents a 3-5 min slide about themselves. the people love this shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866493)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:45 AM
Author: opaque idea he suggested reading party

Normies are freakin' wild, man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866503)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:08 AM
Author: Fiercely-loyal Histrionic Step-uncle's House

i guess if they are shut in remoters that could make sense.

the last thing i want to do is go out to lunch with my coworkers and share my life. jfc. or play some game two truths and a lie. jfc women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866594)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:00 AM
Author: sable range shitlib

oh yeah that's weirder than i was imagining. i'm talking about sharing relevant personal details with peers, as it naturally comes up in conversation. not that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866562)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:31 AM
Author: crawly hairraiser indian lodge jew

in bigfed you have a ton of leave that you can take for virtually any personal problem, so it's really a cya

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866469)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:45 AM
Author: swashbuckling prole kitty cat

That's pretty much all I cover in 1 on 1s.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866502)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:49 AM
Author: boyish organic girlfriend church

wasn't she in "STEM"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866519)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:59 AM
Author: Tripping associate university

yes, now she's a people manager for stem dorks. that's how u rise up in f500's. u dont go anywhere being an individual contributor

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866560)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:02 AM
Author: Swollen kitchen

Why is her team all Women, like how much does this country hate “men” if Nerds are getting screwed and not just Losers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866571)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:11 AM
Author: Tripping associate university

poor rc? when did i say her team is all women, retard?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866616)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 11:55 AM
Author: boyish organic girlfriend church

it was strongly implied all of the people she manages are either women, homosexuals, or indian

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866808)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:03 AM
Author: Tripping associate university

poor rc? it's not strongly implied at all. none are homo or indian

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49869009)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:13 AM
Author: Swollen kitchen

You’ve made this thread before. The whole team sounds female in both threads. Also just saying F500 individual contributor causes one to picture a Woman. The example you gave was also a Woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49869030)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:30 AM
Author: Tripping associate university

low iq schtick? women are far more likely to gush their personal problems to their manager. that the one example i chose to give is a woman doesnt prove that the whole team is women. u seem really stupid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49869057)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 7:39 AM
Author: Swollen kitchen

Don’t waste my motherfucking time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49869064)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 8:27 AM
Author: Tripping associate university

You seem angry and oriental.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49869144)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 9:53 AM
Author: turquoise rehab

good examples?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866534)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:01 AM
Author: Tripping associate university

a girl in her mid-40s has a husband (similar age) w some genetic kidney disease and needs a transplant and it's a 7 yr waiting list. he's basically bedridden in his home and cant do anything in life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866568)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:06 AM
Author: turquoise rehab

big life insurance?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866583)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:11 AM
Author: Tripping associate university

she should have asked

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866607)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:10 PM
Author: Fiercely-loyal Histrionic Step-uncle's House

a normal boss in usa 2026 would work the shit out of that woman with that information knowing that she needs the health insurance continuity and cant leave

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866827)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:17 PM
Author: Tripping associate university

rofl but why would my wife be draconianly mean? she's not gonna get any more than her own 2.5% raise if she's a cunt to this poor girl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866841)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:50 AM
Author: Soul-stirring cuckoldry

you guys are weirdos and once a month isn't enough for 1:1's unless it's like an actual call center where you manage 100 losers, in which case I would probably just never meet with them.

I do weekly 1:1 with all my directs, weekly direct team call, weekly extended dotted line team call, weekly team leadership call, weekly dotted line leadership call, weekly all hands or management only calls every other week. this is probably too many calls and cuts into my poasting and golf time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866745)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 10:55 AM
Author: Tripping associate university

she has 15 direct reports. she talks to most of them much more frequently -- individually, in small groups, or both -- about substantive projects.

it seems the scheduled monthly 1:1's are more big picture what they're doing and overal org stuff and career development, rather than about the substantive project of the day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866757)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:03 PM
Author: boyish organic girlfriend church

1:1s are largely useless and ime an excess of them is a big signal of organizational cruft

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866822)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:13 PM
Author: Soul-stirring cuckoldry

i agree and do mine on friday mornings when everyone is either hungover or on pto

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866832)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:42 PM
Author: shimmering marvelous box office dopamine

LMAO at weekly 1:1's. Do you manage retarded children?

I need to believe this is flame, but I've worked in enough orgs to know some places actually operate like this and then wonder why nobody gets anything done on an individual or team level...because they spend half the work week in meetings that are completely irrelevant and could have been accomplished with an email.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866861)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:58 PM
Author: Soul-stirring cuckoldry

we're remote and i need to make sure everyone is alive and isn't spending their friday mornings playing Golf. that's what Friday afternoons are for.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866902)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 2:55 PM
Author: Tripping associate university

this is some boomer shit. why dont u judge them by their performance, not their ability to jerk off at home on friday rather than play golf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49867297)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 2:57 PM
Author: Soul-stirring cuckoldry

i'm too lazy to build kpi models and shit. i do actual work sometimes too when I'm not napping or playing Golf.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49867308)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 12:40 AM
Author: racy library

i do weekly 1:1s and it's sort of the norm at the company, but i also cancel if there's nothing to discuss or i don't feel like it. might cancel tomorrow's connect with my boss if he has nothing to discuss, too. he's usually eager to skip

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49868757)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 8:19 AM
Author: sable range shitlib

i'm amazed that so many people itt do weekly 1:1s, that's insane! i don't even do monthly with my boss, we just catch up whenever we need to

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49869125)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 6:30 PM
Author: racy library

depends on culture of the company. also as middle management we sort of need to look busy and coach our team members, not just discuss tactical stuff

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49870604)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 11:51 AM
Author: elite bronze dingle berry

gonna be 180 when you and your faggot wife get laid off in the exact same time in 18 months

youre a fucking useless piece of shit and should do everyone the world a favor and taste lead

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866803)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:00 PM
Author: Tripping associate university

if we get shitcanned, the whole white collar world is done

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866816)



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Date: May 5th, 2026 12:11 PM
Author: boyish organic girlfriend church

cr it's well documented that companies collapse without Middle Management and many are looking to actively increase this layer

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49866829)



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Date: May 6th, 2026 9:23 PM
Author: Swollen kitchen

lmao.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5863829&forum_id=2Reputation#49871049)