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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:13 PM Author: Chestnut Hall Voyeur
...she tells me two of our mutual guy friends want to come over to my place too.
No.
She then suggested we get together at the apartment of one of those guy friends.
NO. I explained how I could see her with them any day and our agreement was for just us to go out and do anything.
She said sorry, and that she couldn't really do anything tonight.
What's with people? Women especially.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22907318) |
Date: March 30th, 2013 5:20 PM Author: idiotic vivacious tattoo
She wants to try a gangbang, but is too shy to come out and ask for it.
Her original plans were for all 4 of you to hang out, get drunk, and then just let it do what it do.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22907394) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:31 PM Author: idiotic vivacious tattoo
She likes to fuck, just not you.
No girl is dumb enough to think that a guy would be OK with the thought of bringing MOAR CAWK to a date.
If she really wanted YOUR shlong, then she never would've came up with such a bullshit blow-off.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22907509) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:38 PM Author: idiotic vivacious tattoo
1. You said "No"
2. In response, she asked, "Well let's go to their place."
3. Again you said "No"
4. As a result, she cancels the date.
???
5. Someone is gonna PROFIT tonight.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22907584) |
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Date: July 31st, 2015 4:56 PM Author: Spectacular gay wizard pisswyrm
Date: March 30th, 2013 5:23 PM
Author: ''''"'"""''' (dooberstein)
Heh, she likes to fuck. But I doubt it (and I don't think you believe it either).
Our original plans were to spend the day together. She texted me in the morning saying she's tired; OK, I get it. So was I, it's cool. I suggested something more laid back tonight or even later in the week. But she wanted to cook at my place. I said sure and asked her to bring a movie. To confirm I sent her a message saying "Going to the store now. Get our stuff?" That's when she dropped the "[two other guys] want to come too." It would be more fun, she said. Reminded her that my kitchen is small and that's when she suggested the other guy's apartment.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#28451557) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:43 PM Author: Chestnut Hall Voyeur
I said, "The point of going out is for us to spend time doing whatever. I can see you in a group any day. It's cool if you don't want to right now but I need to know so I can respond to people wanting to go out tonight."
She said, "Okay, yeah, I can't really tonight then, I'm sorry."
"If you want to follow through with it t some point then let me know."
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22907629) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:57 PM Author: Rose insecure halford feces
I think it's pretty obvious that she had second thoughts about hanging out with you 1 on 1 because you might get the wrong idea and think that the hanging out was a date. So, she tests the waters by inviting other guys either to see if you're cool hanging out as friends or to just get out of the date.
Plus she has a history with one of the other guys.
I would move on.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22907753) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:23 PM Author: marvelous famous landscape painting
that doesn't mean shit
you coerced it out of her.
also with no rescheduling, the apology is basically mocking you.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22909110) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 10:02 PM Author: marvelous famous landscape painting
"maybe next weekend"
fuck your life brah
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22909350)
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Date: March 30th, 2013 7:08 PM Author: Slate Therapy Knife
"then demanded to know whether she would agree to your scholarship" is 180.
Doobs, I think maybe you should try a slightly less attractive girl. Without sound harsh, maybe try a girl form whom there's less competition. (also, i'll throw in the obligatory joke here---try a girl for whom there's less competition and who won't be missed when she inevitably goes missing).
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22908223) |
Date: March 30th, 2013 7:24 PM Author: Awkward dashing gaping blood rage
This is so obvious. She is not sexually attracted to you. She was afraid you would get the wrong idea if she was alone with you. Your reaction confirmed her apprehensions.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22908307) |
Date: March 30th, 2013 7:59 PM Author: Chestnut Hall Voyeur
180
She's asking me for the recipe for the meal we made before since she liked it so much. Now she's going to cook it for those two dudes.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22908509) |
Date: March 30th, 2013 9:02 PM Author: Slate Therapy Knife
tell her you're sending her the recipe and then BAM!: Dickpic
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22908907)
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Date: March 30th, 2013 10:01 PM Author: Slate Therapy Knife
i'm just joking, man. i know what you're going through sucks. that's the way i deal with this type of situation, with jokes. it's either laugh or cry, right?
Edit: echoing some of the other poasters itt, she definitely sounds like the type of girl who'd use you. i think you should delete her number again and move on. plenty of fish and all that.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22909340)
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:02 PM Author: Slate Therapy Knife
the well bread thing to do, once she had agreed to the date, would have been to follow through on it and maybe cut the evening short with a plausible excuse.
and yes, inviting other people along to something you've been invited to (and has been clearly described as just the two of you) is incredibly rude.
i think it was her attempt at getting out of a "date-y" thing, but it was ham-handed and classless. you should cut her out of your life. not as some tactic for eventually fucking her, but because she's not worth bothering with.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22911007) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:09 PM Author: Slate Therapy Knife
they probably thought you were hoping to fuck her and she wasn't that interested in you. it could be worse---going anyway would've been incredibly beta.
if i were in this situation i'd never initiate contact with her and if she contacted me i'd be polite but brief and always have some plausible excuse for why you can't meet up with her.
there's no reason to be nasty or short with her, just blow her off in a polite, distant way.
(of course, there's always the ATD option but something tells me that won't be an option in this case).
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22911019) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:18 PM Author: Slate Therapy Knife
it's possible, but if this is true then you've got no chance. best case scenario she's not into you enough to forgo an evening without attention.
in her mind an evening with them > the chance of hooking up with you. that's never a good sign when they think that.
your problem, and i sympathize, is that you like the girl too much and are trying to come up with justifications for her shitty behavior.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22911040)
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:06 PM Author: Exhilarant Salmon Shitlib Whorehouse
Dood, why did you respond to this girl about the recipe? The ONLY correct response after she was like "Uhhh no sorry" was to ignore her. Now you've successfully let her (1) reject you completely and (2) make her feel like she's not the bad one and that she's still in control because you are still buddies.
More generally, WTF is wrong with you? Almost each step her was a mistake. At the beginning you should have said something like "Hey hon, no worries, not really up for a big group thing tonight. Have fun with your friends - maybe we'll reschedule sometime soon." Every time I have done this to a girl she is silent for a little while and then makes an effort to see me.
Rule #1 bro, do NOT converse with girls who have made clear that they don't want to sleep with you. Do not waste time on "friend" activities. These girls will NEVER introduce you to other girls because they want to be in control. It just trains you to be a moron around girls. Most of us learned this in high school, seems like you are a little late to the game here, bro.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22911014) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:16 PM Author: Chestnut Hall Voyeur
Tbf, I didn't respond with the recipe and was pretty cold IMO when she asked for details. (See the, "It had a mirepoix and chicken. Try French chicken." comment, after she asked for the name of it.) Of course the recipe was bookmarked but I told her it wasn't. When she showed me a screenshot of it I said "looks right." I did not go out of my way to help.
Rest of your post seems credited.
I knew not to waste time on a friend activity which is why I turned the group thing down.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22911037) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:45 PM Author: provocative very tactful national pervert
no no no no no. you did not sound cold and in control there. you sound like a whiny pouting faggy bitch being passive aggressive and sulking in response to her behavior, which absolutely confirms to her that she did the right thing in not interacting with you.
step one. delete her number.
step two. approach other women.
step three. repeat step two OVER AND OVER.
DO NOT RESPOND TO HER. she already proved to you that she has no respect whatsoever for your needs or desires. why would you continue to feed her the attention she wants when she's utterly unwilling to reciprocate?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22911132) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:47 PM Author: Chestnut Hall Voyeur
One is done.
Two and Three - OK.
Never respond to her? Really? It's not like I won't see her a few times over the next month before graduating. I don't want it to be awkward.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2Reputation#22911142) |
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